Na wah...common sense ain't common at all at all...
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
DOES LEAVING YOUR PHONE WITH YOUR LOVER MEAN YOU COME TO
'EQUITY' WITH CLEAN HANDS?
Hi Stella Love,*shinesteeth*
I am in a very confused state right now and please I need advice from you and blog visitors.
I am a lady of 26. I met a guy mid last year, he's the perfect definition of tall, dark and handsome, he was 32 doing VERY well for himself, he started asking me out o we went on couple of dates I even visited him at his house and he also visited me he insisted on meeting my big sis because i was living with her but i bluntly refused because i thought i didn't know him well enough.
I also have a female friend we both lived in same neighbourhood (myself, my girlfriend and the bobo) my friend is 30, I decided to seek her advice I showed her a photo of the guy and she was like he's a no go area that he has asked her out before she even went to his house and he tried to have SEX with her, I know my friend wouldn't lie to me. So I made up my mind not to date him even though i liked him, he kept calling for more than 2months begging to see me but i refused to meet with him and warned him to stop contacting me.
Fast forward to last weekend he started calling again, persistently, he came to see me(I got my own apartment now in a different location) I confronted him with what my friend told me but he didn't even take it seriously he just said my friend is seriously exaggerating saying he asked her out and that he can't even remember asking her out. Well, I told him i don't trust him and I cannot date him that he should let me be o. but this bobo left his phone with me. He said he wants me to trust him.
Now i am very confused, how can you ask someone out and not remember? i don't know if this is a game? or he's really serious?, so far i have been answering his calls most of them are work related calls. I have had the phone for 2days now.
FIY: He called me with his office line.
THANKS...
WTF!!..He has turned you to telephone operator abi?you are confused?that means you are falling according to his plans.
That phone he left with you is one of his spare phones,dont worry,no lady will call him on it.
You better return that phone and judge him based on his character and how he treats you.......About your friend?just so you know,if you start dating this guy,your friend will ''spill'' more....lol
#bitchesarejealous!
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
WHEN DNA FAILS
Stella good day,
How is your family and everyone,i know they are doing good.
Please am writing this narrative on behalf of my friend, she needs advice on this.
She got pregnant for a guy,while he came to Nigeria,she told him about it while he was abroad and he started making plans to marry her, but his mum and his siblings didn't want them to get married,the mum kept telling him not to marry her but he insisted and they had their traditional wedding,none of the man's people attended it,just few of his uncles.
Fast-forward to after she gave birth,the guy came down to Nigeria again and his mum said they should go for a DNA test,and the guy obliged so she went for a d.n.a test with him. The testing centre was the same place I went to enquire when I was pregnant with my baby and they told me they can only do the test when my baby is 6months old.
Her baby was 3months plus and they agreed to do the test,took her blood,the father's blood and the baby's blood.even when she told them about what they told me some months back,they insisted that they could do it.this same testing centre,the doctor is a friend to her husband's brother.
The test result came out and they said her husband is not the father of the child.
She kept telling him that they where lying and begged him to go elsewhere for the test but he refused,he went to her father's house and said he wasn't going to marry her again,that she should move on and find who her baby's father is,he has refused sending her any money. The guy went back to his base abroad and got back with his ex-girlfriend that has a baby for him.
Please what do you guys think about the whole thing, and my friend is very sure that he is the father of her son.
RECEIVE SENSE IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME!!!....RECIEVE!!
Your friend didnt tell you the truth so i would advise you to mind your business.
why was she trying to pin another man baby on the guy?You know what?If the guy trusted her in the first place,he wouldnt have opted for a DNA test okay?
So you expect your friend to agree that the baby is for someone else when it has become a matter of shame and would mean she slept around?
Tell your friend to make sure she does not mess up her kids life,that child needs to know its father!
I am out!
Let me sit and read comment
ReplyDeleteN2$ the DNA result might have been doctored. Why did the dude refuse to seek a 2ND opinion? Something is fishy.
DeleteNarrative 1, your friend may be jealous, also, the phone he left with you may not be his hot line. If you know you love him, give him a chance but abeg carry your brain with you, as in, close your 2 legs and pray about it if he's God's will for you.
DeleteNarrative 2, Stellastic, you even forget to ask her too why she also went to the same hospital for DNA test on her son, does your hubby/baby daddy reject your baby as well? If the lady is so sure that guy is the father of her baby, she can charge him to court a demand for anothe DNA test, all the same, best of luck to both of you.
Honestly I've forgotten that today is Friday, all my thought was that today is Saturday. Happy weekend to all my SDK blog family.
*Larry was here*
Wait poster 1, He left his phone, and you held on to it - for the past 2 days expecting to see a text or call from another lady? Smh .. Answering his calls? My goodness ladiessss!!!
DeleteWhat kind of drama are you entertaining. Well I can tell you like him. Don't just write him off based on what your friend said. Maybe you should give him a chance and thread carefully, maybe. He might be real with you but leaving his phone is not a proof. In fact that will convince me that he is a player.
The stunt he pulled is annoying, you too come begin babysit phone. Na wa.
Stella, you can be judgemental at times, have you not heard of second opinion before. If the man really loved to lady, he would have agreed to take the baby to another independent centre and carry out another confirmatory DNA test, did it also escape your mind, that this could be a setup from the man's family, to tarnish the girl's image. At post, please move on, no need to beg.
DeleteLife has taught me that common sense,is not common at all..
DeleteMy thoughts exactly! Stella don't be quick to judge the girl. The same testing center that insisted they couldn't do for the narrator's child until she was six months old said they could do for a three month old kid. Hian! I smell 'family planning' here. The nigga had better wake up and seek a second opinion. If he's still adamant, poster please tell your friend to try her best to move on. The Holy One of Isreal will take absolute care of her and her child and will judge that guy and his family if truly he's the ffathe and he's refusing to get it correctly proven.
Deleteehm stella pls dnt jump into conclusions. d results might hv been doctored. anyway y wont he go for a second opinion? mtcheeew. he was so quick to run off
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Poster2 she should go do DNA test in another place by herself.... Then show the result to the guy, some babes get confused as to whose pregnancy they are carrying, so she might even need to convince herself that the pregnancy is his...
DeletePoster 1:pls since he is being open he should submit his passwords to his email, give you his house keys, bank accounts and all then he is talking, that's a cheap trick don't fall for it....
Magical
I met this girl in my sister's compound in school that has two phones(one for bf and family and another for other runs) poster 1 shine your eyes
DeleteStella I think you were fast in judging the friend of poster 2. From the Narrative the parents of the boy were against the Marriage even with pregnancy they still refused the marriage between their Son and the Lady. And the poster said the owner is a friend to the Man's Brother. Its a Gang up from the Man's family and the Doctor.
DeleteThat result is fake. How come the Man didn't agree option B for another DNA test.
Poster 2 please tell your friend to move on and "NEVER" have anything do with that Useless and Confuse Man. He is not a Man and needs to grow. His family will destroy him. I hate Rubbish!!!!!!.
Tell her I said even if in future the Man come start begging, trek from Lagos to Abuja, Adamawa to Abuja or from Taraba to Bayesla to ask for forgiveness she shouldn't forgive and accept that useless Apology. Good Riddance to Bad Rubbish
Hmm Stella, don't just conclude on the matter, remember she said during the trads marriage, his family refused to come, only few of his uncles. So maybe his brother and the DNA doctor had collaborated since they don't like her. We can't be too sure about these things oo.
Delete*Hiss*
ReplyDeleteWhich kind chronicle is this today? And please when you people are narrating your story must you add this fast forward to this and fast forward to that that y'all like to add? One person did it and all of a sudden it's a trend. Abeg stop jare.
DeleteNow down to the story, I really don't understand this kind matter.
Poster 1 are you stupid? Why is it such a bad thing that the guy asked your friend out? Did they fuck themselves? Don't you know that chances are your friend is jealous? She's like what, above 30 and in married and the guy that asked her out is now showing interest in you, don't you see that's enough grounds for jealousy? Abeg try get small sense. Also it's not by holding his phone u hear? I know one idiot that puts a spare phone in the boot of his car, away from his wife's reach of which I'm even going to eat him out to his wife soon. Rubbish!!
Poster 2 is your friend sure the baby is his? What if she's lying to you? The man in question should go to a neutral hospital and perform quality Dna test on the kid mbok! Babes no go hear. What is your friend getting pregnant for a man that already has a baby with another woman for sef? Stupid cheap girls, when una hear say person dey abroad body go dey sweet una. If na plate him dey wash for dia, una no even know sef. Stupid much? Sorry for your predicament.
Deuces
Uve been noticed on this blog so STFU!
DeletePink banana stop being an idiot, very rude thing, can't u advice without insulting your household? Mumu madam itk, wonder if you are married with this itk
DeleteAwwww future husband snatchers on rampage! Forget about your friend and go ahead with the guy bla bla bla...
DeleteThe guy slept with your friend and also wants to sleep with you. Once he sleeps with you, he will deny you the way he is denying your friend now, I hope you know that?
Why am I even wasting my MB? Women! With Friends like you, who needs enemies?
Anon 17:55 you must be a complete retard for reading my previous comment and understanding it as an insult.
DeleteBy the way, are you one of the chicks that follow men just because they hear the man is from obodo oyigbo? And then down the line they find out the man is nothing close to the image he fed you? Is that why the comment pained you? Eeyaa kpele oh. Like they say the truth will set you free but it will first piss you off.
Deuces!
@la Katie yaay! You're an owl city fan too? That last part of your comment is part of a lyric of his song!!!!!
DeleteLADY IGO SAYS:
ReplyDeleteDAY 2 OF THE FAST: (YOU ARE INVITED TO JOIN; see the LADY IGO comments here:http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2015/04/chronicle-of-blog-visitor-narrative_29.html#more )
We are reading John chpt. 2
MEMORY VERSE: vs. 1: On the third day a wedding took place at Cana in Galilee. Jesus’ mother was there, 2 and Jesus and his disciples had also been invited to the wedding.
Jesus cares for all about you: He wants to come to your wedding in your father's house and even provide for the entertainment. He loves to see your dad take your bride price and hand you over to a godly man who will love and cherish you and not break your heart. He wants you to keep your body (which is his temple: 1 Corinthians 6:19) pure and not convert it to "a market place" like you saw in this John chapter two vs. sixteen. It is only when your bride price is paid that you can undress for your godly husband and enjoy sex and have godly kids. Jesus wants to come to your child's naming ceremony . . . Jesus wants to witness this ceremony like he did in that family in Cana in Galilee. Above all, he wants you to remain saved and be holy.
PRAYERr; talk to the Lord yourself to "grant me the power to keep my body holy for you and for my future husband (/wife). Grant me the patience and help me to discipline my body to obey your word. THANKS FOR BLESSING ME AND NO MAN CAN CURSE ME " etc.
PROPHECY/KNOWLEDGE: A "VERY BEAUTIFUL LADY" fasting with us whose husband is a banker (failed ICAN once and about to write another one which he will likely pass); you are being tempted by a "doctor" (who is wicked and means no good for you). Your little daughter is pregnant (b/c of your lifestyle) and you are going to abort it with this very doctor (he gives you wicked money). Do you want to lose your daughter to hell? Your husband loves you more than you know. Jesus forgives you.
Bilkisu (hope I spelt correctly) the Lord has heard your cry; do not relent in seeking him.
Kindly check "in house news" and "chronicles" everyday for update on the fast. BE FREE TO JOIN . . .
FROM LADY IGO WITH REGARDS.
Thanks Lady IGO
DeleteThanks oh! For the update Annoy G
DeletePoster 1,
ReplyDeleteThe man is not the kiss and tell type...
Trust me,I think he had something with your friend...
Well I would advise you give him a chance...
Date him joor and watch him closely...
No prefect man out there...
Poster 2,
Eyaaa....
Mehn,some people are very wicked ohh...imagine going to this extra length to break two lovers...
Well,your friend should move on...
Date him Jor na your type dey snatch friend husband
DeleteRotfl@ RECEIVE SENSE IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME.
ReplyDeleteLwkmd!
Na una sabi.
Poster one,and it didn't occur to you that that guy probably has another line.How can someone that works or has clients not have a phone through which people could reach him?
Ask him if you'll hold the phone for three weeks.
Don't be surprised if he says yes.
Use your sense a little, you hear?
Peace
#WhiteDiamondOut
Lolz @poster 2. Not really the father, she should check the last guys she slept with. Poster 2 give the guy his phone back. Your girlfriend maybe lying to you but just be wise. Shine your eyes.
ReplyDeletemehn it is not common at all they claim to be wise rubbish
ReplyDelete#GODWIN
Shut d fuck up, u he goat. I'm sure u dint read any of d chronicles. Odeoshi. Kalabari bisexual
DeleteAnon why are you so bitter?
DeleteAnon that is harsh.....
DeleteN1,stella is right and that being his spare phone.n2,I don't have anything to say because these lab technicians are human and can make mistakes.
ReplyDeleteStella I disagree with your advice to the second narrative : what if it was planned with the hospital? Why would the guy not agree to second opinion? Narrator the guy is coming back if truly the child is his.
ReplyDeleteComplicated.
ReplyDeleteP1 firstly, U acted immature judgin d guy ENTIRELY from what ur frd told U.
DeleteWill I judge a prospect on what my frd told me?
Depends on the frd in question
Wud I've asked my prospect about the allegations?
Yes! In a mild way that will give room for explanation.
Can I give my phone/password etc out verification?
Yes! If need be, and I only ve one phone/sim.
Conclusion; Judge for Urself. from experience, Gals r often very bitter when their frd is dating someone they love or once loved/crushed on.
If I were U, I'd be more careful of the frd than the guy.
Poster 1:pls whr are you from??beta soji urslf o,so ure expecting a lady to call the line when he gave you a private line that his babes may not know.ok o kip receiving calls,madam customer care.
ReplyDeletePoster2:the case is twisted,its possible it's an arrange thing with the family,it has happened before just co thy don't wnt them to marry each other.God will intervene.
N1, for a. Guy of dt caliber u just explained, it's. 100percentage no for him to av only one phone, so u re probably just holding d one he isn't much in need of. Dt a guy treated ur gf badly didn't mean he will treat u badly, also if u like d guy like u said, accept him but cross ur legs like a mermaid in Stella's voice n watch how it goes. N2, a DNA can be conducted on a baby when he is still in d womb self, so 3months, 6 months afterbirth doesn't matter, if ur friend is sure she didn't sleep wt any oda man, let her look fr a job n train her kid, bc d god I no will always justify d innocent, it may take time. But from dis story, she slept around, so it's either she is tell d truth or keep living in a lie n deceiving herself n her baby.
ReplyDeleteStella,sometimes u talk absolute rubbish. Akpa njo!!! Poster 2,pls dnt mind her.D relative must hv manipulated d result. everything in naija is possible so far u hv money 2 drop!!!
ReplyDeleteYou're so on point! I'm sure its her big nose that is causing all this rubbish.
DeleteSo you people can't pass an opinion without insults??
DeleteMust u add her nose? Chai u ppl she,na wa
DeleteYou don't agree with her, that's ok. I don't too. But you don't have to call such derogatory names.
DeletePoster1,dat guy seem like a player dou#scratches hair#but it's possible he wants turn a new leave,pple change.,else I will go with Stella on dis:dat was his spare pone,stiill part of d player stunt.lol!investigating him more is d solution to ur problem.
ReplyDeletePoster2,if ur friend claims she's so sure d baby is for her husband,den dey should go to two more hospitals for d DNA test.cos in d mouth of two or three witnesses d truth is established.
Millionaire with billionaire husband, make you try learn to punctuate correctly. Abi you no go school?
DeleteEmpty vessel.
*yawns**..happy may day to you all..
ReplyDeleteI woke up to this boring chronicles..I feel like going back to sleep buhhh!!!!...
Posterone:have ever heard of people having 5 phones? 3bbms?..lol..oo my ex had a spare phone he pings with that I didn't know about tho..soo holding his phone means nothing.. U can as well start a call center with it..to the main issue..your friend visited a guy and he tried to sleep with her??..sounds kind of normal for Nigerian guys..they will always try their luck..the main thing is that they didn't have sex..he asked her out and she refused..kini big deal??the ball is on your court my dear..find out the kind of person the guy is..what matters is his personality and attitude..know if you like him..and also find out more details about what he had with your friend....
Poster 2: you say what!!!!!..
Am out..
I wonder why she could say no just cos he asked her friend out. Like seriously, kini big deal???
Delete#2 it is also very possible that tge family of the guy paid the doctor for the results not to favour your friend. If only the guy had agreed to go to another hospital.
ReplyDelete#1. Mumu, you're falling for thereceptionist trick! The guy has plenty lines you betta shine yo eyes instead of your teeth.
N.1 At 26, you are a fucking blockhead. A man is trying to use little tricks to get you and you are about to fall into his trap WAAA! Return that phone at once. The decision to date him is entirely up to you. If you want to go ahead, do so armed with what your friend has told you and tread carefully. If you decide not to, na your decision be that.
ReplyDeleteN.2 It's either your friend doesn't know who the father of her child is because she has been sleeping with more than one man, or it's a conspiracy b/w that man and his family to push her out. I don't understand why they didn't go to a different place. DNA is 99.9% accurate and cannot lie. Your friend should either confess or move on with her life because what choice does she have, the man Don scram be that.
Poster 1- date him n judge him urself...
ReplyDeletePoster 2- the story is about you n not ur frnd stop lying....
Wahala oti poju
@poster 1 na wa 4 u o,at this point you still listen to people,u dey follow friend, your friend never show u pepper b4, if you like the guy better date him,if nt let him go
ReplyDeleteStop judging him frm that rubbish d other chic said!
Poster1;if u like the dude,date him...u can't find out his real xter with all these things u re doing, get to know him and don't judge him based on what your friend said.... Good luck!!
ReplyDeletePoster2;Let ur friend go for another DNA test in a different hospital,its possible this is a setup since the doctor is a friend to brother-in-law and the brother-in law doesn't like her!!Once she confirms that the baby is for her husband, she should move on....he will come back begging!!!
Most first born are usually not the child of the husband
ReplyDeleteHmmmm,na wa o
DeleteNa wa for u o sister?
DeleteVery Irresponsible and stupid comment, 'Most first born' indeed. When you have your own first child, kindly come and tell us who the real father is.
DeleteYou are so dumb. Senseless talk. Twart
DeleteE.g Tayan Taylor
DeleteLwkmd!! See talk
DeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeletePoster 1: I am with Stella on this one. If you like the dude, go for it and keep things btw you two to yourself. I am not saying I don't trust your older GF but some ladies are .....
Poster 2: My heart goes out to your friend. Part of me wants to blv they switched the test because they don't want them together. DNA can be done at any month not just 6 months up. So that is not a reason why it is negative. If your friend has a way of collecting the guys DNA again then she shd try and go to another agency. I know this is stretching but if she can travel to where he is, she can force him for a DNA and child support if he is determined as the father.
Follow follow.
DeleteP1 Are you a child? He gave you a phone to answer and,you stupidly...Infact some of you girls are not wise at all. I see why these men act the way they do.
ReplyDeleteP2...Your friend should pick up and go her way. The man even has a child outside and she was looking at abroad husband. You ladies will not hear, any man who comes home that her any find wife abroad is A HOT LIAR and will deal with you.
Stella, u have sense. Spot on.....you took the words out of my mouth. people be believing what their friends tell them since 1901. The baby is not the guy's....
ReplyDeleteAss licking. Pls recieve sense and use it.
DeleteYour senseless. Keep licking stella's feet. Mumu. Stella bad advice
DeleteSmh
Delete@ Anon...Oponu poster, is that u?
DeleteStella,,hhahahhhhaahhha lol@d baby needs to know its Father,
ReplyDeleteStella why are you screaming at someone just because she believes her friend? After you will still preach benefit of doubt. What do you mean by implying that she doesn't have common sense? So it's not possible for the guy's family to have organised to remove that lady out of their son's life? You can like to speakk from two sides of the mouth. Or is it that you fancy the saying 'recieve sense' and couldn't wait to use it in a sentence?
ReplyDeleteIf you like post
Dont mind Stella, most times I dont even think she understands the story but she's too fast to lay judgement. Do not be surprised that most BVs will hail her for all the rubbish comments she gvs.
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ReplyDeleteAnything like what?
DeletePayment in kind?
This ur comment made me laugh.
DeleteWhy are people like this? There are so many things wrong with this request. Has he been blessing people becos they are yoruba? So he should just give it to u cos of ur tribe. Can u not borrow sense and explain why you need it, dats if it is even a tangible reason. And you are willing to do anything? Really? Abeg gerrout from here. Nelo was proud, misguided and arrogant but im sure he would rather invest in her than ur ratchet ass. Im yoruba too but pls receive sense #teamstrongwomen#
DeleteNarrative two, could the test have gone wrong? Ur friend should come clean. Did she have a fling on or before mating her obodo oyibo hubby??
ReplyDeleteNarrative one, if u aint sure about dude, move on
I luv ur response to d 2nd poster Stella.
ReplyDeleteYeye dey smell...Her frnd is lying joor.
1st poster, I pity ur condition.
How many phones does ur bf have?
Y is ur jealous frnd bent on breakin ur rship.
Anyone can cook up stories abeg...Some babes are dat desperate!!!...Hold ur man tight and dump him ONLY wen u find incriminating cheating evidence or if possible catching him pants down will do...Get hold of the oda fones if u can...Snoop,snoop and snoop.If the territory is clear,pls avoid that ur gf,she's bad news.
Just like what I wrote, poster one's friend is bad news, she is judging based on what her friend told her.
DeleteIf u want to date him,dnt sleep with him, if it works out fine,if it doesn't u dnt lose
DeleteYou are just to daft, too quick to lick stella's behind, without even considering that the result might have been doctored. RECEIVE SENCE!!!
Delete"SENSE", 16:57.
DeleteAnon..u need d sense pass me shebi u know? Faceless moron!!!
DeleteStella and her use of words: Telephone operator and Receive sense hahaha...
ReplyDeletePoster 2 there r always three sides to a story; her side, his side and d truth. It is either the doctor lied or ur friend lied.
Poster 1 hmmm get ready to lose a friendship if you date that man b'cos your friend will never be truely happy for you and be sensible about the relationship if you want to date him. Like Stella said, receive sense.
P1. you are on a long tin.... ah ah, "he gave mehis phone and d only calls that comes thru are work related" b4 nko which other call for come thru?
ReplyDeleteabeg return the kpokulowe fone jare, d guy has another.
reminds me of one tyler perry movie chaai
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ReplyDeletestella just like that you concluded?i tire fa..haba!!! no be so na.what if,just what if they connived with the doctor since he is the husband brother's friend...just what if?? i was expecting you to ask her to go to another hospital first.seek the expertise of another medical center.if same,then d lady should tell the truth..may God vindicate you if you are telling the truth.
ReplyDeleteif you aint telling the truth then you are wicked for wanting to pin another's child on obodo oyibo guy and even more careless to go for a Dna test..how come dem no d for you bfore 6mth but agreed to do hers at 3mths?
meanwhile poster,did your friend authorize you to do this? poster tell your friend to go and get a job and remove her throat from foreign money.if she is innocent,time will tell.
Poster1,just leave that guy because men have different ways of winning a woman over, he might have another line that babes would call him with, ur friend won't be happy with you if you date him, men can do anything to sleep with a lady,I can see you are already falling for him, he might want to spite your friend by dating you.. Poster2, ur friend is lying simple and the guy dsnt trust her that's why he did the dna,may be it wasn't his mum that asked for the Dna sef, he only suspected there was no resemblance and he dsnt trust her
ReplyDeleteSo her dating a guy is based on if her frnd is happy about it or not? Is she living her life for her friend? That her friend said no to a guy doesn't mean she should also follow suit. Please judge the guy based on your knowledge of him and make ur decisions from there, @poster1
DeleteRECEIVE SENCE!!! efi, you go fear resemblance at three months.
DeleteNawa for you, Jenny Zee.
DeleteWhy should she care what her friend thinks?
Poster, date him if you want. Pay no attention to your friend. What if she's just jealous cos she's unmarried?
Do You!
Poster one please return the phone that doesn't guarantee anything, observe the guy and draw ur conclusions, also take to consideration that ur friend might be exaggerating things, put ur eyes and ear in ground and draw ur conclusions.
ReplyDelete@ poster 2, Stella I don't agree with ur comment, didn't u read the part she said the hospital owner is a brother to the man, what if its a planned work? Or the hospital is not equip for such task, am not ruling out the fact that most women get pregnant for another man and pin it on another, but for she to agree for a DNA knowing what's its about then she isn't lying joor, since the mans ppl didn't want her they wud look for all means to take her out of the way. It has happened tell ur friend to move on, even if she can prove eventually the child is the mans own, the in-laws wud give her more heat, since she is not needed in the family.
Poster 1 - dont tell me you fall for that trick ,better forget that guy ,his a big time player and manipulator,better watch him closely .
ReplyDeletePoster 2 - i hate when things happen to you ,you turn it around and say your friend ,so you are now spokes person for your friend.keep your child and take care of yourself and your child,you cant force a man to marry you,oh what do i know
Poster2 u re the one stop lying its your friend, which friend wil confide in you concerning stuff like this? If d child is his he would have married you but you are not sure of yourself
DeleteStory 1:You know you wanna fu*k that dude.Go ahead!Tall, dark and handsome as well as doing very very well at 32? Dem nor need to write playboy for him head cos these are his playing days. So play and let us be! As for number 2,na you biko! I mean na you be your friend, cos why you sef go dey enquire about DNA for your own pickin sotay you come know say na 6months?Then,you said your friend told her supposed baby daddy that she was told some months ago when she went before...why did she go before? And you too, why did you go? She's sure he's the dad?That word 'sure' proves there are 2 likely dads. As the 'sureness' didn't fall on Mr imported,you better move to local league o. Thanks you 2 for the fun I just had!
ReplyDeleteI really enjoyed reading your comment . Na u get am.
Delete1. U don't judge pple at times based on hearsay, if u have feelings for dis guy then give d relationship a trial, don't be confused, we all have a past but u must be bold enough to accept d end result. Just tell ur friend u want to give d guy a chance, after all DAT he asked ur friend out or tried to have sex with her, won't stop him from getting married to someone , go for him cos I see u like him already.
ReplyDelete2.Hmmmmmm, I pity ur friend ooooo, too much hatred, what's her family doing about dis??????? @least am certain she didn't fall from d sky, they should come out and lend their support, dis is bullshit!!! from ur narrative, its very obvious d guy's family never wanted her some kicking her out didn't come as a surprise, her family should insist for another DNA in a different hospital at least to clear their daughter's name and if they don't want, her bride price should be returned, so she can move on.,.........
Poster 1: Stella ' s prayer of "receive sense" is for you. You need it more.People have more than 2 phones. Gosh the guy is playing with your mind. Can u be that naive? At this digital age? I beg shine your eyes.
ReplyDeleteCOMMON SSENSE IS NOT SO COMMON INDEED!! I CAME HERE FOR THE COMMENTS
ReplyDeleteposter 1: obviously these days everyone has more than one fone, Holding a fone doesnt mean he is loyal and faithful, also most importantly if as a member of family called the line. As any of his friends called the number cos all i read was you receiving work calls...........Pls return the fone and try to see if he has more than one line or phone.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: its either she messed around with someone else or the brother planned with the doctor.....Only ur friend, the lady and God knows whats true...Goodluck in whatever she does. N:B cant she work and earn a living?
Hmmmm! Complicated.
ReplyDeleteLady IGO over to you.
@POSTER ONE
ReplyDeleteMiss customer care, continue operating his phone and answering business calls for him...well done o. You've gone on a couple of dates with him, you've been to his place and he didn't try to force himself on you, he has done absolutely nothing to you(if he has, I'm sure you would have indicated); keep listening to your 30yr old friend (anty gwegs), she's clearly jealous and desperate.
Gbam!!
DeleteMiss customer care?.....lmao
DeleteStella, you are such a wise woman. Please do you have any beautiful sister searching for a king... I am available.
ReplyDeleteHow won't she be a wise woman! Ass licker sheep. Stella stop influencing the opinion of ur mumu blog visitors! Once u shout 'crucify him' they won't reason again, they will gather and eat the person like vultures. Really pity people who their gists are brought to this blog and withyour 'WTF' you order for their shredding
DeleteHow is she the one influencing?
DeleteIs it her fault that most BVS have no mind of their own, but chose to lick ass?
You were making sense a bit, until you derailed...
@poster one let me give u one gist is like u be jjc when it comes to men.One very early Sunday morning just last December I took my bae (gf) to make us of an atm machine.i noticed a dude was on her case I was in the car waiting for her, he followed her to the car my ignition was still on, my windows were up. She gave him her digits after much pressure, but I didn't take note of the dude face.so he started calling her 247.chatting her up on whatsapp but she kept posting him.she use to tel me this dude won't let me be,we would joke about it, I be like fine girl hawt cake.
ReplyDeleteFast forward to last Month before the elections. I was in a bar chilling off doing shisha some dude came telling me he likes me, his been seeing me here coz am a regular there, he was on my case but I refuse giving him my num. met him like 3 times with his sermons of how he liked me.so one day he told me he wanted to take me some were I would like was like wow okay,he gave me the address told him I was gonna show up by 5 he insisted on my digits told him trust me I be there. So I went with my gf behold it was same dude, asap she started pinging me that this is that nut case dude lol we were chatting up ourselves we pretended didn't say nothing we had fun and enjoyed ourselves.then I decided to give him my number. To play the game.
He started with a what's app message,how he has been thinking about me, I went straight to the point why did u act and pretended like u didn't know my gf? he went mute for like an hour, then came bk saying he couldn't remember her then I told him ain't u the dude we met at the atm machine ?sometime ago? Guess what?he said he couldn't remember so I munched the chats he had with her to him, guess what again?he turned the story of how he wasn't really asking her out,he was just trying to be friends but got turned off coz she was proud and rude, and wanted to badmouth her for me. I just blocked off the pathetic dude, I don't care for no guy I don't trust no guy don't need no guy.be wise poster .
So u r lesbian then,now I undastand..........
DeleteChoi men how we go do them.just tired of everything.my man was seen in the company of two girls last night my friend that saw them even snapped them. I called him he didn't pick til 5am.
DeleteHe called bk saying he had migraine and took a pill that knocked him off, and went to pee when he saw all my miss calls My God and am having unprotected sex with him.
u area lez. and in d lesbian world,u r d man. its not an insult,jst an obsrrvation. prove me wrong
DeleteWhat should we do wit dis tale??? German juice receive sense
DeleteIf you didn't add the shisha part, Shey BVS wouldn't have read, abi?
Delete@anon na u talk am lol nice observation @unprotected sex girl mennn that's stupid of u to ever trust a man to that point.plz be enlighten and have safe sex.
DeleteOh quicksilver I see you a loyal fan
Delete@anon 17.22 masturbate with it
DeleteChai seriously
ReplyDeletePosters especially 2: you are lucky you are not anywhere near Stella. She for use Koboko on you !
I will be right back.
Hian! Stella, I don't gbadu your advise for the two posters o! Haba!
ReplyDeleteSee how you just jump into conclusion.
For Poster 2, what if the family actually planned with the doctor (friend of the brother) to give the said result? Why did they not wait till the baby was old enough? Yea, the baby daddy does not actually trust ur friend, that's why he agreed to go for the test. And Stella, you think that babe would agree to go for a DNA test when she's not very sure her baby daddy is the real father?
Poster 1, Why don't you check this guy out on your own and make ur own conclusions? Your friend is single at 30, you think she might not be jealous? I might be wrong, but think. That he left his phone for you can not guarantee anything. He may or may not be trust worthy. So drop the drama and hear-say and scrutinise this guy on your own and in your own terms and opinion. It's very obvious you like him already.
Stop doing follow follow. Forget what others think. WHAT DO YOU THINK?
Check him out!!! It's obvious you haven't
N1: I laugh @ u. Keep answering phone as his secretary, but note: most of d calls Uve received were induced. Oh yes he asked them 2 call so u can answer.
ReplyDeleteN2: ill go a little with Stella on this, but if ure sure she's telling d truth (cos already Uve pointed out some defaults abt d hospital), tell ur friend that she should find a member of d guys family who will listen 2 her, persuade d person 2 go with her 2 another hospital of his/her choice, get d result n send it 2 father but if there's none then all I can say is 4 her 2 watch n pray. Truths always dnt hide 4 ever.
Poster 1. You will discover little or nothing with that phone cos its his spare phone. I mean how many people do you see with just one phone in this present age?
ReplyDeleteIf you like him enough,date him with your two eyes wide open so you can really know the kind of person he is. Make sure sex is out of the question at the moment so that your emotions dont control you.
You never can tell which of them is saying the truth.
Poster 2. Re u sure your friend is telling you the truth? Dont vouch for her.
Poster1: if that guy's name is daniel... RUN FOR YOUR LIFE, my friends and I call him HIV carrier. He sleeps with anything in skirt and has toasted all the ladies around the community he lives.
ReplyDeleteLet me comment as anon... For dis one
ReplyDeletePoster one:u just reminded me of my guy dat am about to get marid to........ Let me gist u small....... Wen I accepted my guy he will call me like 100x in a day and he must see me everyday ... So one of dis days I was in my frnds huz and he called me to cum outside wen I finished with him... My frnd now asked who he was and I told her he was my bf.....
Do u know wat she said..... Dat I shud forget dat guy dat his own is to sleep with gals... Dat he is not interested in keeping to one gal... I told her dat he is now a changed person even if I did not know him too well..... I told him wat she said and he said it was past and truthfully he Is a changed person
Poster forget wat ur frnd said.... And get to know him beta who knows if u can move him to change
Poster two:ur frnd shud look for a way to take care of d kid cuz d guy won't do any oda DNA test again... So she shud forget he existed...
I don laff my head off..Stella has jokes...@ receive sense ijn...EPIC. Looooool
ReplyDeletePoster 2, it is a big big lie that you have to wait until 6 months. DNA testing can be done from day 1 of birth just have to wait for at least 1 hr.
ReplyDeleteI am curious as to why you also need to do a dna test on your baby? Seems like birds of a feather stay together.
You can use anything from that guy for Dna testing, take his toothbrush and go for a test by yourself.
ReplyDeletePosterr one,you don't you forget your chykers?he chykes a whole lotta women you expect him to. Keep rememberin the face of one,you try..do you like this guy? Do you think he would mke a good bf with less drama?can you tolorrate him? These r questns you should ask yourself..he didn't sleep with your friend did he? Posterr2 your frnd gbenshed anoda man nd doesn't know To tell you
ReplyDeletePoster 1-Don't be decieved lyk Stella said tz just one of his spare phones......u beta return his phone.....Mtcheww
ReplyDeletePosterr2-there's Sumthing wrong sumwhere dats all I can say
Bvs please hw do I get rid of a heartbrk nd Move on with my life?its been 3mnths Nw everytin stll fresh in my head..am so hurt considering the manner in which. We fell apart,he was my 1st bf..this has literally affected me,am So bitterr nd full of resentment for men nw.that wen dey come with dis dia lv sermon I just yimu.there's dis Man on my case.good job,fine,looks responsible bt I realy can't bring myself to date or fall inlv again..I've always heard of hrrtbrk neva knew dis is hw it feels..some men r. Just plain wicked. Sigh..it is well
ReplyDeleteDate d man but don't sleep with him, tel him that's your condition, this wil make you forget ur ex and that is if u like this new guy
DeleteChai..emotional gal.
DeleteI know that feeling buh nt 2 worry cos u'll soon get over it.
Join the choir in your church.
DeleteDear Lady Igo, I will like to connect with you personally if you don't mind. Pls would like your emails. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteA guy came from abroad and your friend slept with him, without condom? Please dear friend put 2 and 2 together!! No doctor will jeopardize his profession and a child's future to please a friend or for money....you friend is being economical with the truth!!!
ReplyDeleteThough, during your own paternity test you were told it can be done only when your baby is 6months old ... Maybe they did not have the latest technology then... This is where your suspicion came from abi? ... Hmmm...please leave your friend to carry her cross alone.
Nitty Gritty.
She's the one not a friend, she's just shamed that we will ask if she slept with someone else
DeleteAbeg stella is just intelligent, her advise are so on point!
ReplyDeleteIntelligent? ?? And I think you're high on drugs.
DeleteNarr1...Just because your friend told you he had asked her out before,you are giving up on him? just like that? Bae,if you love that guy,damn what your friend told you and give him a chance. Do not let someone else dictate for you,Your life should be your rules.
ReplyDeletePoster 2
ReplyDeleteDude's family could have planned the DNA result OR
Your friend isn't sure about her baby daddy.
Poster1
If leaving a single phone with you for 2days marks your trust 100% , all the best.
this is for poster two: if this story is not yours please why did u inquire about DNA test when you where pregnant ?
ReplyDeleteOr do you also ave a paternity issue to settle?
or is it safe to conclude dat dis story is about you?
You already know the baby is not your hubby`s, so you already went to inquire about the DNA test while still pregnant. the doctor lied to you that d test could only be done at six months, to give him time to inform the guy's mother. so they ready knew and didnt say anything till u gave birth.
so please stop decieving yourself and arrange your life. I pity you.
Rukky.
Yes I had paternity test issues too, all of you saying am d one shd actually receive d sense! Okbye
DeleteHappy new 2 u Stella and all d SDkers. Let me sit down and read some advice.
ReplyDelete*****Mhiz_Derby_Via_Instagram*****
Rukky, Rukky, Rukky, you just nailed it. Abeg no foister someone's child on someone else @ P. 2
ReplyDeleteWho is this anonymous going around cussing anybody that agreed with Sdk? Are you suffering from e-diotic symptom? Have you visited a psychiatrist to diagnose if you are suffering from the degeneration of your medulla oblongata? The stupid lady heard he was from abroad and opened her leg to 180 degree to collect fuck, then came here with her sob story to get sympathy with the hope that BVS will help her financially in future and help her cuss out the man. Which man will accept? What makes her thinks he does not have somebody overseas? Stupid girls with fish brain.And you this friend, why do you also have paternity case? What a coincidence that it should be the same place you did yours and the doctor is a friend to his brother? Bia, i hope you are not the same person?
ReplyDeletei want to give P2 D BENEFIT OF DOUBT concerning d result of the paternity DAT TRUELY her husband is d father of dat child....nobody has considered option 3 which is a case of CHIMERA where a woman can have two sets of dna all in a body(its as a result of absorbing a twin in the womb where e.g the case of LYDIA FAIRCHILD Where she almost lost custody of her kids all becos her DNA did not match wt her kids, not until a matching Dna was found in her cervical tissue and she was proven to be a chimera... another case KAREN KEEGAN(See google).. SDKlastborn
ReplyDeletePoster 1, has your so called 'boyfriend to be' not seen your friend since he started asking you out ?
ReplyDeleteIf he has, is he still pretending not to know her?
Don't you think he will deny you too, in the future?
Forget about those saying that your friend might be jealous; although humans are unpredictable, yes! you know your friend more than we do.
Remember, some friends are more like good siblings, looking out for us.
It is time people knew the difference between friends and acquaintances—although some acquaintances are exceptional.
Just wonder what really goes on in a man's mind....When you accuse them of whatever it is they did and u r sure they did i... next thing they become the victim and u r suddenly the bad person.
ReplyDeletethen When u get married u Can't just talk to anyone about What's happening in ur home....Can't just talk to ur sister, friends, mother..... it is well
Feel better now just feels like saying my mind somewhere.
Just wonder what really goes on in a man's mind....When you accuse them of whatever it is they did and u r sure they did i... next thing they become the victim and u r suddenly the bad person.
ReplyDeletethen When u get married u Can't just talk to anyone about What's happening in ur home....Can't just talk to ur sister, friends, mother..... it is well
Feel better now just feels like saying my mind somewhere.
Poster 1
ReplyDeleteSo u'd believe a man you just met over your long time friend?
Anyway's, he's done nothing wrong so far but I think this person may not be a very honest person after all.
He's manipulating you.
What do I know? You'd learn.