Chronicles Of Blog Visitor Narratives.

Na wah..Did you say ignorance kills?....yeah right,knowing too much kills faster!

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

SNOOPING GONE WRONG

Dearest Stella I greet you. Hope you good. I'm a regular BV and I truly need your help and that of my fellow BVS. Here's my story.

I am married to a very loving husband until recently I noticed some changes. At first I considered it one of those times when he is enveloped in his work or stress as the case may be, but unlike him this time he refused to talk about it. I became worried and so for the first time in 5years of marriage I decided to join the team snoop.

 I went through his phone, facebook, bbm and wassap and found nothing so I went for his mails. I was shock when I found out he is dating a girl named Bimbo. In the mail He even rented a house for her and they were planning a trip to the UK for a short holiday. I went mad with anger. Copied the address of the new apartment which she sent to him and decided to pay her a visit. (Note: in the address she simply stated that she eventually paid for the 2bedroom they talked about in a particular area, no number).

 2months later I located the place with 2 thugs, asked around for a certain Bimbo and I directed to a dark slim beautiful girl. They dragged her into the car to an uncompleted building a gave her the beating of her life. She was left with a broken arm and leg. I paid the guys off, left her there and on my way home sent hubby a text to go stay with his disabled Bimbo.

 I got home and when hubby return he demanded explanations for my msg which I gave without fear or remorse. To my surprised he just laughed and asked me to go look for her and beg her to forgive me that he has never slept with any other woman since we got married. Well it resulted in a family meeting involving both parents and he kept denying it. Until last week when hubby invited both family that he must confess.

 Stella I got the shock of my life. 

Hubby confessed in front of all that he's GAY. The said Bimbo is a guy. When no one seemed to believe him he showed pictures. The guy is currently in the UK, and worse is he opened the mail I saw and it was sent far back 2013. Hubby said he broke up with him and since then he's been praying against such life style.

Now i am the most confused being on earth, Hubby left since the confession day and has not returned home, I've not slept knowing I've done something so terrible to an innocent girl. Please BVS help me I truly need your advice as i am almost loosing it. Thanks Stella for posting. God bless you.

HE WHO COMES TO EQUITY MUST DO SO WITH CLEAN HANDS!

You see why i frown against snooping?It never ends in Praise..Shame on all of you who snoop and encourage snooping.Mscheeew!.. 

Let #Teamsnoop advice you on what to do,i am so pissed!
let me think!!!!!

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

BLOWING THE WHISTLE  ON A 'SISTER'

 Stella 

My conscience is killing me, my god sister (my god mother's daughter) is frustrating my life! She threatens me almost on a daily basis, slaps me at will all because I told her I can't keep her secret anymore, lying to her mum (who is responsible for my education btw) is tearing me apart.

I lost my parents and my twin brother when I was 13 and in SS2...I moved in with my god mother and she has been nothing but good to me. If not for my physical appearance, you will never believe she's not my mother. She treats me equally with her kids, I go on vacations with them and I'm currently in one of the private universities in the country with her daughter  but this daughter of hers hates me because according to her, her mum loves me more than her.

To show my god mother my appreciation for the good life she's given me, I study extremely hard to make good grades and by God's grace I've never had a C but somehow her daughter saw it as me trying to steal her mother's love and affection for her.

 I swallow all her insults and assault for peace to reign and I even wash and iron her clothes when we are in school. 

The problem now is, we are in our final year now and she won't be graduating with us. She stopped paying school fees and writing exams since our 200level first semester and her mum doesn't know about it she still sends her school fees and pocket money. All she does now is throw parties and spend her school fees on her numerous boyfriends. I have begged and threatened to report her to her mother if she doesn't change....She in turn reported me to her notorious cultist boyfriend and they've been making life miserable for me. They've threatened to kill  me if her mother ever finds out. 

I called their bluff and they showed me what they are capable of with an incident that left a huge scar on me.

Keeping secrets and not been truthful to the woman that has done so much for me is killing me. If my god mother ever finds out and  that I knew all along, I doubt she'll ever forgive me. 

I am so confused and troubled and it's affecting me badly, I feel like I'll just explode one day. 

What do I do now? Should I damn the consequences and tell my god mother? Please advice me

If i was you,I would pretend i do not know what is going on and face my Education.

Telling the mum of the daughters failure might have repercussion on you as well.If it blows out just say you didnt know abeg,no be every thing when eyes see mouth dey talk!...Amebo miss goody two shoes!