Chronicle of Blog Visitor Narratives.

Narrative number one,are you for real?I am like huh and my mouth is hanging loose.

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

AVOIDING PREMARITAL SEX

Good day Mrs Korkus.God bless you a billion for all the good jobs you are doing.

I need help on two problems.I'm 28,a yoruba (Ondo) while my babe is 24,ibo(Imo). We met 2013 and planning marriage this year.I love my woman whole heartedly.I am over 100% satisfied with her.

We are both convinced of our relationship and marriage.The problem we

have is that as serious partners,we engage in sex once in a while,which we know is wrong.We have tried reducing seeing periods,most times we see,we are indoors (We individually don't mix with people like that And love to be alone) Infact,mine is worse you can lock me up in a room for one week,just be giving me food,water,phone to browse Sdk,Books to read...ma wa alright.

So,we cuddle a lot and when the feeling takes over us,hian!

At times,i don't want it,but she will be in the mood as if one spirit entered her

and me on the other hand,will not like her to be feeling bad if i turn

her down.So,we will just do it.

Same thing with her also,she would have vowed no sex till marriage and be working on it.But at times i could be depressed or unhappy becos i'm currently not working but have money stocked in few investments.Like i'm seriously searching for a good job.So she will just advise me,cuddle me,and give in again...And fian!!depression disappears.

She will be like ''i have given you your medicine'' haaaaaaa!! and I can last like madt.I don't know where the energy comes from.But seriously,we don't like this.It's not helping our spiritual lives.From the look of things,i'm vulnerable/weaker than her.Please help me on how to avoid depression(my BP is high) and stop premarital sex.I don't want  anything that will cheapen her self

worth.She is priceless to me.

And the other problem is,that my babe does not allow me to use Condom.She said that she prefers it naturally.And me,i'm scared of unwanted pregnancy more than Boko Haram.I will rather die than allow any lady get pregnant for me OUT OF MARRIAGE...my babe does not care.

I have talked to her about this,she will promise we will never have sex again.But

once we are in the mood,i'm a bit relaxed and calculative.I will struggle

to bring out a condom,she would look at me with one face like that and Ten/Fifteen minutes later,she wil remove it and be riding like deriz no tomorrow.I still last on and on[40/45 mins] depending...until i can't control my pc muscles anymore.And i do my best not to pour inside her.But at times,i just can't help it

My babe will not do anything.Hours or a day later,i will be

the one to ask if she has taken care of herself.Her answers are always

''No,i have forgotten''.This gets me angry sometimes.

Last year April,she was 4weeks pregnant.I was frustrated,confused and

devastated.I spoke to my nurse and she helped.I became sick and

disappointed in myself that i could terminate a forming life bcos i

was not ready.She was the one who encouraged me.

After that,anytime we have sex again,i ensure she uses pill ''if i

release''.Though i hate using of pills bcos of side effects.

So,Please advise me on how to totally stop it (IT IS NOT FREQUENT) and

if we eventually do,just saying,how do i avoid preggy ish without pill

since my lady will not allow me to use Condom,But i just wish we can

stop this.

I love my babe all the ways

OLAWALE B.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
DEALING WITH 'OGUN IDILE' PROPHECY

I am in love with a guy presently, we dated in the past, broke up but never left each others lives, talking about coming together now.

 i will be 28 in some weeks time, we connect so well, everyone around me says he's the one and i have peace of mind about him.

The problem now is, my mum went to some pastors and they said that we can't be together because there are some issues in his family that i can't handle, in yoruba it's called "Ogun Idile".i have been heart broken over this matter. we love each other so much,he believes in me and he's one of my great support system.

 Mum wants me to forget about him but i can't.i need your advice and that of Bvs, on what to do.



What is ogun idile and what are the implications?I am sorry i cannot help here.let me sit and read comments from those who know or have been there.