This is 2015...welcome!
GOD IS STILL THE CEO OF MIRACLES.
PROBLEM ONE
THE AFTERMATH OF CS
Greetings Stells of life.
I delivered my baby on 11th of December 2014 through c-section and ever since then I have been bleeding and the worse I just discovered is that it seemed my womb is moving or my bladder, because whenever I go to urinate,I feel this excruciating pains(like my womb is been pulled or something)and I find it difficult to stand and whenever I sit down I still feel pains.
I called and visited my Dr and she gave me some drugs,like volterine.
Please,I need others opinion as to know if that's how the c-section feels like or what else to expect or do to reduce this pain.
Thanks once again.
*This moment will pass,it seems you have zero tolerance for pain.
Some people never go back to liking sex after CS,it messes up their hormones.It almost happened to me but as wafferian,I JUMP AM PASS!
LOL
Awwwwu i feel your pain dear. Ndo ooooo.
ReplyDeleteI had a cs again in Nov. My dear think of it as having stomach surgery. It take at least 6 weeks for your body to recover from any surgery. You need to rest. The drs here on state said to rest n move a little. If you are bleeding heavily then it means you are doing too much that's a sign. So put your feet up n let your body heal itself
DeleteU need lots of resT dnt bend down just eat nd sleep a lot u would get over it with tym I had my 1st baby in Sep thru cS I was lik wanting to get over d pains but later everytin went to normal.dis phase will pass.GOLDeN
DeleteLol as a wafferian....Happy newyear people!!!!
ReplyDeleteHahahaha. Sdk don't I just love you. Poster kpele. Please jump am pass like Stella did. That doesn't sound normal to me though. It is well.
ReplyDeleteHappy new year everyone. Welcome to 2015.
CS aftermath varies in women. Poster my advice for you is to rest rest and rest.
ReplyDeleteDo not carry heavy stuffs. Do not pull things. Do not stress ur cut. Ur body is healing. You are gonna feel a lot of uneasiness but then again (in Nwuye General's voice) this too shall pass.
Howz the cutie doing?
Hope you have someone helping you do things around the house?
Hahhahaha Goldscent D!
DeleteMr T say make I hail u o! LMAO
Yes do all dat Goldscent D said poster.and no driving for now.
try to air that place u were cut.rest rest and rest.
Kisses to u and our Lil cutie.
Nwuye G! Too much champagne?
DeleteHahahahahaha.
DeleteChoi. TGW!
This is not Irish cream or champagne.
It must be something stronger: Jack Daniel or Hennessey.
Aunty Stella say i jump am pass,wafferian!lol @poster go see a doctor again
ReplyDeleteDunno anything about dis......but doctors in d huz plz give advice on wat she can do to reduce d pain .....dont worry God is in control
ReplyDeletemake i just read comments
ReplyDeleteLolzzz@Jump and pass...I think u need to go for checkup Ma.Congrats on your new bundle of Joy.
ReplyDeleteMadam just see another doctor, do some scan, just check well. Don't assume its well o. I birth through vagina I don't knw about CS
ReplyDeleteScary..
ReplyDeleteI already feel feverish after reading this. See me holding my tummy n cringing. Get well soon poster.
DeleteJust pray about it.there is nothing the lord cannot do
ReplyDeleteI can imagine your pain dear...I just can't tolerate pain!! gosh....lemme wait for bvs with experience...I also wanna learn!
ReplyDeleteHmmmn
ReplyDeleteAm happy u said u have told to your doctor what you are experiencing.
Follow her advice
THELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeleteAwwwwwww,so sorry for the pains ure passing tru..lemme sidon and read comments 4m the xperienced mumzz...Happy new year blogfam!!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
Happy new year everyone. May the new year usher in abundant blessings.
ReplyDeleteGo for scan abeg.
ReplyDeleteGod forbid maybe the surgeon forgot something inside you. God forbid.
Please go for scan.
THELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeleteAwwwwwww,so sorry for the pains ure passing tru..lemme sidon and read comments 4m the xperienced mumzz...Happy new year blogfam!!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
Stella I swear u like sex 2 much
ReplyDeleteGod, please intervene. What women go through.
ReplyDeleteTHELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeleteAwwwwwww,so sorry for the pains ure passing tru..lemme sidon and read comments 4m the xperienced mumzz...Happy new year blogfam!!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
Thelma please now!
Deletepress post and release the muscle on the button nne...tnx
May God perfect your healing dear !
ReplyDeleteThough I 've never had a C-S but I can imagine the pain from your description here above.
May I sidon read advice from from my fellow learned BV's.
Eyaa sorry I don't ve any advice cos I ve never been there, u will heal with time.
ReplyDeleteLol Stells of life. Happy New year mama. @poster take am easy, it will pass.
ReplyDeleteGood morning and happy new year to you ma, pls I sent you a mail since 4days ago but you haven't posted it. Pls help a crying heart and post my message ma
ReplyDeleteJust hold on a little longer,it will take time for the area to heal completely.just take d drugs ur doctor prescribed.it is well
ReplyDeleteGood morning and happy new year to you ma, pls I sent you a mail since 4days ago but you haven't posted it. Pls help a crying heart and post my message ma
ReplyDeleteWish I have any experience but I know God will see you thru and give you total healing dis new year. Happy New year peeps.
ReplyDeleteSorry dear, it will pass
ReplyDeleteJust be patient dear.. It will pass!! A lot happened in ur body during pregnancy and all, give it some time, it will pass!!
ReplyDeleteSowie dearie... D pain ll go after some tym...
ReplyDeleteSDK, ur head dey dere....
Hey yah. Sorry dear. May the Lord heal you completely.
ReplyDeleteHappy new year.
Eeyah, it is well.
ReplyDeleteCS was the best sha...after 5 days I fought with my stubborn sister..felt no pain as I throw leg kick her..d scar is thin like a blade along the bikini line..
ReplyDeleteChoi,you be bad ass babe oh!
DeleteIn a short time,the pains would go away. Like Stella said, it seems you have zero tolerance for pain. When I had my son over a year ago via cs, I had pains too but not the way you described yours. Hang in there, it's just for a short time, you will be fine.
ReplyDeleteIt's normal,and just like Stella said, it'll go with time.
ReplyDeleteHappy New year All...
ReplyDeleteI like your style: Visit the doctor first and later narrate problems here for more insight and moral support.
Sorry I have no personal experience about CS.
#Teamwaterbirth
Goldscent dearie. Pls could you throw more light on the water birth.
DeleteI'm eager to learn and experience it. Thanks
Newly wedded
Don't mind me o.
DeleteIt's ordinary normal delivery but in a birth pool or deep tub.
The warm water is supposed to be therapeutic, lessen the intensity of the contractions and generally make you more comfortable.
You know I have watched a lot of documentaries on water births...does it really ease the pain or you still ask for epidural@Goldscent? Then I have also seen one of em pipes they inhale...choi! anything to run away from pain ooooh!
DeleteWater birth is when the water breaks and the baby comes out nau! Abi?
DeleteWetin I know?
I once saw my sister in labour, chai! That day I prayed and cried to God to keep my sister safe. I was just telling God, she's my only sister, the only sister I have in this world. Lmao! My brothers use me do joke for days.
Abeg labour is hard. God!!!
Lol, Jay'em, water breaks and baby comes out...I think it's something about giving birth in a bathtub/swimming pool filled with water (watched a documentary and also watched kourt Kardashian talk about it in once of their episodes).....
DeleteGoldscent pls how can u have the opportunity of staying abroad and not opt for epidural.. Chai..
DeleteLol @ JayEm.
DeleteIphie, all those pain relievers were on standby. Only to be given to me if I ask but I didn't. The water doesnt take away the pain but makes it more bearable. I also opted for water gushing down from a shower head above.
Tochini, I always thought I had a low threshold for pain so I decided to challenge myself with a normal, no pain-relief delivery.
Here, I think women are encouraged to choose whatever birth plan they are comfortable with, with an opportunity to switch when things aren't progressing well.
Nigerian doctors like CS too much.
Ah I nearly killed myself with watching the different types of water births during my first pregnancy. Omo, Americans can make u feel like it's a piece of cake and I was already fantasizing it. But when due date comes you'll almost forget all ur fantasies depending on your situation etc. I didn't plan to birth my child when she came because I was on a normal routine scan visit when the hospital held me back that I cannot go home cos baby was damn too big that they couldn't measure her through the scan, and CS became imperative within 24hours. So u see, how I wan take remember my hours and months of wishing for a luxurious pool delivery? Yimu. Lol
DeleteStill advise u to go for scan oh hmmm
ReplyDeleteLol @ wafferian spirit!
ReplyDeleteYou will be fine dear, give urself 1 month from now, all pain will be almost gone.
Just take it easy,the pain will ease off as the days goes by. Congrats
ReplyDeleteLol Na really as a wafferian, I will pass nd read comments , this one pass me
ReplyDeleteLemme sit ds one out and read comments and learn from experienced people
ReplyDeleteEya sowi ma
ReplyDelete~@iamjbankz SA to President Jonathan 2015~
sorry ma,you will surely overcome
ReplyDeleteHmmm so it's that painful?
ReplyDeleteBut when u go for antenatal you'll hear some women boast how the prefer CS to normal delivery...was actually beginning to think maybe it's not as painful as normal delivery now I know better. Poster sorry oo pray that God heals you!
God will completely heal u
ReplyDeleteI gave birth to my baby girl a long time ago. it was a very painful experience then I was just 22,my then husband paid my bride price, I was so naïve that I didn't know what was planned. They whr actually looking for a baby boy. During my pregnancy period my then husband was so anxious to know the sex of the baby with the mum pressurising me to try and get that as soon as possible. When the result was out,it was a baby girl and that was when my maltreatment started, my then hubby and mum sees nothing good in whatever I do,the hatred was much I endured till my due date,I finally gave birth to my baby girl,the marriage was only eleven months then ,the pressure was much mostly frm my mother inlaw and her son but it seems as if the more am treated badly ,the more I shower them with love, but their heart was made up,thy had a purpose and they must actualize it. My mum inlaw made a plan because he was the one who got every,my hubby wasn't financially ok. She called me one morning and told me that they are already tired of the marriage,I left for my town to explain everything to my mum because my dad who gave me out in marriage is already late,that was during the weekend,to cut the story shut, getting back on monday,they have evacuated everything in our flat ,even left with the cloths they bought for me as their wife. I cried my eyes out,I thought of my life,my future ,my been a single mum at that age ,how my world has been shattered but whenever I look at my baby,my mini me,I feel proud been called mum by her. My then mum inlaw got another wife for my hubby,I was served with a divorce paper,though I have the right to say no to the court,I said. Yes cus I wanted to be free and I want them to be free also,free from hatred and live happily. Why am I telling this story ,yes because up till now am scared of sex,I feel pain if I ever try sex,the people who put me in that condition is gone and am living with it. But what did jesus said? We must forgive no matter what. I have forgiven them and living my normal life as a single mum.
ReplyDeleteSorry uju, where there's life, there's hope..ur girl will make u proud. Shame on ur ex husband!
DeleteIt's well with you my dear, God will heal all your wounds and restore all the enemy stole from you in this 2015.. You are blessed xoxo
DeleteDearie, you are a survivor and winner. You will smile and laugh last.
DeleteI'm sorry Uju but I'm having a hard time believing your story.
DeleteAll this maltreatment for having a baby girl the very first time around???
I pray you have a better life.
Sorry for your past experience. I suggest you vist a good sex therapist that might help.
DeleteSorry dear !!! You are a strong woman!!!
DeleteAwwwww come here darling
DeleteCome here and take a hug....
it's well with u baby...
and u won! Oh yes u did!
I love your spirit!
DeleteMay God bless you with a beautiful home....you will be fine dear...your narrative touched my heart.
Hmmmm wicked people. God will avenge u
DeleteI had a cesarean recently too and I dont think u have a problem if your bleeding isnt heavy, the movt you feel is your uterus contracting to the small size it was initially and its normal 4 pain to occur. U didn't have a blade cut but a cut that involved layers of your skin i.e. skin deep cut so its normal for the pains to linger for long, manage! It is well
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The pain the poster described sounds so scary...I feel you should get a second opinion just to be on the safer side. May God heal you completely ma.
ReplyDeleteNawa o, am now officially scared, God pls heal her n all dt is passing tru d same situation in Jesus name, Amen! It's well. But pls go for scan o n see a doctor again if d pain persist.
ReplyDeleteGod is ur strength dear....its just a mata of time, d wound will heal. Happy new year people
ReplyDelete@poster.its normal but congrats on ur baby.@Bv ujunwa,may God remove every spirit of fear from you.dis yr will b ur yr of triumph.take heart,am proud of u for leaving dose wicked people.
ReplyDeleteSorry dear,why don't you go to a teaching hospital where there are several doctors who have more experiences.Your doctor may be good but try other doctors.Also pray to God and get some rest.This will pass.Hugs.
ReplyDeleteThe pain is normal, you said you womb is moving. Honey your womb is just contracting is called involution.so it can go back to its normal shape and size. Ndo, it's well don't worry too much just relax
ReplyDeleteDear poster, calm down. You will be fine. Why don't you google more about recovery after CS online so you get to read diverse opinions? Stay strong dearie and happy baby nursing.
ReplyDeleteSorry poster I wish you God's healing.
ReplyDeleteS To D am happiest New Year to you and your family
It's well with you. Happy New year you all.
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a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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God will heal yu no doubt...
*GLO BRING 3G TO KONTAGORA*
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Don't worry u will be fine, I birth my 3 children tru cs and it just 2 yrs interval, am thinking of having my 4th child and it will also be tru cs, just relax and don't do any hard jobs for now.
ReplyDeleteSorry poster its a normal pain.your uterus is contrasting so as to go back to its normal size.if you are still worried then seek a second opinion from a good gynaecologist in a government hospital.
ReplyDeleteWow...Happy new year BVs...Poster sorry,i don't really no much about CS as I birthed my two kids through normal delivery. But I have this good friend that can't stop talking about how she loves CS delivery,according to her it was a painless experience. she even said the scar disappeared almost immediately and she could do everything cos there was no pain whatsoever. She has also undergone normal delivery and when she compares them she says she prefers CS.. Maybe you should try another good gynaecologist so as to be double sure there's no postnatal complication...God is your strength.
ReplyDeleteSorry poster. Try and get a second opinion
ReplyDeleteSorry poster thats all i can say cos am yet to be a mum so No experience. Thats why women are the strongest. God will heal u
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you dear, pls go for a scan ASAP and check on google
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year to all BVs. I'm an ardent blog reader, though I've never dropped a comment. @poster, you may need to see your doc again. Its been 3 weeks and you re still bleeding pv. Is the bleeding slight, moderate or torrential. If it's slight, it may be your normal lochia. If not, you may need a scan, in case you have retained products of conception. How is the op wound site? Is it healed , open, or discharging abnormal effluent?
ReplyDeleteSorry! Been trying to comment with a google acct but opening it has been a herculean task.
ReplyDeleteNa waoo
ReplyDeleteSo sorry about d pain
ReplyDeleteThe way u described it made me shiver wit fear...
After going thru all this some men still don't appreciate their wives
Men are the weaker sex
This is my candid opinion. I had cs some 4 yrs ago and will tell you sincerely that it wasn't so bad. My baby had to stay on in the Hosp while I went home after 3 days and guess what? I started coming back to the Hosp 2 days after I was discharged ( that is 5 days after my cs ) I walked to the train, got off the train, walked to the bus station, got off the bus and walked into the hospital one uncomfortable step after another. I did this every day for 3 weeks. . I explained all this just to tell you that it shouldn't be as bad as you have just stated. My opinion is that you go and have a second opinion pls, don't take it for granted that cs is painfull and sit at home while something may be wrong ( God forbid )
ReplyDeleteAll the best.
Sorry dear I had by baby boy via cs 13months ago . For two days I couldn't walk straight my hubby had to carry me up the stairs when we were discharged from the hospital. And gradually it ease off. Let the doctor know how you are faring if no improvement consult another doctor. The pains women go through
ReplyDeleteSowi u wil get over it.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry for the pain you feel.Why not go back to your doctor to tell how you feel?
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