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STINGY LOVE

Dear Aunty Stella,

                         I want to thank you for your efforts.We are indeed grateful for this platform.I want my fellow BVs to analyse this matter ooooo. I want to know who is at fault.

                         I attended my best friend's wedding,it was really fun.Rewind back to school days, before she got married,she was dating the dude who is based outside the country.My friends hubby can like everything in skirt.He even tried date me,at some point he proposed to me instead of my friend and i turned it down as i couldn't imagine hurting my bestie.

 It was that bad because he tried every means to get me but God knows i can't dare such an act.Later on after much persuasion from me that my bestie loves him and i aint interested he decided to go ahead and marry her.

                          My wahala started when i attended the wedding and the groom's friend, who is also from my village saw me.We dint even talk much other than change contacts and i went back to my base.This guy started disturbing my life,calling, texting, saying how he loves me and how convinced that am his wife.My dear,i don't even have one tiny feelings for the bobo. He has been on my matter for two years waiting,texting trying everything to make me accept the proposal.I now thought about it and decided we should try dating.

We were just communicating because of distance,Aunty i notice this guy is very stingy, despite all the love he dey profess.We planned i should come over to his place during  Christmas and he would send my transport fare. On the 21 was my birthday,he forgot. i complained he begged and said his not good with dates so i let that pass.

                         On the 23rd he was supposed to send my transport fare as agreed but i didn't hear from this guy tillJanuary 10th. He called after all the celebration was gone saying his sorry he lost his phone,hmmmmm! i was pissed but decided to stay calm as i no dey money conscious.On valentine day, Mr man didn't even shake body.I told him its val day we should celebrate, he say am not around so no need for anything.

Fast forward to last month he invited me again that i should come,so i asked my transport fare again and guess what Oga said that its only runz(prostitutes)  gals that ask for transport fare before going to see her guy.I started just wondering what type of myopic and stingy Igbo man i was dealing with. i decided that since he couldn't do the little things expected, how can he run our home?

                            I am self independent but i wanted to  be sure he is not someone that will turn me to a frustrated moron in his house. In fact the dude went ahead to tell me how girls do things for their man and how they transport themselves to and fro.  Immediately i realised na one chance i enter,sharply i block the guy and delete him.See someone i didn't even love before i wanted to try and work things and yet he is too stingy to behave.I decided to write to ask was i wrong? Pls babes do you go visiting guy on your own accord especially when he is the one doing the invitation? 

Also for someone that professes so much love and wants to marry me today today yet i cant boost of any monetary or physical gifts from him no matter how small. from him.

Please my fellow BVs is that not suicide?

Please before you all start saying am greedy, note that i don't ask for anything from him as i work and take care of myself.I only wanted him to do what i felt was necessary because even travelling the distance is not an easy task on his own,the best he could do was finance it.

RUN AND DONT LOOK BACK...STINGY MOFO!...Abeg abeg abeg,i cant deal!

Anyone who insults you or me for taking sides with you is a jackass!

RUN BABE RUN!