Hmmmmm......
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
BLOWING THE WHISTLE ON A KISS AND TELL
Stella ukwusugar, you must enjoy me oh! Lmao
Good evening dear,
Hope family is bubbling?
This story has been eating me up since weekend,
Your kiss and tell story just encouraged me to write.
Last Friday, my sister asked me to accompany her to her guy's place,
On getting there, its seemed a party was about to take place around,
We were advised to park elsewhere if we would be going same day.
My sister asked me to go down with what we bought and go inside
While she looks for a place to park,
Getting inside the compound, there was no light, doors and windows open,
I decided to sit outside and wait for her to come,
It happens that the guy was with his friend gisting about marriage,
My sister's boyfriend of 5 years said he is scared of marrying my sister because of her libido, That if he marries her, he will die young, that my sister can't do without sex bla bla bla
The other guy said that my sister looks decent and innocent, that its impossible, He said ok, that he was going to show him an example once she gets there.
My sister showed up and we entered the house ( I didn't tell her anything)
We had bought things to bake cake for him,
So, my sister said I should help her mix it that she was coming,
After about 10mins later, the guy came out of the room and rushed to the sitting room and sat down where his friend was...
My sister,was calling him on the phone,he shouted her name, that she should come to the sitting room if she wants to talk,
I guess he just wants to prove to his guy that my sister isn't decent.
I got angry and called my sister to come, She came to the kitchen crying, I asked her whats the problem,
She confided in me that she needed a man but the guy said he isn't in the mood.I didn't know what to tell her...
I have this same problem, but the difference here is I don't have a boyfriend.
Even when I was in a relationship, I have never asked a guy for it, (I'm a very shy person)
When the feelings gets hold of me, I behave like a druggy,I saw this same thing in my sister last week.
Is this a medical condition?
Is curbing it possible?
Are women with such libido seen as prostitutes by their lovers?
Is it bad to ask your man for sex?
I don't wanna tell my sister what I heard because I know she can't handle it, is my decision right?
I dont think it is a medical condition,you are just more highly sexed than others which is a good thing if you meet someone like you.Anyone who sees you as a prostitute is an E-DIOT!
Why would you keep such info from your sister?she needs to know that her boo aint got her back.
PLEASE TELL HER WHAT YOU HEARD.
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
LIES MEN TELL -THE BLACK CONDOM BROUHAHA
Hello Stella, please i will go straight to the point. I travelled home February with my kids before they shifted the election and i was almost due for my last baby, so i had him at home.
We came to our base last week and as i was cleaning the house i saw a used black condom inside the waste bin, when i ask dh he started acting african magic for me (where did you see it, hope you did not touch and bla bla bla) Before i said jack he went to the bedroom and collect annointing oil.
He poured anointing oil on the condom and went to room without any explanation to me. After three days when i came back from hospital for my baby's 6weeks, i went to him demanding for an explanation concerning the condom. He was kind of asking me if i have seen a black condom before that something is wrong somewhere and when i refused to accept his explanation, he got angry and left the house saying if i dont believe him that i can do whatever i feel like doing.
Since then he doesnt eat my food and he wouldnt bring money for food. Now my questions are- is there anything like black condom? Did i do anything wrong by asking for an explanation when it wasnt coming?
CONFUSE BV
LMAOOOO....kiss your DH for me and beg him to go Nollywood go collect script,I see another star in the making....The condom probably changed color due to heat or external influence or maybe the lady it was used on uses bleaching cream but that aint no voodoo abeg.How you pursue this is left to you but i would advise you thread wisely,you caught him black handed and he is playing the blame game with you.
Come to think of it there are coloured condoms.there is blue,yellow,red and brown
If you were expecting me to use your narrative today and its not here,please send me a mail cussing me out and i will use tomorrow.
Fellow Bvs, please help save a soul, my sister an accident victim is in dire need of 65k deposit and drugs for treatment, God knows this is not a scam, proofs are available, thanks.
ReplyDeleteCome this person,what if this blog does not exist,won't you look for money else where???...
DeleteDon't you have relatives??...
Biko get away...
Abeg wetin person go use for candida infection. Doctors in the house please help me o. The itching has reduced but I no it's still there.
Delete1st narrative got me thinking cos i'm lyk dat, I can go on 4 an hour n even b begging bae nt 2 cum sef, nw wondering if he tells his fwnds! *pensive*
DeletePoster 2:ur hubby is a real comedian, ewoo! U cracked me up. Biko settle with him, tel him u caught him bt U've 4given him. Atleast he used a condom. We all know men are proud n very few of dem acknowledge dier wrong. God bless n keep ur marriage dear.
N1, did you say your sister was shedding tears because she needed a d*ck ???? Na waa ooo. Who does that ??? I don't think its normal oo. I doubt if one man can satisfy such a woman ?? She must really love prick more than food.
DeleteThere is black condom poster 2 (dont ask how i know)....i guess he went for the expensive ones! there is black condom nd he was only acting....lol annoiting oil kwa? atleast he used protection....forgive him u hear...
Delete@anonymos if you can bear the smell of garlic, swallow one clove in d morning and
DeleteSorry and insert in ur vjay wen eva u shower.
DeleteOf course there is black condoms,its from a particular brand dat has many colours of condom......ur hubby can act for africa...his not eating ur food so u will feel bad and beg him,abeg just let sleeping dog lie,at least he remembered condom wen doing it.
DeletePoster 2- OMG!!! I can't stop laughing! Ur husband na pro! Lord have mercy.
DeleteSit him down n talk to him jare. Wife to husband...
Poster 1- abeg nothing do u! I feel ur sister should have "hold body" small till his frnd n evn u left bfor asking for sex,regardless ur husbands will enjoy una. Looool
Poster 1,i am a lady with very high libido too. I may be driving and i will feel a sharp feeling in my woman-place. I easily get turned on and my hubby knows this. He does his job well and sometimes,i still complain.
DeleteIt is a normal feeling,just learn how to manage it. Do not give in to temptations. God bless you.
Narrative Number 2!!! Your husband is so funny! Comedian of the year! Now since he wants to turn it into comedy, u too flipped the script... Call him dear! We need to pray, me too I have never seen black condoms before! Please bring your anointing oil, now start mountain fire or is it fire of mountain prayers on whoever used the condom and put it in ur trash... Tell him dear please as a united effort please about Amen to my prayers so that our family is covered spiritually... If he refuses after the first prayer to shout AMEN, then u have ur answer... Lolll, he is too funny, u too become a comedian, before u know it he will confess sharp sharp
DeletePoster one: Tell your sister to start having anal sex.The orgasm she will have from it will last her longer.
DeletePoster two : Just have one round of anal sex with your husband.The two of you will start speaking in tongues and it will be easier to settle your differences .
Poster 1: I think you should tell her sister, because she would be spending years with the guy and he won't even let her know that she would be his bride, and years would be wasted! And she would be heart-broken!!!
DeletePoster 2: Your husband don watch Nollywood yoruba too much, pls condoms have different colours including BLACK!! You know what you should do, tell someone or u go and get a black unused condom and show him that you caught him red handed and its not jazz!! He had better apologize for everything b4 matters get worse!!! See has cheater waste anointing oil!! THERE IS BLACK CONDOM and other colors
Poster 1: so u prefare 2 watch ur sister make a fool of herself? Do u think that guy is d only friend her bf is telling about her libido? U want her 2 b d topic of discussion when boys( cos he's definitely not a man) re drinking beer? Tell ur sister asap so she can know how 2 control her urges.
DeleteBut wait o. Did u say she was crying? E reach 4 d guy 2 complain o. Hian!
Poster 1:
ReplyDeleteKonji is a bastard.
Stella has enough dick seats for the two of you.
Feel free to screw yourselves to stupor.
Poster2:
Lol@ anointing oil.
Lemme read comments.
@poster1 : there is nothing wrong with you n your sister.
DeleteBut nawa 4 that kind libido, sex doesn't trip me biko.
Wonder how u n your sis copes.
And please tell your sister what you found out so that she will stop wasting her time unless u want her to become anuty gwegwegwe.
@poster2 : your husband is a serial cheat.
He is trying to cover up his cheating tracks.
And to think he stopped eating your food or even give you money for food makes him an unrepentant cheat.
No conscience or whatsoever.
Tufiakwa
Poster1 C'mon why didn't you tell ur sis what you heard,since she's your confidant.No normal Man will like to marry her,except he's on same high level(libido) as hers..I bet Dildo no go do una sef. But wait,is it hereditary?
DeletePoster2 DH is a chronic cheater and a liar too,Console ur heart.Activate your snooping skills.Its well
Poster 2: Your husband is using attack as the best defense,you better snoop to know what you are up against....Badass Maga needs a Grammy
DeleteAn Oscar
DeleteDear Sisters, it is very okay to have a high libido, it's no crime but you must manage it to avoid people passing unwanted comment about you.
DeleteI have a strong libido, could have sex for 4-6 hours at night and would want more before lunch.
Everybody with his own body, just tell you boo to stop being a boy and man up.
Poster two: Your husband even remember to use a condom, he tried.
How many time do you have to cheat before you become a serial cheater.
I hear he/she is a serial cheat.
Poster 1- you and your sis have such high libido and could be tagged nymphs (no disrespect )
ReplyDeleteYou both should ensure you get involved with men with such level of libido when thinking marriage
Chai! I can imagine...Fire!
Una go fuck tire...
Poster 2- your hubby is a bloody cheat and a terrible liar.
Nymphs ke???
DeleteLike say u no ldey cchop prik everyday bloggy....looool
Taaaaah Bloggie
DeleteMe,i get high libido too.
Formerly i was rigid but now i am great
Kikikikiiki
Deletehope you know that sex is food . Erm Sorry not food. Ds wan you de collect pr**k everyday. #wink
Hehe
Poster 1, kindly tell ur sis what u overheard. It ll help to start looking for another bf on time o since d dude doesn't wana settle down with her cause if her high libido
DeletePoster 2, ur hubby eeh. His drama no b here o. He is a cheat, a careless one at dat. Anyways don't mind him u hear, wen he is tired he ll start eating and I bet he ll continue getting it outside. Just pay attention to ur newborn till he comes around, Goodluck
Black condom kwa? Odi egwu o!
ReplyDelete#BabatundeRajiFasholaForFCTMinister!
Lawd I have ROTFL!!! Poster 2 ur husband na "bastard" I mean that not as an insult hahahahhahahahahahahha abeg there are coloured condoms and what a good way for him to use that as cover up. No mind am jawe, sha just know in ur mind that he is a cheat and be thankful he isn't knacking raw. He will come round I suppose he just doesn't want u to pursue d matter
DeleteA GWARI native of FCT for minister FCT! We are indegene and that position belongs to us
DeleteEven if a Gwari native doesn't qualify?
DeleteWhy wouldn't they have a qualified gwari native, pls the fct should go to indigenes ,btw what qualifications is needed?
DeleteFellow Bvs, please help save a soul, my sister an accident victim is in dire need of 65k deposit and drugs for treatment, God knows this is not a scam, proofs are available, thanks.
ReplyDeleteKai u re disturbing people. Who makes request with anonymous? Mail Stella and show proofs then we can consider raising the money
DeleteSend the proof
DeleteNarrative 1; Tell your sister her boo aint loyal.
ReplyDeleteLike Stella said, it's just high,libido, nothing to worry about.
2; Just pray, keep trying to communicate. DO NOT APOLOGIZE about anything
Narrative. 1 u said you don't have a man, can I hook you up? Them plenty wey dey find ppl like una. But for ur sister to even be shedding tears(unless u exaggerated that part) that she needs a man, I sincerely don't think it's normal. Una need help
ReplyDeleteAm a guy, don't mind getting hooked up
DeleteMany guys will tell you they need that kind of woman but by the time they start sleeping with you they will get fed up,how many men can sleep with a lady 10times a day without drugs and especially if he needs to work and maybe comes home late, my dear you do have a problem because too much of everything is bad,better get involved in sports or learn a new skill,keep yourself very busy so your need for sex will not be too much, most of the people telling you you are OK may have been into prostitution or are nymphs but are just consoling themselves, some men don't like to tell a lady off but it doesn't mean they like being oversexed except he is on drugs or he isn't making money go to the woman and is trying to use sex to compensate for some inadequacies,moderation is the key to most things in life,even drinking too much water is bad so advise yourself.
Deleteposter 1, yes i agree with sdk, i advise you tell her what u heard since the guy is too childish to discuss such matter with sumone he called his girlfren. sum guys are pricks
ReplyDeleteWhy not reconcile with him
Deletego to a sex store or pharmacy.
Buy a black condom.
Get home, cook 4 him and smile with him
When he's done, bring out d black condom....**music tempo rises**
Suggest both of u use it when you've given birth.
He'll look suprised.
Tell him not to fear...that these things exist. A blackbird from India didn't just drop it in ur compound. But someone used it. Maybe a visitor came or maybe maybe maybe...
He'll react with guilt.
Either he evades further or says
"Baby, let me not lie again, Festus came around with one woman, they were stranded, im so sorry, it was wrong of me to allow them but I jus didn't want u 2 ban him from coming again..."
Or tell you ure taking it too personal n trying 2 take away his peace of mind in his house.
He'll never confess. He'll lie though.
Don't know why some people lie about easily verifiable things. Is ur hubby a politician? They're good at play acting and melodrama.
**BNPNN
Bonaparte,this advice na corrrrrrrect. Babe,buy a black cd n watch his reaction
Delete1) My dear tell your sister. I just don't understand the reason why men like to kiss and tell tufia. Just tell ur sister biko
ReplyDelete2) Nne he is cheating
Poster 1,
ReplyDeleteI think high libido on some women is high...
Meanwhile biko,tell your sister everything you heard let her know the kind of a guy he is dating...
Umuazi everywhere...
Poster 2
Lmao at pouring anointing oil...
Jeezzzz...
Men are so dramatic when caught...poster,there is nothing like a black condom biko....
That's how used condoms looks like when it's not disposed properly....
Sorry to say but your husband is cheating on you...
You should even thank God that uses condom...
Ignore him...
Drama king no respect. He still has the guts to refuse food. Just how many days madam was away....naija men but why?
DeleteI dunno how to advice you cos I ain't married. Mbok he should bring money for food oh oh, if he doesn't want to eat tthat's
his bbusiness.
High libido on some women is high?
DeleteYes nne ignore him! Don't gv urself hypertension over ds matter,pray about this and call him up one morning 4 a heart to heart talk say by 5am,actually wake him up,take him by surprise and b calm,pls dont raise ur voice,dont expect him to admit he cheated cos u'll die trying just say whts on ur mind and by no means shd u apologise to him,eventually let it go n move on
DeleteI've cin a black condom, dere are joor. Dis cracked me up, was almost startin 2 cry abt my delayed flight. So many fights here 2day, twas almost lyk I was live @ A.y show.
DeleteYea....there are black condoms...and sweetie, your husband prolly entertained a lady friend in your absence...sorry lav.
Delete@ narrative one....I'm currently going through the same problem. I have a very high libido and this is the first relationship I'm in that my bf (who is an amazing person) doesn't match me. It's been very hard and I've spoken to him about it...it's not easy dear. Planning on getting a sex toy...maybe you should try that too.
*normal...
DeletePoster 2 lmfao "just negodu this your DH hmmm okay forgive him Biko nne
DeleteP1 pls get yourself a sex toy rabbit for beginners and thank me later * side eyes*
@d two narratives I couldn't stop laughing,@narative one dere is absolutely nothing wrong with u guys n narrative two got me laughing so hard in d bank n ppl were just looking at me n a gal by my side trying to spy my fone to see what is funny n Stella ur reply is Epic
ReplyDeleteN2, your husband slept with someone else.
ReplyDeleteStraight, simple and short!!!
And yes, there are black condoms.
N1, you and your sister are blessed!
Maybe you guys can supplement the real D with a dido??
My hubby bought this pack of multicoloured condoms and yes there are black condoms in the pack.
DeletePoster 2 your husband is such a drama king. He is just trying to blackmail you emotionally just to shift the blame. Now that you know he is a cheat be careful how you go about this whole thing before you ruin your marriage with your own hands.
Poster 1, Tell your sister and save her from an impending heartbreak.
As for your excess libido maybe you both need to see a psychologist.
All the best to both posters.
Really blessed! I wish mine was half as high but crying because d guy refused? Not so normal. Poster 1 U should tell ur sister. I also envy ur closeness.
DeletePoster 2 Demand for ur feeding money what effrontery! Let's say we buy his story, is that d way to go about showing annoyance? Wicked sombori.
@1, plz tell ur sis what u heard, and make Una try control Una libido abeg, not all men has d strength to Nack 10 times In a day, sex is not food u hear.
ReplyDelete@2, yes there's a dark condom, ur hubby no get respect for u at all, I don't even all this so calls married women, to think dat he brought a woman to ur matrimonial home shows dat ur hubby is a broke ass than cannot afford to pay for a hotel.
Poster 2, sorry I had to laugh. Ur hubby is as guilty as they come!!!
ReplyDeleteOhh chim! Poster1,please tell ur sis. I no,its hard but she will definately getover it. One man's meat anoda man's poison. Some men are looking for dis kindoff match and d one dat has it is complaining. Issorai. Poster2, your husband is the RMD of our time! Lol
ReplyDeleteP1 that one no be "kiss n tell". the guy dey talk him mind, him no wan die young.
ReplyDeleteHim dey confide in his frd befor him take the relship to nx levu.
P2 lololololololololololol
Poster 1: You have to tell your sister what you overheard. I had a flat mate that was highly charged like that, it gets worse when she's had a drink or 2. I recommend that you get yourselves a good vibrator (rampant rabbit) until you come across a man that can handle you. Never beg a man for sex, it inflates their egos.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Only gay men use black condoms. Your hubby is either bisexual or gay on the down low.
It is well.
ReplyDeletePoster2
ReplyDeleteThat your husband is a criminal sha..imagine bringing a woman to your home.that nigga ain't loyal..Nansense
Poster1
How old is your sisters boyfriend? He is so Immatured..discussing his sex life and making your sister look sex starved..infact he should be the one to work on his libido..com'on sex is fun fo petes sake!
poster 1, we shud hook up. u don't have a bf I dnt have a gf either dey all run away saying I like sex too much. we shud hook up and kill ourselves *wink*
ReplyDeleteLamidey is that you?
DeleteYup thr r black condoms,v used 1 with hubby bf,u just caught yur hubby cheating and he is playing reverse physiology on u,just let him knw u knw d game he is playing
ReplyDeletePoster1 u just reminded me of one of my sexy nympho ex that uses 4 rounds as foreplay, kai, it's got to a point I instead of cum I was shooting gas lol "kpef! Kpef!" after 5rounds, cum don Finnish inside ni lol, most guys r usually scared of women like that o thinking they could do anyone if der lover ain't around, we all scared, tho its hot wen a lady makes the moves. ii still miss my ex tho
ReplyDeleteExactly,women don't realise guys avoid such women,but ego would not let a man complain,. Please get a job and get busy + you are not supposed to have sex until after marriage
Deletelol @kpef kpef
DeleteI laugh tire...... Dis No2 don already make my day. Black condom? will ask my hubby when i get home. Dat man is not only a cheater but a lier and a pretender. He just turned to a prayer warrior. Lol!
ReplyDelete#1) some guys would bend over backwards for a lady that is ready to get to get it on more often than not please dont be bothered. Just tell ur sister her boo is not man enough to handle her.
ReplyDelete#2) Your Husband's f--k up needs to be treated but sweety do it with a whole lot of caution afterall he is still your man. May you Recieve sense
Poster1 tell your sister because it's obvious the guy won't marry her,they are not on the same page in nacking infact majority of men will see her as a lose nymphomaniac
ReplyDeletePoster2 there are different colours of condoms and your husband is a cheat
@P1 abeg tell your sis jarethe guy is tired of her,
ReplyDeleteN for her not to waste her time to avoid future heartbreak and besides its someone like your sis i love to meet cos i also love sex but shy wish am gona meet someone with high libidoski too so no shaking you guys just need to find the right guy like me
Kisses.
P2 you too take am easy i know you women you fit don over finish your man with bad words atleast he don use annointing oil sanitise the house so no wahala
na evil condom and tnk God as your minister of God wey dey house don use Ororo oroyo (oil)take cabash da evil black condom spirit no more worries it is well
kikikikiki
Poster 2,he cheated on u. Dnt let him play games with you.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 your sister cried because her sin partner refused to misbehave with her?Hmmm,too bad.She needs JESUS.
ReplyDeleteIf I were you poster1 I will tell my sister,her bf is just a. Kiddy why must he talk about iit in public.she better walk out of the relationship
ReplyDeletePoster 2,so simple your hubby cheated wwhile yyou are away.
Married women click my name, I have useful tips for you.married women only please
There's black and ebony condoms sef
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahahahaa honestly narative#2 sounded like a home video, lool, dat man is so dramatic! Madam! Plz forgive n pretend nothing happened.......it might be ur absent dat led to dat act, so thank God he used condom. Am. Stil laffing! #1 tell ur sis n stop worrying urself bc u re fyn.
ReplyDelete2- ur hubby is very funny. So he thinks he has pulled a fast one on you. I wonder how he would feel if he had been the one who found the condom. Since he is obviously isnt giving you face. Leave him alone na. When he is tired, he will come around. Abi how will someone be at fault and still be waiting for u to apologise. You caught him fair and square. He should pocket his ego and do the right thing.
ReplyDeleteCheating on ur heavily pregnant about-to-put-to-bed wife is not honourable at all. Men should always be in d labour room. Let them see what their wives go thru. Thats d best way. It will open their eyes.
1- pls i need you and your sis to dish out about one eight of ur libido to me. I need it abeg. Used to be like you. When i had my 1st baby, it was as if someone flushed my libido down the toilet. *sigh*
But seriously though, you're just fine. You should improvise if you are that horny. Thats why there r vibrators and a host of other things to help *dontaskme*
I'm yelling you this cos we are both married n are mothers.
DeleteYour hubby can revv your almost knocked engine with oral sex. When it's about to go down,go d 69 route and arrive at Orgasm door severally. Do everything else but actual penetration and your life will never be the same again.
If DH doesnt go the oral route,go down on him firzt,make your mouth cold(by drinking cold water or licking ice block,then go down on him.
Goodluck to you
Chei,this irene sef. I will like you to teach me some moves. In practical.
DeletePlease where is Chizoba? whether real or fake, av missed their drama, lol!!!
ReplyDeleteHehehehe @ poster two I can't stop laughing o, the issue isn't if there are black condoms. The issue is how did the condom get there. And I think the reason he took the anointing oil route is so he can say the condom appeared in the house i.e evil spirit condom. I can't stop laughing really. You shouldn't be angry he cheated,you should be angry that's he sees you as a dumb ass. make sure u explain to him that u don't like such dumb explanations and he shouldn't do it again. Lol, I'm still laughing
ReplyDeleteLol.. thank you. Poster 2, you should be mad at the insult to your intelligence more than at the cheating if you ask me. You must be really naive for him to feel it will work in any case.
DeleteThank God for Stella's blog o.
Narrative 1 aka Juicy, nothing wrong with having a high libido please. Her boyfriend and his friend are bush men. They are the type that will marry and expect the woman to stay stiff. If she tries any new tricks on him, he will call her a prostitute. She should help herself and find a man that is enlightened. I won't talk about you guys waiting till you marry to have sex, i will just say please be careful.
ReplyDeleteNarr 2, your husband slept with someone else and even tried to use anointing oil to lie...may God deal with and expose him. Just be careful dear, your husband is cheating
N2 ur husband no try!
ReplyDeleteImagine taking a runz to his house!
Ur flank has been exposed!
Mtchw, can't deal.
Ukwu unussss Hafa hahahahahahahahaa
It's normal
No fear!
Just look for man like Justin slayer n u r good to go.
Well, first narrator, I had my husband called me a nymphomaniac once. So I stopped asking and he hates it. I told him why though and he is pretending he can't remember ever saying that.
ReplyDeleteNarrative, your husband is a clown. Guys are usually like that. They use Shakira when they are caught out.
Poster1 u better tell ur sis before its too late shebi d guy said he cnt marry her y waste her time then u guys should buy sex toy
ReplyDeletePoster2 no b small Africa magic o I laughed so hard I beg he's lying jor nd for d records black condom dey o he fucked a girl in ur matrimonial home nd forgot to trash his shit,cum dey use annoiting oil bless am hahahaha
Poster 1: tell ur sister everything. She nids to know d kind of man she is dating.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: ur hubby cheated on u and felt the best way to cover up after u found out was to play the victim.
let me relax an read comments... Lmao @ anointing oil, some men and their drama sef.
ReplyDeleteMy dear there's black condom o! I think they started making different colours, innovation if u get what I mean. Poster 1, tell your sister plus drop ur details for high libido young man. I'll hook u up.
ReplyDeleteposter 1: please you guys just need work on urselves cos d guy probably scared if he marry ur sis and cant meet up even gate man go dey hammer dey go....
ReplyDeleteposter 2:pls sit oga quietly and discuss with him.let him know you are not a dummy,in fact he fucked a babe in your home.Next time he should respect himself and get a cheap hotel.mumu man!
hahahaha ur husband is really a drama queen ..he is cheating on u full time dont mind him
ReplyDeleteP2
ReplyDeleteThe best form of Defense is Attack P2
Please tell you sister what her supposedly boyfriend sais with his friends. The put a little control in there. Too much of everything is bad. Please be ladylike.. Let a guy ask, do shakara before going on all the way *wink*
LADY IGO SAID TO POSTER 1
ReplyDeleteWERE YOU THIS WAY BEFORE YOUR FIRST SEX?
I know a lady who had same issues. She confided that hers started with her first sex . . . she just got addicted to it like cocaine. This girl was a virgin until she was 24; a decent girl who wanted a career as a pilot . . . and due to peer pressure, she accepted to date a guy who because he was a pilot used the girls prospective career as a bait to lure her into a distracting relationship; distracting because he never intended marriage just play. But baby girl understood it as marriage in progress. She put a "no sex banner" etc. and the guy agreed . . . due to peer pressure again, she succumbed to alcohol (due pilots get drunk?); it was at a party and all her girlfriends were doing it and she did. She was just borderline drunk just as the pilot boyfriend. She entered the pilots car for a drive home and was the one unfastening his his pants' zipper. She was on top of the situation for hours and that was it. By morning; from her own words "I just could not stay a day without sex . . . many times, I used every object I could find to pound myself but the need for a man was so overpowering . . " When she sought help, the minister quoted just one scripture . . . a person is a slave to whatever has mastered him/her. second Peter two vs. nineteen. She told her that she needed another master and . . . led her to Christ. Then the desire left instantly. Subsequently, she had to learn to fast and fill her mind with the word of God. she learnt fruit fast and normal fasts etc. And apart from being in control of her own mind, she lost the excess fast on her abdomen which she had for long yearned for.
"Then Jesus said, "Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest".
Experience and scripture wise, I've found out that in sex, there is a transfer of spirit involved; once sex is done outside of marriage, manipulation is the rule. . . .
LADY IGO WITH REGARDS.
Today is d turn of a pilot. Issoke
DeleteNice one
DeleteGet out with your face stories!!! Your advice is nice but you can't always have relatable stories for each problem...
DeleteLol
DeleteU always know a lady or a man. Time has proven that story tellers in this blog are usually liars(u might be an exception shaa since u are spicing urs up with d scripture)
DeleteI concur oh! The first guy ehm.
DeleteI sincerely hope ladies will take a minute to think about this comment o.
DeleteIn love with this Lady IGO
DeleteGod bless you richly
Lady IGO you may think what you are doing is a joke but I tell you God will bless you for you are that one person God asked to see so he could spare Sodom/Gomorrah. Tank you for making me know their is profit in keeping God' s word even though we may not see it now but it will surely come to pass. Their is peace for those who keep God's word.
Deleteposter 1..it is not a medical condition, you just have high libido.
ReplyDeleteposter2...black condom..(LMAO)
P1, your bf no be am at all. P2, your dh cheated on you, sorry
ReplyDeleteLOL... My chest oh!
ReplyDeletePoster 1.. Please tell your sister, let her know the kind of man she is with and how he sees her.
Poster 2... Your husband cheated. Pray for him. Because this one he is not eating your food again trying to turn the table. E get as e be.
poster 1: i wonder why communication is lacking in relationships nowadays....why cant ur sister's boyfriend tell her about his thoughts, why discuss it with friends? meaning he has no respect for her...pls discuss the issue with your sister and look for a solution. Am sure from the discussion, you can also learn.Having a high libido can be a blessing if you can handle it well with your partner.Am sure your sister have no idea her boyfriend dosnt like the fact that she likes sex, am sure she thinks he enjoys every bit.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: condoms now come in different sizes, fragrances and colours. He cheated on you, his anger is just a defense mechanism to avoid him from explaining. you didnt fall for his drama.
Stella u took these words out of my mouth.....
ReplyDeletePoster 1-follow Stella advice
Poster 2-???
Ass licker. Tueh!
Deletethere is a condom called Aganzi..its black in color..
ReplyDeleteNarr1...Chai,you and your sis are highly 'blessed' Lol. Nothing is wrong with you guys abeg,but atleast you babes should try to hold body at times. When the urge comes,just give yourselves heavy knock on the head and you will feel better.Lmao...
ReplyDeleteNarr2...Your hubby is a guy man,he had sex with someone else shikena.
N2 Lolz ur story just made my day it was so funny asin ur husband is funny sha I can't judge him for cheating I don't know how much he tired for avoid it but the conji was too much sha the show he put on is funny enough for u to forgive him
ReplyDeleteur hubby can lie ooooooo.
ReplyDeleteGbese re she no dey tired... give ya sister my number straight trust me her life will never remain the same.
ReplyDeleteLol chooi ur husband na badooo lol...see anointing NO1 try tell ur sis her boos plan biko..
ReplyDeletePoster 2 Nne eehh ur husband is an unrepentant liar. There r coloured condoms and yes black is one of those colours. U can Google 'black condoms' and see pictures. U can even go ahead and order and show him. Playing u for a fool is even the worst part of this gist.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, your husband cheated, just ignore him for peace to rain in you home.
ReplyDeleteIf she was the one who cheated, would he ignore her?
DeleteFoolish comment. Mtchew
Peace to rain ko, war to sun ni.
Poster 1 pls tell Ur sis about it. I pray U 2 find d kind of men U both deserve
ReplyDeletePoster 2, I'm confused
Poster 2: ur husband is a movie actor, can't stop laughing at the anointing oil part! Really! Men tho
ReplyDeleteNarrative one, am in dsame shoes as u pple. Mine is worst b cos my guy is a one minute Man nd I feel so depress after d show cos I dnt eva reach orgasm. Bcos of dis I decided to stay calibate, till I find d right man.
ReplyDeleteBV's I also have a high libido, I could have sex everyday if I could. Twice if d situation presents itself. D funny thing is I wasn't like dis before marriage, I kind of even hated sex.
ReplyDeleteBut bcos my husband doesn't live in lagos. Im constantly horny,and when I see him I just want it everyday,even 2ce a day, till he leaves again. Smtimes im at work and thinking of sex. I ONLY SLEEP WITH MY HUSBAND O,no1 else.
Smtimes he even complains that am I not tired. it can be really embarrassing when I initiate sex and he says he's tired. IM STARTING TO FEAR THAT THERE IS SMTHN WRONG WITH ME. But I wld neva ever sleep with another man.
#teamukwusugar
DeletePoster 1, there is nothing wrong with you and your sister, especially if either or both of you are in your 30s. it is a well known fact that women peak sexually in their 30s and so if this is the case, it is normal. even if it is not, it is still normal and your sister's bf is d one with the problem. he probably doesn't have a very high sex drive and will find a way to make it look like ur sis has a problem so he feels better about his shortcomings. there is NOTHING wrong with a woman having a high libido. you just have to find a suitable match. its the same thing where a woman with a low libido is paired with a man with a high one, it cant work. and in that case too it will still be the woman's fault cuz she cant keep up. Double standards are everywhere in this country. I'm like you, I have a very high sex drive, difference is my bf's own is just as high so we are very evenly matched, no problems in that area. if that guy cant handle ur sis, let her move on biko because it will surely be an issue if and when they get married. but again there is nothing wrong with either of you.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, there is something like a black condom. a simple google image search will reveal that. your husband is cheating and is a terrible actor to boot.
So why are you guys not married? You can have a high sex drive but if you lack self control then their us problem, what if the man travels or is sick or whatever that will make you unable to have sex for months that means the relationship is over,bear join mind that if sex is all you have with your man then you are finished with time you will understand me,that guy may be tired of you and you won't know,the heart of man is desperately wicked. You don't even have regard for God that is the reason you are flaunting fornication
DeleteN1, pls tell ur sis bc it's good for a guy or gal to marry someone wt d same level of libido to avoid story dt touches d heart later. Tell her so dt she will stop wasting her time wt d guy since d guy had said he won't marry her bc of dt. Its better she quit now n find someone like her dan staying n at d end, d guy will use her finish, dump her n marry someone else. N2, men cheat, either u live wt it or u walk bc what's d guarantee dt ur next won't cheat?
ReplyDeletePoster 2,
ReplyDeleteThat is called defense mechanism!!!! am sorry to say this, but your husband slept with someone else. Yes, there is black condom or maybe the condom has been exposed to heat or other external factor.
Do not apologize!!!! And ask God for wisdom on how to resolve the matter. Please remember you have a little baby to take care of. The Lord is your strength. I know it must hurt so so much.
There are black condoms of-course! And dude is a smooth operator. Anointing oil kwa? Hahahaahha OMG! Stella like you said, the guy can act and needs to apply to be inducted to Nollywood. High libido is normal na my dear sis. And there are guys with high libido like myself so nothing new. Just find someone like you kaput!
ReplyDeleteAnd suddenly every guy on dis blog has high Libido.Lolest Yeye dey smell true True.
Delete@ 2, Yeah oh. Ur Dh doesn't respect you cha cha!.
ReplyDelete@1, my dear, tell your sis to leave that man. Her bf is just a small boy. Discussing her matter with his friend while he knew she was around is extremely childish. Nzuzu!
As for Una libido, God dey.
P1: Nothing wrong with you for having high libido. Tell your sister to stop wasting time on the mofo that talks about her to friends.
ReplyDeleteP2:This is enough to laugh oooh.Was expecting stella to let the lady know there are different colours of condom, the DH is a smooth operator, no voodoo nothing,he forgot it and use voodoo as an excuse. Everything in Africa is voodoo and devil,cast and bind.Lets stop disturbing Devil with anyhow cast and bind oooh.
Todays chronicle na igba ooo.
ReplyDeletethank God no blog visitors curse the two of you. I am happy to see good advices here.
Happy weekend everyone. Na till Monday i go comment ooo
#1 Nothing wrong with both of you. Tell your sister and let her pray for a guy like her. The guy must be a small boy. Ara-cha agbufuo.
ReplyDelete#2 That your husband na wa. You caught him and he started forming hard guy and want you to beg him, what rubbish! Yr hubby wan claim righteousness on top him own sin.
That anointing oil side na correct lol
And stella had to insult to prove her point to @poster 1? Smh.poster 1 you are a woman and I will be honest with you women like you hardly stay faithful in their relationship IF their man can't satisfy them.I do not blame your sis bf he sees his friend as his family so he confide in them and told them what he was scared of telling your sis infact I am short of words because your sis proved him right in front of everyone haba! Please work on yourself jare
ReplyDeleteGod bless you made,today's men are even more decent than the girls. Poster one,seek advise from a medical personnel not prostitutes. A prostitute will tell you that nothing is wrong with you till you are finally disgraced.better seek professional help.
DeleteThe two narratives just made my day.
ReplyDeleteToo funny.
Narrator 1,some men out there wish they cud have ladies like u,bcos most women libido is low,they don't like sex.Abegi I think ur sister's guy is just lazy.I always pray to marry a woman with a high libido oo.
ReplyDeleteWhen you meet her you will still complain after a while except you are a lazy man with no ambition I don't think having sex 365days in a year is normal it is not,
DeleteAnonymousApril 23, 2015 at 12:55 PM
ReplyDeleteUre Doin a Gud job nd all ur post always send a msg nd encourages me now to my issue I dated dis particular guy for 5yrs nd we Ve broken up for upto 2yrs now nd it was really hard for me wen we broke up Bt eventually I got over it bt now he keeps keepin in touch nd wants to see me nd Weneva we see we jst talk nd laugh he Neva say anytin Abt Gettin back togeda nd to be honest I still ve a soft spot for him
@ poster two, i dont care if the man doesnt eat but starving u who is breastfeeding of money to buy food is just wickedness. who raised this kinda men sef! what about his kids what will they eat? i dont understand what goes on in his mind. am just so mad right now
ReplyDeletePoster 1: Sex z 1 of the things that keep marriages. It is better u tell n d decision will now be left 4 her 2 decides
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Lolz! Just look 4 1 noolywood producer, negotiate with him/her on d pay & a movie will be produced.
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Poster 2: Just make sure he did not cheat with your househelp
ReplyDeleteYo! Poster 1, your sister in tears because of sex?????? Now, now that's an issue!!! An enormous one infact! There's a problem with the tears. High sex drive? Not so much an issue. He is obviously scared, because she can sleep with his gateman or driver or main guard when he is absent. Very high libido and very low libido is actually a problem, contrary to popular belief. Every body should have a healthy libido within a certain range, anything more or less is tending towards hypersexuality and hyposexuality respectively. Yep! Those are issues, look it up. You and your sister should make sure you guys dont fall into any above category. It applies to men too!
ReplyDeleteYo! Poster 1, your sister in tears because of sex?????? Now, now that's an issue!!! An enormous one infact! There's a problem with the tears. High sex drive? Not so much an issue. He is obviously scared, because she can sleep with his gateman or driver or main guard when he is absent. Very high libido and very low libido is actually a problem, contrary to popular belief. Every body should have a healthy libido within a certain range, anything more or less is tending towards hypersexuality and hyposexuality respectively. Yep! Those are issues, look it up. You and your sister should make sure you guys dont fall into any above category. It applies to men too!
ReplyDeleteThanks Stella love, I ll definitely let her know tonight.
ReplyDeleteI pray God blesses us with the right men.
My Anonymous 24 April 2015 at 15:16, Haa, we should just hook and start sexing? Fear God oh!
Nelo dear, na better husband I dey find oh! Thanks luv
Thanks to all my fellow Bv.
God bless you all
#1, NOTHING, absolutely NOTHING wrong with you and your sister. And tell your sister what you overheard, what kind of immature guy is that!!!
ReplyDeleteSome men like women with her libido.
#2, DH is playing smart, using reverse psychology on you!!! There are colored CDs. Though, I have not seen black. He is also using the best -defence- is -attack -approach by refusing to eat your food...and power -play by refusing to drop chop money... If the kids can find something to eat at home, I will say ignore him until he gets tired but if nothing at home to eat, apologize to him so you can feed your children but just know that he is lying. Best of luck.
Nitty.
Poster 1 try to tell your sis.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 your husband is an expert in lieing
#1: Awwww! Sweetie, you're kinda in a bind but you have to bite the bullet and tell your sister. I'm big on respecting people's privacy especially when it comes to their love-life but there are instances where keeping a sealed lip isn't an option. She needs to know she's in a one-sided relationship with a jerk, heading to Lala land!
ReplyDeleteThese are my reasons ;
1. It takes a special kind of lowlife to discuss his sex-life in such a derogatory way with his friends, not caring that his girl and her sis are around the corner.
2. It is subhuman to complain about your girl's hyperactive libido to the point where you feel marrying her is a threat to your life, yet you string her along for 5years and counting!
3. As if refusing to satisfy your girl's sexual needs isn't bad enough, you humiliate her by leaving her in the room calling out for you instead you ask her over to the sitting room just to convince your buddies that she's a...? what exactly? She's a sex monster? You keep your sex monster for 5years and she hasn't screwed your dangly bits off? She hasn't shagged your mates or whomever catches her eyes yet because of her insatiable sex appetite? Wow! What a well behaved and considerate sex monster!
If a guy can't respect the 5years he has shared with his girl, then he's one mean spirited punk!!! Even if a guy has to end a relationship of 5years, breaking her heart may be inevitable but he must preserve whatever is left of her dignity. It's oxymoronic, you can be call off a relationship in a kind manner.
Sweetie please tell your sister so she can hear from your lips what her mind has been trying to drum into her head for years. What she does next is entirely up to her, even if it costs you your friendship, it will be a worthy sacrifice and she will appreciate it later. You want to protect her feelings because you don't think she can handle it? What happens when this chap deals her a colossal emotional blow, which is imminent? It's a wild world, my sweet. In the battlefield of love, emotional injuries can't always be avoided, the gravity however can be controlled by not ignoring the red flags.
As for your sex drive, I wouldn't worry too much unless it gets out of control. If you can control your urges when you aren't in a relationship, I won't lose sleep over that. You aren't a Nymphomaniac, you just have an usually high libido and that may intimidate most men with the average sex drive. Nymphomaniacs can't function without sex and would have sex with whomever or whatever, wherever and however. It's an addiction. If your sister were a Nymphomaniac, she wouldn't bother begging that jerk for sex because she would have more than 7 guys on her speed dail and wouldn't hang around only 1 guy who clearly can't "scratch the itch" the way she craves.
There are men out there who would give their left arm to have ladies like you. When you finally meet your match...fireworks.com(pun intended). Baby, getting your sister to realise whom she's dating is the most important thing for now. I hope this ends well.
#e-bearhugs my lovely.
U r smart, check d meanin of the word "friend".
DeleteI think the sisters needs to check their s*x lives. Indecent might be a wrong choice of word.
Two unmarried sisters had gone to visit one of their boyfrds. They can't even stay through the day and she had to have s*x in the same apartment almost immediately she arrived knowing the frd is around, aside from that, even as a man, I can't imagine myself being accompanied by my brother to visit my gfrd and me havin s*x with her while my bro prolly wait in the living room.
They have issues and the guy ve every reason to be VERY concerned.
There's a black condom
ReplyDeleteStellaaaa stellaaaaa stellaaaaa!
ReplyDeleteHow many times I call you? Release my comment oh! Cos the soup no go done if e dey inside that pot! Post it oh! Hian
I like babes that ask for sex. @poster1. Poster 2.yes,black condom every were.pink,red,blue and so on
ReplyDeleteLady you husband needs to go into hollywood! My husband is exactly the same! Funny what marriage turn Nigerian women into. Na wa!
ReplyDeleteanon 23.21 ure correct abeg. the guy has every reason to be concerned. what kind of nympho will want to have sex when are sister and her bf's friend are all hanging out together. but the bf shouldnt have talked to his friend abt it naw. he aint loyal jo
ReplyDelete@poster 2: that your husband is a mad man. keeping malice with you and not providing money for food after cheating? God will not allow me come across such an idiotic husband abeg