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Thursday, March 05, 2015

Relationship Turn Offs/ Killers - KemiSaidSo!







Kemi says.....

I address relationship turnoffs from a guy's perspective: 

1. Dirty woman: woman, your underwear is torn. Overwear is torn. Clothes are dirty. You now look battered shattered tattered haggard. 


2. 24/7 scantily clad woman. I have seen girls even trying to wear skimpy stuff in winter. Really??? 

3. Overly made up woman. Please don't look like a masquerade all the time. Let your face breathe. 

4. Insecure, loud and violent woman. Not only men are aggressive. There are aggressive women too. Ladies, if you see your man talking to another girl, terminator 3 mode activated! Rachettness.  

5. Dependent woman. Carry your money to restaurant on your date. Offer to split the check. Don’t always ask men to bring 

6. Woman who bombards social media with photos and life history. If you now breakup, you’ll look like a serial dater. 

7. Still keep pursuing individual interests. Don't be clingy. 

8. Ladies who form. Don’t try to be what you’re not because you think that’s what the guy likes. if you can’t sweep, you can’t. period. If you’re an nkwobi and ewedu chic, don’t form pasta and shawarma.


9. Ladies who front and keep keeping guys in suspense. It’s either yes or no. This is 2015. We’re not gonna do the suspense thing. Playing hard to get is so 1990.





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77 comments:

  1. TyBouqui5 March 2015 at 13:02

    Okay.

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  2. Xclusive5 March 2015 at 13:02

    Waiting for IHN. Il come back and read this later. I must get free credit 2day. Have after 2years on this blog nothing nothing for me. 2day na 2day

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    1. Unknown5 March 2015 at 13:28

      Lol

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    2. Unknown5 March 2015 at 13:33

      Gbam! Gbamer! Gbamest!!!

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    3. Jasmine5 March 2015 at 15:58

      Hahahaha, sorry o

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    4. Maya Greg5 March 2015 at 16:44

      I pray your ministry to Richard Card permanent site be fulfilled come 2015..lol

      *ticktock

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  3. Cicee5 March 2015 at 13:03

    No 8 got me lol!

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    1. Anonymous5 March 2015 at 17:04

      Kemi puff puff face said so

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  4. CatWalk With PAT5 March 2015 at 13:03

    I couldnt watch the video, I just read through. i used to be guilty of no 6 sha.

    Please click on my name for Fashion/Fitness/Beauty tips

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  5. Unknown5 March 2015 at 13:04

    Wow.....kemi ur on point...especially dat no..8...oya ladies ona dey hear make ona no dey form wen nothing gum ona yansh

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  6. Cynthia Iyede5 March 2015 at 13:04

    Very true. N0 8 is funny though.

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  7. Anonymous5 March 2015 at 13:05

    real turnoffs.

    www.giftcollins.blogspot.com

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  8. Unknown5 March 2015 at 13:06

    Lol, every sane being must have at least one of the aforementioned jare. But that number nine is funny, it is not stopping anytime soon biko

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  9. Unknown5 March 2015 at 13:07

    a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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    Lmaooo... Oh God i love this one """If you’re an nkwobi and ewedu chic, don’t form pasta and shawarma."""
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    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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  10. Unknown5 March 2015 at 13:08

    I Can Relate With 1 very well, Am not gonna mentioned her name but she knows as e De go, i had to Take off.. Then the rest are so on Point.. Kudos to the writer, I know you'll soon get at guys, I'll be waiting..
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    .NOTE: Raise Your Words, Not Your Voice. It Is Rain That Grows Flowers, Not Thunder..

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    1. Mary O.5 March 2015 at 20:47

      @dj stelch thank you!!! I did boys a while back. Please go to my channel YouTube.com/user/kemisaidso to watch previous webisode. And please subscribe.

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    2. Anonymous6 March 2015 at 00:04

      Stingy geh. So u cannot include recharge cards for ppl who watch with their mb abi?? U dey use sdk for free kwa? We go soon sanction u for in house.

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  11. I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF)5 March 2015 at 13:09

    No 5 can only work in obodo oyibo....
    Any Naija babe that tries that shit here is a MAGA!!!!...

    I detest women that wear heavy makeup....more especially,people that are fair in complexion...total turn off for me...

    Some girls inner wear na die!!..
    They would rather use their money to buy nonsense than changing their pants and bra...
    Ike gwuru...

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  12. Brown sugar5 March 2015 at 13:09

    Ok

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  13. Anonymous5 March 2015 at 13:14

    I wanted to gas. And then pooped instead. I'm just here sitting in the office. If i stand up. Problem go dey oooo! Let me wait till everyone goes. Then find my way. Hopefully my boss won't send for me.

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  14. Anonymous5 March 2015 at 13:16

    See who is talking of good dress sense.....mitcheww
    Abi,shift jare!


    Stupid rules

    Some Men don't mind a dirty woman!
    Are there no married dirty women??????

    Dependent women,I have a good job,yet my hubby loves it when I depend on him like crazy!

    He feels its his duty to look after me ,my money shud be for my parents etc (strange right?)
    IGbo dudes rock,I notice yoruba dudes love division of "labor" like no man"s biz!


    Scantily clad women? My hubby loves it when I wear hot mini,after I got married,I stoped wearing skimpy stuff,my hubby refused,he bought plenty shorts and mini gowns and skirts ...
    He said he saw me in them when he married so I shudnt be stop due to marriage (my hubby is such an igbo americana)
    He uses my "scantily" claded pics on his dps on IG,BBM,whatsapp etc and he write "Hot mama," and stuffs!

    As for Social media??
    Am the queen of Social media,my hubby loves it like crazy...

    Abeg Kemi leave matter,the issue of marriage is a misery!
    If u like be as clean as Kim kardashian,cook chicken in diamond sauce ,etc if its not meant to be,its not meant to be!


    Mrs Korks,what ya think?


    ADaure Meg

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    1. Cicee5 March 2015 at 15:44

      Marriage is a mystery not misery.

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    2. Maya Greg5 March 2015 at 16:49

      Adaure Meg" jeeezzz, you took the words outa my mouth, I have a friend who is not just dirty but lies like a fish... but her husband love her scarra...lol
      Reminds me of Adaz song" one man food is another man's poison, lazy, dirty, bad cook get husband. He who loves you, loves you.. no be by force or eye service.

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    3. Abosede5 March 2015 at 17:33

      Spot on .

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    4. Sparkles Jewelries5 March 2015 at 18:27

      True!

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    5. Anonymous6 March 2015 at 00:12

      Nor mind d kemi. See her face. You are even afraid of sharing ur own ideas but are quick to say they are ur male friends ideas, so what if they are urs? Do more research before u publish any topic. Don't be in a hurry. U gat a long way to go... your subjects and arguments are terribly weak. Build on ur confidence level and explore ideas. Did u pronounce "se-army"??? Instead of Sesame?? Ohohoh

      **Adaorah**

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  15. Ms SSS a.k.a stunning slim shady5 March 2015 at 13:32

    am guilty of none! lemme sit bak n read comments..

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  16. Yori Yori Princess5 March 2015 at 13:33

    No 8. dem plenty for this blog. Jayem no 1.... form form lady. she don run comot from here as anonymous people don finish her

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  17. Yori Yori Princess5 March 2015 at 13:34

    No 8. dem plenty for this blog. Jayem no 1.... form form lady. she don run comot from here as anonymous people don finish her

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  18. Apples ( SDKBlog Shrink)5 March 2015 at 13:34

    Oh please, everyone seems to have the answers to all!!! Abegggi

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  19. Unknown5 March 2015 at 13:39

    Noted Hun!!!

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  20. Dynamic5 March 2015 at 13:41

    Nice one...Yes or No gat me..lol

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  21. Bootylycious diva5 March 2015 at 13:42

    Split bills k ,carry money k for date ,mba mba .true talk

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  22. Ambitous Woman in the building5 March 2015 at 13:44

    Even me as a lady cant stand a lady that forms. STOP FORMING HARD TO GET. If you like him, say yes. Guys get turn off when they see a lady who likes them and start forming.
    Above all, BE YOURSELF, EVERYONE ELSE IS TAKEN

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  23. Chi Aju Mbaise /Multipurpose vendor 070660038755 March 2015 at 13:46

    stellaski y is IHN taking time?

    am running out of patience

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  24. Ms SSS a.k.a stunning slim shady5 March 2015 at 13:47

    Lol No 5 is a no no, why shud go on a date wt a mind of splitting d bill. Mschew abegi lyk say i beg d guy t take me out on a date. Nothwithstanding sha, i usually hold som cash n my atm card weneva am going on a date n am nt d greedy type- I dnt eat mor than wot i hv in my own purse. I cant shout biko.

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  25. ANGELRAY4SDK5 March 2015 at 13:48

    U are so on point.

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  26. Ms SSS a.k.a stunning slim shady5 March 2015 at 13:56

    No 6 is nt really much of a big deal sha. Soldier go, Soldier (wt a higher rank sef) com. life goes on!

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  27. janethomos5 March 2015 at 14:05

    #3 lol !wentti 20hrs 4 just make up 4 face......after all does wasted tym d face ll still b lyk d rough sketch of an artist......lol

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  28. pinklady Aka Veteran Side Chick5 March 2015 at 14:06

    Lol at playing hard to get is so 1990...
    But most guys enjoy the suspence, chase and rejection from ladies.You can't just accept or snub every guy that comes your way.If you agree too early,most men will see you as a "cheerful giver",if you over do the "Shakara tin",most of them will run,only the brave ones will keep trying their luck.People are different tho...

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  29. janethomos5 March 2015 at 14:15

    #3 lol !wentti 20hrs 4 just make up 4 face......after all does wasted tym d face ll still b lyk d rough sketch of an artist......lol

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  30. janethomos5 March 2015 at 14:15

    #3 lol !wentti 20hrs 4 just make up 4 face......after all does wasted tym d face ll still b lyk d rough sketch of an artist......lol

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  31. Anonymous5 March 2015 at 14:25

    So this is a detour from d post up there, I have been dating this young man from when I was 17, I'm 26 now. He's from a poor background and he seems serious with me but can't seem to gather up enof money for a wedding. He's been postponing our wedding since 2011, telling my family that he will come but doesn't show up cos of money and now I am tired of the relationship cos its taken too long IMO. I keep having strange bad dreams about him(I think that could be because I'm tired already), but he seems a fine young man. Recently, he began to talk about really settling down and I should be joyful, right? But my heart sinks @ d thought of marrying him(maybe my dreams r not to be ignored). I'm so confused right now, my dad thinks its too late to call it off, but me, I don't even know what to do, to go on and marry him? Or to call it quit and start all over again? Please advice. Tnx people.

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    1. pinklady Aka Veteran Side Chick5 March 2015 at 15:50

      What are you waiting for?Abeg dump that broke and unserious guy and start afresh!
      How could you even date a man for 9 yrs?Hian!!!!!
      I have never dated any guy for more than a year oh,once I chop belle full,I clean mouth waka...I will keep doing that until I meet my husband!Pls move on b4 its too late.

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    2. Jeni_zee 5 March 2015 at 16:40

      Dnt marry him because ur parents said !! Dnt marry out of pity,else u would regret it nd cheat on him

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    3. Maya Greg5 March 2015 at 16:53

      Anon" try being like Gideon, test God out and see, ask for a sign, some might think it old fashioned but it works. Also place your post on IHN, you would get more rewarding advice, also people who would cuss you for waiting for a dude that long.. just pick thy good and liff thy bad.. hugs

      *ticktock

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    4. Irene Bernards5 March 2015 at 18:42

      He's tired of you,quote me

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    5. Ina6 March 2015 at 00:27

      My dear. Nobody can tell you what to do on this one. Just follow your heart. Your instincts will never deceive you. Best wishes

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  32. Ma Fla5 March 2015 at 14:55

    Well said! May God help us to be better people.

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  33. Aurora5 March 2015 at 15:06

    Valid points.

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  34. Ezenwanyi 5 March 2015 at 15:34

    Bwahahahaha.......

    U guys are very funny sha....
    Haven't U heard of one man's meat is another's poison!!!

    NO 1, I ve seen men who men who like dirty women, pants torn and all and still dig them seriously, is it spirits that are bedding those dirty and smelly housemaids????.... some men like them dirty!!!

    NO 2, Bwahahahaha...... most wives are scantily unclad these days and their husbands encourage by buying those stuff for me... these men know what they want and go for it, Y do U think that most women even in chastity of decency are unmarried??????

    NO 3, choi!!! get real pls!!! Most men love their wives or gf in full make up, go to Ovation or other high profile magazines and see how it's done.... there is waist cincher for men too, or U think it's only women that are vain??? Men pierce their ears, nose and tatoo their lips pink!!! What do U ssy about that????? Bwahahahaha.......

    NO 4, Nigerian men love them insecured, that way they feel secured!!! They also love them aggressive and then they go looking for trouble cos they know they Ve a tigress ready to battle whomsoever and what makes U think these men don't like it when U don't fight over them????? My hubby hates d fact that am not jealous, he feels I don't love him... forgrt that one biko!! They love aggressive and rachet women in bed because they are untamed, wild and unashamed.... I mean they are very good in bed(who patronises those shameless prostitutes???)

    NO 5, A man that knows his onions will feel offended if U offer to split d check.

    NO 6, There are also men like that, most women Ve fallen in love with women like and even wifed them...it shows they are faithful, love wholeheartedly, and Ve nothing to hide....

    NO 7, are U for real???? Most men from my place love clingy women...d only men who don't love them clingy are those with other agendas.

    NO 8, pls form if U Ve to, I formed and I got my hubby, he likes going to church, I became a churchgoer and since 22yrs of marriage I ve only been to church fir my kids baptism.

    Finally, I would've continued anyway, there are guys who likes suspense, and those who likes their women playing hard to get, know which it is and get d woman of Ur choice.

    Joblessness is sweet sha....Bwahahahaha......... Ezenwanyi Ononenyi !!!!!!

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    1. pinklady Aka Veteran Side Chick5 March 2015 at 15:42

      Ezenwanyi!!!!!

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    2. Jeni_zee 5 March 2015 at 16:38

      This Ezenwanyi henn lol

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    3. Maya Greg5 March 2015 at 17:15

      @Alusi" Kemi just met her match... Rotfl.. I hope she reads your reply....

      *ticktock

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    4. Abosede5 March 2015 at 17:34

      Double spot on!

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    5. Anonymous5 March 2015 at 21:19

      I love love love this comment.

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    6. ChyAdaJesus5 March 2015 at 22:18

      Million Spot on!!!! @Ezemoni

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    7. MOI6 March 2015 at 06:21

      Is it spirits that are sleeping with the house helps? Kemi see your life.

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    8. Anonymous6 March 2015 at 23:03

      You keep surprising me Ezewanyi excellent points and instead of kemi to address them she chickened away.

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    9. ***7 March 2015 at 20:30

      Kemi you are daft, this is an opportunity to really talk to real people about this issue. Are you sure you sure you want to grow? Stella stop featuring this unserious woman.

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  35. Unknown5 March 2015 at 15:45

    There is no law for relationship, stick to what work for you
    Shikenah!

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  36. Unknown5 March 2015 at 16:14

    Dear ladies,pls If u have 4 out of these characteristics then u need to see tb Joshua for deliverance.,just an advise from an sdk addict .....Stella u must enjoy me

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  37. Anonymous5 March 2015 at 16:35

    Insecure nd loud is chizoba

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  38. Unknown5 March 2015 at 17:02

    I love this blog....ok

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  39. Unknown5 March 2015 at 17:03

    I love this blog......ok

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  40. Olaide Davies.5 March 2015 at 20:27

    God help ladies.

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  41. Mary O.5 March 2015 at 20:56

    Thank you all for watching and commenting. Nice to see I put a smile on alot of peoples' faces today. And of course, thank you Stella!!! Y'all stay tuned for webisode 12.

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  42. Unknown6 March 2015 at 00:33

    .lol and it is so so true..while you pretend for him,he is also searching in another place and might end up with anoda person...then tomorrow u start saying guys are the same...things has changed my single ladies.forget "this is me"..it hasn't helped most ladies in recent time.....it is just an opinion but somehow true if you can read meaning into it..the world is getting more civilized day by day..*pensive*...if you disagree with me let me know your reason(s).

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  43. Elegant uzy6 March 2015 at 07:18

    Yes ladies say no or yes. . ..but pls don't give in too quickly, men should chase u for awhile biko

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