Mscheeeeew!!!...Joker!
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
VIRGIN MAN.
Hi Stella,
Love your blog i always look forward to the funny pix which i borrow for my BB dp.
I am writing to actually understand if it is a crime to be a virgin a male virgin(Has had no coitus or masturbated only heavy wet dreams).
First of all let me state the following: i am a male, 30years old, handsomeness of 8.9 on a beauty scale of 10. Stella, trust me i am aroused by the female gender( especially those like Amber Rose) and no my P_P is on point cos i always see my morning wood which by the way is above standard(6.2 my ex measured it).
However the i dated a gal and she wanted to be a virgin till marriage which i admired cos i was madly in love with her. after 4 years we broke up cos of her arrangee marriage to a guy in Canada but i have been on other dates and the gals always stop communicating when i mention i am a virgin and they always are not. 6 of them precisely.
The fact that they possibly have PHds in bedmatics does not bother me but my question is why they always feel i am incomplete or lying about my sex life which is 0.03
Abeg Stella, Is it a crime for a man to be a virgin?
Even when i was in USA for a training my colleagues and flatmate whispered that i was gay cos i dont bed gals all nite with my level of good looks and likeable personality. this is just is crazy but worrisome.
Anyway i ask is it a turn off for a guy to be a virgin at that age and must i sleep around to prove to others my sexual orientation. Plus are there other virgins in the same predicament.
Thanks Stella.
WOW,YOU SOUND LIKE A DREAM OOOOH...make i go back to sleep abeg.over to blog visitors.
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
J-O-K-E-R!
Dear Stella,
Good day, am a pretty lady of 25, sometime last year I met this cute and very handsome guy and we officially started dating in May 2014, he loves me so much and I am madly in love with him too. He came to my house and made his intention to marry me known to my parents and took me to his parents and family too, so I was excited and looked forward a beautiful future with him, he called my dad and said he will come with his people in October for introduction and we agreed, October came and passed, we no see am but yet he kept calling and loving me more, he apologized and said December is better for the introduction, and picked a date, and again he didn't show up with his people.
This time I was pissed and sad, so I didn't pick his calls, he sent several text messages and was deeply sorry, his mum even called me to apologize on his behalf and I forgave him, he called my mum this time and said its January 2015, and dear its February and I havent seen him and his family members. I called him yesterday and asked him why he is acting this way towards our introduction, he started shouting and telling me that he is planning and getting ready and that he doesn't like being put under pressure.
He then ended the call. I cried all through the night and he called in the morning begging as usual that he is very sorry and that he truly loves me and that we will get married soon. My parents are not interested anymore in him and they re saying I should give room for other guys who wants to date me.
I really don't know why my boo is acting this way, am just so confused and sad. I participated in my church's 21 days fasting and I still believe that God will remember me one day cos I love my boo and just can't leave him. Please I need advices Stella.. Thanks so much
Your boo?..You cant leave him?I noticed those two words in your mail and whilst i dont want to say anything,i want you to know that you have set yourself up for an epic heart break.
There are some lovers out there who should be in Yaba left because they are jokers.
I was in your situation long time back.This American based lover wanted to come and pay dowry and he allegedly missed his flight about ten times,until he wanted his family to come and pay the dowry in his absence cos i couldnt take it anymore.I refused and took a walk,and guess what?I loved him so much then,thought i would break but today,NO REGRETS AND I AM OVER THE SH*T HE DISHED ME.
If you marry this man,you would have broken a record of marrying yourself.I wonder what shockers he has up his sleeves for you.
Listen to your parents and walk away.
Waiting 4 comments 2 roll in, wil b bck 2 comment. *launch*
ReplyDeleteVirgin boy plz leave virginity for us (girls) @poster 2. Who let the bags of foolishness out for u .His nor ready to get married to u he has humiliated u and your parents twice it's shows he has no regards for family.
DeleteOga virgin keep your virginity till your married, am glad reading there re really male virgins
DeletePoster 2 the hand writing is clear, your not meant to be, move on jare. The guy is a big joker. I wonder what he takes your parents for and expects them to openly welcome him, when he is this childish.
Poster one, you are too full of yourself. Go and suck a dick mr man.
DeletePoster two, in as much as I empathise with you, but I just can't help but to LOL while imaging how your mouth will look like when you are saying 'BOO'. If you like no wake up, dey dia dey Boo.
Poster one drop your email sharply. I need to confirm this.
Deleteposter one...u r not abnormal, ur type is just rare. I married my husband two years ago...he was a virgin too...plus he also Neva dated anyone until he met me, so u see his own level is even higher than urs.
DeleteHe is just a guy who made up his mind he wld never date any girl until he is of marriageable age..so he stayed on his own. Everyone thinks he is a bad boy cos he has his charms wt d ladies...until we go really close when he told me abt himself.
We dated for 5yrs (YES!) and remained virgins. I asked him wat wld av happened if I wasnt a virgin, he said it doesn't matter cos he loved me alredi. He said he never asked God for a virgin but he had always maintained that he wld be happy if God gives him a virgin.
Anyways, we av been married two years now, the sex is out of this world and we are doing extremely well.
I must say, close to the wedding I started having doubts...cos I cldnt really rationalise why a 30 yr old guy wld remain a virgin. I prayed earnestly to God that I don't want to enter one chance....and apart from being a virgin,my hubby is completely out of this world.
My advice is u wl meet ur soul mate soon...very soon.someone wt same values as u...but pls forget about being a virgin...r u honest in other areas of ur life... U kp talking abt looks, a girl who wld want to stay wt a virgin boy wl need more than looks...r u principled in other areas of ur life...that's d only way dey wld knw that ur virginity is sincere and u r not suffering from any medical issues.
God wl help u!
And now to your question poster 1 its not a crime sigh so guys like this exist, how hopeful.
DeletePoster2 you can leave him oh this joke is too costly biko odi oke onu!
I'ld love a virgin, it's certainly not a turn off 4 me, u'll learn wit time.
DeletePoster 2, let him be. He may not be d ryt 1 4 u.
DeleteSo I should use ur virginity to cook stew? *Rme
DeleteBride-to-be, congra. Lmao
Poster 2. are u sure d woman u spoke to was her real mother. Love urself dear n open ur eyes.
DeleteAbasi mbok ben destiny killer sio ke usun mmi usung Ebe mmi ye usun nditor mmi Ameeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeen.
Poster I,its not a turn off,@least many pple were virgins b4 dey got deflowered. Though am a lady,@34yrs,am still a virgin. I av neva ad sex b4&dont no ow it feels. I have told my God dat l'll giv it to my hubby.My broda @30+ is also a virgin.Its bcos of d disciplined fada I av and I don't want orishirishi pe**s to enter my flower pot. Don't worry,God will giv u a wife who will cherish you IJN
DeletePoster I,its not a turn off,@least many pple were virgins b4 dey got deflowered. Though am a lady,@34yrs,am still a virgin. I av neva ad sex b4&dont no ow it feels. I have told my God dat l'll giv it to my hubby.My broda @30+ is also a virgin.Its bcos of d disciplined fada I av and I don't want orishirishi pe**s to enter my flower pot. Don't worry,God will giv u a wife who will cherish you IJN
DeleteStella, masha axis has been hott oo.. APC people shootin anyhw.. every running for their lives.. including meoooo.. lolzzm it's nt a small thg oo
Deleteposter 1 please i need ur number,u my dream man*wink*,d Lord has spoken!
DeleteAwwww poster one, I just love u come n take a hug jare but on a second thought u are 30 and u aren't thinking of settling down? Hmmm.. .... P2 u say what!!!!!? u still need a prophet to tell u to run abi? I once had a guy like that I had to leave him n walk o I don't know if he is scared of marriage or a spiritual problem.
DeletePoster one...ur every normal and I must commend u for kiping it up till now...dont worry u will find a wife soon....God is ur strength
DeletePoster two...Sri but ur boo is not serious...how wud he fix a date twice or so and don't honour it....u beta follow ur parents advice ohh and leave
@ T BABY..please drop ur Broda' mail and hope his medically **FIT** cox I need aa VIRGIN man in my life as it stands.… mind u am age 27.
DeletePoster 1, u totally blew me away wit ur virginity, dats so cool, cnt stp thinking abt it. Lol
ReplyDeleteLol...another 25 year old fool...
DeleteHow I wish am still a virgin too, buh anty Tayo disvirgin me when was 5years old..buh God win..am now enjoying every moment with my boo boo bae Nkechi, na God win#theprison
DeleteSon of Solomon
Let me go anonymous before they name me holier than thou.I also turned 30 recently but don't look it may because I don't have sex Lol,am also a virgin my reasons solely because I want to honour God with my body am beautiful tall and fair people don't even believe me just my few friends who keep saying please don't give up you will find what you want.So this poster if we have same reasons you better mee ngwa ngwa Lol.cos adim very single
DeleteEverybody is.now claiming virgin
DeleteAkuko.
Hahahahhaha abi. Its possible shA
DeletePoster 1: wowza! Truly rare.
DeleteErrrr, come let's take a walk together, we might just be soul mates.
Lol.
Poster 2: you plight is pitiable.
Experienced BVS, when's the right time to take a walk from an unproductive relationship?
Everyone's advising her to leave the fiance. What if he's reasons are genuine?
Wowza to poster 2
DeletePoster 2, are u sure u ain't dating a ghost? Maybe he's taking tym 2 gather body parts 4 d family he wants 2 show u. Lol.
ReplyDeleteLmao u dey craze ooo
DeleteLol, your response make sense biko. As in and she still calls him boo. Poster 2, no matter how hard it is, arrange and go for thanksgiving o. God has delivered you but you are yet to realise it.
DeleteAbi o.that kinda man has enough secrets
DeleteI hope after reading the comments,you would walk away
Lol! Body parts kwa. Funny Chisom
Delete#am an igbo girl
No be small ghost lol
DeleteLmao, odum na akwa eke
DeleteNa real ghost oh. Come to think of it, it's possible. The next thing you will hear be sey the guy don kpai long time ago. Lol. This one get as e be. Some forces are moving against you...ngwanu shebi the next thing na pray pray pray. No sidon there De cry.
DeleteMr. Virginus I dey greet
ReplyDeleteProud of you poster 1
DeleteIn this present world your type is rare, continue your honourable self control
Poster 2 In the year 2025 there sat a woman by the window anxiously waiting for the arrival of in laws who had promised 400 times before then but failed to come.
Do you want to be that girl?
The term exercise in futility come to mind
Poster2: you are in love with him because he is cute and very handsome. That's what you crave for in a man. His character or principle doesn't matter. A man who disrespected your parents 4 times before he even think of marrying you, yet you are still wishing and praying for him to come and marry you. Later in the marriage you will send Stella Chronicles and disturb God with prayers for him to change your so called boo. I bet you, if the guy was not so fine and cute you won't think twice before dumping him. Mind you, 95% of girls on this blog will act the same way poster 2 is acting, cos all they want is cute, tall and handsome guys. It is well with you all.
Delete@ Teacher 4 u nor serious ooo Lmao
DeleteTrue talk....lwkmd
Stello! No be today you start to aim for obodo oyinbo hehehe
ReplyDeleteVirgin man, come let's be virgins together ;)
Stellakork, u dey binu o, ur comment long die, dis matter really vex u o, lemme stp typing nw n wait 4 comments 2 roll in.
ReplyDeletePoster 1- most ladies dont like virgin guys cos they feel they lack experience in bedmatics.poster 2- you are on your own! Oyo!!!
ReplyDeleteDear Poster 1, i think i like you already, i've been searching for someone like you, i don't even mind your age, how can we meet?
ReplyDeletePoster 2: those ppl u think r his family members are borrowed parents,the dude is using u to catch trips,right now love urself more than ever.I know if ur invincible boo comes bk n tells u he is coming in march u will agree.Thats y he's playing u.Let ur mum join u in prayers n do not confine urself to d luv that he doesn't have for u.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 yes there r guys who r virgins bt it's for personal reasons.I dunno how serious urs was but my first BF was the same n what was his reason that he doesn't know how to initiate sex with a girl,i was disgusted cos I didn't believe bt up till lastweek he's not a virgin no more bt he has sworn never to go into a pharm to buy condoms.So it boils down to the same thing.Just the same way there r virgins @ 30pls let's not doubt ppl cos we don't live their lives.
Gbam
DeletePoster 1, am wowing in your case (if wowing is even a word). So its possible to have such guys. If you aint gay then my dear congratulation. You will definately find someone soon dear and its no turn off.
ReplyDeletePoster2 I had a guy like that who made that kind of promise twice I just called him after the second time telling him it was over and done for good. Yes I walked away and am so glad I did too. Please look for another boo because this boo aint loyal and will always break ur heart.
@d virgin guy, I married my husband a virgin. He was 35years and I was a single mother at the time. So there's no big deal, u will find a girl that is ready to take the journey with you.
DeletePoster 1: lmao!!! Well it's possible u r a virgin not disputing that but wat r u actually presenting to this girls??? That u r a virgin or that u r a good man?
ReplyDeletePoster2: that guy is either not serious or he's still preparing. Really talk to him calmly nd find out what's up with him then u will know wat to do... all the best.
All i kept seeing in poster1s tale was how handsome, good and friendly he is....errm something is twisted here, dont think girls pack up shop cuz of his virginity but rather over his ego. Personally, i detest people who are too full of themselves
DeleteGood question my dear, wetin we wan use virginity do? Are you going to be a good husband and father? That is d main ques abi is virginity forever? Mtchweeee
DeleteMmmmmmmh that's a good question being a virgin isn't enough .
DeleteAs in eeh
DeleteHis so full of himself.
Am handsome bla bla.
Mr Virginia eat it.
Poster no. 1 Pls come let me teach u some few things I bed and number 2 Pls run for ur life make depression no kill u. U dey go fast for guy wen no serious, pray to God to bring ur true hoo. Stop wasting ur time on dat dude.
ReplyDeletePoster1,
ReplyDeleteIts rare to see a male 'virgin'.
Why did you decide to keep it?
Hmmm...
I hope you have read about sex and bedmatics o! I mean, I hope you are not a total novice. You don't have to practice a thing before knowing it. Just be a master of bedmatics theoretically so you don't make a nice girl cry. Lol
Poster2, your matter tire me o!
Pls seek a better explanation from him. Talk to his mum. Ask questions dear. He should be able to satisfy your curiosity na.
If you don't get the desired response, abeg boot! Forget love, you'll be fine with time.
Open up to others like your parents suggested. Your husband may just be around the corner. People like your boo are sometimes badluck and obstacle.
You'll be fine.
First narrative
ReplyDeleteShould I come and check if you are still a virgin???.....
Hmmmm....you sound like my spec,are you really handsome like Uti? ..
Come lemme disvirgin you.aswear,you will enjoy it.....
2nd poster,
That your boo is not serious...the earlier you leave him the better for you....
Sorry dearies.
ReplyDeleteAeegurl...
Buhahaha @ he sounds like a dream... Stella ur mouth will put you into trouble I tell you... But does such people exist? Make I sit down read comments abeg.
ReplyDeletebro not just you.i'm also a virgin,and my brothers even call me gay bc i said i want to marry a virgin like me.i'm 21.and they said a day shall come dey will call a girl and lock me inside the house and they'll know my outcome that day.
ReplyDeleteAnd for the secound,aunty dat guy na wash.better use omo wash am too.no be payback ooo
I need a virgin guy
ReplyDeleteBrazilian footballer,Ricardo Kaka was a virgin when he got married so u are not the first.if a footballer can do it,then,you can. That man you call ur boo,lacks respect for your parents.stay away from him.
ReplyDeleteVirgin man, why don't I believe your story. I feel u r just a bored guy who wants to get attention. You had to garnish the gist with that info about going for training in USA where ur friends whispered that u were gay. Couldn't the training hold hold in sokoto?
ReplyDeleteSo...
Your ex saw ur 'morning wood' and brought out ruler and measured it and kept back the ruler and u wore back ur boxers and she went back to the sitting room to watch telemundo and u remained a virgin.
Story for the gods.
Buhahahaha..you spoke my mind.he just had to mention training in usa.
DeleteGbammest.
DeleteThe poster is full of himself, girls are not running because he's a virgin, he has big ego problem. Change your ways and see girls falling for you.
DeletePoster 2, your self esteem is in the gutter, go get it and clean it up. It's not too late, you're still young. The guy is a serious time waster.
U got me so cracked up! LMAO! @Your ex saw ur 'morning wood' and brought out ruler and measured it and kept back the ruler and u wore back ur boxers and she went back to the sitting room to watch telemundo and u remained a virgin.
DeletePoster 1
ReplyDeleteIt is absolutely okay to keep yourself!
Because everybody does it,doesn't make it right!
You have your standards and have refused to lower it..mystery loves company,trust me those guys will have inner respect for you..
When you meet THE ONE,bedmatics won't be a problem dear...
Hope you have a wonderful character to carry off your chastity ooh,cos it will just make you almost perfect!! Self restrain and a wonderful character equals a good hubby in advance!
Poster 2
Please live your life to the fullest,go on dates... you don't have a "boo" for now please.
He has not decided yet! To come for introduction does not take more than fuel in his car,a drink and his folks. This is if what is holding him is money..
Poster 1, can I have your number?
ReplyDeleteI'm also a virgin. Hehehehe.
Poster 2, please I have a good running shoes, come and take them and ...................
Poster 1
ReplyDeleteGo and look for a prostitute!
Poster 2
Don't just dump him like that,Keep him as a side guy,start increasing your demands (financially),infact make him go bankrupt.
Make yourself available for serious guys to meet ya!
I am writting this anonimously bcos most of u here are hypocrites!
What are you waiting for? 3x and you are still there wondering and asking questions? It's a huge embarrassment. First he's got no respect for you or your parents. This kind of person will have no qualms in dumping you at the altar. What preparation does he need to do before you have the introduction done?
ReplyDeleteAll the best.
Poster 2, since u can't leave him, no need for our advice naa
ReplyDeletePoster 1. Keep up your celibacy until you find the right lady. Poster 2. Be careful you might be Hoping against Hope.Goodluck.
ReplyDeleteJonathan nko?
DeletePoster 2, all i have to say is let go. Yep, its hard, buh you can do it!
ReplyDeleteMr Virgin guy, go and take several seats abeg or better still, go hide me SDK look 4 u! Nonsense!
ReplyDeleteStella i need a sugarmummy oh! Am a gal/tomboy. I am broker dan broke. Connect me or u cud b d 1*wink*
ReplyDeletePoster 2 please walk away pleaseeeee.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: hehe I have nothing to say
Aya lastb
Mr Virgin,contact me asap!
ReplyDelete1. Most people in this dispensation do not take God's word of no fornication, keeping the marriage bed undefiled seriously, infact its the opposite that is being practiced today. That's why you'll find baby mamas and papas everywhere and this is why they see you as being gay, insane for not doing what seem to be the 'norm' today. My brother, God's word can't change even if we choose to. Live your life and give no one any explanation jare. Keep things like this to yourself to avoid being discouraged.
ReplyDelete2. Pray about this and let God guide you. Decide with your head and not your emotions. A man that is behaving like this may runaway, leaving you to care for the kids alone when he starts facing marriage problems in future. Your parents maybe right you know. Pray because it may be a spiritual problem or its a sign that he isn't the one and God is trying to prevent a disaster in the future.
P2,dis guy has failed 3 good times to show up 4 ur intro n u ar stil accomodating him, wat oda proof do u need to knw dat he z not serious? Same thing happend to a friend of mine n she had to take a walk, gave oda suitors dat chance n before u can say JACKPOT, she got married had 2 kids n dsame guy dat has been promisin her marriage z stil single
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Ur are just going to make ursef cry at the end, he doesn't want too, 1st time is a mistake, 2nd time is not anymore, do the right thing by leaving him and maybe ur real man would find you.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: there is nothing wrong in being a Virgin at any age, when you are ready u would do it, and some pple also are not interested in sex though!! But enjoy ur no sex rule and make it, but wait a blowjob won't hurt though!!
Taah@BJ
DeleteDon spoil his testimony by giving yeye advice
X's is not food o!
Lmao at yaba left. Honestly, poster 2, your boo belongs there. This is a new year, you had better move on. Even his parents have told you to move on, what else do you want to hear? Poster 1, no comment. Virgins don't blow their trumpets.
ReplyDeleteLmao at yaba left. Honestly, poster 2, your boo belongs there. This is a new year, you had better move on. Even his parents have told you to move on, what else do you want to hear? Poster 1, no comment. Virgins don't blow their trumpets.
ReplyDeleteposter1: virgin at 30? had a friend like that in my school days. live ur life as u want o.
ReplyDeleteposter2: you cant leave her but he isnt the first guy u have dated. dreaming of faceless boo. he is not ready yet. cant you see it?
POSTER 1: YOU MIGHT A VIRGIN BUT YOU INDULGE OTHER SEXUAL FANTASIES LIKE MASTURBATION ABI.. no wahala. At 30, a man who is still a virgin cannot sabi all ooo.. it's not all about ur dick size. u can get a fellow virgin so u both explore with each other. personally am not freaked by virgin men cos dem dey spoil pass later especially the type at ur age. when u finally taste it u'll be like a dog that was loosed from it's chains, especially for men.They never get enough.
ReplyDeletePOSTER 2: THAT GUY IS A JOKER. YOU BETTER DUMP HIM AND MOVE ON. HE DOES'NT HAVE RESPECT FOR YOU AND YOUR PARENTS.
NN1: Woooow!!! Please dear, you do not need to prove anything to anyone one. you shall find the right woman wen its time
ReplyDeleteNN2: I hate wen girls say " I cant leave him" "I cant do without him" Arrrhgg!! freaks me out.
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@ poster 1, All those who ran away either felt intimidated or are sexually active and don't think you can match up their desires. Its not a crime and when you find the right girl she will ready to explore with you on the journey of sex when ure both ready. Many will wish they could hold on as you.
ReplyDelete@ Poster 2, He might actually be preparing or maybe deceiving you but ill advice you forget he even mentioned marriage, try as much as possible not to remind him or talk in the direction of marriage. Live your life and enjoy every moment and allow nature take its course, eventually he will commit or u will find yourself leaving him. Don't trouble your pretty head.
Poster 1..The truth is every girl thinks any man who comes to ask them out or show interest only wants sex till u get to know him and know d kind of person he really is..now lemme tell u, d fact that u are a virgin doesn't mean u are d perfect man..
ReplyDeleteHow do u relate with girls? How is ur personality? Cos even from d way u write, u sound like u are d best thing that happened to women..don't worry u will find ur own girl soon..
P.S. abeg na everything people dey come talk as testimony for church? That was how a newly married lady came to give testimony d other day. .
That she's thanking God for her life and her new hubby..that she didn't compromise herself as a youth neither did her husband. .that both of them were virgins when dey got married. .jeez..I was embarrassed for her...not cos of d virgin thing but really why would u come to a huge congregation and say something like that. .Everybody was just laughing...no be everything dem dey talk for outside.
Thank you my dear.
DeleteEvery sane girl wants a man that won't have sex with them till marriage.
They are not leaving the relationship cause hus a virgin, they left cause hus a ego filled man.
Oga Virginia change your attitude first.
Don't think you are the best thing that ever happened to a woman.
Because we are ment to be the treasure in any relationship.
Babez, I hope u dnt attend my church, cos was right dere in a service, wen d babe(usher) de spill dose nonsense of dem bn virgins
DeletePoster 1 ,I am officially in loff with u!
ReplyDeleteKudos dear! Kudos!
and no it's not a crime to be a virgin til Marriage.not at all!
and don't let anyone tell u odawise.cos surely,dey Wil tell u all sorts ranging from u being sick,to being gay to being downright evil....hahhahahahahhaa
*clears throat* Er,Er,I have a coz..she i. a good girl.and m sure u guys Wil like each oda.
whayda ya say??
Take care of ur Royal Handsomeness Dear!
Poster 2,leave dat Dude...he is acting out a Movie and u are d Lead actress.
Good luck as u take a walk and have a happier life without the "boy"
Poster2 please leave that guy bcos he is not really into you,take a walk now before its too late
ReplyDeleteNow this is why i don't like u stella,look at stella's advice for p1 and look at p2.i told u Stella is a feminist. Bcos p2 is a lady now she had to tell her to dump d guy.smh
ReplyDeleteWats ur p wit stella, itz an opinion forum, comment n move on wit ur life n stop looking 4 fault, if u read philosophy, no 1 wants 2 no, we dnt nid ur observations, biko leave stella alone.
DeletePoster 1. Woooooooooowwww.in this age and time, it's almost impossible to find a man who is still intact. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you and dont worry urself, a woman who will love you for who you are will come your way.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Errrmmm, is this man balanced psychologically? This is a clear case of "MANY ARE MAD, FEW ARE ROAMING". You better put on your running shoes before you loose ur sanity for this man. A man who cant keep to his words is in every way a terrible person. Listen to ur parents and MOVE ON!
Poster One: its good..don't sweat it...you will find somebody that appreciates your virginity,just don't act like that is all you offer. You are a virgin doesn't mean the person is good. I like it sha..thumbs up!
ReplyDeletePoster 2: my dear.....next time he calls..ask him who is dis?ko ni nnkan shey..jst wasting your time till the main chick will finish service and he will marry that one. Pele..u will. Be fine..
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
One: sex is no big deal so bro if yu like being a virgin then is gud yu continue and i knw one day yu will see that lucky gal no doubt.....
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Two: yu don enter one chance......
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Poster 1: Kudos to you, you are d type I want near my girl. Keep it up. @2: forget that guy already nd move on. You will meet better men, Take Care.
ReplyDeleteStella sugar, so you sef know Yaba left? You too much ooo lol. You are the real deal mehn. @ Poster1, maybe anytime they try to play with you, your reaction pisses them off which is not your fault but it's actually annoying lol/unbearable. I think age too causes that annoying reaction. Speaking from experience, had to dump him sharp sharp lol.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, you have no respect for your family. It is women like you who get married to husbands that disrespect their families so much. How can one guy call your Dad 3(THREE) times and not show up, you have to call him to ask why?Do you even have an ounce of respect for yourself? He is preparing, is introduction war that he is preparing for a year. You will soon see what is bigger than you, keep acting like a love struck puppy. 25 and you are not sharp enough to know that you are being played. Please sit there and be waiting. You wasted 21 days to engage God for something better in your life. This man has shown you who he is. Stop being desperate and see the handwriting on the wall please.
ReplyDeleteLol ah you don vex gan!
DeleteExactly! '!'
DeleteSome women are indeed gluttons for punishment. Am not quite sure what Poster 2 is waiting for to realize that her "Boo" is not not just that into her. Sweetheart, move on and ask God to give you your God ordained husband. Your current "boyfriend " has insulted you and your family one too many times.
Deletemr virgin, i salute u o, i respect ur decision and i pray God help u keep it till marriage n give u d deserving wife.AMEN.
ReplyDelete@poster one awwwwwww thats soooo cute standing ovation for you
ReplyDeleteBut the things is girls are more sexual than guys so when dey hear celibacy they think revd fr,gay,dull guy etc wait for yours dear
poster two get a running shoe or borrow stella own and run,ditch his unserious ass whick kind early bad market be dat
Poster 1-the way u narrated your story doesnt seem to me like someone who is serious..0.03,6 inches...ogini?anyways there are guys whi are virgins..u will meet the right lady when u are ready..
ReplyDeletePoster 2-forget that guy and listen to your parents. .some people are just enemies of progress. .they wont just want u to move forward in life. .abeg forget him,move on.
Abeg stella borrow me your bed make I sleep and enjoy the dream with the poster1, and don't forget to borrow me you stool to sit down and enjoy epic comment for bvs when I wake..ahhahahhahhah..poster2 if your boo break and crush your heart at the end na God win in korede bello voice ahahhahahh#theprison
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Abeg stella borrow me your bed make I sleep and enjoy the dream with the poster1, and don't forget to borrow me you stool to sit down and enjoy epic comment for bvs when I wake..ahhahahhahhah..poster2 if your boo break and crush your heart at the end na God win in korede bello voice ahahhahahh#theprison
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Poster 2,try to know his reasons first,maybe money or issues,,
ReplyDeletei was in such mess before trying to know who to marry,its all started like this,,i have meet a girl i love to marry and was ready,then one of my brother meet a lady and told her that i am going to marry her, then gave me her name nd number,as a joker i called her nd we talk but never talk or use any marriage words with her,after 2weeks i heard a voice on my dream telling me that she must be my wife,that she is my real wife,wow,,,it was when i called her again and using a soft words on her that she told me that she take my photo nd surname on facebook to meet a pastor who promised her that i am her husband,the pastor then manipulated me in dream to tell me about her,,so ladies abeg becareful the type of church you go these day,,its was after 2years of prayers my mind nd eyes open,then i go back to my real lady,etc,if i has married her by then,now i must leave her nd go back to my real woman,,desperations of marriage
Are you for real???...
DeleteDoes grammer even matter I understood your story Lol.
DeleteCHISOS!!!
DeleteYes there are male virgins and there is nothing wrong without.that you won't know until way around is a big lie.aren't we all virgins at a point in our lives? And reasons of being so differ from person to person, so, it's no big deal.
ReplyDeleteI am a virgin to and would really love to marry a virgin, that first time for both I always think about it but then na me wish am but my God have the best for me.
Keep it up poster!
Poster 2,I will advice you to move on unless he apologies to you and your parents, he is a big joker!
Poster 1...i know so many naive girls will fall for this your scam.
ReplyDeleteMaybe you are a bombom virgin
Real virgin?
Oriegwu culled from Linda
Adonbilivit culled
Poster2...there are so many women marrying themselves these days.
The difference is they know they have no groom.
My dear, you are also in the same boat but you still think you have a groom.
My dear, you are very much single
You are not even in a relationship
Better calm down.
Let that man go
You will find another
XOXO MYSTERY
Poster 1,Mr virgin man,get married already.we haff hear inugo?
ReplyDeletePoster no 2, you are too young to be this desperate for marriage. This man certainly has no respect for you and your family. A man that sets up a day for introduction and doesn't show up is the height of irresponsibility and disrespect. You shouldn't have taken him back .I guess he used the marriage card because he wants to have sex with you. He has gotten what he wants and has lost interest. My surprise is the fact that peoples parents will involve themselves in their childrens scam. The first thing you should learn young lady is self respect which a lot of women in Nigeria lack. A woman that knows her worth won't take this nonsense after the first disappointment.You are even the one calling him to come and marry you. If he marries you, he has already shown you what you will receive in that marriage. A man that cannot keep to his word. Next time when you meet a guy don't rush to go and tell your parents about introduction and do't let any man rush you. Dump his ass.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, the main thing here is why are you a virgin? Is it cz u don't want to fornicate? Or because you have set your standards? If u find out the right reasons, then you'll find the right woman. Btw, your ex measured? Why start something you won't finish?
ReplyDeletePoster 2, I don't understand the level of your mumu.
I wondered at the measurement too.
DeleteHmmm am impressed @poster one.its very rare to find guys like u.jst b ursef.its nt a crime to b a virgin.say to ursef dat u r uniquely dferent.u musnt b like odas.first of all its Sin so jst b proud of ursef.i rily wanna b ur friend so we can talk more. U can send m a mail I had a friend in ur situation.npconsults.ada@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteI started dating a guy in 2003 when I just wrote my senior waec, he promised to marry me but hasn't touch me for once, fast forward to 2010 when I was in my final year he said he wants to come and see my people for introduction, I decided to go and spend a week with him, let me see if he won't touch me, after 4 days he did not touch me, we slept on the same bed. I said to myself habah! Is this guy not a man? So the next day I made a move, he resisted and told me that he's a virgin, and can't do anythg, until after our marriage. And that was it, he never touched me until I travelled back to Nigeria, And I pretended as if all is well, and he bought a lot of thgs for me. When we came back for xmas he visited me in the villa, I collected what he bought for me, and he told me to get ready for the introduction, that was the last he heard from me. Whenever he visit, my people will tell him that am not around, I avoided him till he stoped coming. And by God's grace i got married the next year 2011.
ReplyDeleteOkay
DeleteLmao..na real okay..you guys won't kee me ooo.
DeleteNne abeg no fex, where were u before you travelled back to nigeria.
DeleteNonsense, so what's d relevance?
DeleteLala, ur head is there
DeleteSo, "by God's grace " you left a good guy?
Deleteposter1....ur story says a lot about how disciplined you are, a virtue a lot of us lack...thanks for being you, please keep being you...forget naysayers...but i've got just one question for you, why was ur den gfrnd 'measuring your d**k' and what happened after the measurement(sowi, two questions). aand by the way i know someone who would love to date with a virgin guy...
ReplyDeleteI await ya answers poster 1. Lmao. Libak got me tripping!
Deleteposter1....ur story says a lot about how disciplined you are, a virtue a lot of us lack...thanks for being you, please keep being you...forget naysayers...but i've got just one question for you, why was ur den gfrnd 'measuring your d**k' and what happened after the measurement(sowi, two questions). aand by the way i know someone who would love to date with a virgin guy...
ReplyDeleteCheiiiii poster one ehhhhhh....I am so maRried if not I for catch u put4corner.
ReplyDeletePoster2...he is not your husband..****Abort mission...I repeat terminate this relationship. Which kain one chance u wan enter..Allow God answer ur prayers na but not true ds 419 boo
Poster 1-pls contact me let's do this together.i like your type.very much
ReplyDeletePoster 2-He has a new girl but the girl is delaying cos they just met.siddon dey look na
How do I get to you then...need your contact privately
DeleteVirgin man since you haven't tried ya prick, how sure are you, that it works? its just 6 inches? e short jor. y not 10'? hehehe....anyway, stop telling girls you ate a virgin. if you donot want to have sex, just give a different reason cos trust me, it isnt an interesting thing...good luck!
ReplyDeleteposter 2 there's every possibility that man is married...no respect for his inlaws. why didnt he come in person to apologise? what reasons did he give? and why do you keep calling him? why are you desperate at 25? Anyway, like Stella said, you will marry yourself!
Ah I never knew its not an interesting thing to stay chaste till marriage. Okay
DeleteAnd disease ridden gbola is interesting bah?
DeleteMtshewww
N1... Are you for real? stop telling the babes you are a virgin jarey,it would always put them off. or are you celibate too, cos I don't get how you let your ex measure it in all hardness and u still didn't do anything... I pray yu find yourself a good girl that will understand you.
ReplyDeleteN2... Pls give other guys a chance, most times our parents are 90% right..
uncle virginius abi vagina (LOL), I greet u OH! u cant be attracted to the likes of amber rose n not wnt 2 hit that! it doesn't add up. no offence bt u might have a psychological wahala or u gotta b gay. am sure u'd figure something out soon..my dear bumbumly stella I luv ur blog
ReplyDeleteHave you never heard of see and not touch?
DeletePoster 1, well done. Its not something to be ashamed of but you honestly don't need to throw it in everyone's face. Must everyone know you're a virgin? so if u don't bring home girls every night, why must you dish out an explanation to everyone? You simply don't want to bring girls home every night. There are men that aren't virgins that STILL don't bring girls home every night. just live youre life the way you want and don't worry about what people think, feel or will say. Meanwhile....6 inches? well endowed? lemme superglue my mouth.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, your issues don tie wrapper. Many men have gotten dumped for far less but due to the desperation of some women to get married, youre still there being patient. My most recent ex taught me a very valuable lesson. I just knew this man was the man for me. Everytime we plan to go out (on date ooo not seeing my people), he wont show up. As in, just not show up, no answering phone, nada. This goat did it like 4 times and each and everytime, he would call begging and pleading, he was at work, he was asleep bla bla bla. I didn't say u shouldn't sleep or work but its simple courtesy to call someone and let them know if you wont make it on a date. Not to talk of seeing your people. Do like I did and KICK him to the curb. This man doesn't care about you no matter what he says and no matter what you think. Remove his negativity from your life so you can make room for positive energy to come in.
(Voltron)
Poster 1: congrats Mr. Virgin, make sure your wife will be the one to disvirgin you ooo, and stop telling girls you are a virgin, make them know you are team celibate.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: pls do as your mum said, give room for other guys, before it will be too late. I feel that your boo is not for you.
Exactly team celibate, after it has naturally progressed (the relationship) you chip in the good news (the big V) news
Deletepost my cooment ohh or I will swear for your bumbum
ReplyDeleteposter 1: wow! so hard to see a male virgin and it is good to know pple like you exist
ReplyDeleteposter 2: sometimes it is good to listen to your parents. Meanwhile if you decide to do otherwise, please try to take your mind of it anytime he promises to come see your parents. Don't even mention it to them....when he then decides to, tell your parents you were only planning to surprise them
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poster 1: wow! so hard to see a male virgin and it is good to know pple like you exist
ReplyDeleteposter 2: sometimes it is good to listen to your parents. Meanwhile if you decide to do otherwise, please try to take your mind of it anytime he promises to come see your parents. Don't even mention it to them....when he then decides to, tell your parents you were only planning to surprise them
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Virgin man na wa o. I dont know what to say.
ReplyDeleteposter 2 better run for ur life pls.
BTW I have 4+ months(will be 5 this month) old baby boy. He doesnt like anyother food aside breastmilk and water. I can't express enough for him. I ve introduced dawa n millet pap still he cries while taking it. Pls is there any food I can give him he might like. Cerelac is 6 months old. Thanks all
Heinz cereal.they have for 4months.he Wil looove it.
DeleteNN 1: Eku or I've o. There's nothing wrong in being a male virgin at 30,only say if you marry eh, MA that your wedding night your wife dey carry belle straight..
ReplyDeleteNN 2: Stella has said it all, take her advice and walk away from that joker
Poster 2: ur so called boo is just using u to pass time. He came to meet ur parents and took u to his so that u will relax n not doubt him while he is busy fooling around. Better leave that man and move on with ur life cos na one chance u enter.
ReplyDeletePoster 1:not many guys are like you and iit pays to be. Different and stand out. You rock jor. Nothing is wrong with you and you will meet ur perfect match soon.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: run for ur life girl, maybe ur boo has another wife somewhere o, these guys ain't loyal o.
Narrative 1: *smiling* Male Virginity me likey...u r a rare breed! Btw on wot ground r u keeping ur virginity- health, religious, personal?? #justasking
ReplyDeletePoster 1, am actually shocked. Poster 2 , wow!!! you are extremely funny my dear did u say u can't leave him. Looks to me like u have it all figured out but I strongly advice u walk away fast!!! Good luck .
ReplyDelete@ poster 2, pls end things with dat guy, he is not serious and never will, found myself in a similar situation, nobody tell me to use my tongue count my teeth, and pls be very prayerful too.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, pls don't rush yourself abeg. Keep it till you marry it's not a crime that your a virgin and it's not odd. Actually it's a good thing and God is happy with you. Congratulations.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: lips sealed b4 I spill it out. I also know of a 'virgin boy'...*plz virgin boy, don't read this* lol. Dear virgin boy ( dat is wat I call a friend dat is a virgin) there is nothing wrong with u. U might meet a girl dat is willing to go down with u and teach u xcept u want to pour all ur 30yrs old sperm/virginity in one lady on ur wedding night. D choice is urs.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: d guy is not serious. Better leave him alone and move on. It will hurt and we all know but u av to move on. That guy is not for you
Lmao @ 30yrs old sperm
DeleteWow virgin daz great.its not bad 4 dem u dnt knw d skills so dey will have to b teachg dem.
ReplyDeletePosta 2 pls walk away dat guy is not ready to marry u.
poster 1... being a virgin is not a bad thing at all. Buh being a virgin doesn't mean you shld be naive or clueless. U shld be well informed on how things run so when the time comes, it will go smoothly and won't be too awkward. I once dated a virgin...omo, the guy knew nothing...ordinary to hold u sef will be awkward... der was one time we were making out, he was so awkward, I got turned off, though we agreed not to have sex but still, doent mean u shld be annoying. Personally, I get turned on by a guy who knows his way around a woman.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: u don't need a prophet to tell u at to do... be open to meeting new pple. No one here knows the whole truth, even you don't, obviously. So don't put all ur eggs in his basket. So if he gives himself brain,all good buh if he doesn't, you won't be too bummed out. My opinion, take a freaking walk, he doesn't seem like a reliable or honest person. U are young and u deserve better. #teamstrongwomen#
@ Poster1 congrats to u,,@ poster 2 pls talk a work & dont look back..
ReplyDelete25yrs n u want to marry by fire by force..... Ur eyes de turn abi na ur brain de shake wey u no fit kw pesin wey no serious..... Move on jo
ReplyDelete~@iamjbankz SA to President Jonathan 2015~
at N2: are you sure it's love or money? ole.
ReplyDeleteat SDK (N2r): it's very difficult to leave som1 u truly love (not 4 his money) but she's got 2 face d fact that dis cud end up in a one chance ish and work on dumping him.
Poster 1 don't have a raletionship based on the fact that you are a virgin besides are you waiting till marriage to give it up or what exactly is the problem. Anyway I know about two guys who lied about being virgins just to bang so maybe that's why your exes do not believe you.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 my friend you are not ready stop embarrassing yourselfand your family. You seem desperate to settle down.
Poster 1..am rily impressed with u..The world has made fornication look lile the 'in' thing and abstinence the 'abstract' thing..just keep to ur principles..You will find series of girls who will love you for who you are..
ReplyDeletePoster 2..Please leave that guy..he is just blocking your luck..Its not easy but you have to..to avoid stories that touch...
@ poster 1:as far you are not gay then there is nothing wrong with you. I must really commend you for staying celibate up till this age.it is hard to find such.keep it up and just know that your exs were not meant for you.when the one meant for you comes around she will appreciate you.people find it hard to believe because of the high level of immoralities in our society now. so be proud of yourself and hold your head high.well done
ReplyDelete@ poster 2:I have nothing much to say than to tell you to leave that guy.unless you want a husband that you will be running after all the time.that's if he is even ready to marry you.wipe your tears and move on.God will send the rightful person to you. take care
Poster 1: there's nothing wrong wit being a virgin @30, ur woman wud def. Stay when she comes around. Just chill, bone all dose pple jere
ReplyDeletePoster 2: berra move on, what sorta fix n refix dude is dat, doesn't sound serz to me cos from what u said when u ask he'd tell u he doesn't like being put under pressure, whereas he fixed d dates. Smh, move on dear. Too early for d drama
moydot YOU HAVE BEEN CALLING FOR MY ATTENTION AND NOW I AM AFRAID I HAVE TO SAY YOU SHOULD PUT YOUR MOUTH WHERE YOUR DICK IS AND LEAVE ME ALONE YOU HEAR?
ReplyDeleteAH AH!
SDK for life.
DeletePoster 1, nice decision but when do you intend to get rid of your virginity and settle down with a nice lady?
ReplyDeletePoster 2, please forget the guy and make yourself available for other serious guys.
Lol@handsomeness -8.9 hahahahaha!!!
ReplyDeletePoster 1 - please keep it up, there is absolutely nothing wrong with keeping yourself pure till marriage, its admirable.
Poster 2- i think your fiancee is having financial problems and probably does'nt know how to tell you, considering the fact that marriages are sooo expensive. You should be patient with him and find out what the problem is.
Hmmmmmmmmmm...
ReplyDeleteThe things we hear!
poster 1, welcome to the club. I dont even dare mentioning it to people again or else they will laugh and insult me. So i give them the impression that i am a badoski. Now they think i have decayed :(
ReplyDeleteHmmmm...still a virgin at 30 and a guy...wow hard to biliv ...anyway, there is nothing wrong with being a virgin at dis age but I think must gals wld find it hard to beliv and think it's just another ploy to deceive them
ReplyDelete@ Poster one I think it is actually admirable and commendable that a guy your age is still a virgin, especially in this day and age. Personally i wish I sailed that ship. If had the chance to do it allover again, I'd waiting until my wedding night to give it to that special someone. If you are still single, I don't mind us hooking up and I'm willing to wait till our wedding night. Lol. If you are interested, just reply dropping your email and I will personally mail you with my contact.
ReplyDelete@Poster two things are involved in your case, Your boo is either a serial procrastinator or a serial deceiver. Whichever one it is I think you should have a soul search session with and make ur deduction from his response as well as his body language, but above all seek divine guidance from the Almighty.
Poster 1, Hubby to be is just like you too. Me am a Vee to so it makes it easy. There's nothing wrong with you. Have couple of male friends who are Virgins too. Pls stick to your bliv biko
ReplyDelete#1 Guy u try o. For doing that God will give u what you desire. Hardly see boys of 10-20 yrs still virgins. In fact 1 14 yrs old is in prison now lavishing, reason that he raped a girl of 17 yrs. Aru! He admitted that he had sex but d girl said it was a lie.
ReplyDelete#2 You carried that disappointment to 2015. You better drop that guy asap. How long will you remain a FOOL? Nne bilie n'ura.
P1 you are not alone, i'm 28 though not proud of it because of peer pressure, only me and my God knows that i'm a virgin, i find it awkward to tell people i'm a virgin. Its just a vow i made to myself since i took the decision that i will marry only a virgin, so its fair i remain a virgin till marriage. Unlike you i've not been in any relationship because i ve not seen a girl that shares the same values with me. I know some people close to me will think i'm gay but i've learnt long time ago not to care about what people think about me.
ReplyDelete@P 1 good for you but a relationship needs more than being a virgin to work. P2. Borrow leg and run. The guy cannot be trusted.
ReplyDeletePoster 1,Virgin boy pls keep your thing jare don't let any one put you on pressure to have sex now ontill your wedding nite!!!for now or once in a while go to strip club catch some some with the ladies but don't fuck.you can touch them as u like lol. Poster 2.your boo is not serious trust me.have seen some1 who did intro n after that day he never came back the girl was heart break n embarrassed but today is married to an Italian man wit 3 kids
ReplyDeletePoster 1..wow!! if u're still single im interested oh.I admire guys like you.
ReplyDeleteposter 2..sum1 who is really interested in u, will make it work.He's obviously playing
Poster 1..wow!! if u're still single im interested oh.I admire guys like you.
ReplyDeleteposter 2..sum1 who is really interested in u, will make it work.He's obviously playing
poster 1.....u no get problem @ all just that when u start doing it, u may likely be very promiscous
ReplyDeleteposter 2......that's not ur man @ all, and his family are something else too, move on
I am a virgin girl and my wish is to meet a virgin guy. I'm glad to know there are nigerian guys like you still alive. Be yourself and you will find someone to appreciate and accept you the way you are.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, I like you ALREADY! I know someone like you but peeps don't know he's one cos he doesn't say it. He pretends to be a BAD boy to cover his male vaginity.
ReplyDeleteChop kisses from me: Mwah! Mwah!! Mwah!!!
Poster 2: Please flee from time waster, destiny delayer and retrogressing agents. Listen to your parents and he aint YOUR BOO!!! Boo this, Boo that? Are you both cows?
N2, your mumu no be hear o, chai!
ReplyDeleteDid I hear Stella say walk. My dear run. No actually Fly. Did you pray abt it. Move on. God will heal your heart. you are young and will find someone.
ReplyDeleteIt would hurt at first but in 3months you would be shocked you would careless.
Tell him not to come again but to think and pray abt it and move on.
whc kain life
Did I hear Stella say walk. My dear run. No actually Fly. Did you pray abt it. Move on. God will heal your heart. you are young and will find someone.
ReplyDeleteIt would hurt at first but in 3months you would be shocked you would careless.
Tell him not to come again but to think and pray abt it and move on.
whc kain life
Virginity is rare especially in the case of the male species but keep it up darling and work on your character as well. Aunty, show some respect for your folks and tell that guy off joor!
ReplyDelete@poster 1: guys like you are rare and hard to come by,I once had this intention of getting married to a virgin(guy);still in for it tho...its pretty cool...live your life man. #one love
ReplyDeletePoster 1... Stella girls pls run from dis virgin boy,,, cos una eyes don they roll now as una wan wack dis boy,,,this boy is playing mind games with y'all... He will so fuck 360 degree shoki out of your honey pot... Oloshi olokonla ,,, omo onidokido... Hey , hey dimoko girls don't come back here crying dat this boy don collect pant from under u,, bewarned,,,
ReplyDeletePlease vote for Ambode. ...
Poster 1
ReplyDeleteYou din't tell us the reason behind your decision to remain a virgin. What's the principle behind it?
It's the motive that counts.
You don't have a problem. The girls don't either. There is no issue here.
Just live ur life and define ur values with girls instead of notifying them about ur virginity status.
Poster 2.
I feel bad for you but your story made me lmao. This must be a long distance relationship.
Why exactly was he being a no-show? What excuses did he give. You din't state any. They may be valid excuses. I'm just hardpressed to conclude that he's playing you. why would a guy who is not serious be calling and apologising to your mum?
Btw, do you know this guy really well? All I can say is, call of the engagement for now, and pray about the relationship.
It always isn't easy when u're so much in love...but u have think rationally dear..When a man is in love, he goes all out, he doesn't waste no time.This guy obviously doesn't love or respect u..even to the extent of disrespecting ur folks..giving promises & breaking them? That's the height of it...beta leave him for the sake of ur peace.
ReplyDeleteIn d future,you will know when a man loves you...it'll be glaring and obvious for all to see...both in words and action...Chin up
@ Poster 1: I had a male friend who was a virgin until he was 32years old, but his been a virgin meant he had not had a full penetration, he was doing every other thing related to sex, such as going down south, getting bj's to relieve himself, and was even good at giving bj. Now I presume you fall into this category having mentioned the size of your "P". For me I wont categorize you as a virgin just because you have not dippedyour P into the honey pot yet. However, I as a person will prefer your kind of person especially if you are willing to learn.
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