Nigerian-American footballer Osi Umenyiora who got married to the 2011 Miss Universe, Leila Lopes on Friday, 29th May 2015 has been outed on instagram by the woman he dated for a long time but didnt marry.
See their munched chats below....
OH WOOOOOW..I feel dizzy from all this ish..I feel so sorry for this woman calling out Osi.I feel sorry for Osi if he is in love with one and married another,I feel so sorry for the woman who was married and knows nothing about this drama.I hope this doesnt affect them,they look so good together!
May God have mercy.
ReplyDeleteShow me a man that is not sliding when it comes to women at the end of the day.all men cheats only some do it with decency and outgrow it as they get older in marriage . ya the wife is okay with it so pull over crazy ass side chick u mean that's why he didn't marry u.
DeleteSame reason some girls get dump they have issues the guys have seen but won't tel them.
It's well jare.
Come on! He's an NFL player! Did Leila think she could honestly have him alone? Not possible. Wetin she get? No books no nyash, just pretty face, and you will tell this full blooded very rich Igbo man not to look outside? Abeg
DeleteBeautiful couple.
DeleteSide chick, kpele........your own man will locate u.
See gobe!!!!
ReplyDeleteNo be small gobe... Choi.... I pity Leila. He married u but he does not love u.
DeleteBiggest give oo
DeleteNa wa! Here comes another insta drama.. When will this calling out on instagram end? Sorry to the babe that was jilted, just take heart, love will find you again and this time it will be alter bound and for good..
ReplyDeleteI was in d midst of some elderly friends recently and dey were arguing about sidechicks(if u wanto play outside)....some said u cld get one gf outside n dat'l reduce d stress n burden of multiple sex partners,but one guy(which I support) said if u must do it don't av a gf,arrange one night stands n pay dem if u av to..if u av a gf ,as time goes on emotions will creep in n u cld both get carried away n it'l affect ur home,u'l feel comfortable with her dat u'l start doing it without condom which u'l not do with sarewagbas dey arrange for u(no more contacts afterwards)
DeleteI still don't understand why a man with a wife still has a girlfriend, if u want to fuck random girls that is even more honorable than keeping one girl. As what? What is your aim? And these kind of men even have the guts to demand monogamy and faithfulness. Useless men.
DeleteHow people sit down and think of ways to complicate their lives further is beyond me!
DeleteMadam for house na lifelong assignment, person go come they look for wetin again, abeg too many horror stories about wetin checking out don cause!
Ghen Ghen!!!!....
ReplyDeleteMen men men!!!!...
We women should stop carrying this men on our head....that's why I always advise married and single girls to stop keeping one man....this niggas are not loyal at all...
Haba Linda! Y talk like dis? I just hope u joking sha
DeleteThey ain't loyal at all.......
DeleteLinLin Nne, I love reading your comments....I si na, we all need to start keeping more than one man??? Asin start cheating??? Ewwww....Nne idi too much....But nne, it is not by keeping multiple sex partners o....After 10yrs of marriage I can deal with my hubby with my both hands tied behind....It is all in d heart....Na obi Ka o di....Multiple sex partners shows u sef wan die quick....I love my life scaaarrrrrrra, I love you LinLin more as Ada-Anambra but nne some of ur idealogies I disagree with.
Deletelol. for ur mind. when e set now u go start to dey cry me a river
DeleteThis woman is just a losser, Osi has been dating his wife for long. So she practically accepted to be the side chick !
ReplyDeleteExactly! When they were dating, they didn't make it a secret. Even their engagement wasn't hidden. The babe is just seeking for attention. She accepted to be a side chick believing Osi will dump the wife for her. Ntorrrrrr for her!
DeleteStella abeg he's not in love with the first woman,he wants to eat his cake with good wife and continue anal sex with his white gf.
ReplyDeleteThat is the tragedy of marrying or loving the average Nigerian man.I can't imagine how painful it is to love someone for ages and he dumps you,gets engaged to another and still tries to be in your life.She's in a lot of pain
Leila should have stuck to marrying her village man or someone from her country.
She don enter..hope he won't pass any diseases to her.
Make she no divorce am yet..let her wait some years then clear his account.That's the best punishment.
Useless man..their honeymoon will be inside lagoon.
Lol @ lagoon hehehehehe
DeleteUseless comment..Who said he doesnt love his wife? He dated her for years before marrying her and u think love is not involved? U no get sense..
DeleteShe should've married from her country? As if naija women no dey marry from other countries too..
Be there dey tell her to divorce her husband while their love soar..She aint gojng nowhere,side chick or no pained ex..Deal with it madam advicer..mtcheeeeew.
Yet another Instadrama!
ReplyDeletePhew!
Just negodu?
Reducing yourself to nuisance level on top of what?
He jilted you and married another
Let him go!
Dust yourself and move on and stop winning like a wet cat
Jeez!
A lot of women have really lost this thing called self Worth, self value, self esteem.
Na wa!
The so called Osy just wants to eat his cake and still have it.
DeleteAnd madam liesofmirror be encouraging him
Her mirror is truly lying to her that she is one with sense.
Smh
Yea...in as much as I detest wot Osi did and have opined it
DeleteNow I come to u madam mirror something something...
Lemme summarize for u (just incase u don't understand wot u just did)
U were dating an already-engaged man who happend to be Ur former bf(buh in ya mind,stil ya bf)
AnD its soo hard for u to accept d position u accorded yaself....dat of à Sidechick!
U played d gamble buh lost!
U tot He would chose u over her in d end...
Move on and be smarter and wiser next time.ok?
AintNoTimeToReadThat !
ReplyDeleteNext pleeeaaassseeee !!
Cheat!
ReplyDeleteYou left her and engaged another y coming back to beg her and talk about love.
Mtcheew.
But madam what did u gain by doing this shit on instagram?
A cheat will always cheat even if you are miss planet.
Hmmmm! Men are unpredictable.
ReplyDeleteThis is sick...they jst got married a few days ago na
ReplyDeleteLack of self control is the major downfall of every man or woman!!
ReplyDeleteThis right here is nasty.. Don't even want to believe it.
Oh btw,her gown is beautiful! Wow!
ReplyDeleteGorgeous couple.
Na wa oo.
ReplyDeleteHope this is not the footballer that was linked with Lilian Esoro recently.
The comments though.lol, one said Leila should leave with the unwrapped wedding gifts
Shey Una don hear am??? Ladies let your hearts and heads be strong ooooo, so that men no go fit do Una jibiti obo!
ReplyDeleteTell dem oh...hehehehehe.
DeleteMen!!!!! Is there any man that truely and really does not cheat. I feel sorry for women.
ReplyDeleteOsi is an animal.Damn!
ReplyDeleteI keep saying it, side chick has d Ultimate power to make or Mar any relationship if u let them imagine a man having one side chick while he dated 7 different girls and finally married the 8th one and it's still same side chick...... Na who gain na who loose? That's d case of dis liesofmirror babe. Always asking for more when u know all u will ever be is a side chick........
ReplyDeleteSide chicks no get any damn power..dey dia dey deceive urself..Dis shit up there wont break Osi's marriage..I can bet my Igbo arse on dat..D side chic is d one loosing.
Deleteall men cheat
ReplyDeleteAny woman that believes
her man has never cheated on her,
is on a loooong thing
Lmao@ she should leave with the wrapped wedding gifts
All these long long story dem,instagram has suffered
ReplyDeleteThis is wat happens when men deceives to disrespect their partner
ReplyDeleteI am not going to attack this lady but Osi
I know most women will attack the lady and forget who the real monster/dog is which Osi
How can he have a beautiful woman and still go after another even till a week to his wedding!
He should be the one to be blasted here and not the lady coz he was the one that asked her out,told her he loved her more than his wife and all shits
If he knw he was not going to be fully committed to one woman then why bother!
You ladies that attack your fellow ladies and not the cheating men are the reason men "will always be men" keep making excuses for them
Both @Osy and @ liesofmirror are as stupid as they come.
DeleteEven if Osy kept urging her , claiming he still loves her, can't @ liesofmirror get a grip of herself seeing that he is getting married to another yet claiming to really love her? That alone should tell her he is just using her to satisfy his selfish Sexual cravings
Truth is, @liesofmirror has no self worth.
she must be mentally unstable or prolly just messed up.
No right thinking woman will ever allow herself to be used like a piece of rag.
Common sense ought to tell her that if he truly did love her, no obstacle would have prevented their union except if its life threatening.
And even at that, she ought to hands off the relationship in a clean way. Not subjecting herself to be a fuckmate.
Common sense is like deodorant, those who need it most never use it. Body odour everywhere. Mtcheww!
Leila is the only one I pity. She got married to a dickhead
Osy is pathetic but what do we call a woman who hangs around a man who is engaged? It was no secret!! i don't get it, i am too proud to be sneaking around with someone when i can get mine?? Hoping and praying he breaks up with her so i can have him all to myself!! Low self esteem and identity crises.#notime#
DeleteUnfortunately,plans backfired so who is hurt? who feels stupid? who feels used? who is the loser? If he loved the side chic that much, why didn't he call off the engagement?
My point is never play second fiddle and know your self worth, she is an adult, she could have taken a walk with her head high but she chose to listen to lies.She should lick her wounds and move on, better luck next time.
Whirlwind...Exactly!
DeleteShe played d game and lost!
and may i Add dat Osi was right to say she was sick....
Pardon me buh only à sick woman wil play second fiddle and "love" a man who Left u to marry anoda!
CHAI....dis babe needs plenty classes in self esteem,walking away and holding her Head high up.....
Their pikin go over fine .bvs pls do u know a very good local amala joint in Lagos ,will be in nig next wk .i don't mind distance will go anywhere for it pls. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteShitta in surulere. Ask anybody where amala spot de.........
DeleteBelgium joint in Festac/ Amuwo. I used to remove my ID while duty then, sneak into Belgium with my colleagues to swallow amala....Good ol'dayz.
DeleteBelgium in mile2 estate...
DeleteThe one n only amala spécialist on Akerele road...just around Havana Hospital.S/L.
DeleteCant remember her name at d MO....
Akerele o....iya ola... Trust me, that woman De wash put and I still drive down to akerele to buy her amala....
DeleteYou won't regret it....so, Tgw you know iya ola too? Amala of life!!!!!!
Her rice and stew nko? Pregnant womens cravings....
All I see is his very beautiful wife!
ReplyDeleteHmmm see gobe! Men n dia long thing always in battle. When will it stop?
ReplyDeleteOfe egusi
ReplyDeleteOfe nsala
Ofe ogbono
Ofe Ede
Ofe oha
Ofe okro
Dese men want t taste all kinds yet dey can Neva b satisfied!
Whew! God bless me wt a faithful man. I hate t share!
Ofe mmanu
DeleteWhy didn't she expose the chats before he tied the knot? He's married already. Please move on. It's not news anymore that men cheat.
ReplyDeleteMumu girl..osi can say "I love u" to u a million times just to keep fucking u till u go old n no man will want u again. A man had sex with u n u catch feelings immediately, u dey craze!! Fuck me I fuck u! If it works out fine! If it doesn't move onto d next.
ReplyDelete1 million likes....
DeleteGbaaaaaammmmest!
DeleteDis Umenyiora's are very controversial.
ReplyDeleteFrom Igwe Umenyiora himself to Dilly and Osi....I never see.
Well.some of dem.not all.
DeleteObiamaka isnt.
Lol dilly fuck you and dumb you? Nne sorry . Hope you got an suv like other of his side chics?
DeleteMy take on this ish.....the side chick sounds like a dude. It may be osy is bisexual or gay. He is just marrying for face value and can't really reveal he is gay. Why the side chick keeps saying its all smoke and mirrors. Just a feeling I have.
ReplyDeleteU make sense die
DeleteI feel so much pain. My boo plays in Europe ,told me he's got a white chick he'll soon dump for me. I feel so much pain cos he won't let me date another yet won't acknowledge me publicly. He gets furious when he sees other guts comments yet won't comment on mine. I feel depressed cos each time he's with her, he pings to tell me how sad he feels. He says he loves me so much& I love him equally but I'm scared of all the what ifs. What if he dumps me after making me lose other good guys? I'm in tears
ReplyDeleteYou would fall In love again . Don't let him tie u down with empty promises . Be smart !
DeleteReceive sense in your medulla obolongata...
DeleteAkuko Mike Ejeagha!
DeleteNne Berra borrow some sense and RUN!
Inukwa holding u hostage
Oh Chim
Receive sense!!!
DeleteSmall time now, you go send chronicle to Stella.
Lol.......let me add my own!
DeleteOya recieve sense in your dead brain!!!
My dear I know u
DeleteU are dating Kenneth umerouo right from when he was playing locally in Nigeria.
U refused to marry uba okeke because of Kenneth, let me not call your name but u are fair and pretty your younger Bros is the boy in the family and your father is late. ......
When I heard u refused to marry uba cause of ken I laughed. ......stop sleeping in a bicycle
Wake up.
Smh at this ur comment. Just follow ur heart, if u love him enough, and trust that he won't dump u at the end of d day then stay, but if u have one tiny doubt, even if d doubt is as tiny as a mustard seed, then Pls leave him right now and hook up with a good guy. I just don't get we ladies, we choose to see d good in bad situations/relationships. Good guys are coming ur way but u choose to stick with an European "futballer". Nne is it cos of d euro he sends to u? Pls use ur brain now that it's functioning oh, before it stops working. Don't mess up ur future for any man. Most of dem are just packs of shit. They ain't worth it. (even though der are some good once).
DeleteNo b small how much sad he feels and his 3rd will still stand attention for the white babe abi? Pls madam move on with ur life,dont let him tie u down,he knows u dont have a staand for urself that is y he is confusing ur brain. If he lloves u dat much,he knows what to do. Better run now that guys are still finding you attractive
DeleteI need help asap. What do I do, fellow bvs before it turns into chronicles? I'm so worried,I'm hurting secretly . I'm pretty&run my own biz but love this guy madly.! Telling me to borrow some sense isn't too helpful . Whose sense should I borrow? Tgw?
DeleteYour boo is selfish! He want to eat his cookies and have it.
DeleteBetter jump and pass now before how I wish I know!
Shutup you don't know anything, even if you do still shutup. She doesn't need you to bring her business here.
DeleteIt's so sad that people won't give good advises without insults? Why @mrs fine face, what do u really know about me? When will Bvs learn to advise from their hearts? The Osi story got me worried hence sending this sos but what do I get? Borrow some sense. Is that the best y'all can give? It's pathetic! I need your sincere opinions on this,Bvs
DeleteAnon 17:18... I get you.
DeleteIt was the same with me until the said girl had two kids for him. He married her, yet he calls me and says I am the love of his life.
The day my eyes were opened, I went to the corner shop and bought two bottles of vodka plus 3 packets of cigarettes. I have never drank or smoked like that in my life.
Like BV's said.. I borrowed sense, after my spirit and soul went through a lot torments and I moved on. It took me one year and a half to get over him. One year I disciplined myself to try not to contact him, the remaining 6 months, I used to convince myself that we will NEVER be.
Babe. ... its a very difficult process, but if someone cannot acknowledge you in public, there is zero chance of him ending up with you. You will suffer and lose out in the end.
PS: We dated for over 8 years.
So I say walk away.... With your head high, grieve privately, give yourself time before you know it you will find yourself again.
Now I am in a very happy relationship. I never thought I could meet someone who would love me just the way I am. He worships the floor I walk on and we will be getting married soon. It took me time yes, I fought my fiance off, I was lethargic and couldn't be bothered. He wooed me for 6 months, he was patient, loving and understanding. In the end the love he had for me overcame my fears, pain and anger. I never thought I could love like this again.
You can do it my sister, believe me. I just like you am self made woman who just needed love. So you can. You are beautiful and you deserve the best. Good luck. Xx
Ur name go soon turn to sorry..Keep loving him mumuishly...come borrow my baby's sense..Mumu raised to power 100..we go soon read ur cronicle here..Ewu!
DeleteAnon 17:18. Thanks so much for your kind words, I'm truly grateful. Glad you've been in my shoes before& can relate. I know it'll be difficult but I'll have to move on. God bless all
DeleteChizoba, you seem like someone who's in a bad marriage. You haven't given anyone a good advise as a married woman on this blog! Borrow some sense too cos u need it more
DeleteChizoba, you seem like someone who's in a bad marriage. You haven't given anyone a good advise as a married woman on this blog! Borrow some sense too cos u need it more
DeleteWhy wait till after the wedding to expose this. Abeggy anyone can make up a chat abd include names. He loves you more but married someone else, rest o madam side chic. The chat don't mean shit,jezebels everywhere waiting to steal,kill and destroy. You have been with him for over a decade according to the chat,he engaged leila publicly for over a year but you said nothing till two days after their wedding. If people believe this made up trash then they'd believe anything. Idiotas
ReplyDeleteChaaaaaaai
ReplyDeleteSo much to take in
ReplyDeleteSerious psychological drama.
Osi has damaged this woman.
He also came off sounding like a very confused man. He doesn't know what he wants. He's actually wasting his life(these men are the kind you should avoid)
This mirrors woman, I don't want to judge her cause I'm not Angolan, could be that in their country, they out cheating men immediately. But y normal standards, if you claim to love him and like Leila, is it not a disservice to them for you to bring out this whole thing thereby disgracing Leila and Osi? If you approve of their marriage, should you do this?
Is it that she is finally tired of keeping things bottled?
Or does she want to finally end it by airing it in public so Osi gets angry and leaves her the f**k alone?
I've not been able to fathom her motive. But whatever is going on is not as simple as we think 2 simply abuse Osi or abuse her.
Something very serious must have kept them apart. (like in Nigeria, falling in love with a cousin or uncle) or being a woman who has no womb. He's an NFL player, he can't be after Leila's money or just image. So, the big question is, why can't he marry this woman who he obviously loves in a twisted way? And why is she not very bitter and accepting his decision stoically?
There is certainly a reason.
Osi too loves Leila Perhaps but in the way you love a fresh, pretty, chatty young girl that looks wonderful with you while you're going out. A woman you can possess and who will birth beautiful kids with you. Appropriate
But once the freshness of the relationship fades, that child-like brilliance will turn to irritation and you will return to the woman your destiny is tied with. Whose stars were laid with yours from time immemorial(lmao, drama)
Just look at the situation with Prince Charles, Diana and Camilla Parker Bowles. This is the same exact situation. Camilla and Charles loved each other with immense fire, passion, d kind that cannot be explained. They had loved each other even before she married and during it. Marriage couldn't change it for them. She couldn't forget him nor he her. Obviously, they tried. In comes pretty innocent Diana, most appropriate wife and beautiful rose of England, fit for the throne as the future Queen yet Charles never could love her. He might have had affections for her at the beginning but the marriage was dead on arrival. The more Diana tried, the more Charles couldn't. Finally, what happens? Camilla (who infact followed to choose n approved of Diana) still came into the mix. Any problem the couple had, Camilla was aware. He runs back to her everytime. Fast forward 2015, Diana Spencer is dead. Camilla Parker is lying in bed with Charles as we type. This is to show you this kind of love. It's very hard to break and it doesn't respect marriage oh.
After all what this girl did on instagram. Osi won't leave her alone. He won't marry her but he's obsessed with her. She is with him(but wants to think she's mature) n he even knows that she's happy she has power over him. Her hold over him is too much. Leila, the wife is the intruder in this thing, this twisted game they're playing.
Don't be suprised if she marries, Osi will be mad. May even weep. He sounds like he can't even help himself. They can't stop this thing. Mark my words. Best thing is 4 Leila to take a walk very soon(if this is what I think it is). Some people will say she should fight for her man and marriage, there is no fighting that can save this situation. He will cut all contact with her for now but some day, some month, some year, they'll meet again and it will be like the very first time. Sad but true.
Spot on!!!
DeleteI love ur comments.
I'm in love with your mind... If you didn't know it before, now you know.
DeleteSpeechless!!
Sad truth!
DeleteThanks Princess scheherazade
DeleteAnd ChyAda
God bless.
Also thank you for condoning my epistle oh.
It's not easy sometimes.
Even for me.
Lol.
Wey my reply to BN's comment ooo?
DeleteCHAI....see epistle Wey I type
I an officially a fan Bonaparte,you are too good. I can just imagine the scenario you just described. For Leila,i believe life goes on.
DeleteThis is so true....Only few people can understand this type of love
DeleteThis is Soo true Bonaparte! This type is feeling is stronger than the basic love. Reminds me of me & 'him'
DeleteSpot on Bonaparte.. Bia hope you're not my child hood best friend who also bears Bonaparte.. That guy is a genius..
DeleteThe general's wife: haahaaaahaaaaaa
DeleteSorry oh. That thing can be painful.
@ OyIN, Anon 19:41, 23:38
True. It's very complex. Even to complex for the participants not to talk of observers. Ure right.
@orela... lol. only that i'm female and not a genius in any way.
His wife is beautiful,side chick move on
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
ReplyDelete.
That lady is so damn stupid.....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Osi u lying,despicable scumbag of a whore ! U piece of shit !!! I hate you!! U represent all that is wrong with our men today .
ReplyDeleteU two timing bastard ,how heartbroken Leila must feel ...oh lord mend her heart
Hmmmmmmn! See Gobe
ReplyDelete@bonaparte what's the long epistle for !!! Wtf !!!
ReplyDeleteIt's for you to read or move on...
DeleteLoooolll
DeleteI am not the silly anon above although i felt same as well until i scrolled down and saw the positive replies made to your post. your reply to this anon reminds me of a blogpost i read some months back. where people tend to ignore positive comments but reply negative ones. next tim @bonaparte nn wont it be better to ignorr the negative ones and appreciate the lovely replies you got? xx
Deletebtw im just saying ;)
You're actually right @anon
DeleteI'm sorry.
I know you're just saying and it's within your right to. I appreciate positive comments and some negative comments too but sometimes if you bask in the positive too much, it may seem you're feeling 'too tech'
However(i have not scrolled up to what I typed)
But thanks for your advice.
I wonder oh...As if we no know how men can lie to their side chicks just to get free fuck..All i know is dat Osi could be lieing and deceiving d sad bitch just to keep her by d side and still keep his wifey..I love u ko..u are d one i want ni...Liar liar pant on fire..Men can lie for africa.
DeleteWHY ARE SOME MEN NOT LOYAL??
ReplyDeleteCan't deal o jare!
BEautiful Beautiful Bride!
Side chicks forever wanting to feel relevant.
ReplyDeleteIf he loves you that much, don't you think he would have married you? Be there fooliNG yourself.
Loser!
ReplyDeleteSide chick for life
Bitter soul.
Cry me an ocean
Sorry bitch,if he loves you that much, he should have wifed you instead.
Bye felicia.
They must talk
ReplyDeleteTgw and anon thank u for the amala joints xx.
ReplyDeleteLooking at the picture, it's pretty obvious she's more into him....
ReplyDeleteLooking at the picture, it's pretty obvious she's more into him....
ReplyDeleteNah living Nollywood story this. Maybe why he was not smiling so much in his wedding photos, I thought it odd that a newly married man would be so stern in his photos. I truly hope it is all a lie, no new bride deserves this shit. We ladies cannot enter relationships without first seeking divine guidance, none of us knows the heart of a man, only God can save us from heartbreak and unfit unions. Leila made such a beautiful bride and you could see all the joy on her face how happy she was to marry the man of her heart. May God be with them during these trying times.
ReplyDeleteAnon with the European bf.
ReplyDeleteHe was with the white girl when you met him, and instead of respecting the relationship, you were hoping he will dump her for you. Now the guy has you right were he wants you, enjoying his love life, and string you along to enjoy when he comes to home for breaks.
Him getting angry upon seeing your interaction with other guys is not out of love but selfishness. Yes he is going to make you lose out on other good guys. If the other girl is willing to fight for love, then you are on a very long thing, because all you'll be doing is fighting until you get frustrated.
If a guy really wants to be with you, he won't string you along, he will pick YOU over her. If you want to continue to wait for him to see weather or not he will leave her then continue to do so at your own risk.
Bottom line, people should stop trying to break up other people's relationships out of selfishness. You are going through pain right now, but you don't care about the pain the other girl will go through if he leaves her because of you. Allow her to enjoy her relationship and go find your own guy, else you will continue to suffer over something that may or may never happen.