Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives

Isnt a run girl entitled to having a normal life when her market is no longer selling?

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

MARRYING A RUNS GIRL

Dear Stella, My brother is 35 years old and based in Canada. 

We have all been on his neck to get married and start a family since he's doing well for himself over there, he's actually a medical Doctor. He keeps making wrong choices, the lady he brought home 2 years ago was rejected especially by my mum because she was lazy and quite quarrelsome, they stayed 5 days together in our house and quarrelled everyday with her voice being the loudest.

 Besides, she won't even lay the bed they slept on, would eat in the room and leave the plates there, wouldn't come out to greet my mum except she goes in to knock and greet her first. We rejected her.

This year, he brought another one, well, she's quite respectful and hardworking, very very amiable too,pretty et al. We took to her instantly. She kept close to my mum even after my brother returned back to base. My mum decided to investigate this one by herself only to find out that she sleeps with married men and is very promiscuous. It runs in their family, or so it seems. 

Their mum had all four of them for different men, her elder sisters are yet to marry but have kids outside wedlock. My mum says Never, her son cannot marry from such a family but my brother says he's tired of us rejecting every woman he brings and he must marry this one. How can any right thinking man open his eyes and want to marry a runs girl?

So as she wants to retire now,you people dont want to let her?Runsgirl no be human being?look around you today,most runsgirls make the best wives.!
Your mum should sit her down and talk to her without telling your brother anything oh.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

WHEN A RELATIONSHIP HAS DRAMA AND A BABY MAMA

Hi Stella,

 I am a 24year old graduate,I met a guy a year ago 34year old,we became friends and intimacy cropped in told him about my past but I asked if he was married or has a child he said no,we continued the relationship he started talking about marriage months later but I always declined he felt I was not serious with him,one day his brother sent him a message"Happy anniversary"I asked him he said I Should not mind his brother that is how he jokes,he kept pestering me about introduction.

I want to meet your parents he says when its time you would meet them,I found out he did introduction that the whole world attended but there wasn't any registry or church wedding but the girl was an arrangement by his mother they started living together before issues started, she told people he doesn't touch her or eats her food and he had watery sperm,she became pregnant and he told her ''you say I have a problem how come you're pregnant''.

Issues upon issues,she brought policemen and packed all that was in the house and left because she had her name on all the receipts,he couldn't say anything he just wanted her off his life,when she even gave birth my boyfriend was called when he got to the hospital he wanted to touch the child the lady's stepmother shouted at him so his own mother came around and asked for the placenta of the child and they told them the lady's elder brother had taken it away so his family where confused about what they heard,the child was brought to his parents house for naming, but ever since both families said they shouldn't ever meet again.

After I heard all this I didn't ask my man still I kept laughing and pretending all was well, I called him and gave him ultimatum of 1week to meet his parents and finally yesterday I met his parents after introducing me to them no one mentioned the issue to me,I started shedding tears and told her to see me as her child that I heard something and want to confirm she said I should ask.

 I asked about him either being married before or having a child his mum said she should call him so he could answer with his mouth behold he was called when I asked he say it was an elaborate introduction he did and the child in question he was not given the placenta immediately I told him no problem and that we should leave.

I cried hell since yesterday now he is explaining and pleading for forgiveness he wanted me to meet his mum before he tells me anything about it,but he kept insisting that in yoruba land a child who the father didn't bury the placenta himself is not the real father because there was a day he wanted to make love to this lady it was her elder brother's name she was calling and they are so close to the extent of dressing up in his presence .

I asked him why he diidnt tell me and he said its a bad occurrence he does not want to always remember .hes been begging me since yesterday not to quit the relationship.He has been a loving and caring guy since we met,am so confused if I should go on and marry him or back off cos the lady has said if she doesn't marry him he's not going to marry someone else....I need your advice please.



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