Happy Sunday everyone...Have a great day.
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
LOVING SOMEONE WHO KILLS YOUR SELF WORTH
Hi Stella and BV's
Please help my bestie, I realize now that you bvs may save my friend. That the advices she would get from here would penetrate more than mine ever would .My friend is in love with this guy .she has been with him for 2years now . In all the 2years, it's been fraught with problems and violence. Like me ,she's about to turn 26.
She's the very jealous and insecure type , can't stomach another girl hugging her man, talk less of being friends with him . They have this weird obsessive relationship going on where neither of them is allowed to store the pictures of opposite sex , and they go through each other's phone. He calls her literally 30 times In a day and when she doesn't pick ,he calls her cousin,her sister , and everyone else to ascertain where she is .
Because of the nature of my job, I sometimes get free VIP tickets to shows .so one day I asked her to go with me to a show at eko hotel , she told her bf,he came up with every excuse under the sun why she shouldn't go, eventually he agreed.. At 10pm, her phone started ringing sporadically..it was HIM, she couldn't pick then bacause banky was onstage and it was so noisy..so she texts him that she would call back. He then replies that his friend saw her ..what was she wearing,didn't she tell him she was gonna wear jeans and why was she wearing white??? That's she's just a liar bla bla ..when I saw the text msgs I just shock! My friend had on all white-including a white Jean. They had a huge fight that day . He didn't let her enjoy the show. (That's how he is when we go out )
He tried to strangle her one day during one of their numerous fights, BV's believe me am like in the RSHP with them coz she tells me bout their fights which is every week . He has hit her several times and recently pushed her so hard she fell. He embarrasses her at will in public.
And just yesterday(Val's day) they had another fight, and she sent me the pictures of the injuries he inflicted on her that prompted this narrative and bvs I nearly cried . He beat her so much! What happened? A girl called him, she noticed his countenance changed,then when he went to bathe she called the girl. He came in and saw her with his phone and snatched it then noticed who she was calling ..then he hit her and kept hitting her. (Meanwhile he has called most of her male friends to stay away from her)
Everytime they have a fight, she goes into a drinking spree..preferring instead to stay drunk rather than face her problems. Have told her to focus her energy on getting a good job and stop obsessing over her bf. And I wonder why her self esteem is so low. Am the exact opposite of her, the no nonsense kinda girl , I believe Am God's gift to man and it's my right to be treated like a queen.
My friend is so beautiful , her mom is white . She's the centre of attention everywhere we go, She's not with him because of money- his monthly income is just 70k. Though he's a graduate . Have asked her to leave the rshp because
1. He sees nothing wrong in hitting her
2. He is very immature at 28 ,He tells his mom everything(he lives at home ) and she meddles in a lot
3. She has no peace and a rshp shouldn't be a do or die affair
4. They bring out the worst in each other ..
5. It might be too late when she finally chooses to start over
Please BV's has anyone of you been in a violent rshp ? Why is it so hard to leave ?? Why does she keep going back to him? I don't get it!!!!she has ignored all of my advises and forgives him each time, Infact she's the one that begs him back!! He breaks up with her at the slightest opportunity yet she begs him back ...?!!!
Please help my friend . Am gonna send the link of this narrative to her ..
I am so shocked..your friend has low self esteem of the lowest order..this happens when you love someone else more than yourself and stems from a bad childhood.
Your friend is in a toxic relationship and if it gets any worse i would advise that you report the situation to her family becos these kind of stories do not have fairytale endings
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
WICKEDNESS BEYOND BELIEF
Since 2006 after my weac, i have been staying with my uncle as one of his boys, serving him and learning trade to be settled and established after my completion of six years of service. The settlement terms was that a shop would be rented for me, furnished with shelf for displaying of goods and also goods will be bought for the shop.
I completed my six years of service in 2011 and was to be settled late 2011 or early 2012, unfortunately my uncle died that year before it was time for me to be settled, i was looking for shop during the period of his death. After the burial almost all his boys left because of the wife who was a very harsh and nagging woman, remaining just me and another guy.
He has two shops of which the other guy and i was staying in one which was the branch and i was manager there, Since there was nobody to manage the shop at the head office, family members pleaded with me to stay extra year so the wife understands the business before i leave. Before that i had already made up my mind to stay extra year to help manage the business till when the wife understands it and can manage the shop on her own, because my uncle was a good man and was too good and nice to me when he was alive i couldnt allow his business collapse like that and let the children suffer.
I finally spent three years extra because it took longer time for her to understand the business because she is uneducated and the 1st son had to finish secondary school so he could assist the mother in running the business. While i moved to the Head office, the other guy assumed position as manager to manage the branch office.
After my uncles death i made sure all his assets were secured, including going to ministry of justice every month for a year to recover his money in two banks worth millions of naira. I have made a whole lot of sacrifice for this family that i cant even start to narrate here. I went against many peoples advice including family members and my parents to save money incase this woman dissappionts me at the end, by refusing to save a dime despite having access to hundreds of thousands of naira because i was faithful, sincere and had strong believe that even if i save millions somewhere and God said it will amount to nothing since it was money stolen from my oga's business, then so shall it be, its better to be given a pinch of bread with God's blessings on it, but what i got wasnt what i was expecting.
Now the business has appreciated the more, his son has graduated from secondary School and is matured enough to handle the business partnering with the mum (my uncle's wife) and its time for me to leave. I saw a shop which cost #66,000, and she is suppose to furnish it and buy goods for the shop, only for my uncles wife to call family members and gave me just #150,000 as my settlement which is against the settlement terms. I was not to be given money because its at my loss, because after paying for shop #66000 (#3,000 per month including agreement and commision #15,000 each) thats for two years and furnishing it with shelves which cost between #30,000 to #40,000 and also painting of the shop white which is standard colour and rule that binds all chemist shop, i will be left with #50,000 or below which is not enough to start a chemist shop. So thats to say the shop alone will gulp #100,000 or more and i will be left with crumb to buy goods/drugs for the shop which is just not possible. Isnt that wickedness after my faithful service?
But if she had taken care of the shop expenses herself, she would be left with no option than to spend between #150,000 to #200,000 buying goods for the shop.
My parents and family members complained and she said thats what she has that the written agreement we had was with my late uncle. My parents were really angry at me for not saving anything during my time because i was being a good boy. So many people are angry with me because of same reason, but i keep asking myself "when did it become a crime to be faithful and sincere in life? Why do people pay good with bad?
People and myself are still in shock considering how good i have been to this woman and her family and my faithful service and also considering all the promises she made to me. The saying "talk is cheap" is absolutely true.
I have decided now to move forward with my life by using the #150,000 to start another business because it will not be enough to start the business/trade i learned, to start that i need at least between #250,000 to #300,000. The help i need from BV's is to suggest what kind of business i can start with the amount that was given to me. I cant think of any business now because i am confused and devasted i cant think straight.
Sorry for the long narrative.
I hope to come back someday to give feedback and testimonies how your advices filled with the right amount of nutrients has beared fruit.
May God bless you all in Jesus name!
She probably doesnt want you to turn out to be competition.
Please if you are interested in helping this young man achieve his dream,send a mail to me for his account details.
#blogboo
NARRATE 1: Stella You Spoke ma mind.. Well Said..
ReplyDeleteNARRATE 2: HELP IS ON THE WAY!!!
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Poster 1's friend should do her future hubby a favour by not allowing all her body to be bashed finish o. Why do women keep dating animals who hit them. Are they crazy??? *sigh* this love of a tingy.
DeleteEyahhhh
DeleteAlloy it is well, u have always been a humble kind hearted fellow. God will lift u high.
Delete@poster1 :your frnd is old enough to know what she wants.
DeleteIf she want 2 die there,so be it.
She is matured 4 cry out loud.
@poster2: sometimes, I don't pity people dat steal frm there master.
I knw like 2 guys dat there Oga refused 2 settle them after serving him 4 7yrs.
He usually accuse them of one tin or the other.
God will fight for u.
Narrative 2- please send ur account details oh. Stella pls post in tomorrow's IHN. We won't allow it happen here. Shame to bad people. You will scale through. Amen. Pls send account details.
Deleteactually what I need is just advice on a business I can start with #150,000.
DeleteBut if there is any donation or any financial help so I can really start the business I learned for years then its welcomed I will really appreciate it.
Poster 1- b4 dat girls eye wil clear, e go tey, my fwnd was in d same kinda relationshp bt she's quit d relationship nw tanks b 2 God. Pray 4 ur fwnd.
DeleteP2- sum ppl are jst wicked sha.
Poster one: plz ur frnd Shud leave dat situationship...b4 he kills her...how can a guy. b dat wicked dat he will beat her to d point of giving her bruises....dat is really bad....but d issue is...is ur frnd ready to walk out of d r/ship cuz ?if she is not willing talking to her will b a waste of time...dis just reminded me of someone I knew.... d guy does exactly dis to her everyone talked to her but she neva listened..it even got to d point dat he used iron to give her a scar on her breast....and he wud embarrass her in public even where she was working to d point dat dey had to sack her....but tank God she determined one day to leave him and she did even if d guy threatened to kill her......so dats y I asked if ur frnd was determined to leave cuz she nids to make up her mind....all d same encourage her to do so
DeletePoster two: dat woman is just so wicked dat is how most people do ohh..dey will say dey wud settle u but wen d year reaches dey wud b looking for one excuse or d oda...just put everything in God's hand cuz nemesis will definitely catch up with her...and dis Shud not discourage u from being sincere....continue to b sincere God will bless u....
Alloy God will uplift u
Delete@Alloy such is life...hang in there help is on the way!!
DeletePoster1. It is tragic that there are women who have sunk into the abyss of deplorable lust without love. These women are usually the victims of an unhealthy upbringing and traumatic experiences that left them wonded and with low self-esteemed. But when a woman knows hat her body and heart are two jewels in the same crown, she should give that crown only to a man who is worthy. She should give it only to a prince not a tiger or woman beater.
DeleteU should pray for her, she needs prayers to have her body and mind open to see that she is worth more than what she is getting.
Poster2 God will uplift u and give u many reasons to smile that u wouldn't even remember this ill treatment.
Alloy, how about asking her to invest the remainder of the money needed to complete the store into ur business? U can ask her for the loan if she won't give u. Except she's bent on not adding a dime to it for whatever reasons best known to her. That would be wicked of her though. Lets even thank God she gave u the 150k sef...
DeleteAt any rate Stella has suggested a way out. So lucky you. It is well. Pele
An addendum.....
DeleteI noticed the conflict of interests regarding whether u saved or not. That was ur greatest undoing. Saving monies from ur salary is quite different from stealing from ur uncle's business to save. Your parents are right.
How could u have worked for these many years and not have savings from it? You kept saying u didn't save because of ur loyalty, that's different and there's no correlation btw being loyal and saving from what u were paid.
The word "loyal" in this context would have made sense if we were talking about u cutting corners to gather money illegally.
Am not sure you get paid salary when you are 'serving' under your master?? What I think you get as reward is being set up at the end of your service period, Which is what Alloy is asking of his boss' wife, So there is no way he could have saved up if he wasn't getting paid salary, My opinion please.
DeleteOK maybe I didn't understand the arrangement. I thought that he got to a point during his years there that he was paid salaries after his apprenticeship. Oh well.
DeleteThey dont get paid salaries.
DeleteWicked people everywhere
ReplyDeletePoster 1 that your friend needs a lecture on self worth and values.what the he'll is she doing with an abusive partner and why can't they be free to have friends of opposite sex. That their relationship lacks trust abd that is where the problem started. Always tell her about other people in a good loving relationship that is free of violence, make her appreciate herself let her know that she is wonderful and any man will be lucky to have her, you people around her should show her love cos most atimes people stay in an abusive relationship cos that guy may be her only source of love. Get her family members or people she listens to to talk to her, u people shouldn't force her to live the guy just make her understand her worth and with time she will willingly live the guy.
DeleteBlogboo don't change to another business pls! U worked to learn what u learnt...chillax!
DeleteStella's email anyone?
DeletePoster 1, some girls are just like that and it shocks me. Have tried to understand them(have a gf like dat) but its not just possible because. Have the opposite personality as well.
DeletePoster 2, later When nemesis and karma strikes that ur aunt and she comes to cry crocodile tears for forgiveness, PLSSS, u can forgive BUT NEVER forget! That means don't offer to help her or d children or whatever mess she must be in at that time.don't play d good heart (Coz trust me, u ar going to be bigger dan even u can imagine! Except God isn't God anymore
Alloy Alloy, it is well.
ReplyDeletePoster 1- your friend has serious self esteem issues. Until her so called boyfriend kills her before she will know she is not in a relationship but in bondage.
DeletePoster 2- Alloy is that you?
@Quiksilver: pls tell me something
DeleteAlloy nwoke oma,God will see u tru.
You are too nice to a fault, shine eyes small.
Alloy nwoke oma!!!
DeleteI had a feeling this is you!
Ngwa ego ole ka eneediri?
You can't go into another line of trade after 6yrs na
Nawaoooooh
Narrative 1: Your friend is possessed and needs immediate deliverance. Who stays with a violent man, bikonu. She doesn't read the news to see what DV has caused? A man like that won't even marry a woman like her. Pls arrange to have him beaten.
DeleteNarrative 2: our very own Alloy AKA SDK BLOGBOO. God will water your path. When you didn't buy the cellphone yourself, I knew you were truthful and honest. We will send our widow's mite to Stella and you will stand on your feet without her. Some women are evil sha.
Which of the Alloy you dey call? how we fit help you? Rita.
Deletesorry my dear i now know the Alloy you are talking of, have a nice day.
DeleteAlloy, your testimony is surely on the way. You really have a good heart.
DeletePoster 1: ur frnd has low self esteem
ReplyDeletePoster 2: just poison dat ur uncle's wife...sorry o
Poster 1:
DeleteHe may kill her someday.
I dunno even what to say
The devil has also blinded her eyes
Poster 2:
Listen to me,
When Joseph refused the advances of potiphars wife, all hope seemed lost.
Infact, He was thrown inside a prison....but the Lord was with him.
And he said something earlier on 'how can I do this great wickedness against God and my master '
Y'all know what happened. In a DAY he became a 2ND in command in the whole of Egypt.
Alloy, your DAY is coming. Righteousness pays...that am sure about.
Your DAY is coming and that same woman would answer you SIR.
God himself would pay you.
Just keep on being faithful.
And always remind God of how faithful you were just like Nehemiah. Your day of blessing Is here already.
Will be back to comment.
ReplyDeleteLemme finish up with laundry.
@ narrative two! That ur aunt is very wicked! Mark my words she's going to run back to you for help soon! I am just a student! I only wish I can help! Ur narrative brought tears out of my eyes! Being faithful is not a crime my dear! Ure just a rare gem! And when God decides to bless your type he doesn't look back, help will definitely locate u... narrative one! ur friend really need help. Has she been reading this blog? If she has she shud hv come to her senses! This is not love naw! Haba! She also needs serious prayers! Probably she thinks she won't be able to get a better guy if she let go of this one! How does a woman get comfortable in such kinda relationship! She shud put on her running shoes already!
ReplyDeleteO my God poster2 I feel like crying,wish I can asist kia?Dear. Lord pls send helpers to this young man.stella u r a darling I love u so much ,God bless u
ReplyDeleteAlloy Chimezie, it is well. It is well!!!! *teary*
DeleteNarrate1: you wan die for the useless boy hand abi? Narrate2: please don't change ur mind set because of some people continue in keeping ur hands clean and watch GOD fill them with blessings.
ReplyDeleteStella u indeed God sent, I read ur response and I shed tears, d guy need to be encouraged
ReplyDeleteNarrative 2 if u hadnt fallen the hand of the other blogger.. u wld have won 100k wc will help u a lot.. i will contribute my widows mite but as u stat off on ur own dont be this kin mumu again.. d world is not black and white.. u have to be smart to succeed and sometimes a little dishonesty pays..
ReplyDeleteHis not a fool biko.
DeleteYeah I so agree with you! A little dishonesty pays BUT only for a short while before the MEGA SUPER consequences arrive, which outweigh the little benefits the dishonesty may give.
DeleteDishonesty doesn't pay dear.
DeleteDon't be short sighted
R u sure it's not the 100k he lost that he's trying to recoup?
DeleteEveryone is saying you are humble and good. But has anyone really sat down to analyse your action?
You collected money from someone and donated to her rival's business.
How are we sure it's not the same attitude you displayed with your aunt?
Helping a rival business to the detriment of your aunt's business?
Well, I hope you get help here. At least you won't lose both ways.
@ Desire: are u for real? Is dat ur own analysis? SMH
DeleteDesire, ur reasoning is so out of place. When u give someone a gift, how and where the gift is used is no longer ur bizness. So bcos he got money from a blog and used it on another makes him bad? Its people like you that assist someone and then turn yourself into a monitoring spirit. mtcheeewwe.
DeleteI dont usually comment on this blog, but stella God bless u! For d way u responded to the young man's plight. U truly have a heart of gold
ReplyDeleteEbony
Stella he's your blogboo or is this Alloy?
ReplyDeletePoster 1 :you don't think it's time to report your friend to her family and pull her out of that toxic relationship, until he kills her?By then just so you know, guilt will be your middle name..i don't support violence of any kind, either playfully slapping or truthfully pushing,Violence is violence, get your friend out of that rlationship..Call the Morafucking BF, if he as much lays a finger on her again, report him to the nearest police station and keep the pics she sent you as proof!
MR EDDY said this heat wan kill person o.
ReplyDeleteWell said Stella
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Please let her stay with the nematode and let him continue beating her black and blue
ReplyDeleteshe is too yellow and her brain is to shallow
all u stupid women out there that think a man beating you and forcing or cajoling you to do abortions is love, deserve the cretins you get
i prefer a woman who wants to be treated like a queen because im a king and i need to fraternize with my mates.
Otunba Olowo awon Forbes
I love that "...I need to fraternize with my mates" i'm going to be 30yrs this year and no man will treat me like thrash cos he thinks I want to get married. I know (i'm not bragging) that any man that has me is a lucky guy so why will I settle for blows and punches??? Tufia kwa
DeleteI like kings @ otunba. Well said.
DeletePoster 1-is on a sucide mission. Poster 2- may u find divine favour. Amen
ReplyDeleteNarrative 1: Your friend needs to understand how much she's worth in the eyes of God first. You, as a friend need to instill a good amount of self-esteem in her (since it's apparent she lacks this); you can do this by getting her to help you out on little projects so when she completes them,she tends to feel a sense of importance. You should try to make her appreciate herself more. Lastly, read out some of SDK's Hope Narratives so she'll see that her present relationship isn't it at all. Good Luck.
ReplyDeleteNarrative 2: Don't you dare venture into another business! You worked too hard to get to this point to just allow that evil witch hold you back....send your acc details to SDK, help will surely come. My best wishes.
So with all the gory tale one hears every now and then some people still prefer abusive relationship? This type of relationsip is too dangerous. Please let her mother know about it.
ReplyDeleteBlogboo dont be discouraged for being faithful and transparent. Every disapointment is a blessing cos God has a way of doing his things.
God will send helpers to you soon and you will be so amazed at how faithful this God is. Its well
So they still do this ,people are wicked Sha ,to their fellow human.,imagine after how many years ,I don't know why people are mean to their fellow human beings .
ReplyDeleteNarrative 2..your story made me cry!!
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ReplyDeleteNR 2 is sdkblogboo ALLOY
ReplyDeleteGod will punish that woman!
I taught as much
DeleteIs well with you alloy boo
Narr 2: it's well with u
Deletewonder why you are so concerned about who it is. Can you help, if not keep quiet
DeleteNarrative 1. Homegurl needs deliverance. Take her to MFM and let her stay in church for 7 days with fasting n prayer. By the time she's done, you'd be shocked how things would turn out. People in that kind of relationship believe they've come a long way with the guy, thus their wanting to die there irrespective of how they're being treated. No amount of advices would make them move on except divine intervention.
ReplyDeleteNarr 2. While reading this story, blogboo kept coming to mind.
Anyways, you and stella have a way of throwing your predicaments at us without coming across as a beggy beggy or one who actually needs help.
Alloy, what do you want? Money or business ideas? Because your write-up says business ideas while your boo says money. You people shouldn't confuse us biko.
Lara...funny you
DeleteTrue tho!
Posted1,you better broke up with that aggressive lover of yours before something bad happens to both of you. Poster2...it is well,don't ever change your good behaviour God has a way of blessing good people.i pray you get help soonest
ReplyDeleteAwwwww... I rily feel 4 d 2nd poster
ReplyDeleteThe young lady in narrative one really does need help] i doubt she would listen, pray it won't be too late for her.
ReplyDeleteposter 2 may God bless the work of your hands and give you a reason to testify
Narrator 2. God never disappoints people like you. There was nothing wrong in what you did. Good thing is you are full of hope. Your success is on the way.
ReplyDeleteIf you stand by what is right, people who cheated you usually live to see you way above them in the end. Kudos
Yep. As onye igbo poster 2, jide ofo ka chukwu mezie okwu.
DeleteMmmmm is this alloy? This write up sounds like him! Whoever it is God will settle you beyond her imagination!
ReplyDeletePoster 1,over time from my personal research,I have found out that why it's hard to walk away from bad toxic relationship is bcos Sex is involved!(am not trying to be sanctimonious here,y'all know am not!#eyelashes)but sex pollutes relationships,that bonding it creats keeps u in it,gives u an illusion dat u are in love with dis person and can't do without him or Her,as u think it's love but it isn't.so dats y it's so easy to walk away when sex isn't involved,and also why anyone (both male and females,usually players)trying to commit' u into d relationship,use sex first!....oh how I wish pple could stop premarital sex.but then body no be wood abi?#scratches hair#
ReplyDeleteSo basically the reason ur friend is bound to dat relationship is sex.she needs to consciously deliver herself.
Poster2,know that u can never go wrong doing d right thing,cos everything in life is a seed and d bible says while d earth remaineth seed,time and harvest shall not cease!u will reap only goodness from ur honesty it's only a matter of time.to show dat d elements are happy with u,Stella Stells has endorsed a giving session in ur favour and trust BV's not to disappoint.infact am jealous#eyelashes#justkidding#lol!this is just the beginning.and pls remember to always pay ur tithe,yes even from that 150k.God will surprise u cos wealth comes from God!
Wishing u d best in ur endeavours.
Yes dear once sex is involved, things get messy and complicated.
DeleteIf God said it, then we can do it
The painful thing is this girl would be raped again and again in this relationship, that's how it is.
Premarital sex is wrong...and I would continue to preach it.
And then, it's God's grace all the way
Wish I could help but my prayer is with you narative 2. I just pray and hope u ar real
ReplyDeletePoster 1... your friend is simply suffering from Algolagnia, she should carry on, she has my blessings.
ReplyDeletePoster 2.. your good heart will fetch u help. Tell ur aunty dat she's welcome to kiss my black ass.. Jeze fuckn bel
P2 is Alloy. That woman is a witch, shes trying to prevent your progress.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: God is faithful. He won't forget our labour of love. You'll get more than you need.
ReplyDeleteOmg! Help is on d way @ poster2....just watch God make u an envy to ur generation.
ReplyDeleteposter 2 I suggest you move on let God fight for you I assure you that the way God would move in your business you will be amazed why not pray about the next step have faith one day u will look back and thankGod if I had money I would have helped May God favour you just place God at the Centre of your business
ReplyDeleteposter one there is nothing you can do except God opens her eyes
ReplyDeleteStella God will bless you. Send us the account details. I will send my widow's might too.
ReplyDeletePoster2:its well world people can't be trusted at all.
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I didn't read to d end before realising that it's Alloy... You are such an easy going person God will reward you for not abandoning your uncles family...
ReplyDeleteNarrative 2, wat a sad story,i wish I cld help.please be urself dnt let anyone or any situation change ur good heart.God will surely grant u all ur heart desires
ReplyDeleteAwww poster 2 so sorry... Don't worry we'd try and raise money for u
ReplyDeletePoster2 your story breaks me, so sorry ok keep on being good you hear, I wish I had money kia eh, people are too bad
ReplyDeleteWell done Stella. I cuss you out when you don't counsel well but I also acknowledge you when you counsel well. Narr 2 aka Alloy, this won't happen as long as this blog exist. Send your account and I trust you would get more than you needed. That aunty of yours better be ready to see God's hands upon your life. You shall never lack my brother. God bless you!!
ReplyDeleteWhen are people going to wake up and notice Alloy has successfully warmed himself into y'all hearts and now y'all purses???
ReplyDeleteThis boy sudden had a phone issue after he didn't win from any of the giveaways. He kept his cool and stayed active for 2/3 weeks to see if anyone would reach out to him, when that didnt happen...he went MIA and said he had phone problem until someone (bless your heart) from this blog gave him a cellphone. Now he's back with more stories? C'mon y'all! This dude is trying to play on people's intellegence If you ask me.He's promoted himself from blogboo to blog liability. Very soon now, he would come back for more pity party. Maybe it would be how a supplier duped him or how his shop got broken into, or what not!
Oh before yall attack me,I have done my lil bits on this blog by helping people with genuine problems, and still will do more and keep it anonymous as I have done in the past.Another thing, Alloy 150k isn't "just"! I wonder what you would call whatever you get from this blog if the one u earned for years is a "just" amount! If your story is actually true! And lets be real, your supposed innitial agreement was with your uncle. So you can't assume she would keep the terms and conditions over to your deal with her. Did you have a sit down with her after your uncle died and lay out your expectations?? I bet you didn't! Oh your parents are mad you didn't steal from the woman?? Nigeria!!!
You are such a bitter person, Alloy didn't announce himself as d poster, Stella was the one that did that, he never asked for any money from anyone, bvs just like him enough to want to help. Secondly, he never really asked for a phone, he just explained why he's been away from the blog and someone decided to get a phone for him. Thirdly, scam or not, people think he's good enough to deserve help. So why not fuck off and let those that will help, help him
DeleteSo after serving someone for 6yrs and they give u 150k, u will gladly take it and not call it 'just'. Are u freaking kidding me, did ur senses leave u this sunday?
DeleteHey you eks joy or watever your name is, just beacuse I refuse to do follow follow and use my own brain and think for myself- unlike you, doesnt mean my senses left me. If anything, it's working alright and i should ask you wether yours works. Ofcourse he didn't ask for help. Heck he cant be caught asking for help or stoop to that level so as not to be tagged beggy beggy. But I will tell you what he does, he tells a sad tale and waits for a reaction. Hoping to get favorable ones based off the reputation hes managed to create for himself on this blog. Back to what I said earlier, he didnt serve the woman the whole 6 yrs. lets not get it twisted, he had a deal with an uncle who passed. So serving her was a fresh start but he didnt make a fresh arrangmnt with her. He just hoped and assumed the initial deal was still valid- not a smart move for mr business savy! I am so many things honey, bitter isnt one of them. Sometimes you have to put your feeling aside and take a critical look at things.
DeleteSo you think you are smart!???? No you are not
DeleteFirstly if alloy being as smart as your presume, cause he has bought out hearts or whatever English you used there then you are very stupid for accusing this guy wrongly! Yes you are stupid!
Why will he ask for a phone when he can come all t with this story you feel is made up and get hundreds of thousand. And buy a good phone or phones with it?????
Gosh!!!!! I won't think for you! Just ponder on this and ell yourself you are stupid!
Yes he will hget thousand of naira with this, cause he deserves it! HATER!
Ewo
DeleteYou need 13 cartoons of sugar.
Why are you so mean????
He served for 6 years!!! 6 years!!!!
A doctor Is trained in 6 years.
What are you talking about???
May this type of thing never befall you
U must be really heartless haba,if u were not touched by that story am afraid you can kill.may God help u.
DeleteHis senses actually left him...
DeleteAnony 15:19 I'm sure you r d uncle's wife. Bitter woman may God Punish you and your generation whoever you are you will never find help and mercy IJN
DeleteAnon 15:19, pls shut ur useless trap! Stupid person! Did he beg u for money?? Oversabi bv...
DeleteYou are symptomatic of what is wrong with our country.
DeleteDon't mind the person. After 6 yrs of faithful service and he's given 150K???? Of course it's no money as far as capital goes.
DeleteDon't be a road blocker so no one will block ur own road.
Alloy is a good person, people like that are hardly stranded. Help will come his way through this blog or any other means God wants to use. He didn't announce his name Stella did so pls let him be!!!
All i read is a bunch of mumbo jumbo, no reason(s) to back it up. Leave sentiments asides and think rationaly.Oh! As fr the cusses,right back at yah!
DeleteI really cry reading post #2, I wish I can do something for u. Pls don't lose hope, God will send ur helping angles thru this blog, am sure of that. Just relax n watch God in action in ur case.
ReplyDeleteN2-i cried reading ur story.God can never change.I pray God takes ur matter personal like He takes mine.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: ur frnd is really in situationship, try talking more sense into her, properly by showing her some past narratives on this blog. Influence her to be like u na.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: really very sorry about what you are going through, God is sending you helpers soon. Be strong, we love you but God loves you more.
Why do i feel NR2 is just tryna scam us...
ReplyDelete... because that way you feel better about ignoring his plight.
DeleteOr you are just naturally cynical?
Or you would, if you could?
Stella your comment for poster 2 got to me. Stella you are such a blessing, the entire blog family is. Oh my. May God continue to bless you all.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: I'm weak, shocked, flabbergasted and low in the spirit after reading your mail.
ReplyDeleteKai! Who did this to your friend? A man out there is dying to have her and she allows herself be treated like TRASH, RUBBISH & GARBAGE!!!! Or is the guy's penis kolomentalising her thinking faculty?
When ladies behave like your friend, sex is involved! If she hasn't had sex with him, her thinking will be straight. For some ladies, having sex with a guy SHUTS DOWN their thinking faculty and they start behaving like MUMU when the guy maltreats them.
What to do? I hope you haven't deleted the picture and others she's been sending to you? If no, please do the needful by show ALL HER FAMILY MEMBERS from father to mother to everyone who loves and cares about her well-being what her boyfriend has been doing to their daughter/sister. Also, I think the police should be involved here. They must break that relationship by FIRE, by FORCE.
PS: It wouldn't be a BAD idea if that guy is given a taste of his own medicine as well.
@Ronalda, please your attention is HIGHLY needed here. Your "sister" from another mother is being rubbished in the hands of a male specie.
ReplyDeleteRotfl .
DeleteRubynnia seff.
Ronalda dear the incumberances encountered here strikes a nerve In my heart.
The female specie needs to wake up.
I admire you ronalda... how did you learn all that?
Nwata nwanyi a !
DeletePoster 2: this story brought tear in my eye as though I was reading my hubby's story.
ReplyDeleteWas into partnership with the brother, lost luggages with E' Airline exactly 10 years ago he pushed him aside with baseless allegations, without a thousands naira in hubby's account.
People adviced him (even the eldest brother) then to save up for himself during the good days, faithfull hubby shoved all aside with the notion "No one steals from himself".
I still have that same question of yours "Does it pay to be faithful, live a trustworthy life ???????"
Had a court case with the Airline that prolonged for about 5 yrs, they compensated with almost .9 million naira.
This brother that sticks closer than an enermy didn't give him a dime to start life afresh, for the cheque was signed to hubby brother's position in the company.
Hubby has never found square root still struggling to get anything done...... since then, coupled with no good job on my side to support the family. *wipe face *
Most times, I feel like being angry with him for not knowing the kind of brother that he has. Their cousin with them in those days, when hubby complain about his fishy behaviors, brother-out-law will always say "he(cousin) Is a smart and hustling guy" stole enough bought properties that he used to establish himself today.
Last time I spoke to this bro-out-law 's wife, she asked me "... IS IT NOT SMALL PEOPLE THAT CALL GREAT PEOPLE" tell me is this life fair at all & Is she not mocking me and mai family.
!!!!!!tears still rolling down !!!!!!!!!
Sorry for the epistles.
Hmmmmm @1..my dear your friend will never understand what she is into untill she gives another man a chance, I was once like her but today this man is crying after like 9 months dat he just cnt find himself moning on,,,with all these my answer still stands and it a NO....she will get to know her worth Soon n dust her bum to take off...but I pray she doesn't regret anything before then....i am a testitimony and the person am with now respects and treats me like a queen, and each time I sit to remember all the pains and insults, slaps I got from my X, I cry n thank God for the man he gave me finally....and it's not been 6months and he is planing to settle with me....so continue to talk to her and hook her up with other nice guys she will leave him soon...for now there's nothing you do that will make her go instantly like that....there are better guys outdere...he is not her Life
ReplyDelete@indigo really?...so he has to be faithful to linda because he needs help...now you are the real psychophant.....blogboo,do not worry.help wil come from people throgh God.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 it is God that reward good people,Human disapoint most of the time.He will send helper to you
ReplyDeleteVisit waiting mothers.com for infertility issue
Stella I may be able to help the chemist with regards to goods. Can we have his number? Thx.
ReplyDeleteY do people promise and fail, I really feel sorry for you narrative 2, am a student from a not so comfortable home, I really wish I could help you, I pray God send's you a helper, it is well.
ReplyDeleteAs I was reading narrative 2, my mind went to Alloy Chikezie straight. Alloy, help is on your way. Please never stop being GOOD & FAITHFUL. The way to perdition is wide but that to life is narrow.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 tell ur friend i said she is Playing Russian Roulette.
ReplyDeletePoster 2,chai....God Has arisen on ur behalf.
It is well.
life aint fair! Buh den,with God,things fall into place.
Nne ah ahnn! I've been looking for you.
DeleteBloggie baby.i have been here o.dont know wot happend.blog was taking forever in opening(dats wen it opens at all o) den wil manage to read buh cant comment.dont know why.buh it Has picked up now.
Deletehowdy Boo?
Hope u r resting well Nne m.
2. Devil is a liar, you dreams won't go down the drain. Your uncle's wife is scared of competition but she isn't God. You'll bounce back soon by God's grace.
ReplyDeleteAlloy all will be well so don't worry.
May God bless you Stella for helping the needy. Don't lose hope blogboo.
ReplyDelete@P1 your friend should borrow Legs to join hers to run far away from such a relationship before she is killed. @P2. I wish I could help. People can be very wicked. I pray you get the help you need to do that business which you already know.
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ReplyDeleteAlloy, I serzly feel for u, God knows I don't blame those boys that steal from their Oga cos there's no telling if the guy will eventually settle you. By God's grace, u will make it and even surpass that ur madam. Poster 1, people in violent relationships find it difficult to leave, I don't think its cos of low self esteem cos even some have other better toasters but still prefer to remain. Falling in love with d right person is just d best cos love can be a bitch. I particularly don't think ur friend has got low self esteem, cos u described her as pretty and mixed race so I dunno why she would be suffering from low self esteem. Just keep talking to her or get her parents involved, she would prolly hate u at first but in d long run, she will thank u for saving her life
ReplyDeletePoster one:Your friend needs to learn how to love herself, before thinking about being in another relationship. Hopefully, she reads this post and does the needful.
ReplyDeletePoster two :Alloy?
Your story is very tear-inducing.
I know that you'll get the help you need on here.
It's well.
Narrative 2 I am weeping! Please send your account details to Stella biko...I am still looking for a job myself so I can't help but my God will send you helpers...your end will be greater than your beginning. It is your time to reap the fruits of your labour!!!
ReplyDeletePoster 1:I dont honestly understand how a girl will just stay and her bf will be beating her! Is she a piece of wood! I had a fried like that(tho she ended up marrying anoda guy). I just dont understand it! What kind of low self-esteem is dat? A mullato for that matter? They are even the ones that should be having high self-esteem sef! I have never been in such a relationship and I know that i will never put myself in dat condition! Even being in a relationship were the guy is emotionally/mentally abusive is bad. I think i was once in a relationship like that! immediately d guy started comparing me to other gals saying things like dis hair u made is not very fine or telling me to change my cloth bcos his other friend's galfriend's are wearing mini while i was wearing jean..Omo i just bounced! I honestly have no time for crap like that..Why ladies are so desperate to be in relationships is something i dont understand! Ur friend doesnt have a job and am sure she doesnt have a master's degree and she's busy killing herself over an abusive man who doesnt even earn good money. I really feel sorry for her. Let her go and do something with her life
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Pls take heart. U sound like a really smart hardworking guy! Believe me, no mater what u start with, u will surely become very successful.. ur story rings close to home. I have a very close cousin dis stuff happened to. in his case, the oga was even alive ooh, but the man didnt settle him well at all. The guy cried his heart out, he was so frustrated. The uncle's friend who knew that what his friend did was bad, called this my cousin and gave him many goods to sell on credit. My cousin being the hardworking guy that he is sold those goods and many of the customers from his uncle's former shop followed him to his new shop. Now the guy is doing really well! God will surely see u thru, Ur destiny is not determined by anyone.
Alloy send ur acc details sharp sharp before I use the money wey I go give you take buy Armani prive' perfume for selfridges tomorrow.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 u should understand dat u are better than dat, nd once u realize dat u wuld be able 2 move unto better if not best self. Poster 2 ur help is on d way keep doing good unto others nd u wuld b rewarded many times more.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 u should understand dat u are better than dat, nd once u realize dat u wuld be able 2 move unto better if not best self. Poster 2 ur help is on d way keep doing good unto others nd u wuld b rewarded many times more.
ReplyDeleteNarrative 2 your story brought down a train load of tears to my eyes! May God continue to uplift u,, i wish i had more than enough to spare now cos i am saving for my rent! I have prayers for u - In Jesus name, you will receive more than you require to start up ur chemist, every single medicine or goods u sell shall bring in 209% profit! God will uplift u beyond ur means and you will count your money in dollars and yen ! U will drive jeeps and live in ur own house without paying mortgage. Ur children will attend harvard! You will forgive ur aunty and even help her more in life and she will cry at ur feet asking u to forgive her. The spirit of her late husband ur uncle will continue to b angry with her until she kneels b4 u and say she is sorry! You will marry a good woman who will be your soulmate. U will have ur own foundation that is gneared towArds counselling people about been faithful and true to themselves. May God wipe ur tears and fill ur heart with thanks, love and Joy. Every year when u succeed, u will pick up 3 boys from Sdk blog and train them in ur business and u will settle them. I write all this with tears in my eyes and i am asking God to grant me all my heart desires and prayers for u today in Jesus name. Amen!
ReplyDeleteAmen
DeleteBoys or girls ooo. Everyone should have a livelihood.
DeleteAh mi ooo
Amen
DeleteSassy.
Amen amen and amen.
DeleteN1; The best thing you Can do to help your friend is to let her family members talk some sense into her OR talk her into going for counselling, you av tried for her. You may also try to introduce her to a good guy. N2: May help locate you in Jesus Name, Amen.
ReplyDelete#2 Don't ever regret ur faithfulness, I would ve adviced u to use what u ve left after putting up a place to start d same business even is its just a kobo left, dnt change d business bc U kw d insideout of it and u ve established contact and wit ur kind of person hmmmmm Ur uncles"wife wil be suprise @ ur success! Buh since Stellalicious has opened his charity book n heart 4 dis case, SDKers plz sow no matter hw litle 4 in sowing U harvest!
ReplyDeletePoster 1 ...tell ur friend to leave dat relationship else she might die dere....Poster 2 God will make u prosper...n watch how that woman biz will die lik her husband did...
ReplyDeleteThe 2nd poster took me close to tears. God will do it for you dear.
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NR1: tell your friend to run. Alert her family before it is too late.
ReplyDeleteNR2: it is well. Drop you details.
Alloy Alloy. Don't worry dear. Help is on d way.
ReplyDeleteIt pays to be honest don't worry God will fight for u.
Choi Stella Kork be changing blogboo like kilode,lol. N2 help is on d way, pls don't change business cos you've spent years learning d ropes and it is a very lucrative business, God wl make a way and also judge d woman, watch out,she will come back begging.
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Poster 2, wonder y u listened 2 ur family(s) and friends to stay extra year(s) to help and u didn't listen to them to save some money. Dat said, I advise u business in trade u r experienced in.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, please let us know when your friend finally gives up the ghost and we come for her burial. Nonsense. Don't why some girls have fish brains. No oh, don't go anywhere, please stay and continue fighting him till he gives you strong akpus on your entire body that you will hardly recognise yourself anymore. Low self esteem at its peak.
ReplyDeleteDear poster 1, something is not right about your friend. Was she molested when she was young? Is her father still alive? What kind of relationship does/did she have with her dad? What kind of relationship does she have with her mom? What is it about the guy that keeps her tied to him. Why does she have a low self esteem. There are a whole lot of things about this girl that you probably don't know. However, you can pray and ask the Lord to break that relationship. He's going to kill her if this goes on.
ReplyDeleteFind out what happened to her while she was growing up then you come to know the real reason why she is tied to this guy.
I read a story of a babe who was very close to the dad when she was growing up. I think she was finishing her sec. School or just entering the University when the Father died. And it was like she died. She went in and out of relationships, most of them will beat her, sleep with her and dump her. They were always the ones dumping her, she will be in a relationship and she will be the one to service the relationship. From washing, cooking, sleeping with the guys. Until she went for a program where late Pastor Bimbo was preaching and she gave life to Christ and was prayed for. Her fathers death had had psychological a effect on her. She thought every guy will be like her dad. She found peace with God nevertheless. Therr are many instances. When a guy thinks a babe can't do with out them. They tend to miss behave. Something is not right. Why is she possessive? Maybe she lost someone dear to her that when a person comes into her life she feels she has to hold tight in other not to loose it. So please find out.
Poster 2, may the Lord himself reward your faithfulness and so bless you that, you will forget the years of your Labour.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 don't worry. God will surely surprise you. Stella yur response to him brought tears from my eyes. It is well with you dear.
ReplyDeletealloy it is well with you.just know one thing; who God has blesssed; no one can cause.what God has destined must surely come to pass.destiny can only be delayed but not denied.Do not loose hope and hang in there help is on the way. Do you know the story of cosmas the owner of coscharis motors. he was nothing before but now he is great.so know that you will be what God has destined.jisi ike oh.chukwu gba gi ume
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Alloy dear help is coming for you and aa for ur uncle's wife, leave her to God. Funny thing is that when you've gotten help and set up a shop, she will go around town blowing trumpet that you stole their money to establish your business. So when the accusations starts rolling in, just ignore it all and fix ur gaze on God. He will prosper and favour you.
ReplyDeleteStella thank you for d way u are handling dis young man plight, you are an Angel.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Alloy dear help is coming for you and aa for ur uncle's wife, leave her to God. Funny thing is that when you've gotten help and set up a shop, she will go around town blowing trumpet that you stole their money to establish your business. So when the accusations starts rolling in, just ignore it all and fix ur gaze on God. He will prosper and favour you.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Alloy dear help is coming for you and aa for ur uncle's wife, leave her to God. Funny thing is that when you've gotten help and set up a shop, she will go around town blowing trumpet that you stole their money to establish your business. So when the accusations starts rolling in, just ignore it all and fix ur gaze on God. He will prosper and favour you.
ReplyDeleteAlloy, Stella's blogboo!
ReplyDelete@ poster 1 I had a friend we did our school registration together... we became hostel mates, went to school together... but she met a guy in our 2nd semester 100leveland that was d beginning of her end unlike your friend who is also possesive mine was timid n quite... to cut d long gist short am in my final year but my friend left school at d guys command, left her home n changed lines just because of her bf. So my dear my advice to your friend is continue... her end is close. Did I say my friends bf disfigured her with hot iron before she drouped out at 200level 2nd semester n her dad has stroke bcos of his missing daughter.
ReplyDeleteLow self esteem nah bastard! Writer 1: What do u mean by: "my friend is so beautiful, her mother is white"....as if her mother being white guaranteed her beauty. I bet u're one of those ignorant bush girls that fawn over light skinned people. You need to get a passport, travel and expose ur self. The height of this ignorance is disgusting.
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DeleteLol. Better skip datigbochick's contribution about racial mixing and high self-esteem then :D
DeleteAlso Poster1 if you can, keep her away from alcohol in your company.
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ReplyDeleteif what you say here is very right as happend then you dont need to worry but keep on being good ,i will reminds stella about this very poster any time i visit nigeria again,,rent a shop and start with a little that remaind with u,is well,and dont speaks evil against that woman,pray God wills be done,,from swiss
Annon 15.19. U are a jezibel ur self!! U are such a wicked person on earth, ppl like u are not suppose to live, u will never find a helper in ur life IJN Amen. Poster 2. If God can remember me and send a stranger to wipe away my tears for years he will also remember u through this blog IJN Amen
ReplyDeleteAlloy i jus like u dont know why?drop ur acc details .dont worry .stay strong
ReplyDeleteIn as much as I'm kindhearted I don't want to fall mugu cos it'll really put me off helping ppl from this blog . Let's follow him up . A bv that will be appointed to monitor his efforts eg renting the shop ,verifying the story from his aunt . Name of the shop ..location etc . Y'all know how to do cid work . It'll be unfair and a big sin for me to release my hard earned cash for a story that is unverified. With proper verification I will support if not I'm out .
ReplyDeleteI cried reading poster 1 narrative. My daughter is in an abusive relationship also. When i advised her to leave, she cut off from ne. I am totally helpless as she has tied herself to a man who beats and slaps her when they quarrell over money. I never believed my daughter could get herself into this kind of situation. She is a beautiful girl who had lots of self confidence. Slowly she is becoming a shadow of herself having depression and anxieties which her boyfriend and family say i am responsible for. I wonder if i am responsible for depressing my daughter, will beating from her boyfriend help? I have my God to cry out to because this is not what I prayed for my daughter. I feel for poster 1. Give your friend links on domestic violence. It wl help. Since she is not married yet, there is still hope. My own daughter has gone to tie the knot on her own. But i know the God I serve is alive.
ReplyDeleteYour story about your daughter is really touching. Do continue to pray for her. If you have a prayer partner get together in agreement concerning her. Also leave the line of communication between you two open. You sound very loving. Always let her know you love her no matter what.
DeleteThis world is full of wicked people @Poster 2,God will see u through. Help is on the way.
ReplyDeleteANON 15:19 GOD BLESS YOU!
ReplyDeletePOSTER 2, AS MUCH AS YOUR STORY BRING TEARS TO LOT OF PEOPLE HERE, SORRY BUT I AM NOT MOVED, NOT AN INCH!
HOW CAN YOU NOT SAVE FOR ALL THOSE YEARS? WERE YOU NOT GETTING PAID? DID YOU HAVE ANY FORM OF AGREEMENT WITH THE WOMAN? SHE GIVES YOU 150K AND YOU ARE CALLING IT "JUST"? SO YOU WANTED HER TO GIVE YOU ALL HER SHOPS? YOU ARE LOOKING FOR PITY AND YOU EVEN PRETEND TO BE THE NICE GUY OF WHICH YOU ARE REALLY NOT...
YOU ARE A VERY BIG STUPID FOOL, NO WONDER YOUR PARENTS ARE ANGRY WITH YOU. SAVING DOES NOT MEAN STEALING FROM SOMEONE...
The way people curse out other people on this blog, you would think they know for sure! Its a thing of choice, if you feel you are not convinced enough to support the said "Alloy", move over and let the ones that are convinced help out. What do you gain trying to play CIA btw?
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