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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
MEN DONT LIKE CELIBATE LADIES

Hello Stella Bae,

I will be 32 in February,my longest relationship lasted for 3yrs,i dont even know how i managed to stay in it for that long.but my subsequent relationships dont even get to a year.after we've had sex once or twice ,the relationship just ends.i got fed up and decided 2years ago to stop having sex until i am married.

Fast forward to two weeks ago,i met this guy i used to know in my university days,we got talking and he started toasting me.i agreed,meanwhile he was telling every one that cared to listen that I'm his future wife,that by july we will be married,sincerely i was excited,but when i told him that i am celibate,the guy just stopped calling,even when i call,he doesn't pickup.

I am a beautiful,intelligent ,smart and God fearing girl,when i am in love i could spend my last dime on that man,but what baffles me is that the men i have come across don't see that.all they want is to is to have sex and disappear.am i possessed?i need a man that sees me beyond sex.

what I'm i doing wrong?where is my Mr right?

Sweety you havent done anything wrong,you have just been meeting the wrong people.most men like to taste the waters.

You should be happy that Mr Lover Professor stopped picking your calls,he would have done the same after sleeping with you.

Next time you meet someone,look for a way to tell him that you are team celibate before emotions get in the way.stop spending money on men,money cant buy love.

All the best.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
MARRIED TO A RAPIST.

Good morning dear, 

I am the lady that sent you a message sometime ago about been raped as a child.

Got meaningful advises which I'm still working on but I found myself in this another serious dilemma.

Towards ending of last year,  I caught our gate man red handed defiling a 9 year old girl early in the morning as I was going to work, 

I alerted neighbours and the girl's mother took up the case and he was arrested and detained.

I didn't discuss this with my husband (he wasn't in town) after a while he got to hear about it because the man's friends approached him for money to bail the guy out .

 My husband was very furious that I got involved in such a case that doesn't concern me, his reasons been;

1) she is not my child, 

2)what was the girl doing in his house at that time, 

3) The girl wasn't rape but she accepted and want to have sex with a man above 40,

4) she enjoyed it and was paid for it ( because I caught her with 50naira) which she said the man gave to her,

I found all his reasons disgusting and I told him that I think he is sick and needs help, 

He flamed up and started telling me how he raped a girl from his village,  because the girl was eating his money and never allow him to even kiss her,

He came home for xmas, took her out, they went to a hotel,  the girl saw her paying for a room, 

She didn't say a word,  after they entered, the girl started forming,  he raped her and that she wasn't even a virgin.

Stella,  I have been sick since then, 

What do I do? 

I don't even know this lady is,

I don't know if she needs help, 

Has this monster destroy her?

Oh God, why are men like this?

I feel sooo pained.