NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
MARRYING YOUR EX' SILBING - ANY CONSEQUENCES?
Stella my Schatz. How are you doing? Well straight to the matter. I dated this guy for almost 6years and he broke my heart and married someone else. Fast forward to 2years later, now his brother says he likes me and wants to marry me. And I think I like him too. He's a cool and mature guy. So now i am confused. Does it matter? Stella Please I need advice from you and fellow Bvs. Thanks everyone!
Are you okay?Did you loose some nuts in your head?Of all places to find love its with the brother of someone who dumped you?your second dumping is loading .
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
SPOUSE WHO IS HOOKED ON MASTURBATION
Make I read comments abeg,today na Monday
Are you okay?Did you loose some nuts in your head?Of all places to find love its with the brother of someone who dumped you?your second dumping is loading .
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
SPOUSE WHO IS HOOKED ON MASTURBATION
Hi Stella
This is quiet a SENSITIVE topic I've been meaning to share with your blog readers.... I am currently dating this guy and the sex life is AMAZING, BUT I THINK HE IS HOOKED ON MASTURBATION and it disgusts me.....each time I visit him. he has baby oil on the window pane tissue box on the floor beside the bed and Vaseline beside the bed and It baffles me becuz we have a great sex life as in we do it all the time attimes when I sleep over at his place he would wake up with a hard on and I'll play my roll to please him!! My guy has a really Big Dick so i enjoy sex with him..
SO THIS DAY WE TRAVELLED TO WARRI FOR A FRIENDS WEDDING AND AFTER WE HAD SEX IN THE MORNING I WENT TO SHOWER TO GET READY FOR THE WEDDING HE WAS STILL IN BED, I WENT BACK INTO THE ROOM BCUZ I FORGOT MY SHOWER GEL AND I SAW HIM HOLDING A CAN OF PETROLEUM JELLY VASELINE, HE LOOKED SHOCKED AS HE SAW ME and I asked him if everything was okay and asked what he was doing with the VASELINE WHEN HE HAD NOT SHOWERED. HE CLAIMED HE WAS FEELING DRY AROUND HIS PENIS ANS WANTED TO APPLY IT THERE. I THINK MASTURBATION IS BAD IF YOU MAKE IT A HABIT.
Question to fellow ladies!!! what would you do if you walk in on your man /husband in the act of MASTURBATION Would you rather he masturbates than cheat with another woman??
Make I read comments abeg,today na Monday
Poster1 don't marry ur ex broda bikonu,poster2 no ideal oh
ReplyDelete********LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*********
As in...some ladies sha. So you didn't find love from other places but your ex brother? Are you really normal? Omo!!! Na so you dey desperate. Ok let's even say he Truely loves you and you marry him. How would you cope seeing your ex coming around your house to visit his brother? As in...well I too long for the matter. my advice - don't try it or you've had sex with him already? 'cos you ladies ehn. Smh*
DeletePoster 2 - the Lord is your helper. Keep praying. Got no advice for that matter abeg.
Oh dear I have seen smtin like dis dat worked @ poster one...dnt sleep wit him...make he come pay bride price 1st...den u know..maybe he is d rite brother u were suppose to date All along
DeletePoster one: abeg find anoda person..he is not d only man in dis world ohhh....hmmm ur ex broda...like serusly...will u feel comfortable wen u see ur ex...????? don't start wat u can't finish ohh
DeletePoster two: wat is dat...I can't deal with both........both masturbation and cheating is wrong.........habit dey say is easily formed but is very hard to stop.....ur guy has made it a habit and it will take God's intervention for him to stop
*** listening to wake me up when it's all over ***
DeleteErmm, just passing by!!! ** off I go***
Poster1 it's really sensitive but I think u shouldn't marry him bcos u might end up being uncomfortable around ur ex and their family may not like it&dey may also feel u are crazy!
DeletePoster2 Please advice ur bf to go for prayers, its not normal ooo I will say he is obsessed with it plus do not console urself with comparing "Masturbation&cheating " there is no basis. God bless
Poster 1: pray and think well
DeletePoster 2:
.maybe am missing something
When did premarital sex become the right thing???
When did it become a norm to sleep with someone before marriage????
Gosh!!!
Poster the only advice I have is to stop engaging in sexual sin...it's a grave sin
I don't even know what else to say.
God must be weeping for this generation of youths.
But there are still remnants....
Hmmm
And people are saying 'pray for him and enjoy the sex'
I can't deal abeg
Masturbating boo's bae,pleasure yasef in his presence n know his reaction
DeleteP1,eyaaaah. E be like say dat family sabi fuck o
@1, u ve a goat heart, no wonder ur sex dumped ur sorry ass, go & fuck his brother, he told u he wants to marry u & u believed him. He only wants a share of d national cake.
ReplyDelete@2, ur guy has a big problem, y would he mastubate when u are around him, deal with it or........?
I once dated a guy called T.oputa if he's same person, lives in Lagos ,works offshores . My dear if he's same person then trust me u re dating ursef . Lol, dat guy can't go a day without mastebating oh ! Hmmmm, I got so Irritated nd left him. If u wanna help him pls be sure he's ready to change nd u can proceed but dat question of cheating wit a lady pls stop it . Must a man cheat? Pastor chris said it's not a sin sha . Lol
DeletePple dat work off shore are professionals in masturbating.....
DeletePoster one:
ReplyDeleteOne can find love in strange places.That they're brother, dosen't mean they behave alike.
Question is,can you live with it?
Cos your ex will probably never be far away, seeing as they're brothers.
Poster two :
I think bf is hooked on masturbation.And that's not very good. You should probably tell him how uncomfortable you find it.
Goodluck, you both.
Masturbating is awesome! No matter how great the sex is I still get the same satisfaction from masturbating just as having sex.it increases the control during sex and makes a guy last longer. I have to go anonymous on this. I'm addicted to masturbating and I'm proud of it. It's better than sleeping with numerous ladies. So n2 leave the dude to his vices. It's better than him sleeping around with different ladies instead of masturbating.
Delete@ anon....let me quote u #I'm addicted to masturbating and I'm proud of it#... may God save u cuz u don't know wat u are doing to ursef
DeleteI have two problems with you
DeleteOne:You come under my comment to tell us how you love masturbating
Two:You're proud of it, but you go under anonymous
How contradictory.
Nice
No, you aren't proud of it. If you were, u would go anonymous! Stop justifying that act coward! You must not sleep around with different ladies either!
DeletePlease what is he doing to himself? Can you educate us more? I just don't get or understand nigerians' obsession with masturbation. Can you please point me to the exact passage of the bible that specifically says it is a sin, not the part that was referring to something else that human beings decided to twist around o! I mean the very part that says specifically that masturbation is a sin. We all know where the bible says killing is a sin, stealing is a sin, bearing false witness etc. but no one can point to where the bible talks about masturbation being a sin except where God instructed a man to multiply and have kids with his woman but instead he masturbated and wasted his sperm in disobedience to the instruction to multiply... That was the sin there, not the madturbating act itself. Now if anyone else has any other portions of the bible, can you let me know because I like to back my beliefs up with scriptural messages, not just any thing that comes out of the mouths of people who call themselves men of God. I would really like to believe it is a sin but no one can seem to show me any straightup proof from the bible except twisted stories. We nigerians need to do our own researches and read our bibles well instead of just buying everything we hear hook, line and sinkers. People are more accepting of premarital sex and even extramarital ones with aristo's etc but bash masturbation so heavily despite the fact that you're not doing it with anyone else and you have little to zero chances of stds as a result and forgetting that not all married couple have the luxury of living together for work reasons eyc, would you rather them cheat with outsiders or fall for temptations because they haven't seen each other for months and the think masturbation is a sin. If anyone knows the part in the bible, please kindly respond to this thread, I would really like to research it more........... Just Me
DeletePoster one,
ReplyDeleteGo ahead and marry him jare if you feel he is serious...
There's nothing wrong with that...
But shine your eyes wella,insist of no sex before marriage....
Poster 2,
It's like your man is addicted to porn...
Well for me,I will prefer my man to be a pro in masturbation than a womanizer....atleast I won't be scared of infection....
Ain't you lucky....abeg go and rest,you no get problem...
Poster one for me its not wrong. Afterall he has moved on with another Lady. His Brother has right to love whoever even if it happen to be his Ex but be careful because of Old Memories.
Delete"Pro in masturbation"even when you are there with him?? Oh please thats disgusting and definetely a problem#sideeyes...
Delete.....yes insist on sex before marriage,if it works out,his bros ur ex will be so hurt and green with envy,lol!and dat will be his punishment for d rest of his life for dumping u.#ohhowilovepaybacks#lmao!
DeletePoster2,as long as he performs his sexual duty to u,relax! Cos some pple masturbate to d point they hate sex or become sexually inactive. give him time,hide all his maturbating tools' from him so he knows u know,then he will be ashamed.also pray to Jesus to deliver him,cos it's a spirit
Hian!!! what kinda narratives are these today???
ReplyDeletePoster 1....if I were you. nothing will make me fall in love with the brother of my ex that dumped me, if my heart nor gree hear word, I go flog am cane.
Poster 2....no comment please.
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What if she didn't know she was dating her ex's brother. This thing Love you can't predict
DeletePoster 1,look for love somewhere else
DeletePoster 2,its better he masturbate than cheat wt another woman but all in all,put him in prayers so he can stop
#1...Marry d brother na n ur ex(d oda broda) will still will be fucking u once in a while like Ryan Giggs(tearing dem apart since 92) n his broda's wife
ReplyDelete#2...buy him dudu osun or shower gel...vaseline to dey do am well...hehehehehe
Lmao
DeleteBitchplis eh
Would you rather he screws another lady? Please let him be.
ReplyDeletemy hubby is hooked to masturbation but can't complain cos he doesn't cheat p.s we have great sex but the thought of him wanking irritates me so I aways find an excuse of not wanting to have sex phew
DeleteBrothers*
ReplyDeleteSorry for the typo.
THELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeletePoster1--odiegwu..
People find love in odd places,so i guess you sud give him a trial tho
Poster2--odiegwu....ur man is an addict and he's buried deep in masturbation!!!!....counsel him,manage him OR take a bow outa the rship..
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
THELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeletePoster1--odiegwu..
People find love in odd places,so i guess you sud give him a trial tho
Poster2--odiegwu....ur man is an addict and he's buried deep in masturbation!!!!....counsel him,manage him OR take a bow outa the rship..
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
Make me sef sidon dey read comments
ReplyDeleteP1: Don't marry ur ex's bro. You would always feel awkward around him.
ReplyDeleteP2: I'm @ a loss for words. Let read BVs' comments.
Poster 1, I don't think there's anything wrong, but it'll be super awkward!!!!(for a while) Especially if you had sex with his brother.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 masturbation is a habit that's very hard to drop ooo. This your guy own sef is real bad!!! U need to speak with him cos if he isn't willing to stop ain't nth u can do about it. Even if he decides to stop it will be Hard. So you have to be patient with him
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DeleteStella u can't be too sure that her second dumping is loading. Poster 1 biko marry him.
ReplyDeleteI didn't read the 2nd post.
So she will end up haven slept with two brothers?
DeleteI don't think that is moral
I dnt see anytin abnormal in it....pple take life too seriously...its nt like we gettin outa it alive
DeleteI will read comments
ReplyDeleteHe obviously has a very high sex drive, and an insatiable desire for sex. Masturbation is obviously better than cheating, and many men masturbate, but his seems a little out of the ordinary. Hope you can cope with such a guy in the long run? Bc you will never completely satisfy him.
ReplyDeletePoster 1
ReplyDeleteEven if you started growing Dada overnight because of the love for your Ex's brother, better run. Don't date him, don't hang out with him. Trust me, one day he'll accuse you of still loving his brother. DONT DATE HIM! RUN.
Poster 2,
Ask him exactly what he wants, tell him how it makes you feel.
In my opinion, Its better he even masturbates than cheat. Its well dear
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I hate it when celebrities get on TV and tell us to donate money...... You make Millions.......
You send the money!!!!!!!!!
@Mosi_Tash_Jazzy
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ReplyDeleteMarry ur ex Bros naa
It's not a crime if all parties r ok with it..
I hate this *i think I like him or I think he likes me or he says he likes me*
It's a confused statement...u think? u r not sure?
Mbok go ahead
Make him fuck u well n hopefully marry u.
P2
Atleast he's fucking u well..
U no go Commot eye?
Atleast u didn't catch him masturbating on ekaette...
If I were u,
I won't bat an eyelid..
Everybody has what gives them d kick
Don't quarrel with him over it..
Pray for him*side eyes*
Don't nag him for it
Allow nature take its course on him
Afterall u r well fucked.
You don't know all these guys thats why you are saying she should go ahead, its even obvious she has had sex with the ex bf so its better she looks for love somewhere else abeg.
DeleteLet me sit and read comnent with that side eye
ReplyDeleteNa wa o!
ReplyDeleteafter typing my lengthy advice, it just disappeared vuum! Just like that.
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Behind anything that gives you pleasure is a spirit lurking to take you captive, to make you a slave to that thing. The sad part is that the law of diminishing returns will dry up the pleasure. So you see, your man has been captured. What can you do for him? Nothing. If you marry him, it will eventually affect your sex life. It takes a lot to break away from masturbation. It is like telling someone who love sex to go celibate.
ReplyDeleteDon't know what to say about the two narrative. Let me read comments.
ReplyDeleteNarrator 1 --- if you love him as you claim go ahead ooo. no let anyone tell you you are foolish. but look before you leap.
ReplyDeleteNarrator 2..... na big prick dey worry your lover. He like fuck fuck too much and he carry the matter for head too much that is why he dey masturbate like dog wey dey salivate. abeg no let your sisters near him if not he go disgrace you too. Na this kind men, fine mamie water spirit no dey leave. because mamie water like big dick
Lmaoooooooo
Delete*falls off chair*
Hahahahaha. I join u nearly fall frm bed. Hahahhahahhahhaa
DeleteI swear can kil person wit dis ur comment....looool
DeletePoster 1... its not healthy. Wot if he doesnt marry u as he is saying? Then u would hv ended up being dated, screwed and dumped by two brothers. Not good for d resume u know. Dnt u think d ex would instigate him on not marrying u, I mean if u dated dat long n still he dumped u, he may hv considered u not good enough for a wife and wud try to advise his brother to also tow dat line.
ReplyDeletePoster 2..... ur man has been enveloped with an addictive spirit. Not only is it unhealthy for him, (I mean he could use up all his sperm. Didnt we read about a guy who had limited sperm here?) It is demeaning to u. Know wot dat means? Dat u aint enough for him, no matter how much overdose gbenshing u overwhelm him with. My advice hence, seek spiritual help for him.
Dat is all
#1. Find another family abeg!!!!
ReplyDelete#2. Sorry to burst ur bubble dearie. If he's experiencing a great s*x life with you and is still masturbating, he'll also cheat on you......... and still masturbate!!
Use your tongue to count your teeth!!!
Na real Dauda the sexy guy. that kind of person will 'nack' anything that moves since he is sexually incontinent. sista how many ear you get? Leave the big dick and find someone who has some self control abeg. Big dick will offer very cold comfort when you have to live with his sex addiction (that is what I think it is..abi how far with needing to masturbate even when your babe is with you and you just had sex?). Enough said.
ReplyDeleteYrs poster one...ur second dumping is on the way..see as Dem dey pass ur Toto for one family!!!! Poster 2::sometimes maturbation can sweet for Africa....there's something u are not doing right nd dat masturbation does it!!!
ReplyDeleteP1...you are really unserious
ReplyDeleteP2...He is not your spouse
Stella, this pic tho! Lwtmb! Anyways...poster 1: Run. Poster 2: Talk to him. Really talk to him. Find out if he actually is hooked on masturbation. And y'all should seek God's help.
ReplyDeleteP1 Yea..one can find love anywhere but what u should ask you is-can you handle the drama that will come with it???
ReplyDeleteP2 Ur partner is used to it, twill only take God's grace.
Shout out to @G_PHARM, all the best in ur exams. GREAT JOSSITES!!!
Poster 1: leave dat family as a whole coz u will be d object of ridicule there.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: ur bf is tied to masturbation and u av to be patient to get him out. Prayers and self control is needed. Av u watched d movie titled donJohn? Same thing happening to ur bf is wat happened to him
Yep! She needs to see the movie , 'Don John'.
Deleteposter 1 pls don't marry into that family. you were dumped after 6 whole years? Mbanu nne jee iru, u deserve better. Poster 2, I think u shld use ur toungue to count ur teeth.
ReplyDeleteLmao @ the rabbit.... Stella,where in Gods name do u get these pics?
ReplyDeleteBtw,poster1,U are on a long thing oooo,how could u be so daft to ask such a question when u can obviously see the handwriting on the wall?trust me,u are going to be dumped like his older brother dumped u!
Poster 2,in my honest opinion,I prefer a man that masturbate (I'm not saying masturbation is right)than the one that cheats,I can't stand cheats!
Poster 1 . . . . I think u should leave the family entirely. He will date u but I doubt he will marry u.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 . . . Mmmmm make I read comments.
To the second poster I think the issue is not that he is sex starved, It's just that he is ADDICTED to masturbation. Even if he sleeps with 1000 ladies, it's sure he will still masturbate.
ReplyDeleteWAY FORWARD: Find a means of helping him, maybe you can discussit with him & a specialist that could be of help.
stella i have written you severally and never for once have you post my comments makes me feel its of no use.but if you will post this i will be glad.poster pray for your man as masturbation is bad.if he gets used to it then sex with you will never be fun to him someday.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, no be only u...I guess derez favouritism and I aint even surprised anymore!
DeletePoster 1- no harm marrying or dating your ex's sibling if both of you are comfortable with it.
ReplyDeleteThough it would have been better not to. It would have been better to look else where but hey! We find love in hopeless places don't we?
Poster 2- your boyfriend is a perv! He is a sex addict. Am sure you know you are not the only one he is screwing aside his vaseline and soapy shit? I bet you are not his only fuckmate.
I don't know what to tell you sef cos apparently the big dick which you enjoy is not making you think clearly.
Hey sorry for the paradigm shift in topic......
ReplyDeleteI am 26 and I had a tooth removed sometime ago...but d tooth seem 2 be growing back(molar tooth)....c'est normale????
Non c'est abnormale
DeleteOui Mon cherie
DeleteC'est bon
DeletePoster 1, if I were you, I'd think twice before dating in that family. What if your ex had told his brother of your sex prowess and he also wants to try his luck. Abeg, stay away from that family. It's just too awkward a situation.
ReplyDeleteThe Dog side eye's pix really cracked me up.....kikikikikiki
ReplyDeletePoster 1: Are you a government property that anyone can use?
ReplyDeletePoster 2; Both of you need Jesus.
Loool! Well said.
DeleteLmao @ second dumping is loading...
ReplyDeletePoster 1.
ReplyDeleteLeave that family alone, they want to use and dump you. I want to assume you slept with the first one you dated for 6 years. I'm sure his brother knows and wants to collect his share.
Poster 2.
Inasmuch as an addiction to masturbation is a serious matter, I would rather catch my man masturbating than with another woman.
Poster 1, you need to be sure he actually wants you for real and not for fucks.
ReplyDeletePoster2, masturbation is a sexual disorder and he'll need serious counselling to overcome it, Cuz he's already addicted to it.
Poster1 NO
ReplyDeletePoster2 your partner loves sex and you don't obviously or he doesn't enjoy sex with you. I don't see why he masturbates when he's with you, could also be that you don't satisfy him
your guy is adicted to the act. my husband does same tin too but it happens when we hv been on 3 to 5 days off sex due to my busybschedules as a working class mum. just keep discouraging him sha.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: I think you should go ahead if the guy is serious. Avoid getting intimate with him though. Others might think differently but your ex has been married for a while. Well its a tough call but lets see what others have to say
ReplyDelete#2. Oturukpeke!
This is a serious issue, I think he needs a counselor & counseling to undergo.
ReplyDeleteHehehhehehehheheheheee, 2day na 2day, oya bvs........ ATTACK......... waiting 4 comments 2 roll in.
ReplyDelete@Poster 1: if you think his serious and will eventually lead to marriage, i'm not sure there's anything wrong with it.
ReplyDelete@Poster 2: you'r boo is simply addicted to the act..... it's not easy to stop it as I can tell you from experience (i'm married but still indulge in it).
@poster one you situation his dicey,he might truly like you and serious about marrying or he just wants to also have a taste of you. All you need do is avoid sex with him and gauge his behaviour/action towards you. You should be able to know how serious he is with you.
ReplyDelete@poster two you better talk to him about it so he can get help. He can't even help himself when you are around and besides i thought those who masturbate do that due to lack of a sex partner?
Not necessarily due to lack of sex. I Know of a friend who masturbates before sex to prevent premature ejaculation
DeleteHmmmm @poster 1 finding love in a hopeless place...
ReplyDelete@2...don't know what to say so make i read comment.
No comment.
ReplyDeleteIts his "tin" abeg,leave him to continue.u shld only be concerned if he doesn't satisfy u,but u say he does abi?hahahaha.
ReplyDeleteWhat sought of satisfaction does people get from this masturbation thing? Can't deal men.
ReplyDeletePoster1 you be mumu we are in Nigeria,you think the brother will actually marry you mtcheeeeew go and be sharing your pussy in the family after all is family property ewu
ReplyDeletePoster2 Masturbation is good it helps you relax
@ Narrative number 1, pls walk away from dat relationship, wot on hell are u thinking?
ReplyDeleteNarrative one....pls don't marry him...in fact it is not good to date him
ReplyDeleteNarrative two.....pls let him masturbate....@Pastor Chris oyaoyakilome said masturbation is good for the soul
@Galore
Lol@ pastor chris ....tot I was d only one dat knew Abt dat sermon. Loool
DeletePoster 1
ReplyDeleteHeartbreak to entire body break loading o abi men don finish for market?
Poster 2
Deal with it as if you catch him with another woman.
Hahaha@2nd dumping is loading. Chai Stella haff cray.. some peeps r just plain dumb! Kmt.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 I think ur man has a high libido. Hope u can satisfy him wen he wifes u? Be wise
Abeg as una de treat the matter for poster 2. Make una treat my own join am, am at my late 30s no husband no man friends, though I chose to stay off from relationship after a heartbroken saga that lead me to a single mother, me too sometimes finger myself whenever I feel like having sex especially during my ovulasion period, pls is it bad?
ReplyDeleteU might just get addicted like poster 2's bf, so much so that when u have a man u will still go back to doing urself. It's a terrible addiction, curb it!
DeleteHmmm.... Its bad nao
DeleteLol
DeleteBabe finger ahead
Nothing do u
Lolz! !...enjoy.
Delete1. I don't think its a good idea to marry your ex's younger bro. Suppose there was no sexual relationship between you and his elder bro, I would have said you can still give it a try but if there is, I don't think its wise because of future issues. MO
ReplyDelete2. If I talk now, them go call me over sabi, madam ITK but the truth is premarital sex is sin before God. After giving him all the styles in bed and at his beck and call, he still masturbates which teaches that you should stop doing it abeg till you marry. God must me feared and respected. Its not easy though but His grace is sufficient for us. Sorry if this offends you. MO
Good advice
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ahahahhaaahaha,Ma'am Stella u don make me lol nter my boss black book with your comment on post 1, AS FOR THE POSTER how will you feel wen you are finally addressed as EX in your so called relationship with your ex's kid bro ?? You beta wake up ND use your brain, POSTER 2 I sincerely know how saddening that scene can be but i will advice you stay by him and help him over come this act as its takes the Grace and intervention of GOD. i wish u well in ur relationship
ReplyDeleteLOL... Masturbating after you guys have had sex?? That can only mean he's not satisfied enough.. Don't see why you're getting freaked out lol after all.. It's his penis. Wouldn't you rather it was in his hand than inside another woman? Please relax and stop stressing your head over nothing. Not everything is an issue for Chronicles lol
ReplyDeletePoster 1: babe.... Stop it!! How can you marry your ex's brother??? In fact what does that say about you? Or what this brother thinks of you? You want to be used as family pass around right? If you honestly think that man will marry you then you're delutional. Don't you know marriage is the number one thing for men to use to deceive women now? And you know why?? It's coz of women like you that are so desperate to marry that you forget to have some self respect and dignity! Think with your head! How will his family accept and respect you?? Think like a woman.. Not a desperate little girl!
I'm sorry if my advice is blunt but it's the truth.. And I would tell my sister the exact same thing. Grow up and look elsewhere! You're not a family biycle
Hmmm na so masturbation carry enter one chance with one girl!!! She can suck,fuck nd romance I want to even forget my BF cus of tis PH babe oh kai anytym I see her nipple evrytyn inside me cums alive Am a girl too oh dunno y #PHbabes sha#
ReplyDeleteDevil playing makossa with your mind.
Delete@ poster 1: pls do not marry him and cut the relationship. it is not a healthy one.whether you had sex with his brother when you were dating him or not; its still not advisable to go on because feelings can be tricky some times.what if seeing you always in the family triggers off past memory and he starts coming after you behind the wife.will you be able to resist him and even though; it will put you in a tight position and make you feel uncomfortable.
ReplyDelete@ poster 2:this is a habit your boy friend developed and only counseling can help him change.its not your fault.just talk to him and tell him that its not proper.
Poster 1.i do think you should find love somewhere else please.inasmuch as we find love in hopeless of places...abeg shift go front.
ReplyDeleteAnd is it just me......why should you be in a relationship with a guy for as long as 6yrs?
Poster2.apparently he is addicted to wanking,which is a serious somthing o.if it were in developed countries,he would need to go through some therapeutic process to get the desired help,but here i guess its kindly talking to him against it and pray for him.
Poster one - do not marry your ex brother ,but if that is where your heart is what can we say .
ReplyDeletePoster 2
Leave the guy alone that is his poison ,you lucky to have him , i know a pastor that fucks married and singles in his church ,he likes married women more ,his wife knows ,what can she do woman of God .
@Bootylycious diva
DeleteI read your comment regarding my ordeal(for almost marrying my supposedly dead father) on fridays IHN. Thanks for the opinion, I'm grateful.
anon 15:08 go to ikeja go buy sex toil if you no fit wait. stop fingering yourself. that one no go sweet u. na man suppose do am for you. since no man.
ReplyDeletebetter run fast to sisi ade store go buy sex toy
Poster 1:Smtyms it can b possible to marry d brother to ur ex,it jst depends on hw mature he is nd if he rili likes u#Y did d bro break up wit u sef?if its cuz of ur bad attitude den he may encourage his bro not to marry u.Poster two,ur bf wud still cheat on u anyways
ReplyDeletePoster 1:Smtyms it can b possible to marry d brother to ur ex,it jst depends on hw mature he is nd if he rili likes u#Y did d bro break up wit u sef?if its cuz of ur bad attitude den he may encourage his bro not to marry u.Poster two,ur bf wud still cheat on u anyways
ReplyDeletePoster 1:Smtyms it can b possible to marry d brother to ur ex,it jst depends on hw mature he is nd if he rili likes u#Y did d bro break up wit u sef?if its cuz of ur bad attitude den he may encourage his bro not to marry u.Poster two,ur bf wud still cheat on u anyways
ReplyDeletePoster 1, please follow your heart.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, please leave his balls alone.
Stella Kork, this sides eyes is adorable o, lol.
ReplyDeletePOSTER 1: My only question, does lil brother know you dated big Bros???
Personally won't do it, sha.
POSTER 2: Bad habit your man just can't let go. He enjoys touching himself and jerking off...no matter how much sex he gets.
He needs Jesus, not your sex-on-demand recipe.
Also he needs counselling.
Disgusting really... but he's an addict in dire need of help.
Yikes!
#P1, date ur ex bro... If no sex was involved with d 1st bro,fine but dnt u trhink this is a bet lyk d d 1 u dated telln his bro he too can av a share. U can date two brothers o,nt in ds Naija
ReplyDelete#P2, masturbation aint that good cos its an habit but it shld only be done when sex starved or so(my 2cent). Ur guy watches lotta porn, tell him 2 stop watching porn and 70% of his p is solved. As 4 u, hv a side boo. #justkidding.
Good advice Cynthia. I think every blog have got their own pastor & I've seen u are the pastor of Sdkb. Nice one #
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DeleteGood advice Cynthia. I think every blog have got their own pastor & I've seen u are the pastor of Sdkb. Nice one #
ReplyDeleteGood advice Cynthia. I think every blog have got their own pastor & I've seen u are the pastor of Sdkb. Nice one #
ReplyDeleteDon't mind that ur ex brother pls leave him and God go provide ur own boo,that guy is seriously addicted to it nd needs help.
ReplyDelete#2 Masturbation is self provision. I want to provide for my desire. This plus fantasy. What does the Bible advice on both? Well no doubt this is addictive because the spirit of lust or sexual perversion is master of this. So unless you man wants to change. There isn't anything you can do. Next you guys are fornicating. This also falls under the spirit of lust. So soul ties and the things this guy invites with this masturbation might be transferred to you. I will recommend you to re dedicate your life to Christ and stop fornication. Fast regularly and pray for your boyfriend. He also to go for regular fasting and praying. Here by the spirit of lust is cast out and your mind is renewed. Curse the root of the problem to die at it's very root. And don't be hard on yourself.
ReplyDelete#1 pray fro direction. the fact you are questioning this. is this from fear or caution. Lord reveals all. Fast and pray for revelation.
N1, dont date your ex brother, if you do you will surly regret it.
ReplyDeleteP1, you get mind o. That's in the incest group
ReplyDeleteWhat if the brother ends up not marrying you, that means you have slept with two brothers? God forbid o. Pleaselve on. P2, it is well
Anon 18:38 - so you deprive your husband of sex, and you don't think that would drive him to even masturbate more...or even worse seek solace outside. Have you consider maybe what might be great for you might not be great for him because of different sex drives. Ladies, blow your man's mind and ask him if you can help him masturbate. Come from a guy, that is a different level of intimacy. And stop being such prudes!!
ReplyDeleteP1. Please, don't get involved with your ex-bf brother.
ReplyDeleteP2. Prayer changes all things.
habit dey say is easily formed but is very hard to stop.....ur guy has made it a habit and it will take God's intervention for him to stop
ReplyDeleteAnon@22:20. Think about where Jesus says if you look at a woman to lust after her you have already commited adultery with her in your heart.
ReplyDeleteWhen masturbation occurs what is going on in your heart? What are you thinking of? That's where the sin is-not in the act. The sin has already been commited before the act-in the heart. And that is what God sees! Your heart. Which is why the scriptures encourage every one to guard our heart diligently for out of it are the issues of life.
You need to be very careful you are not listening to that age-old decievers voice that says "Has God said??" Reading your piece, it is easy to discern you are subtly listening to the Father of lies without knowing it. And it is a dangerous thing to listen too long to lies...
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ReplyDeleteLOL @Today Na Monday make I read Comments abeg!! Aunty Stella... U are a Clown!
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