Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives.

Hmmmmm!.....Yesterdays Narrative number three got a response from Le Boo's bae...well ex,she dumped him for her!

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
HOLD ON OR LET GO?

Hi Stella....  there's a problem;

   My uncle took me to his friend's company to serve..  eventually  he friend and i started dating..i  am 23yr and his 43yrs (divorced with 2kids) ..

The 1st month was magical. . I thought I found the one.. then things suddenly changed after 2months.. he reduced calling..stopped making time for us to meet..kept saying he was busy (he is the general manger Of the company. . Plus he has other businesses and also a traditional tittle) 

so I pardoned him.. cos he begged me to be understanding..  but the more understanding I get the more he stops putting in effort.. I've complained, cried  and begged him to change... all I've ever done is love him.. care for him.. yeah I complain once in a while when he hurts me..

 I asked to break up 2months ago but then he came over and told me that a mutual friend of him and my uncle whom I've met before told my uncle that he is sleeping with me and taking advantage of me  and my uncle got super pissed and called him to say he betrayed him by sleeping with his niece.. so they had a fall out which none of them mentioned to me.. he said that that's the reason he drew back from me but that he wants me to finish my service which is in a months time.. then he'll prove to my uncle his intentions.. but the thing is he no longer calls me at all.. I've not had sex with him since January. 

 He stays close to my house but never visits me..(we see at work everyday) infact he doesn't put in any effort anymore..I am the one that does all the calling.. and he is no longer romantic , I feel so unloved.. 

when I try to break up with him he keeps saying noo!- That when am done with my NYSC I'll see changes. ..   at one point I was so depressed, imagine being in a relationship with a man who doesnt call or text..who you hardly spend quality time with.. 

then I met this guy in his early 30s, a bachelor and a very nice quite decent man.. we became  friends and now i am dating him and we talk almost 24/7 .. he spends his free time with me, he makes me happy beyond words..we have a lot in common and he treats me like a princes..

     Dear BVs i am so confused my 1st bf keeps saying that i am refusing to understand the situation,he said he knows what he is doing that I should be patient.... i havent call for 2weeks now and he hasnt either.. 

He met me at work saying he was ill and i didnt call, that i used to care bla bla bla but with this lack of attention i am falling out of love with the 1st guy and am falling in love with the 2nd,  please what should I do?  

Should I wait till after my service before I make a decision?  I can't continue dating 2 men. . 

Ps my 1st bf is super rich but I've never asked him for a dime..i am from an ok family so money isn't really my issue..

 The other guy is doing very well too but he is not as rich as the 1st lol..  

    

I guess your Uncle finding out killed his passion.Please move on because his marrying you will not prove any point to your uncle but set both of them on a dangerous war path.....Your Uncle prolly knows things that made him upset to find out he is dating you.

Move on with the new guy......and deny that you ever dated the older boyfriend if your Uncle asks you..lol

Ladies if you find a man who treats you like diamond,please stick to him like magnet!

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NARRATIVE NUMBER THREE FROM YESTERDAYS CHRONICLES GETS A RESPONSE FROM THE EX SHE WAS REFERRING TO....

Read yesterday's Chronicles HERE

Dear Stella,

Good evening...ok straight to the point darl,I met this guy last year and we started dating,he told me about his ex GF of 5yrs and how she has refused to leave him even though they have broken up,I stay at his house all the time,I even celebrated Xmas and new year there.

One day a girl started messaging me on Facebook to leave her boyfriend and was raining insults on me,I told my BF and he said Shes the Ex and that I should block her,which I did! 

PS : he was with me valentines day o in his house

There's a bag he bought for me but I left it in his place,even my glasses,surprisingly they disappeared and when I asked him,he said nothing reasonable.

People gave me gist of how they see my BF and the supposed ex GF and it made me go unblock her on Facebook just to stalk her and lo and behold she was posting photos with the bag and glasses,I was furious and asked him,he was still lying then I messaged the supposed girl on Facebook asking her where she got the bag and glasses from,she said her bf gave her and started insulting me saying I knew he had a GF and decided to be the side chick,called me names,well I fired back at her,she told me they were still seeing and they never broke up.

 I broke up immediately with the boo! Even up till today,he still wants me back and says that the girl won't let him be,even the mum calls me to plead on his behalf.

I have moved on,I deserve better than a liar! this silly girl is even older than the dude in question and yet keeps waiting on him cos they dated for five years? 

Well I pity her,and yes I love this dude a lot buh he didn't just lie to me or cheat on me,he disrespected me by letting her take those stuff,so she can have him and stop crying on your blog! I assure her he's gonna keep cheating on her and the mum is gonna keep defending her son! 

Be wise dear!

HIAN!...BIKO ACHUM E READ COMMENTS!