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PREGNANT AND ENGAGED TO A SERIAL LOVER    #TeamSnoop Member

God bless you and all blog visitors...I don't even know where to start my story from,a week is not enough for me to narrate all I have gone through and still going through. But I will try and summarize my story...  

I have been dating my fiance for almost 3years now,for this 3years it has been one problem or the other because of his cheating...I see different things everyday because I used to check his phone...

Stella can you imagine I will be on the same bed with him and he will ask numerous girls to send picture of their clits and their boobs..he will have taken a picture of his own dick and he will send to different girls. Stella most times he will leave me in the house and take another girl to the hotel..he will come back home at night leaving the girl in the hotel,then first thing in the morning he leaves the house before 7am for the hotel...I know all this because I check his phone and I see everything.. 

He even invites girls from other states down to Lagos..when i am leaving his house there is another girl on the way coming or when am coming another girl is leaving the house..   

 Last year he got a girl pregnant around August,I saw the message the girl sent to him but I didn't say anything until like September, I kept quiet watching him if he was going to tell me but he did not say anything to me and he kept professing love to me while another girl is carrying his child..I eventually confronted him but he denied it,then I showed him the test result I got from his phone and other chats between him and the girl and that was when he started begging, he called my sister and brother to beg me,even his mum and sister begged me to forgive him and that was when I got to know that the girl had lost the pregnancy..      

After then I lost all trust for him and lost all hope in the relationship and from November to December I gave him space...then I got pregnant by January and told him,he was very happy and I thought well maybe this time he would change for real...but for where,he was still his normal self..he keeps changing his password anytime he finds out I know his new password.

Then by march (his birthday)he proposed to me...then I travelled to tell my parents he wants to come for introduction... By this time Stella I no longer check his phone...when I got back from my parents place, I noticed a number calling him but he refused to pick the call,I noticed that he called the number the previous day because he gave me his phone to call and I saw the name...

I asked him to pick the call and he was like the girl is disturbing him,that if she is not a fool will she not stop calling when someone isn't taking her call.

 Then he asked me to pick the call,when I picked the girl was like give the phone to the owner and I said this is his wife and she said ''you don't have to announce it''. 

I got angry and told him that this is a new girl because I have never seen this name on his phone before...I really got angry that day and he started begging me and I just left the whole thing cus the next day was my birthday and I didnt want anything to spoil my mind...that was first week of last month..

 Then we went for our introduction second week of last month,he came back to lag 2 days after our intro and I stayed back for some days...when I got back to lagos I saw some strands of weavon on the floor in the room and I was carrying braids..I didn't ask him anything I just swept them and I kept quiet until 2days ago at night, I was standing behind his friend that stays with him for the main time and I noticed he was chatting with the same girl that was calling my  fiance.

I didn't say anything to him and I went to bed and yesterday I told him (my fiance's friend)to give me his phone that I wanted to collect songs from his phone,then I went to his WhatsApp and saw his chat with the girl.

She was telling him that my fiance said she should come tomorrow that he has missed her,that his body is full..the friend was like "come where..didn't he tell you that his wife is around..where does he want to put his wife...inside the cupboard" 

The girl was like so his wife is around and he is telling me to come,he is not well ooo....the friend was like ''come na maybe he has plan for you,maybe he wants to take you somewhere else,in fact come I have missed you too I want to see your face''

....the girl was like she is no longer coming the next day again... The friend was like ''why naw am I the one that discouraged you''

...she said no that she has told him she is not coming that day,that he should be with his wife.

The friend told her that  first wife different from second wife,that she is the second wife and maybe he wants the second wife with him...  

 Stella I have cried my eyes all through yesterday, what do I do,where do I start from...I am carrying a 6months pregnancy, I could not even go for ante natal last month cus he is broke,i am having symptoms of malaria but I can't go to the hospital cus he is broke but this guy doesn't even care about all this but his sexual desire.

The night he was telling this girl to come over, the next day we had sex despite me not feeling fine, I was unable to eat all through yesterday and I have been crying...where do I start from? 

I Am a graduate no job,no money and pregnant. I feel my whole world is crashing right now..I just need advice and words of encouragement from bvs. 

 He is going to see this because he is an ardent reader of your blog. 

This time I can't take it anymore.. I am giving him the opportunity to live the life he wants to live... Stella i am going to attach the conversation between his friend and the girl..that's for your viewing alone... 

   

I saw your very beautiful pic and the chats.....hmmmmm

I thought #Teamsnoop members said that when you check his phone and find stuff,it helps you keep him in check?why is yours different?

Honey you saw all the traits and you still got pregnant?you knew he is a serial lover and you still sleep with him without fear?

All i can say is that Malaria is pregnancy can kill,please borrow money if you have but please go and see a doctor ASAP!

I will leave #TeamSnoop to give you some words of advice and encouragement and if your man is really reading this,all i can say to him is ''Mr you are quietly download ing your downfall,why will you not be broke? shameless womanizer.

Mescheeeeew

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