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Friday, February 20, 2015

Doctors In House Section


I hope in house Docs and all contributors can figure out what this is....







PROBLEM ONE
DEPRESSION FROM CHILDLESSNESS OR OR A MEDICAL
CONDITION?

For almost one year now, immediately I put my head on the bed to sleep I will start dreaming. Even if I mistakenly close my eyes in the kitchen, I will start dreaming immediately. My mind will be very busy till I wake up. I remember my dreams most times and sometimes I forget them. I wake up each day feeling as if I have not slept. I wake up tied and restless. Few months ago, I noticed my left arm aches,  I find it difficult to breath well sometimes.  I buy cough syrup every two months because I have on and off cough. 

I have visited the hospital on this issue. Several test was conducted, all came out fine. My doctor think its  accumulated stress of trying to conceive that has led to depression. Another doctor said the stress has made me not to experience deep sleep which I need, I was given antidepressant which made me sick and I stopped it immediately,  I sleep well and dream less each day I take sleeping tablet few minutes before bed time. My doctor said I should stop taking sleeping pill. That all I need is deep and quality sleep. 

I have been trying to have a child for almost 6 years now.  Hubby and his people were giving me lots of emotional and physical pressure.  The last female doctor I visited  suggested I agree to hubby's request of divorce. I have been single again since few months now yet the issue has not stopped. I still don't sleep well, have constant dream, pain in my left arm, on and off cough. I am really confused. Several questions through Google yet no positive response. 

Please my people has anyone experienced this kind of thing. what did you do?, doctors in the house, What do you think I should do.  I am tied of visiting the hospital without permanent solution to this.





119 comments:

  1. Wia are dem doctors ooo. Its well with you my dear, may God meet you in all your needs. Amen

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    1. I'M a pharmacist & have seen people around me complain of such.

      Your Left arm is paining you because you ve been thinking too much, it sends signals to ur brain, ur facial & forehead muscles are strained. If u touch or try to massage uR forehead , u ll notice it hurts badly. It's sore. If u try to massage ur left shoulders & left side of ur neck, u ll notice it hurts because it is sore too. This is as a result of ur thinking too much.
      If u don't control it dear, the pain is going to spread to ur left leg, that is, if u ve not already started experiencing slight pains in left foot, left knees and eventually ur whole left leg. I'm not trying to scare u, but just to make u aware so u can know the damage u re doing to ur self.
      This can eventually lead to partial stroke or paralysis on the left region of ur body.
      That you didn't get pregnant for ur husband doesn't mean if u sleep with MR B tomorrow , u ll not get pregnant .
      If he divorced you be is of childlessness, that's COOL..
      Do u know if he has watery or low sperm count? Why do we always think it's the woman's fault ?
      If he has divorced u, good!!!!! Good riddance to bad rubbish. He's not ur Husband !!! How are we not sure it's his family that diabolically blocked ur womb? Stupid bunch of illiterates.
      Go out, fall in love again, sleep with the new guy, I bet u will get pregnant after the first time. God in his infinite mercy will forgive us the sin of fornication because we are at our wilts end.
      U ll come back and testify here in 12months time with a baby boy.
      I'm not yet married but I can encourage u.. U don't ve to allow the world condemn you..u re not the creator who gives children. If it's what money can buy, I'm sure even ur mum or dad would borrow to give to you.. LEAVE THE MAN LET HIM GOOO...
      Email me at... j.osunde@yahoo.co.uk

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    2. Poster so sorry hearing this. This has happened to me recently all becos am worried about not getting married @age 35 and not working also. Anytime am about to b given a job,its given to another person.This has happened about 3times this year again. I don't av a boyfriend not to talk of a man,so I get depressed. I also don't sleep well. Am alwaz dreaming both afternoon and night and don't sleep deep @all. But I pray and still goes to MFM for deliverance evry wed and first sat of d month. I also wake up in d middle of d night to pray and fast. Pls,be very very prAyerful,surrender all to God. I just finished 21days fasting on sun,dat sun I fell ill,mon-cough started,tue-apollo started,wed- sore lips and sore throat. Its today dat am feeling better. I pray God answers ur prayers bcos we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against rulers of darkness in high places. It is well,sister!

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    3. Poster so sorry hearing this. This has happened to me recently all becos am worried about not getting married @age 35 and not working also. Anytime am about to b given a job,its given to another person.This has happened about 3times this year again. I don't av a boyfriend not to talk of a man,so I get depressed. I also don't sleep well. Am alwaz dreaming both afternoon and night and don't sleep deep @all. But I pray and still goes to MFM for deliverance evry wed and first sat of d month. I also wake up in d middle of d night to pray and fast. Pls,be very very prAyerful,surrender all to God. I just finished 21days fasting on sun,dat sun I fell ill,mon-cough started,tue-apollo started,wed- sore lips and sore throat. Its today dat am feeling better. I pray God answers ur prayers bcos we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against rulers of darkness in high places. It is well,sister!

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    4. Poster so sorry hearing this. This has happened to me recently all becos am worried about not getting married @age 35 and not working also. Anytime am about to b given a job,its given to another person.This has happened about 3times this year again. I don't av a boyfriend not to talk of a man,so I get depressed. I also don't sleep well. Am alwaz dreaming both afternoon and night and don't sleep deep @all. But I pray and still goes to MFM for deliverance evry wed and first sat of d month. I also wake up in d middle of d night to pray and fast. Pls,be very very prAyerful,surrender all to God. I just finished 21days fasting on sun,dat sun I fell ill,mon-cough started,tue-apollo started,wed- sore lips and sore throat. Its today dat am feeling better. I pray God answers ur prayers bcos we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against rulers of darkness in high places. It is well,sister!

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    5. Its well o, May God answer your prayers. Not a doctor so don't know any drugs.






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    6. Dear poster, ur problem is psychological. 1st you have to know more exactly what it is cos it will help in d long run . It could be depression,anxiety or any other form of psychological Iillness. I am speaking from experience and I can assure you it gets better if u understand it, at least you know that somebody the feelings you get are not real. I don't know if there is a total cure but there are drugs that help but u can't take them too often so you don't get addicted. Stop seeing a physician cos they won't understand it either . I still have the contact of the doctor I went to here in lagos. Pls indicate your interest under this comment and i will send his contact to you

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    1. Hmmmm I have got no idea...over to you doctors in house!!
      @Dr Orela where art thou hun??? Missing you here swt!

      *** listening to speechless "Michael Jackson " ***

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  3. He maketh all things beautiful in his time.

    Dear poster,lay your cause before the lord.

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  4. *jaw dropping*

    I can't advice on this one. Its way beyond me.

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  5. I know nothing about this o in house doctors help this patient





    #GODWIN

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  6. Wia are dem doctors ooo. Its well with you my dear, may God meet you in all your needs. Amen

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  7. New Here is my name20 February 2015 at 12:04

    I am sorry dear. When I hear stories like dis I get so scared. I just got married like 3months ago nd I never conceive, so scared and I am worried. When I was younger I had 2 abortions. The men denied it leaving me with no option dan to abort. Pls BVs don't curse me out, cos u guys don't know what I am going thru. I need ur prayers and God's Forgiveness. To all Dos in this blog looking for d fruit of the womb it is well with us, we will carry our babies soon. Thank u all and happy Lentern Observation.

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    1. It is well with you ma.

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    2. Your baby will come...
      I have done abortions before and it didn't stop me from having children...
      Continue praying moreover,your marriage is just 3 months....stop disturbing your self jare...children will surely come..

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    3. Don't be scared.
      Don't let the devil toy with your mind okay?
      You will conceive.

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    4. Aww, it's well wit u. Pls stop being scared. God has already forgiven u. Bf d year runs out, u will carry ur twins IJN. E-hug darl

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    5. Don't worry God will do it soon, I waited for 3months too b4 I took in. Worry less because too much stress affects fertility.

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    6. Don't worry dear. Put it in God's hands and his grace which is sufficient for us all would avail U

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    7. New Here is my name.20 February 2015 at 15:08

      Thank u all for the prayers.

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    8. @New here 3 months is too early for worries.
      My GYN told me for a normal couple it takes within a year to conceive!
      After a year of proper copulation (ie having sex properly, ovulation period, deep thrust in by hubby close to cervix) then you can see a GYN for check up.
      Here's to share baby dust to you dear** remember to come share your Testimony with us here ***

      ** Listening to My God is Awesome " Charles Jenkins " **

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    9. Dear it is well 13:25,
      God is at work on your case and it will all end in praise. I looked for a new job for over a year, went for countless interviews and was always second best. I suffered depression but when God did it I couldn't shut my mouth. He gave me a job 20 mins from home and more than two times my previous salary. God shocked my oppressors at my former company who thot I could not get another job. My dear just hold on tight to God, He is able to do even more than we think or hope for. I can't wait to hear your testimony

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  8. Poster,this is spiritual...
    Your village people at work....
    Pray! Pray!! Pray!!!...

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  9. THELmA ENEMUWE said...
    So sad...may the lord grant you peace of mind that passeth al human reasoning and make all things beautyful for you!!...hugssss
    *faithful BV enemuwe thelma*

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  10. THELmA ENEMUWE said...
    So sad...may the lord grant you peace of mind that passeth al human reasoning and make all things beautyful for you!!...hugssss
    *faithful BV enemuwe thelma*

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  11. THELmA ENEMUWE said...
    So sad...may the lord grant you peace of mind that passeth al human reasoning and make all things beautyful for you!!...hugssss
    *faithful BV enemuwe thelma*

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    1. stock in trade! Why will u post a comment many times?is ur keypad on auto multiplicity?hian!!

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  12. Please stop thinking too much try to be happy, take life one step at a time. Be free with life and live positive. Lifes is too short to worry too much, all the worrying and thinking too much are the reason why you cant sleep well, and they all striving after the wind.
    read the bible, read psalms, ecclessiastics etc, they'll comfort you and make you happy. Just be petient and God will bless you with the fruit of womb in his time.


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    1. Alloy, I saw ur comment on 'Ash wednesday' post when u said u ate meat n was ready to guzzle more. Pls tell me dat was a joke! A legionary? A president of a praesidium for that matter? Ahh Smh! I used to fall for ur stories dat touch on this blog not until I saw ur ignorance exhibited to d highest level. Alloy, no legionary will consciously eat meat on 'Ash wednesday' therefore, I challenge u to proof u re a legionary by telling us ur parish and d name of ur praesidum. I find it difficult to believe a catholic of ur status will type such. Moreso, u should be careful of d comments u make so as not to lead some people astray Tnx.

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    2. The name of my parish is "our lady queen of apostle iyana in otta ogun state" and the name of my preasiduim is "our lady queen of apostles preasidium" the mother preasiduim in the parish. It was named after the church. If you still want i can tell you the name of my curia and comitium. Yes i am the president and i am doing my second tenure which will expire next year. You are invited to visit our meeting which hold every sunday after the 6:30am mass.

      I am a catholic and a legionary but i am not a conservative catholic, i am liberal and observance of the lenten events or teaching is a matter of choice. It doesnt determine or change who i am in the sight of God or how God view me. Even the fasting is also a matter of choice, i can decide not to fast if i want, i can even decide not to go to the stations of the cross.
      Actually i dont live a double faced life (fake life on blogs and another life in the real world) so dont think i am ignorant like you claim. I say it as it is

      I am really sorry if i dissappointed you dear that i didnt live up to your expectation as a catholic and legionary.


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    3. And also sorry dear it was no joke when i said i ate meat on ash wednesday. And for your advice about me being careful on the comments i make so as not to lead people astray, "advice noted" thanks dear for the advice, you're really a darling.


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    4. Ok nna, I ve heard u. It's ok, Good luck.

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  13. Your case is a psychological one....
    May God heal you.

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  14. This is so spiritual. I pray help locates you

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  15. Doctors in the house over to you

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  16. I have no idea about your ailments, I just wanted to convey my sympathies and encourage you to hang in there as you look for answers.

    You have really gone through a lot.

    For your doctor to even ask you to give in to divorce, the stress must be serious!

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    1. Yayyyyyyy!!!!!
      My babe is back!!!!!!

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    2. Welcome back GD!
      Dear poster God will help you
      You have been through a lot!

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    3. Goldscenntttttt!!!
      *bbm happy dance*


      Poster may peace reign in your heart..Amen

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    4. Thanks Bloggy, Emerald and Iphie dearie dearie.

      It feels good here.

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  17. Your problem is spiritual,meet a true MOG for diliverance asap.

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  18. Poster so sorry
    I think you should surrender it all to Jesus
    Let Him take the wheel
    Only Jesus will give u rest..
    I love you but God loves u more
    Visit www.swagsisters.blogspot.com
    Become a SWAG(saved with amazing Grace)
    You will surely testify.
    E-hugs

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  19. Haba! How can a female doctor tell you to divorce your husband? That's not nice at all.
    I don't know what to say but please pray about this. All I know is there is nothing impossible with GOD. Its well there.

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    1. This ur holier than thou attitude is too much, every time pray pray pray, if u pray d way u advice others to do, I think ur life will be better, husband no dey this blog ooh.your attitude is so irritating.

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    2. Damn! @Anonymous, I just had to comment. I'm literally laughing my ass off here.

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    3. As in? Wisdom is also profitable Cynthia, prayer is very good, but, in some cases a person has to apply common sense. Is it until, a new wife is brought into her matrimonial home and she is disgracefully thrown out, that is when she will see and read the handwriting on the wall? Or her corpse carried out of her matrimonial home? The doctor did right for her sanity and health.

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    4. Lwkmd. Aunty Theresa. Be real sometimes biko. Holy holy. Hian

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  20. Did u try ivf?
    I hav colleagues who tried until dey fell preggers,
    Total 8times..
    Don't give up easily.
    Yeah u r stressed,
    It's not easy jare

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    1. Do you know how much IVF cost? Not everyone has that kind of money, 8 times????? We are talking about 6-7 million Nigerian naira.

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  21. Aya! Dear poster my heart goes out to you, may God visit u specially.

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  22. Plz calm down! Just put ur trust in God, pray wit Psalms and worship God alwayz. Everytin wil be well. Note: Children re gift frm God, @ his own time HE wil make all tinz beautiful again.

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  23. Omg! This sounds bad.May God send help ur way

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  24. try GOD go to a bible believing church
    fast n pray sincerely to JESUS CAST ALL UR BURDENS ON HIM FOR HE CARES FOR U YES YOU

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  25. Hello my people, I hail una oooooo. Happy weekend and enjoy the rest of your day fellow BV's........

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    1. How's baby doing?

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    2. Baby is doing great. Thanks Anon!!!

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    3. Congratulations Kemie...how's my chubby boy doing?? where in the US are you? I am in LA at the moment. Let me know so I can drop my email for you to send my baby gift *side eyes **

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  26. I think u need a change of environment. .be around people that make u happy. .that make u talk and have fun. .get busy. .do anything that exhausts u so much u don't even have time to think. .just please don't stay alone if that's what u do. .and start talking to God. .There is nothing impossible He can't do..
    U will be fine and He will give u a reason to be happy soon..

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  27. So sorry about that sister, may God grant all your heart desires. Over to the doctors in the house

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  28. stop visitin d hospital since u tired,try visiting church,wetin i go talk na

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  29. Eeyah, am so sry dear. Take all ur prayers to God, I believe he has a solution to all ur problems. Its well

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  30. poster

    it is well in JESUS name.
    are u born again?

    if u are not, accept Jesus as ur lord and saviour and he shall right every wrong in or lyf.

    I repeat : all u need now is JESUS CHRIST. accept him now ASAP

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  31. Dear poster, I have gone tru wat u are now experiencing nt bcos I have a problem or thinking. It started wen I have nothing to worry about: dreaming abt meaningless tins immediately I close my eyes till I open d eyes and feeling tired when I woke up as if I have gone thru a lot of stress in my sleep. I have to call my hubby and mum's attention to it wen I can't bear it again. We fasted and prayed cos we believed its nt medical issue. It is spiritually motivated to destabilse my life bt God had mercy on me and it stoped nt suddenly bt gradually till I forget everyting abt it. Poster ur issue is nt medical bt spiritual and d only way u can come out victorious is to go on ur knee in prayer and it will work faster if u have smone join hands together with u to pray. All is well IJN

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  32. Dear poster, I have gone tru wat u are now experiencing nt bcos I have a problem or thinking. It started wen I have nothing to worry about: dreaming abt meaningless tins immediately I close my eyes till I open d eyes and feeling tired when I woke up as if I have gone thru a lot of stress in my sleep. I have to call my hubby and mum's attention to it wen I can't bear it again. We fasted and prayed cos we believed its nt medical issue. It is spiritually motivated to destabilse my life bt God had mercy on me and it stoped nt suddenly bt gradually till I forget everyting abt it. Poster ur issue is nt medical bt spiritual and d only way u can come out victorious is to go on ur knee in prayer and it will work faster if u have smone join hands together with u to pray. All is well IJN

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  33. Sorry madam, am sure it is the accumulation of stress plus inlaw and husband wahala that got you into this situation.

    try and put your mind at rest or better still leave your problem at the Lord's feet, He only can cure you.

    you are thinking too much of getting a baby. you can try adopting or better still get a surrogate to help you.

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  34. It's depression! Just keep calm and pray, soonest God will answer you.

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  35. i think there is something psychological going on, and i would go with possible depression and this is probably a somatization, why not see a psychiatrist (pls no offence intended i know we Nigerians have a preconceived notion about psychiatrists)

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  36. Hieee.dearie is well with,u will soon pass dis phase..God will heal you

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  37. Could probably be the TTC without success that's responsible. I was depressed most of 2013 and 2014 due to unsuccessful trials. But this 2015, I declared a war against depression whatever the circumstances.

    I'm sorry, your hub wasn't supportive enough. I've had great support from mine and from my family. That had helped.

    You have to be your own support. Declare war against that depression. Tell it, it can't rule your life and define your destiny. Take charge and be happy. Leave the drugs. Find other ways of relaxing - movies, hanging out, church, charity works and treat yourself.

    Don't know what to say about your separation from hub but don't let it all destroy your joy.

    Relax and trust God to make you a Mother. He will.

    Best of luck.

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  38. Poster God wil surely bring joy back into ur life. B strong n dont loose hope.

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  39. Could probably be the TTC without success that's responsible. I was depressed most of 2013 and 2014 due to unsuccessful trials. But this 2015, I declared a war against depression whatever the circumstances.

    I'm sorry, your hub wasn't supportive enough. I've had great support from mine and from my family. That had helped.

    You have to be your own support. Declare war against that depression. Tell it, it can't rule your life and define your destiny. Take charge and be happy. Leave the drugs. Find other ways of relaxing - movies, hanging out, church, charity works and treat yourself.

    Don't know what to say about your separation from hub but don't let it all destroy your joy.

    Relax and trust God to make you a Mother. He will.

    Best of luck.

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  40. WAIT!!!!!!!!
    Your husband has requested a divorce because you haven't had or cant have kids (yet)!! WTF!
    You probably don't want to hear this, but that man was not for you!
    If he truly loved you, he would still love you with or without children!
    Him leaving you has only helped you find the man out there that is for you. one who will accept you for everything you are and for everything you are not. Not one that will abandon you when you are feeling so low.
    Chances are you will meet the man of your dreams and conceive easily (although I dont know the medical background as to why you haven't conceived yet)

    Also, whats this crap about Nigerian In Laws putting pressure of wives!?
    what the F**K has it got to do with them!? do they want to watch whilst the married couple has sex as well.
    Which lead me to another question...a serious question,
    What is the reason for marriage in Nigeria? I've conclluded it's not love (but if love exist then thats a bonus).
    So is t safe for me to assume people marry to bear children?
    And if yes, then that makes no sense! because from what I ahve gathered here (and other blogs) is that Nigerian many hardly ever help out with their children anyway!
    So he pressures you to have children. if you cant have children he walks out. If you do have children he doesnt even change a nappy.
    Please somebody help me to understand.

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  41. I'm not a doctor but I know the one who created them. You're in my prayers ma'am.

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  42. Another question...
    why do married couples insist on getting pregnant on the first night of marriage!?
    is it not odd they way you guys do things?
    You're encouraged not to live with (and for the religious ones, no sex) with your partner. in fact, i even hear that you are advised and looked down upon if you stay the night at your boy/girl friends house.
    You then get married and insist on getting pregnant. 3 months after wedding you begin to worry and fear that you haven't yet conceived.

    My question is this...at what point do you get to KNOW your wife or husband? the time to experience things together?
    holidays together (without children and responsibilities)?

    Nigeria's obsession with marriage intrigues, baffles and almost upsets me.

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  43. Taking sleeping pills is not the way out. Sleeping pills almost messed my head up.

    I have a long standing headache so there were times when i took sleeping pills to sleep cause the headache won't let me sleep on my own.
    I wokeup tired and miserable.

    There was a day i told my mum that this headache was going to kill me,i was worried to death.
    What was the essence of living when you can't sleep on your own? I stopped the sleeping pills and decidede to be strong and live...I don't really sleep well now especially at night but its better compared to when i couldn't sleep at all.
    Worry less Sis and pray more. Trust me prayers does work.

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    1. Stop fucking pa nduka.stop using steroids to bleach your skin. If only these people know the kind of filthy life you are leading.

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  44. Pls run to winners chapel,the God of oyedepo will heal u fast in Jesus name....

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  45. Poster, Pls read Psalms 28....The Lord be with you.

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  46. pele dear.it's well wit u.it's not a medical problem but a spiritual one.go to God in prayers.study d Word and know how to tell satan d devil "get out".

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  47. Dear poster, there is nothing wrong with you, you just need to relax and free your mind and soul. You are having anxiety disorder. The same thing happened to me when I was under immerse pressure(work related) pain on the left arm, burning sensation, insomnia, feeling of falling off a cliff when trying hard to sleep, burning scalp, dizziness......I can go on and on. I thought I was dying....it was that bad until my doctor said i was fine and had to take it easy cos I was under heavy anxiety and panic attacks. He referred me to this site which really helped and I couldn't believe it. My dear, the solution lies solely in your hands to help yourself.
    I know you have gone through so much emotional stress for too long to trigger it, but please dear you have to try and calm down and relax, or else you might end up with depression and then the psychiatric hospital (God forbid!). I fought mine very hard, and I know you can do it too..xxxxhugs. Visit www.anxietycentre.com (here lies all the answer to your questions)

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  48. Wow this is too much on one person. Poster maybe you need to stop thinking too much. Let your mind be at peace always. Also you need to pray,pray, and pray. It is well with you.

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  49. You're having a psychological break down. You need a holiday for at least 3 months. Take it easy madam, it is well with you. A man that can leave you due to childlessness was never your husband to start with. Hugs. Just take it easy, don't think about it too much.

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  50. ***HEALING-RAIN***

    This one deep depression that has eaten deep into your entire being.
    You do not need prescription or meds,all you need is the will,the discipline and the determination to bring your spirit down from the cliff you have hung it this past 6yrs because of childlessness.
    Detox yourself spiritually,you need an outlet to let out the steam,shout,cry,box,punch a rock if you have to but put yourself in a support group,it will go a long way.
    Love yourself again,get up the pity couch and take long walks in early hours and evenings.
    Let the hate,the bitterness,the hurt,the unforgiveness go for your own sake otherwise you are toast and lift your eyes up unto the hills and the Lord will shine his light on you. The recovery is slow but sure,but you have to make an effort. Have been down the bottom,same issue but l fought myself back to the top not for anyone but for me.
    I declare healing in your mind in the name of Jesus.
    Be well and Be still.

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  51. Ooooooboy! You have indeed suffered in that marriage of yours. I personally think that its still post-depression syndrome. Oooooo I'm really feeling so sorry for you honestly. Look @ some of us that have committed abortion so many time yet God showered His Grace upon my life and took in immediately I ageed to marry my husband. I pray and speak PEACE + CALM into your life, peace and calm in all aspects of your life. You will find love again. And certainly, you MUST carry your babies in your womb to term! He's a Faithful God. Please just don't give up. Try and change Doctors, maybe the new one might help. You are blessed, keep smiling, keep calm, it must surely end in PRAISE.

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  52. See you are here on this blog, start reading comments on causers and the accusers. you will laugh well and your stress will go.

    it is well inugo...

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  53. poster,have u prayed?There is nothing God cannot do.Ask God to give u a peaceful mind and quality sleep..yes,its not too trivial to bother God with.Talk to God and stop thinking abt it so that u will rule out d possibility of psychological drawback.

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  54. a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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    This ur problem na one in a million..... God is ur strength......
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    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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  55. Try swimming, it helps a lot. I tried it and it worked.

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  56. I think ur emotionally troubled, think less and pls occupied urself wt some work, job or business,or anything at will keep U busy, tnx

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  57. I'll just read comments
    Poster, it is well

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  58. May help locate u soon. God is still in d business of performing miracles.

    All will be well dear.

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  59. Oh come here darling....come take a hug...
    I am soo sorry.soo sorry.
    Buh just know that This too shall pass.ok?
    My prayers are with u sweetheart.

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  60. I pray u get ova it sister. God is ur strength. Its well

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  61. It is well my dear,am sure your are stressed but please take thing easy and turn to God,after all babies come from him and he will surely give you yours at the right time.



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  62. It is well with you dear poster. Since you have gone to medical doctors and there is no relief, please take it to the Great physician as you are sure to be healed. There is still a healing balm in Gilead and the good news is, you will be healed body, soul and spirit. All you need to do is go to Him in prayers, cultivate the habit of spending time in His presence as no evil presence or affliction can survive around Divine presence. Minister spiritual songs and messages to yourself. Always play christian and soul lifting music as well as listen to preaching from anointed men of God, as you go about your normal day and when you want to sleep. You will be fine.

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  63. Poster it is well with you.but please run some heart related tests.pains on the left arm is not so good.its usually heart related problems.I sincerely wish you the very best

    Nwanyi Owerri

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  64. Blissfully.in.your.face20 February 2015 at 14:11


    Just Pray about it. your will surely
    recieve your deliverance /healing .
    IJN,Amen

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  65. Plz BVs, I reside in benin and am suppose to go for fibroid surgery. I need a good hospital and a gyneo dats well known plz. Can't anyone help a sister plz,,,,,,,,,do anYone know of Ponder end hospital? Pls suggest d best, pls pls pls! Tnk U

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  66. Sorry dear to what u are going through, when ever am feeling d way u are feeling I go to large gathering were I will hear good praise n worship, believe me d word dat will follow after then will be a word of complete healings to my soul. I think u should give it a trier. D lord is ur strength poster.

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  67. I suggest you start praying about it, that is, if you believe in prayer. Until recently, I used to feel heaviness in my head anything I want to sleep. I went to a number of doctors, some think I read to much. Some others simply dissmissed me. It was then I knew it was spiritual. So I turned it to the God of Israel and he sent me help. I pray you find the help you so desire. Cheers always!

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  68. Take urself to de gym morning and night. Go shopping. Hang out with friends and tell ur problems. Let it out. Go to parties and be open to admirers. My sister u ll surely start feeling / sleeping better. U r on de right track for coming to SDK. It's well my dear

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  69. Take urself to de gym morning and night. Go shopping. Hang out with friends and tell ur problems. Let it out. Go to parties and be open to admirers. My sister u ll surely start feeling / sleeping better. U r on de right track for coming to SDK. It's well my dear

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  70. Madam i wonder why should you made such big mistake by taking an advice from ur doctor to divorce,those signs are very real sign you must have when ever you want to have your breakthrough from God in Heaven, those dreams are battles from a house hood enemy,some one you love or like,some one you shares ur problems with,some one next to ur village home,they person has knew that he or she has loose the battle but doing all those things to make you lose hope nd faith in christ Jesus,you must pray more now and believed me in next 6months from now you must be free nd ready to have ur children,dont run to any church but that very holy church inside ur heart you must use to connecting heaven each moment or seconds of the day,is well,from swiss

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  71. That udichick pls park aside....you think your catholic traditions is what will get you to heaven? If you like don't eat meat till you die, if u don't live holy and be in the center of a Gods will you are hell bound.....not eating meat is a tradition of man and not a prerequisite to make heaven...

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  72. Hey sweetheart,is there anything impossible for God to do?The answer is no.Is there anything to trivial to bring before God?The answer is no?Are you aware that in the whole bible only one woman could be referred to as being barren?The heaven blocked her womb cos she said why will a whole David who is a great, well respected and feared king roll on the floor and dance shamelessly before people.David said he was dancing before God who saw her ancestors and didn't make them kings .My dear,the bible is a manual for we christians .If you study the bible you will see that there is nothing,absolutely nothing that God can not do .He said we should remind him of the things he did in then days and he will do it again. Didn't he raise the dead?Didn't he heal the woman with the issue of blood?Remind me again of the age Sarah birthed Isaac?Go to him in prayers and praise worship.God is God,he said he will do exceedingly and abundantly above all things.He is not man that he should lie nor the son of man that he should repent.Sow a seed that will move heavens,remember the story of Solomon when he offered sacrifice before God.200,000 cows and many other things.God was so moved,he gave him a blank cheque to ask for anything he wanted.The sacrifice of then days is the seed we are asked to sow today.The God will visit you dear.*hugs*

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