Evelyn Mogekwe, a 26-year-old female student of Delta State University, Abraka, has committed suicide in Abraka after being allegedly jilted by her lover of seven years.
It was gathered that the abrupt end of the seven years relationship traumatized the lady as all plans to work down the aisle failed to materialize.
Sources said she was in high spirits in her hostel but her mood changed dramatically after her lover called her on phone to declare that their relationship was over.
She was said to have bought some drugs, claiming she was having headache and went into her room, leaving a message for her room mate (identity withheld) that they might not see her again.
It was learned that a few minutes later, her room mate who sensed danger, raced into the room and found her lying lifeless on the ground.
The room mate then raised alarm which attracted other students to the room, but before help came her way, she had given up the ghost.
Confirming her death, the State Police Public Relations officers, DSP Celestina Kalu, said police recovered particles of drugs on the ground beside the deceased.
Culled from Vanguard.
what a stupid thing to do,she is dead but the lover lives on and will find love again..I dont know why people do this to themselves.
Suicide is not the way out,please preach it on so that them go hear!!!
And she didn't even think about her parents and family who have sacrificed a lot for her to get to where she was. This isn't right at all. RIP
ReplyDeleteThem no go hear oo.....Growing up, I really had the same notion I believe everyone still has, which is: Nigerians donot commit suicide.
DeleteNow i strongly believe thats a wrong notion as we are very emotional set of beings, although we might not commit the act for trivial reasons like those in the west but we also cannot deny the fact that the thought comes up in times of hopelessness and i see it on the rise with the cases online....maybe we've been suicidal all this while but less media coverage and inadequate data acquisition has kept it away from the light.....May her soul R.I.P and a message to anyone going through difficulty: Please hang on, God knows our stories and knows what stage of pain we are currently facing but guess what swty, God never forsakes his own, so call on Him in all situations and hold on for as long as it takes. Love y'all
Liyon-Vls.
Selfish people only think about themselves. She is selfish that's why she didn't consider her beloved parents before taking her life.
DeleteStupid girl, say hello to my ancestors in hell, u see y I advice girls to keep more than one guy.
DeleteIf only she knows what marriage entails....
DeletePls visit my blog and tell me what you think.
@angelray4sdk, Two wrongs do not equal to right. Just because morally yua decayed does not mean every body should be. Just bcos yu going down, don't drag everyone down with yu. If don't have a good advice, keep yur trap short.
DeleteThe only good thing about her dead is that she won't reproduce her kind !!!
DeleteShe's a bloody COWARD! Oh....Her parents!!!!
Delete@I love Richard Nnadi. Pls are u the Caro he's been looking for? Or ure just another side chick. Last time I checked, the dude is still looking for his 'Caro'. I admire your faith girl. Who knows tomorrow?? No pun intended.
DeleteGood for her.
ReplyDeleteShe is very stupid.
Is the the only person in the world that can marry her?
Why can't she be patient . Some single women are in their 40s and they are still hopeful.
I wonder the explanation she will offer God for committing suicide.
*Is he the only person .............
DeleteHer death will aways taunt and hurt d lover,no more sleep and peace for him.on d outside he may move on bt he'll be hunted for d rest of his life
DeleteGod for bid, why will I kill myself becos of one idiot that doesn't deserve me, chai. Stupid stupid stupid thing to do, chai may her soul rest in peace. Her life only just began and she took it, she shud have though of her future and the blessings to come her way in time to come, see as I dey vex for here.
ReplyDeleteSarah Sarah
DeleteUK honey, it's really tiring and annoying. She is selfish joor
DeleteWat a pity.... Love gone wrong! !
ReplyDeleteI don't feel bad for her @26 she stil don't ve sense
DeleteThe one dat got me was the one that happened in umutu in delta state where two teenagers killed theirslv cos of wat dey called love. The boy 15 and the girl 14 an only child were warned by both parents to stop dating that they are too young to be entangle in love
The next thing they poison theirslv leaving their parents in sorrow and pain
Love ke! Stupidity at its peak. May God have mercy on her soul.
Delete@rudegirl they watched too much romeo and juliet. So sad they didn't consider their parents
DeleteWhen women fail to develop themselves this is always the results. If you have so many things going on well for you you will think twice before you will consider suicide. Anyway she is answerable to her maker.
ReplyDeleteOMG......Too bad
ReplyDeleteEyaaaah.
ReplyDeletecan you fit but imagine
ReplyDelete#GODWIN™
Good for her...
ReplyDeleteNonsense.
ReplyDeleteServes her right.
Women of low self esteem. They put all their hope in life on men and marriage. It is her type that will have no other thing to do in marriage but to monitor their husbands. They hardly allow their husbands to drink water and drop cup.
Nonsense.
ReplyDeleteServes her right.
Women of low self esteem. They put all their hope in life on men and marriage. It is her type that will have no other thing to do in marriage but to monitor their husbands. They hardly allow their husbands to drink water and drop cup.
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Delete@Duke of Spades. Honey does Nnadi know u love him this much?? U guys steady or what?? He's my very good childhood friend o, I just dey ask
DeleteHahahaha she d shoe d love on sdk...biko dukes abi shovel dnt break her hrt oooo....
DeleteStupidity of the highest order!
ReplyDeleteSuicide cos a man jilted u? D cane wey angels go take design her body if she reach de soak inside fuel mixed with Cameroon pepper.... I know it hurts but killing urself? Phone break up de worse pass but Mbanu! Haba!
ReplyDeleteSo unfortunate.
ReplyDeleteAsin eh very stupid thing to do.
ReplyDeleteThe very worst I could do to myself in that Situation is to become very wild, till I find myself again.
She's a fool, what's 7yrs compared to the years she didn't even get to see how wonderful it might have turned out.
Mtschewww
Ok! This is what they call STUPIDITY smh! May her soul rip
ReplyDelete*sighs* For me it was the same number of years and she did call it quits while accusing me of all sorts from cheating to being emotionally distant.. Now I know that when people want out they will look for every resson in the world to leave you. But certainly killing oneself isnt an option as it would only confirm that you had always been a nut job, hence the break up.
ReplyDeleteFact is disappointments makes one human and with every failed relationship you dust yourself, move on and hope we are judged accordingly.
Finally, it will hurt real real bad bad but SUICIDE? Sorry I cannot waste my RIP.
Before I get slate, abeg na *reason
Deleteoya make una comot one *bad
She is mad. Let her go and explain to God what happened. Mtchewwww. D lover might even bring his new girlfriend to her funeral.
ReplyDeleteIs it not if he attends at all?
DeleteWhy would she do that? Too sad
ReplyDeleteI won't even waste my R.I.P on her. Oshisco.
ReplyDeleteCommit suicide? Dats a free ticket 2 HELL yea. Killin herself make no sense now..
ReplyDeleteit is not in my place to judge but mehn d girl na real craze. for what na? was it becuz he has so shined d congo dt she felt it was over?(makwa, tohtoh get meter?). i think it is high time we teach our girls to be confident of who they are and stop making these guys d be-all and end-all of their existence. what a waste.
ReplyDeleteGood for her
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
ReplyDelete.
Nna stupid things are really happening in this world i swear... Why will i die bcos of woman or man abeg.... RIP...
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
U died in jupiter in my dream last nite.....
DeleteLove doesn't ask why, it speaks from the heart. May she RIP; a foolish thing to do is what she's done.
ReplyDeleteWhat a stupid girl
ReplyDeleteLove doesn't ask why, it speaks from the heart. May she RIP; a foolish thing to do is what she's done.
ReplyDeleteEh ya..
ReplyDeletePeople handle heartbreak in different ways. Some drink to stupor, others cry their eyeballs out, some choose poison.
I don't mean to be harsh and insensitive but I honestly feel only selfish peeps commit suicide... Morning BVs
ReplyDeleteStupid girl, @ just 26yrs u took ur life because of man, don't worry when u get to baba God tell him its because of a man u killed ur self, award winning mumu of the year, hell fire straight no mercy for u, anuofia congo.
ReplyDeleteSuicide cos of a man? Mbanu! Dem neva born dat man and dey no go eva born am. She ended her life cos of a man that is somewhere enjoying himself now. Afukwana akuko ifo!
ReplyDeleteR.I.P to the dead
ReplyDeleteShe dey kill herself say wetin happen?
She high ni?
Rip babe,since you don't have sense here on earth,receive sense in heaven.....an adage says ti obirin backup obirin mewa ma glad share e koja
ReplyDeleteProverb of forefathers be dis?
DeleteNa modern one be dis o!
Na die dey hungry her.
ReplyDeleteMay her soul rest in peace.
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she's a mumu
ReplyDeleteSo she killed herself beacause of Someone
ReplyDeleteSomeone that is not Even her Papá.or her Mama.
Buh a Man,a man who isnt her hubby yet o...
Foolish girl!
As she no get wetin else to live for nå. ........, imagine because of man kwa. Mtschew.
ReplyDeleteMaka why?
ReplyDeleteNo human born of a woman, can ever push me to take 'murder myself'.
And she was just 26 o,not like she was an aunt gwegwelina or something o.
That the guy dumped her after 7 years,was enough to know that he wasn't worth it.
Abeg,no body is worth dying for.
Afterall, I'm not competing with Christ.
#WhiteDiamondOut
After all, I'm not competing with Christ, hahahahaha....kikikikikiki
DeleteLmao. Dope
DeleteSmh. We need to reorientate ourselves that the end of a relationship is not the end of the world, besides marriage is not an end itself but the means to an end.
ReplyDeleteIf you kill yourself because of a man, thousands of men will walk over your grave and spit on it.
ReplyDeleteA word is enough for the wise.......
Chai, I will never die 4 any man not even DH.
ReplyDeleteImagine the stupidity. Just 26 years old.....may God pardon her soul.
ReplyDeleteShe no get problem...I wonder what shewill say to her maker when she gets there.
ReplyDeletePlease who knows where they sell all these Gele with pearl embellishments in Ph? i need urgently biko
Life goes On No Matter What Happen
ReplyDeleteA lost soul .
ReplyDeleteLow self esteem where you let a mere man define who you are as a woman, hope you RIP. I feel for her family
ReplyDeleteSharumi
Gosh! This girl deserves enough beating if she can feel it from where she is now, how dare she Mk a parents mourn and heart broken like this? Kill ur self over a man, men that re plenty everywhere, which kind of nonsense love is she loving? Ladies love with your head. Am angry with this news. Feeling for her parents now
ReplyDeleteWetin she go tell God now? See what fornication has led 2........
ReplyDeleteNa crase dey worry this one. Can't even waste my precious RIP on her.
ReplyDeleteWarning to mama Evelyn, U dare not cry else...
She's deadly unserious. I wish the devil will flog the stupidity out of her when she eventually arrives in his kingdom. Arrant bullshit mbok.
ReplyDeleteWow. RIP
ReplyDeleteBecause of a man?
No man is worth it I swear.
What a waste! Rest in peace. Jaydiva
ReplyDeleteThem no go hear oo.....Growing up, i really had the same notion i believe everyone still has, which is: Nigerians donot commit suicide.
ReplyDeleteNow i strongly believe that's a wrong notion as we are very emotional set of beings, although we might not commit the act for trivial reasons like those in the west but we also cannot deny the fact that the thought comes up in times of hopelessness and i see it on the rise with the cases online....maybe we've been suicidal all this while but less media coverage and inadequate data acquisition has kept it away from the light.....May her soul R.I.P and a message to anyone going through difficulty: Please hang on, God knows our stories and knows what stage of pain we are currently facing but guess what swty, God never forsakes his own, so call on Him in all situations and hold on for as long as it takes. Love y'all
Liyon-Vls.
Why does this keep happening,at 26 for that matter when you can still meet sm1 else. I know stuff like dis is very painful so I wont judge her. Rather I just pray for her soul. Wetin Toke Makinwa one do nau,after spending 12yrs with a man and he's wicked enuf to get sm1 else pregnant.
ReplyDeleteEven me iv had my own share. A guy that was supposedly my fiancé,i just found out he had done introduction with sm1 else and they were gettn married in 3mths.
Meanwhile this guy never broke-up with me o, continued dating me like evrythn was ok, until sm1 informed me. He even kept on denying it.
I felt that my world had fallen apart, was wondering we'r I wld start from at age 30. I felt like dieing, but me I love life too much to actually take my own life.
If a man can leave a woman with 3kids after a 20yr marriage. Who am I to say I wan die. wetn make d woman do nau.
Yes age is no longer on my side, but who is to say I wont find sm1 else, or this 26yr old girl with a bright future wont find sm1 even better.
Pls ladies,i know its hard, grieve, cry ur heart out,scream if you want sef and curse the living day life out of him. BUT NEVER EVER TAKE UR LIFE. With God evryth is possible, no one is too old to be married.
And to the men,pls stop breaking women's heart. If you know she's a good girl and you have nothn to offer her. Kindly don't even approach her and go and look for prostitute to sleep with, instead of deceiving girls just to get in her pants.
Our men in dis country need to be re-orientated from kindergarten. Mother's teach your sons to be responsible with ppls hearts. Now the blood of this girl will continually hunt this bastard she killed herself over.
Awwww! I'm so sorry you had to endure such pain. May God give you a token for good so that people who caused you pain will see it and be ashamed.
Delete#e-bearhugs.
She is selfish and wicked, taking away the life that does not belong to her and she did not think of her love ones, the better life ahead. I just they vex.
ReplyDeleteShe is selfish and wicked, taking away the life that does not belong to her and she did not think of her love ones, the better life ahead. I just they vex.
ReplyDeleteStella...stupid is an understatement. That's probably why the dude left her in the first place. Man don finish for this world? Her punishment in hell just doubled. Pschewwwww
ReplyDeleteNa wa o chia see wasted life.
ReplyDeleteI feel so bad for her! Goodness, this is why after 3 years of a relationship & you don't see nothing serious coming out of it, you must quit! These guys are not loyal, he got tired of fuckin the same tohtoh & found a new fish! Now you don kill yourself smh
ReplyDeleteNa wa o chia see wasted life.
ReplyDeleteThe most insane thing to do
ReplyDeleteThe most insane thing to do
ReplyDeleteGood for her
ReplyDeleteI think she just wanted to end the pain. I've never been heartbroken before (relationship wise), but back in school I watched my roommate struggle through hers, the pain was almost 'tangible' you could cut through it. Probably, if I hadn't been there she would have ended it all.
ReplyDeleteI feel so sorry for this young lady, I pray God have mercy on her soul.
Suicide is never, in fact should never be considered an option, to me it's the highest display of insensitivity and selfishness. Even if no one cares for you, God loves you so much and has a purpose for your existence.
O ma se oooo
ReplyDeleteHoly!!!...she's so weak!!!
ReplyDeleteMy dear if every woman kill herself after every heartache, there will be no woman left on earth again.
ReplyDeleteShebi na all u women on dis blog dey call every unmarried woman aunty gwegs. The guy mite even be nothn to write home about,but perhaps desperation to get married dey worry d chick.
At 26.........when you're not disabled, it may take time but u will eventually find smone else. RIP
Even the disabled have hope as long as there is life!
DeleteExactly my thought. I'm trying to imagine what d dude looks like..i saw her picture yesterday where she laid lifeless, and I imagined the type of guy she killed herself for. Very annoying
DeleteSHE IS A VERY STUPID , FOOLISH AND SELFISH GIRL.
ReplyDeleteWhy are we becoming so so ungrateful these days?
So many are on their hospital beds praying to God to let them see the breaking of the next morning! Wot is she going to tell her maker?
She didn't even think of her family, how they will feel!
Anyways na evil forest get her body, where birds and their likes will feast on her dump body.
Mo ku ti!..dem never born d man wey go make me turn jesus over night. As dis life sweet reach...odiegwu
ReplyDeleteOMG
ReplyDeleteWhen there are men every were
Even in Abraka
So sad though
RIP
La wa oh! Wasted life. The dude will bring another girl to her funeral infact he won't even come atall and am sure he has moved on. Pls ladies let's be wise think beyond the present circumstances!
ReplyDeleteMaybe she didnt plan to die. Maybe she didnt know the drugs was going to take her life. Maybe she thought it will just pain her small and the boy will come back to his senses when he hears about it. So sorry for your loss@her family.
ReplyDeleteDamn!!! Why naah???
ReplyDeleteShe's so stupid aswear.
ReplyDeleteMy fellow bvs please what's the email to send Stella a chronicle? Thank you
ReplyDeleteKill myself bawo!!! i no go fit. i can go into depression or even go wild but will definately get over it, but, death is a NO. it's totally out of it. is he the only man in th world. i can't kill myself becasue of a man ooooo. ko jorrr
ReplyDeleteHmm...What a waste of life,she just missed out on God's packaged best for her.
ReplyDeleteMay her soul find rest...Amen
Hmmmmmmmmmm! Nonsense!
ReplyDeleteVery selfish girl, she didn't even think about anyone before her stupid act, she for kukuma donate her vital organs to those who dey willing to live but no donor, in DAT way it would be heroic... ..........
No human born out of a woman will push me to commit suicide. Them never born am in fact they no go born am. Mitchewwwwww Because of one useless man!!!!
ReplyDeleteAfter investing much in her... how would her parents feel?
ReplyDeleteDo not put all your eggs in one basket una no go gree...dey boo boo boo up n down ..oya see ur life...bcos u no get backup naso u kill urself....mtchewww....make I save my Rip for ppl wey go die peacefully. ...ewu awusa..iwu nno onye iberibe....oya RIP sha...
ReplyDeleteObviously she wasn't in the right frame of mind, she was distraught and acted on impulse. Haven't we all acted on impulse and felt very silly and ashamed after passion cooled? It's unfortunate that her impulsive action took her on a voyage of no return. As at the time a person's mind is messed up or overwhelmed with despair or anger, it's impossible to have rational thoughts, temporarily a person snaps and becomes insane. Why do you think the Law allows certain defences for murder charges? Does it mean the Law condones murder? Of course not, but the Law recognises how the power of provocation and flared-up passion affects the rationality of the mind. The reasonable man will certainly over react under such circumstances.
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I'm in no way holding brief for the deceased, I'm only being sympathetic because I've seen cases where very sensible and intelligent people snapped and if not for timely intervention, they would have killed a loved one or themselves out of burning rage. This is the reason we don't ignore the cry for help from any person feeling suicidal. They've tilted towards the dark side and some act under the influence of demonic forces.
If only more people in relationships, especially ladies, can acknowledge the " MENE MENE TEKEL UPHARSIN" bold written on the walls of their hearts without pretending to await a "Daniel" for further interpretations, a lot of heartbreaks and suicidal thoughts will be averted. It's highly unlikely that she didn't see some signs that the relationship was beginning to run its course, at least on the part of the guy. Dating a guy from your 19th year till your 26th year on earth is no joke and you should have a good idea what is considered normal or abnormal in your relationship. It's possible the issue of ending the relationship had come up several times but she refused to let the 7 years of her life go down the drain so she tried to keep keeping up and hoping for a change of heart. A very common mistake some ladies make. It's highly irregular for a guy who has been with a girl for over 5 years to breakup for the 1st time over the phone just like that, if the concept hasn't been brought up before. Also, her reaction is more like a lady who has finally given up on trying to fix a problematic relationship. It's more of defeat and less of shock, especially as she has been hoping to get married to him. The pain and embarrassment were too much to handle and, unfortunately, she didn't give room to be consoled. How tragic!
Please, lovers (male and female alike) don't pretend not to realise when you're in a hopeless or near hopeless relationship. If you are not strong enough to end that relationship then be wise enough to realise you're sailing on troubled waters in a sinking ship and a shipwreck is imminent so prepare for the inevitable and sharpen your survival skills. Perhaps, make sure you have plans B-H. In most cases, you wouldn't get to your plan D before you arrive at a desired destination.
May her soul find peace and may God see her family and friends through this heartrending period. Amen.