Hmmm #epic question!
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
CAN A MAN LOVE HIS WIFE AND STILL CHEAT?
Good morning beautiful Stella, trust you are good....Been wanting to send in this chronicle for a while now..here it goes...
I got married when I was 20 years old as a very naive young virgin...It's been five years now and I need serious advice.
I noticed my husband was cheating on me a year after we got married. I got home from school after two months and he didnt touch me for a week.
As a 21 year old, I couldn't take it and I went crying to my mum and my mother in law. When they tried to ask my hubby, he walked away and came home late that day. We eventually made up but that was when trouble began, I discovered his friends knew this girl he flaunted her in public.
At this time I started to wonder maybe he didnt actually want to marry a good girl or something, so I started to behave like a bad girl; I would want us to go clubbing but he didnt want me doing all that, then I uped my being sexy, I would wear just pant in our room which only resulted in more sex but didnt stop him from cheating.
I started to make him feel like a king, I put him above everyone in my world, I gave birth to our first child and it continued. I finished school and I had our second child and it still continued. All these affected my GP tremendously and I finished in school with a 2.2.
Now I've done a three days dry fasting for him twice. The last one almost took my life. At some point, I was told my MIL was a witch. Since she lives with us and we are close, I convinced her to go for prayers with me and she confessed to them her father initiated her. She has done several deliverance but nothing has changed.
Now may I add that my husband grew up very poor in the slum but had a first class in school and 8years after working he earns very well.
One day he told me I shouldnt mind the way he behaves, attributing it to the fact that he didn't do all these when he was younger and he would change.
He takes very good care of I and the kids to the extent that people envy me. We travel any where we want in the world but he doesn't say he loves me until I say it first after which he replies with "I love you too". He doesnt starve me of sex, we have sex like 4 times a week.
My question now is this..DOES HE LOVE ME?
Can a man love his wife and still cheat?
Will this ever stop? Should I start to cheat?
I'm gonna get a job I applied for soon, please I need ur advice. He likes to be with bad club girls he takes for parties but he doesnt want me to be the club girl.
Should I buy him condoms? I dont even know if he uses it. Is our marriage too young to be going through this? Does this happen in other marriages?
Note: In all this, I have never had a quarrel with him..Am I too soft on him? Maybe i should bring up a fight?
YOU ARE FISHING FOR A QUAREL WITH YOUR MAN?YOU WANT TO BRING UP A FIGHT?ARE YOU CRAZY?
YOU DONT LIKE PEACE?
Are u for real?
ReplyDeleteSiping zobo and waiting for comments
********LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*******
Dear poster, you are bored.
DeleteWe have very useless men and women in this blog. This is why men would keep treating us like trash. Giving excuses for men that cheat. Are u all crazy. And u still go to church and act like all is well. Keep saying all men cheat to console your useless lives including u stella. See the kind of advise u gave her. This is why women are killing their husband's and some are tying them down wiv juju. Many women have even taken their husband's glory so that he will remain worthless for life while the woman keeps having money. Serves such men right...... I think women should form an organisation to start exposing cheating husband's wiv very concrete evidence. Can u see the backlash tokes husband got. I think we should start scape goating our husband's and mistresses. In the u.s when this t.v programmes started, cheaters and men saw how they were being exposed. There was a strong reduction in cheating around the area where the company was based. Please expose your husband's wiv concrete evidence. Both the man and the mistress. People will sit up. In majes life he will think twice before slotting his dick into another woman. Not only for women. Men please start exposing your wives. Tit for tat simple!
DeleteU forgot..." Jesus fix it"
DeleteCheating is purely human nature but it takes the God- nature in us to keep one from cheating. Sometimes men who cheat on their wives love them so much yet they are powerless when it comes to being faithful to her. Though every man faces those moments of temptation to cheat, I believe it takes the God in us, the Holy Spirit to keep us from infidelity. So I will say that ur husband cheating on u may not mean he is no more in love with u. Beauty and all is not enough to keep him from cheating, it will take God. I just hope he is not taking u for granted because u r still very young. U didn't say his age tho. Some men have dat mentality dat they can get away with it and u can't do anything about it becos of d age difference.
DeletePls don't cheat. It won't solve any problem. This time is the time to get to know God better and allow Him show u d way out of this situation. Buying him condoms is like u are supporting what he is doing. I won't even allow him touch me seriously. Its so disgusting. Maybe that will also be a wake up call for him. Better still with a serial cheater, I can't deal. I am speaking for myself. May God give u wisdom to hold on faithfully while we pray he changes. God can do all things.
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Such a good writer and advicer you are.. keep it up
Delete@anon 16:20 lolllllllll she'll soon go under anon to cuss you out...rabid twat like her...
DeleteMy dear, he wont change. Until he learns a lesson from d bad gals. Dear some men cheat cuz oda men cheat. Dey cheat cuz its a trend among other men. And bcuz d society says all men cheat. So until he learns a lesson from d bad gals. He wont stop. just av protected sex wit him. And pls. Dont cheat! Dont start a quarrel. Pray.
DeleteAnon 16:09 bless you. All these low self esteem congregation
DeleteMake I read comments.
ReplyDeleteSometimes after typing, Stella will not post.
He will stop,but with time.
DeleteGive him condom n never you cheat on him.
Stella,nawa 4 dis your advice!
Is well.....but has your MIL being a witch has to do with dis chronicle ?
Stella you are a bitch
DeletePoster, don't start up a fight no no no. Just talk to him heart to heart, there are ways to talk to a man without stirring up a fight except u wanna push him outside the more if the house is no longer peaceful. Tell him how u feel, make him feel guilty, don't do this when he is horny because nothing will sink in, I wish I had your contact would give u advice on how I tamed my cheating husband, he may still cheat, I don't care but there's no disperepect, he makes me feel like I am the only one, I can smell trace of cheating anywhere which is fair enough and I won't look for one myself. Be sensible when dealing with a man, because it is in them to cheat, they are hunters, theyy are moved by what they see, some are just worse than some. So babe take ur time and talk to your man, don't go to club because of him because it won't change him and lastly just because he cheats doesn't mean he doesn't love you. I am sure he can't even remember d names of some of d gals he cheated on u with. Take care sweetheart and ignore any offensive comments. And next time u come back to Life make sure you liveeee well before you marry, don't miss out on beautiful thing life has to offer the singles ;)
DeletePoster, don't start up a fight no no no. Just talk to him heart to heart, there are ways to talk to a man without stirring up a fight except u wanna push him outside the more... if the house is no longer peaceful men go out more. Tell him how u feel, make him feel guilty, and pls don't do this when he is horny because nothing will sink in, I wish I had your contact would have given u advice on how I tamed my cheating husband, he may still cheat, I don't care or should I say unbothered. There's no disrespect, when I say disrespect, I know what I am sayin, I have seen and heard men ridicle their wife's to nothing, cheat under her nose, beat her in the presence of his concubine or mistress..My man makes me feel like I am the only one, I can't smell trace of cheating anywhere which is fair enough for me and I won't look for one myself because I am at peace and I keep guiding him with prayers. Be sensible and tactful when dealing with a man, no need to act like a crazy person, talk with respect and dignity but don't loose yourself and reduce your self esteem in the process. Please note, it is in every man to cheat, they are hunters, they are moved by what they see, some are just worse than some. So babe take ur time and talk to your man, don't go to club because of him because it won't change him and lastly just because he cheats doesn't mean he doesn't love you. I am sure he can't even remember d names of some of d gals he cheated on u with. Take care sweetheart and ignore any offensive comments. And next time u come back to Life make sure you liveeee well before you marry, don't miss out on beautiful things life has to offer the singles ;)
DeleteWhich kind advice be this nah Stella, abeg run before he bring disease come home o
ReplyDeleteRun to where? Wastronwitew?
DeleteSend her ur home addresa make she run come meet u..Make sure ur husband or brother is available for her..Mtcheeeeeeew..Easier said than done..Yimmu!
DeleteDear Poster, you are looking for trouble where there is none, you better appreciate all he does for you and don't stir up unecessary trouble, if you like, cheat, it will be the evidence of step-mother syndrome. Mschew.
ReplyDeleteShe isn't looking for trouble where there is none cos there is obviously trouble. All the money won't help her when she gets infected with HIV or when the side chick go extra miles to become a permanent fixture in her home. Advise your husband to use protection, you should save enough money for rainy days..which would eventually come if your husband doesn't change his ways. Pray he changes, don't upset or pick a fight especially in your jobless state, stop having kids, and again start saving like your life depends on it. Focus on your kids n job hunt n stop giving too much of a damn about your husband's activities.
DeleteLol. Stella so you mean she should keep quiet and allow her husband continue with his wayward and cheating acts?
ReplyDeleteOya give her ur own advice nah.
DeleteHmmmm! Waiting for comments...
ReplyDeleteStop digging for lobsters. He takes care of you and your child abi children. You went into that marriage with eyes wide opened. You married people should learn to handle your business privately. People here would just give you wrong ideas that will end up doing more harm than good. Anyway what is my own.
ReplyDeleteLuv ur comment, u don't bring ur married issues to public cos u might just get confused with different comment. Pray nd pray hard cos prayer is d key to all things.
DeleteIf he likes a bad girl like you claim he won't marry you,he's just catching fun.Remain the good wife you are,take care of him and your children.Hopefully he will change.
ReplyDeleteHopefully he will change. What sort of useless advice is this? Why do women think so little of themselves?
DeleteOh she should divorce him ,marry some1 else and if he starts cheating too she should leave ?Is that what makes you a woman of high class?Changing husbands like diapers makes you a woman who thinks high?
Deletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
ReplyDelete.
Yes i support yu abeg... Bring quarrel bcos if yu keep being dormant he will keep thinking yu are fool... Me personaly i love babe that is a little bit aggressive though
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Because you are weak.
DeleteAre you old enough to have a 'babe'? Just asking....
DeleteLow self esteem woman continue
ReplyDeleteYou're lucky sha
ReplyDeleteOk. I will just read comments. Thanks
ReplyDeleteLol.. Men that grew up poor alwas want to enjoy what they have missed.
ReplyDeleteYour hubby is a boy trapped in a man's body.
He doesn't love you as much as he says. He just recognises you as his wife.
I am confused sef.
Jesus fx it.
Your question is yes a man that loves his wife can cheat one million and one times over. Your case, well, talk to him, ask him questions he will change, I know
ReplyDeleteMiss Ess that's not true. A man that truly loves his wife will not cheat on her!..
DeleteMy dear anonymous love and cheat is two different things and sex and love is two different things ,people confuse lust for love and people confuse fantasy for love .yes a man can truly be in love with you and still cheat .I have grown to know that every human being should be given their own human right to do what they like ,because every human being is responsible for every action they take ,men cheat and women cheat ,there men that dont even love their wife yet they dont cheat ,some pastor s cheat ,the have numerous sex partners in the same church the pastor.Btw where is preachers wife ,where art thou
DeleteSo when you are even thinking of cheating, it means you have already started or nursing the idea. I am just pitying you cos you will end up eating more than you can chew. If you're tired pack your kaya and go do not cheat on your husband didn't you take your vows in front of God. talk to him or you both should seek counsel from an elder,pastor or counsellor.
ReplyDeleteWhy do men have problem when a woman cheats on her husband? Didnt d man take a vow of fidelity in front of God aswell?
DeleteDidn't the husband take vow too?
DeleteChizoba nwanne m jukwaa ha!
DeleteBabe you've shown him that you are ok with his bad behaviour. He won't stop anytime soon. He loves you but doesn't respect you. How do you live with it knowing that your husband just exchanged fluids with someone else and u still have sex with him? Aren't you scared of disease? Spiritual implications nko? Your man need the help of the holy spirit. Before then, you need to STOP sexual relations with him. As hard as it sounds, it is doable. You need to show him Tha cheating is unacceptable. NNE you have to kids to live for o. Please wake up and stop tolerating nonsense. What does he need your vagina for when he's also enjoying others out there? Have u ever asked yourself this question? Wake up.
ReplyDeleteSeconded..taking care of d family is not d only responsibility he has..He should stop cheating for ur reputation or if not for anything, he shudder do it for God
DeleteWhat @gandalfs bae said!
DeleteMeanwhile, Stella sure say your husband no dey cheat on you? You seem like you don't give a sh** about anything. What sort of advice it that?
Babe, talk to him about it. I won't even be able to see knowing the boo cheats!. May the Lord Strengthen you.
Stella honey u no go kill person with dis ur answer and pic o....and for d writer,kindly remain peaceful and pray more most times cheating is spiritual just as we all dat Sex is too.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm...
ReplyDeleteIs he taking care of you? Yes
Does he treat you well? Yes
Is he abusive in any way? No
From your mail it seems u really don't care about his cheating as long as he loves u, well I'm sure he loves you but he is too comfortable, you need to be independent of his affection, don't fight with him there's no point.
My advice would be to just ignore the cheating but insist on using a condom with him, so you don't catch any infection
I strongly believe he will get over it...personally I can't stay with a cheating partner because I hate feeling like I'm not enough, but everybody is different. if u still sleep at night with his cheating ways then u are strong enough to ignore it, he will outgrow it.
Is Hiv,Hepatitis B real? YES!!!
DeleteThis poster is vulnerable biko.
She needs our support right now.
Lol @ezenwanyi. Seriously women don't know their worth and it hurts so bad to see this
DeleteSweetie dont start a fight o.
ReplyDeleteOf corse he wants a good girl for wife which you are so pls dont let nobody change you.
Maybe you should nicely give or tell him to use condoms so he dosnt come and infect you.
Pray honey.be strong.
i dont even know what to say again.
Osalobua lahon o
Nicely tell him to use condoms???
DeleteHe wants a good wife but he's free to be Badoo??
Bwahahahaha........
"...NICELY TELL HIM..." as what? D kings of kings or what? Lmao...choi!
DeleteAbeg everyone has his own mind and opinion o.
DeleteCos even if she tells him ''nicely''if he dosnt want to use them he bloody wont and she might be getting a gift if disease soon.
Lemme answer your questions first...
ReplyDeleteYes a man can love you and still cheat...
I think he loves you...
He will never stop cheating!!..once a cheat is always a cheat!!...
Try and get a job no matter how small it is....
Please stop wasting your prayers on a chronic cheat cos he will never stop!!..I know someone that has been praying for her husband to stop cheating since their 20 years of marriage...but nothing has changed...dude is still a dog...
Channel your prayers to your self and kids and ignore your husband totally...
Stop making love to him too before he get one orishirishi disease and transfer to you....
Buy condoms for him!!...
Get your self a boyfriend or a lesbo partner...
Be happy!!!...
Don't let a man give you HBP!!!...
What sort of advice is this???
Delete"Get a boyfriend or a lesbo partner??!
Na wah oooh!!!
Bwahahahaha........
DeleteU are a bad influence on this Sister!!
Nne continue with Ur fasting biko.
Ahah! Adviser... u r not nice o... lol
DeleteBwahahahahahaha..Correct advice.Get urself a man and enjoy yaself before u die of high blood pressure..Life is too short to die ontop marriage matter.
DeleteYou are bad
DeleteWife material is different from fuck material or girlfriend material. Get that into your head.
ReplyDeleteThe considerations for these various materials are different. A wife is a home keeper, so it is not necessary that she will be sexy or fine. Those are secondary.
A fuck material is someone that is sexy, busty, has thin waist and proportional ass or something that fits into the psyche of what the man considers a pleasurable piece of fuck. Ladies should stop confusing these important terms.
Like I said earlier, most men must cheat because when they were broke, no girl gree open leg for them. Now they will have to make up for lost ground.
And there is no relationship between love for wife and cheating. None at all. The best a guy can do is respect her enough not to let her know he is flogging various delicacies. It is only a man dedicated to God that can stop this practice. Or a man that his personal values that coincide with this. Or men wey dia juju no let them.
Until then, allow the men to be. You are even lucky he still has interest in you. Most men get bored of flogging their wives and they no longer find it pleasurable. It becomes a boring chore. So they need those extra pussies to balance their lives and excitement, before they run mad. Some men can be restless if they have not fucked an extra pussy in a month. So they use it to balance their mental and waistly health.
Don't worry, women are now getting more involved in this action. And when u reach that age, you too may join them.
For further enquiries, and until then, I am waiting for you in that space of time.
Hehehe
Some times those fuck material hets preggy and becomes side wife material take or leave it u cnt always eat ur cake n have
DeleteDont u tink she should say something jst to make the man know she is not comfortable with his cheating habit?
Dnt worri u will always be ma sdk le boo #wink
Choi! Loool. I don die
DeleteFor your mind o you be expert for men behavIour. I lIke you sha...
DeleteI think there's a misunderstanding about what marriage truly is. What do we even understand by love? Love is sacrifice! I don't believe a man can love his wife and still cheat on her. A man that truly loves his wife will make a commitment to be faithful. A habitual womanizer cannot be said to love his wife. Maybe he has a sense of duty or responsibility, a desire and regard for the status quo, but that cannot be equated to love. A man that truly loves his wife and happens to cheat on her would confess to her and beg for her forgiveness, then take necessary steps to stay committed. That's love!..
DeleteSo poster I don't think your husband loves you, he likes the idea of you and provides for you but love is much deeper than that.. Excuses are tools of incompetent people.. He'll never stop cheating.. He obviously lacks the ability to stop. He lacks discipline and regard for the vows he made. Hope and pray he doesn't contact some terrible disease or gets some random girl pregnant.
Naso!
DeleteThis Bestman sha u r jst delusional, pls wake up n face reality. This ur expectation of men only happen in movies, however this money makes me fuck (Kehinde Ake) is right. Men are neva satisfied wid fucking jst one pussy coz they all get bored of it n want somtin else for a change
DeleteWake up all of you. It's 2015. Y'all watch too many cartoons and movies. Things have changed. Love does not exist. What exists is SEX. And mutual satisfaction of various needs.
DeleteYou are funny..borrowing your space..Women,being a doormat does not translate to being submissive..You need to be assertive and not aggressive.teach your men the right way to treat you..I asked my hubby today how much he was going to pay for sex,when he wanted it..And yes,he was shocked..clearly told him I was not a sperm dump and I need to be turned on just as much as I physically turn him on..Cos well,he no dey turn me on..Yes ,he was shocked..But suffice it to say he knew ways to make me happy..hes helped me with chores,asked me what I wanted to eat and blablabla..bbe,u are married to him ,he no be king of the world..treat your man ryt and expect same if not more..
DeleteThis is deep. Rid your mind or else it won't sink in.
DeleteVery useless and stupid advice.
DeleteLoool@The Bestman, that is just a naive earnest way of thinking, loving ur wife and enjoying d adventures of tapping a sexy sidechick r 2 very different things, and I know several men who have done this well (including my granddad) and still loved their wiives and stayed as a happi familymen until they died...forget all these fairy tales u r building from American movies
DeleteThe are sinners! And that includes your grandad..
DeleteWasted generation! Shapened by the world's definition of what marriage should be. Smh
stellz, this your adonbilivit picture na die.
ReplyDelete*jaw drops*
ReplyDeleteThere is all to this story than meets the eye, is all I can say.
#WhiteDiamondOut
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DeleteStella abegi
ReplyDeletePoster. ...pls dont cheat. Pray4him still. Prayer changes things.....buy a condom
Talk2him too
Firstly baby girl, in marriage, Love is secondary to me... Compatibility and peace of mind is d key! then love comes in without force.... Yes a man can love u and cheat on u but d ability to take ur mind away from such tut is d beginning of wisdom.... Did u catch him? abeg de ur lane for d fact that he still pays attention to u, u r incharge! And if u have too many friends plz sieve dem and know who is who before advisers pour sand for ur garri.... ndewo!
ReplyDeleteBut what if he carries herpes/ STD's what then ?
DeleteOlori please change your mentality. A man cannot love you and still cheat on you. It's a contradiction. Love is not cheap, it requires sacrifice! It's like cheating on your husband and still calling yourself a submissive wife. It's not just possible.
DeleteMarried women, over to you.
ReplyDeleteDear poster,whatever you do, don't cheat and go the diabolical way.
Oyibo.
Men! Men! Men!
ReplyDeleteWhen will we ever learn to control our libido.
@ poster.
A man can love you and still cheat, he'll do anything to keep you, but he might never stop cheating. He can't seem to control himself, he lacks self discipline. I Hope I answered Your kweshion.
Don't know what advice to give u.
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Alloy you cant say you love your wife and still cheat on her! If you love her you'll commit to being faithful. If he knows he's going to drop dead once he fucks that random girl, will he do it? Love is commitment and sacrifice.
Deletethis question tire me. make i book space and read comments
ReplyDeleteWell..I know for a fact that most men cheat not because they don't love their wife,but because they simply lust after somone other than their wife..
ReplyDeleteMen are adventurous by nature,they simply love to explore,some men cheat by having sex with ladies,some men cheat with their eyes,they oggle women and all that..
Some men just simply like to flirt with ladies and nothing more to it..
I'll tell you this though,if you feel you cannot put up with his cheating habits,then ask him for a divorce,afterall a divorce can be granted on grounds of adultery..
Do not cheat on him with anyone for anything,you might not be able to keep up with it,and besides the old saying 'two wrongs don't make a right' is very true..
From your story,I could sense that you really do love your husband,cos not for once did you mention leaving him,and besides he's your first love and all that,plus he satisfies you sexually and materially,he's perfect in that sense..
However I'd advice you to sit him down and have a tete-a-tete with him..
Tell him exactly how you feel,even though I know talking with him is going to be an hail mary,but at least try to do that in a calm but slightly confronting manner..
I don't know what else to say biko.
Very reasonable advice. If you feel you can't deal, LEAVE. It makes no sense to stay and cheat. If a man treats u any different from what you feel you deserve, off your heels and RUN. If you choose to stay, that's shows how little you think of yourself. No one is here to judge u. Just remember that when you sleep at night, you close your own eyes. No one closes your eyes and dreams for you. You have to answer to yourself.
DeleteThis one pass me oh
ReplyDeleteLemme read n learn
Wow, I already like you just by reading your narrative...I dont really understand men. Please dont fight with him, it will only give him more reasons to look outside.
ReplyDeleteThe part where you said you had done two dry fasting and almost died from the second one made me laff, forgive me. Lemme just borrow that phrase "Jesus Fix it".
Wetin Jesus wan fix when there's no commitment from the man?
DeleteHmmm, my dear, offer him condoms. I think the question is if he respects you. You need to sit him down and let him choose. Either he stays out or face his marriage. Which kain nonsense be dis? And the MIL is okay with this?
ReplyDeleteI dont tink a man dat love and respect his wife wud cheat on her........ Just calmly talk to ur hubi about how wat he is doing is affecting uu
ReplyDeleteYou're the only sane person here!
DeleteDear Poster please, please and please don't try to bring up a problem when there's absolutely none. Many would do anything to have just half of what you are having but you don't seem to recognise. He takes good care of u and the kids to the envy of others, you have sex 4 times a week and never had a quarrel. Come on lady, why are u looking for trouble when there's known. If he didn't love you, he wouldn't be doing all these dear. He has told u, he's making up for lost time and would soon get over it, so let him be. Men would always frolick around but when it becomes excessive then there's a problem. Yours isn't one to be considered as such so calm down and don't let the devil bring discord into your home through you.
ReplyDeleteRemain peaceful..
What if he brings home a disease ?
DeleteYou must agree that there has to be a check or it could get worse
Shattap. What if she wants to start doing her own? Will you encourage her husband to allow her to get it out of her system? There are things that are more important than money and sex from your husband. If you like, he can sleep with you 5 times a day every day but if he doesn't respect you, all that means absolutely nothing.
DeleteBig lie from the pit of hell!
DeleteHaba Stella, what she has is still not peace. Standing in the sidelines and condoning cheating.....na wa o!
ReplyDeleteComplicated...heart to heart talk will be better before he gives you an incurable disease ..Talk it out jare and stop suffering in silence...Some people are weeping in comfort sha..Never envy anyone.
ReplyDeleteCheat on him, cheat on him, cheat on him, cheat on him, Cheat on him Period.
ReplyDeleteShe will only hurt herself more, trust me....
DeleteDear poster, the answer to ur question is yes. A man can be in love wit his wife n still cheat on her. Ur story is a bit similar to mine. My dh luvs me very much n pampers me and evryone knows it bt it hasn't stopped him frm cheating on me. He's bn doin this since the day we got married. I've cried, prayed, fasted & reported him to some pple severally bt he's refused to change. The most painful part nw is that he's gotten himself a permanent gf which he knowz I'm aware of. He books a hotel room just to sex her bt never sleeps over @ night. He comes home to us n doesn't fail to eat @ home. Did I mention our sex lyf isn't bad @'ll. We make luv @ least 3 tyms a week. I just hope n pray he doesn't come home wit an incurable disease one day cos if na infection, I've seen a lot of it. It's a story we shall tell someday..
ReplyDeleteYou are an idiot
DeleteTrue talk, I agree with you completely
DeleteNa wah ohh...
DeleteSo why don't you stop having sex?
DeleteChineke!!!
DeleteNawa ooo.....
Hey lady,have a little self respect for yourself and love yourself a little..common!..
DeleteStop having sex with him..Do u hate ur life so much?
Deleteomg!! Stella this is what would eventually happen to the poster .hopefully it won't be HIV
DeleteNot only idiot. You are the biggest goat I've ever encountered in my life. The day he dumps you or worse yet gives you HIV and you die, u will be telling us how much he loves you from your grave. By then his gf would have replaced you. Stay there
DeleteStop deceiving yourself. He doesn't love you! He likes the idea of you, he provides for you and has a sense of family. That doesn't translate into a love for you. A man that truly loves his wife will not cheat!
DeleteI am sooooo pissed right now. Cant believe some of the comments and suggestions here!Good gracious!!'buy him condoms','stay because he is a provider'
DeleteIt is just so sad and painful we now live in a society where it is okay for a man to cheat. Infact you are expected to keep mute and face your work/kids/chores. Cant deal. Stella even u?
Jeez! Wt d heck did I jux read. Ur obviously dumber than u sound. A man that truly loves you won't cheat consistently and continously. U'v got to b kidding me. Wow! Hw cn u still pray n hope wen u knw wat u knw, Do u put ur hands in fire and expect nt to get burnt. Ur lack of self worth irks me.
DeleteUr questions re so much, I don't even have answer am also young in marriage, so I don't have so much experience to advice, but what am sure is a man that loves u truly won't cheat on u no matter what.
ReplyDeleteLet me also wait for comments and learn from the experienced ones.
You are a very sane woman in this house of madness
DeleteAt poster your husband does not love you or himself or God.
DeleteNaija men! No words!
ReplyDeleteStella how do you mean she is fishing for a quarel? The husband has been cheating on her since they got married and she is reacting to the hurt she feels. No one ever encourages these men to stay faithful. Everytime na to dey advice the women. You cant be philandering and expect peace in the home. It doesnt always work that way.
ReplyDeleteDon't stop praying. One day he will change and continue treating him very well.
ReplyDelete@Poster...Go to the nearest mall,get a bottle of champagne ,pop and drink up for u v got no p...lol#adonbillivit.
ReplyDeleteU are the one with d problem!!!
ReplyDelete...Would Ve loved to elaborate but I ve a sex date and this guy is coming from out of town and he gives the best head.
I think U need to intensify on the fasting instead of 3days , U can upgrade to 40days or U can as well continue untill U see results.
Bye eee......
Lol
DeleteHohohohohohohoho...
DeleteEnjoy jare...
Lmao. Just do everlasting fasting.
DeleteI haff died
DeletePoverty wldnt let him get girls while growing up n now he's trying to make up for lost years thereby hurting his wife..eeya!
ReplyDeleteWell,I know many men that love their wives more than anything in dis world n still run tins by d side,it doesn't mean he doesn't love u....continue to pray for him maybe one day he'll realise what he's doin is hurtin u ,till den.....endure
This is the voicce of wisdom representing the wisdom of all Nigerian men. Can you hear what he's sayin?: endure your marriage, keep suffering praying fasting tithing towards this grown adult because you don't deserve peace of mind or respect for the rest of your life...
DeleteWhen I say the boys on this blog reason like dingbats...
Can you just shut up?
DeleteBitchplis your comments are so off and that is why I never feel sorry for any man who is been cheated on.
DeleteUna see now? People who said Toke Makinwa was going out too much, not showing attention to her husband and blah blah blah... Not just her, but the predicament of most Nigerian women. Most Nigerian men and men in general are DOGS. If you as a woman likes, sit down in the house,morning till night, be his P.A sef, dress sexiest etc... A man that wants to cheat will steal cheat. Imagine what he told her, he wasn't doing it when he was young, so he wants to start now and know how it feels. I cannot advise you as I am not married. I can only say that you do what you want to do that makes you happy and hope for the best. I think you need to stop having sex with him, before you get infected with what you didn't bargain for. And like the most common Nigerian married woman slang, "Pray, Pray, Pray....", GOODLUCK!!!
ReplyDeleteMary.
This na real epic question.
ReplyDeleteLet me tell you i be guy and it's hard for a man not to cheat, the loyal ones are very very little
continue to be a good woman and keep praying for him he will change earlier than you expect him to.
ReplyDeleteI'll just read comments..poster it will b fyn
ReplyDeleteYou don't need to fight him. Both of you should sit and talk about what he is doing, how u felt about it and the implications that comes with it ( like diseases) and for your children sake. But talk softly and don't raise your voice.
ReplyDeleteSome men just like to have good wife at home and still do their rubbish stuffs outside. But don't change your good behavior.
Na wa ooo. Your case is really sad cos you were married chaste. Marital issues at every corner...its really beginning to piss me off. To your question dear, you must know there are different types of love but the two that relates to your post are agape love and erotic love.
ReplyDeleteAgape love is the natural type that God has mandated us to exhibit towards our fellow human beings in the bible when he said 'love thy neighbour as thyself'. When agape love is present, selfishness cannot be found bc the complete characteristics of true love according to the book of 1st Cor 13:4-8 will not be lacking. While erotic love is the type that involves our sexual desires and intense passionate feelings towards its recipient. It doesn't really care about the other person as all it seeks to do is exploit the other party to satisfy its selfish whims. Unfortunately, that is the predominant type of love existing among the youths in our contemporary society; that is the type most people mean when they say 'I love him/her'; that is the type men mean when they want to sleep with you without paying your bride price, and the type women mean when they demand for iPhone and brazillian hair after a man has slept with them. It is give and take.
I'm sorry dear. Your husband does not love you. If he loves you truly as he should, he would never cheat on you bc true love does not hurt. Agape love should be the bed-rock of every marital agreement. It should be the basic pre-requisite for marriage, bc when it is present, everything goes unhinged. Your husband cannot claim to love you and yet cheat on you. Hell no! It doesn't work that way. He's speaking from both sides of his mouth and that simply implies that he has no integrity. But don't forget, the only thing that can make a man not to cheat on his wife is the fear of God. You can lead him to Christ through prayers and your behaviour if you know Christ
To answer your questions, No! Don't cheat. No! Don't buy him condoms; it means you've got no self esteem left and you re handicapped, hence your approval and No! Don't fight with him. Leave him to God. Pray! Call on God. There's nothing He can't do. But don't forget to take practical measures to protect yourself. Get a separate bedroom, get condoms, limit the number of times you sleep with him, and force him to the hospital for tests every once in a while. Sorry dear. Men's issues are too deeeeeeepppp, and they're in almost every home
Best comment ever! Apart from prayers the man also has to commit to change. Once he does, God will show up. If he doesn't, nothing will change..
DeletePoster 2- Take a chill syrup abeg. Don't use your own hand to spoil your marriage. No marriage is perfect, this may just be your marriage's imperfection. Don't mind all those saying you should leave your husband, if they were in your shoes, they wouldn't even consider it.
ReplyDeleteI think you should have a heart-to-heart with your husband- tell him you appreciate his love and care for you and your kids, that all you ask is that he protects you from his 'shit'. In sleeping with girls outside, he should be careful and always wear a condom and shouldn't rub it in your face nor disrespect you with it.
Then go into your closet and continue praying. Keep being a good wife, don't change, infact be a better wife, frustrate your husband with love and don't fight him. Reporting him around or fighting him won't change anything- they will only spoil things. I hope you have your own source of income and he is not your 'god'. It will be well.
Poster 1- Your husband is in the middle right now, probably very confused. Keep supporting him with prayers, invite him for strategic church programmes, especially those you know would make an impact. Don't hurry him, don't be too anxious, where you are now is better than where you are coming from. Rather than asking him any question, keep encouraging him, suggest that you pray and read the bible together and you need to start going to church- one day, he may start going with you.
#siddonlookmodeactivated
ReplyDelete25 years old and seeing this...keep being you and sexy..
ReplyDeleteDuring Marital ish,pple keep advising d wives.
ReplyDeleteHaba must men cheat,must we accept cheating as d Norm?
D Adeboyes/ kumiyis dat do not cheat,r dey not Men? Yesss,dey ve spiritual powers rite? So y can't our Men also develop deir spirituality?
My bible says 1 man and wife,it also says Adultery is a sin.
Men who ve Ears,let dem hear.
We are encouraging our Men in2 hellfire,ooooh I forgot Last days Tinz.
And Yes I am married fo 13 yrs and counting, wit 4 kids and NO DH has not cheated sexually on me.
Please God let it remain SO, AMEN
Great comment! Don't mind these ignorant people..
Deleteomg are you guys serious??? He cheats on her!!! well i feel so sad with the way most nigerian women hae come to accept cheating spouses. I will never tolerate cheating. I guess God knows my heart that is why i am with the partner im with.
ReplyDeletePoster divorce the man if he isnt ready to change. Can u imagine the double standard? if it was you that was cheating he would have long divorced you.
Marriage is supposed to be a partnership my dear.
Lolllll for 99% of Nigerian women it is 'sufferinship'. Only you will fast, will pray, will tithe, will sow, will write chronicles, will stay up late, will come home early tracking one grown ass boy who has a battery in his pencil sized dick and fluff in his brain.
DeleteAnd they tell you to endure. May the boy who said that be electrocuted in his eyes. Unam ikot!!! mtsheeew
Hmmmm,@ poster,pls tell him how u feel and if he insist on still cheating on u,I take God beg u use protection,u don't knw who he is fucking raw. Also just knw he is taking u for granted and as for all dese prayers if u wish to continue fine,if not save ur prayers, he won't change until he is ready too. I grew up wit a cheating father and he didn't change until 37 years after marriage and dt is bcos God has a away of dealing with all these men for their faithful wives. Pls try and get a Job and abeg enjoy urself,chop all his moneyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy,pls save and build ur own personal fortune too from his money. My mother was too soft and wisened up very late. So from my experience pls eat his money well.
ReplyDeleteSlowly and surely I find myself leaving this blog for good.
ReplyDeleteBye bye...
DeleteWe won't miss you....
I feel you. Too many crazy people with their crazy ideas
DeleteBye Felicia! U are a good riddance!
DeleteYou need T fare?
DeleteHe loves u, when a man didn't enjoy all these while young due to lack of money my dear he'll do worse when the cash starts rolling.
ReplyDeleteYou are aware that he's cheating, talk to him about it then buy him a carton of CONDOM and he'll never forget that but don't create problem where there's none. Buy yourself condoms too if you can't avoid having sex with him-(female condoms). Keep praying for him may be one day he'll change.
He's your husband and pray more so that you won't be a stepmother to some kids.
GET A JOB.
A woman in my church used prayer caged her husband (a chronic cheat that doesn't go to church),that she cried to God that her husband's manh**d is for her alone anything contrary that it shouldn't stand - sounds stupid, but God answered her. That was how the man started undergoing treatment o running from one hospital to another and the Doctors couldn't do anything and he was so depressed that he confessed to the wife and begged for forgiveness and he started going to church. Prayer works to those that have the faith.
Really? Really??
DeleteHe'll never change! Faith requires application. Except the husband commits to change nothing will happen! Somebody just said her husband's been cheating for the past 20 years!
DeleteWhat's with the buy him a carton of condoms?
DeleteAv noticed that recently nobody cares to troll other people's comments. Thumbs up guys.by the way I often forget which post I commented on,then I go about searching for them,maybe I did be better off not commenting,just observing#drops mic#.
ReplyDeleteWhat is dis one saying?
DeleteHe loves u, most men cheat.it's in our nature to Cheat .if u like stop loving him, na u go loose
ReplyDeleteNa she go loose, why? Rubbish. I think our mothers failed in this department and our fathers were not good examples. That's why this one will come and expose his insanity by saying 'all men cheat and na you go loose'. What crass irresponsibility!!! Women begin to empower yourselves. When you sit at home and wait on a horseband,the pain is worse. Get busy and make yourself happy. Take care of your home front but put yourself in a position where your hushand will respect you. Kai... These stories dey pepper me sha!!!
DeleteMary.
Wrong!!!
DeleteI don't know what to tell you, POSTER, except that I am certain beyond any reasonable doubt that a man who LOVES you will never cheat on you... SERIALLY.
ReplyDeleteNow he might make the mistake once -- maybe circumstances led him to fall -- but he won't repeatedly cheat on you if he loves you.
That much I know and you can take it to the bank.
I never pretend about issues I know. I examine my marriage close and whilst at this moment I am more concerned with a different matter than hub's likely clandestine moves, I am all eyes and all ears. And should I notice a kurukere movement, he will hear from me.
It's not a quarrel. But if it has to be, then it will be. I don't believe in living in pretentious peace and tranquility and I hate a Fool's Paradise.
That man is a venereal disease waiting to infect you or a baby-mama waiting to join you at home. You want to be sacred of a little fight, be my guest. But love is courage. And if you love him, then find the courage to face him and address this.
P.S.
I will never but=y a pack of condom for my husband. A 9mm handgun would be more likely.
#Just my little take.
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DeleteGbam!
DeleteFantastic comment!
DeleteGod bless you. Am I mad? Why would I go and buy condoms for my husband to cheat? When he was my boyfriend did I buy him condoms to cheat? What's the reason for this desperation and low self worth? Tufia
Deletedon't cheat on him but give him the impression that you are about to do it to pay him back in his own coin so that he can have a feel of what he's doing to you. i sense your husband adores you as much as mine and cant afford to lose you so i'm guessing this strategy will work for you. about 2 weeks ago i came across flirty chats between my husband and some other girls. he met up with like 2 or 3 of them so i'm guessing there was sex on the table. i've given him some serious emotional trauma for the past 2 weeks you have no idea. last night, on the way back from some movement with our 2 kids, i paid him a suprise visit at his worksite (arnd 9pm). he wasn't there. gateman told me he drove out not too long ago. i called him , he told me he was closeby. i asked him to come so we can go home together, he asked me to wait if i wanted to and after like 2 calls, he stopped taking my calls (he claims he was in a meeting). i waited for a while and left angrily. i quietly dropped the kids at home with their nanny and drove off. long story short, i made sure i dialled a fake number on my phone cause i knew he 'll check my call log the next day. funny enough, it happened to be a man's no, and the person tried calling me back that night and at 5am. anyways, so i drove around for a bit and purposely passed by his worksite, coincidentally he was outside at the time and he immediately started trailing my car (to catch me redhanded). i got to a place and parked. he waited for a while and then started driving home angrily, i followed him jejely. we got home and i went to bed. this morning he was going all crazy asking me where i was going to. i told him i had friends i had cut off from since we got married and i intended to re-establish contact. he got so mad and was like you're talking about male friends right? i don't know whether my strategy will curb that stupid cheating but i'm sure now he knows that two can play that game. if you cheat on me, i will cheat on you. if you don't want that, better stay faithful to me. no time for that nonsense suffering and smiling that nigerian wives are expected to do. and if i ever cheat, i will make sure i choose his most "archest" enemy so that i will really hit below the belt. cheating nigerian men are beginning to get on my last nerves.
ReplyDeleteDon't I jst love u maa.
DeleteBut abeg b careful. Men don't take wifey cheating lightly.
Tinz might take a U-turn,evn b4 u ve d opportunity 2 explain dat u were jst shakaring him.
All d best.
Lmao @ archest enemy.
DeleteMy dear, we are in d same shoes, solution wise. I ws such an innocent gud girl until man chook hand for my eye in d name of marriage.. kipin gf's lmao. At hw I felt. Now... I ve a couple of dudes who'd spend dia life savings just to be with me n yes I service one of them evry now n den. I knw he loves me or maybe he doesn't, maybe he loves d idea of stolen meat lol.. But hey I like him, so I don't care. Also it kips my kind off certain tins too. N u knw d funny tin... My hubby is now extremely faithful ehn, HAHAHA, I NVR THOUGHT THIS DAY WILL COME anyway Yes I knw cos I knw... Evry wife knws.. But I don't even hv time or care like I used to, to be investigating n d works. Abeg. Life's too short. We both made d vow n we bought break d vow. Yimu!
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@Poster..Yes your DH can love you and still cheat on you. There is a difference between wives and club girls.. Will DH ever stop cheating? NO. Will you cheating on him solve the problem? NO. Now follow your heart. One last thing, he may infect you .
ReplyDeleteThere's nothing like maturity in marriage..A cheat will still cheat even if her marries a 40yrs old woman..Look at Toke ans Maje issue..Is Toke a teenager?
ReplyDeleteYou naive girls. you think all men cheat so you ask if you should buy him condom. Where is the self esteem of our ladies? No he does not love you , you are his wife...he is obligated to sex you up, feed you, spend money on you and the kids...love...far from it (men do this for their side chics, what makes you different is respect but he does not respect you so...). This man only loves himself. He can kill you and it doesn't bother him. Some lady can take you out because she wants to be his wife, he does not care...he can bring in another baby, he does not care, he can infect you with HIV, he does not care, his whole world can come crashing down thanks to a vindictive mistress...but he does not care. You better get a job, put your mind on the fact that you are sitting on a ticking time bomb. Secure your future, your husband is too careless to care about what will happen sooner or later. When you are tired of being disrespected, then you will take action.
ReplyDeleteStella Its sad that you think, shes crazy. Well u must have settled for less.
ReplyDeleteDarling girl, its never okay to cheat.
Give him condoms if that will make u safe and that might shame him. Who knows
Maybe you should tell him how badly you are affected by his actions.
Dont let it turn into a fight, if it does bring up another time.
get busy woman.
ReplyDeletebuy ur husband condom?
have u lost everything that has worth in u?
why do u love ur husband more than urself?
u hv to love ursef very much to be able to love ur husband.
ur husband is supposed to respect u in such a way that he is not ever supposed to rub his cheating on ur face.
wat are these days marriages turning into??
I blame the women bcos they nolonger know their worth,they hv lost their self esteem,so men treat them anyhow.
Just ignore him, Men hate being ignored it gets to them seriously, don't even discuss cheating issues wiv him again, leave him biko, act like nothing affects u anymore, he will get scared and worried wondering if u re up to sometin too. And also keep being faithful, pray as u will do normally not Becos he is a cheat bt Becos he is digging his own grave. Just ask God for mercy on his behalf and long life, ask God for things contrary to wht ur hubby deserves and see how God will rise on ur behalf becos u genuinely wish him well. Don't pray becos u re hurt, pray wiv an opened and compassionate heart God sees it.
ReplyDeleteget busy woman.
ReplyDeletebuy ur husband condom?
have u lost everything that has worth in u?
why do u love ur husband more than urself?
u hv to love ursef very much to be able to love ur husband.
ur husband is supposed to respect u in such a way that he is not ever supposed to rub his cheating on ur face.
wat are these days marriages turning into??
I blame the women bcos they nolonger know their worth,they hv lost their self esteem,so men treat them anyhow.
Lots of comments here amaze me
ReplyDeleteStella ur comment amazes me d most
Mschew! So bcos her hubby
1. Takes care of her
2. Takes care of her kids
3. Sexes her 4 X a week
then he's free to fuck outside
Give her stds
Keep on fucking
Keep on giving her stds....probably HIV soon
Nawa o!
Wot rubbish
As for me cheating is a deal breaker...
I refuse t b wt someone who wud hv no respect f d sanctity of d marriage vows we took bfr God n man.
I pray f a godly, faithful n disciplined man evryday n I knw God wud surely bless me wt one.
Men,
Why get married if u can't stay married?
Why get married if 1 toto wnt b enof f u t fuck?
Why get married if u can't b faithful?
I detest men who cheat wt passion, its high tme prenuptial agreement is signed bfr signing up for beta for worse mayb it will reset d wandering Dicks of some horsebands.
Dear poster, for now if u must hv sex do it wt protection. Enof of d fasting dnt cheat on ur hubby abeg; two wrongs Neva make a right. Try not to live in sin. Wake up @ midnight, read songs of Solomon 7 vs 1 to d end and songs of Solomon 8 v 10. Pray n personalize ur prayer points wt those verses, also decree dt whoeva he sleeps wt wud Neva Eva satisfy him n any breast he sucks will taste lyk bitter leaf. Decree its ony ur breast dt will satisfy hiom til death do u guys part... Be positive, u will surely laff d last laff. Drop uir email I will give u more points t pray wt. Ciao
Stay strong.but why are you thinking of cheating,have you seen him with any girl at all or you are just hearing from frds?just be your self
ReplyDeleteDear poster, a cheating man DOES NOT LOVE YOU. He also has no self control, does not fear God nor respect your marriage. 3 days dry fasting twice-after marriage. Did you fast/pray before you agreed to marry him??? Pastor Bimbo always said "THE PRAYERS YOU FAIL TO PRAY BEFORE CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER, YOU WILL BE FORCED TO PRAY ALL THROUGH YOUR MARRIAGE..."
ReplyDeleteDear poster, a cheating man DOES NOT LOVE YOU. He also has no self control, does not fear God nor respect your marriage. 3 days dry fasting twice-after marriage. Did you fast/pray before you agreed to marry him??? Pastor Bimbo always said "THE PRAYERS YOU FAIL TO PRAY BEFORE CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER, YOU WILL BE FORCED TO PRAY ALL THROUGH YOUR MARRIAGE..."
ReplyDeleteDear poster, a cheating man DOES NOT LOVE YOU. He also has no self control, does not fear God nor respect your marriage. 3 days dry fasting twice-after marriage. Did you fast/pray before you agreed to marry him??? Pastor Bimbo always said "THE PRAYERS YOU FAIL TO PRAY BEFORE CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER, YOU WILL BE FORCED TO PRAY ALL THROUGH YOUR MARRIAGE..."
ReplyDeleteDear poster, a cheating man DOES NOT LOVE YOU. He also has no self control, does not fear God nor respect your marriage. 3 days dry fasting twice-after marriage. Did you fast/pray before you agreed to marry him??? Pastor Bimbo always said "THE PRAYERS YOU FAIL TO PRAY BEFORE CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER, YOU WILL BE FORCED TO PRAY ALL THROUGH YOUR MARRIAGE..."
ReplyDeleteI hate it when men say it's in dia nature to cheat. Who gave dem that nature? It's just like a moon light tale dt our parents tell us wen we were kids to scare us. If I remember my Bible well, it said n God created Adam n Eve, one man n one wife. So if it's so, who gave dem d nature or how did de start behaving like animals. D truth is men are just stupid n de think dt gals are as stupid as dem, dts y a man will tell a woman dt its in his nature to cheat n d gal will just shut up. Are u a learner? may God save any husband of mine dt I will catch cheating n he will tell me it's in his nature to cheat. Dt day he will explain who gave him dt nature, or I will take away d only happiness left for him in dis world. Go figure! What rubbish!
ReplyDeleteYOU ALL SHOULD TAKE A CHILL PILL CALLING ME OUT,I RESPONDED T HER LAST COMMENT WHERE SHE ASKED IF SHE SHOULD START A FIGHT,I DIDNT RESPOND TO THE OTHER ISH TO AVOID BEING ATTACKED AND UNA STILL FOLLOW ME WAKA REACH DOWN..HABA..LOL
ReplyDeletestella you ate my comment hope it adds to your weight hiss
DeleteSee them.all you people know to do is cuss and say leave that marriage like its that easy.
ReplyDeleteThis poster married when she was 20.5years down shes sending in chronicle to a blog.....and tf she still sounds naive and a bit stupid (no offence darling) trurh is she isnt like/as so many young girls of today.
So i tell y'all that if she decides to take the advice of some and start a fight or show her displeasure......trust me when i say she'll do it all wrongly which might only worsen things.
You people should learn to put yourselves in a persons shoe or evaluate them a bit from thier post before you start giving jaguda advice.
i never said any of my advice has ever come across as the bomb....
Why don't you give her your own flawless advice.
Delete@anon 19.07 if men don't take wifey cheating lightly, then why should i take husband cheating lightly? didn't both of us stand and take the same vow to God? He didn't do me a favor by marrying me, we got married to cement our love and devotion for each other and also to have kids. so if he doesn't respect the sanctity of marriage, i owe him no responsibility to respect it either. it's very simple, if you don't like it done to you, don't do it to me. no double standards allowed here.
ReplyDeleteI must confess am equally guilty of this, got a good wife at home, but lust wont let me be faithful to her, and sometimes after the whole show, I ask myself wats d difference? God save us men, btw this guy (Money makes u fuck lot of toto) I love ur analysis always, comical but truthful
ReplyDeleteChizoba you sound like an unhappy, bitter wife with marital issues using this blog as an avenue to vent out your frustration.
ReplyDeleteSee how frustrated marriage has made this young lady?
ReplyDeletePut your legs together and pretend to be a mermaid, they said...virgins are few and the few ones are adored, they said...it's a gift for your husband, they said....
Now, just NEGODU!!!!!!!!
Now when her eye tears and her heart hardens, they will say she's a bad wife....,