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Friday, January 30, 2015

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives.


Thank God its Friday!









NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
EXCHANGING SEX FOR SOMETHING....


Hey Stella, how are you doing...anyway am in a dilemma sorta....I am single,23years old, waiting for Nysc. Now some few days ago, I met a guy on instagram, he liked a great number of my pictures and so I checked his profile, seeing that he was a movie director,I decided to chat with him because I have always wanted to act as well.

 Anyway I told him I wanted to act movies and he said its best we talk on phone, the first time he called me, all he asked about were sexual questions, being that na me want something, I politely told him I had a boyfriend that I was serious about thinking that would dissuade him but it didn't. 

Anyway he convinced me to come and see him on set, I hesitated but later agreed to do so the next day(being today if you post this). He called me tonight on night call and began masturbating in my ears, at first he said that we would at least romance tomorrow when I see him without penetration or actual sex, I first shock when I hear that one, when I bluntly refused saying that even the hug wey I plan to give am na for where people dey e go happen, the guy begin beg for phone sex ooo, I still refused, next thing he said was that if I visit that he would at least suck me.

 I swear when I pictured that, i became so horny and funny thing be say I have never being sucked before so I no know why my juices began to flow down south, anyhow sha, I told him I wasn't coming because I didn't trust him to not try to sleep with me. My dilemma now is,as much as I have made up my mind  not to go, am I just being childish?, the last person I had sex with was in November and he wanted the same thing,just went about it by deceiving me that he loved me and I mumuishly believed him and I didn't even gain one thing, at least this one is honest about what he wants, shouldn't I just give him what he wants in exchange for a movie role(although that's not what he said, he just said that he really wants me and ignored the part about me acting) and if am good enough, I get a career.

 I satisfy my horny state and everyone wins, or should I stick to my principles because I just don't see myself doing that sort of thing, i just don't have it in me but then am frustrated with where my life is at as well....and am eager for part of my dreams to start coming true....and I haven't seen him but from his pictures, am not attracted to anything about him.
Sorry for the long story....am just tired and confused...please please what do i do?

WOW the deception of all these actresses on their social media handles is yielding fruits afterall!

First of all,if you want to go into acting because you think it will better your life financially,think again and dont the wealth being displayed by all these actresses deceive you.If you agree for him now,it will only be the beginning cos you must be passed around and eventually dumped!
Close your legs and respect yourself.


Anyone ever exchanged sex for anything?


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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
THE GENEROUS EX AND THE CONSEQUENCES


I am married woman to the most wonderful man. He is a good father and
a husband. We have been married for about 3years now. 
It hasn't been so easy for my hubby providing for I and the baby and also for his parents and siblings. They depend on him for almost everything.
I Am a graduate but getting a job has been really difficult. 

Now the problem is that before I met my hubby there was this man that said he
wants 2 marry me. The thing is he was bit advanced in age so I didn't
believe he wasn't married even though he told he wasn't. He was a big
help to me through school. He gave me a lot of cash But we never got
intimate not even a kiss. To me I wasn't dating him .

Since I didn't promise him anything I met my hubby and got married. I
didn't even tell him. Years later we started communicating again. Just
the hello,how are you? Heard you are married? Bla bla. 

He later asked what I was doing? I told him I don't have a job yet and no capital to start up a business. He told me to think of a business and tell him.
That he will give me a loan with no interest rate.

Bvs na here I confuse. Should I accept it?. If yes what should I tell my hubby?
I am so confused because me starting a business will help me a lot.




make i read comments abeg.






232 comments:

  1. Poster one:;: I'm really angry at the moment, I need to calm down and be back
    Because if I say what's on Mind right now!!!!! You may become suicidal.

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    1. Hian! Matter dey tuff!


      GEJ 2015 #

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    2. Poster 1, open ur legs to him n open d door to ur doom as well. U need something from someone n he is not even making any efforts to help u achieve what you want and yet he has made his intentions known to u and u have accepted almost forgetting wat you yourself want from him. I sorry for u. Have u ever heard of chop and clean mouth? Ur eye will open after the guy chops u n the next thing u ll hear is ' u re d biggest fool he's ever met in his life'. Continue wallowing in ur fantasy. U want to collect head.

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    3. Poster 1 so if a Nigerian man tells u he wants to suck you, u will start dreaming ehh kwa. Go let d guy use teeth to destroy your punami na then ur eye go clear.

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    4. Shut up. See pot!
      Are you not a hoe? Didn't you exchange your body for some currencies?
      See pot!
      The old man you claimed you were dating, was he a boyfriend or your customer.
      Sabhoe, you can scream from now till Jesus comes you're a doctor...it won't change who you are.
      A hoe, a stupid hoe!

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    5. Poster 1: Open your legs and let it be ur doom, once he sleeps with you there is Notin else that would entice him not even your so called career, be wise, if God says u are going to be an Actress he would open the right Door for you and connect you own person to you!!
      Poster 2: If you wanna collect it tell your husband and get his answer or permission 1st, if he is a man that really helps you then no problem if he is the stingy type and doesn't help you, pls collect the money and help ur life!!!

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    6. Well, I am ready to say what is on my mind, madam ANYWAY , stick to your principles. Am sure your principles are the same as the 2nd option. Please stop wasting our reading time.

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    7. I swear some girls are cheaper than pure water. Haba!

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  2. Poster 1- are you a learner??? Go na, let him and his friends rape you and maybe kill you (God forbid)

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  3. It's well with all these men issues,re they all dat bad,nawa o...

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  4. Poster two: serious dilemma.
    I'm going to read comments , can't comment rational right now
    I'm still furious at poster one.

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    1. Hii bae, abeg make i siddon here make ma comment for Poster 1:
      Narrative 1
      As much as i would avoid being judgemental on your issue, I just hope I can achieve dat. Dunno where you've kept ur principles/morals but sincerely, you need to deep search for dem cos your perception at d moment can be detrimental to you. Hardwork, skills and attributes developed from proper grooming are d tenets that would keep you in any profession. You need to re-evaluate n develop your person, get some self worth to avoid putting your young self at tight corners that you might regret as you go through life, especially from your Nysc days and beyond. Sex and anything related to it cannot form the basis for you to build a career and as regards being on Nollywood; take a cue from d 'waka pass' actresses who appear in movies as call girls...lots of them (am not saying all of dem) fall into d category of girls who exchanged their bodies for roles and those are d few that even made it on screen.....now ask yourself, what percentage of those girls have made it to limelight or how much of them have you seen in subsequent movies.....i can bet you donot even recall their names. Get busy and occupy yourself with reasonable experiences that would build you for your future n career. Sex aint food as XOXO has told us and not because you read or hear a lot bout sex in our society today, shld make you indulge in it for unjustifiable reasons....although thats your personal decision but try practicing abstinence and wait for the right man/spouse. You can also seek for a person with a more mature mindset to serve as a mentor who you can seek clarity or advice from in issues like this.
      Lastly, learn to always place your security as top priority, a lot is happening online with dubious pple creating fake accounts to deceive any gullible individual just for d satisfaction of their selfish and most times dangerous desires. Just be careful, i truly feel you need someone to guide you tho.
      Gosh, did i just type all dis.....see me drinking Panadol for ya headache. Please take it easy n make proper choices so you dont end up in regrets and wallowing in self pity.

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    2. I have this feeling that poster one will still do what she wants to do. So lemme keep silent.

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  5. P1, at 23 u sound like this? Im not gona b harsh on u. Stop thinking with ur poom, dude's got nothing to offer except those instagram likes.
    P2, in the end, u cant eat ur cake and have it.

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    1. 23 years and your brain is still like this? Nne you fall my hand. You should know that the guy has nothing to offer you. Just venture there, if you come ba k with your thighs intact, you try. Smh

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  6. Poster one....ur name is Sorry, dt guy wil Fuck dd hell outta u nd u wil b acting dt movie on his bed, poster two...I wan sitdwn 4 stella "joko" read comment too.
    IG:Marthadiva01

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  7. Poster 1 - Follow stella's advice, close ur legs biko. if u accept, that might be d beginning of ur 'woes'. u sound very materialistic tho
    Poster 2 - Tell ur husband what he said 1st & if he tells u to accept it, go ahead but pls don't forget to return the loan ooo. but if he declines pls don't collect it to avoid troubles in d future. God'll send helpers to u.

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  8. poster 2 beware of greek gifts. poster 1 if u want to sleep with him go ahead but i hope u will be able to bear d consequences of ur actions if it arises

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  9. Poster one, u are just a loose,cheap girl mtchewww I can't deal biko.poster 2 there is nothing wrong in kind gesture unless una two get negative plans

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  10. Hahaha
    Na siddon look we dey too oh
    Gist2: I won't tell u not to accept money from the old guy. Because I know some persons are directed to our lives to be our helpers. I also think you should tell your hubby before collecting. And I kno your hubby's answer will be NO. Broke men and their wahala sef. I wonder why females stil get married to them.
    Anywayssssss......
    Gist1: no way. Don't go see him. Don't look for someone to suck u. Are u a dog? Na so poverty do you reach? If you don't like where your life is atm y don't you involve HE who gave you life because He knows our end from our beginning.
    He had plans for us while we were still unformed in our mothers womb. So take it to Him in prayers.
    Best of luck.

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    1. Bianca, I hope ur married to otedola, if not, think before u say rubbish.

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    2. You never can judge feom here what the man's answer will be and I don't think it's nice to categorise anyone. Life treats us differently, remember.

      POSTER 1
      Your value is shaky. If not, you wouldn't consider going to meet him up no matter how cashless you're at the moment.
      Am tired of peeps holding onto poverty as if it's their village witch. I remember my plans to fry akara in the evening and sell satchet water every Sunday in church when things became dead hard for my parents during my college days. I was damned the shame coz I believe there's dignity in labour.My mom cried and maybe God saw my heart and gave us overflow. When I tell my story some think it's made up compared to how well God has brought me.
      So dearie go get your hands dirty and do something. I can give you free ideas too

      POSTER 2
      Seriously you're already feeling guilty in your heart which you shouldn't do coz your husband can read through your unconscious display when you tell him.
      Nothing happened between you too. Bring your clear cards to the table and maturedly/lovingly tell him what's on ground and how you want him to be the one to make the decision (they like it hen you give them such power,lol). Whatever he says, just take it that way.
      You can learn how to make small chops and snacks and supply to schools or start with families near you who have kids in school.

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  11. U became horny,ur juices started flowing,u looked at his pictures,but u were not attracted to anything about him,please fly out of this blog and take ur confusion along wiv u.Joker!

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    1. Godchic...lmao...ur own no good ooo

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    2. Hahahahah...Godchic!...Lol@ "fly out of this blog and take ur confusion along wiv u"...

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    3. You spoke the words out of my mouth Godchic. Narrator 2 is not 100% truthful. A Nigerian man will help you in school and he won't shine your congo?

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    4. Y isn't there a like button for replies

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  12. Ok poster two: I know you want to relief the burden if the responsibilities of ur husband!!!!
    I don't know how desperate you are!!!!
    I'm trying hard to be realistic as much as possible and put myself in your position.

    If I say u should tell ur husband , I would be lying if I won't tell you to not let him know, the loan is from an old male friend, and we all know men and their ego , that won't go well with hubby.

    Secondly , this ur old friend definitely has feelings that is not buried for you , accepting the loan will give way for more communication , and further unknown fuckery ! Na from clap, na dance dey take start.

    I'm still scratching my head, what you should do , so as not to jeopardize yourself . Ronald to the rescue

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  13. Poster 2, you need to let ur friend from d past knw u will not cheat on ur husband if he gvs u cash for business or wateva u plan to do, wen dat is settled I dnt see any reason u shld not be honest with ur husband, as lng as he trusts u, poster one no comment.

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  14. Poster 1
    E dey for your body.
    You know say you wan do but you are pretending to be a good girl.
    I think you are not a very smart chic.
    Not only will he sleep with you but he will also pass you around and one kobo waka pass role you won't see.
    Better grow a brain and go for your NYSC

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    1. @Poster 1: you have no principles.
      In fact you lack scruples.
      Listen to yourself " i have not had sex since November " #nymphoalert
      Let other people advice you abeg coz your story is vexing me.
      23 year old girl without common sense?
      Can't deal.

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  15. Poster 1 and 2,
    You guys are on the same level...
    Am sure both of you are not virgins...
    Use what you have and get what you want....

    Poster1,99% of actresses fuck movie producers for roles...so be wise and use your head...


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    1. Simple and straight to the point.

      Anons will sleep under this comment now.

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    2. NA WA ! WHAT KIND OF ADVICE IS THIS?
      OKAY, THE HANDOUT FOR "HUSTLING" WILL SOON BE PROVIDED BY YOU, ENCOURAGING ROTTEN LIFESTYLE?
      THIS ADVICE IS OLOSHO 101 ABI?

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  16. Lol! Today's narratives get as e be. From the aspiring THOT who wants to be an actress to the contradicting housewife's story!

    I'm pretty sure I read your husband is well to do,so for what reason do you want to collect a loan free of interest from a former lover ??? Smh , you are soo greedy and silly ,damn.

    Today's narrative just got me irritated, mcheeeew.

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  17. Poster 1 : go and fuck d guy na...movie role u won't get. Better respect ur age. Rubbish!
    Poster 2: u better reject d loan Coz condition will follow later. And imagine d lies u will cook up to tell ur husband coz he will never agree to d rubbish of u and ur so called no sexual attachment ex

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  18. Today's posters are undercover oloshos.im not judging anyone abeg,nobody holypass.its just that u guys are 4ny,u already know what u wona do but come here to look for validation,toh over to u bvs do u validate? *drops sugarcane*

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  19. @ poster 1, ur story no flow at all. Poster 2. Hmmmmm, stella I beg. Make u shift that ur big bombom make me sef sit down near u for comment reading. Lol.

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  20. @1, I don't even know how to cuss u, go and fu.k.him make we rest for u, u want to be an actress my ass.
    @2, babe no dulling ooh, collect the money after all he did not say he will browse ur website before giving u d money, a lot of guys still help their ex , tell ur hubby a friend borrowed u money, u better don't miss this opportunity cos its now obvious that love from ur hubby alone cannot foot ur bills.

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  21. Yes I have once exchanged sex for something ...been dating this guy for years and he had money and never helped me to establish my self ..tried to gather small thing but nothing reasonable came out of it ..so fast forward lerra I met this wealthy guy that chased me from left right and centre showering me gifts etc and all this while I refused to have sex with him ..He got me a job and I wanted a business on the side ..so I told him I needed about 5mil to start and he asked for sex and after much thinking I gave it to him (be cos my previous be wey dey lash me scather nor help me in any way)..presently I am married with two kids and my business growing like wild fire..but an hush gist oi. .my best friend doesn't even know and my hubby an great man...sometimes I wonder if I would be able to accomplish all this without trading that ..God 4give me..I am not advicing u to ..but a movie role sounds dumb..He who is without sin be the first to cast the stone...poster 1 u sound like a baby sha close ya legs.. poster 2...hmm mm. .Make every nor come dey wan betray u lerra except u wanna hide it from u r hubby..sometimes you have to just take the bull by the horn..A leap of faith..cos u need to survive.

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  22. poster 1: Dont try it, dont even consider. He will just f**k u and pass you to other members of the crew and u might not even get a role or maybe na waka pass dem go give you, i've been on several movie set, i know wot i am talking abt.

    Poster 2: your situation is a bit dicey, maybe you should stylishly tell your husband if her accepts the offer, you go for it, just be smart.

    Please click on my name for Fashion/Fitness/Beauty tips

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  23. poster1 I won't judge you because I have also being in your shoes it's not your fault that you have a good heart but I will advice u to stay away from sex if you sleep to get just a role don't you think you will also sleep
    with everytom dick and Harry in the industry it's better you do things right maybe one day luck will shine on you and grace would speak for you.@poster2 face ur hubby o to avoid story's dat touch that man has an agenda you hurt him and you think he doesn't wonna hurt u back

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  24. Poster 2 if your hubby can't provide for you and your kids then I'm sorry to say he is not a "wonderful man, good father & husband" as you said. Now that's out of d way: face your work biko. You don't need this kind of help that may hav "ropes" attached to it. Pray for a clean source of help.

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    1. Lies they tell themselves, until the scale falls from their eyes, and they will send their stories to blogs.

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  25. Poster 2 don't follow all these Saint Mary gist..get a lawyer and sign agreement with him..and pray over the money...

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  26. Poster 1- really I have so many things to say to you..and they are very insulting.but am too heavy to be angry these days.

    So you think you will land any role? You write dumb,you however must be.kedu ka- how can you just allow this guy to control the converstion like this? Even to the extent you don't discuss the role abi acting just the things he needs to do to you? You should be provoked at his impunity abi na alacrity(oyibo)..be prepared to be used,very used.Already you have given him such upper hand and have indirectly assured him he is so getting what he wants..mstchewww.

    If not I for say go there and let him see you have more than your body to offer,you are just 23years pls its too early to start,by the time you hit 29 and you continue like this you would have lost count on how many pple that used you.

    Namsense and I can assure you,no movie role for you. Get away from me osiso!

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    1. Waka Waka dey age person male and female. At 23 before you act 100 roles you go don old pass your mama elder Aunty, the road to OLOSHO is filled with brokenness, regret, pain and lack of self respect.
      Money is not everything o!

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  27. Poster 2:I'm of the belief that when two come together to become one, nothing must be hidden from eachother. Speak to your hubby first about this man! let your hubby know what he's offering you. The decision should be made btw you and your hubby, not just you alone. Besides, since the guy said it's a loan and you had nothing to do with him, it should be fine but speak to your hubby first.

    Poster 1: I'm also 23 years old and trust me I get your plight. You really have to know who you are. Are you going to compromise your dignity for a 'mere' movie role? trust me, even if you do something with this guy, chances are you'll regret it later. If there's one thing I want you to take from all that I have said... it is that 'you should always choose to do the right thing over your emotions'. Goodluck!

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  28. Poster 1, you need factory reset slap.

    Poster 2, don't start what you know you cannot finish. na from clap dem dey enter dance. a word is enough.

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    1. Hehehehehe! See olosho wey dey advice person.
      Mama mia! World don spoil!
      Was it not runs your sister did, remind me again how she got pregnant for a married man. Jona's PA! Lmao.
      Delusional lots.

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    2. Eyaa! Sabongida ora! See your yellow face! Your beauty beat Jayem own hands down. Lol. But you for comment with only one ID Naa! You talk true o, na from clap dance dey start. Pele Madam Docky! . LMAO!!

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  29. Dear married woman, do not take money from a man that is not your husband or family.
    Except you can tell your husband the truth and he approves so tomorrow, you don't find yourself telling stories that touch.

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  30. poster 1---just tell us say you dy find person wey go give u head and stop all this acting rubish,if u really had the talent you wouldnt even give that guy a listening ear'

    poater2-----make sure your husband is aware of what you are trying to do so that incase yawa gass,him go dy aware

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  31. Make I read comments.

    ~@iamjbankz SA to President Jonathan 2015~

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  32. Stella I go join u read comments

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  33. Pero omo Senator30 January 2015 at 14:53

    Poster One: I don't know if i sound harsh but u are a SLUT. Women like are d reasons men disrespect women.Just imagine the rubbish coming out from ur mouth. Just do it and face d shame. IDIOT.
    Poster Two: When u are married, u shouldnt give an EX or toaster access to ur life. What d hell is ur Probs. He will ask for sex later, does he look like darosa to u or is he a OTEDOLA. Mtcheewww. Please respect urself, u decided to marry ur hubby and u knew he didnt av money so face it

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    1. Pero omo ale giving advice. Good geh, clap for your stupid self

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  34. N1, I swear down e deh your body. N2, make I face my work my MD is around.

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  35. Poster one:
    If you sleep with that man then your are the biggest MUMU on earth. They all play desperate girls like you. Wise up o, abi u be learner.

    Poster two: discuss it with your hubby first. Carry your hubby along every single conversation, if the man Is still comfortable borrowing you the money without anything attached then you are good to go.

    Poster one you MUMU sha hahaha.

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  36. Poster 1, hw are u even sure itz d real person calling n chatting u up, cos many ppl use oda ppls acct nw. Y dnt u try goin 4 acting audition, if ur gud, u'l get pick n nt Bcos of ur body,mayb d sex part wil cum up later o, bt u"l b picked based on ur abilities, how do u no afta d sex u'l get d roles, e b lyk say u no no men dey lie bah. Gudluck 2 u. *lemme read P2 story*

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  37. Poster one........you are one horny girl!!!.....for the love of God......"sex is not food"
    If u want to get sucked.... Get sucked in the right way....on ur own terms....u don't have to exchange sex with anything



    Poster 2.....I don't understand why people still keep their ex.......the day u get married....that day u should STOP any kind of connection with your ex....
    Ds ex are not always loyal.....dem no marry u...or u no marry them......den just don't have anything to do with them ex in d future.... They spoil things for someone



    OK....I dey go eat!!!



    @Galore

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  38. I give up Stella! Who are these women?
    P1-I am going to insult you because you are younger than my youngest sibling. Are you alright? Do you see how people are being killed left right and center, somebody you do not know says he is a director and you that is waiting on NYSC is talking about being frustrated about life. Frustrated about what? That your batch is about to be called up? You see Chika Ike in Dubai and you think if you sleep with a director, Linda Ikeji will be featuring you soon? Where is your self esteem? Where is your self respect? Do you know I can open an instagram account and pretend to be a big producer and use it to be packing girls. Why would you trust a man that on the first call is asking you for sex? Do you know his HIV status, his marital status? His real anything? You want to go and offer yourself because you are horny and you want advancement. You think someone like that will even help you? He did not even mention anything, did not even try to make his offer tempting. See the person that used you in November should have taught you a lesson but you are still acting like a dundee. Please respect yourself before you go and carry bele or disease and truly alter the future that God has had mercy to prepare for you. All these dense young girls sef.

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  39. Lol,poster1,Dnt bother sleeping with that guy cos u would regret it, this is d same thing he tells other desperate girls like you who wants to act home video by fire by force, he will sleep with you nd pass u to other guys, he is using this medium to sleep with other girls too nd he wnt give u any role, infact he will stop picking ur calls sef after he has finished with u, a word is enough for d wise, poster2, this help is not free, just as we all know , there are lots of guys who dntind sleeping with a married woman with kids, if u r ready to commit adultery then ngwanu bye bye like Ibo ppl go talk am

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  40. Poster one if u like ride dat modafucker 4rm 2day till 2mrow,my kitchen stool will still b more famous dan you! Use ur head n close ur fucking legs.

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    1. Famous than kitchen stool? BWAHAAAAA BWAHAAAAA😂

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  41. Poster1, try n be more focused n concentrate...soon u wil be off 4 ur service n if really u ve d skills to display on screen, believe me NYSC camp n CD group n associations wil be d best avenue to be discovered,,,gudluck!. Poster 2,,,,hmmmm its kinda confusing,,,,,,,does ur DH knew abt him as being in ur past? If ur DH ex wants to help him in dat manner, wil U buy d idea? I really feel ur pains buh plz pray for genuine helper and al d holySprit to guide u in making decisions on d issue,,,,,,,am sure God wil profer solution if u re sincere wit him

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    1. Let mi also add dat u shld just accept d situation for now n stop telling evry dick n harry abt hw life has been unfair,,,,,,,,,perhaps cheap pity frn d ur ex n his likes. D moment u start selling ur DH in dat light, u wil place urself at his mercy. Pretent u re alright especially to ur ex! He can't help U wit ur DH in d picture expect u re ready to play.

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  42. P2-You were collecting someones money when you were single, you ran away and married because you had not agreed to date him (but he was fending for you because he is Angel Gabriel). Now he is offering you money for a business and you are contemplating. How do some of us think for goodness sake? So you collect money and if this guy makes advances, you will shout at him? How will you explain him to your husband? He is a man that wanted to marry me but now he just wants my progress -_- You say you are a graduate, biko apply some of the sense you should have learnt in School. The rest of you single ladies, stop marrying without work or business to avoid this kind of stupidity. The two posters need hot slaps from above. I tire for una. I hope this is not the grade of women in this generation because guys always say you all act like you have fish brain and I am beginning to see it. Stella, BBC please forgive the insults. I just expect women, graduates for that matter to act a little more sensibly in these strange times.

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    1. Chikito a.k.a FinalSay30 January 2015 at 19:47

      I love you! Come.... Come.... Come.... *hug* you are such a darling.
      80% of Nigerian women be marrying without job or business since 18th century. Lol. Even my mama ooohh. Hehehe.
      Anyhoo, if them like.... That's why they always hating on single independent women.

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    2. Lololol @ because he is angel Gabriel. The lies women tell! You think you are talking to babies?

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  43. Lmao! First poster there's no hurry in life, be patient, you will make it when God says u will. Second poster hmmm, avoid temptation let temptation avoid u, what are u still doing communicating with ur ex? Na so e de take start o! Dont end up doing what will make u lose that wonderful husband of urs o! All that glitters is not gold. That kain loan, hmmm!

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  44. Lmao! First poster there's no hurry in life, be patient, you will make it when God says u will. Second poster hmmm, avoid temptation let temptation avoid u, what are u still doing communicating with ur ex? Na so e de take start o! Dont end up doing what will make u lose that wonderful husband of urs o! All that glitters is not gold. That kain loan, hmmm!

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  45. N1: with this your narrative you and principle shouldn't be seen side by side. Gosh lady! You're old enough to know the pros and cons of sex over anything. Just do what you want.

    N2: the past should remain where it belongs i.e. far behind. Don't complicate your marriage with ex this and ex that, before you write a different kind of chronicle. On the other hand you can discuss with your hubby, if he is cool with it fine. The man may have your interest at heart genuinely without any strings attached. Good luck.

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  46. Madam 2, I dunno 4 d matter again o, God doesn't send dose kinda helpers, u tink sum1 wil help u, den u'l runaway wit anoda n d saint wil stil cum n help 4 free now again. My opinion, u beta respect yaslf n sit down dere, bt wat do I no? Lemme read comments. *toothache*

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  47. At poster 1. Like I tell ladies if you want to have sex with who ever...kindly do it because that's what you want not because you expect something in return.. So that tomorrow you won't bore us with ya disappointment story
    ...don't have sex in exchange for any movie role....cos that means if you are unlucky you would have sex with the full cast and crew including females to get anywhere..

    Poster 2....abeg I no sabi...some men are agree with their ladies for asking for money for credit from another man......or even collecting cake from blog....this na bussiness money.....I just hope the past doesn't come calling.....because if kasala burst no one would believe you claim not to have gotten to first base with this man before your marriage to your husband not to talk of while married.....thread with caution.... Over to other BVs..... If you ask me I will say don't collect..God is jealous not to talk of a husband that is actually trying to do the right thing by you and his family

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  48. 1. I'll advice you go for your NYSC prog 1st and forget about this guy. Its so wrong to do what he's asking. He'll dump you when he's done with your body. Go for service and let God help you in your career.

    2. Hnnmmm be careful cos this man may go beyong loan giving. If you must accept his offer, let your hubby know about it all and how it all began. Do not keep him in the dark. Incase things turn sour along the line, your marriage won't be in any trouble.

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  49. Poster 1
    You want 2 things at once,a mind blowing sex and a movie role!Abeg tie your small legs and pretend to be a mermaid!

    Poster 2
    I can't believe you did not end up with a rich martured man(who has a good heart) who loves you took care of your needs while you were in school.He didn't even take advantage of you or demanded anything(sex or marriage) in return,you went ahead and married a broke ass man without telling him and yet,this man is still willing to help you.
    You don't even have a concience,you are still trying to get more money from him.I fear you but I no go run sha!
    Abeg concentrate on your broke ass husband and leave this man alone....na him send you to marry poor man?Mtchewwww

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  50. Narr 2,you've just got to tell your husband,be honest with him,you said you were never intimate with the ex,so you've got nothing to hide..the devil has no free gift.what if you go on and accept the money from your ex,and he keeps pestering you, and your husband finds out somehow?where do you go from there?am guessing you'd come back to chronicles to tell tales again?

    Like the bv who sent in a memo on thurs IHN said,all you narrators should keep us apprised of new developments as they happen..

    Why do I feel most narrators on chronicles already know the course/line of action to take but just want to seek validation?
    But then again,I maybe wrong..

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  51. Poster 1, I feel like dashing you a slap, not after all that is happening in the movie industry, you still want to give your body to a total stranger.... They will just pass you around and highest na WAKA PASS they go give you to act.... Mtcheew....

    Poster 2, I see a genuine love here....

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    1. Lmao.. Asin free slap... Poster one I follow join.. Come and take this slap.. Don't worry, you'll see yourself acting soon.. Nonsense, I don't even have words for you because it seems like your mind has been made up.. Who are you trying to form good girl for biko? Last time you had sex with a director was in November and did you get any role? Are you daft? If you are horny and wanna have sex, that's a different thing, but how is that our business?
      Come, mind yaself there o!

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  52. Today chronicles is narrated by horny BV's
    Hahahhahahhahahhahhaaaa

    P1 after fucking him for d role,
    What next?
    Heheehehehee
    Sha Goan bangg him,
    Conji na bastard.
    Hehheheheheheheee.

    P2...lol
    Conji na bastard too o
    Expect d unexpected.

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    1. The annoying thing he hasnt promised her anything/role whatsoever. As i stated earlier, all he has to offer is those ig likes. Shikena.

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  53. Poster one...I must be popular by force.
    I know u can't act to save ur career
    I just don't like people who beg to be in d limelight at every cost.

    Poster two...if ur mum soji
    Arrange with her to pretend she got d loan from her meeting people n give her her cut too
    When u have d money in ur possession
    F**k ur ex n he would never ask u to pay back again
    Instead he wld be dropping more n more cash
    You have to learn to be selfish cos if it were ur DH he wldnt think twice
    Remain blessed IJN

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    1. Remain blessed? Yur crase no b here.

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    2. Hahaaaaaaaass + extra +jara
      Una no kee person for here o!

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    3. I agree with maamie on this

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    4. Werey Mamie! Lololol. A good strategy.

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  54. Dnt mean To sound judgemental bt poster1 ur story sounds stupid,sleep with him once nd u'd becom his f**k buddy 4 as long as possible,how many will u have to slp with to see dat u achieve ur goals? U wnt to fly to the top,*okwa nwayo nwayo ka-eji alacha ofe di okwu* calm ur tities Dwn abeg.

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  55. 1. You have what it takes to be better! You have what it takes to be "smarter"! Everything you need within your reach.........
    2. Face your meat o.

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  56. Ewwww! Poster two, that's a tough one o! Is your hubby an understanding person? Does he know about him, as in, did u at any point mention this man to hubby? If your husband isn't understanding enough...hmmmm I don't know what to say o mbok...

    Poster one, u decide on what you want. How long would u keep exchanging p***y for roles? My advice, don't start what u can't complete.

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  57. Poster1, like Stella said don't be decieved by all these things actresses flaunt on social media, they go extra miles for them. If you want to act, do it because you love it and pls don't start by exchanging sex for movie role, them go turn you to keziah.

    Poster2, I siddon like Stella dey read comment

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  58. Poverty is a real bas*ard! otherwise narrative 1 wouldn't ask such silly questions.
    get out of her!
    yes, sell yourself...for nothing!
    Because a random stranger liked your instagram pics, you are now considering having sex with him because he was honest about what he wants!? get out of here! go ad read a book. I would have said more, but the more I'm typing, the more I'm getting irritated and angry.
    Evidently you are bored, find a hobby or something.

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  59. you know , usually i don't comment but these two narratives pissed me off so teh....both of u are crazy dumb and common sense is not common at all. chaiiii, u think that man will not collect interest in another form later abi? ashawo married woman...and as for u, give ur tohtoh u hear? cheap slut....guuuusssshhhhhh i'm sooo pissed at women and their brain these days and YES i'm a woman but one who'll rather keep her dignity intact without coming to stella's blog to be told to do so.

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  60. Poster2 dat a diff one oh,nt telin ur man wud seem somhw like u'rr a bad wify,nd telling him may result to sumtin else,u know men nd their Ego

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  61. @ poster 1, abeg close ur legs, d man will end up sleeping wit u and not give a role

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  62. Poster 2, you might be stepping on something too dissy and you might not be able to handle the output, please stay clear oh!

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  63. Poverty is a real bas*ard! otherwise narrative 1 wouldn't ask such silly questions.
    get out of her!
    yes, sell yourself...for nothing!
    Because a random stranger liked your instagram pics, you are now considering having sex with him because he was honest about what he wants!? get out of here! go ad read a book. I would have said more, but the more I'm typing, the more I'm getting irritated and angry.
    Evidently you are bored, find a hobby or something.

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    1. Hmmm, that is why I respect that cleaner, roasting corn, mai Barrow etc
      Because they refused to let poverty make them do wrong, they chose hardwork and honor!

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  64. Narrative No 1: read my lips... U r very stupid, u lack self esteem. U make d women folk seem like its only sex we can offer. U beta go t God in prayer n let him direct u on wot exactly t do wt ur life. Nothing is permanent in lyf- if u exchange sex f movie roles, u make it big n u becom one of d big shots in nollywood. One day, one day ur era go pass... Wot Is d gain if u gain d whole world of fame n loose ur soul in exchange f sex... Get a lyf biko! U disgust me n to think u claim t hav principle. Odiegwu!

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  65. you know , usually i don't comment but these two narratives pissed me off so teh....both of u are crazy dumb and common sense is not common at all. chaiiii, u think that man will not collect interest in another form later abi? ashawo married woman...and as for u, give ur tohtoh u hear? cheap slut....guuuusssshhhhhh i'm sooo pissed at women and their brain these days and YES i'm a woman but one who'll rather keep her dignity intact without coming to stella's blog to be told to do so.

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  66. Poster one, biko close your legs.
    Poster two, please don't accept. Don't complicate your life with any ex whether u think u dated him or not. God would provide another helper.

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  67. Poster 1:

    I just wasted 5 minutes of my life reading your arrant nonsense.

    Yes, I have no hugs for you. No kind words!

    Join the queue of ex-posters who start trolling when scolded for irresponsible behaviour.

    Night call is the free awoof from Telecom companies? And your Cheap skate movie director used that to "masturbate in your ears" and you were there smiling like a pigeon(sorry o, TGW)?

    So "sucking" is the latest craze Nigerian men use to capture novice girls? Shior.

    Poster 2:

    While he was giving you cash, he didn't demand for anything in return?

    God won't come down to help you.
    See the man as your helper and seize the opportunity but carry your husband along.
    When you collect the money, go with your husband to thank him and plan the business with him.

    Don't start pinching the money and lending it piece by piece to hubby o.

    Commit it to the business and done take a penny out.






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  68. Poster 2, this is a tricky situation.
    Do not keep such a thing as secret from your husband.
    Never keep secrets in marriage especially in this kind of case. It backfires.
    That will be your first mistake if you try it.

    It seems you people really need this man's help.
    Hmmmm!
    On a normal day, I would have said don't accept the loan and cut off all communications with him, but since you guys didn't really date or have sex,
    I think you should tell him to give your husband the loan instead.
    You guys should make sure you pay back the loan when the business matures.
    Make sure you do that. Even if he turns it down, insist.
    That is after discussing it with your hubby and he is ok with the idea.
    Be very careful because the devil is cunning.
    Do not get unnecessarily close to him.
    Let all transactions and communications be between him and you husband.
    If he genuinely wants to help you, he won't mind.
    He will understand and even respect you more.
    All the best.


    Poster 1
    Dear, you come across as a 'lose' girl in the making. Sorry to say so,its just an observation.

    It seems you've subconsciously made up your mind on what to do, though you are still in denial.
    All the best all you carry out your decisions. Whatever it is.
    Just know that once you start exchanging sex for favours, you will never stop till you are doomed!

    My apologies if my assumption is wrong.
    Be careful.
    Bye!

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  69. poster 1.......i sympathize wt u in advance for so many loss u are abt to suffer. @ 23yrs? short of words
    Poster 2...... loan wtout interest? it wont end there, u re writing a letter to distraction and temptation. Get prepared
    Stella, this two posters are they sisters? They have a lot in common, gullible!

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  70. Poster 1,the ball is in your court.It seems to me your mind is already made up sef.

    Poster 2,collect the money biko,at least it's a loan not a gift,it is just without interest.You can run it by your husband though,if that would clear your conscience.

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  71. Make I follow you read comments. Not in the mood for today... Glad it's weekend though!

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  72. First poster,when you start sleeping with him,it will never stop,and you night eventually not get the movie role sef so close your legs and relax,you're just fresh out of school,am sure there other opportunity that doesn't involve sleeping with someone that will present itself later on.so close ya leg and chill

    @poster 2,make I read comments

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  73. Hmmmmm
    These 2 situations are too dicey.

    Make I siddon like Stella on one of her special seat.

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    1. What is dicey?
      Poster 1 Lack mental restraint and self respect for even considering dat daft idea
      Poster 2 Has long throat, without the man will you not survive? Don't start what you cannot finish?
      Lagbaja song * I no be your uncle, your uncle dey for village. .....

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  74. Poster1: it's obvious the guy only want Sex from you, and might probably not get any role after all. If ur soo much interested in acting why no find out and go for auditions. Poster2: your story mess for my mouth add salt. Just think we'll and make sure you don't make mistake.

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  75. Narrative 1, exchanging sex for anything whatsoever isn't really a good idea and as stella said, he will keep coming back for more and eventually, might end up not even being close to gaining you a position as a backstage assistance more less to act at all. So Please, wise up biko. You dnt even have any atom of attraction for him.............SO whats Up????

    Narrative 2, Understand that you are married and anything you do right now behind your husband involving another man will cause kasala somehow. So if you can, tell him and if not, Please fashi the man ooo. You need a business, discuss it with your husband first and hear his response. That is """Just What I Think""""

    Stella, Make I fastforward time to 4pm??? I am really eager oo. I have even sent a message before time. Chai. lol

    More Blessing all kind hearted pp.God Loves Cheerful givers. He will surely bless una more.


    """Tougue out to all beefers""""" Make una carry matter for head dey hawk ehn. Market go sell ooooooooo

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  76. Poster 1,the ball is in your court.It seems to me your mind is already made up sef.

    Poster 2,collect the money biko,at least it's a loan not a gift,it is just without interest.You can run it by your husband though,if that would clear your conscience.

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  77. POSTER1.... do u not have a bf? If u are horny and needs a head, it shouldn't come from a self proclaimed movie Director who would probably nvr look at ur face after fucking d hell out of u. Stay away from him and think up another creativity for urself, I hv had experiences wid diz randy directors, deprived of a role for not yielding. So dear girl, give urself clad yourself some dignity.

    POSTER 2.... hmmm, d offer is tempting dear girl, but tomorrow is bleak, and the aftermath yet unknown. Oblige him now wot happens tomorrow? He may turn around and start to behave like d he-goat they all are. Turn down d offer appreciably and wait upon d Lord from whence ur help should come. Job will come, its only a matter of time.

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  78. Young girls of nowadays. Ready to do anything for money an stupid fame. What have you traded your morals for bitch?! Come on.
    A fresh graduate at that. There are people out there who graduated 5years ago and even more...without a job, yet, they didn't sell their selves cheat for some common gain.
    Get your mind right on girl, that road you wanna travel, doesn't bring good fruits that will perhaps sustain you.
    Calm down. Life will be better for you.
    When you are finished being used and hopeless, you will come here to say MEN ARE WICKED. Fuck.

    -You had better tell your husband before hit goes wrong.
    Afterall, he's not giving you the money for free.
    Tell you hubby about it nowwwwww!

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  79. Poster 1: the truth is that you will get dumped after the whole sex of a thing. And trust me, the guy will make sure all his friends will taste you. Please respect yourself and close those legs of yours before you enter one chance.
    Poster 2: please discuss it first with your hubby, if he agrees, then go for it but make sure your hubby is present when getting the loan from the man.
    More grace to you all when handling it.

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  80. Poster one, where are your manners and morals? I get so sick to my stomach even reading your epistle. It beats me that a man you do not know would call you and start talking bs and would accept. Have some self worth, would you?!

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  81. I forgot to advice poster 2,
    Accept the offer and plan a lie you will tell your man...
    Don't be a Mugu,shine your eyes...

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  82. P2- all na scheming, Dat man is no old fool and will get his pound of flesh soon. P1- u already tinking sex and acting horny so wetin remain? Stella's advice is suitable if u like take if u like leave.

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  83. @poster1 : you are foolish tho.
    So what if after funking him n he refuses 2 help you.
    I don't know y am wasting my time typing sef.
    You are on ur own
    Keep dreaming
    @poster2 :Talk 2 ur hubby abt it,that's if d man doesn't have bad intensions towards you.
    But I don't think is write 4 u 2 b communicating with him tho.
    Ur hubby might start suspecting u.
    Good luck

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  84. First madame- if you are horny -there is nothing wrong with that. find someone to help you scratch your itch but selling yourself so cheap is a whole other level. The man is an animal who preys on girls like you online by liking pictures - dem no teach you how to say thank you if person do something for you? say thank you and face your front.
    second madam - you know you did something wrong to that man, if not you would have told when you were getting married. He seems like a nice person but be careful. let your husband know everything going on and if he says he doesn't want you to accept help from there, then let tgat be the end. don't be the fire in your own kitchen.

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  85. #1 Comot monkey hand for soup before the hand go turn to human being hand(Na igbo proverb)if i no get am correct abeg make una help me out.

    #2 Make i follow stella siddon look.

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  86. Narrative one: I think Stella sugar has said it all, once you start giving sex in exchange for anything, you can be rest assured you will be passed around like a dog!

    Narrative two; you need to be sure the man doesn't start asking you for what you can't give and depending on the kind of hubby you have, you can have a talk with him since you never had anything to do with the man. But if he is the suspicious type then forget the whole thing.
    Nah my own opinion oh!

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  87. Narrative one: I think Stella sugar has said it all, once you start giving sex in exchange for anything, you can be rest assured you will be passed around like a dog!

    Narrative two; you need to be sure the man doesn't start asking you for what you can't give and depending on the kind of hubby you have, you can have a talk with him since you never had anything to do with the man. But if he is the suspicious type then forget the whole thing.
    Nah my own opinion oh!

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  88. Narrative one: I think Stella sugar has said it all, once you start giving sex in exchange for anything, you can be rest assured you will be passed around like a dog!

    Narrative two; you need to be sure the man doesn't start asking you for what you can't give and depending on the kind of hubby you have, you can have a talk with him since you never had anything to do with the man. But if he is the suspicious type then forget the whole thing.
    Nah my own opinion oh!

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  89. Stella,it seems my 1st comments were not published.Hmm..
    Poster1
    Tie ur small legs and pretend to be a mermaid!
    Poster 2
    You are so shameless!A man helped you financially through school and you got married without even telling him...you even ended up with a broke ass man!Kai,Karma is a bitch!
    Pls leave that man alone and stop thinking of collecting money from him,focus on your broke DH and pray things get better!There are martured single female BVs on SDK's blog,connect him to any of them abeg,you don't deserve his 10kobo sef.long throat!!

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  90. Poster1 jejely wait for service and after that go get a job and stop with this ur acting forming rubbish. If you want sex go ahead and do it nd don come here asking us if you should like we even care sef. Since ure horny please ur self biko, inukwa ihe mmadu agaghi anuru ndi mmadu.
    Poster2 if your hubby decides to collect some money from his Ex gfrnd nd even tells you about it, won't you feel bad? Of cos you will and am sure you will even start suspecting that he has been seeing her behind you or you will even start snooping his phone. If you can answer this question fiercely without batting an eye then go ahead and tell ur hubby bfr collecting it. Do unto others what you will like them to do for you( Bible) talk am. Unless you are ready to start cheating on ur DH like una dey call am. Am out

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  91. Poster1 jejely wait for service and after that go get a job and stop with this ur acting forming rubbish. If you want sex go ahead and do it nd don come here asking us if you should like we even care sef. Since ure horny please ur self biko, inukwa ihe mmadu agaghi anuru ndi mmadu.
    Poster2 if your hubby decides to collect some money from his Ex gfrnd nd even tells you about it, won't you feel bad? Of cos you will and am sure you will even start suspecting that he has been seeing her behind you or you will even start snooping his phone. If you can answer this question fiercely without batting an eye then go ahead and tell ur hubby bfr collecting it. Do unto others what you will like them to do for you( Bible) talk am. Unless you are ready to start cheating on ur DH like una dey call am. Am out

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  92. How does it concern me? you guys can g2h for all i care and don't care.

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  93. Hahaha poster two , talk true - your kpekus don de itch you small small to cheat on yur hubby.... Looool
    Poster one, na the sucking nia de make you confuse???? You better go find bisexual to give you the suck of your life......
    Exchanging sex for favours is the trick of trade this days..... The offeror has to only raise the stake for the offeree to accept. #NoBodyHolyPass .
    Then again a line has to be drawn when it's a sex favour for a job opportunity. I will never advice anyone to trade sex for job . The short falls superceeds the gains.

    Stella Corks, finding it difficult commenting via blackberry browser ooo...

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  94. #1 you'll be surprised, that mpki is not even a producer.....and think about how many people he must have slept with thru this means b4 you fantasize about his Hiv infested tongue on p***y....
    Btw na konji dey worry you!

    #2 the Oga might be harmless, and how did you start communicating after marriage? Thru calls or you went to see him? If thru calls, he can assist you with the money without you seeing him nau, abi? Telling your hubby depends on the kind of person he is, or better still don't tell him and give a necessary lie if you are a good "necessary liar"

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  95. POSTER 2 IS HIS NAME JK??

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  96. POSTER 2 IS HIS NAME JK??

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  97. POSTER 2 IS HIS NAME JK??

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  98. Poster 1, nothing wey we no go hear for here. So you dey ask Stella and this honourable bvs whether you go go collect prick and get a head. Meanwhile you don already dey release grease from your kini. Don't come here and give us another chronicle of how you were used and dumped. Imagine the silly question. Mtcheeeeewwwww.

    Poster 2, Hmmmmmm... don't reject cassava and be eyeing tapioca. Leave the man alone and face your marriage. you want to eat from both sides of the mouth abi? na that type dey run belle. ' Onye ju ekwensu, ya ju olu ya nile" Chizoba Ibebuike come and do the interpreter.I don talk my own.

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  99. Poster 2, if he wants to give u the money, sharperly send ur acct details, don't go meet him to collect the money oh. If story enters the sending to ur acct, my dear, find ur levels, it means he's asking for something in exchange. Don't, I repeat don't tell ur husband who d money is from if he eventually gives u.

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    1. I suspect you are a single lady which is why you are giving such advice so i will spare you some sharp words but please make sure you do not take this attitude or mind set to your husband's house.
      Odikwa very dangerous inugo?

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    2. Eka wey fit fuck monkey 4 say money dey grow ontop tree

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    3. dont u just wish i was single????

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  100. @P 1 sleeping with him is not a garanty that you will get any role so as Stella said close your legs and let your audition speak for you. Have some self respect. If you are so horny get yourself a boyfriend oe better still get a vibrator or something. @P 2. No married man will ever believe that you got cash from someone that is not a family member without strings attached. Even if he does not say anytin now trust me he will rob. It on your face in future. If you truly believe that the man wants nothing in return then go aheAd and collect. But the issue now will be what story to tell your husband about the source. If you can say you got it from your parents no wahala

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  101. Poster 1...u are a kid even after graduation. Have u tot of all d cyber killings going on, HIV, etc...is risky meeting someone u don't know. if u are horny control urself or find a sugar boy u know well and can control and then state d boundaries even though they are like super glue( kai....c advise). Abeg don't go to meet anyone cos he is a horny goat.
    Poster 2...u will ending up begging him to sleep with u or marry u at some point cos he is more mature and experienced. I love his way of manipulation...soo clever!. besides ur ex should always remain in d past. Think about this line men use on tough girl they later slept with at d long run " aku fecha fecha odaru awuo" ( dunno if I spelt it well) meaning "no matter how high a fly flies, it must surely come down". Forewarned is forearmed!

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  102. Simple, tell your hubby about him and let your hubby know you are not OK getting involved with him, however you think he might be of help since you never gave in to his request before.

    If your hubby thinks its a good idea, hook them both up. Let the money go from him to you through hubby. If hubby says no or he says no to such arrangement, the the deal is off. If you do otherwise, my dear, you go carry bee hive for head o!

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  103. POSTER 1: DON'T START WHAT YOU CAN'T FINISH. many girls go into acting but very few distinguished ones become famous. WHEN YOU START SELLING PUSSY FOR ROLES (MINOR ROLES FOR THAT MATTER), THE STOCK WILL EXPIRE SOME DAY & U'LL BE DUMPED AFTER BEING ROTATED AMONGST THEM. those guys just take advantage of desperate young girls. your pussy won't change anytn. Use your tongue and count ur teeth.
    POSTER 2: communicate the issue with your husband first. Then, hear what he has to say. I don't have issues with you accepting gifts from an ex or old friend, but ask yourself what the motive is and what possible reward the person may need in return. IF YOU ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS CORRECTLY, THEN YOU HAVE YOUR ANSWERS.

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  104. Wo poster 1. Your matter pass me o.
    Poster 2. Hmm. You are playing with fire. I never marry so I don't know the advice to give to a married woman on her way to play away match. I have brain freeze today. Make I wait to read comments pls.

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    1. poster one.. zip it up. obviously he jst wnts to straff u. prob isnt a director abi producer sef... he wld use it, pass it around and hang it up to dry (u knw wht IT is yea?)

      poster two. pls dnt collect pension frm ur ex. u r married n ur hubby wld be levid. dt u knw..n secrets r a NO..



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  105. P2 z gud but u hv to let him knw dat u hv to let ur hubby knw cus he wil definitly inquire on hw u were able to raise d capital, wit his reply u wil get 2 knw if his intention z a genuie one or not.
    p1 u ar OYO

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  106. Narr 1: Abeg don't disturb us. If fucking and sucking is your problem, go ahead.
    Are we sharing vagina?

    Narr2: That is your helper sent from God. Collect that cash mbok.

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    1. Which one is helper? Helper from God or from devil, don't say that Pls. U aren't in dat man's mind to know if he's sincere or not. Poster u better run away oh. Flee b4 u enter hot soup.

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    2. Your response to p1 got me rotflmao

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    3. Lmao! @ are we sharing vagina

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  107. Honestly reading poster 1's story just got me angry. Girls what d hell are u talking about? U met someone on twitter abi I.G, he liked ur pix, becos he's a movies director u started communicating with him, and then from d very 1st day of communication he's Alrdy talking about sex, asking u for sex and doing phone sex, and u are even thinking of letting him such u, this is a man u don't know from Adam, never seen b4, and u even let him talk sex with u from d beginning, abeg what's all this rubbish, are u ok? Abi u think at 23yrs u are still a baby. Pls respect urself, just behave ur self abeg and have some self control. U don't know if he has hiv, or one deadly disease, u don't even know if he's truly a director, and yet u are imagining sex with him. If ur so bored, go and learn a trade, learn handwork, or go to computer school, after all u haven't served yet. Abeg borrow sense oh if u don't have, and stop letting d devil put stupid ideas into u. Actress kor, stage dramer nii. Mschwwwww. As for u poster 2, I'll advice u don't collect that money, don't even mention to ur husband that u still communicate with ur ex, cos ur hubby might not be happy about it, and might misunderstand u, the power of exes are dangerous oh, just end what ever comm u have with that man and avoid problems.

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  108. Poster2 please dnt make the mistake of accepting anything from him for your own good

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  109. N1: u just want to useless urslf! First and foremost any man dat starts talking sex even be for meeting u can never take u serz. ....do u love Urslf at all???? U re horny? Plz masturbate! Hian....d's ur story dey make me vex...sell urslf for free na...mtcheeeew
    N2: yr hubby won't like it if u collect from him o....I wudda said keep it a secret but wot if "Mr do good" starts demanding for something in return??? Wot will u do? I won't advice u to tell hubby ooo..It might seem ok now since he doesn't have money but later In future he myt use it againSt u....pray abt it...let God guide u

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  110. 1. Place a value on urself,o.k. Ur body is d temple of God dont ever exchange it for anything in this world.. What if d man in question is hiv positive? 2. Leave ur former sugar daddy alone,let him be. Gone are university days oo,where runs is overlooked..u're now a married woman,dont go about begging ur former baba alaiye for loan..

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  111. Poster 1.. Stella has told you the truth.. You will just be passed around and dumped.. I hate this whole idea of use what you have to get what you want and the only thing that crosses your mind is downtown.. Don't do it please

    Poster 2.. Hmmmm I hope that is not a trap for you oooo.. Be careful

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  112. Poster 1 it seems u've made up ur mind already.
    U better close ur legs if u know wats good 4 u.
    Acting no be do or die!
    God will make a way 4 u

    Poster 2 If u must accept his offer, be sure 2 tell ur hubby about it first.

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  113. Poster number 1, wish I could E slap u, wat is wrong wit u? u hv nt met d so called producer abi director and u re already horny, people like u easily fall prey to men, b careful n cut off dat man cos he wnt add anything to ur life...poster two dnt collect d money, it's rare to see an ex that sincerely wants to help after leaving him for another man, he was nyt good enough for marriage bt his money is good for u, dis myt b a set up n he will later start asking of sex from u, open up to ur husband, he myt ask u to tk d loan but if u cannot open up to ur husband forget it

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  114. Poster 1 and 2 na Ewu...Ewu...Ewu.
    Stella which kain mumu post be this?

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    1. #1: My darling, I almost got crossed eyed when I saw the word "principle" in your write-up, that word is inapropos with your actions. Do you realise you reveal a bit of your mentality with every word you write? Baby, you are only 23!!! It's only normal to get giddy with excitement when a man pays you a compliment, the excitement increases when you feel impressed by the status of the man but please remove the price tag from your "lady parts". No material thing is worth it, in my opinion, certainly not some phantom movie role. Sweetie, you fail to realise you are a princess, reserve your body for a Prince and not the man servant. ‎

      I thought you wrote you've been deceived by a man before? Why sprint to another deception? What happened or who happened to make you feel you aren't worthy being wooed, dated and treated like a lady with self worth? Baby where's your feminine pride? Even if you've given "it" out for lesser rewards, that doesn't mean you can't pump your breaks now and re-evaluate your life. I don't care if he is the best director/producer in Nigeria, if you can't wow him with your acting talents, perhaps acting isn't your forte. Close your legs to punks! A man who initiates phone sex with a girl he barely  knows and wanks away with reckless abandon, has the morals of a stray cat! And to think you listened to the creep pleasure himself. I'm sure he's married. You have to get a grip on your emotions, if you get horny at every erotic word a man utters, you would have shagged a small community before your 25th birthday. ‎

      Darling, it's your life but please don't compromise your future unnecessarily with  jeopardous sexcapades. Surround yourself with positive female role models. Yeah, oral sex sounds  mind-altering and it is, if done right but don't kick your legs up in the air for any dude to go-a-sucking! Ewwwwww! Don't you care where that tongue and mouth has been? ‎I can safely presume he has challenged  oral hygiene. Who goes around sucking random p***ies? Who does that? Obviously, someone who has zero regard for sexual intimacy.

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    2. Dont i just love Ronalda...p1 read n digest this very well.

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    3. Awwww! Thanks darlings, love you guys right back. #e-bearhugs

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    4. Ronalda has wasted better advice in this girl. Ronalda pls save your words. This child will not listen to you. She is going to were they will suck her. Afterall we are hating on her and her case could,be different

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  115. No to both posters.

    Poster 1, if you are horny and wants to be sucked find someone else to do it and not this director. Like Stella said, "you too shall be passed around." And the gossip and backlash that will come from it not to talk of the disease that cld result. So stay away from him and find other means to your acting career.

    Poster 2, do not pass go. Respect yoursef, your marriage and your husband and find another means to better yourself. It might seem harmless now, but you may be opening doors and windows to endless heartbreak. Put yourself in your husband's shoes if his ex girlfriend is reaching out. What about his pride? It is not like you and your family are starving. Just flee from the devil while you can.

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  116. Wow.. These Nollywood directors ain't loyal! Don't do it Poster 1. You'll be used and dumped and you won't get anything good out of it... Maybe an orgasm lol but that's all.. So stay away.
    Poster 2: tell your hubby everything. If he says no to you accepting the money then do. There's no point risking the peace in your home and happiness for money. You know how men and their egos are.. If you tell him he will respect you and hopefully be reasonable but by all means.. Do NOT go behind his back.
    Good luck

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    1. Breanna Mag, u are so beautiful, just like me. I'd say there's a striking resemblance btwn us. #blowing a kiss to you#.

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  117. Biko narrative no2 if you his no and sure his not married,please mail me his phone no

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  118. Yayyy!!!!! It's Friday! :) But I have an exam 8:00am tomorrow :( I have really been feeling sick lately. I reject what I think it is, Not my portion.
    Okay, back to the matter (in wizkid's voice) poster 2, I am happy that you have a great husband, thank God fo your life and your home. Truly refreshing to read a chronicle that doesn't invovle "yeye" husbands, phew. Anyway, as for me, I don't think you should take anything from that man oo. You will always be owing him something and he will always have something over your head. If the business is so important, then I think you should tell your husband everything.Collect the money as a loan, to be paid back as soon as the business picks up. If he says no, insist! Tell him that you paying back the money is an incentive for you to work hard.Pay him back when the business picks up.If I were you, I would say no thank you, but I'm not. Just do what wouldn't put you in trouble.Like my sister would say, it all starts from somewhere, don't just go there.

    Errmm,poster 1 point of correction, you have no principle regarding the chronicle you just sent in. For you to think of having sex with some random, God knows what type of so called director for perks that are not even certain, then you have no legit principle on such issues. You know, I have always wondered why people defame characters of actresses by being insistent that they sleep around for roles. Now, I don't think its defamation anymore. It's fact! Let me just underscore a very obvious fact. If you start having sex with men (or women) for favours now, you will never stop. Even if you get married and have kids or whatever. You think it is a one time thing, but you will not realize when you are so deep, that sort of life would have become part of you. And ermmm, I see no difference with what you plan to do and runs. They all fall under the same category to me. I see no reason why you shouldn't go the normal route, search and go for available auditions. If you're really good at the so called acting, the casting directors would have no choice but to take you. You want the short cut, with long term consequences.
    But then again, if you're doing it for your sexual satisfaction, I have nothing to say on that issue, other than be careful.
    Okay, I'm going back bed #tiredandweak.

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    1. Ohhhhh no, darling, not yet! Come out to play a bit before running back to bed or I'll haunt your dreams. Lol! #hugsnkisses.

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  119. Poster 1: ure very gullible and uve chosen to be a blind bat...someone told u he is a director and suddenly uve always wanted to act...and ur first conversation was abt sex....if dats nt enuff for u to cut off frm him I dnt know wat is.....so randy goat go ahead and shine ur kongo since ure bin driven by ur raging hormones ...common sense has left u teytey...just pray say dem no go use u do ritual last last
    poster 2: Dnt start wat u wnt finish....flee all appearance of evil with good intentions....its a matter of time b4 u start comparing ur husby wiv d man and eventually kpenshing. ...God will bring ur helper wiv no strings attached and be openminded to various job nt necessarily relevant to ur course!
    #ur GIDI girl #

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  120. Poster No 2: open up t ur hubby, if he agrees go ahead n take d money. If not face ur marriage. Ur wondaful hubby is worth more than 100 men outside ur home.

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  121. Hmmmm! Now I knw that counselling pple is really difficult! Poster 1, if u start exchanging sex for something, be rest assured ure going to continue doing that, at a point ud defo get fustrated, and it might be too late to opt out. There's dignity and respect in preserving yourself! What is worth doing is worth doing well. We have loads of acting schools in Nigeria that won't demand for sex and what have u. Poster 2... to me this man knows that ure married, or has he demanded for something that uve refused telling us? I think u shud tell hubby about the offer, and how uve bin friends wiv him. I suggest u shud go ahead with whatever hubby suggests.

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  122. Poster 1- dont, he will just use u, and tel the other producers, directors that you are easy and they will expect their share. Only exchanged sex for REVENGE. i saw that my then uni bf had cheated so i sought out his best friend and rode him like a horse, i didnt like him wasnt attracted but i needed to hurt the bastard n mehn it pained him like shit. Lmao. Going anonymous on this

    Poster 2- i dont know o. Since you guys were never intimate previously and he never asked. The question now is- has he been flirting, has the discussion tilted to intimacy. If not there are some nice dudes. Tell hubby n tel him he is like a bro to u, even in uni

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    1. They are probably friends again meanwhile you will be the one they will call a farm tool. Women and stupidity ma sef.

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  123. Poster1---You nor see as u MUMU,oya go and get sucked or f***ked......ODE

    Poster2-----I'll just read comments as well

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  124. @1 Don't even bother the guy just wants sex with you cos after sucking most times you would still want penetration and you may end up not getting any role. Close your legs as Stella said cos if you start exchanging sex for things you will end up having a long list of sex partners which u will regret.
    @2 Collecting anything from ex you are giving open door for future problems. Nothing goes for nothing with ex.

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  125. Poster 2: you are really confused and it seems.like this is ur profession. Lock up ur pu**y and lost d.key joor. Ladies and exchange things

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  126. Poster number 2:Greed is not too good. You want Brazilian hair and etc. You won't learn to cut your coat according to your material. Flee

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  127. Poster 1: trust me hon u got to snap out of dat horny mood and think straight. I wonder how many girls dat guy has conquered via Internet.
    Poster 2: tell ur hubby abt the man and since d man didn't take advantage of u wen u were single I don't think he will do that now but meanwhile introduce him to ur hubby if possible he might just b naturally nice.

    And yes Stella boo am back. Much love

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  128. poster 2 I will advice u run it through ur husband am against secret in marriage

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  129. Poster 1...u must take ur body for granted bcos I dont really get how u think sleeping with a stranger who might as well be carrying diseases, may even be a psycho or God knows wat will make ur dreams come true...even if ur horny,pls find someone worthy and nt a piece of trash roaming the internet.
    Poster 2...dnt dig a grave with your own hands..the devil can also come as a friend..

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  130. post 1. close ur legs biko.. most u act? abeg luk for somethin else to do.

    post 2. just relate it with ur hubby shaa. if he allow u to collect it than u go ahead but he kick against it forget it oo.

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  131. Poster1---You nor see as u MUMU,oya go and get sucked or f***ked......ODE

    Poster2-----I'll just read comments as well

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  132. Poster 1 biko close your legs, how are you even sure the guy is a producer? He might just be there deceiving girls like you.Acting is not by force biko if acting is your destiny God will make a way for you, you hear. Poster 2 am sure that man has an hidden agenda, talk to you hubby and hear what he has to say, pls don't collect a dime without first talking to him.

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  133. Poster 2 everything in life is risky however I urge you to accept the offer,my story goes like this year's back I was so much in love with this young handsome guy we dated for 7yrs and along the line things got messy we broke up, after six months he came back but I refused to his plea and moved to the UK for my masters, hearing I'm in the UK he tried everything to get me but I refused I met an old classmate and we started dating along the line it didn't work, all these while ex has been calling for me to come let him give me British passport but I refused thinking that he wants to get me back, after talking it with some friends I agreed my dear today am British married with a big business at home all is from my ex. He gave me British passport, I met my hubby in his office and he gave me £10000 to start my life with, so be wise. Though I told dh abt dating him and the arranged marriage but didn't tell him of the money. He told me he is doing all these bcos he took my innocence (virginity)

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    1. -😞Sister please your story is different from her own. P2...if your husband is not involved remove your eye

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  134. @ poster 1: money; fame and luxuries are not the paramount things in life. if you have all and have no principles;then the person is worthless.pls you are too young to be in a haste to make it in life.pls look for a job and start from somewhere. even if the pay is small.don't start what you will regret in life because all that glitter are not gold.be wise.
    @ poster 2: pls leave devil to stay on his own.pls leave that man and cut him completely out from your life.don't bring in problems into your home.even if your husband agrees; pls don't accept his offer. but I know that no dignified man will accept this.yes there was no intimacy then but you don't know what he had in mind bk then and what his true feelings are for you.so just make do with what you have now and continue working and praying towards having more that will elevate you people. all the best and take care

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  135. Poster 1 ,Choi choi choi..I comment my reserve.
    Poster 2,be wise if he is realy willing to help do e erythin in d open o.But tell ya hubby first den see wat he wil say to avoid bruisin his ego e no dey time for satan to pour sand inside pesin garri o.

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  136. Narrative 1
    As much as i would avoid being judgemental on your issue, I just hope I can achieve dat. Dunno where you've kept ur principles/morals but sincerely, you need to deep search for dem cos your perception at d moment can be detrimental to you. Hardwork, skills and attributes developed from proper grooming are d tenets that would keep you in any profession. You need to re-evaluate n develop your person, get some self worth to avoid putting your young self at tight corners that you might regret as you go through life, especially from your Nysc days and beyond. Sex and anything related to it cannot form the basis for you to build a career and as regards being on Nollywood; take a cue from d 'waka pass' actresses who appear in movies as call girls...lots of them (am not saying all of dem) fall into d category of girls who exchanged their bodies for roles and those are d few that even made it on screen.....now ask yourself, what percentage of those girls have made it to limelight or how much of them have you seen in subsequent movies.....i can bet you donot even recall their names. Get busy and occupy yourself with reasonable experiences that would build you for your future n career. Sex aint food as XOXO has told us and not because you read or hear a lot bout sex in our society today, shld make you indulge in it for unjustifiable reasons....although thats your personal decision but please practice abstinence and wait for the right man/spouse. You can also seek for a person with a more mature mindset to serve as a mentor who you can seek clarity or advice from in issues like this.
    Lastly, learn to always place your security as top priority, a lot is happening online with dubious pple creating fake accounts to deceive any gullible individual just for d satisfaction of their selfish and most times dangerous desires. Just be careful, i truly feel you need someone to guide you tho.
    Gosh, did i just type all dis.....see me drinking Panadol for ya headache. Please take it easy n make proper choices so you dont end up in regrets and wallowing in self pity.

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  137. Poster 1- You nor know where dem de do audition ni,abi u de fin fast le. ?? I pity your condition. Im an upcoming actress.Infact, I just came back from a shortfilm shoot which will be aired come Feb14th. I started attending auditions late last year and I know how far Iv gotten.Im just being patient cos I know my breakthrough is on the way.
    Close your legs and google audition notices.Find your way to the audition venue and show your talent.If you are good,you ll definitely get called back for a role.If you arent talented, you better go find your calling cos nor be everybody sabi act.
    Thats the best advice I can give you..Dont want to insult you.
    Cheers!

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  138. Poster 1: take d risk n join the millionaires! Everybody gives smtn in return for another, all d ppl telling u not to do it won't even think twice b4 grabbing d opportunity. U r horny! Do it bcs u r horny n if u get connected, lucky u! Atlst u eased off some shit

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  139. poster one -you already know what to do .,so dont ask us .


    poster 2-you are married and this man happens to be your ex wether sex or no sex ,except your hubby is a weakling ,no man will acccept that .stop all conversation with your ex and face your marriage.,for better for worst.

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  140. Wow! Who knew Ronalda's prompt to get on my feet could be so therapeutic? Im feeling better! Is this love? Could this be love? Do I smell love in the air? Yep! This is true love. This is love, this is love, this is love ( in will I am's voice). Ronalda, I think it is high time we eloped :=)
    *sidesyes* to other BVs that want you but can't have you.Yes! I'm possessive like that!

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  141. p1 conji na bastard, but don't sleep with that man period... Get a Fuck buddy if you don't have a bf.Me I have one sex ain't food but body too no be firewood.

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  142. Poster 2- tell ur hubby.
    Poster 1- do you know the spiritual implications of sexual relations outside of marriage ?
    If u don't, pls find out. Aren't you scared of veneral diseases? Doesn't the thought of someone else's ( NB- A STRANGER) body fluids mixing with yours irritate you? Do you think meeting him in public safeguards you? With all the stories about jazz and all. God is merciful yes, and that is why you are still stalling. Don't break the hedge so the serpent won't bite.

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