Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives.

Perhaps Narrative number two is the reason people lie about their past!

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
SPOUSES WHO RELOCATE FOR GREENER PASTURES CHANGE?

Stella koko,i greet you.

I'm an ardent Bv but comment as anonymous(rootzy). God bless you for touching lives since 7AD,lol.

I write with a broken heart because my relationship of about two years has hit the rocks and to think that we were planning to get married this December when he gets back from Asia in October.

I noticed he's been flaunting so many white ladies and claims there are his friends girlfriends till he confessed one day that he has slept with someone whilst there. And me am a believer of one boyfriend@a time,i can swear with my life that I've never cheated in the one year 2months he travelled back.

Most recently ,he started flaunting another lady's picture on facebook and blocked me from viewing the picture but I downloaded an app on my phone and could view it and when I asked,he didn't come up with any tangible reason. I asked him if any man treated any of his sisters that way,how would he feel. He got apprehensive as to why i'd talk about his sisters. We quarrelled. But he found a way to start up communication again. Exactly one month,i checked his profile,the picture was still there and he now unblocked me so I could view the picture very well. I confronted him again and he was just laughing.

I called his elder sister to tell her,she asked if she could be sincere with me,i said yes. She then said that even she that is married, can't guarantee that her husband is faithful. That I should try to make myself happy and catch my fun and not lock myself up because one 'baga' that calls himself her brother is flaunting a lady. Stella I just weak.

Well,i hate people that cheat and I told him twas the reason I broke up with my ex. 

I've deleted him from  facebook and I've de‎cided to move ahead and focus on my being jobless.

Has anyone being in this situation,how did they overcome it? Because it's not as easy as it seems.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
TALKING ABOUT YOUR PAST WHEN YOU MEET A NEW LOVER

Dear Stella Kork,

 Big ups to you and BVs.

 Please dear Stella and Blog visitors, I need your advice and encouragement.

 I'm a divorced lady. My marriage to my ex was based on lots of deceit with

 both physical and emotional abuse. The only option was just for it to be

 dissolved. Mind you I prayed and fasted but water could not just hold. I

 had to question God for putting me through such pain and trauma but I guess

 his plan for me was for good.

 But my problem now is each time I meet someone nice and I mention to him

 that am divorced, the relationship ends. He'll apologize and say I've done

nothing wrong, I have a good personality but he knows his family will not

 accept me cos of my marital status. It makes me cry a lot. I'm the quiet

 type and keep to myself a lot. I've tried talking to some people and they

 advice I stop telling them am divorced.

 But how will I keep such a thing away from someone that has maybe

 professed love to you even when the person has gone to the extent of

 telling you he'll like to spend the rest of his life with you? My

 conscience won't let me but I don't know again the right thing to do.

 Right now I feel lonely and frustrated, no boyfriend or man to call my

 own. Scared of loving again because I don't want to fall in love and be

 told same thing.

 I just want to know how to go about it, open up or don't even talk about

 it.

 Please I need a mature advice from you and blog visitors.

Thank you and God bless.

Isnt this the reason some people lie about their past to new lovers?this is so wrong!

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