CHRONICLE OF BLOG VISITOR NARRATIVES.

As you make your bed......

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
WHEN A SPOUSE BECOMES OLIVER TWIST......

Dear Stella. 

                          

Greetings to you and all the readers and members of this unique blog. I am a happily married man with kids. My wife has been my greatest pillar of support, right from our days of dating, she had been my motivator. Rather than lavish money on frivolities, she will advise I invest. She made life in the house quite peaceful and I was able to thrive in my career and business, we have about 4 houses in Lagos and 2 in the village.. 

 Stella, what would I be looking for outside? Yet the devil pushed me out. In one of the groups I joined on Facebook, I got quite friendly with this Canada based lady,a Canadian citizen too . From harmless chats, we exchanged numbers and we got closer, she started coming to visit me in Nigeria, I really cannot explain what got over me. I became so attached to her that we started talking 

marriage. 

She knew I was married all the while and she did not mind, she would always,ask after and advise I take very good care of my family especially my wife, she bought gifts for them whenever she's coming and I pretend I got them myself. Our relationship soon progressed and I found myself getting extremely close to this lady‎ , she was a very very nice lady. She soon told me she wanted me and my family to be Canadian citizens, that I had to marry her, after I got my papers, we divorce. I agreed and we got married at the Registry. 

shortly after the marriage, the Jezebel in this lady began to show, if she comes, she will ask me to leave my family for the whole period she's around, sometimes 3 weeks,haba. She will say "I'm your wife a‎nd I deserve all your attention when I'm around", we soon started having issues, I had to confess everything  to my wife , she was heartbroken, still is but decided to stand by me. Now, my wife is pregnant and almost due, this Canadian lady found out and began threatening fire and brimstone. She said so I still love my wife that much to even impregnate her, that she will deal with me, she says she's my legal wife and will make sure she gets enough of all that my wife and I struggled for. She even calls my wife to threaten her and tell her lies I didn't say. My wife's BP is constantly on the high now.

What kind of problem did I get myself into?

Did you commit bigamy?How did she get your wifes phone number?if this story is true,you are the perfect example of WOMAN WRAPPER!

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

MARRIED TO A STRUGGLING MAN AND FAMILY REACTIONS

Hello Stella

Thanks for this platform that you set up..God will continue to increase you.

Dear BVs,I got married in 2011 to the love of my life.we have two kids now,a boy and a girl. By the grace of God,we have food to eat and a roof over our heads..my husband's family members are amazing..the problem is with my family..They hate my husband so much simply because of one reason..he's not well to do..by the grace of God,I'm from a rich home,while my DH is from a not too rich home..

I was dating a white guy before I met my hubby. Then I was the center of attraction in my family,they all want to hang out with me..anytime I go on holidays and come back,they surround me like flies to shit,cos of what they'll get..I wasn't happy so I ended the relationship n started dating my hubby who I was two years his senior in d university..immediately after graduation,we decided to get married..that was when trouble started..

my dad was against the wedding cos my hubby had no job then..he was hustling..on the wedding day,my dad rejected almost everything my in-laws brought,but that didn't stop the wedding.I never spoke to him again until one year later when I had my son. He came to see the baby once and never came again.

my mum came for omugwo and was complaining seriously about everything..''why didn't your hubby buy this or buy that,what kind of life are you living,can't your hubby buy you a washing machine,a gas cooker'' and so on and so forth. 

After one month she left..

fast forward 2 years later I had my daughter,my hubby called my dad more than 3 times that day to share the good news,I also called him,but as usual he didn't pick his call. So DH sent him a text and he replied congrats and that was it..In between that 2 years,my brothers and sisters all stopped visiting or calling,even my mum..maybe cos we were staying in a self contained apartment..my hubby is still hustling,has done some offshore safety trainings,but still no job..two of my elder brothers are big time supervisors in an oil company,but they just won't help us..

my dad is a manager in one of the biggest oil companies in Nigeria and he also has his own oil servicing company,but he doesn't want to help..even after several cries for help..

I'm so confused,angry and depressed and only praying that God bless my hubby with a decent job..till today my dad hasn't called me,nor has he come to see his grandchild..Any advice will be greatly appreciated. God bless you all.

As you make your bed,so will you lie on it.

I guess they are also angry and disappointed.let them be and concentrate on your marriage and getting your hubby to improve his financial status...when that happens they might come around.

However,still try to remember birthdays and anniversaries and send sms to congratulate them.Wish you the best.

Its snowing cats and dogs here,make i siddon near window and enjoy the view from the pent room window..lol