This Narrative will blow you away.....
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
BABY MAMA FOR EX HUSBAND OF NIGERAN CELEB- YES OR NO.
My name is Wendy 26yrs old and I'm seeing a young guy and also a divorced man(once married to a Nigerian celeb). The Nigerian celeb ex hubby n I are foreigners where we live. The young guy is going on his 30's and we've only been together for 6months but the Divorcée(will call him Double Chief) has been together for 8months though it's an on and off relationship.
Double chief already has a son(8yrs) from one of his lovers and he told me after a while that he doesn't want a protected sex anymore because he wants a baby. And then I asked him: my parent doesn't know you,you've never done anything major in my life and I don't even have a job and you want me to get pregnant,then he said I shouldn't worry that he knows why and what he's saying then I asked him why me?
All the Nigerian's in this country knows you and the media has also helped them know a lot about you,I believed in my mind that his hands are full(girls) but he keep denying it and gets angry whenever he sees me with other guys. There was an instance where he saw me at Golden Tulip with my other boyfriend(will call him Guze), we went on a date n we were all lovey dovey, Guze decided to use the washroom when we got there and Double chief called and asked where I was lo n behold I didn't lie and the next thing he stopped picking my calls and whenever he calls he abuses me that am an Asan(Fake). This went on for about 2/3weeks and well I was with Guze so I wasn't really bothered in some way. Guze lives in a 5bedrooms duplex,he works in an Estate Developing company,drives a good car and lives comfortably(the house isn't rented or on lease he built it).
My main problem is that I don't know if my relationship with Guze will lead to marriage or I should just get pregnant for Double chief n get married because I've being getting lots of pressure from my peeps to at least introduce my boyfriend(if I never get fiancée) to them. The two of them are not really cheerful giver but they both give 80% of whatever I ask from them.
Am so in doubt about Guze because every Sunday he visits his mum and sisters and he has never for once invited me or even ask me to talk to them on phone,but when I went to see my Mum when she just came back from US,Guze spoke with her(my mum knows about Guze coz I chat a lot with her but she doesn't know about Double chief). Please am so confused,what should I do? I don't want to loose on both sides.
What if Guze decides to marry me n what if he doesn't? Maybe he's just enjoying it while it last and I can't even know if he's cheating;he's always busy with work,I don't and can't go through his phone and most times he makes or receive his call in his dialect which I don't understand or have any slight idea(he's not a Nigerian) should I just go ahead with Double chief or wait on Guze? Pls SDK readers advise me and please don't curse me. Have being having sleepless nights....
N:B - All the names have been changed..
I dey corner dey read comments oooh.una too cuss me yesterday!
*hisssss*
Where to start.... Brb
ReplyDeletePRETTY doesn't keep a MAN, hell, being a good wife barely keeps a MAN the only thing that keeps a MAN is a MAN that want to be KEPT*SUSPICIOUS*
Delete****LONG SDK & SDKERS****
Poster, this is a case of choosing between the devil and the deep blue sea!
DeleteChoose Guze. But talk to him about how you feel and make sure you listen to what he says not what you want to hear. Dump that double chief ASAP. Just 26 and you're already giving yourself dilemma.
Na wa. What is lacking in the upbringing of young women these days? No self esteem, no common sense, no zeal to make something out of their lives.
DeleteIF the chief abi Na Double wants you to have his baby, let him marry you first na, very simple matter.
I don't even know why you cheated on your boyfriend in the first place. If you don't think he's serious with you leave him.
Get a job, e be like Na idleness de do you.
Sometimes I wonder if these stories are real...
Or Oge okoye's ex hubby
DeleteMy own opinion- Double chief doesnt love u. Guze puts business first.
DeleteWill pass!
DeleteOriegwu oooh
80% and they are not cheerful givers. Ole
DeleteI beg drop both of them because their lives get Kleg. What u are doing is having to choose btw two unserious men. When u meet a serious man you'lld never consider either of them. Don't limit yourself to these men, you are young my darling. So let these two not confuse you. Good luck
DeleteJust negodu!
ReplyDeleteJesus fix it!!
********LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*******
He shld also fix ur IQ level, its too low, down to -2.
DeleteYou religious nuts dnt think, jesus hsnt finished fixing premature death, terminal cancer, hunger n starvation... Its ordinary r/shp drama he'd fix.... Open ur eyes, thrs no jesus, if u doubt me, ask urself y he stl hssnt come since we'v been hearin it, since nursery sch iv heard "jesus is comin soon.... Jst cum or orgasm already
DeleteAnonymous 16:40.may God forgive you.
DeleteHe hasn't come bcos He wants you to be rapturable b4 He comes; He loves you too much to allow u go to hell. Jesus is real and He can prove Himself in your life if you allow Him. He stands @ d door of ur heart knocking and hoping u'll open for Him.
DeleteHis love made Him die on the cross that His blood may be used for the remission of our sins; if He's not real, the bible would have been archived by now, but the efficacy of the power of the word is undeniable, hence, the book can seize to exist. HE LOVES YOU,
@Anon, 16:40, you are nothing but a fool, for saying that there's no Jesus. Anuofia!!! If you want to curse me back, show ur name, ok?
DeleteBoredom
ReplyDeleteAbeg,l will only read comments.
ReplyDeleteDid I beat Em jay. To this one? Coming back to comment.
ReplyDeleteYou didn't... And pls don't try to compete with a jobless gal that ws fucked by twins.
DeleteSay what???
Delete'this chronicle would blow u away'.
ReplyDeleteI still stand gidigba. Hmm. Patiently waiting for the Breeze!
Abeg learn to write in such a way that someone will understand. E kon be like say I no no English again.
DeleteLOL comedians on this blog.
Delete*spreads mat* I dey com make I buy popcorn!
ReplyDeleteI am still speechless.l am yet to get over today's Fasholagate.
ReplyDeletePoster whatever you decides to do,donbe a babymama..
DeleteStella big nose da proud blognalist, fix it
ReplyDeleteYou're a case. Yeye boy abi man
Delete@ money makes......, lol. Na you fit Stella. She de eat comments anyhow.
DeleteDouble chief and guze lol.. funny names
ReplyDeleteU are the one in the relationship ma advice for is to advice your self
#amf**kingbored#
Kikikiki @ I dey corner dey read comments oooh.una too cuss me yesterday!
ReplyDelete*hisssss* . Stella sorry no mind them.
Get pregnant for double chief at your own peril. Ask for HIV test first before engaging in unprotected sex with anyone.
ReplyDeleteIf a man has good plans for you, you will know.
As for Guze, no one here is a witch or wizard, how you cast your wares is how they will price it. If you sell yourself cheap men will price you cheaply. You are not in a relationship with both of them, you are simply their sex partner. Have some self respect and esteem maybe you will meet a man who will value you
Poster
ReplyDeleteAm sure your Double Chief is Ini Edo's ex...
Biko leave that guy...
Someone that has been married to 2 women before...
Abeg ohh...run away! Unless you want to see what the other women saw in him...
Continue with Duze and do your home work with him wella...
Exactly ini edo's ex, he wants to use u to prove a point.
DeleteIf he is so serious he should marry u first before pregnancy.
Exactly d double is ini Edo's ex. Poster incase u don't know he was accused of not been man enuf to impregnate ini. He just wants to use u to experiment again. Better run from him. D Guze is your best bet. Even if he doesn't marry u, nothing spoil.
DeleteI bow for you people. Una don decode am already, no hiding place for this blog. Ha!
DeleteCharlieeee bia Anuty double chief u ain't the only one he is asking to have a baby for him. That's his lyric. And I guess u are in Ghana to school? why do I feel u are luring about bfrnd nub 2. Double chief don take breakfast in bed finish u abi? Receive Sense ijn
DeleteLol anon03:37 u follow eat breakfast in bed abi?
DeleteHawtbrowny
Lord help her!
ReplyDeleteBabe don't be a babymama..pls
Atleast make ur parents proud, unless u r the "an apple does not fall far from d tree" type.
So you need our permission to be a baby mama? What is wrong with some of these folks? Having unprotected sex with a man is risking your life. Maybe the reason Guze don't take you nowhere near family is because he knows you be yeye runz girl. My dear, you need Jesus to give you common sense. Who cares if Double Chief dated Beyonce! Respect yourself!
ReplyDeletena wa..
ReplyDeletethis english sef...
abeg im coming back
Like enh. U want to wreck someone's home? Geez
ReplyDeleteLemme book a space.... will come back later to comment
ReplyDeleteAna akosasi....
ReplyDeleteAsin ehn!!
DeleteAna akogheri
Poster n'ako aja mbele
Nne afukwana akuko ndi iberibe! Mtchew!
DeleteLet me be like one madam here
ReplyDeleteJESUS FIX IT
LMAOOOO
Buhahahahaha....@anony, u don kolo. My belle o....
DeleteNone of them but if u really want any of them, then give Guze time,he might introduce u to his parents and marry u.Communication matters a lot in a relationship.
ReplyDeleteNa wa!
ReplyDeleteThe hustle is real...
Shior!
All i see is a desperate lady ready to answer “mrs”.
ReplyDeleteWill come back to read comments
DeleteDear poster,dump these men and get busy with yourself,you are just their fuck mate.
Bamm
DeleteEhen Stella nwunye Kork isi gini? That the narrative will blow us away. Odiegwu, u can hype for Africa. *side eyes* dear poster, u dnt hv a problem. Sex has beclouded ur sense of reasoning dats all... Stop fucking dem n move on. Frm wot I see Double Chief isn't being sincere; d Cain he used in flogging d 1st wife, he wud use it t flog u too, as for Guze; he wud end up wt anoda woman. Shine ya eyes.
ReplyDeleteNo coherence in dis ur write up biko, wat a busy pussy kai
ReplyDeleteDouble chief
ReplyDelete*Yawns I am hungry please next.
ReplyDeleteY not ask d Guze guy what he really want from u, bc guys only take a gal home when de re convinced dt she is d one. Goodluck. As of d Chief, don't get preggy for him.
ReplyDeleteFirst, I think you're paranoid about ur bf. Sit and hv a conversation with him asking him what he wants. Place your cards on the table. If he's not making sense, then bail. But I think you shouldn't succumb to pressure. Let it flow.
ReplyDeleteThat double chic mofo idiot is gonna frustrate your life. I can't believe you're evening thinking of having a baby for him.
Madam, what is ur problem? Are you lonely or idle? Why not get something doing or intensify what you do?i see you're not sure of ur relationship with Guze and you're not confident enough to ask. I see u are desperate for an idle divorcee. No! You're not wise.
Please dump that double chief asap
First of all,go for English classes mschewww....you wan bring my head ni? this ur construction no b here..*side eyes* waiting on comments
ReplyDeleteEating maize and coconut. Wetin person no go read
ReplyDeleteI had a hard time reading this and got lost
ReplyDeleteSince this days is stand alone narrative, am going to give stand alone advice.
ReplyDeleteDear poster never Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ in your heart think of being a baby mama to him.from your write up, I dnt think the guy in question is ready to wife you. Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ need to end things with him before depression will have effect on.
On the hand try to know your stand with Guze. Have an open discussion wiith him.
Finally dnt be in an haste to make discision that can destroy your future and the life of your unborn children. Is not all about howfar,but how well.
Ha. I don't know what to say o.
ReplyDeleteMy dear stay wit ur Guze, knowing his family doesn't guarrante if he wil marry u,i dated my husband for 3yrs nd I didn't even for one day see or talked 2 his pple,na only him frnds nai I knwm it ws wen both parents ve 2 meet nd talk abt date nd marriage plans dt he got 2 see my parents nd me seeing his parents too,i ve a frnd. Dt. Dated her bf. For 7yrs both families knw each other nd at d end,they no marry
ReplyDeleteMy dear stay wit ur Guze, knowing his family doesn't guarrante if he wil marry u,i dated my husband for 3yrs nd I didn't even for one day see or talked 2 his pple,na only him frnds nai I knwm it ws wen both parents ve 2 meet nd talk abt date nd marriage plans dt he got 2 see my parents nd me seeing his parents too,i ve a frnd. Dt. Dated her bf. For 7yrs both families knw each other nd at d end,they no marry
ReplyDeletemadam, ill suggest you stick to Guze cos he seems like the more reasonable one...chief has a kid and is a womanizer...if chief really wants a baby, he should put a ring on it first.... but what do i know!
ReplyDeleteDid I hear you say get pregnant for double chief and get married? Kikikikikikikiki...I'm so amused. Try it nah let's see what will happen. See you see baby mama status. I don't even have anything to tell you abeg
ReplyDeleteEating maize and coconut. Wetin person no go read
ReplyDeleteEBELEBE,OOOOOOOOOOO!!!
ReplyDeletelemme sit and eat my sweet EKURU AND EKO !!!
*keeping mum*
ReplyDeleteAka na onu,piiim!
sis na u know o
ReplyDelete#GODWIN™
Stella ohhhh,!! I laughed so hard at your comment. I think say cuss no dey enter ur body?The fear of ur BV's is the beginning of wisdom.
ReplyDeleteReading comments is the surest thing to do 2day.
ReplyDeleteLolz@una 2curse me yesterday.....mehn dis is deep. Will wait for d xpert to giv der advice, nd lern frm em.
ReplyDeleteThank Goodness it's not one of those my fiancee ggot a girl pregnant chronicle, stories lik that has made sdk single Ladies add Supa glue to d padlock of the door of their hearts, poster, abeg use ini mini myni mo
ReplyDeletePlease stick with Guze, Use woman tactics to get him to let u meet his parents or just simply talk about it with him. Leave double chief alone sounds like plenty brouhaha ,he wont marry u (I.M. O ) You'll just be one of his one chance baby mama's!
ReplyDeleteMaybe double chief wants to add you to the no of his baby mama's I don't like the likes of him, my 2 cent is "stick with guze he is young and promising,let your love with him grow maybe then something can happen as per marriage"
ReplyDeleteDouble chief. Guze is a longer throat! Or wait entirely for another man.
ReplyDeleteNothing mind-blowing here mbok!
ReplyDeleteConfused
ReplyDeleteThis chronicle no get meaning at all, y should I be the one to tell u if u should get preggy for a man.
ReplyDeleteHahahaha I love ds stella of a madam she knows how to crack me up
ReplyDeleteWhat's ds one saying?mtchwww biko zuzuru shi nga fuo
I hardly comment on posts but I'm sorry you're something else. Why are you selling yourself so short?
ReplyDeleteFirstly, why would guze marry you when you aren't true to him especially with a divorcee. Secondly, why would you want to carry a baby for man that hasn't married you? ltr you'll cry foul!
When will we women understand that marriage isn't the ultimate. It isn't when you are with the right guy not to talk of with the wrong guy. My advice to you is to take time off and find yourself. You are obviously confused about what you want out of life. You're desperate. Stay away from both and work on yourself.
A man that wants will treat you like a queen . You won't have to question the things he does or yet to do. Abo oro la n so fun omoluabi, to ba de inu e a dodindi.
you are between the devil and the red sea. Guze is not taking you to Mama.
ReplyDeleteDouble chief wants you to have children for him and wants to marry you.
stella refused to comment because dem don dey abuse her too much and she come see say the thing dey pepper for body.
me too come dey look anya anya so which one i go talk now. the two of them no be akanchawa.
my dear .. just leave them. God will bring your own husband come.
Abeg there is no devil here and there is no blue sea ,this is common sense ,she should know that double chief ini edo s ex is a no no and focus on guse abi gwazo ,sit him down and let him define your relationship with him ,first ask him why you have not met his mum and family and if he keeps giving excuses abeg dump his ass or keep him on reserve and go fishing you are still young dont put all your eggs in one basket .my mum use to say in igbo if you know how to pound pound in the mortar if you dont know how to pound ,pound on the ground i think this proverb is better in igbo language.am out
DeleteDouble Chief should be called double thief abeg. What a flimsy excuse to give to give you belle & you sef I troway salute for you...continue knacking without condom inugo? HIV/AIDS is a myth in your dictionary obviously.
ReplyDeleteDo you have a future with the divorcee? I doubt it cos if you have, he would have made his intentions clear when he made the pregnancy proposal. Do you have a future with bf2? Maybe, maybe not. Just know that even if he takes you to see his ancestors, he can still dump you so he taking you to visit his mother as a yardstick to measure marriage proposal possibility should be discarded.
Goodluck, tie your legs like mermaid & hope for the best (keep your options open to)
My dear,men are very different to understand u can never know what dey have up their sleeves.
ReplyDeleteMy advice try and talk to Gaze and find out where the rlshp is headed lol.
Honestly I don't understand why you are putting yourself in a fix,have you given a thought that you mind just end up being one amongst many,after giving in to Double Chief's wish?
ReplyDeleteConcerning Guze,maybe it is that he is not seeing what he really wants from you,hence his not introducing you to his mum and sisters.
Don't be in a haste by giving in to pressures that might make you end in regrets later,take it easy and build yourself and allow God to perfect all that concerns you.
NB:Guys who give you 80% of what you ask from them,can't be stingy givers so they are cheerful ones.
Poster.you want to use one stone to kill two bird.......
ReplyDeletePoster, read the memes from yesterday's post and advise yourself
ReplyDeleteDear Naija Women
ReplyDeleteALL OF YOU ARE MOSTLY HOES AND/OR HOE SUPPORTERS?
If it were to have been a man's transgressions you will all start abusing us and calling us dogs, goats, and other derogatory names... DIARIS GOD O!
Now one o our mates is doing the hoe thing as usual, you guys are not surprised.
So this is how all of you double date abi?
I will be nacking all and sundry after this honeymoon phase is over.
Just as far as big booty and wont be trying to take my wife spot.
Trust I will double the condom. Bruh, these hoes aint loyal
How old are you? This must be a child here. Run along little one.
DeleteYou are on a long thing
ReplyDeleteNa comments i come read.
ReplyDeleteI suspected Ini's ex hubby, he has 8 yrs old son from bla bla bla.
ReplyDeletePoster- As a BV said here, run for your life and that DOuble Chief alone. Do you really know why you're on this planet? Don't even try to be a baby Mama to anybody no matter the sweet mouth/promises. Double Chief can never marry YOU till morrow and even if he does, you'll be an ex soon, so leave him.
- Even the GUZE might not marry you period. Why! He's focus and you are what?
No job and you wanna jump into money and milk the poor guy without adding VALUE to your life, my friend get a JOB and build yourself if you really want GUZE to wife you. You wanna trap them with SEX, odi-eshi for some men o.
Don't be confused my dear, tie your legs together.
HIGH CHIEF IS FROM THE EASTERN PART OF NIGERIA.
ReplyDeleteDouble chief.
DeleteOwuya! She lied. It's ini edo's ex husband
DeleteThe Golden Tulip gave this narrative away..This double Chief is Ini Edo's husband Philip..Stella you reported that Philip's husband was living in Ghana right?Golden Tulip is in Accra and Kumasi..
ReplyDeleteI dont care about giving advise...I just wanted you Stella to know that me too i have decoded
Please post my comments and dont use it to make jollof..thanks
Lmaoooooooo
DeleteMSTEEEEEEEEEW
ReplyDeleteBLOW ME AWAY? NEGODU!
POSTER, YOU DON'T HAVE A PROBLEM
DUMP DOUBLE CHIEF AND CONCENTRATE ON GUZE
Make I listen to more comment o.
ReplyDeleteMama Stellz, lol. None of them is ready. Don't marry love oooo, marry money. After money, love will come.
ReplyDeleteAbeg today chronicle be as he be, i no fit read joor.
ReplyDeleteWell, I was blown away.
ReplyDeleteThanks.
Okbye.
about d atheist that said there is no Jesus,I pray u discover the true path b4 rapture,ur case is worst than that of this blown away narrative poster.
ReplyDeleteI say she is blown away bcos her narrative no fit blow me away.
Ehen,poster,listen,u are 26yrs,I am advising u,do no let the pressure from ur folks make u take wrong decisions about YOUR own life bcos na only you go suffer the consequences alone.
dump both men please,DUMP THEM BOTH! I repeat.
Get a job to have respect and feel useful,take time to love urself, u sound like someone that can't do without men.
these men will hurt you oh! hmmmmmm
Oge okoye hubby.
ReplyDeleteYou are filled with fear.stop dating both
ReplyDeletelearn to love yourself and ask God for direction. Follow Lady Igo advice to single ladies and 7day fast on this blog. There is high probability the unprotected sex is for rituals. Being that u all r foreigners in that land its also a high probability. Both guys know each other n know u have. Dating them. Thus u r not wife material. Fast n break urself from I all. Can the other give an account how he built his house? Keep bx used n wallow in poverty
To the atheist that said there is no Jesus,I pray for you to discover the true path before rapture,because ur case is worse than that of the blown away poster.
ReplyDeleteI say she is blown away bcos she is confused.
Ehen, dear poster,pls listen,do not allow pressure from folks to make u take decisions that will make u suffer for life.
Dump these two men,They are not worth it.
Get a job,get busy, love urself, take ur time,u are 26yrs,there are wonderful men out there that will value u and be proud of u,the first thing u nid right now is a job,not man man man,pls.
goodluck.
Dump them both,I repeat!
Get a Job or at least be on Guze to either connect you or open a small business for you .
ReplyDeleteBe independent .
That should be ur imminent goal
Only when you have achieved this can u start thinking of mArriage .
Oh and if per adventure the chief doesn't marry you after Uve birthed his child ?what then? am sure tying a noose on his neck and dragging him to the alter would do the trick ...
must there be a condition though to his marrying you ? Remeber single mothers have the hardest time settling down ..so use ur tongue to count ur teeth
Mrs Decoder!!!! Happy decoding. Advise is what she wanted not you decoding. Abi u wish it was you? Bet you won't want it.
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