PROBLEM NUBMER ONE
WORRIED ABOUT GETTING PREGNANT
Hi Stella,
I hope this mail meets you well.
Please I need advice from my fellow blog visitors/In house Doctors. I got married in April 2014 and I can say I am having a good time but the issue I have is the delay in conception.
I got married as a virgin. I was ovulating very well before my wedding (I had abdominal pains and mucus) , since after my wedding, the mucus disappeared fiam! I use ovulation strip and it's always negative and when I use pregnancy strip, it's still negative.
Whenever I have sex with DH, the sperm doesn't go inside. I usually hang my leg but once I stand up, the stuff pours out.
I have gone to a General hospital to see a gynaecologist but the consultants say I have to be in marriage for a year before I could see the gynaecologist. My period has not been regular (sometimes 28 days cycle and of recent 30 days cycle). I started taking Folic acids and some vitamins after some researches.
Please I need advice on what to do. Are there people that have this problem? Please help!
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Maybe its because you've just been disvirgined...take lots of vitamins and antibiotic...could be an infection.
ReplyDeleteI think you should go to a private hospital to see a gynaecologist, who makes the rule about when to see one in all these government hospital? I also think you should take it easy and not be too anxious, I'm sure God will sort you out soonest. Goodluck
DeleteEat lots of vegetables and also take sour sop...don't know if I got d spellibg right
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Just go to another gynaecologist in a private Hospital but still its so so early to worry. u need to be more relax. Am sure u r so worry and want to get preggy. for the pain and mucus it might be infection or Not. Dr Kehinde, The General's Wife over to you two and the other Doctors in the House
DeleteThat is bcos infertility can't be diagnosed until after a year
DeleteMake ur research b4 lashing out
I cant deal.. some people are so ignorant. The abdominal pain(mid cycle pain) and mucus are signs of ovulation not infection and before a diagnosis of infertility can be made a couple should have spent one year of regular unprotected intercourse.. some people you lash out at her gynaecologist, do your research.. Nigerians just lack reading culture especially this generation
DeleteKpele..
DeleteMaybe u haven't been disvirgined properly, I used to experience the sperm leak when I initially got married. In the UK, u must have tried for 18months before being referred; well so my GP said but thank God I conceived before then.
DeleteSweetie, relax and enjoy sex with your hubby ok, your bundle of joy will come when you expect it the least, and if you are so bothered then go private. I wish you well......
Whether she goes to a private hospital or not, it just has to be at least one year of regular, unprorected sex with her partner before any diagnosis can be made. Make ur findings before coming to conclusions.
DeletePoster, ur anxiety wont help matters,so calm down. Most new brides behave like this.I was like that too,though i didnt wait for long before i got pregnant. Infact i got pregnant the same month i got married cos i missed my period d following month but that one month was like 100 yrs for me. I kept checking my body for changes(as if the change will happen immediately) and when it was time for my monthly flow,i could go to the toilet like 10 times within a minute to check if there was any blood stain.
But trust me, u dont need it. Anxiety is not good for you. I just hope you and ur hubby are getting it right in the bedroom since u said u got married as a virgin.
All the same, put ur mind at rest, enjoy sex with ur hubby and before you know it.....FIAM, the thing don enter. it is well!!!
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ReplyDeleteI have really missed u all, happy new year sdk blog family. Loads of love from the salt of the nation.
DeleteWinches n wizards @wrk!
DeleteI no sabi this one..
DeleteMake I read comments abeg..poster pele oo
Personally I don't think you should so worried, the more stressed out u are, the less likely u are to conceive. Enjoy urself and DH, be prayerful and everything will fall in2 place
ReplyDeleteSwit hat u don't ve a problem. U ve been looking at d ring places. Look up to Jesus, he is d one that blesses with children.
ReplyDeleteBabe Chilax! u'l have babies tire ok?!
ReplyDeleteKehinde has commented about semen dripping out after lovemaking here before...
ReplyDeleteI will like to read comments so I can send this link to my friend!
This section reminds me of the Doctors series on Mnet..hehehehe! Stella Stella
Goodmorning bvs,beautiful morning to you Swanky..how was your night dear?
It seems your husband has a problem with his sperm. Let him see a doctor. Period of 28-30 is still regular. Look for FertilAid for men/women. It boots fertility and does wonders on men with sperm problems. Good luck and Baby Dust.
ReplyDeleteC ur mouth! Do u know her husband? Did u run a SA on him?
DeleteIts normal immediately after Sex u just up almost immediately sperm will pour. I don't think your hubby has any issue. Just relax and enough sex to the fullest since you are new to the game. You will have your baby soon if only you relax and stop stressing your self. Pregnacy comes when you are more relaxed.
Delete@BlackBerry . You are an idiot. Are people not entitled to their opinions any more? Fool.
DeleteHaba BlackBerry, it's just ones contribution.
Delete@BlackBerry, that's very rude of you. Peoples opinions mustn't tally with yours all the time. I don't know why people like you think they own this blog.
DeleteBlackberry she's a Virgin she might not know if d foreman is watery , if she's experienced she would have known
DeleteShut up BlackBerry! From what the poster wrote it seems the husband has watery sperm. Must you comment under someone's post? See your mouth.
DeleteAnon you really don't need to comment 4times to get your point across. And while you are at it, could u try and be more civil and less uncouth?
Delete*if the sperm is watery
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ReplyDeleteRelax o, putting pressure on yourself won't help.
ReplyDeleteYou are a complete fool.
DeleteWho is this hiding under the cloak of anonymity to insult his/her betters? She isn't the cause of your problems so chill out.
DeleteShut up! Local girl. Ewu! Ewu! Ewu! Ewu!! Look at the name you bear. Who are. You better than?
DeleteAunty Stella pls i need your chair to sit down and read comment!gbam
ReplyDeleteSowie dear... God ll grant u n dh lovely kids...
ReplyDeleteDont stand up immediately after the deal..
Make read comments too Bcos my period is never regular. I took in first time without knowing sef. Some time is 37 days sometime it's 35/29. Na God ve pikin.
ReplyDeleteYou would get pregnant just be patient. Is it because am not married, people tend to want to get pregnant asa they get married. Why not enjoy yourselves first at least one year then start thinking of having kids. Is it an African or Nigerian mentality? Take your mind of it and you would miss your period. Ah! Remember it is HE who gives life that gives children.
ReplyDeleteYeah it's good to enjoy yourself but you also have to consider @ what age you get married cos your biological clock doesn't wait while you are 'enjoying yourselves'
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ReplyDeleteMay God touch you! I have been taking folic acid and multivitamins since God knows,I pray it doesn't have a side effect but makes me feel good. I'm not ttc nor I'm I married though
ReplyDeleteSame as me. Got married same month as you. The sperm just pours out. Iv been told its not safe for me to carry a baby cause I have fibroids in my uterus and need to do a surgery before I conceive. Otherwise I might loose the baby due to pressure from the fibroids. (Maybe fibroids won't let the sperm in ƪoƪ) No money for sugery now. #sigh. I will not shed tears. Going to table it at the Lord's feet. My help cometh from him. All the best and I hope you take in soon. Xxxxx
ReplyDeleteWho told u dat u can't get pregnant wit fibriod...big lie coz I got pregnant wit fibriod and ve a BBG..and d sperm dat pours is a sign of infection in u or ur husband
DeleteCast all your cares upon him,he cares...I love your spirit!
DeleteWe await your testimony dear....
Who told u dat u can't get pregnant wit fibriod...big lie coz I got pregnant wit fibriod and ve a BBG..and d sperm dat pours is a sign of infection in u or ur husband
DeleteWe have no infections dear. Clean as a whistle. I didn't say I can't get pregnant. Read again before u run your mouth.
Delete@ Xtinexx it worked for you does not mean it could work for others. I no of one lady I buy fruits twice otmr thrice she has concieve you will see hee belly very big and you haopy to see a Baby soon at the end of the day she goes to the hospital believing she will be back to the house with a Baby. No way Fibriod eats up the babies. its even too risk to birth a child with it. I heard the child at the end are usually so so tiny they cann't live. But people still birth their kids with it because of fear of Surgery. Its Well Dear.
DeleteDepends on d location of d fibroid,people generalise too much here,every situation can't be the same
DeleteIf everything is normal so what's d herbs for? Give ur advice and don't call other people liars
DeleteHmmm, DH shoukd go for sperm count test.
ReplyDeleteI got married in November.
And am worried. Already.
Lmao
Hmmmm
DeleteIs there a reason you are worried already?
Anxiety is not good for a woman looking to take in please
@ Iphie Dearie true
DeleteHello please relax ooo. Anxiety is a factor not good for those who want to get pregnant. @Poster relax, make sure u and DH have sex correctly. Read online about it. Most importantly trust God and relax it will come.
DeleteI suspect ur DH may be having a watery sperm,if not wat den explains d downward movement of his sperm? And u try nd relax ur body is jst getting aquinted wit sex, its a phase dat will wear out.. Jst rest and relax alot.. Shalom..
ReplyDeletePoster you just got married in April and you are already worried about getting pregnant, please i would advise you relax your mind pregnancy would come when you least expect that's what happened to me mine came when i least expected and yeah the doctor's are right nothing ca be done until a year after marriage good luck.
ReplyDeleteYou need to relax, anxiety doesn't help fertility...
ReplyDeleteYou need to see a babalawo!!!
ReplyDelete#Power_enter
#Sips_OrijinBitters
In as much it sounds funny. Who are you? Are you the Babalawo?
DeletePoster you just got married in April and you are already worried about getting pregnant, please i would advise you relax your mind pregnancy would come when you least expect that's what happened to me mine came when i least expected and yeah the doctor's are right nothing ca be done until a year after marriage good luck.
ReplyDeleteMydear in nigeria , April is a long time Oo lol, friends and family Wud b disturbing u
DeleteAbeg ignore them oo
DeleteIt is well with you dearie. May God bless you with your own children this year. It still baffles me why getting pregnant is a big problem for some women and it happens easily for others.
ReplyDeleteI speak life into my womb and body, getting pregnant shall not be difficult for me whenever I'm ready. My body is divinely anointed to carry babies to term and my children shall be ambassadors of Christ all days of their life.
Really I've been wondering too. Been TTC since August last year and still nothing yet. I have a single friend that has had 4 abortions(that I know of) in d last 3 yrs(not to talk of the ones she hasn't told me about). She had two last year within a space of 3 months. And it drives me nuts. I dunno why babies just keep going to the wrong people when they are not needed there.
DeleteI shall come here to testify soonest. Amen
As you proclaim into your life so shall it be for you.
DeleteHmmmm.my dear,dats y as a single lady never ever take pills,use condoms instead.cos taking pills for a long time will take a very long time 2 wear off and wen u get married u have delays and so much anxiety.dat ur friend having abortions doses not take pills,so wen she gets married she will get pregnant easily. A doc friend told me dat as long as d pregnancy dosent exceed one month and u have a d/c u can give birth a hundred times,I personally didn take pills wen dating,I have 3 kids alredy.I wan go tie my tubes sef cos my body na baby fertilizer.lol its well wt u dear.
Delete@ Anon pls never tie ur tubes instead do a family planning even when ever you choose to birth again it will be easier to remove and you try. If you tie it means no more babies for Life
DeleteMy dear I have NEVER taken any kind of pills before because I know the long term after-effect. Not even for once in my life. Anyway, I believe it's just a matter of time.
DeleteNa lie. I was a regular consumer of dat popular morning after pill. Can't remember it's name now. I had my first baby exactly nine months after my wedding.
DeleteBodies are different so don't generalise.
@Snow white.pls whats d meaning of TTC?
DeleteBack to ur comment, God makes everything beautiful at His own time. However,i love ur spirit and d fact that u know that your confessions go a long way.
August is not too long,my dear but pls,do away with the anxiety. If i tell you my story,then you will know it was very necessary for me to be anxious when i just got married.....and yes,i was very anxious but i fought that anxiety with all my inner strength and channelled my energy into prayers and positive confessions and it worked for me.
Relax dear, the pregnancy will come when u least expect.
TTC...trying to conceive
Deletehave read about this here before..but make i just read comments
ReplyDeleteMy dear just remove your mind from it & it will just take you unaware.Pray about it & after Limpopo put pillow under ur hip & don't get up,Just hold on for a long while.God will surprise you.
ReplyDeleteMy dear just remove your mind from it & it will just take you unaware.Pray about it & after Limpopo put pillow under ur hip & don't get up,Just hold on for a long while.God will surprise you.
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Things like this make me to say i dont want to marry a virgin but obviously ur man gat small dick no doubt about that...
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Y ar u so stupid? Always making very senseless comments. Hw old ar u sef?
DeleteWhat does having a small dick have to do with her getting pregnant? And how do you know from your stupid assumptions that he has a small dick? People like you are what is wrong with the world.
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DeleteIQ= SHOE SIZE. That's all. Lol.
DeleteStop entertaining anxious moment, go test it may be a low sperm issue if it is corrected surely you will be pregnant after the treatment. Lol
ReplyDeleteI go read comments for dis one ooo...
ReplyDeleteWater don pass garri...
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ReplyDeleteChick Felix, sup? Dunno if you've been seeing my comments concerning the password. Can u help me with it?
DeleteLet ur mind be at rest, u will get pregnant, some time this kind of situation may actually be psychological problem ,or emotional stress ,or hormones imbalance. Consult a private doctor , ur husband may eat more of vegetables to boost the strength of his spermatozoa, wish u good luck
ReplyDeleteHmmn I'm scared ooo,I'm 25 years and a virgin,and I hope to marry as one later in the year.Its my prayer that I get pregnant without delay.God will answer your prayers soonest.Yours sdkly dazzlinglizzy
ReplyDeleteSweetheart it takes just one sperm or 2 to float through your cervix into your uterus, then thro the fallopian tube to fertilize the egg... incase where they fertilize to different eggs in the case of fraternal twins. So do not expect all the semen to go and get stuck in your uterus. It has to pour out. Most of it is just in your vagina which is just a cavity. The rest has no use, so it comes out.
ReplyDeleteAs for the clear slimmy mucus u usually saw during ovulation, it's not gone...remember u are married now, making love at least every other day. So semen has mixed with your vaginal discharge distorting it's regular consistency.
Yes b4 a true gyn will take on your case, they usually recommended a year in marriage & coitus.
My dear pray & wait for the Lord. The devil is a liar. The almighty God, will meet you at your point of need. Stop being anxious, try to stop worrying. Forget about pressure from family & soceity. Ah ah, wetin u don do? Nothing, good girl. You married as a virgin, God will bless your womb with his own image. Pray for your husband too, pray for his seed(sperm) . Often African women we kill ourselves, taking all the blame, when maybe the fault is from the man biologically.
You have said it all.
Delete2000 likes.
Waoh I love ur comment.God bless u.ve learnt from it sef
DeleteThanks for this!!! Me likey. Well said.
DeleteMedically, its after a year you can start complaining. I think its the same with us here too. Don't know why every virgin think they all have same body system during conception. Virginity does not guarantee speedy pregnancy. Everybody get im own body type. Mwhle, where the ovulation come waka go? Tell ur husband to hammer you from the back. All the sperm no fit swim back to the sender. Some go remain.
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DeleteI think u need to calm down and relax ,it's normal sometimes for sperm to come out even after raising ur legs up, ur husband might not have good swimmers too, he needs to also do a sperm count test to check motility(if d sperm can move fast or its sluggish ) or morphology which is d shape of d sperm, u can take evening primerose oil till ovulation day and drink lots of water to get cervical mucus but importantly before u blame urself, drag ur hubby to check himself
ReplyDeleteUr doctor is right, we are only concerned if after 1 year of regular (@ least 3 days per week) sex, there is no pregnancy. However there is no harm in having u do hormonal assay.
ReplyDeleteUr ovulation test may come out negative if taken at D wrong time of D month.
As for D semen pouring out, truth is, semen can pour for 3 days after sex,it is normal.This will not stop pregnancy.
lastly,,, try n have sex in D middle 5 days of ur menstrual cycle, 1st day of bleeding being day 1.so days 13-17, depending on the length of ur cycle
calm down, keep taking folic acid, and enjoy ur marriage gwanu!
N less I forget, ur husband too needs to get tested later,,, it takes 2 to make a baby.
Pray..., do hormonal profile..., pray, do hvs mcs, pray o, hubby shd do semen analysis and mcs, ... Pray n fast!
ReplyDeleteIts well dear.
About the dropping of semen is normal. What goes up must come down, sperm not going in is also normal because all u need is a tiny drop na. U nor need all. It has been proven that worries when waiting for pregnancy also affects you getting married. Ovulation Ovulation Ovulation!!! Worries could stop you from ovulating. Have a wonderful sex life even as you wait for your bundles of Joy, prayers is also a very good ingredient. Quarreling is not good also.babies don't like such environment when God drops them from heaven
ReplyDeleteSipping my anti-ebola juice whilst waiting for comments to roll in...
ReplyDeleteYou don't need stress to get preganaNt so relax
ReplyDeleteMy dear, try and see another gynecologist. Your husband also should be properly checked. Goodluck!
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ReplyDeleteyour anxiety is too much,it is was is changing everything about u.what u should do now is to stop moinitoring anything about yourself.just keep praying about it and before u will even remember,systom of pregnancy will remember u.
ReplyDeleteDear poster,you need to relax,If possible,go on a vacation with DH,change environment for a while.Go and see a different gyneacologist and don't tell them that your marriage is a year old,tell them your marriage is over a year old and don't specify pls.you need to run some hormonal tests(I have forgotten which one my friend did). Download ovulation app in your phone,set it accordingly and fire down with DH whenever its indicates that you are ovulating.Pray to God to make you a mother soon,he has the final say.Goodluck.
ReplyDeleteYour husband should submit himself for series of tests,maybe he has low sperm count.
Delete@ poster this thing get remedy now, bcos I know of a couple who has the same problem as yours her dh sperm no dey enter all they did was go to the ppl that know the local remedy and fiam she carry belle after like 5 yrs of forming say she no go take local remedy.
ReplyDeleteps: if you are yoruba talk to your mom she should know.
Thatshymuslimgirl.
Haa! Abeg ooh..poster,it is too early to start going local.no dosage,no expiry date!
DeletePlease don't even start that one now..listen to your doctors
Please help me get the address of the local remedy.i also need help.been ttc for 2yrs.i have the same issue.sperm pouring out of my vagina immediately after sex
DeleteI follow u on this...Yoruba call it EDA...ur fallopian tube is not open hence sperm couldn't not go tru...tell ur mum or visit d local herbs(elewe omo).pls relax ur mind..
DeleteVery proud Christian lady. Babe chillax u go carry belle taya. U go born 12 Children
DeletePls try to relax and be more prayerful. Be consistent with the vitamins and folic acid. Am in same situation with you but mine has been for years and no period at all. Pls BV'S I need advice on how to manage PCOS. Things to do to get pregnant.
ReplyDeleteBuy vitex or Agnus cactus it might bring ur period out but u have to take it for a long time then wen period coms u can use clomid to ovulate but u have to watch wat u eat, Google is ur friend, lots of women get pregnant with pcos, my close friend is an example
DeleteGoodluck to u cos I don't know what advise to give to u.is good u have started taking those medicines but there is one called pregnacare dats also good.
ReplyDeleteIf the sperm pours out,den it doesn't go inside and hence,no fertilization.
ReplyDeleteI have heard about that happening though.
Buh wot I find strange is d sperm still pouring out after u have finished hanging ur legs.....
I would have said relax...if not for dis pouring out ish...
Try and see anoda Doc in Anoda hospital.
And wotever,pls try n be calm.ok?
it helps ur chances of getting married as opposed wen u are anxious,worried or unhappy.
And again,it hasn't being long u got married,so don't get all worked up yet boo.ok?
Warm hugs...
*chances of getting preggers
Delete*of getting pregnant*
DeleteYou have said it all,sperm pouring out to me is not entirely normal,that is the area they should look into!
As a matter of fact, conception can take place without the actual ejaculation!
DeleteSo conception can still take place with sperm pouring out bc what causes conception is just a sperm cell and not a cup of sperm.
General's wife, I'm a man and I think I know this one more than you. Your comment is misleading.
Yes it takes only one sperm to fertilise the egg
DeleteIt takes d fastest sperm to fertilise d egg but it takes d force of many to get there, if not low sperm count won't be a problem. Sperm coming out and sperm pouring out are quite different, when sperm pours out there's a problem
DeleteWaiting for comments too.
ReplyDeleteSitting mode activated.
Stella abeg shif make I join u read comments
ReplyDelete****LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*****
It is well with you!
ReplyDeleteDon't bother taking vitamins again or folic acid. One thing we should also note is that stress increase our blood level of pro lactic which is an hormone that makes it very impossible to have a balance in oestrogen-progesteron level which is needed for ovulation then conception. I know its not easy but try take your mind of it.
ReplyDeleteOn issue of back flow of semen, enjoy which ever style u dim fit during sex with DH buh when he's about to ejaculate try giving him your back and stay still facing down for at least 15mins after. You know even if not trying to achieve conception staying put in bed after sex is therapeutic...........
I can bet her hubby is d one at d prob, it's bcos she's a Virgin , if she be girl wey open eye nd has being into relationships before, she wud be able to know if d sperm is ok cos I did notice my ex sperm was watery n I Dnt marry him till now he dsnt have kids but he is married
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Delete@Jenny, so it's only when a lady opens eye that she knows which sperm is healthy or not?
DeleteMy dear, stop making ignorant assumptions in this 21st century internet age. Use internet and you will find millions of sites that can educate you on the qualities of healthy and sick sperm. Nobody needs to swallow sperm like you in order to know if it's healthy or not.
Also try having sex at the edge of the bed. Good penetration, u can even lift your legs up when DH is about to release dem boys........ It's a good position for conception. ....
DeleteThis is soo disturbing!
ReplyDeleteGod help us all. Plz what is this?
Why are virgins havin problem after marriage wiv getin pregnant? But non virgins carry belle like water?
Why?
I'm 25 yrs old, I'm a Virgin, I swear to God I regret being one, all d things I've seen dat have hapen to Virgins are very appaling! I don't know why we shud be punished for keeping our legs closed!
Isn't that d will of God?
Don't regret being a virgin
DeleteAnd I humbly submit that this ur "hypothesis" is wrong
People with medical problems cut across race,colour,gender,sex,sexual preference and d rest...
That someone has a medical problem and is a virgin doesn't mean she is being "punished" ok?
Pls discard that mentality right now
There are loads and loads of ex-virgins and virgins that didnt and dont have issues.ok?
Have fun wit ur virginity and only give it out wen d Right one,ur husband comes.ok?
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DeleteAfter typing one better response for this anony..i dunno how my comment from the stalker post flew here!! HmMm
DeleteMadam but you just got married nah! On a lighter note Nigerian guys should stop complaining that there are no more virgins to marry o, if you guys come to "our" blog you will get a virgin to marry sharp sharp :)
ReplyDeleteLol. @ Virgin in our blog
DeleteD sperm dat pours out is a sign of an infection in u or ur husband so try ve a test so u can treat ur self coz it haz happened to me b4 and it took a while b4 I waz cured coz I had PID and even ve fibriod but now am married and ve a bouncing baby girl but still ve fibriod though
ReplyDeleteUr post would let ppl with fibroids know dat it's not a death sentence except it is big and in the uterine cavity
DeleteRelax.you will have your babies.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your marriage,have fun with hubby,weekend getaways,vacations etc...Cos my dear,u won't get to enjoy the "just the two of us moments" when the babies start arriving. trust me,they will come when you least expect and real soon at that.
ReplyDeleteSo dear poster,take a chill pill and enjoy your marriage. I don't think there's anything serious wrong with you other than WORRY.
Chillax bae, ur bbies will come...
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmm, God is in charge, biko all dese sit down read comment sdk's u fit stil put prayer na
ReplyDeleteAfter reading your mail, I can't but tell you the truth. Nothing is wrong with you. You just got married, please relax, enjoy your marriage, enjoy sex with your husband. Let go and let God. Its God that gives children. Its not gynecologist, it's not your ovulation monitoring or whatever. It is God and please relax, stop all this unnecessary anxiety and you will conceive. My cousin was like you some years back, now she has three lovely kids and all she is doing now is family planning and what to do so she can't take in again. Let go and let God dear. You will be with your child soon.
ReplyDeleteHey dear, relax . Not up to one year in marriage and you re already freaking out. Avoid all these stresses and babies will come IJN.
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ReplyDeletefirst thing bae- relax.God is in charge
ReplyDeletesecond thing-both you and ur hubby should take antibiotics just incase there is an infection -Doxycycline is very good for woman parts
third thing-after the course of antibiotics,take fertilaid for women to restore ovulation and ur hubby shd take fertil aid for men to boost sperm count
fourth thing-raise your buttocks with pillow when having sex and dont stand up until after 20mins.its normal for sperm to pour out but some would have travelled to ur womb during that 20min resting(still with buttocks on the pillow)
fifth thing and continuous thing is to keep praising God for great things he will do for u
Drink plenty of water n relax
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ReplyDeleteBack flow of semen is never a sign of infection, please take it from someone that knows more........... Its natural for it to flow down if its not thick and not bin thick is not necessarily watery sperm don't get me wrong. Even when having sex and DH ejaculate when the lady is ontop it flows down; its called law of gravity.
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DeleteWoman wey they find Pikin they where pant sleep hmm, disvirgin quick no see problem you don enter now all the virgins read
ReplyDeletemy dear, listen and listen very good. Everybody is saying its normal or ur man has sperm issues, lies!! Talk to an adult, ur grandma or ur mother. in yoruba, it is called 'Eda' U have to go traditional, I mean herbs and roots. It happened to my sister, she now has her twins. Your mother will understand wen u talk to her. okay bye!!
ReplyDeletePoster u can try d herb or check ur hubby's sperm count too
DeleteYou don't have to fear, put your faith in God. Your hubby should go for 'SPERM COUNT TEST'. But I bet you, its nothing. You will deliver this year.
ReplyDeleteUr problem isn't something serious, it's bcos u just disvirgined. U'll av ur babies, relax. It happened to sm1 close to me.
ReplyDeleteDear poster,
ReplyDeleteTwo weeks or ten days after seeing ur period, phuck ur husband cowgirl style.
Let him come while ua sitting ontop.
Do this constantly for the next 7 days.
Come back and share your testimony.
Good luck.
I think you should try and relax, sometimes pregnancy happens when your mind is not so tied down to worrying if it will happen after every sex.
ReplyDeletemy dear,its obvious Ur husband sperm is watery,that means he has an infection that is affecting his spermatozoa production, he shld see a doctor,u Na virgin b4 marriage, calm down,u will HV babies once Ur husband gets himself treated,u are too much in a hurry Na,abi menopause wan show? abeg calm down
ReplyDeleteMy dear you got married as a virgin in April that means you've only had sex jus for 8 months throughout your life and you are here worrying about pregnancy. Please this is the best time to have the sex of your life when the marital bliss is still at it's peak. Please relax your mind so your cervical walls can also relax and get ready to accept the semen as you wish. Enjoy your marriage now and let nature take it's course
ReplyDeletePlease poster to be worried in less than one year will cause delay.Relax and enjoy ur marriage babies will come.
ReplyDeleteSweet Jay.
U and ur hubby never do better fuckilicant. As in beta otuology sex.
ReplyDeleteRelax na just April ur blood don dey hot. U will conceive so please relax
@ Iphie dearie...Amen. Hugs. Xxxxx
ReplyDeleteThe experts have this one...
ReplyDeleteI am exactly in the same situation with u. God will do it for us in Jesus name. Amen
ReplyDeleteNothing is wrong with u dear...just take your mind off it. Stop being too anxious and just enjoy your sex life with hubby. It's too early to start getting bothered. And as for semen coming out, what goes up must surely come down. Do you know how much sperm is in that 'konkolo' semen you're seeing? Millions! So rest assured..It will get there. All the best dear...
ReplyDeleteNothing is wrong with u dear...just take your mind off it. Stop being too anxious and just enjoy your sex life with hubby. It's too early to start getting bothered. And as for semen coming out, what goes up must surely come down. Do you know how much sperm is in that 'konkolo' semen you're seeing? Millions! So rest assured..It will get there. All the best dear...
ReplyDeleteThe last poster: my advice is to try scissors style while making love with hubby. Place your two hands on the floor, let him grab your 2 legs and raise them up while he stations himself in between your legs. He should hold you in this position for like 10mins after ejaculating. I will see the winch that will make the semen to flow back. Dem never born that winch.
ReplyDeleteLol very funny comment
DeleteHahahahahahaahaha. ....
Deleteplease relax ur mind u wil conceive dis year
ReplyDeleteIts not allowed
ReplyDeleteRelax ma'am, enjoy the good fuck with ur hubby, do diff styles but always do the missionary style when he is &wants to reLease n let him dig deep into u when he's releasing. Lie on ur back on d bed after sex 4 20mins,RELAXED n don't be anxious that each sex shld result in preggy.
I'm a single mum and I got preggy when I least expected,had sex relaxed that I orgasm sef n never thot I cld get preggy until I missed my period and did a test, didn't c d two lines on d strip sef 4 u 2 knw aw I wasn't thinkn abt pregnancy,it was my baby's dad that saw it n said "u'r pregnant". The rest was a 4kg boy who's nw a year+.
So dear, relax n have good sweet sex with ur hubby. Do all reproductive test dou then hv sweet sex. Hp u'r nt on medication dou?
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I think the pressure your giving yourself is too much.
ReplyDeleteTry relax,take ur mind off it and enjoy the sex.
Talk to your husband about how you feel. You both should pray about it. Hold your belle and pray on it.
As the doctor has said its only after a year you will be seen, just be patient and keep praying.
I am newly married too and married as a virgin, i also noticed some sperm pours out but doctors said its normal sometimes depending on d sex position you use. If you do from the back, you can keep the sperm inside you better,try that.
May God bless your womb.
I got pregnant when I was not expecting it at all.
Stella why not get Doctors to respond to the questions. This one that people who are not qualified are recommending drugs and such, it's dangerous o
ReplyDeleteMy dear poster ,u really got no problem wt ur life n hubby .
ReplyDelete1) You're too anxious stop all kinds of test for the next 3 months n enjoy all them fucking from ur husband
2) You're just 8 months old in sexology n ure so anxious like this - enjoy d sex of ur life wt the very right man for it .its only now u can have sex n have sex n have sex till ure fucking tired
3) Wetin dey do u now ??? Biko,enjoy ur life o jawe n don't start getting worried till ure 1 year old
O dear,we wear same shoes.I got married as a virgin also just two months bf you and like you the sperm leaks out after sex.I didn't wait for a year before testing.We have been for tests,while I'm ok,DH has 60% dead cells.He has been placed on medication and we should get another test done next week.Im hopeful that all will be well after all.I am praying also.Your case may not be exactly as mine but have an open mind and keep praying.For some reason I am convinced that the lord would not allow his own suffer and u know what the scripture says,"Many are the afflictions of the righteous but the lord God delivers him from them all".It is well with you.
ReplyDeleteI bliv this is d case with poster, check ur hubby
DeleteMy dear there's nothing wrong.i got married abt 4years ago and was really anxious like u.forced my hubby to a doctor against his will and after paying a huge sum to register, I found out I was pregs.this was exactly a year after marriage.as for the sperm pouring out,its normal cos wat goes up must come down.relax girl,eat lots of fruits and veggies and have a gud time.God will surprise u
ReplyDeleteJust relax dear. Cos there is no mucus does not mean u are not ovulating. Try and buy fertility monitor too. It is very accurate. Relax it will happen in Jesus name. Amen. MA
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ReplyDeletedarlyn,you should relax,take a deep breath,you are putting yourself under alot of pressure,babes, you have to learn to take things easy, it's takes only a drop of sperm to make you pregnant, its advisable to see a gynecologistbso you get accurate calculations of your ovulation, above all else you have to Relax,big hugs
ReplyDeleteIt is normal for the semen to run out, that is simply the law of physics working, nothing special about that.
ReplyDeleteYou have only been married for 8 months, why not just enjoy the early days of marriage instead of stressing about pregnancy? Please make sure that your husband and you consume no Soy products, soy is known to affect fertility in women. Personally, I would treasure these early days as husband and wife, growing together as one and learning each others ways, not stressing myself out about a baby, especially if you are in your 20s. Remember when a baby comes you will never be alone again, neither of you know how a baby will affect your lives, so please strengthen as a united couple first and then think about children.
@ Anon 3 January 2015 at 11:59; Are you crazy? You expect that because you marry as a virgin your marital life should not face any issues? What a bizarre mindset. The world owes you nothing! You live in a world where you can do everything right and nothing goes in your favor and vice versa. When you come to the knowing that the world operates under a completely different set of rules than what culture has taught you, your life will be much easier.
ReplyDeleteP.s. Not every couple will conceive, or every child that issues from their union is guaranteed good health. It's all a gamble that we take hoping for the best, but remember, nothing is sure.
As I told the OP, please stop consuming all soy based products, soy is known to cause infertility in women. Read those labels when you go grocery shopping, use coconut oil instead of soybean oil Hopefully you get what your heart desires, but even greater, hopefully you live to become a woman of wisdom.
Jesus! These comments can make a person commit suicide, haba! Madam Poster,
ReplyDelete1. you'll need to have intercourse at least 3 times weekly for a year without getting pregnant before you can seek medical help.
2. If you turn a bucket with water upside down, the water will flow out under the influence of gravity, yeah? Same thing happens with semen when you stand up. It is only natural that it will flow out. However, there will be some die hard sperm swimming towards the ovaries for fertilization. So till you convince me that the total amount of sperm released during intercourse is equal to the total amount of sperm that flows out when you get up, this semen flow matter is a non-issue.
3. I guess it's different strokes for different folks but what the hell! Before, I got married we agreed NO CHILDREN FOR 1 YEAR! I needed to enjoy MY marriage before children intrude on all that romantic peace and quiet.
4. Did you keep your virginity to ensure over/super fertility so that immediately the first sperm ever gets in, pregnancy sharp sharp? That has gotta be a joke, right? Nothing "consine" virginity and fertility in this case o abeg.
5. Stressing your "how many months" marriage over this pregnancy matter will further delay the pregnancy so please free this thing and enjoy these days of peace and freedom because when the kids come, you will thank God for them everytime you gaze upon their faces but sometimes you will look back and thoroughly miss your days of "barrenness"
End of my epistle.
Stella, you rock big time; God bless ya!
Oh, before I forget, don't go accusing the poor guy who married you of sexually transmitted infections just because you haven't conceived yet or else like my people say "person do the person self winch". At that point, the matter will pass pregnancy matter and na for village square dem go settle ya matter.
ReplyDeleteStella, you rock; God bless ya!