Stop sweating please!
WHEN THE RIGHT MAN COMES,YOU DONT SWEAT IT!
Hello Stella
I hope this finds you well. I am a silent addict of your blog. I read your blog a lot but hardly ever comment.
I met this guy last year and we are both doing our PhD at a foreign university. I will be turning 28 at the end of this year and he will be turning 31. When I met him I just liked him but nothing more. I had already given up on love because I felt I always met and loved the wrong people, and I prayed and cried for the right man.
So when I met this guy I did not want to even get too close to him because I noticed he was drawn to me. After some months, he called me and we began chatting regularly. We started hanging out and we started knowing each other. He told me he had been heartbroken from a previous relationship and he was finding it hard to love again, so it was like we had the same story. However, we just agreed to remain friends.
Before we both knew it, we began to fall in love and couldn’t do without talking and chatting. Fast forward to last month this guy tells me he doesn’t know what we are waiting for that we should make it official. He called his family and told them he has found his wife and we will be coming for introduction in December.
He will always look at me and tell me how much he appreciates me and how lucky he is to have me in his life. He is always telling me how he can’t wait for us to quickly get home and get married and be together. Me I have never had this experience before o. I have truly been meeting the wrong people in the past.
Stella this guy is unbelievable. He is cute and loving and intelligent and I am falling in love with him more every day.
I want this to be a chronicle of hope to ladies who feel time is going and there is no man. When the right man comes, you don’t sweat it. He comes for you and appreciates you.
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Kikikikiki
Una try, PhD meets PhD, professor children. Too much bookish pple. Grammy go kill it's self 4 this marriage oo.
DeleteThis is still a relationship in its budding stage and so far, u have mentioned only his gud attributes, time reveals evrythn and wen a woman can cope wit d worst attributes of her man(vice versa), dts wen a rshp can be said to be formidable.
DeleteYu guys stay abroad, it can be lonely out dere and der is a tendency for 2pple who hv struck d initial spark to feel they hv got it all, pls tread carefully and also be concious of life wen u change environments. Sometimes rshps dt seem perfect outsyd Nigeria can fall apart wen both parties come bck home as dey get to re-acclamatize with our society and can easily fall for the abundance of 'african beauties' dey'v been deprived of while abroad. Speakn from experience.
Wish you d best, and always acknowledge dt you guys are buildn n growing togeda, accept his flaws and any character dt comes up as yu guys grow to your plateau and always invite God to yur lives to bond n seal your union.
Li-yon Vls.
Finally a good story
DeleteWas tired of all the 'le boo is cheating on me stories'
Tah don't tap
DeleteI wish u well. Love is a very beautiful thing, pls post ur I.V cards to us oh.
DeleteAnon 15:56, u are wise
DeleteOh God pls let my own appear too now in Jesus name amen.
DeleteAnonymous 15:56 you are truly blessed and wise, chop kiss 😘
DeleteOya e gbohun soke ooooooo!!!!
ReplyDeleteOshey baba!!!
DeleteLol Eshe baba
DeleteLucky you, God will finish what he has started in your life.
ReplyDeleteIts too early to tell, come back after 5yrs n brag about hw happy u are, wish u same feelin tho.
ReplyDelete@white prints,U hardly hv anytin good to say....Their love wld blossom even after 20 yrs...and wen smtin is urs...It jus fits, u don't force it.u don't struggle to keep it togeda..that's how u knw it is right...
DeleteCant u just keep the negativity and wish her well?
DeleteI tire oh! Which kind testmony abi chronicle of hope when dem still dey under courtship? Chics shaa. Tufiakwa! He just called his pple n u begin dance skelewu. Oriegwu! All d best honey.
DeleteAm happy for you.......Nice1
ReplyDeleteIs ds supposed to be inspiring? I didn't feel it. Maybe it's just me sha. Goodluck to u on ur intro.
ReplyDeleteCongrats poster. May your happiness never stop.
ReplyDeleteLmao!! Chronicle of hope my foot!! Sweetie every love story begins like that.. it's too early to tag your relationship as perfect.. wait till u get married.. if he doesn't change ehen..
ReplyDeleteGbam!!
DeleteBut at least she's happy she got a man!!!
My friend be happy for her first.
DeleteYou just mirrored my thoughts.
DeleteOk marry first now
ReplyDeleteBet thilz ilz not chronicles of hope na. It's just gist of that phase we all pass thru when we first meet a guy. Poster + Stella make una take time!
DeleteThere can be miracles when u believe... We use u as a point of contact for every BV looking for love..... thank you for sharing your story.
ReplyDeleteTHELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeleteAwwwww,may the lord perfect wah He has started in you and yours...
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
Exactly my current situation only that mine got family issues we need to solve! God is indeed great! Alhamdulillah
ReplyDeleteHappy for u.
ReplyDeleteMtschwwweewew u met a guy last year and u r ready sending a chronicle,a beg wait till una don marry for at least 5 years before u decide if na chronicle of hope,or chronicle of blog visitors u suppose send.stella abeg, no dey post all this yeye hope from all this small pikin love,ot Shld be reserved mainly for the married
ReplyDeleteLol.........@treasure, she's just giving hope to awon anty gwegwelinas and cob web pussies Wey don think say life don end....so that Dem go still get hope!
DeleteCalm down sister e never reach na! Say good or keep mute.. I wish u guys all the best Mrs chronicle
DeleteMtschwwweewew u met a guy last year and u r ready sending a chronicle,a beg wait till una don marry for at least 5 years before u decide if na chronicle of hope,or chronicle of blog visitors u suppose send.stella abeg, no dey post all this yeye hope from all this small pikin love,ot Shld be reserved mainly for the married
ReplyDeleteMadam treasure Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ harsh o
DeleteSister me come here make i give u cold water. This one wey u dey blast none stop, calm down na e neva reach. Join her in celebrating her happiness or rather kip mute ha ah!
DeleteStory for d gods,when u marry him,,come back
ReplyDeleteDear poster tanks for sharing this ,of a truth you wont sweat it when u meet ur life partner i am engaged to the most caring man i hv ever met when all hope was lost under one mth.*smiles* God is awesome my chronicle of hope loading.Happy sunday fam.
ReplyDeleteI hope this happens to me too. Loneliness is beginning to creep in.
ReplyDeleteDats why she sent dis in.....for anty gwegwelicious like you!
DeleteDon't give up, ur husband is on the way close to u sef!
lmao. ..okija na wa 4u
DeleteKikikikiki...@Nma!
DeleteCongrats
ReplyDeleteCongrats. Enjoy. Every1 deserves to be loved
ReplyDeleteFar be it for me to rain on your parade but poster, I thought Chronicle of Hope was about married couples who have gone the distance and can share their experiences. Not someone who is yet to take the plunge. You are just about to start a new life together and by His Grace, I pray you will be blessed and fulfilled in your home but at this stage, it's not really a Chronicle of Hope.
ReplyDeleteJust my opinion; if anyone has a different one, pls state it calmly and politely without curses and insults. Thank you.
Its abt ones testimony not even on relatnship alone,,,,,,,any inspiring life experience.tnk u
DeleteNo dear..
DeleteYou are wrong..
Right from the debut of The Chronicles of hope...it was stated that any form of story with a happy ending can make it here..sometimes the happy ending is not near,but poster is optimistic and hopeful that it will end well.
Examples:
A sick person that got better.
A job seeker that found their dream job.
A turn around in marriage..
Supernatural childbirth
Mourning turned into dancing.
Childless-ness turned into fruitfulness.
An engagement...
Etc
OK, all the best at your forthcoming nuptials.
ReplyDelete*Ayah Shehu #
Happy 4 you!
ReplyDeleteDancing #Godwin!!!! I am just in love with the caption: WHEN THE RIGHT MAN COME, YOU DON'T SWEAT IT! Congratz poster.
ReplyDeleteUna nvr marry and u r 100percent sure he is the right man? What works 4 A might not work 4 B, some ppl had to use their hand to grab their man and doesn't mean he is not the right one 4 them. Love still dey shark u, wait and park well first sitdon dey look. I pray all ur wishes comes true.
ReplyDeleteCongrats to you dear, invite all the blog family when you fix the date.
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
Congrats in finding a man that loves and appreciate you. Being happy is d best thing in dia life.
ReplyDeleteWhich kain hope be this? Send in Hope when una don marry for at least 3 years. Becoz this could just be a case of 2 Nigerians in a foreign land with not other option so they stick together. All the same congrats.
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteGbam!
ReplyDeleteNice. May your love grow from strength to strength.
ReplyDeleteAs I always say, relationships especially marriage and those that leads to marriage, is a three-way cord: man, woman and God. Each with their distinct parts to play, once you, as a man or woman lose sight of what you're suppose to do, then the devil comes in and when he comes God leaves, you need no prophet to tell you what the devil can do.
Good luck dear, let God and all that he represents be your guiding principle in journey of marital bliss.
@ Poster true tall,,am sooooo happy for u...I tap ooooo..
ReplyDelete***Talk**
ReplyDeleteTRUE! TRUE!! TRUE!!!
ReplyDeleteI so agree to this... God perfect His plans for u both IJMN... Amen
Bless u
It's d "time is going" attitude that make pple fall into d wrong hand. Happy for u poster but who didn't know that when something is right u don't sweat it? Well now u know. Society doesn't help at all. But wait oo..Poster @ twenty something with all the things going for u, u had given up on love? What do u expect pple without jobs, no money, no sponsor etc to do? It is well.
ReplyDeleteLucky you
ReplyDeleteI tap into this blessing. I gave up on love but I hope love still finds me. Wishing you and your man the best.
ReplyDeleteStella Wetin be this?
ReplyDeleteThis is just a relationship nah
I need married people chronicles of Hope!
Anyways,I'm happy for u poster!
nice story. I can tell that you are in love from your write up. may it remain that way and may the sweetness continue and never run dry. as for me..I have taken that decision to just wait n let things fall into place. tired of looking n searching for the right man. lemme focus on being the right woman.
ReplyDeleteWhen ur 48 and not 28 as u are and get married within a yr ,then it's chronicles of hope not this abeg !! Mchew.
ReplyDeleteMy sister, na God hands we dey o.
DeleteI am happy for u
ReplyDeleteMay you forever remain happy
ReplyDeleteThis is June. December is still far...I am not jinxing you but so many things things can still go wrong. U have not even been given a ring and u are sending chronicles. What happens after introduction. U know how many girls get to meet the folks and not get married. U should spend your time on your knees asking God to make it come to pass and not sending chronicles
ReplyDeleteGosh, people are so negative hian. I'm happy for u my sister. No matter how meager it might seem, a testimony is still a testimony!
DeleteLmao! Nigerians sef....person can not satisfy una. Afi December far abi hahahaha! Miss Chronicles biko go and seat down and pray una keep going strong. Shit falls apart after wedding becoz the bobo now knows u no dey go anywhere and he has paid for u. Na there he go start to send u to go bring cup, go buy tissue, go do this and that. Then come back and tell us ur story after that Lmaoooo
DeleteOk now, well done, wish you the best, pls send hope chronicles when you are married at least 5yrs from now. God bless
ReplyDeleteStop sweating eyin ladies
ReplyDeleteMay ur love keep growing like the grass in my backyard. Meh guys it keeps growing every second we Don Taya for the grass ooo. Anyways Congrats darling
ReplyDeleteLMAO!!!! u haff crase
DeleteMay God complete d good work he has started in ur life IJN!
ReplyDeleteI was underappreciated and unloved by friends and colleagues. Some mocked and sneered at me because I had an obvious inadequacy. Then I met and married the right man that looked beyond my shortcomings and saw a perfect person. He raised me to an enviable position and those who once sneered and mocked me now want to be associated with me. Never underestimate the power of love. Congrats my dear poster, ignore those that say it's too early to celebrate. When you meet the right person, you know it at the initial stage. God bless your union.
ReplyDeletewish u d best
ReplyDeleteDear poster, I am happy for you and I pray this will continually be the song you sing even when you get married and grow old with each other. All the best dearie and keep the faith!
ReplyDeleteSorry to bust your bubble but madam, come back after 5 years of marriage and tell us how it is going. Chronicle of hope kor.
ReplyDeleteCongrats
ReplyDeletePlease if your marriage is not in the rank of 5, 10 or 20 years, don't come here to give any hopeless chronicles. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteCan't wait to write mine too
ReplyDeleteYou people should stop sending chronicles of young relationships,just pray about it so it grows stronger,most sdkers will discourage you,dont bother to use your story to encourage them,they aint encouraged
ReplyDeleteIf it is the will of God, nothing shall disturb you. The Lord will perfect it and you will glorify His name.
ReplyDeleteAkuko na egwu smh
ReplyDeleteOk. Thank God for you poster. Your marriage must surely come to pass, Amen. Let me add little advice; if you've not slept with him, pls don't ever do that. Now is the time to pray for a perfect union and to seek God's answer. Also, if you're richer than him, don't give him a dime, at least till he becomes ur husband before God and man. December is still a bit far so pls, use this period to study him well so that you don't start sending chronicles here in the future
ReplyDelete"First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do." Epictetus
ReplyDeletehappy for you poster, Glad to know some people still find love in the midst of all this madness and negativity around. ignore all these people telling to come back and share bad news, keep and open and positive mind, receive the love he is giving you and pray that God will give both the strength to weather nay storm that may come. love is beautiful indeed.
ReplyDeleteDecember still far be prayerful so that he won't change. Good luck!
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