You have met the man of your dreams but he is yet to put a ring on it?.....would you put a ring on it?
Would you get down on your knees woman and ask Bae to marry you?lets call it ''wife-ing'' bae but still letting him be the man.
Would you?...hmmmmm.
I would not go down on my knees but if all the signals are right,i would say
''hey bae,why dont we put a ring on it?.I bought the ring already''..lol
hmmmm!!
ReplyDeleteJust passing by!!!
DeleteI can't...but some ladies do that
DeleteAbbi no b d thing wen @Jennifer polo daughter do be that?.... I dey hear am for we yard say na she buy that ring give d guy to propose make dem snap am for internet
OK....I wish everyone good luck and I pray they exercise patience when d man start mid behaving
@Galore
NO!!!
DeleteStella u don cray, no be only I bought d ring already
DeleteSo if I propose as the lady, will I also pay the bride price?
DeleteHELL NO!
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It has been written
ReplyDeleteThat 2000 women wil pursue one man and say...pls me bear ur name.
DeleteChaai..
Each time I read that passage of the bBible....I do reject it with everything in me
@Galore
D ladies will start to quote the bible now, but when it comes being the side chicks or dating a married man d bible is a NO NO.
DeleteIt was addressing the height of promiscuity that would be seen in the last days and this act would be indulged by the unbelievers
DeleteContinue ooooo!!!!
Hell no
ReplyDeleteHere is my decision..if you can't pay my groom-price..then no marriage..and if no babe in naija want to..indian trip is the next..must it be man every time? If you are interesting contact stella asap, stella will contact..ahahhahahaha#theprison
DeleteSon of Solomon
Interested*
DeleteI would not!!!!!!! Call me old fashioned, I don't care
ReplyDeleteBible says he who find with a wife, not she who findeth a husband
If I'm good enough !!! He should put the ring on it, I'm the one to decide Yes or NO, cos he found me.
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My dear am so old fashioned too, why look desperate by proposing instead. With some guys now that they can give excuse with any little thing. Even this online dating sef am abit skeptical not to now talk of being so bold to say 'o baby will u pls marry me'. Mba o.*i cantfitshout.
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Sabo! Sabo! How your dey?
Delete@iphie love I dey ooo.
DeleteWhere u one of the people that
Watched the Yoruba movie titled
Maami !!!
Where is Irene B sef
Mba nu. E go hard.
ReplyDeleteTrue true, e go hard.
DeleteIf I have to put a ring on his finger the he better be ready to play wifey duties eg look after me and the kids and not expect that respect your man drama from me because he didn't earn it. Period.
ReplyDeletelolz jzt passing by
DeleteLet me read the lady's comment, sipping my zobo
ReplyDeleteNO
ReplyDeleteAbbi.... When we are not in India......this is Nigeria were culture is respected
Delete@Galore
Nooooooooooooo
DeleteI won't even ask a man out not to talk of proposing to him.
If his not man enough to put a ring on it,his not man enough for me.
@Galore GBAM!
DeleteWhich culture do U have? Everything culture culture.... No culture instituted marriage, God did.....it's the man,s nature to seek a wife and build a home so if a woman initiates it, it takes away self esteem from the man over a period of time..while I cannot judge, if a woman proposes just to make the man wake up and be responsible, the woman should be wise enough to know where to let him be a man....I.e Don't take over his responsibility of a provider for the famility..meet him halfway but if he doesn't work hard to take care of his familiy then u manage what he provides....
DeleteWalking up to a fine boy and starting a conversation is the farthest I can go. I'll even still make it look like the conversation was his idea! Propose ko!
DeleteNo ma'am, would never do this! This stunt has a great potential of coming back to bite the lady in the behind! Lai lai!
ReplyDeleteI'd rather go about it more subtly, such that bae would be absolutely convinced it was all his idea. Yeah, that's how we roll!
No way
DeleteWould be ashame to put a ring. Will just pray hard for him to. Let him not say later that I was the one that ask him to marry him.
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
Lmaoo... Awkward. Abeg make men continue the proposing.....
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Lmao is this for real or a movie??its not in our culture tho in Nigeria but it happens in some parts of India.
ReplyDelete#abbytohxoft
Small girl wetin you dey find for here
DeleteHey!! Mba nu!!! Beg man to marry me? I'm old school like that o! I would subtly and cunningly ask to know where his mind is at, but not come out openly like that to ask. Alu!!
ReplyDeleteI can't deal,flip hair and walk away
ReplyDelete****LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*****
Hell no. That would spell 'desperation'. Let him MARRY you.
ReplyDeleteSo not proper to be d woman proposing to the man.
Ko da o.
Nothing like "pls honey give me 2days to pray about it". Wink-Wink.
Goodmorning everyone.
Na, I would look out for option 2
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ReplyDeleteHahahah. This one serious o.
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I won't oo. Am very traditional. Infact too traditional sef, if I notice a guy fancying me I go wan mk ground open swallow me. Am too shy *covers face*
ReplyDeleteAbeg I no go fit is not ladylike. Even the Bible never recovered a woman marring a man may God help this generation I will wait for him to propose and put a ring in my finger.
ReplyDeleteHei hei. I would not do it o but I will press all d pressing buttons
ReplyDeleteThat's rubbish but most Raw bitch do it everyday, not kneeling but pleading+pestering.
ReplyDelete#Abeeeeg_Karashikah
Yeah that's me but this year I'm gonna stop pestering.
DeleteHmmn .. orisirisi ..there are laws and there are principles...let God's inspiration guide you rather than man's education..it is well.
ReplyDeleteI doubt if I'll ever do this cos when the man starts misbehaving, he might turn around and say you twisted his arms into marriage.
ReplyDeleteI mean, looking at this picture, what else can the man say? It's a no, no for me.
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Why propose to an able bodied full fledged man. I dey craze? Except he's Dangote or Alakija's son, then an exception can occur.
ReplyDeleteIt is not morally,spiritually,traditionally right. They are other subtle ways of a girl proposing to a man like cooking, cleaning, getting preg, confronting,etc
ReplyDeleteCooking, cleaning, getting pregnant?????
DeleteOdiegwu.
Abeg!!! m proudly African n cant do dat....
ReplyDeleteI wud rather wait...
My one cent...
Lol...I concur wif u stella
ReplyDeleteNope
ReplyDeleteImpossicant!
ReplyDeleteWhy not! I would head straight to Van Cleefs and Arpels, buy the ring and put it on my own finger, yeah the right hand.
ReplyDeleteI kinda think women should not buy the ring but nudge the guy in question. Let's keep it traditional.
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I can't get dwn on my knee to proose...I will jst b givin u hints....still looking for a temporary job enugu..can any1 help??
ReplyDeletePeople see it absurd cos it's the man that puts a ring on it in this part of our world...I wouldn't tho I only wish.If we all can,am sure majority of us would have!!!
ReplyDeleteI wouldnt put a ring on it.
ReplyDeleteNo Frigging way!
No ways man. Pride won't let me. Besides I'm too traditional for that. I remember sometime in my 200L in school I had a big crush on a guy in 400L in my department.
ReplyDeleteNonso. He was tall dark and handsome. The big attraction for me was his quiet eyes. He had those kind of eyes that hold so much meaning in their gaze.
I made the mistake of telling my friend about it. Wild child. She got me all the info I needed to hook the guy. The best part was he didn't have a girlfriend and the boy was born into wealth. Chai my eyes sabi better thing.
She told me he goes to Geography Block to read at night. Omo I turned efico levels begin dey carry book to read every night. Waiting for Nonso to notice me. My friend came to check on my progress and when I told her how slow I had been within minutes she got her contacts and landed me Non o's phone number. I called the number and when he picks liver go fail me.
My chance came one night while in the classroom reading a guy that slept off while reading let out a big fart. The stench was epic and we all had to run out from the classroom. There I bumped into Nonso and we got talking. Those few minutes were magical for me. Such an intelligent chap. I tried to be friends with him but he was always busy with his projects. My friend urged me to go ahead and tell him how I feel. I said God forbid. I can only nudge him in the right direction till he picks my scent. As the bobo no gree pick scent I had to move on to the next.
And the next one picked the scent. I got him to ask me out and it was two years of love and bliss. I still remain his best friend even though we are both married to different people.
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahah!!
DeleteChai Nonso was dullin menn!
I remember my first ever crush,all my friends in boarding school knew about him! And no,we are not best friends.lol..i think his best friend should be his wife biko! Mine is my bobo!!
Hahaha Stella, well I wouldn't do that, men are designed to hunt and chase, call me old sch if u like....
ReplyDeleteY not, I can do it, bt it will b indoor
ReplyDeleteMethinks, Proposition should be made by the man. As a lady I won't be the one suggesting or initiating the proposal, what happened to him? doesn't he want me for keeps? The thought of another man being with me, driving him nuts? Ladies who do this, appear to be desperate, and sometime along the line, in some circumstances, when challenges occur, some men might use it against the woman. Telling her, " After all you are the one who proposed to me, I didn't want to marry you." Ladies, your dignity is important, let the man do his job. If he doesn't pop the question, he doesn't know what he wants. If he doesn't know what he wants, then he's still a boy and not a man. Now the question is "do you want to marry a boy or a man?" The ball is in your court. Your choice.
ReplyDeleteYes o stella, in a coded way I would hint it! We ladies know how to hint it sha!
ReplyDeleteI won't. Neither will I buy a ring... hehe
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with ur method on dis one stella before you will plan to surpirise the guy and end up surprising yourself.
ReplyDeleteIt would have been really cool if a woman could be allowed to do this in a very sincere relationship in which she's 100% sure of her man's love and commitment but then society, especially the African one doesn't allow this.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahaha @ I bought d ring already. Oriegwu.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm in Nigeria what would the man say
ReplyDeleteDunno if this will work
I can't oh!
ReplyDeleteGod forbid
ReplyDeleteHahahaha nibo! Let him do it cos na so bible talk am. He that finds not she that finds. If you put the ring on it as a lady the get ready to pay your bride price and every every that comes with it.
ReplyDeleteMbakwa... I won't put a ring on it ooooo... Nooooo
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday sweetie. God bless your new age.
DeleteHappy birthday to you, today Almighty God will finish d good work, he has started in ur life. Amen.
DeleteHappy birthday dearie..
DeleteStay blessed!!
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DeleteNever. I would let him know it's time he puts a ring on my finger.
ReplyDeleteI will not o. African men will always use it against you. Let the man do his thing, it's better when the man proposes. Even the bible supports it "the man will leave his parents and CLEAVE unto the wife". If the man wants me let him put the ring on ma finger joor. I think only desperate ladies will do that.
ReplyDeleteStellahipsy, I agree with you on that abeg.
ReplyDeleteI can say/do some funny things but WILL NEVER go on my knees to beg a man to marry me. *Straight face*
I 'husband' am, I will never hear the last of that at the slightest fight we have in that house. It will even be impossible to allow him be in charge seeing that I took charge of the situation. Other ways of getting the ring, through side talks yeah, but not going out straight to do the man's duty.
ReplyDeleteHahhahahahahha,u know.na so u go pet him all d days of ur life.Ehen na....as per u be man of d house and he,d bebe....LMAO
DeleteNo
ReplyDelete*Rmn blessed*
Haba Stella, the bible says He who finds a wife finds a good thing...not he who finds a hubby o!
ReplyDelete#Miss Kay#
Haba Stella, the bible says He who finds a wife finds a good thing...not he who finds a hubby o!
ReplyDelete#Miss Kay#
D ladies will start to quote the bible now, but when it comes being the side chicks or dating a married man d bible is a NO NO.
DeleteNEVER!!!...Hian,my pride won't let me oooo. A man shld chase me and make all d efforts to "wife' me...I no fit abeg even if I have all the "ugliness in d world.
ReplyDeleteI even made bae to go on 2 knees wen he proposed.
If a woman proposes to a man,dt man will neva respect her...it's like reversing roles
#ChySweery
NEVER!!!...Hian,my pride won't let me oooo. A man shld chase me and make all d efforts to "wife' me...I no fit abeg even if I have all the "ugliness in d world.
ReplyDeleteI even made bae to go on 2 knees wen he proposed.
If a woman proposes to a man,dt man will neva respect her...it's like reversing roles
#ChySweery
I can't do that!
ReplyDeleteAs a guy, I would run the way that babe was scampering from her stalker in the other post
ReplyDeleteFirst Class
ReplyDeleteLinda wan use that Polo boss daughter way oh.
For me i wud nver do dat.
I wouldn't dare .if he doesn't,another will
ReplyDeleteHahahahahaha
ReplyDeleteHmmm, that kind putting of ring. It must be in the privacy of his bedroom then. Cos who knows if you have been a side chick all this while, and he just kpoks you in the presence of everyone with a big no. Abasi akan o.
ReplyDeletenah! our naija ladies can't put a ring on it oo, the least dem fit do only if the thing don hook them for neck na to point the guy to that direction, our girls wey go see bobo wey dem love but they will be forming " am the lady, let him approach me , if i do he will think am cheap.."" blah blah blah , abeg aunty stella our ladies still live in the 18th century jare, who dash monkey banana??
ReplyDeletenah! our naija ladies can't put a ring on it oo, the least dem fit do only if the thing don hook them for neck na to point the guy to that direction, our girls wey go see bobo wey dem love but they will be forming " am the lady, let him approach me , if i do he will think am cheap.."" blah blah blah , abeg aunty stella our ladies still live in the 18th century jare, who dash monkey banana??
ReplyDeleteBrother Paul,Aunty Stella again? Stella take note o,call him His royal majesty,Prince Paul..
DeleteH A R M L E S S
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Ofcos i Will . Bonjour
ReplyDeleteBLOG ANALYSER: it is a no no in Africa! U can only insinuate and instigate the quick delivery of the ring to ur hand.
ReplyDeleteNo I won't....Just like you said if I know he's ready for marriage, financially, emotionally, "maturedly" and otherwise, I would hint it!
ReplyDeleteMy pride wont let me even if i want to...lol...pride is a stupid thing! i guess if a relationship is heading somewhr reasonable or not...handwriting are always there for all to see... except u r not really ready to c what is there.. it is well.
ReplyDeleteSweerie,it is not pride...we call it self confidence..lol
DeleteHahahahaha.... no liver for this kind stunt, but I will ask you "nna" when are you going to see my parents - Oge na ga ooo
ReplyDeletelol
ReplyDeleteNever!!!!!
put ring ke
I think it's the man that is suppose to do it not the other way round,but if a girl propose to me fine i will accept it!its not common in our culture
ReplyDeleteHeck No! No matter hw d luv wan Kill me, proposing n marriage has 2 b his idea. Old Fashioned Romantic! Yup
ReplyDeleteI don't think I can do this. my pride won't let me.
ReplyDeletenooooooooooooo stella,it wouldn't feel right jor!
ReplyDeleteThis is 9ja and not Indian,if you do, your name go enter guinness book of record.
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteI actually did once when i was dating a guy that took him a century to do d right thing, and his reply was stupid, story for another day. Toh cut Torry short i met an old flame who wanted marry, i called baby boy to tell him, and his reply was are serious, not knowing sey him get side chick wey him dey fire. Na so him begin beg. Fast forward still married to my DH for 12yrs with 3 lovely kids. Pls Stella am going anon on these 'cos of my friends wey i son introduce your blog to.
ReplyDeleteOga ohh. I can never propose. Instead, I'll drop hints. If he refuses to cooperate, omor na to match accelerator. Time and energy ibangha to waste anymore.
ReplyDeleteOyibo
I would never ever.
ReplyDeleteSo he will use me to do yanga later in life
Nonsense
Nah nah nah ,I can't ask him.if he feels u r d one for him,he will put a ring on it,I don't need to remind him.
ReplyDelete#feeling sexy and young#
I can't do any of the above.
ReplyDeleteBuy which ring already. SDK don't come and teach ladies how to be desperate here oh, ahan! A few of my male friends whose babe's got the ring themselves and wore never failed to tell me "she got it herself o". No No!
ReplyDeleteNot good for a lady to do dat cos the man will think she is desperate. Via BB bold1
ReplyDeleteSo that tomorrow the man would say, you forced him to marry you.
ReplyDeleteLet him do the wife - ing, and propose joor.
Wat rubbish....for wat! I can't do this,na man go marry me not the other way round ..any woman who does this has lost her self esteem to be precise...the only tyn I can do or say is "Bae I wanna grow old with u,I want u as d father of my kids"..I let him knw my intentions of making a great wife to him nd den the rest is up to him...on my knees...I never craze reach dat level...desperado do this....even Mary never knelt down for Joseph
ReplyDeleteWill give u pointers, but will never put a ring on it! #i'mtooproudjoor#
ReplyDelete*let the man be the man*
I used to be old school before this is the 21st century. Girls have taken things up the notch. See Jeni obayuwana bought her self a man, Range Rover and Flat in JBR and that @sandrah1025 on Instagram also bought her way to her man's heart by asking him out. He proposed after four years. So girls wisen up..mountain has to come to Mohammad ni.
ReplyDeleteChoi! Stella, u wan kill person?
ReplyDeletestella if he's a white dude yes,but if na black nigger mbakwa.. If not he will tell ur children children u beg him to wife u.. Golden princess frm kebbi
ReplyDeleteBuhahahahhahahaa! I will not o...for wetin na?
ReplyDeleteI will never ever try dat in dis life or in d life to come,Isaiah 4:1 can never be fulfilled in my life.
ReplyDeleteNaija guys? God forbid bad thing. Even d one that puts a ring on it without being forced still dey misbehave.
ReplyDeleteIf you're dating dis dude n u feel it's ok for him to put a ring on it and ring is not forthcoming, pls take a long walk. Namsense!
I can never propose to any man because its not in a woman's place to do such!If I date a guy for a long time(which I wouldn't do)and he is yet to propose to me,I can come up with a plan to know if he truly wants to marry me.Here's what I would do.
ReplyDeleteI will give him a hot f**k in the night and wake him up early in the morning.I will pretend to be depressed and of course he would ask me what the problem is,I will tell him that my mum is mounting so much pressure on me to get married and I am not getting any younger!I will watch and listen to how he will react.If he says " sorry darling,don't listen to your mum,that's how all mothers are,with time she will stop,your own husband will come in God's time which is always the best",hian,I will know that he is not serious and I will dump him and move on.If he says "my love,let us go and see your parents and fix a date for our wedding,you know I love you and I would want us to upgrade from bf/gf to man and wife",then I will give him a hotter f**k and know that he is truly serious!*winks*
Your 21? Right?
DeleteBwahahahahahahaha stella u be real clown ooo......
ReplyDeleteI can and will never propose to any man.
Na dat one my people dey call *OmenaEnu*
As in eh,no be small Omena Enu!
DeleteIf ur Umunna should hear dis one eh,hmmmm.....na taboo for them o.
and u know how they are,they wil say it's "Alu" and to start appeasing all the Appeasable....hahhahaha
I can never propose to any man because its not in a woman's place to do such!If I date a guy for a long time(which I wouldn't do)and he is yet to propose to me,I can come up with a plan to know if he truly wants to marry me.Here's what I would do.
ReplyDeleteI will give him a hot f**k in the night and wake him up early in the morning.I will pretend to be depressed and of course he would ask me what the problem is,I will tell him that my mum is mounting so much pressure on me to get married and I am not getting any younger!I will watch and listen to how he will react.If he says " sorry darling,don't listen to your mum,that's how all mothers are,with time she will stop,your own husband will come in God's time which is always the best",hian,I will know that he is not serious and I will dump him and move on.If he says "my love,let us go and see your parents and fix a date for our wedding,you know I love you and I would want us to upgrade from bf/gf to man and wife",then I will give him a hotter f**k and know that he is truly serious!*winks*
Lol..i can't try it oh..lailai no matter d love I av fr d guy.
ReplyDeleteNo bloody way!!! I am old school, a man needs,to get down on his knees and ask. This just screams desperation.
ReplyDeleteBuy ring ke? You just killed the mojo right there. I'll ask him to go to the jewelry shop with me or mall with me and next next thing we are in the ring section looking at engagement rings and I'm dropping hints about the style and cut that I want. Hopefully he'll go back and buy the right one.
ReplyDeleteLol ! Stella no go kill me with laugh ooo. I would only give dropping signs nut won't do the asking oooo
ReplyDeleteMake I sit down they read comments
ReplyDeleteOver to the ladies.
ReplyDeleteHian! I can't ooo! Will wait till my man pops d question
ReplyDeleteLamash *y all welcome me as I will b hia 4 2015*
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Deletethis one go hard oh ,hmmm,but i still think is not proper for a woman to put a ring on it .A man should ask for woman s hands in marriage properly that is the law of nature.
ReplyDeleteMy bootylycious diva, hope you are good? Happy new year to you my dear friend...
DeleteWomen would now tell u it is not done. Well, there is always a first time
ReplyDeleteI'm in Love with a married man so I don't know if it's so wise to propose to him. This man is one of the most gorgeous, caring and generous man and for the life of me I can't stop thinking about him. I know there's no space for me but Mr Davi...... I love you.
ReplyDeleteHey dear,I won't judge you for loving a married man cos its your life and you are happy with him.But you can't propose to him na,chop your own and allow his wife to enjoy the rest.Your own husband will come someday but don't get angry when another girl starts doing what you are doing right now.na so life be.*hugs*
Delete@juicy bebe true talk jare
DeleteMost generous,generous man abi?keep repeating generous man hundred times!
DeleteDon't come here and tell us how his wife used you to have children ooh..shebi you are not under jazz? Sho ti gbo? Feel free to follow me around under anon. *in Sisi eko's voissee*
Juicy bebe...this hugs your sharing,diaris God ooh..lolz,i read your gist about your rendezvous....hilarious but I fear you ooh
Married men=Crossed cheque, bounced and somersaulting cheque
DeleteThey were existing when you were on this earth, it was for a reason they didn't cross path with you as bachelor, so why the interest in belching after the food don digest go
I can't do d kneeling thing
ReplyDeleteimpossible!!!,small time now yawa go shele and he will be like you know i never really wanted this or he kukuma outrightly reject the ring
ReplyDelete.....let him get the ring if he wants a wife no desperations please ladies..the euphoria is gonna fizzle out sooner or later
I can't, not a party to that
ReplyDeleteAct of a Desperado woman
Bible say he that find not she *my 10 Kobo*
May I sit down read comments *sipping my zobo with ......*
E go hard o. No I can't abeg too old school to try that
ReplyDeleteIf he hasn't put a ring on it, it must be for a reason. The time might seem right to the lady buy not to the guy, therefore, exercise patience. Don't go "I bought the ring already..." coz marital life no be by wedding ring.
ReplyDeleteAs in ehn
DeleteAnybody that did these in Nigeria will be regard as a desperado
ReplyDeleteI don't think I can oooo.. Gosh I missed SDK
ReplyDeleteI don't think I can oooo.. Gosh I missed SDK
ReplyDeleteI can not fit ooooo,Its unafrican.But Oyibo can fit do it.Its called forcefully possesing your possession, hahaha.Uwa bu nke onye.
ReplyDeleteNEVER. ..
ReplyDeleteI can not fit ooooo,Its unafrican.But Oyibo can fit do it.Its called forcefully possesing your possession, hahaha.Uwa bu nke onye.
ReplyDeleteMost Men that are looking for reason to misbehave wil love this because its like one setting trap for oneself
ReplyDeleteSome of those ladies that tried it are either braving the conseqences or dying in it...
Even oyibo's' are careful now not to talk of Naija men.... with all the narratives we see here on d blog... Any lady that tries it is on a looooonnnngggg thing ....
****Ihe a na-eme adiro easy****
God pls don't put me in a condition dat ll push me to ask a man to mari me o....choi!
ReplyDeleteAmen
DeleteHmmn, things are happening,Yours sdkly dazzlinglizzy
ReplyDeleteWhose pix is dat abeg
ReplyDeleteYes I will
ReplyDeleteI would totally ask a guy out if I like him but to go down on my kneels and ask him to marry him with a ring doesn't make sense tho! But what I could do is tell him is ask him to propose *shinesteeth*
ReplyDeleteHaba, for wetin? My believe is that the man should put da ring on it. The man should struggle to get his feet on the ground by being able to cater for his family. He should look for, pursue, & has the burden to convince the lady to marry him. Na so God design am. God is the creator of the Institution of Marriage.
ReplyDeleteThis one go hard o.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahah...funny oh
ReplyDeleteDon't tink I can do dat,but if it can work for someone else,y not?
ReplyDeleteDon't tink I can do dat,but if it can work for someone else,y not?
ReplyDeleteIt will look unusual. Will d guy blush nd say yes. I wouldn't want to b in dat scenario
ReplyDeleteThat's acting cray cray!!Naija guys will treat u like bullshit if u try dat!!!!I can't even dream of doing that tufia
ReplyDeleteSad but true, that Nigerian men may actually treat the women roughly who show such desperation and throw away their dignity& self respect.
DeleteI can if the price is right.
ReplyDeleteThat's kehinde ake, and his sdk us base lover.lady gaga
ReplyDeleteNO i can't do that, maybe i am old fashioned when it comes to things like that.
ReplyDeleteEven after the guy said he loves you, promised you heaven and earth if you agree to marry him and finally went ahead to marry him, he still changed after few years of marriage and cheated on you several times with different women. If he did all these after professing love to you and marrying you, what cant he do to you or wont he do to you when you decide to 'marry' him instead. I wont try such a thing oo. If a guy does not come out himself to put a ring on it, I wont dare take the risk by putting the ring on it myself. A guy might be into you but might not be enthused about the idea of marriage. For me, its this rule "no matter how beautifully a chicken or hen dances, the eagle will never like or appreciate it". So wait for him to put the ring on it himself, else walk if hes delaying you.
ReplyDeleteNever, it's not in our culture to do that na...make i siddon read comments
ReplyDeleteNope Stella, I won't do that but if am truly into the guy, I will tease him and even tell him stories of how other guys are disturbing me out there just to know if he's truly serious but if that fails I will take a walk mehn. But to prose, I will never do that. Its unbiblical. Shikina!
ReplyDeleteChilom
I won't. It's his job....lol.
ReplyDeleteI can never ever entertain such in my mind, talk of more of doing it. Abeg its a hell no for me.
ReplyDeleteMy sweet sister,i don't think you owe anyone explanations hun! Who is ugly? What is the definition of an ugly person? I know Ezenwanyi started the trouble by posting that link here,but mischievous people just started dropping nasty anonymous comments which am glad you ignored..cheer up hunnie...nobody can bring you down,ever!
ReplyDeleteGimme the kiss lemme go and deliver to Ezenwanyi...plus hugs too....love you both!
Mba kwa!
ReplyDeleteI can't, in fact, I won't. There's no way I'm going to propose to a man to marry me. No way
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ReplyDeleteSuch depts of desperation can pursue a man
DeleteOk, I've heard all you ladies. So what happens to this statement of yours ''what a man can do, a woman can do it better?''
ReplyDeleteLadies please, don't chose what you can do better than a man.
At times, you might need to convince him - like we do most times. That you are an item.
If you've found him why let him doubt you, when you could convince him.
May we not make our spouse our date and vice verser. Why choose the Bible verses that speaks well of you and ignore those that critically assess your failures.
Hmmmm, propose to a man? I think is not too good for a lady to do that. It may not have negative effect immediately, but will surely have in the future. A A
ReplyDeleteErm Aunty Stella. Ha. Sorry... Stell... Ehm ehm Stella. Oohhh. See, me I can't call 'agbalagba' by name o. Please helep me tell 'Corrector'. me I can't call you by name o. My daddy will beat me.
ReplyDeleteOn top this matter. Itz for the ladies... I sit around the corner and sip my cold kunu while I read comments.
Lol@my daddy will beat me
DeleteNever na only desperation fit make my head mumu propose.
ReplyDeleteI zeroed in on a guy like a business deal. As there was competition and i had to act fast. Although I got the guy this affected my self esteem and I didn't know if he cared. Obviously he did take advantage of me na. choi I really was disrespectful to my self. Now I know my value.
No guy will see my apartment, no guy will taste my cooking, no guy will even get a proposal from me mtchewww life has no guarantees..
Self pride... know the meaning.
I cant do, its kinda embarrasing, lemme seek my friend' s opinion @miss karex......lol
ReplyDeleteOliviasilk your comments are touching,dont forget you called Ezenwanyi out first.
ReplyDeleteXOxo mystery Olasegun says hi.
Ezenwanyi is just a big fool. Gosh! So annoying. N some ppl will be hailing her. Everyday, my hubby is rich. Shebi there is a charity org on this blog that sent cake to a little girl? What has she done on this blog. Always sounding negative and uncouth. Ezenwanyi no get work and she's not in a happy home. That is my perception. You cant be happy and be so bitter at the same time.
ReplyDeleteCan she create a human being . She dey call you ugly. Wey her own picture? Ezenwanyi is one sad bitch!
all these comments about Jennifer and sandrah.. I don't blame them.
ReplyDeleteLiberal society men and their egos they don't want to take responsibility. Why would they not be asked in marriage.
when all these rules to single women how to keep a man. mtcheww.. don't starve him food wise and sex wise, be sexy and so on.. Yet the spirit of LUST IS still at large!
so who is doing all the work.. in short the women.
they tot by spreading the lies that there shortage of men and fear about being single..
The things Exctera says in his write ups are not fiction but inspiration from the truth. All these rich women married to men.
Poverty mindset is an evil thing.
Men think they are satisfying themselves by cutting their own dick with their rules.
I wouldn't propose to a guy. nor hint him.. Where did he think the relationship was going to?
please no sex before marriage it's a long haul journey. see all these desperado men some turning psycho.. hahaha Men don't know how to handle rejection. I wonder why? This isn't a rhetorical question but a sarcastic one.
Unfortunately there are good men which is rare and might fall under this generalization.
God help us all
Na wa for this generation where only few were taught or know what it means to be a man!
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