Chronicle Of HOPE - 18

What are your expectations?

FORMER RUNS GIRL GIVES TESTIMONY OF MARRIAGE MADE IN HEAVEN!

Hi Stella I appreciate the good work you are doing and am glad it is touching lives positively cause that's the most important.

When I read negative stories about marriage I get worried cause I have been married for 7 years and each day seems just like yesterday......

I met my hubby in my office and 6months after we tied the knots, my family was worried but I believed in my heart we were meant to be with no doubt whatsoever cause truthfully I didn't have an ounce of doubt.

My husband is my bestest of friends,not even the kids can take this position.When we started dating we came to an agreement on no lies,no matter how it might affect the other person ,we promised to always be truthful,communication line is always open,friends always wonder why I trust my hubby so much,I really don't know,it came naturally.

When I had our two kids he wasn't around but the third boy he was in the labour room with me,he saw the baby's head come out and this even made him love me more.

Stella my husband worships me,when I pass he always grabs me and I push him away telling him we don old.I weigh 90kg with a big tummy which I am working on seriously.My husband is just a yr older than me so no be say na old papa and one youngie.

Stella my marriage is made in heaven, we have our differences,we quarrel but  never go to bed wit it.A friend witnessed us quarrel once but in 5mins time we were laughing and apologising, we made up.. 

Stella,sometimes i wonder why God has blessed me with a wonderful guy.I used to do runs oh! immediately I met this guy I changed my ways and I made a covenant with God,I never cheated on him,I kept away from friends and made time for my marriage.

 I abandoned my job and became a full time housewife not becos I wanted to but I had to make the sacrifice and my hubby never made me regret this decision cause he's been supportive.Now my kids are grown and I now run my business.

I think one of the reasons marriages fail right now is becos people always go after the physical without the spiritual,everyone wants to be the important figure, no one wants to make the sacrifice,you want everything to be just the way you want.

What are your goals for marriage?what are the doubts you have about your fiancee or fiance? have you discussed it with him or her,or are you going to bring it up after you get married? (big mistake)
Sorry for the epistle but I can go on and on cause God has really blessed me and indeed I am blessed.I am writing a book on marriage which might help the young ones.

Stella marriage sweet oh!no be small and by the way we don't have all the money in the world ,our kids go to a good school,we live in a family house,we have a car,I can't afford to fix human hair of 40k,I keep it low but I am enjoying my life. Love you Stellakorks.

Darling thanks.

I have since come to realise that what works for one might not work for the other.

The key to Marriage happiness is hidden and only those who seek,find it,those who run in with physical longer throat and expectations run back out when their expectations are not met.I am happy for you.

Marriage is not easy at all,I am so pissed with my hubby right now and asking myself why i married him,in 5 minutes i would be blessing GOD for blessing me with someone as understanding and as good as him.LMAO!

Marriage is not easy,let us please encourage each other in anyway that we can.