An Ikorodu Customary Court in Lagos State, on Wednesday dissolved the eight-year-old marriage of a herbalist, Mr Abiju Olaifa and his wife, Kehinde, over childlessness.
The 60-year-old herbalist, who resides at Olaifa Street, Gbaga, off Ijede Road in Ikorodu, had approached the court in June 2014, seeking the dissolution of the union.
The President of the court, Mr Olu Adebiyi, ruled that the couple should go their separate ways as the marriage had broken down irretrievably.
He also ordered the petitioner to pay compensation fee of N50, 000 to the respondent.
Olubiyi also ruled that the respondent should vacate the petitioner’s premises with immediate effect.
Earlier, the herbalist had told the court that his wife is not trustworthy, very stubborn and arrogant.
“After three months of our marriage, my wife conceived, but I told her to move into my apartment for proper care, but she refused, not quite long, she had a miscarriage.
“There was a time she left home without informing me, and came back the following day; I believe she is into extra-marital affairs. Please separate us I am no more interested in the marriage.
Kehinde, 43, a food vendor, denied the allegations levelled against her.
“Although we don’t live together, my husband sleeps in other wives’ apartment most of the time.
“I am not into extra-marital affairs as he claimed. The day he did not meet me at home, I went to my friend’s house at Akute.
“I could not come back home to sleep same day because I was held up in the traffic, so I went back to sleep in my friend’s place.
“It is not my fault that I don’t have a child, although I had one child for him who later died.
“Please help me beg my husband, it is only God that gives children,’’ she earlier pleaded. - dailyindependent.
Toooo complicated.ah ah!
Nawa...who shuld we believe between the both of them
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ReplyDeleteI feel 4 d woman. Men please make una dey get small compassion 4 women over childlessness, as na only God fit give children.
ReplyDeleteOga ooooo sebi na herbalist,so his gods couldn't do anything or what?
ReplyDeleteWhy not adopt if you desperately need a child,stupid herbalist......
ReplyDeleteShebi the man na herbalist?? E no fit yarn with 'em irunmole make dem do am for them??
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dont understand this, is it for childlessness or arrogant behaviour.The wife sef,u see say him get other wives u carry your two left leg enter.I don't support any woman who marries a married man. full stop
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Wetin dey do dis one? Poor broke cunt. Na u take dis ur cock-sucking mouth tell us say ur papa na poor man,u don forget?
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Trouble in paradise. Maybe d man don tire n want to marry a fresher wife.
ReplyDeletedont understand this, is it for childlessness or arrogant behaviour.The wife sef,u see say him get other wives u carry your two left leg enter.I don't support any woman who marries a married man. full stop
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It is well o! He has other wives abi?
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DeleteShe will get another husband.
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DeleteI knew there had to be more to it. Dissolution of customary marriage because the couple are childless isn't sufficient unless both parties aren't interested in the marriage and there is no hope of reconciliation. The plea of the wife confused me, though, is she begging to remain married or just to clarify that it isn't within her powers to get pregnant?
ReplyDeleteAnyway, the court saw it fit to grant the petition. I pray both parties find peace. Divorce proceedings are so difficult to watch. When you hear the disrespectful and aggressive way people who were once lovers expose each other's dirty little secrets with reckless abandon for all to hear, your heart will break! It gets you wondering how it degenerated to this level? Sad!
Ronalda, she clearly refuted the adultery accusation.. but her plea is to stay married to him with the understanding that it is God that gives children.
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The herbalist blames his wife for the miscarriage she had and has not yet forgiven her for it. As an herbalist he should be able to help conceive.
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things that women pass through in a world were all odds are against her. sorry woman.
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The rate at which Yorubas are divorcing is alarming. Get any SUn Newspaper, d 2nd page, you will definitely see one divorce case, in fact I stop checking cos it turned out that its an everyday thing. They will surpass the Hausas soon.
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hahahhaha ,this kind herbalist ,why him no do magun for the wife ,two of them are clowns .unto the next level abeg .
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Too many wives
I pity her sha,it is well,what women go through all in d name of having children.I pray for those looking unto God for a child,God will bless ur womb and make u conceive in jesus name(Amen)
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