A love-struck student is giving up her studies to marry a disabled man she met online - despite only knowing him for three days.
Pretty Xiao Dan, 22, started chatting to Kong Chuang, 23, on the messaging app service, WeChat.
And she was so impressed with his zest for life that she decided to leave college so she can look after him.
She said: "Talking to him was not like talking to anybody else I met online.
"He seemed to be a really amazing person and we stayed up long into the night chatting.
The next day we talked again and I decided that even though it meant missing lecturers, I was going to go and see him.
"I had no idea he was disabled, and when I realised when I saw him, I was a bit shocked."
She said she had originally started talking to him because he could play the piano well and his pictures looked like a famous Taiwanese musician, actor, and director called Jay Cho.
But during the conversation she was amazed by his optimistic outlook and felt inspired by his remarkable determination to succeed, despite his disability.
While talking to her parents on the phone that evening she announced that she was leaving college and planned to get married.
The couple are currently living together with Kong's family in the city of Guangzhou in southern China’s Guangdong province.
She said she wants to get a job and move into a place of their own where she can take care of him.
Delighted Kong said: "I wouldn't describe myself as optimistic, I just know where I want to be and I intend to get there.
"I'm very lucky that Xiao chose me, and I don't deserve her, but I intend to do what I can to make her happy."culled
How in heavens name will she get a good job or anyone at all when she dropped out of school`penny wise but pound foolish decision.
wish them all the best.
hmmmmm.....dats her destiny
ReplyDeleteBLOG ANALYSER: No be small thing ooo! The road ain't easy sha but I believe they will make it
DeleteIf the guy really loves her like she does him, he should persuade her to finish school.
DeleteDis is madness ohhhh....just three days and u decide to drop out of skul and get married.....and u want to look for a job..... where do u want to see job dat can takia of d two of u wen u did not go to skul......is beta u think twice b4 breaking d poor boys heart lata...al d same sucess
DeleteLol foolish now she has left school how would u fend
DeleteShe can fuckily go back to school Stella, stop running your mouth.
Deleteif na she dey disabled now,the man go beat am n stomp on her like that other man wey kpokpo babe cos she looks diff from her profile pix
DeleteThis is pure charm.
DeleteThe cripple charmed her!
Blind leading the blind.
DeleteSeriously, this one pass me. Cos I don't even like advising people in relationships not to talk of married couple, that's her choice and decision, may heaven bless them.
ReplyDeleteShe could have been jazzed. No one in her right senses can make such stupid decision. I mean it doesn't make any sense.
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ReplyDeleteCould this be love? Yes! Dumblove!
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DeleteNawa ooooh
Potable come make we marry now. :-)
DeleteStella na real penny wise pounds foolish. What kind of love will make her leave school?
ReplyDeleteAs this one b as e get o.If any1 try dis for naija na poverty go officiate the wedding for them o.
DeleteShe is a joker.
ReplyDeleteAeegurl...
She is just infatuated, I pray the scales fall off her eyes soon so she can put back her life on track else she will one day regret taking such a drastic decision in such a haste.
DeleteShe is a joker.
ReplyDeleteAeegurl...
Lol ... Best of luck to Xiao and her boo of life.
ReplyDeleteKai chinese juju is very potent indeed. Even thru the internet. FIAM!!! It works.
ReplyDeleteLol....seriously.
DeleteLol
DeleteLove is a beautiful thing
ReplyDeleteNot in this case oooo
DeleteI didn't even bother reading everything abeg...wara hell!!!! Love ko foolish ni
ReplyDeleteFoolish love haaahaaahaa!!
DeleteFor real? This man don jazz her!
ReplyDeleteGood for them
ReplyDeleteJust 3 days and they are talking about getting married? She even wants to drop out? Misplaced priorities
ReplyDeleteMy dear it is not misplaced priorities at all. It is pure JAZZ. He must have jazzed her up when she went to meet him. Otherwise why can't she at least wait to finish school first? Hian. Their business anyway.
DeleteYou'll be shocked to discover it is real love. At the worst, infatuation. LOL
DeleteJaymoore my son. I see that you have been naughty these days.. mummy will discipline you when you come home for midterm. LOL
awwww...love is sweet..but its also blind...what if she finds out his mess smells too bad or he picks his nose or he has anger issues...three days...cupid is wrily at work this feb..i wonder why he hasn't shot me yet...
ReplyDeleteShe doesn't know what she want in life. Oya aye wa ni.
ReplyDeleteSomeone you 'dated' for just three days online... Number 1, the girl is psychologically deceived, she wants to marry hom out of deep seated pity. Number 2, the guy is wicked for allowing her drop out of school to come and stay with him. If na for Naija, we go say na jazz but with ndi ocha, ebelibe!
ReplyDelete@Stella Korkus; you are WRONG here. They are in an industrialized country that value talents and character above certificates. Not every job requires a college degree. This lady's decision is a commendable one. College degree can always be gotten; even studying online. she is just 22. Please be very conservative and less hasty in "jumping into self opinionated" conclusions.
ReplyDeleteRegards.
HB said.
Stupid in love.
ReplyDeleteYoung couples don't realise that most times, love is not just enough.
When the euphoria of falling in love wears out, reality sets in.
And if care is not taken, heart(s) might get broken.
I'm not saying she shouldn't marry him.
She shouldn't have quit school just to go and marry.
Very dumb of her.
My opinion
This man is not running away and he doesn't leave in a cave.
So all she should have done was to transfer to a school closer to him,and continue her education, since she is in such a hurry to marry after 3 days of meeting a man.
She seems like the spontaneous type.
She doesn't think things through especially major decisions.
And the man even allowed her make such a hasty decision?
Guess he doesn't love her enough. After all he will benefit more from this stupidity.
Love is truthful.
Love is not selfish.
What kind of job does she plan to get without education?
I hope his piano will be able to carter for their needs for a long time.
Oh well, their life, their choice.
Gbam
DeleteMadam foolish. Pele.
ReplyDeleteall the crazy things that one does all in the name of love.She is free to marry whomever she wants and still be in school.why give up your dream because you want to get married.doesn't make any sense. Is like she wanted to quit school since.She can still take care of her man and still be in school. quitting school is like pitying the man which the man will not want.
ReplyDeleteWhich kain love be this???..
ReplyDeleteLove gbakwa oku....
Love gbakwa oku.. my sister
DeleteCould this be love????
ReplyDeleteNa infatuation dey worry her, with time her eyes go clear. 'Oga eme ya voom n'anya'
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ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
I wish the babe na nigerian na her mum for stop her for taking this step shah...
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
A Nigerian wont even try this. .....lol
DeleteHahahahha @winifred's A Nigerian won't try this comment! So in other words.... pls explanation!! Hehehehe
DeleteSorry to digress
ReplyDeleteBlog lord read about your surgery in the IHN news today, tot you were on break.
Thank God you are healing fast. Balm of Gilead will take control. Amen
No be small love struck o. Make we d look na.
ReplyDeleteLove ke? Na olodo wey don taya for skool before jorrrr!
ReplyDeleteNa wah! Love aya npi.
ReplyDeleteLove has no price. afterall her brother pay $5,000 dollars to meet up with that fat face that turned out to be ugly duckling.
ReplyDeleteshe has made her choice and her parents supported her. Good for her. love has no price at all. you love or you dont love
Loveme jeje just reminded me of that epic story. Hahahahahahaahhaah
DeleteShe will soon wake up to face reality but she can also decide to go to school later.
ReplyDeleteVisit waiting mothers.com
Love can make you do the unthinkable until the harsh realities of life sets in. All I see here is just youthful exuberance. Ogugu Ofante
ReplyDeleteNo vision for her life, she wants attention from the world now she got it
ReplyDeleteLove in Toki!! Lol. Wishing them all the best oo!
ReplyDeleteThis is wat I call dangerously in Luv......she's only infatuated n d guy is only selfish
ReplyDeleteLove ke, yeye dey smell.
ReplyDeleteLove gbakwaa oku
ReplyDeleteLove in d air.....
ReplyDeleteI will be 21 next month and i wish to celebrate it as have not celebrate any before.
My helper should locate me and my bday match should step forward
Is that an order? Speechless
DeleteI haven't seen this name here before. I can bet a strand of hair that you are new here. So you came here from wherever to look for your helper? Is your helper missing? Na wa o. You people should fear God with all this begi begi. Your "helper" may not even come close because of your kind of English. Idi very disappointing. You people should quit turning this blog into a beggars zone.
DeleteYou didn't say what date you are and you're looking for a birthday mate. Maybe your birthday lasts all through march. If you have not "celebrate" your birthday before, why must it be different now?
Snow White or is it rain green abi Na storm black! Stella talked about ppl like u few hrs ago!!😡
DeleteBiko wat biz of Urs is it if she begs? Did she specifically come to U to beg so y allow UR nose drip catarh? U beta don't be destiny spoiler o make God no for use U take set example here. Allow the being cos it's none of UR flipping biz 1 bit. Work no pay
Abeg park o e side jor, preferably for potopoto begin play inside dere.
Enemy of progress for UR own pocket... Mscheww
I thank God for the man for his payers has been ansered
ReplyDeleteLike seriously? She shouldn't have dropped out of school though.She's drunk in love....she'll know she made a hasty nasty mistake when she's sober.
ReplyDeleteLike seriously? She shouldn't have dropped out of school though.She's drunk in love....she'll know she made a hasty nasty mistake when she's sober.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteMaybe no one has handled her the way the guy does. Something attractive must be there! Woman no dey dig hole that contains nothing. Rose
ReplyDeleteI wish her well. Youthful exuberance/obsession.
ReplyDeletegood evening everyone....errrr... I know its the wrong post but I could comment in d single n mingle post...I really had troubles.... OK... to the issue...am chichi...in my early twenties... am kind,honest,love God(he's my air I breathe)...I love to have fun n gist...am always happy could be introverted.... am looking forward to meeting a guy who is between 27 and 32 n matured yet fun to be with....he should be Igbo please no married men no players...I don't have time to waste.... going to drop my bbm pin as I don't usually give my trust easily...52ecb9e3...I want to testify like others...
ReplyDeleteMy hubby say that is true love. As for me na otondo love be that o. Why she no first finish school before dem marry.
ReplyDeleteLove in Tokyo, lol
Her choice
ReplyDeleteLove killi me,i die..She is just infactuated..
ReplyDeleteLove is beautiful but this is totally stupid...
ReplyDeleteToo much of population traffics brain, she's yaba left property..mtchhwwwwww#theprison
ReplyDeleteSon of Solomon
Strong decision. May God help them
ReplyDeleteLove no blind againOo, love de see clearly now.
ReplyDeleteMadness, foolishness, stupidity, crazys if the highest order. Hope she is not been jazzed.
ReplyDeleteLove is something you cannot reason about. Please u guys criticising her, true love is not all about money, money, money. it really might be love at first sight. When you love you tolerate the person 'warts and all'. Please leave her. schooling might be done at anytime. God bless you and your boo.
ReplyDeleteWhere is my koboko? Make i flog some sense into her head..
ReplyDeleteNo Nigerian girl'l see anything good with her decisions and action. Its pure love, she'l find a job and resume school and they'l both be happy for it. Nigerians keep thinking only from the left side of their brains.
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