Beautiful Sunny day...Looks like a day meant for miracles alone but hey Narratives are an everyday thing....every second another narrative is unfolding somewhere.
God bless every narrator as they try to heal from the shock and pain.
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
WHISTLE BLOWING ON A GHEN-GHEN SITUATION!
Good day Stella,
Please i need advice from you or bvs, abeg i want to be anonymous oh thank you.
I met 1 guy last year who has been asking me out, he buys me stuffs, pays for my tickets most times when i want to travel, stuffs like that. I have told him a couple of times that i cant date him but he keeps trying hoping i would change my mind because according to him he wants something serious but i just don't like him and there is zero chemistry.
Fast forward to this month i met 1 cool guy who i was instantly attracted to. He says he likes me too, just for me to find out that he's the other guy's elder brother.
I Am confused i don't know if i can start a relationship with him but it would so break the other guys heart. Or should i try and forget them both?
Note that all i did with the 1st guy was just a few kisses here and there.
Thank you Stella, i love you muchos
If you are ready to take a gamble then do it,if not just take a walk from both because after using that guy,he might not let you space into that family and if it a close knight family two things will happen,they will both dump you or you will cause rift by dating the one you are attracted to.
If you ask me oh,I would advise you to put on your walking shoes.
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
WHISTLEBLOWING ON A SITUATION
Good day madam ,please i was hoping you and blog visitors will help me solve this pressing issue and give me reasonable advise on how to handle the issue at hand.
A friend of my husband met my very close friend during my wedding which was October last year and told my husband he was very much interested in getting married to my friend.Good and fine he hooked up with my friend and I assumed things were going on well.
What I noticed that whenever my friend visits him because they are in different cities the dude in question will be on my husband's neck asking for money and since they share same mutual friends he will be on everybody's neck.
Everyone initially thought the money is for my friend because he sends messages saying 'my woman dey town'abeg try find me something!the person in question is working.
I found it rather disgusting and even had an argument with my husband ,I didn't appreciate his life of debts and my friend was in the picture.So on Valentine's day when my friend visited omg he was on every body's neck that please oh he needs to buy present for the girl and he was on my husband's neck.
hmmm I ignored my husband and didn't know he eventually gave him 20k since he was really disturbing him.
So I communicated with my friend and asked how her Val went and to my upmost shock she said ''my sister nothing oh he didn't give me a gift''...
And all the times she came to visit him,he has never paid her fare.I was in shock,so why does he collect money from people saying it is for her?
I told my hubby that his friend is mean and then he confessed that he gave him 20k for val and my friend is lying,he then showed me the messages sent by his friend saying he needed it so badly to give his girl and he pitied my friend,that was the main reason he gave him the money .I was in shock because my friend is working and i have never known her to formulate stories so I had to call her and ask her pertinent questions about the relationship and what she has observed and she opened up to a big shocker,that the guy came to see her mum and that was his first encounter with her mum.
Her mum stays in the village and travelled to the city where my friend stays to see the dude,so she felt it was not proper he came empty handed she had to use her 5k to give her mum that it was from him to cover shame saying she should use it to pay her way back.
I was shocked and told my hubby that his friend acted in a shameless manner and my husband was like he told him to get something at least for the lady that is how things are done at least on first visit and told me my friend should be wise.
The one that broke the camel's back he told a mutual friend how he intends to collect loan to wed my friend that he doesn't have a dime.He lives on debts and can hardly save.I feel so bad for my friend and don't know if I should tell her though she has seen some signs already and she has shifted the introduction.He is so much in a hurry and I smell a rat.Please do I mind my business ?...because I forsee hardship and him turning her to a breadwinner.
How can you use someone's name to beg for money and you don't even give the person a dime.I bleed in my heart because my friend is someone who is content with life and is working ,why will she enter this kind of pit all in the name of marriage.
What are you waiting for?you got her into the mess by introducing her to him,so try and get her out.dont ask her to end it,just tell her the whole story and let her decide for herself what she wants.
Still Sleeping In My Father's House, No IN HOUSE should wake me ooo.. Brb for Comments.
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DeleteI have never advised anyone on here cos I don't think I'm capable of dishing out something good but ummm Poster1, you are being set up! Better leave that family alone and stop collecting gifts from guy1....see you!
DeletePoster 1: you have two options here, 1) You either stay away from both guys and tell them you can't date them by finding another man outside their family included extended! Or 2) you tell both brothers the truth abt how you feel about them and let them know that there are interested in you at the same time and you are attracted to just one!! Let the elder brother know that his younger brother has been spending for you but u always told him u dint wanna date him!! Let's see if both would leave you or one would try more.
DeletePoster1 leave them both cos u will never have peace in ur relationship since d first guy is very persistent.
DeletePoster2. You shouldn't be asking this kinda question, u better tell ur friend d whole truth if u love her plus wat if ahe was ur sister nko, wud let her go into wrong hand? If ur friend finds out d truth d hard way&knows u knew, I bet u, she wouldn't forgive u.
Poster one: I beg u to stay away from d both of dem....at least show d ist one some respect na....put ursef in his shoes...how wud u feel......just imagine u have bin liking one guy for a year...u talk frequently with him and d next tin u see he says he loves ur sis....how will u feel....even if u claim dat it is nothing u will always get angry wen u see him with ur sis...........
Deletewith d way am seeing it Poster dat guy already sees u as his g.f even if u did not agree but with d way u were accepting gifts from him....in essence u were giving him hope....
Ladies wen u don't want somebody wat is d nid of accepting gifts from him??????????????
Poster two: abeg tel ur frnd....like u said she is ur frnd and as such u have to protect her....it will b different if u told her all u have to say and she stills marries him......definitely if something happens den at least u won't have a guilty conscience dat u did not tell her....so plz tell her so she can run as fast as she can....
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DeletePoster 1, if you can, just remove your shoes, dust em and then wave em bye and leave... Because you won't be comfortable dating the elder bro, trust me, you won't.
DeletePoster 2, better tell your friend. Tell her everything. Cos marriage, once in, no out o. Tell her abeg. He just wants to use her cos she is working already. Lazy man! Mschew.
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Diminishing yourself to attain certain things simply says you are not worthy of it.
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Is this really happening...ok. here is my freaking truthful advice.
DeletePoster 1 : find another man, cos it won't work. I can't be dating a girl that has kissed my brother several times and touched her breast although u ain't telling us that. A guy can't be kissing u here and there without touching your boobs and ur pussy abeg. Just bone that story. It can't work. Respect urself before they disgrace you. No family will ruin the love btw them for a girl abegi.
Poster 2 : you need deliverance, and as stella said...you introduced ur friend to a guy and you know how useless the guy is and you ain't telling your friend. that means you're a bad friend. Respect yourself and tell your friend how useless he is abeg.
Poster one, u are collecting his gift but u claim there's no chemistry btw u? Yet u shared a few kisses here and there? But his money is compatible with your wallet abi? Better leave that scene fast... before they carry you to the village square naked, chanting barawo oleeeee on ur head. *rme *
DeletePoster 2. Omo this is one chance straight up o. How old is the guy sef? Duhh. Of course you should tell your friend. It would be unfair if you kept this a secret o.
The guy is shameless and suffers from misplaced priority syndrome. Can't for the life of me imagine my man begging his friends for money shamelessly on my account.
If it was a one off it would have been fine. But e be like say na for una BQ the boy and ur friend go move into when they marry o...so you and your hubby will practically fend for them infinito.......
Mba Mba samsam... Say no to a loser man on behalf of your friend, if u so relish your friendship with her...that is. Ok bye
Poster two: blow the whistle
ReplyDeletePoster one: look for someone else. Forget the brothers. Haba!
8billion people in the world and you want to date brothers?
Poster one, run already! What are you waiting for, a few kisses here n there and u want to share same with his bro...my friend run along...
DeletePoster two, pls be a good friend by spilling and saving ur friend a future filled with chaos already.
N1 run away don't date any oof dem since u don't love d one dt knew u first. N2 u owe ur friend dt. Much to tell her everytin so dt if she disagrees n still go ahead, anytin dt comes out of it, u will be on a safer side. Bc u will tell her I warned u. Pls talk to ur friend but give her a room to make her choice so dt she won't quote u n make u d bad gal.
ReplyDeleteNo be poster 1's fault jor...na d guy wey dey buy flight ticket for d girl wey he no date ni...she kept him as her mugu n now falling for a sharper guy,his broda...I remember d guy dat paid for his gf's masters n never see her pata b4,I pray for dat kinda discipline...I can do anytin for my lady but i for don use her totoh blow trumpet(moma fi obo e fon fere)
DeletePoster 1, I can relate to ur case cos I had something similar. I was really close to this guy one year I decided to stay single after a bad breakup. We had strong chemistry but I refused to have sex with him but was ok with making out. We parted ways and he travelled out of d country so we didn't date. Months later, his elder brother added me on fb on mutual friends basis. I was kinda confused when he started asking me out and frankly I didn't have any chemistry both online and in person. But then one of the initial questions I asked was if he knew me and his brother had a thing, and he said yes. He had asked d brother who gave him the go ahead. I was disappointed cos I thought he would have laid claims to me, as I was ready to date him or anyone I had that strong chemistry with. The moral of my epistle is, let both brothers know ur involvement cos u can't abscond without explanation. Stop receiving the benefits of "hopeful love" from the younger brother it isn't fair on him. U can only start a relationship with the elder brother if d younger is OK with it, else walk away.
DeletePoster 2, please be a good friend and save ur friend from a life of debts and frustration becos that is d only outcome of this doomed union. The guy is a liar and as such is wicked. Enough said!
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Lol bitchplis I dey feel u jare!!!
DeleteHmmmm, Poster 1: so far you have kissed one brother, I doubt if your liason with the other will work out. Everyone will hate you in the family, it would be his words against yours if he decides to lie that he slept with you. Please free the brothers, men boku for town.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: You will be doing your friend a great injustice by not telling her. Tell her EVERYTHING and leave her to decide.
@the first poster,please let the two guys go and start afresh with somone els,@second poster,please please just inform your friend about the real deal,please tell her evrything she needs to know.
ReplyDeleteN1- Would it be a Crime if you Do Both Of Them??
ReplyDeleteN2- That guy has great Potentials, he's saving for the future and lives on Loan, your friend must be in her late 30's not to see the Writings on the Wall. Let her Marry Him, he Would Change for good..#Rubich...
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DeletePoster2 you called her your friend, pls do as stella said
ReplyDeleteStella mba poster 2 did not get her friend into the mess ,they met and they like each other ,meanwhile poster 2 just tell your friend that the guy is a bad boy ,tell her everything you know ,about his debts and borrow ways .
DeletePoster 1 -mbok take a walk ,forget them both.
@ poster 1, u don't like him, no chemistry...so this kiss here and there na for wetin? Payment for the things he buys u? Move on jooor, I thought it was ok until u added the kissing bit. Why u dey kiss who u no like now u wan follow him brother.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, tell your friend , apply wisdom of cos
Poster 1.you better stay with the one buying you gift,what's wrong with him and what are your reason you can't date him...the issue of his brother pls don't even think of doing that because it might cause a fight between both bro!!!! Poster2.your hubby should stop giving his frd money,there is no food for lazy man.
ReplyDeleteMR EDDY said this heat wan kill person o.
ReplyDeleteWhat more can I say? Anty Stella has said it all.
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P1. Take a walk. There are many "cool" men out there. It's ironic that the one you like has turned out to be his brother, but when life gives you lemons, don't let the bitter taste stop you from thinking objectively. Ok?! Ok.
ReplyDeleteP2. You are married, so you know what's up. You know how finances can break a marriage. Don't let your friend marry into poverty. Tell your friend. She doesn't deserve this, nobody does. Ultimately it's her decision, but if you don't tell her she'll hate you forever and ever. This shameless man is a useless goat. He wants to marry her quickly so he can ride on her financially. Mscheew. Broke ass cow.
Poster 1: plz 4get about the brodas coz if u decide to date d elder one, d younger one might feel bad and decide to end it.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: tell ur frnd everything o. Don't allow her make dat mistake plz
Poster 1: Nawa to you ooo
ReplyDeleteYou wanna eat your cake and have it, abi?
A few kisses here and there, yet you are not attracted to him. And you still kissed?
Cos he spends on you.
Nawa to you again.
Sort yourself out biko, but let us know how it went. Thank. You.
Poster2: why didn't you tell your friend about your husband's friend's lifestyle from the beginning?
Wishing you all the best.
ReplyDeleteAeegurl...
Put on your walking shoes. ....
ReplyDelete@poster1 : please don't go into that relationship.
ReplyDeleteJust walk away now dat is too early 2 avoid stories dat touches.
@poster2 :Talk to your friend, let her know everything.
Cause if the guy finally marries her,they will still be on ur hubby's neck.ln fact, ur hubby will sponsor d wedding.
You have to really do something fast.
Save your friend frm dat accident waiting to happen.
Hmmm make I read comments oh
ReplyDeletePoster 1 pls take a walk,,,poster 2 what are u waiting for,pls do d needful..
ReplyDeleteN1, hehehehehe no chemistry but enough economics......... nna free that family abeg
ReplyDeleteN2, please tell your friend and also advise her to stay away from that guy
Haha @ plenty economics
DeletePoster 1: no comment.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: pls pls pls tell ur friend the truth o. Dont open ur eyes and watch her enter 'one chance' marriage o. Let her know what d guy does, I beg. I have a few friends who are stuck in marriages wth guys like dat and are regretting it. Talk to her like a sister please. Otherwise, she won't forgive u if she later finds out u knew all along. God bless u.
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One: just leave both of them ok....
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Two: i hope yu cause to the destruction of that thing called relationship bcos is rubbish....
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Please tell her. You owe her that.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: You have no intention of dating the guy but you keep collecting his gifts!!! You are sending him mixed signals, girl! Stop collecting those gifts except u wanna date him... Be firm with him, he will get the message soon enough! I don't like when girls do this to guys... Forget the other guy ooo, if you don't want world war two on your hands ooo! His elder brother ke! Don't try it oo! After leading one brother on, then you settle for the other??? Pls do not try it! #enough said# Poster 2: Shebi that lady is your friend??? Pls I beg u, open up o! DO NOT allow her to get tied down with such a man! Such a irresponsible human being... Pls tell her everything u know and do it fast...
ReplyDeleteSo so in support of dis ur comment..........y collect gifts countless no of times...wen u know u don't want him...gals be wise
DeletePoster one don't date the guy's brother , u ll regret it, this type of situation doesn't always end well, poster two...tell ur frnd or watch her suffer, she will blame u later for knowing and not telling her
ReplyDeleteN1 na ole you be..but then again the guy na mugun, you know for a fact he's buying you all those stuffs in anticipation of dating you, if you have any dignity you shouldn't lead him on giving him that glimpse of hope by collecting goodies from him..he's stupid we agree but you shouldn't be taking advantage of him. Suddenly you now see the brother you liked abi? Once again you be long throat and whatever fate long-throated heffas have belies you...a good advice for you is to leave both and change your ways...a yoruba adage says "ohun ti a ko ni je, a o gbodo fi run imu" ( whatever we know we won't eat at all, we shouldn't sniff it) that's all. Good luck
ReplyDeleteHim no stupid ooo! E dey chop kiss and who knows what else. Isn't that equivalent to dating these days, na only title remain
DeletePoster 1, I take God beg u, respect yourself and leave those brothers alone.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, please tell your friend what's going on, don't let her make the mistake of her life by marrying an unrepentant debtor.
poster 1; u dey chop him money but u no like him. ok.
ReplyDeleteposter 2: pls tell your friend all that is happening. how can a man borrow to wed. is he not working.how will he feed his family, via borrowing? imagine that he borrowed during val yet not even a snack for a fiancee. is ur friend over age or what. hmmm. women sef. pls tell her.
Poster1 since u luv d 2nd brother,call him and open up,explain to him,and also make him knw u prefer him,den watever his response is determine ur next step,poster2 call ur frnd and tell her everytin,if she likes it like dat make she carry go,if she doesn't make she waka,ma 2cent ohhhh
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Girls Una nor dey hear word abi???? Be forming stupid love while giving osho free pussy nd another gal collecting d dividends.......Na Una sabi o....experience is the best teacher!!!! Smh....
ReplyDeletePoster 1:u were collecting hs stuff yet u hd no chemistry?u kissed him yet no. Chemisttry?u beta liv d 2 brodas alone.
ReplyDeletePoster 2:Tell ur friend n save her d stress.
1. I'll advice you take a walk from both of them.
ReplyDelete2. Please tell your friend the whole truth and let her decide what she wants.
Poster2,give me ur frnd number make i call am tell her everyth choi,u need to act fast plsss
ReplyDeletePoster 1 you knew you had no instant connection with the guy and you still kept him this long, well if you've slept with him, you can't get with his brother..buh even if you've not slept with his brother sef, you can't see two men from the same home...It cancause issues..just leave the 2 alone
ReplyDeletePoster 2 pls tell your friend...that's what friends are for..But this your friend strikes me as desperate tho
I wonder why people on here have tagged those who are less priviledged 'beggy beggy'.
ReplyDeleteIf they had,would they ask others? If they are truly in need and you tag them as 'beggy beggy', you are challenging their God and you have a case to answer with him.
Today, I am not a beggar and by the Grace of God, things are very fine but I recall a time in my life when things went down for my husband and I, it was terrible, really bad. We did all we could but no luck, we resorted to asking Family and Friends, some were kind enough to assist but soon got tired. We were mocked,avoided and called beggy beggy. Thank God for a Godsent old friend that I ran into in Balogun market, one look at me and she knew all was not well, this friend took it upon herself to help, and for two years she was there,every month she gave me something plus foodstuff and all, eventually, my husband got a better job than the one he had previously lost with salary tripled. I have a job myself now and also running two stores in Alade and by the grace of God, I am a blessing to others now because we are blessed to be a blessing.
So please let us be careful how we mock people because no one really wants to beg. Some people are truly in need and need our help, so many are depressed because they cannot afford a decent living, life is hard for so many, God sends people our way to help them because God has bigger plans for us and wants to take us higher. This blog is the only family some people have, Trust me.
Stella, you are an amazing woman, your generation is forever blessed. See how far God has brought you, you aint seen nothing yet my dear. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK
U come with these comments that sound like a ploy to provoke a certain response from certain people....
DeleteD unfortunate draw misfortune on themselves and will draw U in by association, I Ve assisted some people online with their health challenges and I suffered d consequences.
U can die from someone else's misery, emotional state is as infectious as a real disease.... U may feel U are helping, but U are only precipitating Ur own disaster.
Supposing there was no SDK blog, what would they do????
Would they be proud enough to beg with real names or Facebook account???
What if they are suffering from afflctions that if U render d help,U wouldn't become helpless.
How do U know if most of them asking for help here are humans?????
I am not an emotional person, I always think through everything and from my observations, most of them needing help here need it for wrong reasons.
Y are commenting as an anon????
Two shops @ Alade??? and U sound like one who is about to ask for help....
Stop dick riding Stella, what U guys(beggi beggi) are doing to her is unfair and I pray that God gives her d grace to continue.....
Alloy chikezie complained of his Uncle's wife not settling him and U all labelled d woman wicked, some said she was heartless but U and I know that Alloy lives on blogs, he patrols them and he is popular... when does he actually d do d whole things he mentioned???? replacing stock,taking stock,sales etc etc..... I hate one sided gist, we only listened to him without anyone going to his madam to hear her own side of her story.....
Stop encouraging these people to beg, it's not healthy and it's unchristian.....I was brought up with hard work, I farmed on other people's farm to buy my english and maths textbooks and my brothers went to serve as apprentice...my mother never went begging, infact it was in Lagos that I started seeing people beg shamelessly.
I won't type any further cos I doubt if it will be approved.
I Ezenwanyi only associate with d happy and fortunate and no Apologies for that.
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DeleteChoi.......eze iya oko mi oooo!!! But some peeps really need dis help oo!!!
Delete@sisterly,there is no dignity in begging!
DeleteWow you nailed it ezewanyi and I love you for it.
DeleteI doubted that alloys story too.first he is always first to comment on lib,lailas blog,miss petite, olu famous and others that I have forgotten their names.he changes from sdkblogboo before dropping comments on lib and others.when does he do the work? Alloy not hating but we owe your uncles wife an apology.
DeleteKai, I used to think I did not like whoever ezenwanyi is.. But my mind has changed with this comment. Please excuse me o, I think anyone who is broke- particularly someone who is married is either living above their means or unwilling to living within their means. If you are living a place that cost the same thing as when you were working and you are not currently working you are stupid. I hate that people will beg and beg and borrow and borrow to foot a silly lifestyle. I know of a guy who left Nigeria to go and join a wife who was not working in the UK a few months after their marriage because of papers. Till tomorrow, four years later he hasn't got a job and they keep asking, loaning and begging. Meanwhile they are still living in a apartment they were living at when he was working in PH and sending pound to London from Nigeria for her to pay rent. Now they are owing the entire London and even half of PH. They both have masters degrees o. The guy was even working for an oil company in PH. Whose fault is that one? God again ba? let's face facts abeg, I understand some very strange situations where there is some unexplainable loss of investments, but u are very stupid if you quit a job to go and join a wife in another country that is not working.
DeleteThe only thing I don't agree with is the student situation. Where parents are itreponsible or just cannot afford educatuon then it's ok for them to ask anyone they want to. He only thing I don't agree with is the part where she said she will only associate wih the happy. The happy can become sad tomoro and the fortunate can become unfortunate. Time and chance happens to all of us but the bible also says anyone who does not work will not eat. I don't care what degree you have, you must humble yourself for God to elevate you. As a lawyer I looked for jobs as a sales associate at Home Depot, I even interviewed in person and apparently I wws not selected. Gues what? I now work for one of the largest law firms in the world and Home Depot is one is my clients!!!! Lol
Confirmento! 1000 likes Ezenwanyi
DeleteEzenwanyi has spoken! Those who have ears, let them hear.
DeleteEzewanyi's comment got me thinking...I'm actually feeling ur comment for d very first time,I no dey take u serious b4...u raised a very valid n sensible argument,I love it when people see things differently/from another perspective...
DeleteP.s: no thinki say I don join ur worshippers o..hehehe
Hahahahahhaha@ ur worshippers.....u nor go kill me bitchplis
Deletei use to think dt ds ezenwanyi is sensible. hw can a mother say such rubish with her mouth"i can only associate with d happy nd fortunate ppl" biko who gives happiness nd makes us fortunate? indeed wealth nd worldly thnz don blindfold u. eeeeh its people like u dt picked up from no where dat tends to forget thier humbly begining. it is called pride. wot u are today isnt bc of ur hardwork, its all blessings to God, he can take it anytime he likes. dat u r wealthy today isnt enough garanty dt ur kids wil live in affluence today. plz if u do not wish to help, waka pass nd stop discouraging sdk nd others.
DeleteEzewanyi! You are the realist bv here. You do not let sentiments block your reasoning. I don't comment on some narratives because it's so one sided and the posters always paint themselves as saints! I have much to say, but I don't know if Stellistica will approve, I don't want to waste my mb.
DeleteEzenwanyi all your comments esp about alloy did it for me. Likes
DeleteJokes apart, Ezenwanyi is the only one on this blog apart from few others whose comments makes any sense to me, they talk to talk like a true friend abeit the hard way which is what is needed at that particular point in time, I have never sent in any chronicles, but I learnt mist yhings that my mother didn't teach me from her and I am grateful to her and sdk. She says she likes the happy and the fortunate, I am one by faith and God will do it for me at his own time.
DeleteI go with Stella's Point. Poster 2 just do exactly what Stella has Advised
ReplyDelete@coco pls am d persom dat wants to start plantain chips biz.pls aw can i get ur email addy.thanks
ReplyDeleteP2 pls pls PLS PLSS PLSSSSSS tell ur friend right now! This is insane.
ReplyDeleteHe is stingy, cunny and a 419er..
He wants to marry ur frnd sharply and use her to settle his debts or borrow more frm her.
Gosh, I hate men that borrow
He works, he still borrows and yet doznt give her anythng!
Kindly tell ur frnd ASAP and also try to get him away frm ur DH as soon as possible.
He is the worst kinda frnd to have.m.
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ReplyDeleteyou better respect yourself oh!
kisses here and there ans you have so eaten his money and then you found love with his brother???
I sorry for you well well.
my friend will you zu zu pu from their lives before they shag you in turns and laugh at you at the end of it.
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please tell your friend the dude is a fraudster and you are sorry to have introduced him to her.
kapish!
Poster 1, you aren't ready to date him, but you allow him pay for your tickets to travel abroad. Na only kisses una don share. You see what you've caused. If you had maintained your NO stand, at least you'll be able to date the one you like (his brother) effortlessly. Abeg, just walk away jejely before kasala go burst.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, your friend is almost entering one chance. Abeg, spill the beans to your friend.
Poster 1, you aren't ready to date him, but you allow him pay for your tickets to travel abroad. Na only kisses una don share. You see what you've caused. If you had maintained your NO stand, at least you'll be able to date the one you like (his brother) effortlessly. Abeg, just walk away jejely before kasala go burst.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, your friend is almost entering one chance. Abeg, spill the beans to your friend.
Poster 1. You are not a serious somebori. You don't want to be with him and you keep accepting all his gifts. Babes fear God o. Just walk away from the both of them and work on your person.
ReplyDeletePoster2 tell her
Poster 2.pls tell your friend how you feel about this relationship.and its also how i feel abeg.what kind of man is that one....she should not go and use''i'm getting old'' eye to marry him o.
ReplyDeletePoster1, pls leave both brothers.
ReplyDeletePoster2, pls tell your friend the truth.
Poster1,if u have not been sleeping with the first brother u don't like,i don't think it's a big deal to date the new one,but then open up to him abt his bros chasing u and insist he forces the gifts on u as a way of trying so hard to persuade u.....afterall dia is nothing wrong in chopping a guy and cleaning mouth,shebi na so dem dey chop' other ladies clean mouth#eyelashes#click tongue#ok.
ReplyDeletePoster2,that ur hubby's friend is not only irresponsible but also a dupe!ur gf will suffer ehhhn if she dares make a mistake with such a man.she should forget abt him cos it's possible he even has another girlfriend somewhere he's grooming for a real marriage,and only using ur friend to rip off his circle of friends since they approve her for him.chai!lol!dat guy na bastard.
Poster 1: I think its better to leave d 2 brothers in other not to cause any rift btw dem..
ReplyDeletePoster 2: pls talk to ur friend, and like stella said, let her decide what she wants
@P2 tell her already to pick up her shoes and run
ReplyDeleteN1: Don't get involved with either of them! It will cause trouble in the family.
ReplyDeleteN2, please tell her everything, including your fears. He looks like a gold digger!
Andy Shuo, I'm with you regarding poster 1 but will they listen? If you are not interested in a man, don't accept his gifts or money. Let your no be capital NO all through. You lead him when you accept his money and if he uses it against you diabolically, you are IN FOR IT because you have paved the way. Disagree all you want!
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Please darling, let your friend know. Please I beg you. Save her from a lifetime of deceit, sorrow and pain. Thanks!
ReplyDeletePlease help your friend immediately because at the end of the day, if she marries the guy, it's you she'll come back to and could blame you for everything. So quickly tell her everything you know. She has to know o.
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P1...what is "STUFFS" biko nothing like stuffs. Stuff is a collection of things so it is plural. Kiss here snd there with someone you don't like. If you would have not been hoish in your activities you for date the brother but long throat has cost you a man. Face your front and next time do not collect collect from a man you do not want. All these girls that are like leeches.
ReplyDeleteP2...tell your friend and she should stop being desperate.
As I am typing now I'm just annoyed. My brother in law and his wife are living a lavish lifestyle here in the US and are always begging for money. They both aren't working for some reason. They are ALWAYS asking for a loan. This february alone they have asked for 6000 meanwhile the other brother also has been owing us now almost 2 years and doesn't even saying anything about the money.
ReplyDeleteI think my BiL married the babe because she gave him the impression that her family was rich. But to me no show because they always borrowing . I don't kno what to do. I'm just confused because they will keep asking and adding to the debt they already have with us.. They gave us a month they will pay periodically with the hope that they will get a job. Meanwhile the wife will be chatting with me on BBM as if nothing happened- she will still be forming. Meanwhile when my husband went to their state they didn't even have groceries in their fridge. I don't know what to do o- I'm getting tired of it!!!!
Then stop giving. Nobody is tying your hands. You've clearly seen they have no way to payback (not working), yet you keep giving. Don't come here to complain. Have you talked to them honestly? Let them know you & your husband won't condone it anymore.
DeletePoster1: your between d ocean and the Deep blue sea..just take a walk if u can't handle it smartly, but if u must enter that family just take Jesus along and go wit d first guy dats where u find love not lust.
ReplyDeletePoster2: abeg tell your husband to talk sense into both of them. If it fails, let him get them see reasons to break. Its not ur responsibility now..ur only a whistle blower.
Stella poster 2 did not get anyone involved with anyone. The two met themselves at her wedding so how is that her own doing biko? Abeg poster two, you should just tell your friend what you know and leave it alone. If you don't tell her, and she goes on with the wedding and is suffering in it, your guilt will not be justified as you saw her going into misfortune and didn't speak up.
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ReplyDeletePoster one, he is asking you out and you have not agreed to date him, but you receive gifts from him? + you have zero attraction for him and yet you guys kiss here there.. #confused.
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Poster 2, pls tell your friend everything. You owe her that. Thanks
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P1... A few kisses here and there and you guys are not dating? How can you be kissing someone you don't intend dating. Well maybe I'm old school. And girls! Please stop collecting gifts from guys and leading them on if you don't intend dating them. Haba! When una go learn.
ReplyDeleteP2... You have to tell your friend before she walks into something she might blame you for in future.
P1... A few kisses here and there and you guys are not dating? How can you be kissing someone you don't intend dating. Well maybe I'm old school. And girls! Please stop collecting gifts from guys and leading them on if you don't intend dating them. Haba! When una go learn.
ReplyDeleteP2... You have to tell your friend before she walks into something she might blame you for in future.
P1... A few kisses here and there and you guys are not dating? How can you be kissing someone you don't intend dating. Well maybe I'm old school. And girls! Please stop collecting gifts from guys and leading them on if you don't intend dating them. Haba! When una go learn.
ReplyDeleteP2... You have to tell your friend before she walks into something she might blame you for in future.
Poster1: u need to be sure of what you want for yourself and go for it.
ReplyDeletePoster2: please get your friend out of the mess b4 its too late.
I agree with Sisterly.
ReplyDeleteI wouldn't come on a blog and request for things except to promote my business and stuff like that, but if somebody is bold enough to do it, why the hell not? Plus there are always people here willing to give.
Granted, some of these bv's may be exploiting the avenue but you can never tell who is at the end of their rope.
Besides, The Blog Owner has no qualms about it or else she won't be posting them so why should anyone else?
Well....poster 1....Please for your sake,leave the both of them....infact carry your 2
ReplyDeleteleft legs and run away biko.
Poster 2.... Pls tell your friend...let her know everything....Cuz if she isn't happy moro cuz of d sham of a marriage, it would be your fault.
Adios..
Ezenwanyi, God bless u for dis piece..
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