A man met his death on Valentine's day when his wife angrily pushed him off a storey building because he did not give her a valentine's day treat coupled with previous monetary issues.
The woman, identified as Onyinyechi, who is a teacher in a private school, lived with her husband in Adefowope Street, off Beach Road, Etegbin, in the Otto Awori Local Council Development Area of Lagos before the unfortunate incident.
The incident which happened on Valentine's day has left neighbours and residents of the community saddened.
According to reports gathered by Punch, a man, who claimed to be a close friend of the deceased, insisted that the cause of the couple’s misunderstanding bordered on plans for Valentine’s Day.
Speaking on the condition of anonymity, he said, “George returned home in the evening of Valentine’s Day, a time the wife felt was already too late to go for an outing. She got angry and it resulted in a fight.”
Another source, who also claimed to have a close relationship with the family, however, said the cause of the fight was monetary issue.
He said, “A family friend had given George money to give to his wife as gift for their newborn baby. George did not only keep the money to himself, he also did not tell his wife about it. Onyinyechi later met the man, who asked her if she got the gift he sent through her husband. She was not only surprised, but furious that George could keep such a thing from her. It was in the process of asking him about it on the evening of Valentine’s Day that the fight started.”
A neighbour, who also spoke to Punch correspondent on the condition of anonymity, explained that the incident happened around 4pm on Valentine’s Day.
She said, “On Saturday, at about 4pm, my daughter rushed inside my apartment where I was sleeping to wake me up that Iyawo (Onyinyechi) and her husband were fighting upstairs.
“As she was still explaining to me, I heard a sound of something falling. I rushed out only to discover that it was my neighbour, George. I started screaming for help and other neighbours rushed in to assist me. We got a tricycle and rushed him to a hospital.
“The wife, however, remained upstairs in her apartment. She didn’t bother to come down to assist us, despite the fact that her seven-month-old daughter was downstairs playing with my children. George was certified dead at the hospital and we couldn’t take him to the mortuary without his family’s consent, so, we brought him back home and called his family members.”
Another neighbour, who identified herself as Mama Ifeoma, who was part of the people that took George to the hospital, said the doctor discovered a cut in his head and he claimed the injury could be as a result of an object that must have been used to hit him on the head.
She said, “The doctor told us that George must have been dead before he was pushed down from the balcony.”
Onyinyechi has however traveled to her home town in Nnewi, Anambra State with her daughter.
The Lagos State Police Public Relations Officer, DSP Kenneth Nwosu, is yet to respond to enquiries on the incident.
The way some people carry Valentine for head is pathetic..Its not by force to give or receive a gift!
Hian, this woman is a she-devil. She killed her hubby, and jejely travelled with her child, I hope she's caught and made to face d the law for her crime. Some women are just so wicked and heartless.
ReplyDeleteMmmmmmmmmmmmmm *speechless*
DeleteOh dear, how dangerous can one be? Chukwu biko Melu some women ebele
DeleteDevil as a wife..God Forbid.
DeleteEven iff is not Val n its about d gift now, did she finally get d gift? Nnewi women always controlling dia husbands. Now d man is dead, let her eat his corpse n maybe wen her daughter grows up, she will tell her how she killed her father bc of a gift or val. May God forgive her!
ReplyDeleteChidinma u are so right o I no one of dem very well.
DeleteGod! wonders.....chaii...a life ended 2 soon
ReplyDeleteHow sad
ReplyDeleteNa wah ohh....
ReplyDeleteI won't even judge the woman...
Who knows?it might be a self defence...
RIP Oga...
In your next world,be a good husband to your wife...
You are stupid as hell
DeleteYou are so bloody daft.....'a self defence' keh...is dat english ?....If it was an act of self defence, she ought to have stayed back to defend her actions and atleast know d outcome of her act, and uv judged d man in ur last sentence....daft punk.
DeleteGbam Gbam Gbam!!!!!
DeleteEvil woman, but y did her neighbours allow her to travel, she should be sentensed to death by hanging.
ReplyDeleteThe husband will send her gift from the grave. It is not valentine wahala it is money wahala.
ReplyDeleteMen that will like to eat their wives money been given to them as gift. Na Ojukokoro be that ooo.
The Onyinye no try at all. am sure she is bigger than the husband in stature that is why she can push the man off. The man may look like all those men that take ogogoro in the morning. no power to fight woman
This is so pathetic. Since the woman is yet to say anything, I can agree with the conclusion that she pushed him.
ReplyDeleteHowever, whatever be the case I will always say that some of us should learn to be cautious and groomed. Sometimes a lady gets married and she expects her happiness to come from or be completed by her husband, thick lie. A man cannot complete you. If you were incomplete before getting in or refuse to build yourself up (which isn't so easy) while in there, all you get is heartache and perpetual unhappiness coz he'll sap you of the little wall you already had in you.
When you build your inner wall properly, it doesn't matter what he does to you, it will only make you sad but it won't ever bring out the yaba-left in you.
This woman will live with this shame all her life. People will taunt her, feed her children with hate towards her, society will shun her. Trust my Igbo brethren too
As much as the man was wrong, I still do not support this woman's action
True talk my sister, thumbs up
DeleteTemper!
ReplyDeleteExactly, anger issues.The issue isn't even "valentine" .This woman clearly lacks self control and would go ballistic over other domestic matters.There are people who just can't get upset without getting physical or violent.After the momentary madness comes regret.
DeleteLeeberty dearie, how are you ? Thanks for checking up, juggling a couple of things so been a bit busy, stay blessed.
madam stella u no hear say na money be the problem abi? na only val u see.
ReplyDeletethe woman has guts to do that nemesis will catch up with her and also the law of karma RIP to the bro
ReplyDelete#GODWIN
I no sure say na valentine cause d problem..could be self defence..why did I say so?something similar happened in my neighbourhood..a man was seriuosly beating his wife,she ran from d sitting room to d bedroom,he followed her and was hitting her with all manner of things..she ran to the staircase,he followed..as he was about to hit her,she dodged and pushed him down d stairs..he broke his arm and he was on cast for months..this could be a case of domestic violence
ReplyDelete#Shivers
Deleteworld people! R.I.P George
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm....nnewi okija broda!!! Phew
ReplyDeleteOkija wife and Somadina????
DeleteWelcome back if you are the ones I knew here..lolzz
Madam iphie....thanks jare!! I never see general wife o!!!
DeleteSpeechless!
ReplyDeleteWe will never know the truth, but for whatever reasons we should learn to control our anger.
ReplyDeleteHmm, apparently she wasn't even talking about them going out but demanding for the money which was supposed to be given to her.
ReplyDeleteOriegwu! But why didn't the man just tender the money to her naa, Sure he has spent it.
Valentine gift
ReplyDeleteWhat is wrong with some women? I just don't understand
If her daughter is 7 months, then it's not because of money but valentine. She will be dealt with in the village and police station. The way women carry this val on their heads like gala hawker is so childishly annoying! The essence of val is lost amidst the atrocities committed on that day! Useless woman! Mschewww
ReplyDeletejust see how this woman put herself in trouble all because of Valentine. but Valentine should be done every day for married couples.why take that date so special that if you don't get a gift; you become angry.the gift should be often that one would not care if she got a gift or not on vals day
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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May his soul RIP and that wife needs to visit the jail and stay there permanently...
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Useless remorseless woman, so because he dnt give u moni is enough to go physical with a man, just go to prison and cool off till u die
ReplyDeleteDeadly Anger!
ReplyDeleteNow she's a widow.
ReplyDeleteI wonder if she thinks it's worth it.
She should face the full wrath of the law. Idiot.
ReplyDeleteAll these val ish!
ReplyDeleteCan't deal!
Na wah ooo.....d woman get mind, Lord hv Mercy
ReplyDeleteSAY WHAT????????
ReplyDeleteIn my opinion vali was not the causer i buy more into the version of money given to him for the baby was not given the wife who forgot that the child is also the mans. when there is LACK of communication in a relationship all manner is expected. Couples pls TALK even if you dont make sense.
ReplyDeleteAll in the name of falentine. God help us.
ReplyDeleteSeriously? The woman must be insane.
ReplyDeleteAnger!!
ReplyDeleteSeriously? The heart of man is desperately wicked.haba! Valentine,valentine is it only during valentine that a couple can show love or buy gifts for themselves? And she was still inside after pushing him down and couldn't call for help.hmmm! May God help us,may we never end up with demons as spouses.RIP to the dead.I hope she will tell her daughter how she killed the father,that is if she will be alive to tell the story.
ReplyDeleteShe had better return to serve her punishment! What nonsense? YOU KILLED A MAN and ran to to your village. So many sick people roaming around these days!
ReplyDeleteMaybe the had their issues as a couple,but this anger is just deadly! See where it led her?
ReplyDeleteReminds me of the Val post here,i was shocked to see wives go under anonymous to cuss their hubbies because they didn't get gifts on Valentine day..am like really? Is it what your marriage is all about? Does it define love? Must you be like others? Why should you want to "tap" into other people's stories? Do you know how long it took them to get where they are?
What if your hubby is having financial challenges in the office and you never knew? It was quite appalling!
Brings me to the other aspect,where people beg for cake for their wives/husbands here!!!
Really?? So making breakfast in bed is not good enough these days? Like you need to validate your love by begging for such online? Gifts are supposed to be from the heart,no matter how small....it is the intention behind it,the little hugs,kisses..tiny gestures that matter more.
How many times did our parents celebrate birthdays and stuff for us while growing up?? Did it mean they loved us less?
Am writing this because we have a lot of new brides here,couples still coming up in life..never get carried away...
Moral of the story,love what you have,be content,appreciate your families,your spouses..one day..you will get there... If some people overtake you on the road,no problem... the road is wide enough....you will get there..with hard work,faith and determination... you will soar!!!
Goodmorning!!
Thanks sugar
DeleteMadam atimes you talk too much!
DeleteThat cake begging is so disgusting...
DeleteSome people can even beg you of your pant your are putting on even the sanitary pad in it...
Shame!shame!!shame!!!....
One million likes.
DeleteGood morning,beautiful
DeleteHow was ur night?
Thank you jare!
DeleteHonimumi.
Hmmm.. Words of wisdom. But will ladies of nowadays learn?
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This comment stole my heart away.
DeleteNice one Iphie...very nice one.
The cake begging is shameful and unacceptable.
DeleteThanks Iphie I hope younger couples learn from these words of wisdom. You don't need gifts or social media to validate your love for each other.
DeleteA million likes @Iphie. Ure u today? Hope u dey push am small small. It's well wth u.
Delete*how are u
DeleteVery right iphie
DeleteSo disgusting begging for your wife or husband nonsense I can't even eat such thing
Shirley dear thanks to u too.
DeleteLinda sweerie how are my boys?@Blackbanky...tnx...
Irene sugar..am fine,and you?@anony..thank you too.
Sumptous ,when I have strength,i try to guide the ones coming up..@Viva..love you dear...
Whirlwind...cant deal,it is becoming a trend... how is your day going??
Sweetest mom! Where have thou been??kisses!
@Iphie dearie
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Thank u o Iphie, tell'em.. the level of begging for the most private things is nauseating. Yea we know Stella says she'll continue to use her forum to link the needy to the giver.. but please not stuff like cake for your wife na, Haba.
DeleteNotice that the first guy that came here to plead for a gift for his wife is the reason another one came last week again to ask for something for his wife too. Just because he saw how people responded to the first guy. That's the problem, once a person succeeds at it another person will surface with the same line of issue.
Reminds me of that guy that wrote a script to act for Sdkers.. the one that was forming helper to a lady and her hubby, that said he followed them to their landlord who was going to evict them? The guy now lied and lied here ehn, that he paid their rent bla bla..only to come under another guise to beg for money and phone, or whatever. I do t remember his name sef...but na one Mary hin lie say he help. Of course he was the one playing all the characters. Coming here to thank himself, Lmaoo. Thank God he was bursted. That his moniker don disappear after Stella called him out. But I am certain that he's still here as anonymous. Rubbish
One can't but get exasperated with this sort of things abeg. SMH
Chisos wat kinda woman is dis?
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ReplyDeleteNawa. Valentine kwa
ReplyDeleteNawa. Valentine kwa
ReplyDeleteWonder wonder! So pathetic! Accumulated anger is sooo very dangerous! Valentine was not d issue,,,, there is more to d story.*d doc might be rite bc pushing a Living man frm a rail can't be dat easy, RIP to d soul departed
ReplyDeletenow he is dead, lets see how next years val is gonna be for her. anumpam
ReplyDeleteTHE "BIRTHDAY OUTING"
"He's staring at you"Ade whispered in her ear.
His words chilled her like minute icicles on her skin.
She knew what they meant.It was like the whisper of a phantom in her ear.In an instant she was panic stricken.She felt tremors down her spine as she turned to look.
The man who was staring at her was gorgeous to behold.
He was tall,lean muscled with the dark intense eyes of a seducer.He didn't just stare,he devoured her with his eyes.In his gaze was a demonic-hunger she knew meant only one thing.
She tore her eyes away from this Dark-angel and stared at Ade.
"Please,"she pleaded with him.But Ade's mind seemed already made up.
He grinned an evil grin as he took another drag from his cigarette.
"Please,....its my birthday"she said to her boyfriend as more people entered the bar.
She knew the Dark stranger was still staring at her. In fact,she'd known from when they'd entered the small bar in V.I.
Most Lagos-players would stare at a pretty Girl for briefly(or at least respectfully)especially when they knew you were standing with a guy who was CLEARLY. Your BOYFRIEND.
But not this Dark stranger.
Hell No!
He stared with enough audacity to make you uncomfortable.
She'd hoped he'd get bored and stop staring at some point.....he didn't.
And now she was in trouble BIG Trouble.
The kind of trouble she didn't need on her birthday.continue reading
Rip to d dead. See Wetin hot temper dey cause?
ReplyDeletePathetic!
ReplyDeleteI keep saying it...Anger is just one letter short of D-Anger!
It seems the woman has been fed up of the man and the marriage long before.
I was hoping to read that she started crying and screaming it was a mistake but no! she kuku travel probably not bothered.
na wa!
Na wa oh. Jus like dat?
ReplyDeleteRIP to d dead
Money palava. The Onyinyechi self be warrior? You strong girl, so go and smell prison, make sure u kill all your inmates.
ReplyDeleteMoney palava. The Onyinyechi self be warrior? You strong girl, so go and smell prison, make sure u kill all your inmates.
ReplyDeleteRip George
ReplyDeleteI know some people wen fit mistakenly do ds king thing
ReplyDeleteSomebody like @Madam chizoba.......she is so vain.
@Galore
#draggingtheWWEringtothisblognow
Delete@ Galore
DeleteMake that Chizoba geh no come meet you here oh! You kuku know say she be agbero and you be ajebotah.
Galore is about to get his ass whooped. Lol!
This is stupidity @ it's peak...Now the foolish woman has made herself a widow...
ReplyDeleteWhat happened to peaceful dialogue even if the husband spent d "supposed'' monetary gift from a family friend to the wife?
Even though the story is one -sided,there's no moral justification for murder....
Valentine is just once in a year...Love is an everyday tin...Let's be careful with the way we handle issues...dis woman am sure is wallowing in an ocean of regrets nw.
Sad. One, RIP to the man. How can the woman sleep at night knowing someone has died in her hands!
ReplyDeleteSome women sha! How would she be feeling knowing she just killed her husband over some petty argument. RIP to the deceased.
ReplyDeleteStella I tire oo
ReplyDeleteValentine's day should be scrapped in Nigeria already. .
This is terrible.
May his soul rest in peace.
Stone hearted woman. She couldn't even be bothered! How big is she to have been able to throw off a man?
ReplyDeleteThat is what peer pressure causes.
Some women frustrate their partners because of "enjoyment gists" their friends narrate. Crazy competition.
Chaii! This woman is wicked,just because of Val,you ended your hubby's life
ReplyDeleteNa wa oh!!!! Jesus Christ!! Some people are not human beings @all! What nonsense? Because of valentine?? Even if d husband didn't give her d money someone gave d baby, why so much anger?? To d extent of killing! Na wa oh, some people are more devilish than d wicked devil himself....tufiaaaakwa.
ReplyDeleteThat is why anger management is very important.Some people think it is by being harsh that they can pass across their message now see what uncontrolled anger has cost her.
ReplyDeleteR.I.P to the dead.
Stella help me ask dem oo. Some women cannot just be content with what they have. What a pity, may d man's soul RIP.
ReplyDeleteThis is the result of accumulated anger. May his soul rest in peace. Amen
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How can she Corlet the gift now that the hubby is dead,hissssss
ReplyDeleteAnger n it's repercussion!
ReplyDeleteAll because of money and Val? How much did d visitor/frnd give to d husband dat is worth more dan his life? Na wa o
ReplyDeleteStella shut ur dirty mouth didn't u read d story? It's cos d husband didn't give her d money for d baby not valentine. Idiot like u.
ReplyDeleteAnd that alone was enough to kill him...... Really?
DeleteAnon 11:47, So you killed husband bcos of the " money for d baby"? Chai! Now dat he's dead wat next?
DeleteIf only she could control her temper all this could have been avoided.sorry George may ur soul rest in perfect peace.next world always love ur wife and give her d money someone gave her.
ReplyDeleteThe way people act this days makes me wonder if the don't have conscience. They end a soul they can't create. Hope she faces the wrath of the law.I wonder what she will tell her daughter if the question of her father whereabout arises..This world!!
ReplyDeleteDoesn't soundblike its valentine Ishmael. Money problem. They will so deal with the woman in her husband's village. Very sad.
ReplyDeleteLike seriously? For whatever reason(s), it was unwarranted. Unjust and unnecessary.
ReplyDelete***Just taking a walk***
The reason as to Why she pushed him to his death is not clear. One said its cos of Valentine, another because of failure to present monetary gift to their baby... whatever the reason, the madness that briefly overtook her is no doubt cured and as the reality of What she's done dawns more and more, regret will become her sole companion until she faces the brunt of the law.
ReplyDeleteI feel sorry for the baby.
The consequences of uncontrollable anger!
The world would end soon...take heart.
ReplyDeleteWe see life through coloured glasses. Lens which are colored by the experiences and our own views of life.
ReplyDeleteThe woman killed her husband...whether valentine or money taken or self defense as some have argued. Let it sink in, she killed her husband.
Before the women's lib come in with their she has to have had a reason. Someone took a life and that life was the life of someone she had sworn in sickness and in health, in poorer or in wealth. Damn.
You see this marriage thing is not for everyone. The lie is that we think it is.
Is it true that the lady who bought fish head for Christmas was a scam? Like the un employed man that helped a couple to pay part of their rent?
ReplyDeleteNawaoooo wat a pity
ReplyDeleteDevil is a liar,dis happened after 7yrs of childlessness b4 their 7months old girl.ooooo God have mercy.
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