This is a case of Police Jam thief!..LOL.
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
TYING YOUR LEGS AND PRETENDING TO BE A MERMAID
MAKES WALKING AWAY EASY
Dear Stella,
I appreciate all you have drawn our attentions to from this column..
So having equipped myself with wisdom and lessons learned from this blog for yrs now.. I started dating my so called platonic friend..For my mind *I was lucky to date a friend*
I tried visiting him last week , so I sent him a text,this dude did not reply till 5 hours later when I knew he went to his folks, he called and lied he was at his folks at the time he saw my message, my spirit just screamed * Oloshi* *big Igbo liar*, I let that pass , acted like I suspected nothing, I almost drive to his place but changed my mind (as he never marry me why I go burn fuel wey I fight with agbero to buy) I said to myself "I serve a living God, him(boyfriend) go cast hinsef)..
So this afternoon he calls me and tells me to come over (we both have very tight schedules, so we discuss when to see because lots of times we keep meeting our ghost when we visit each other without notifying the other)..I wanted to jump and drive to his but my spirit told me to chill make evening come small..
So evening came I called him and landed at his..
This man was behaving funny and my spirit no even gree make I hug an..
After an hour.. boyfriend said he was leaving for a haircut, normally I would have gone with him but I saw myself sitting well then he stayed back..In less than an hour someone started knocking like a panel beater on his door and we were in his room sitting..boyfriend ran to the door came back and told me estate security came for their cash .. I was pissed that he was owing and telling me he won't pay that they should knock and leave..I believed.
Next thing he took his wallet , peeped from the door then left through the back door(I was busy reading comments on this blog) next thing I heard a female voice calling his name..my ears stood, I wanted to go open the door but I changed my mind decided not to even see her face ,leave her to knock shout and leave... While she was at it ,I took a chilled bottle of malt drank to drink to them..
When she left I looked for bf everywhere he was no where to be found, I asked the gate man if anyone else came he said *no, only one babe*
Boyfriend came after an hour told me he settled the security men and decided to go shave his head..
Told him I was leaving that, I know what happened, that he should not bother lying, in my heart I was full of joy for God revealed what he(boyfriend) is capable of doing...
This is a guy that does not miss church mass for anything or any other weekly programme..
Dear blog visitors, this is one of the signs you see or experience but ignore ...
Dear younger girls, be platonic and tie your legs , walking away won't be as difficult as they make it sound..
I have lots of platonic friends interested, I will move on, keep praying and putting God first ...
Let me read comments biko.
ReplyDelete********LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*******
U gho fear security nau,babe move on jare
Delete*****LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*****
Fart face emjay, wat else can u do??? U don't evn undrstand wen u read....
DeleteThis is the kind of stories one ought to be reading.
DeleteTo the poster, God bless u. U will meet the one at is after your for real.
Am glad you are quick to observe and move on. Some ladies would see this and still go forward with the
man, later they will come here and be seeking advices when they actually ought to have avoided it in d
formative days/years..
Then those who comment will say ''Jesus fix it''.... Fix wetin abeg?
To the poster, may God continually give wisdom when it comes to relationship.
Thank God, another future future disaster have been avoided.
N/B, am a guy....
Em Jay, u no dey tire for reading comments every day?
DeleteI beg to use Stella's side eyes.
DeleteCheck my blog pls and follow on twitter: @naijamomdiary
Dis na serious chronicle. I am not an 'understander' of dis 1. Let me read comments with emjay biko.
DeleteBabe... Don't you work? Lol
Delete@Money maker,no
Deleteposter see if u keep doing like this ,i tell u na aboki wey dey sell suya u go beg to marry u or tey for redeem n mfm camp even deeper life sef u go kpeme for dia.True talk sister
Deletekikikikiki
@em jay, don't mind them o, just do your thing so ti gbo.
DeleteAbi o, move on jare...
DeleteHusayn & Mosi,not at all,no tym for haters,especially faceless ones.
Delete*****LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*****
Antony 17:01 she will not beg anyone to marry her. Naija women and their mentality. That is why these men are dealing with you all seriously in marriage. Poster, I did not have intercourse with my husband before marriage and I think that is why he believes me when I say I can happily live the single life if I am forced to. I am Christian, so I try to live by the standards of the Word, therefore divorce is not in my vocabulary. My dear stick to closing your legs, forget all these selfish men and women that hide behind anonymous to mislead others. - Ada
DeleteMove on and be single with no child at 40ty, God go provide that perfect man for you on Stella's S/M.
DeleteStella why am I looking for my comment ? If to post comment dey hard you pls employ someone from the sea of unemployed Haba !!!
DeleteWomen advice themselves daily on this blog not to put all their eggs in one basket, I guess the guy's also have learnt to also stop putting all their eggs in one basket. Maybe the guy was also doing same
DeleteToday I will read comments.
ReplyDeleteTough life!!! But God dey.
Once there is life, there is still hope.
Where there is a will, there is a way.
I strongly feel love cannot be forced or induced. It just flows and brings 2 random pple togeda regardless of how they met and other popular means we see today. He has been a friend for a reason and most rshps that transcended from friendship usually ends up this way cos its quite difficult to adjust a pre-set mindset to come to terms with the switch from friends to lovers. You did everything right and its good uv walked away. Just hang on and love would flow n bring that random dude who u'll get to love n cherish for as long as destiny has made it. Stay safe dear.
DeleteLi-yon Vls.
Why are people reading comment when she is not asking for advice.(#side eyes )
DeleteNa joke..
Yes ooh,i am happy to be a in team celibate,four months n counting!!
N i have being SO HAPPY (,that i can finally count away sin -fornication )
N have God's peace of mind.
People that told me to use what i have,are same people say,you look more beautiful,my finances is even increasing than dropping
I would post my story as a comment tomorrow (my email na war )
anon 16:58.buhahahaha idiot celibate just 4months only?n u dey apply for give away??hmmm truly ur life n tohtoh vjayjay don kpeme.
Deletekikikikikikikikikii
Good, poster's brain is sharp and she closed her legs. Welldone hun
DeleteMy Lil observation- is it just my mind or the manner of narration reveals some elements of pride on the poster's part? Maybe not pride, but there is somethn abt the tone. Hmmmm before you closed the door, you cud hv asked him to hear wht he has to say. Am not saying what you saw wasn't true, but jus to give him d benefit of doubt, so u dnt get to fall into assumptions. Madam sofri sofri; You didn't even feel bad dt d rship ended and dt dude was seeing other ladies. Yea, it was supposed to be a rship, right? Many yrs ago, i remember wen I found out my bf den wasn't being truthful wt me and had another girl. I snooped and saw enof evidence. I still had a discussion wt him b4 I took a walk. I didn't jus walk out like dat. Also I was hurt dt a rship ended, I felt it. You spoke like u didn't care, seems u didn't like dis ur guy at all. FYA I wasn't dropping P* for him.
The things I hv seen in dis life have taught me never to conclude totally till I probe, question and get more facts. I am not in other ppl's minds na. Sha take it easy. That ur tribal comment tho.....drop it if u wanna date someone from another tribe. In a rship, show love, care for him, trust and communication re impo, hope for d best (stop thinkn somethn shud go wrong) pray for God's blessings on both of you. No one is perfect. We learn everyday. Go easy on ppl
This poster is just senseless, in your mind you're feeling like one sharp girl, your stupidity is at its peak. Even in the court, they at least allow the guilty the benefit of the doubt, you just started dating the nigga and ya already judging him. Its well, keep reading chronicles and be thinking all men are the same and dats how your husband wud pass you by Bcos I ne me sharp chic. And let me point out a correction to you and all dose hypocritic Christians on this blog, IF YOU'RE TRULLY SINCERELY IN LOVE WITH SOME1, WALKING AWAY IS XTREMELY DIFFICULT WEDA SEX IS INVOLVED OR NOT. Yuu allz keep deceiving yurslfs with the mermaid story, yuu think Stella no do with her oyinbo b4 dem marry. Please be realistic. I'm not saying you must do, don't get me wrong, all I'm saying is its the feelings that matter not the physical contact involved. Now weda you decide to engage in it or not, now up to yuu to decide as the adult dat you re. Stella weda yuu post my comment or not, makes no difrnce, means you read it anywais!!!
Delete@Bae, u are kinda right. She's not perturbed because she knows his modus operandi, as per they were friends before. Could be that she was expecting it.
DeleteSome people get it twisted. Never enter into a relationship with someone u consider a friend and know so much about... esp if he told u about his past relationships when u were just friends. If you have a guy who's just a friend, and you've had to help him go through his emotional crisis when he had a bad relationship...maintain the platonic friendship, don't turn to his lover. .
Don't get me wrong, it has worked for some people who were close buddies before, and who eventually became lovers and even got married. But it's rare for u to find such relationship last.
When u think u already know so much about a guy because of the secrets he's shared with u in the past, and because he revealed how he operated with babes, so you always think u can't be victimized by such a guy??....big lie.. he'll change his tactics with u because he's not stupid not to know you've mastered his tricks.
There's always a left over trick for emergency use with every guy that's a player. You can never master it all. He'll surprise you with all sorts...Like the poster here who thought that she knew the guy so well.
It is better you don't enter a relationship with a long time friend so that the friendship you once enjoyed will not turn sour. It is better to be friends with some guys than to be their lovers. If you admire a friend of the opposite sex, and u wish that u were the one dating them because u think that they are too nice and loyal, you'll end up hurting yourself....cos men tend to show different behaviours to each babe they date. He may be nice to another girl and be nasty to you. Again I'll say, stay away from dating any guy that has trusted you enough to share his secrets or emotions with you.. remain his loyal confidant and don't try to force a relationship because you admire the traits he shares of himself with another babe. Respect yourself and keep being his shoulder to cry on, and not his boodie to bang on.
Just saying...
There's always a prince charming for every Cinderella. Just be patient, he'll get to you soon.
Hmmmm!
ReplyDeleteIt's well
@poster.
DeleteCorrect babe. Your head dey there.
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Gwegs
ReplyDeleteLmaooooooooooooooooooo
DeleteHahahahahahaha.very very gwegs.mschew.
DeleteMschew.
DeleteI love this poster already. If to say I am gainfully employed, I would have pleaded with Stella to give me your contact.
DeleteNothing like a woman with vision and wisdom.
Y don't I feel dis chronicle
DeleteLol
DeleteLooooool
Delete@ukbliss...because it isn't saddled with the usual drama associated with the chronicles...LOL!!!
DeleteIm single poster will you marry me?as in for real?
DeleteOk so what's the chronicle here now? Everything now na chronicle even the one Wey nor follow ! Owama *not interested face*
DeleteI am confused please what is this chronicle about? Hian.
ReplyDeleteIt's about a woman having the strength to walk away from a DOA relationship. She is my kinda chic.
DeleteA chronicle must not be a sad tale that paints men as cheats or marriage as "not worth it"
DeleteThis is a lesson for all the single ladies out there, first of all abstinence is the best for unmarried couples, secondly, be bold enough to walk away from a negative relationship, the signs are always there.
Yea I know what some of u are saying, the chronicle is somewhat bland without much info or incidents. Clearly, the poster didn't enjoy a good enough relationship with her erstwhile friend turned lover. So I think this post, albeit.. is a regrettable one from a lady who feels that she should have maintained her friendship zone instead of crossing the line. What she sought to get didn't happen in the end, so she's proud of herself for taking a walk.
DeleteHahahahaha...
ReplyDeleteNa "shursh" people do pass nau...
I like you...you know what you want!!.
Ahhh werey no u say make dem dey do taste taste b4 marriage?if na u madness dey ur blood,but if na okija goat crazy 1 of sdk wrote that yesterday on chronicles da means na she be dog toto .make u no vex buh if na u make ur totoh dey comot petrol .
DeleteLmaooo
Honestly i dont understand dis chronicle..D poster is faster than her shadow..U did not catch dis guy red handed yet u have concluded he was cheating..
DeleteA lady was knocking at his door..So freaking what? Do u know who she is? U should've opened d door and confronted her.What if she is a woman he was owning money? What if she is a family member he doesnt want to see? She could be d estate security or d lady dat collects money for d estate security..U just sat there and concluded he is a player..
Dont be so faster than ur shadow..If u continue like dis,u will never find a guy who will marry u..
Even if d girl is his girlfriend or new catch,do u know if he is serious with her or not? Do u expect a single guy to be faithful to only u? U expect him to have only one girlfriend..Havent u heard of d saying "dont put all ur eggs in one basket?". No guy owes any girl fidelity till he marries her and d same thing applies to women..
If any girl comes here and tell u her man doesnt cheat on her then she is a big liar or maybe she is too daft to realise d guy is dating some other girls..
D only thing i advice girls is to make sure u dont love a man too deeply and try as much as possible to maintain main chic position..If he ends up marrying u,then u are lucky,if he marries another,then u move on to d next..Life goes on..
Chizoba, you get sense!!!
DeleteWow! Such "igbotic" mentality! Or perhaps our level of inferiority as Nigerian women has subjected us to accepting that we can never be enough for a man! WOW!
DeleteNO COMMENT!
ReplyDeleteKeep tying your legs dear. It makes walking away very, very easy..
ReplyDeleteOloshi boyfriend..
First time I've read IHN and not vex
Randy men everywhere.
Logically and otherwise, how does tying your legs make it easy to walk? I don't understand. Tying ur legs and pretending to be a mermaid in my own interpretation is overlooking things and just taking stuff for the sake of peace. I don't get sha. U guys are just being unnecessarily philosophical and metaphoric about something that doesn't make sense.
DeleteU must be new here . It simply means not having sex makes good judgement easier ...and would make walking away a lot more easier too
DeleteThe poster didn't imply she didn't have sex with him na. She's just telling us how she was able to move on without being burdened with her emotions. Well, wetin I sabi
Delete1000 Likes, poster....
ReplyDeleteWen u meet the right one, ud b super glad u left.
Babe if u have a blog id please change it to "sharpgal sdk" loool! Stupid Guy he suppose go cut him head commot instead of shave. to all of u seeing the signs of cheating and still staying put for advanced heart ache na una sabi. #TEAMSNOOP #PRETENCEMERMAID!
ReplyDeleteSharrap jor!
ReplyDeleteU no even know as e dey do U!!!
U sounded unserious sef!!!
So she should be serious with a cheat? You expect her to put all her heart in it and be disappointed later? U lie
DeleteWell said poster. Tying your legs together makes walking away and moving on very easy. Some people find it difficult to move on because they still have soul ties with their ex. Even when this ex has clearly moved on and probably gotten married to someone else, these people don't want to leave the ex alone. They still lurk around their ex like crazy. Soul ties na bad thing. This sex of a thing sha, make God help us.
ReplyDeleteMy dear.My hubbys' ex,bless her is Still so obsessed with him..They dated for 2 years and in that time,she gave herself like a wife..slept with him anytime he wanted,until he got tired..and told me she was just a bedmate and never really loved her..that gave me wisdom..in all the time we dated,I did not have sex!!..we are married now,and I made him+ told him what to send her,saying he was married so she could move on,cos if I were her,I would wanna know ryt?..This chick is still hanging around..to be honest,I feel somewhat sorry for her..Moral lesson,babes don't go for a man you love more and secondly,withhold sex at least until you're very sure of what his intentions are..God help us.
DeleteI don't understand this your story. before you break up with smone atlst hear explanation first.
ReplyDeleteI know its good to listen to ur spirit when you don't feel alrite about smone. But you for even hear the lie wey d maga wan talk 1st. Don't let what you read on this blog make you believe all men are cheat, bcos not all are.
I have noticed dis blog sef is always making me have *side eye* with my fiance. I no dey quick believe anythn he say. when he's fone is busy, I go believe na woman. When he miss my call I go believe na woman. Let's sha be careful the way we treat our men cos of bad chronicles we read here daily.
Hahaha! Bible says be as wise as serpents. Chic be wise
DeleteExactly my point..She is faster than her shadow..Ifnshe continue like dis,she will enter aunty gwegs league..Her post doesnt make any single sense..Sharp girl my ass!
DeleteLmao..this sounds more like amebo gist to me
ReplyDeleteLwkmd
Well, its a good thg u can sense the cheatn signs a mile away like shark smellin blood, but I think u walked too soon, for all we know she might be an ex he's putn away for ur sake or a gal he used in greasing his tools whl ure under lock and key.... Jst be careful with the "walkin away" sha, FYI, wen ure genuinely in love with sum1, its always not easy walkn away, sex being involved or not.
ReplyDeleteDon't mind d mumu mermaid i just don't get wen dey say its easier to walk away cause e no make sense, as far as real love is involved it is never easy to walk away so wat does fucking have to do with it
DeleteThis is plain stupid. Just get lost poster
ReplyDeleteYep you are a bloke. Change your ways love.
DeleteSenseless narrative.
DeleteIf u like tie your legs from now till thy kingdom comes ... a man that would cheat would still cheat
ReplyDeleteShikena
Nne idi kwanu funny...odikwa mma shaaa. Lol...thumbs up!
ReplyDeleteHmmmn! Av also decided 2 tie my legs n pretend 2 b a mermaid til afta marriage...I don tel my BF say no mor!...if u wonna do com marry me...or u port...I no dey look Uche face again.
ReplyDeleteYou fit?
DeleteStella I respect you, but I lost interest immediately I read the phrase *big igbo liar*. I am igbo and I find that extremely offensive. Poster, whatever tribe you are, put your aged hand inside your rotten anus and put it down your throat. Thank God the Guy never moved an inch with you, Bitch!
ReplyDeleteHaba. But why are you so mad? I didn't see anything spiteful in what she said. I don't think she was being tribalism if. Just angry. Please, drink cold water.
DeleteI tire for chronicle hahahahahaha
DeleteBitter human being. I pray to God that He release you of this burden. Thank you
DeleteAnon 17:07 aka Madam Poster, you are a tribal bigot. Is it only igbo men that lie or cheat?You just showed your lack of proper parental upbringing by calling him "a big igbo liar". Your type hardly make a good wife. I just pity the man that will end up marrying you.
DeleteWith her poorly written English, why would the Igbo dude not dump her sorry ass for a more serious articulate babe? You can see how razz , uncoordinated and incoherent her write-up is! Just NEGODU how this tribal bigot just murdered English language. Am sure the dude also found if difficult understanding your spoken English.
DeleteShe knew he is 'Ibo' yet she entered into a relationship with him..Yeye girl.
DeleteIgbo ppl,always quick to play d victim card,pls move on jare from and let's learn to keep tribal sentiments @ bay
DeleteI've kept my legs tied all these while.... niggas ain't loyal... and I don't wanna give myself heartache abeg........#sipsmoet
ReplyDeleteGood one cos all Dis guyz are not loyal abeg.
ReplyDeletePls how can I download Stella's app on iPhone?
ReplyDeleteWhat's the point of this story?
ReplyDeleteBeen asking myself same
DeleteNonsense story.
Same thing I've been asking. Very senseless narrative. The poster is thr forming smart and Stella had to post this nonsense.
DeleteLolll people dey vex oh.
DeleteReason for this narrative?
ReplyDeleteAdvice? She doesn't need one
Lesson for other Bvs to learn? No thanks
Ah this your story no do me like say I read chronicle
ReplyDeleteJust negodu
ReplyDeleteJust Negodu
ReplyDeleteThis narrative got me rolling loool. Your ear stand wella.
ReplyDelete@OBSERVER
This "composition" no get mate.
ReplyDeleteYes, you're right dear. Have lots of platonic friends. I keep saying I don't know what a rship is. What I kno is friendship, courtship and marriage. Sounds weird right? KikikikikikKikikikikiki
ReplyDeleteVery true. .....Once u never drop it's very easy to move on......koz ur pride is still intact and u go dey thank God say he never do....It is the dropping dat makes us want to die dere.
ReplyDeleteWhat of the other guys way Don chop the thing tire?
DeleteShey she no move on?
Whether you drop or you no drop it doesn't make any difference, you will still feel pain cause love is real and it would be hard to move on from such love so it doesn't really matter if you drop or no drop its still hard all the same
DeleteTHELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeleteGlad u were able to walk away 4m his lies and deceits,may oluwa the boo provider surprise u soonx...
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
THELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeleteGlad u were able to walk away 4m his lies and deceits,may oluwa the boo provider surprise u soonx...
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
Really don't get this!
ReplyDeleteBecause there is no drama associated that's why u don't get it. No room to berate the poster or insult her
DeleteGoing to church mass often has noting to do with this!
ReplyDeleteIf i were you,I will open the door for her to come in
@em jay: Na so so comments you dey read??? And na you dey always first to thro' comment, fear God O... You know say you be the Captain of SDK, try dey make sensible and encouraging comments... no be say always na only: 'Let me read comments biko'
ReplyDeleteThe man too get plenty female friends !the man too get plenty female Friends! That's how my Auntie died Lonely at 60
ReplyDeleteLmaoooooooooooooooooooo
DeleteDon't mind the aunty gwegs. That's how u will miss your chance. Do you even know if the lady is a psycho that has been stalking him
Lol
DeleteU not serious at all
Nice one poster
No time for iranus
Women self worth is everything
Inas much as I have a loving and caring bae,I never fail to remind him
that if he ever cheats or take me for granted,I will not fail to leave him
I wont settle for less,never!
1million likes! Ladies these days no wan competition..Where she go see faithful man these days? I dont dey see aunty gwegs title for her future.
DeleteNothing wrong with being platonic.
ReplyDeleteIf you want to fuck him too do it. But only because you want to do it, not because he's pressuring you to.
You shoulda just called him a liar and not *big igbo liar*
ReplyDeleteAnyways,glad you realised on time what a douche bag he is.
@Miss North Dakota, the poster is a tribal bigot. Thank God, the man narrowly escaped from her.
DeleteAnd u just jumped into conclusion?? Dt cud have been his sister or cousin *side eyes*.. D guy is not even smart! Good riddance!!
ReplyDeleteShu! His sister and he would have lied. Sister indeed.
DeleteAa in ehn,just jumping into useless conclusion,closing your leg like mermaid abi try
DeleteFunny dude...
ReplyDelete@em jay: Na so so comments you dey read??? And na you dey always first to thro' comment, fear God O... You know say you be the Captain of SDK, try dey make sensible and encouraging comments... no be say always na only: 'Let me read comments biko'
ReplyDeleteSo where is ur own comment mumu? Carry person matter for head like gele,u even said it twice idiota.
DeleteMen dy ever get one girlfriend?
ReplyDeleteAbeg am not in the mood jor
keep waiting for that pretender that will show u his real colour when he marry u. Smart girl my black ass
* chewing guava and trying hard to understand this narrative *
ReplyDeleteYou just have to mention that he's igbo, u can't just hide your rubbish abusive yoruba attitude cos its a disease..its good u have moved on and he didn't even bother begging u cos u are not even wanted. U desperat-rado! Gwegwelicious atiti nshi. Even simple english, u can't write to win yourself a man. Aunty ode!
ReplyDeleteI am not Nigerian But IGbos are very disrespectful and ABUSIVE to women. VEry they think MATERIAL GIFTS THE ULTIMATE TO A WOMAN. VERY VERY DISRESPECTFUL IGBOS
DeleteAnon 15:40,no mind that mumu Woman.
DeleteDat guy dey lie o
ReplyDeleteU are a smart woman!!! No need to ask questions what should u do like the rest ask
ReplyDeleteThe chronicles so boring,stella didn't bother to comment
ReplyDeleteIs dis a gist, story, sermon, news, gossip, advice, or chronicles?
ReplyDeleteLol..... Na poem
DeleteLmao 😂 it's chronicles of hope
DeleteMe keep asking that same question cos I no understand that story oo
DeleteI classify it as a VERY DRY JOKE!
DeleteLol @olori isis, it is called tales by moonlight.
DeleteVery dry useless something.
DeleteI was wondering too,if this is chronicle,she should carry her smart legs and go one side to pave way for real chronicles for ppl with real problems
DeleteSmart lady
ReplyDeletePoster, abegi go and sit down. Na so u go talk finish now go fall in love with one mumu wey no dey loyal.
ReplyDeleteI swear. I don't even see how it's a chronicle. Slow news day I guess. *chews cord
DeleteBoring. Too many unnecessary details.
ReplyDeleteKeep visiting platonic boyfriends.
When dem go rape you, don't come with chronicles oh.
Smart ass woman.
Na you sabi pass
Anon 15:48, lol, the story is 2 boring.
DeletePlatonic and she dey vex say another woman come visit the man. She dey find who go hammer her toto abeg.
The guy isn't just smart at all.
ReplyDeleteWhy my Spirit jus dey tell me say na Obinna dem dey talk about. hian!
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteOselobuame!!! Men and their cunning ways sha
ReplyDeletelesson: Not all that seem right is actually right.
May God lead us all aright
Eya....pele....ur own man will come. ....I happy say u nor waste that fuel
ReplyDeletePoster did you even bother to find out wat that woman wanted, first of all she was banging and screaming,what girlfriend would go her boyfriends house and be banging and screaming for no reason, and your boyfriend seemed scaredof her oobviously, do you knw if he's owing her money or if he did something to her cause you can't be owing a woman money and not expect her to come screaming at your house, you were just seeing invisible signs only you knw where you see am from, its important to always get facts straight before jumping to conclusions cause jumping to conclusions doesn't help anyone, it seems you were tired of the relationship and was just looking for a reason to end and so you found yourself one
ReplyDeletePlz I wouldn't get involved
DeleteNatural girl, na dis type go do sense finish, go fall for a jobless and philandering man.
DeleteMen will always cheat.
ReplyDeleteBut to have a sane mind in any relationship, genuinely go for a man who fears God.
The next guy u move on to, may not be better either.
#selflove#
I reject this statement in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. My sisters, friends and daughter will marry men that are faithful to them alone in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. Amen! With God, all things are possible.
DeleteThings dey happen sha....Men..
ReplyDelete@Stella, abeg this narrative no "sell" at all. #Neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeext!!!
ReplyDeleteLol @las giddy, don't blame Stella. She is only being nice.
DeleteYour English na die
ReplyDeleteForming too hard to sound interesting but guess what honey? You failed!
No advice for you.
Very dry girl. She tried too hard to sound hilarious, but no way!
DeleteGo and sleep abeg.
Na her type men dey chop dia toto clean mouth.She dey dia dey form smart hard to get babe..Yimmu..Dont even waste ur advice sef..I don already waste mine up there..Mumu girl.
DeleteSense sef she no get, this should be a random post,stella didn't even bother to comment
DeleteU get sense my sister..move on jaree np time.. u rubbish boyfriends forming superman for dere mind
ReplyDeleteWelcome me ppl have stop commenting as anonymous oooo hallelujah
You are still single and would remain single if you refer to someone you are dating as 'igbo liar'. I shall save my strength as you no need am
ReplyDeleteThey shall all be caught no matter how smart they think they can play,Good thing he isn't your hubby...... BUT WHY DO MEN CHEAT?
ReplyDeletePoster, what you saw are not signs, they are obvious signposts. The guy was just plain stupid and his lies were obvious. Then your platonic relationship sounds recent, I even wonder what you are walking away from- were you in before?. This is not rocket science, the average educated and smart Nigerian lady would see through these lines and will not sleep with this guy within this time frame. Please date a smarter guy for a longer period of time, then come back with this advise and it can be more instructive.
ReplyDeleteLovely write-up.
ReplyDeleteSingle ladies should learn from this narrative and not have sex with every Tom, Dick & Harry, otherwise, Humpty Dumpty's fall is just the beginning.
You re very stupid for wasting my time, Mtcheew i don't know when cheating become a crime. Who knows maybe you re even dating a married men , i got many of your type as GF. Well you can only do that to some RAW guys who beg for love as long as you not adding any shit to my life , u can go to hell. I cheat and all my gfs knws i do. am a comfortable guy with God's grace. immediately u moved another is ready to replace you. U can't even date a guy like . U GO BEG TIRED . " I LEAVE LADIES THEY DON'T"
ReplyDeleteLook at this brokeass semi-literate mugu claiming hard guy. Swerve jor.
DeleteYou don even see toto fuck for your life before? Not to talk of cheating. Mr Comfortable my ass.
DeleteOooh dear Lord! U murdered English in ur comment. . What the hell.. how did u manage to get ur many girls? Loool..please leave girls for now n go back to school learn how to read n write then come back.. eish u sound like an igbo spare part seller... sighhh
DeleteOloshi...asewo okunrin,arrogant mofo..u don forget say u go born abi u no gt sistas for house
DeleteHahahahaha English don suffer for your hand,please if you knw you're not good in speaking or writing English there is always pigin and we would still understand abeg
DeleteRead but didn't understand. The Grammar is not even in d dictionary. Let me look for encyclopedia, I will be right back to comment.
ReplyDeleteStill waiting for chronicles
ReplyDeleteLol.
DeletePoster, e bi like sey it don tey wey you don de do runs. Good luck to you.
ReplyDeleteFoolish poster,uno dat he is igbo why frolicking around him.I trust the igbo boy dat why he didn't call u.carry ur dirty smelly ass n get out looking for my bro to destroy .ofe mmanu ewu sambisa
ReplyDeleteLol @obianuju. She don't like or trust igbos. I wonder wetin she carry her aged and worn out toto dey go the guy house go do.
DeleteNa wah oh. Why jump to conclusions? This una relationship self get as e be. You didn't ask him questions, you didn't open the door to see the girl and ask her anything, you just concluded by yourself and you are now coming here to give advice. Abeg carry waka jor.
ReplyDeletePoster. He was never ur friend Because if he was ur friend you would av known his kind of person.
ReplyDelete...And you are wise because??? Oponu
ReplyDeleteHahahahahah, smart lady
ReplyDeleteAnd must u add "big igbo liar"? As if d tribe u come from, their men don't lie. See hw u just insulted urself. Your narrative isnt even interesting. Mtcheww
ReplyDeleteThis story sef follow join chronicle? Hian na wa, this story suppose be independent post on its own titled the wisdom of queen Solomon because the poster don already wise on her own na, so she nor need advice infact she dey advise us sef *rolling my eyeballs vigorously in my eye sockets* poster abeg next time keep your pointless story to yourself or send am as amebo gist nor come dey suffocate Chronicle space Wey people with real problems dey try manage! Thank you ma
ReplyDeleteOvialeke, you are so correct. U don talk am finish. Nothing to add.
DeleteWhy would u mention igbo..madam poster.
ReplyDelete#even in your words i can sense u feel a little heart broken but trying to hide under -being a mermaid..(no problem )
I remember one guy that was on my matter months ago,he wanted us to date but didnt want me to know his house,he would rather insist on us spending time in one of his distant relative place.
The first time he got me inside that house (from let us go n drop his bro in his place to let us see inside the house na so i meet rain )
na baby dis baby that (taaaah ! Which baby -when that one start )
I just start vex say i dey go house even as e dey rain,cos for my mind FEAR don dey catch me.... as i commot from dere i happy cos i hear rape stories every day.
Let found out he had a fiancee (shabi na for woman ).
Big Igbo liar you said? By God's grace, no Igbo man will ever cross your path again. For your mind you were smart abi? You actually sound dense based on that tribalistic statement.
ReplyDeleteAnon 15:36 u just took d words right outta my mouth, na so so comments she dey read but u always d 1st to comment.Y not try and offer an advice...Poster i think u cld ve found out y the girl was banging the door not concluding too fast dt she's d other girl.Your decision was kinda hasty and immature but all the same "you wear the shoe and know where it pinches u"
ReplyDeleteMiss derra u self wan show urself,wetin concern u? I use ur mouth read comments?I use ur fone browse? Abi na u buy data for me? And ur eyes wear pant na make u nor see wetin follow dat comment,so as I first comment,look for very wet transformer hug,den I gho knw say d tin pain u wella,
Delete*****LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*****
Emjay 'under' anonymous. To borrow bvs' word. Lol.
DeletePoster it's good you tied ya leg oh buh dese men ain't loyal to say the least. But then again in my opinion you would have given the relationship some more time whyl still tying them legs, but we'll what do I know.
ReplyDeleteShe had to say he is Igbo..SMH..Mtcheeeeww.
ReplyDeleteAnyone else notice how this poster loves herself so much that she doesn't even care about anyone else? I like her! I mean nothing in her narrative says she even tried talking to her man about 'it' or tyy to find out who the said lady (lady's voice) is oh? She came, drank malt and left without talking nor asking any question. God go help your future madam.
ReplyDeleteShe came , drank malt and left ..buhahahahahahaha! Lmao
DeleteHahhahahahaha no be only security dey door. Bia poster you for let the babe know say you dey inside now. You will make it easy for him to lie to her that he was not home when she came. At least you for leave am with that headache. HahaaA
ReplyDeleteBeing an Igbo doesn't make one a liar,so stop being tribalistic.Secondly going to church 24/7 and 365 days doesn't make one heavens candidate or loyal.Good narrative though.
ReplyDeleteMust you write chronicle poster. Stupid Igbo liar you still carry your self go his house. Rubbish. You dey form tying your leg like mermaid, you no go tell us all the Alaye wey don chop your punani free. Sit down jare. You no reach the guy side chic self, that is why he dey fool you. Forming you drive, your mates never dey drive since 1897? Abegggyyy
ReplyDeleteMust you write chronicle poster. Stupid Igbo liar you still carry your self go his house. Rubbish. You dey form tying your leg like mermaid, you no go tell us all the Alaye wey don chop your punani free. Sit down jare. You no reach the guy side chic self, that is why he dey fool you. Forming you drive, your mates never dey drive since 1897? Abegggyyy
ReplyDeleteLol @ Fanta. U just finished dis yeye old mama aka poster.
DeleteHmmmmm
ReplyDeleteCool decision tieing ones leg $ behave like mermaid is always d best. Listen not to the ignorance for delay or disappointment is not denial
ReplyDelete**kisses dear
Poster is it in a man's bedroom u tie ur legs? U have not jammed a crazy guy that's why,plus ur English is worse than the guy's lies. I don't even believe u were tieing ur egs,just say d guy was really not into u,enough said
ReplyDeleteSharp babe with no dulling spirit.
ReplyDeleteVery very stupid girl!
ReplyDeleteLol@ comments. It's been the best option to tie your legs like mermaid biko. Who knows how many men a lady can date before getting married, so if she keeps opening her leg to as many men she dates when will that stop. Your head dey Der @poster
ReplyDeleteThumbs up on ur tying ur legs together.
ReplyDeleteBut poster don't you think you jumped to this your conclusion too quick?
I really think you should have given him a chance to explain himself. Anyway thank God you have moved on.
One more thing, you shouldn't have referred to him as "big igbo liar" it's unnecessary abeg.
lol, na real police jam thief! This is so funny, kikikiiii I love your spirit
ReplyDeleteWe all are entitled to our understanding. Whether what she wrote makes sense to u or not, there are still salient lessons to be learnt from her write up. R/ship is like a trader that went to buy goods for sale. He must not undermine the fact that even though making a huge sales with juicy profit is anticipated he must also prepare his mind for possible losses on the same goods so that whatever the outcome turns out to be he would accept it in good faith and still forge ahead.
ReplyDeleteIn effect ladies should stop unnecessary fantasies and tell themselves the truth. While venturing into any relationship, be realistic and bear in mind you are not dealing with an angel.prepare your mind for the worst no matter the kind of love that exists in the relationship. Avoid being desperate and forcing the outcome by selling yourself cheap thinking its d headway. Allow events to unfold naturally to give you time to study each other.WHAT LOOKS GOOD TO U MAY NOT BE D BEST FOR YOU. Always pray and tell God to give u what u deserve and not what u desire.
Dear poster, please make good us of QUEEN PRIMER or BRIGHTER GRAMMAR. Leave men for now and concentrate on learning how to write compositions
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