When a relationship packs up and some men do not get what they want,why in heaven's name do they kiss and tell?
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Have you ever kissed and told?
I am talking to you shameless men,please step forward and table the 'stoopid' reasons you go and break up a new relationship and malign her name even though you broke her heart and walked away....
Tell me why and what satisfaction you got from it.
I am yet to hear of a woman who kissed and told something..Kissing is a term used for something that no one ese excpet the two people involved should know...
Telling is the shameless act that comes after it....KISS AND TELL OLOSI!
Oya start talking or I call on the women to step forward and cuss ya all men out!
They will all claim they've never done it before. Just watch and see
ReplyDeleteIn the cyber world everybody is perfect what do you expect???
DeleteThis niggas ain't loyal at all....d joy they derive from d devilish act I dunno. guess some of them are just sick
DeleteWomen kiss and tell too. Have heard a couple of then say" I have f*cked this dude" some say this dude's d*ck is small and he doesn't last. is that not kiss and tell?? And they discuss such with their girl friends as well. You women always like to play victim. Stop demonising men pls
DeleteAnony16:16 na only run gals and akwuna akwunas kiss n tell o
DeleteThose who term sex as punishment, a huge treasure, or a thing of disgrace, are the ones who after they sleep with a lady will spread it for the world to hear when the chips are down...because they feel that sleeping with certain females is an achievement to them..... theorem of FOOLS!
DeleteTo such men deliverance of the entire brain is highly recommended...cos having sex is NOT punishment, as both parties enjoyed it while it lasted. So kissing and telling here is bland
Perhaps, kissing and telling might be a big deal to ladies who feel 'victimized' by men just because they had sex with him, what's up with u guys? Only the 'bang n run' one night standers should be scared of such kiss telling tho. .. cos that can be disgraceful.
Else, If u enjoyed it as much as he enjoyed it, why would u feel bad or betrayed if he told anyone he banged u? And so? The joke is on him. He was screwed too, so why victimise yourself for something that brought u immense pleasure? Sex? Sex is damn overrated.
Kiss and tell? In what context, I ask again. Oh, so if I was a single lady and I met a man I liked, and he liked me too. We kick it and then we separate after a while. And then he goes to his friends and mine to say, hey, I fucked sisi eko.. so??? They knew we were dating, wasn't the sex bit expected of us as a couple? Why feel bad? Announcing the obvious makes him the loser, not ME
Or are we talking about those who "steal" to have sex with their friend's man or lady? Hence making the banging btw them a top secret and illegal?
Oh great.. then kissing n telling may be applicable here. However, to those set of people, if the man in question decides to hold the 'thief lady' to ransom, bcos he knows fully well that she wouldn't want anyone to know that she slept with her friend's man... na serious one chance. But while it would seem shameful to such a lady when d man tells, then again, they both enjoyed the sex. So why make it seem like u stole something away from her when u both achieved the same thing? What exactly are u 'telling' on her? The nitty gritty of her punanny?
My point is.. to each his own.
What u derive from sex, or with whom u have it, is what would determine how u feel after having it. If u are stealing to have sex, then you'll feel scared of being called out by the owner. But if it's a random thing, it shouldn't bother u if he goes to CNN to announce that he slept with u. U agreed to it, didn't u?
Why should anyone be held to ransom because they had sex..... ??
If the news ever came out that u had sex with someone, then it means u did it with the wrong person. They are what is wrong, and not the sex.
A man can be used as a sex tool too. And a woman can also brag about having used a man just for sex. Should such a man be ashamed too? Question for the gods.
OK bye
Hmmmm
ReplyDeleteStella is just looking for gist abeg lmao
DeleteOn dat yest issue, na me U dey ask? U know say we plenty lolololol. If na me, U knw ma reasons na. Me sef wish jare
Delete@corisande. Overlook this, the owner go come claim am.
Women use to tell wella....e.g Me
DeleteI told my. Friend of one guy dat wanted to kiss me. N his mouth was smelling
#Am d b.v dat was looking for ha period(I have found it dou),whose bf is an APC Senator (who is no longer talking to me )
watch out for chronicle of a "once innocent girl"
Abeg women have not only told, but broadcasted. No be today stella
ReplyDeleteI dey tell you!!!! I am of the opinion that women do it more sef, lets be realistic here. Women amongst themselves discuss about how smallish a guy's d*ck is, how he doesn't last beyond 5 thrusts etc. It's a two way thing. Men do it but women do it more.
DeleteGOD BLESS NIGERIA.
Like a conversation me and a friend had just this evening @guys who lie/brag about going out /sleeping with a chick who wouldn't touch their dead bodies with a Nepa pole. (Pure low self esteem self is all, no respecting man*not boy should do that)
DeleteDudes chatting about important stuff (grown men ) and the next thing is "ah that babe I have, ......."
We can clearly see that even you were on fire she wouldn't spit on you to put it out!
Person dey grow pass something abeg
A responsible man wouldn't. In fact there no way a man would convince me that he's responsible if he betrays a trust.
ReplyDeleteA friend of mine kissed and told oh.Her hubby was cheating and they began to have problems, then one day she told me she was tired of the marriage .She wanted to get a dildo..I reminded her that there is nothing like the real deal, gosh, she finished her husband......Her words , after 1 min he has come, is is tired and sleeps off,, since she married him he has never attempted a 2nd round and even after erection his willy is still small,lol. She doesn't know how he is able to cheat and what those girls see in him, lmao.
DeleteHmmm, oya who don kiss and tell...make we hear
ReplyDeleteI miss my ex oooooo
Men are always in the business of kissing and telling.
ReplyDeleteIts their hobby, I mean habit
There are exceptions though
Don't mind them. Some will even go and tell their friends to try their luck.
DeleteStella,
DeleteSome men do this kiss and tell thing codedly.
You have a fling with them.
They go about telling people to come and beg you, indirectly divulging the issue to your family and friends. This is because, anyone they tell must ask for details of the 'relationship' and 'breakup' meanwhile you just had a moment of indiscretion with them. Later, when you accoust them, they will beg you and say it was cause they wanted you to forgive them and have them back.
Dirty porks.
@Peal you know them very well. *coded tellers*. They act all innocent and faultless. They do wrong and wont accept their wrongs and want you to just flow freely. They tell the story to suit them and act like they are sorry and beg on their behalf. Smh. gewing gum boys.
DeleteHahaha Stella na air u dey call so. Cos dem no go gree say na their MO be that.
ReplyDeleteHahahahhahaha......
ReplyDeleteNa oloriburuku men Dem plenty these days ooooo••
Smtcheeeeerwwww
Real men don't do this shit
DeleteOnly boys and underage kids that do such.
Women should stop dating all dis chew gum boys to avoid something like this.
I can't do that so many celeb I have fucked I can't spill
DeleteGerman juice, u are a proper whore! A domestic prostitute! Dirty pig!
DeleteAnom 16.12 if you think german juice is female. Hmmmm think again. Many that make outrageous comments on blogs are men wwho want people to reply and bash women. There is one here in my office sef. Mtcheew
DeleteI meaniriya? Tell me sumfin..Anon 16:12...choi
DeleteIdiot anon I don't do dicks I do pussy the joke is on u
DeleteI said this thing sometime ago last year but everyone ignored me, I have followed some comments closely I can tell you some people here disguise to be female while they are male and vice versa
DeleteU so dumb so that u do pusy means am a male dumb
DeleteDon't mind dem,shameless fools
ReplyDelete********LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*********
Biko nu, why did I not meet such kiss and tell men in d past? Mschew, do they think it's only abt them? Ladies, be strong don't let these men think d world is @ their feet.If a guy kisses n tells on u my beautiful girls pls open ur mouth and blow ur own trumpet.Afterall, u also fucked him as he did baa? U used him as he did? Equation solved.simply put, u gave him a SYMPATHETIC FUCK.some wicked men always have a reason for d useless things they do.
ReplyDeleteHahahahah
DeleteBe deceiving yourself there
Men kiss and tell because they know they can get away with it. On the otherhand women will be called names like slut, cheap, prostitute, loose, shameless etc. Also women have their dignity and pride to protect.
ReplyDeleteI am a female and I kisss and tell!
ReplyDeleteFoolish fools!!!
ReplyDeleteMen Where art Thou All
ReplyDeleteShow yourself Here else !
The Ladies here are not smiling !
Need some Popcorn ...
ReplyDeleteKissing and Telling is wack!! Capital Wack!!
O setigo in phyno's voice
ReplyDeleteFoolish men do
ReplyDeleteKiSS AND TELL
ReplyDelete(1) what if the actual intention and goal of the sex in the first place was so it can be told? Of what use is the sex if it was not told? Did you ever think of that?
(2) The opposite of kiss and tell is falling hand. What if the boy is on his own and the girl starts saying disparaging things about him and the only way he can clear the air is to respond by telling. And by this, the lady stops her hurtgul attitude and everyone is happy again. Did you ever think of that?
The point is, there is no hard and fast rule. It is a per-situation basis. Sometimes, there is no need and sometimes it can be useful.
Please let us not let emotions becloud our ability to objectively analyse situations.
Thank you
Is that your picture up there?
DeleteJesus is Lord!!!
What begeth/begoth you, a gorrila?!!!
You look like one, you think like one.......
I rest my case!
SHARONNA
Now datz harsh! Did u create ursef? Don't u know if given d chance to create himsef ds dude would make himsef perfect? People should stop vomiting unnecessary rubbish biko!
Delete@diamondz ezigbo mmadu,..and you think that's the bv's pix.
DeleteThink again plss, cos Pple use all sorts of DPs here, that ain't theirs.
Lwkmd. Of cos that pic is from the Internet. Are u just seeing it? Lmao.
DeleteHappened to me. Marry he no fit marry me! He ran off and married one girl so. 3 years after God blessed me with a cool handsome man and he goes behind my back spreading rumours. I am Happily married to my true love notwithstanding.
ReplyDeleteStella hun,no mind dem fools,they can never grow up.
ReplyDeleteIt is so much more worse when the one telling is your husband. It is the worst betrayal ever.
ReplyDeleteIt is so much worse when the person telling is your husband. It's the worst kind of betrayal especially when they are lies.
ReplyDeleteYes they are plenty of them out there. Highly immature men or women who go about running their mouths about the private things they did with their ex lovers. Freakin immature assholes. Today na today.
ReplyDeleteevery one is guilty of this,both male and female.Lol
ReplyDeleteWho told you every one is guilty of it? May be u do it too!
DeleteI wish aall men will jut shut their fucking mouth even if they actually had something with a girl before the breakup..
ReplyDeleteNa one of the reaon some girls no wan do anything with guys before marriage be that
Becos dem mouth na Like basket. It leeks anyhow, Uncontrollable
Hian!!!
SDKERS ROCKs Mehn
Na so dem be ooo. Immature fools
ReplyDeleteYa, let's hear their reasons.....yeye men
ReplyDeleteSome men don't kiss n still tell they kiss.
ReplyDeleteWomen shd be more wary of those.
Kiss n tell, do I do that?
Not entirely true!
Lol! Waiting for comments to roll in.
ReplyDeleteHaving a "third leg" doesn't necessarily make one a man. What makes a man is his character.
ReplyDeleteStella not all men are like that oh. Had something with a colleague which we kept quiet, though it didn't work out, none of our coworkers know about it till date, only close friends and they don't even know the details of the separation. Irs only all these immature chewing gum boys that run their mouths like tap.
ReplyDeleteC ' mon, some women kiss and tell too.
ReplyDeleteMen do it to boost their ego.
Women do it because....
Ok, I do it cos I want my friends to know that the guy is not all that they think he is.
two acts by two adults but one shamelessly thinks that his image is not at stake because the society make it seem so anyway some ladies are wiser now. please visit www.africaintels.com.help a sister grow
ReplyDeleteTHELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeleteIts only a childish man dat wud ever kiss and tell,i mean who does that?,of what use and beneift is it to the man when he goes spilling all the drama,sexcapades et al after a rship packs up!!!
A friend onces told me how she overheard two nigga gossiping about a lady in yoruba on how he had f**kd the hell outa her,he was describing how wide eyed her vjajayjay looks like and the funniest tin was that that babe was right at their front buh didn't understand yoruba!!!.....
Real men don't kiss and tell,only frustrated niggas does that!!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
Wide eyed, your name appears here.
DeleteLOL ! Abeg na joke oh.
THELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeleteIts only a childish man dat wud ever kiss and tell,i mean who does that?,of what use and beneift is it to the man when he goes spilling all the drama,sexcapades et al after a rship packs up!!!
A friend onces told me how she overheard two nigga gossiping about a lady in yoruba on how he had f**kd the hell outa her,he was describing how wide eyed her vjajayjay looks like and the funniest tin was that that babe was right at their front buh didn't understand yoruba!!!.....
Real men don't kiss and tell,only frustrated niggas does that!!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
men who talk too much are d ones likely t kiss n tell afta a r/ship packs up. i detest such men. may i neva get involv wt dem.
ReplyDeleteSome *quiet* men can kiss and tell chei. They act all reserve and calm. Any issue they will tell and act innocent whereas they r they issue but cos people see the quiet side of them they believe all they say and fault the other party . Settle ur issues within urself and stop looking for sympathy . Real men handle their business and not acting all innocent and looking for sympathy. Smh!. *Sideeyes*.
DeleteSome men are just evil, vindictive, and wizardry lives inside of them. They don't want you oh, yet they'll stop at nothing to spoil your name, ladies get ready for men like that and fight fire with fire.
ReplyDeleteIgbos be taking over Stella's blog till she did 360 on them!!!bwahahaha
ReplyDeleteStella it's not fair in a cowardice manner
Then the scream blue murder, victimisation.
Again we are the best and we take over everything. Kikikikiki, hahahahaha!
Orisa boys came out, they abandoned their big house, runs back to their red sand village- bwahahahaha
Ezenwayi be like, am the voltron who takes the D from Yorubas. Hahahahaha
Anybody wanna beef, jump into Lagoon. Kikikikij
Middle finger
Did you listen to yourself?
DeleteCos you just sounded stupid.
But you know that you lack sense??? Smh. A lot of yaba left candidates out on the stre.
DeleteVery very STUPID
Deleteand the reason for this is?
DeleteOmg
DeleteTake your BLUE pills right now!
Ezenwanyi is now Titos...
DeleteAgwu!!!...
Guys kiss n tell abt a girl they don't like but just wana get down with her (prolly cos of stature, beauty,bet etc) most times.... rubbish.
ReplyDeleteUbi franklin. Come and answer query
ReplyDeleteOya step forward, guys that have kissed and told...
ReplyDelete9ja men are fond of that
ReplyDeleteThat was my exact anger with Ubi you are engaged to Lilian. Forget old matters as if I be Lilian I go vexxxxxx
ReplyDeleteSome men no just get shame at all,u f**k her she f**k u kini big deal.
ReplyDeleteAbi.
Delete2 ge 4.
what's the noise for ?
That is why i will always respect Seal, he never disrespected Heidi Klum when she humiliated him by sleeping around, causing the infamous divorce. He said he will always love and respect this woman because, "she is the mother of my kids"
ReplyDeleteSome men are fools and they have no class!
That's a real man.
DeleteRespect.
Lol. Stella ti binu
ReplyDeleteKikikikik; Stella you dey vex ooo!!! Seriously you made me lol. You are very right I am yet to see any lady that kissed and tell
ReplyDeleteHahaha, Stella e haff vex.
ReplyDeleteKiss and tell men, oya.
ReplyDeleteNo 1 Tuface
No 2: Franklin
No3: Lamide
No 4: Billionnaire oyiri brother that went with ashewo
oya i don forget many names.
Over sabi blog visitors please make una add names for me
They are every where,even the one you least expect..when i broke up with my ex he went round telling people that know me that,am a flirt n bad person.. and i left him because other men matter full my eye
ReplyDeleteDon't mind them
ReplyDeleteBaskemouth na im dem be
Ubi
Ali baba...u sabi talk shaa
Oritsefemi...anu mpama
Iyanya...local looking boy forming sexy
Flaovour...
Davido
This memo is for all of you.
XOXO MYSTERY
Datz deir best moment na-kissing and telling
ReplyDeleteOnly the boys kiss and tell, to avoid stories that touch the heart Plz run away from boys!
ReplyDeleteI had one. He didn't evn do nada yet went about spreading false rumour bout me. I almost broke his baboon head or crippled him but later changed my mind. That was God's intervention cos he wouldn't hav survived it.
ReplyDeleteLolz
DeleteThose ones are the worst.
DeleteRun from 'em.
The fun is in the telling ask all these small boys.
ReplyDelete@Stella, quite sure you know men are "Egoistically" created. So they do it (though I consider it immature and insensitive) to massage their ego, and to console themselves that they didn't do badly afterall especially if the relationship didn't go the way they hv planned it or when heartbroken to say the least. Though women kiss n tell too but not as pronounced as men do.
ReplyDeleteHello y'all.
ReplyDeletesome dont even get to kiss but yet tell all sorts of BS about a lady..i mean its so sick..was shocked it happened to me recently...i feel it so immature and way too childish..
ReplyDeleteIt has happened to me!!!one idiot dt ws tryn so hard to sleep with me and failed,,do u know d fool went to tell a close friend of mine(male) dt he slept with me?oh I was mad to say d least,i wanted to confront him bt my friend advised me against it mtchwww nonsensetical fellow
DeleteIts so ugly and degrading to the teller aswell
ReplyDeleteYea esp the Teller.Lolz
DeleteHahahaha TGW mind yourself o, abi how the teller for be? Lol.
DeleteIts in them Stella,Chop and clean mouth isn't for some of them,mbanu! They must talk like parrot,either to humiliate the girl in question or just to brag to friends they are capable,and can deal with the female folks as pleases them.
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ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
Am just like this though.....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Oya boys spill d beans
ReplyDeleteSDK Is that a threat? mtscheew!
ReplyDeleteA perfect example of kiss and tell on this blog is bitchplis
ReplyDeleteMen and Women Kiss and Tell if u Ask me
ReplyDeleteBuh women hardly do it out of vengeance or bile....
The Men do it more.
Kai!
A Man that Does that is Sooo neausating!
Like that write up by d way.
what satisfaction do men deriv after they kiss and tell
ReplyDeleteMaturity is not just by d age!Real men don't have time blabbing.A gentleman will always be a gentleman.
ReplyDeleteThe girls should also call them out!! most of this kiss and tell guys usually suck in bed that why they need to feed their already over bloated ego by bragging.
ReplyDeleteYou know dis kinda shit happened to me in university. Went to a house party back den wit my boyfriend and one of d guys went and told my bf den dat he knows me, dat infact me and him have smthn going on. mention my name and my surname. meanwhile I neva see dis guy or even know of his existence, confusion catch me. Dey said he spoke wit such confidence and even swore dat my bf was even believing him. Fear catch me, me sef start believing maybe I get amnesia.
ReplyDeleteHOW can sm1 just form such a story. Luckily my bf later found out he's a tout..................FOREVER 16
lose msheww if he kisses & tells the woman should feel free to belittle him to the gutter level by ridiculing the size of his pr**k & that he lasts just 5 secs. Then sit back and watch him fight to restore his yeye dignity.
ReplyDeleteIt's an ego thing i think...counting numbers of the numbers they have slayed...May God forgive them!
ReplyDeleteA guy slept with his babe and went on to tell his friends and they had a good laugh he eventually married the girl and started regretting so when they all gather and they are bored they bring it up and yap the hell out of him
ReplyDeleteImagine!
DeleteWhy would I wanna kiss and tell, I'm too busy making money
ReplyDeleteMostly they use interview to tell after dem kiss finish.
ReplyDeleteLadies shld be very careful with some men.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm! I had one very nasty xperience last year. One broke niccur went about telling pple in my home town how we've both staffed n he was sooo gud dat I promised 2 b straffing him even when am married! This is sumone dat is even scared 2 talk 2 me wen he sees me! A guy dat does not even no if my clit is red or pink! Sumone dats stays in calabar n I reside in Portharcourt. Till 2day I still wonder if it was tru bluetooth we staffed? He was not even worth confronting! I just left him in God hands!
ReplyDeleteFunny
DeleteNo SDK, don't make it a male thing, "WRONG" Women also kiss and tell,women also destroy men's new relationships as soon as the men move on. They also threaten some men with loads of stuff after a breakup. What do we call such women? What category do those women fall into. I believe is an individual thing not men stuff alone.
ReplyDeleteEven married men kiss and tell especially when they have issues with their wife. I have an uncle who complained the wife is not good in bed, her cooking is horrible and she has body odor. If a married man can talk like this Abt his wife imagine a single man. I thank God for the man that I am getting married to, he's too busy to be so petty. Some men are terribly petty!
ReplyDeleteJeeezzz. Did they blind fold him to marry her? Only her, all these faults? Na wa o
DeleteThe Men Kiss and Tell while the Women tro small yabbing here and there. Lol
ReplyDeleteAnyways I see it as degrading and annoying,worst of all d guy would encourage his friends to go and try his luck(nonsense). Women hardly kiss and tell cos to an extent na falling hand na, she has her integrity to protect na cos she wldnt want anybody to GOSSIP and talk down on her o.
Abeg we are all guilty about this especially women, there is no woman that haven't discussed her sexlife with a friend, (good or bad), though the motive of telling might differs,
ReplyDeleteWhat we felt, some will even ask fo advice to knw if they are doing it right!
If you haven't kissed and told then you are DEAF AND DUMB!
It's mostly d guys dat do dis shit especially wen dey v bin turned down or set a bet over a female they think won't fancy dem . Unfortunately 4me it's usually female friends dat has kissed n told on me just like d idiot under anonymous aka mary expo on dis blog.thank God all her plans failed n my bf n I still waxing.
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