A final student of Federal Polytechnic, Oko in Anambra State, southeast Nigeria, did the unthinkable when she snubbed her groom on her wedding day and called off the wedding already arranged by the two families.
DUMPED GROOM |
The wedding was to take place on Saturday, 3 January, 2015 and guests invited
to witness the ceremony at St Patrick Catholic Church, Umuchu in Aguata Local government, Anambra State, were shocked when Ifunanya Igwebuike refused to show up to tie the knot with Ekene Uzoigwe.
After several hours of waiting, she later sent a message to the Parish Priest, Rev. Father Lawrence Maduagwu, that she was no longer interested and asked him to cancel the wedding.
Ifunanya alleged that she could not go ahead with the marriage because she was a graduate unlike Uzoigwe whom she claimed was a school drop-out.
Rev. Maduagwu had no option than to inform the groom and the guests that were already seated at the church hall that the wedding had been cancelled.
This caused an uproar in the church as guests who expressed shock over what happened started trooping out of the church.
Narrating what happened, Uzoigwe said he proposed to Ifunanya for marriage and she agreed on condition that he would send her to school, which he agreed.
He said after she gained admission, he was financing her education and they agreed to wed during her final year.
He said he had paid her bride price and she was part of the whole wedding plan and he even gave her parents N160,000 to prepare for the wedding, besides other arrangements and expenses incurred on the wedding and reception.
Uzoigwe said she did not inform him about her decision to back out of the wedding until he got to the church only for the priest to inform him and the guests about the cancellation of the wedding.
“If she had informed me, I would not have made arrangements. We had already cooked food and bought drinks for the wedding,” he said.
He said when he contacted her parents, they said they would not force her and asked him to come and take back the money he gave them to prepare for the wedding.
Uzoigwe said he was still shocked about what happened because he did not quarrel with Ifunanya before the fateful day.
He said he also made sure she was comfortable by making money available to her while in school.
Uzoigwe is a business man based in Abakiliki, the Ebonyi State capital. He met Ifunanya at their home town, Umuchu, where he proposed and sent her to school.-PMnews reportage
WOW!...this is a first of its kind!
she dumped him because he is not a graduate and she is and yet he sent her to school?I dont like how she dropped the bombshell but i guess she was left with no choice at all.
Do you think she did the wrong thing?would you walk out at the 99th hour?
Haba. Dts nt fair atall. She wud av jst told him b4 d preparation and all. GOD knws best.
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it is well
Deletewhat she did is evil...why letting the man send her to school when she knew she wasnt going to marry him? The girl is just heartless ..he will never find a better husband thats a fact..karma will knock on her door soon...bitchesaintloyal
DeleteSinging Justin Timberlake's what goes around comes back around. She dumped him because he didn't go to school but allowed him send her to school and invested on her. No wahala. She will eventually marry that graduate that she wants. And the graduate will turn her into a punching bag. I hope she gets introduced to SDK's blog so she can bring her chronicles here
DeleteThe girl is just plain wicked
DeleteShe should hv dumped d guy d earlier
After the whole money the guy spent on her
I've heard of cases like
If a guy must sponsor a girl in school....then let it be out of charity or let it be that he has already wifed the girl
Cos all these 'i'll send u to school and u'll marry me later' no dey too work
After the girl tear eye finish...na den she go realize say u be drop out
Lmao, she play the guy mugu.....guys learn fron this
DeleteI think she did the wrong thing.
ReplyDeleteShe is a user and heartless one @ that.
So when the guy was sending you to school and picking up your bills, you didn't know he was an illiterate. That girl is wicked.
I know marriage is not by force. But she agreed to the whole thing from the scratch because she knew she'll back out.
Her parents should kukuma refund all the monies the guy spent in training her.
Namsense *in Bloglord's voice*
Refund what...lol...was he under duress??..the girl is heartless...if I Am a guy..I won't train a girl in school with the hope or agreement to marriage...unless Am doing it for charity
DeleteShe's a very stupid user. Haba!!!!!!! What a wicked idiot. Her parents are equally culpable cos they can't tell me that she didn't inform them ahead. At least tell him ahead instead of this monumental shame.
DeleteWonders dey say shall not end ! I doubt if her excuse was real, any way she knows where the shoe pinches, but she shouldn't av waited till d wedding day sha...
ReplyDeleteThere's more to the story jooor what kinda silly reason is that? She no know before?
DeleteShits dey happen,if im dat guy eh, mtchewwwwwwwww!
ReplyDeleteWhy will i even train my girlfriend?
I dey mad?
Young man take heart.
hahahaha...guy na luv nao
DeleteShe and her family will surely regret that.
ReplyDeleteOh wow! How quick u all are to insult the girl some even wishing to kill her. Even women doing d same? Women!!!! We no like ourselves @ all! Very few people stated the reason sounded ridiculous, probably because that isn't d real reason why she is dumping him! She probably doesn't want to reveal why to d public. I mean she didn't wake up on d wedding day and realise he is illiterate, there is obviously more to d story. The single ones dey curse her cos e dey pain una say una never c who buy una gala talkless of train go school then plan wedding. Wishing you had someone ba? Well good news d man is single now, can like to send a memo to him via Stella lol
Deleteam so tired of this issues..yesterday was small "AMU"(dick).today is ILLITERATE..it is well
DeleteThat's such a horrible thing to do,you don't do things like that and get away with it,dumping him at the church because he is not educated?.karma is a bitch ,what goes around comes around.
ReplyDeleteShe and her family will surely regret that.
ReplyDeleteYes her family will regret it Bcos nothing stops them from telling him before d D date that their daughter is no longer interested but we shld not just conclude on one side of the story until we hear frm d said bride.
DeleteHmmmm...... this life sef.
Small time dem go say man wicked. Women, wetin una call this one?
ReplyDeleteThe Groom, please try as musch as possible to put it behind you. Look for your soulmate and you will be surprised how blissful your marriage would be.
Forget that one! Look for the best package out there! She is out there waiting for you, try and locate her. She will alway celebrate you, the way Omoni Oboli, Ibinabo Fiberesima and anti Stella are celebrating their husbands.
She and her family will surely regret that.
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ReplyDeleteThat is soo heartbreaking.... seriously I have said this.. guys should stop training girls in school with the hope of marrying....When they are not married to you yet... especially if you are an illiterate.....
ReplyDeleteWhat she did is very wrong.
ReplyDeleteAfter all the man spent on her while she was in school, she should have spared him the disgrace and wasting of resources planning for the wedding ceremony.
She didn't know he wasn't a graduate while collecting his money, she's a very wicked soul.
She should have informed him immediately she was having doubt... what she did wasn't wrong it's her choice anyway, buh she did it at the wrong time. she should have sat him down and said her mind, the whole church disgrace wasn't cool, I still don't understand why people do that?
ReplyDeleteWell it's better than having an unhappy marriage and divorce.
That girl is wicked o, why did she disgrace the boy like that? Not fair at all.
ReplyDeleteAfter spending money to send her to school and all. I pray he doesn't do anything Stupid like this Story that made news last year in Delta, but in this case it was the other way round.
A couple- to- be were found dead some days later in the guy's house, invitation cards were out.upon investigation it turned out to be the guy's ex, apparently the girl helped the boy through school, dated for years,she had abortions, infact I heard she had one before she found out he was getting Married to a girl that was carrying his baby, she couldn't take it, she sneaked into his house with her spare key and laced the guys food with poison, when she was being interrogated she said she didn't plan to Kill the Bride-to-be, just the Man.
That's just d way it is....two days ago a bride was dumped on her wedding day...today its d turn of a groom....d gal has seen a better maga than him so she decided 2 port...its not bad
ReplyDeletesmh
DeleteThis is all shades of wrong. After giving conditions for marriage and he met them.. Why back out?
ReplyDeleteThe babe will be feeling like a sharp babe now.. Remember, karma is a bitch!
Your search for educated dude will lead you to ur waterloo..
She has no conscience and God will surely punish her ! On a second thought, she might be under the influence of a spiritual husband!
ReplyDeleteContact me to order for beautiful bedspread @affordable prices. Delivery nationwide.
And spiritual husband waited for her to be sponsored through school. Hmm
DeleteHian......oxygen and magnesium...... Tgid one done pass me oooo....that was pure evil on the lady's part... Sorry dude
ReplyDeleteStella u c ur life? If it had been a case whr a lady alleges dat her hubby beats her or want her to get pregnant b4 marriage, u will run n pass ur judgement, telling her to leave d guy dat she's in a situationship n not relationship and all these ass licking girl on dis blog will follow n call men all sorts of name. Now c wat a young lady did to d man dat sent her to school, paid every kobo needed n even had to wait till her finals to get married, she dumbed him on d very wedding day and you r here saying dis is d first of its kind! Worst still asking stupid question of if what she did d right tin!
ReplyDeleteY not pass ur judgement on her n d rest of ladies of her type? Alwz being sentimental! U didn't c anytin wrong until we tell u bah?
For your information, dis isn't d first of its kind, it happen in owerri in 2006 or so in Assumpta cathedral! She didn't come 4 d wedding, just sent in message also dat her first love came back from Spain, dat she can't go ahead with d wedding!
You don't have to be a female chauvinist!
Hian. Y re U pained na? Na wa oh. U should talk 2 pple with respect na. Mtcheeew
Deleteshes not well.......ungrateful lady, mayb a school boyfriend is turning her head! animal.
ReplyDeleteBVs in abuja pls who has a job for an eletrical engineer
What the hell.!! Naaahhh the bride didn't do it right @ all! Watttttttt? So because he has sent you to uni now he's no longer good enough cos u r both no longer on the same level? Na wa o, sounds like a story from one of those old naija movies
ReplyDelete*sigh* This is how they corrupt the few good men left o, see man Wey train you through school and was there for you and this public humiliation is how you repay him?? Nahh some people cannot make heaven @ all o.. its not compulsory to marry him but there are more subtle ways to let him down easy na.. 2mrw dis one go come become Aka superglue and Aradite for another innocent girl neck, bcos after this experience his trust level is totally gonna be on a Zero scale let's not even go near spending on a babe Chei.. may God heal ur broken heart oga groom :(
I doubt very much this is the true story.
ReplyDeleteIf it is, then she's the most confused, selfish and insensitive bitch the world ever produced.
The only excuse for dumping someone on the wedding day are for reasons discovered just on the wedding day.
This guy has been a school drop-out since they met and nothing changed to warrant such a wicked act.
Ha! Goldscent ti binu! She used the word 'bitch'!
DeleteLepa Shandy come and take your word outta GD's comment!
GD how you dey?
Her actions are very wrong. Why allow him to send you to school when you know you will not marry him? That was a flimsy excuse. The Bible says 'you will reap what you sow' and I'm very positive she reap the consequences of her actions #my opinion#
ReplyDeleteThis is so wrong she could have done it before the wedding, I really hope she has someone else,because she has really marked herself guys go they fear her lol
DeleteHehehehe, oturugbeke. All this dumping at the alter news ain't decent at all. If you don't want to marry why string the other partner. Move on dude and try to better yourself.
ReplyDeleteHian! So she didnt know he didnt go to school when he was funding her education? Abeg will d parent of d supposed bride return all d money he has spent on her? This is sheer wickedness that i cant even wish my enemy.... And to d lady....karma always comes in handy! u just gotta love it when it delivers
ReplyDeleteThis is unfair nd heartless y decieve a guy into training u in sch nd promise 2 marry him wen deep inside u,u kw u won't haba der is God ooh. I rememba a lady who did d same said she wasn't goin 2 marry him cos he was a bus driver buh he trained her wt d money he made from bus driving she even went ahead 2 say she already had some1 else d funny thing dat happened d guy didn't make trouble he got some1 else they av 2 kids now nd d other lady's boifriend dumbed her. Thank God 4 God. Ppl will b doing things not even thinking if it were me or my brother or sis. Toh I pray he finds a good woman.
ReplyDeleteWhat nonsense!
ReplyDeleteAm sure she has another reason, it can't b true. Never! No way
poor guy
She agreed to marry him as a repayment for his kindness towards her.
ReplyDeleteYou may not have noticed but if you are a girl and you care what the society says,leave the businessmen with their "l na r". I have heard of this kinda thing but the girl didn't let it get to the wedding stage.
I pity the girl's parents cos they are in a very tight corner now. No matter what they say,tthey will be accused of bn in the know.
I PITY THE NEXT GIRL THIS GUY WILL MEET COS SHE WILL BEAR THE BRUNT OF THIS SHAME.
Irene ur head dey there. Na she go hear ram,chai.
DeleteWicked geh. ...Why didn't you tell him before the d-day to save him the shame? I hope she intends to pay back all the school fees her education incurred. ...
ReplyDeleteMay God grant him a forgiving heart....He will be a laughing stock and an object of mockery. ..I know someone this same thing happened to....I wish people would stop doing this....It always always ends up this way! Her orientation would be different....she has been introduced to a life where opportunities are unlimited....
In the case of walking away at the 99th hour, it depends on the situation....Maybe something I couldn't deal with was brought to my knowledge...but it has to be that serious!
Haba, if dat is d only reason y she dumped him at d last minute den she is very heartless and wicked.
ReplyDeleteThe girl is wicked. After accepting and making him pay her school fees. Anyway, I guess education changed her thinking. Better to cancel it now than to be unhappy in the marriage
ReplyDeleteShe totally did the wrong thing. What she did is totally wicked and cruel. Why acceptthe proposal in the first place. Why disgrace a man who made you someone? This is ingratitude at its peak. He was fooled all along. Mistakes so many people make. A case of total use and dump. Only God can forgive. Whatever sown is reaped. Karma is a bad bitch. She should beg for his forgiveness. After spending his money and raising his hopes only to disgrace publicly for no reason. Smhhhh
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ReplyDeleteThis is wrong on all counts
How can she just dump him
Okay...let's even forget he sponsored her in school, she could have just informed him na
Ihe chukwu g'ekpe erika
What she did was very long, she shld have informed him before the wedding. Chaii is the fine guy
ReplyDeleteDis gurl is extra wicked seriously y not allow ur parent 2 send u 2 school or beta still send urslf afta all people do it dis days if not dat u are a lazy brat! Now u go make d guy dey insult any gurl wey him meet 4 life or beta still dats a big insult and slap on d face of ur family! U wanna eat ur cake and have!
ReplyDeleteShe should have been matured about it and not disgrace the guy like that
ReplyDeleteThe girl is one big ingrate and a cheat,she had it all planned out,why give the young man hope when all she just needed was a sponsor for her education?while he was training her in school y didnt she encourage him to do part time prog?the girl is mean,very mean..y wait till he got to the alter?what has the guy done to warrant such,sometimes we tend to forget dat KARMA is a b*tch...I hope d guy gets over it all soonest..sometimes when tins happen to us its as a result of the tins we must hav done to cause odas pain...feel for d dude sha
ReplyDeleteThat girl is an ungrateful bi*tch!Her parents couldn't train her in school but this young man did,am sure she went to school and mixed up with "tushed"people and suddenly,this guy became nothing to her.I understand that Feelings do change but she shouldn't have agreed to marry this guy and then allow this him to spend money on food, drinks and other arrengements!She should have sat him down and explained to him that she doesn't love him anymore(I doubt if she ever did).She should watch her back oh,this story might take another turn. When things start falling apart in her life now,she will start jumping from one church to another and disturbing God.I pity this guy sha,he should take this as a challenge, go to a university and enroll in a part -time programe.God will give him his own wife.
ReplyDeleteNo comments.
ReplyDeleteWicked bride!
ReplyDeleteSo heartless!
Some girls can be very mean sha.
After using the guy, she now realised he is an illiterate, but his money wasn't illiterate when she was eating it abi?
Her parents' reaction tho.
Hmmmmmm!
I feel so sorry for this guy.
Chai!
Iheneme!
Take heart bro, inugo?
It's not the end of the world ok.
Karma will surely visit that Ifunanya girl if she is guilty as charged.
May God compensate this guy and give him the most wonderful lady to marry.
Ndi uwa sef!
#Sighs
in this kind of situation; you have to hear from both parties.the groom has said his own side of the story; which makes him look like a saint and the girl; the devil; we also need the girl's own side.in Nigeria were girls have the notion that husband are scarce; something serious most have made this lady to reject a husband wey she done find
ReplyDeletesorry to say this...but shut up already..what do you mean here from both side?what else do you want to here?
DeleteThat's so cruel of her!
ReplyDeleteIf she knows she's going to dump him, y did she allow him to train her in school?
I've seen so any cases of illitrate men sending girls to school after graduation they will dump them.
If am a man I'll not marry a girl who's not a graduate.
So annoying...
Wonders shall never end.am nt in support of what she did but she don sitdon look d future come ball out.men too dey follow do dis things to women so let him have a taste of it.am nt too happy she led him on n I guess she was just after who wil sponsor her education n d parents sef no try.d guy should just go n collect his money n move n learn nt to send any woman to school again.eyaa I feel his pains.
ReplyDeleteHmmn,this is not a palatable gist at all.Dear BVS,please help me in securing a job.I'm currently studying at Ibadan but could do part time job in lagos e.g UShering.Any job will Suit me just fine as long as its legitimate.I need to find a way to finance my projectwork.Yours Sdkly dazzlinglizzy
ReplyDeleteI think she did that because people had been advice her not to do so, or maybe she just play the guy 419 use am go school. Anyway I would av dropped d bombshell @ the 97th hour during marriage classes ish n courtship, to save myself from too much "uchu" now the whole word knows her story = bad name for her entire family. That guy might even use jazz on her and it must work ah ah....!
ReplyDeleteShe's a wicked girl..Kai!!! Imagine, and the parents knew he trained her in School, now they can't force her.
ReplyDeleteMy advise to guys,never invest on a Lady who's not legitimately your wife.
I hope she get another man like the one she dumped.
She did wrong
ReplyDeleteWho does that? What a wicked soul, after sending her to school, she sure would meet her Waterloo ahead, why allow the guy go to that extent when she knows she's not intrested in the guy . some people are just heaping curse on their head. I feel for the guy what a way to be dump
ReplyDeleteShe didn't do this the right way @all
ReplyDeleteChai! That was too heartless of the bride! All the time he was financing her education didn't she know he was a school dropout?
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ReplyDeleteWhat the lady did was wrong, haba why wait until the 99th hour to dropped the bombshell..
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteThe lady is very mean and is ingrate
Karma will certainly catch up with her cos she is biting the fingers that fed her.
Some pple can b bad! Anyways Karma is a bitch!
ReplyDeletestella dis one pass 99th hour na.how some girls reason.the so called drop out sent her to school n its at her final yr that d dull brain which has not been working resumed work n she realized that.how abt putting up a fake bad xter that wld quietly drive d man away instead of disgracing him?wat abt other sane and respectful ways?and to her parents,that their tongues that has 7points agenda.hmmmmmm.KARMA don sidon cross leg na dey watch una with one eye.tomorrow na if anything happen una go say na village uncles dey do una jazz.c una dey jazz una sef oh.I read this one,I go still read ur own wen karma comes knocking.I dey wait
ReplyDeleteEeyah!
ReplyDeleteI'm suspecting Halitosis as d major cause of this momentum disgrace.
Take heart Nwa Abakaliki Izamgbo!!
Bwahahahaha.......
Bwahahahahahaha!
DeleteRotfl.
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DeleteHahahahahaha.
DeleteChai
Halitosis has suffered in the hands of Iyalode
Hahahahahaha Ezenwanyi .
DeleteYawns....
DeleteToo bad,I don't want to blame anybody but I believe there was a communication gap between the two and nothing like love existed between the two,it was friends with benefits,my guy sorry ooooo,der is more to life
ReplyDelete***HEALING-RAIN***
ReplyDeleteNew year disgrace!
Hope they don't curse her destiny to extinction.
Well she only knows why its so important for her to marry an educated man, but why lead him on when you know you have doubts. I don't like the fact that she had to wait untill the wedding day to call it off. Take heart dumped Groom, shit do happens.
ReplyDeleteI guessed she was drunk when she accepted to marry him? Stupid bride!
ReplyDeleteToo bad for d lady. Well wat a man can do........sorry man!
ReplyDeletewhat do you mean by...what a man can do?
DeleteThis is all shades of wrong!!! How callous can she be? After chopping the guy's money all these years? And to think that her parents are in support? Smh. And again,why did they allow the poor guy spend so much to prepare for wedding, why didn't they inform him before the day? So,the gratitude they can show him is by embarrassing him on the D-day? God will surely judge them!
ReplyDeleteNow is d ladies turn to dump their groom on d altar.......is alright.
ReplyDeleteWhat she did was wrong, y didn't she tell him initially .....
After all she wasn't force in2 d union....
She just used the guy 2 further her education.......
This is not normal at all! She has a spiritual husband or a Metal problem. Good morning Stella of life.
ReplyDeleteI walked out 2 weeks before my wedding because i discovered that i couldn't deal with the whole situation. However, i discussed with my folks and the guy before calling it off. It's a very difficult situation to take but a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. I wonder how both families and friends would have felt. But was the guy not sensitive enough to notice there was something strange about the girl's behaviour? Or did he ignore the signs? I feel so sorry for him. The girl no try sha! she would have just talked about it. it would have saved everyone the embarrassment. God will heal both families.
ReplyDelete???
DeleteWhy will you not finish this your story? Is it fair?
Be a child of God and share everything.
Lol..men do worse things to women jare! It's only fair if some of them get their fair dose of mean attitude..hohohohohohohoooo but bae that wasn't fair!
ReplyDeleteWhy would she agree b4 backing out after been educated by the guy? He should forget about the money and God would reward him and also reward the gal
ReplyDeleteStella she did wrong! She deceived dat man knowing fully well she won't marry him @d end. Pple shldnt b toying wv oda pple ' s emotion b kos f flimsy excuses. IFUNANYA, KARMA IS REAL AND WHEN IT STAY DEALING WITH YOU, YOU WILL PREFER DEATH SELF. ASK PEOPLE THAT DID THIS KINDA THING BEFORE YOU AND YOU WILL KNOW HOW THEY ENDED UP. Please people it's nt gud to deceive pple o, God seriously frowns on it. And foolish men n a few stupid women dat refuse to learn 4rm oda pple ' s bad experiences, kip training and kip getting dumped! If at al u must train, get married 1st, impregnate her 1st b4 u strt training.
ReplyDeleteFully well is not a correct english plss. Dear Diamond, dnt use it together again. U could say knowing fully or knowing well. Tnx n ve a gud day. Tnx!
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DeleteThat was very crappy of her. Why string him along and wait until the 11th hour?? Hiannnnnnn!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteWhat the bride did is so wrong omg. She n her family used the guy, cos from the family respond it's obvious they re in support of their daughter. The groom shld move on, God knows better . I'm was in shock reading this story.
ReplyDeleteC'mon that's not fair..she shld have left him long before now! Haba this babe wicked oh
ReplyDeleteLol. Lemme just read comments first.
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
Stella abeg borrow me ur gun i need to shoot this gal i swear...... I pray this guy kills her i swear.....
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Ha Stella it's not the first of it's kind at all,its very common among our igbo girls. And yes she did have a choice, she shouldn't have collected his money for schooling when she knew she wouldn't marry him. She nd her family planned the whole thing from the beginning, she's now blaming it on "illiteracy" msheww. I know this cos i had the opportunity to do the same thing to someone but i didnt cos i know its very wrong nd wicked. She should just remember that karma is coming for her! Bros pele oo...
ReplyDeleteChop clean mouth
ReplyDeleteShe should have informed him way ahead of the wedding and also not use him to gain her education but then again the world is getting stranger everyday.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahaha. Stella wetin be 99th hour? It's good biko. Shoe get size dianyi.
ReplyDeleteAnd she couldn't get her size to train her abi??
DeleteTher is God ooo
Its quite unfortunate, its usually the groom dumping the bride. Aww he is a school.
ReplyDeleteDrop-out and she a graduate what a lousy reason, she has another man joor.
Chai! Aaaru!,my dear dumped/duped groom take heart cos she wasn't meant2 be ur bride at all,and u know Kamar is a sure banker,she will definitely regret her actions,take heart may God heal ur pain by sending u ur own.
ReplyDeleteThat girl is a BIG FOOL!!!!
ReplyDeleteJust because the man is a drop-out???? The thunder that would strike her is dancing shoki... What nonsense?? S̶̲̥̅Æ ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ she didn't know and had to disgrace the poor man like that.... Oshi!!!
*flipshairandstrollsaway*
That is the problem with one partner sending another to school, especially when you yourself aren't educated.
ReplyDeleteOf course when they graduate, they automatically have a higher status/ level.
Let him go and collect his money and look elsewhere for love. Sorry, dude.
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Awww this is not fair abeg. She did wrong, very wrong. Well shaa we did not hear her own side of the story. Buh no matter wot she suld ve told him properly
ReplyDeletewickedness at its peak......#$45$
ReplyDeletelater she wl blame God for delayed marriage ba? these are the kind of acts that makes favour far from people. she knew she wouldnt marry him yet she 'magad' him to finance her education. in as much as i am against people, especially ladies marrying someone below their status, i do not support her act.
ReplyDeletehmmm. .... this life is deep.
Lol! D guy did a very bad investment, pity him. The parents of d gal knew all along, n dat babe must b very wicked! Anyway whatever a man sows he shall reap.
ReplyDeleteShe agreed to marry him if he sent her to school which he did and now she turned to say he is not a graduate? WTF!!! She is heartless and a wicked fellow. Karma will surely visit her. Why allow the poor man struggle to send u to school and waste his money on u if u won't keep to your own side of the bargain??? Na wa o. Girls, work hard and train urselfs and stop being foolish thinking that u r smart
ReplyDeleteWhat she did I absolutely wrong. She just used the guy to achieve her aim of getting educated and I believe from the onset she doesn't want to marry him or maybe she later met someone she loves in school. She should have at least told the guy when d rhythm of the song changed. This isn't fair at all.
ReplyDeleteThat was how a lady did the same thing to my friend's brother and the guy almost took his life, thank God they broke the door on time to rescue him and found a suicide note on the table....
That is wickedness in high places......but you know what? she and her family will surely reap what they have done. Wicked generation!!!
ReplyDeleteThat is too sad>
ReplyDeleteShe's ungrateful. If she didn't agree to marry if he would send her to school it's a different matter . Gold digger
ReplyDeleteStella I feel you shouldn't have put the guy's picture here.
ReplyDeleteWhy?
DeleteMbok rest abeg. Didn't it happen b4? Mtcheew
DeleteShe probably thought she could do it then decided at the last minute that she couldn't. Her only reason for not marrying the guy should be that she doesn't love him, but saying its because he's not educated, that's not acceptable. Didn't she know that all the while they were dating? Fear of God is becoming scarce o
ReplyDeleteShort of words. He is a school drop out but his money he spent on u during ur year in school no be school drop out.
ReplyDeletelord of mercy..
ReplyDeleteThe richest man in Nigeria was he a graduate?
Im damned Girls of nowadays.
#I SEE DEAD PEOPLE
She did the very wrong thing. Whether at the 1st hour or 98th hour u don't bite d fingers that fed u..not even as if her reason was that he beats her or cheats on her then we would hav maybe felt for her. But she was wrong on all levels.
ReplyDeleteShe will definitely meet her waterloo
Chizoba Igwebuike come n defend your sister, she has done the unthinkable.
ReplyDeleteWicked world. That is how my cousin has trained 3 girls through the univ, and they all dumped him cos he is still parading his ssce. All these mumu men sha. But the girl is wicked. When he was paying fees and training her she didn't know he was an illiterate, upto when he planned the wedding and paid bride price, even her family Shebi they were chopping. Now they say they can't force her. Namsense. I can imagine her pain sha. A tush (for her mind) graduate 'mallying' an illiterate 'anambla' man with the 'r' and 'l' factor. So she just 'ried' and deceived the guy that she 'roved' him, and she 'plomised' to 'mally' him, now he has spent his money she dumped him @ the alter. Issokay. The man should just use her for money 'lituals' biko.
ReplyDeleteHahahaha LA effizy true talk.
Delete3 girls? So after the 1st dumped him, he still went for a 2nd, and then 3rd?
DeleteWhy didnt he used the money to train himself instead?
She should have given him prior notice. That's reallys sad. It shoul actually be an eye opener to guys that train girls in school before marriage.
ReplyDeleteGod will deliver we women from bad advisers in the name of friends and family members
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm,so he spent his "non-graduate" money to make her a graduate nd then she came back to bite the fingers that fed her. Whatever happens to brushing up ur horseband by making him go back to sch?
ReplyDeleteA wicked n selfish act,mehn dis is really bad,just feel sorry fr d young man..!!#bitchaintloyal
ReplyDeleteAwon eleyi wan bad gan.... Aha, that's so unfair. And she wants peace, hell no. Her conscience will judge her for the rest of her life.
ReplyDeleteShe is wrong in what she did.she did not no he is a dropout b4 she agree to marry him. Karma is a bitch though
ReplyDeleteY did she have 2go dat far b4 ending it?? Big witch, I feel 4d Guy tho
ReplyDeleteDat is wickedness on anoda level.. y did she have to wait till d wedding day ? Allowing him to spend money like dat. Sum gals lack understanding bcos if dat's ha only reason den ha foolishness no get part 2....haven't she heard of lawyers, Doctors, bankers the so called Educated men dat abuse their wives? No b by book o, Education doesn't guarantee he will be a good husband. My cuzin( God bless him for me) said dere's a big difference btw being educated n educative, I agree wid him on every level. My ex is a lawyer, n d day I decided to end tins was d dai he nearly broke my hand, abi is it d doctor I dated? Dat one was nothing to write home about.. so I don't use Education as a criteria. U knw how to speak well, u r presentable, u love mi, u have family values, u are well to do, u love God, u r kind hearted I m all urs, Educated or not. My Dad never went to a secondary school but u should hear him speak n c him write, let's not forget how he treats my mum lyk a queen. I call him a living encyclopedia. ... he reads wide n can compete wid any graduate on sum level. Dat babe no try..+ I checkd ha out on Facebook sef.... she no try.
ReplyDeleteLater she will spend days fasting and praying disturbing God to give her a good man. Why did she even allow him send her to school when she had no intention of settling down with him or even go ahead with the wedding plans? I can't even wrap my head around this, its so unfair. I just pity the man and his family, cause they will be the laughing stock of friends, family and community. I pray God provides his own wife for him.
ReplyDeleteThat girl will never know peace, some people don't have the fear of God in them. When he was busy training her she forgot he was an illiterate. What's so special about the school she went to self?
ReplyDeleteWhy did she give him the condition that she would marry him if he pays her through school didn't she know that he was an illiterate? Karma win visit her
ReplyDeleteshe didnt know that he wasnt a graduate b4 agreein to marry him.he spends on her,pay her sch fees up to final yr.maybe she has seen someone that is richer and she is givin flimsy excuse of nt bn a graduate.God is watching oo
ReplyDeleteGroom sorry o
ReplyDeleteThat's a terrible thing to do to someone
Waste his TIME and waste his money.
For 4 years!!!
That's wickedness!
The girl knew b4 now that she will not marry him,she only used him to step up, but @ the 11th hour? No she shld hv made her decision known b4 now, not too good, the guy is human na.
ReplyDeleteWhat a stupid excuse! When you were chopping his money you'd didn't realise he was a non-graduate
ReplyDeleteMr loverman who has chosen to be the maga,sorry you have to learn part of life's lessons in a hard way
Btw do people still drop out of school then go ahead to train their boy/girl in school? I sorry o cos this is how it ends, the trainer gets dumped by the trainee!
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DeleteIfunaya or what are u,from what I am reading now this guy sounds honest .If he is dat honest ,I,m sorry for u o cos u will regret it.It wil surely come back to u and yours wil be worst.I am sure one young guy has sang a love song into your head.MEN!!! STOP SENDING LADIES DAT YOU ARE NOT MARRIED TO,TO SCHOOL IT USUALLY BACKFIRES 80% .Most women are Train thinkers.....They only think strait witout balance.My guy God wil give u a better woman trust me.Dont harm her just Let go.
ReplyDeleteAm a gal but I support u 100%...in almost all cases it backfires.........
DeleteKarma is a bitch
ReplyDeleteShe needs to be killed,why lead him on?why disgrace him in front of d public and friends? Why not sit him down and tell him u don't want? Why wait till d wedding day?....dat girl is a demon in human form,her eyes will soon clear from dat fool dat I'd deceiving her now,and making her parents say,come and collect ur money,just like dat....oh i pity dat girl...next 5yrs will tell her.
ReplyDeleteStella, this is a very wicked act. She was part of the arrangement, why did she allow the man to pay her bride price and planned the wedding if she knew she could not deal with a school drop out.
ReplyDeleteThe young man should move on and thank God for saving him from the ungrateful heart.
She did wrong on so many levels. But its nt the first of its kind. Most lady's do it nowadays. Use a man to climb which is so wrong. Courtsey demands she should Ve told him she isn't interested.I pity the guy sha He should move on. God would send him someone who would appreciate him.
ReplyDeletewhen she was collecting money fr sch fees was he a graduate?when she was collecting allowee from him,was he a graduate?karma is a bitch. good luck finding and marrying yr graduate horsband
ReplyDeleteShe a very big ingrate...She shouldnt have broken the news to the guy in that manner....even if she didnt want him again there are better ways of doing it than this...she will have her own reward
ReplyDeleteThis might affect this guys ego
This is not fair at all.I feel like crying for the Man.she no try abeg.she could have told the man her mind and see it they can settle things first.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm...tough one here. I can only marry a graduate sha....just dnt like the way she ended it all...humiliating the young man. When she was enjoying his money, didn't she know he was a school drop out? Not nice at all. Anyway she has made her decision. She had better not grumble in future when she marries a graduate that can't cater for her needs..
ReplyDeleteshe is wicked she used him as in used him.... make she no worry she will meet her own in front... he should thank his God sef... next time when someone places a condition before they marry you, think twice
ReplyDeleteThe reason of her walking out is so unreasonable. She would have encouraged him to go to school when she realised she wants to marry a graduate, she never loved him. Maybe the groom has done something bad in the past that he's reaping now, if not karma will definitely catch up with d girl.
ReplyDeleteWow but why waiting till 99th hour? She is wrong I blame her for waiting till d wedding day.
ReplyDeleteShe just realized that he was not educated on the morning of the wedding, that is wickedness of the highest order. Why make him put you through school only for you to say he is not good enough to marry? she did wrong abeg.
ReplyDeleteWho's to be blamed? You could not go to school but could afford to send a girl to school. She was just using you from the beginning. Putting a condition to get married to you.
ReplyDeleteIf I were a guest at that wedding, I must still eat my rice. I wouldn't waste time, clothes and makeup for nothing. Lmao!
ReplyDeleteErrrrrm...this guy is a learner. Why send a girl to a polytechnic when you're a drop out? Mumu.
Love makes people do incredible things sha.
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DeleteI remember traders suffered this fate those days,after sending ladies to school,they end up leaving them but not on the wedding day at least!
ReplyDeleteAs I was reading this story,i felt I was going to see that the lady left him because of something grievous,maybe affairs,domestic violence,etc. I was shocked to see the reason...well,if she agreed initially knowing that he was an illiterate when they met,she hurt the young man badly! Being dumped at the altar for both males and females is never easy to get over!
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Ahn Ahn! We women sef! Hian! This story actually brought tears to my eyes, he sent her to school and that is how she could repay him. Not good at all! She probably met another man while in school, and even her parents sef, Hian! The best she could have done was breakup with him the proper way but this lady tho...she had better start praying for her paths to be straight o cos I doubt things would go well for her after this. Poor guy! I pray he finds someone who loves him for who he is. But really, while sending her to school, he could have taken courses to better himself too but it's alright!
ReplyDeleteYa'll cry a lot on this blog. Lol
DeleteIs that suPPose to be a question or what aunty stel? Hian!
ReplyDeleteThe girl is damn too heartless, she can kill trust me, infact she is a murderer. To think she has Plans before that fateful day over 5 or 6years of Pretending to be in love with him while accelerating in her studies. Oh Lord have mercy!SMH
Other "girl jilt guy" stories i have heard/seen is usually after the guy sees them through in school then they wickedly and stuPidly rejects marriage ProPosal for same reason. Imagine how far this jezebel/delilah went, accePting ProPosal and watching him go through alot PreParing for "their" wedding, only for her to come droP it like a "big bang" in the beginning of the year for that matter imagine...
Mehn, If everything this dude have said here is true, then it will never be well with this girl.. Never!!!
Now i know the reason most guys if not all now refuse to train any girl they are not officially married to in school.
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She did a very wrong thing by dumping him after sponsoring her through school....she wants to eat her cake and have it ehn?hmmm law of karma is a bitch ooo...wen she starts seeing d repercussion later in future,dem go see na one witch wen dey village dey do her,awon aye...
ReplyDeleteAm sure the lady already has another man in her life whom she believes will marry her. Why didn't she tell the man that she can't go on with the wedding so that the man will not have to spend money preparing for a wedding. And to think that the man was the one training in her school. The girl is very mean I must say and she will definitely reap her reward.
ReplyDeleteWhat she did was wrong or should I say how she did it, whichever one. You agreed to marry him if he sends u to school then u dump him saying he his not educated, like seriously....the heart of man is desperately wicked.
ReplyDeleteHaba naa
ReplyDeleteThat wasn't fair atall
What happened to informing the guy earlier so he won't have to spend a dime making any preparations??
Guy take heart oo, abi wetin I wan talk again.
This is exactly what my brother's fiance did to him.
ReplyDeleteif she had reservations, they should have been voiced a little earlier, speaking up even a few days to the wedding would have been enough. no one deserves the treatment the poor man got. rudest shock of his life.
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if she had reservations they should have been voiced a little earlier, speaking up even a few days to the wedding would have been enough. no one deserves the treatment the poor man got. rudest shock of his life.
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What nonsense. Didn't she know he was not a graduate when all plans were being made.how can she be so mean. Well take heart Mr man
ReplyDeleteshe think he will accept that in good faith he trained her in school with his money and she does this to him I laugh in Pete edochie's voice she will never get married again in dis life even she get she won't give birth and for her parents they will hear from him
ReplyDeleteY allow d poor guy sponsor u in skul wen u know u won't get married to him
ReplyDeleteY allow d poor boy make arrangements and spend a whole lot of moni wen u no u won't get marid to him
Dat is just pure wickedness, he trained u and made u a graduate but u turned back and insulted him in front of all d pple u pple invited saying he is not a graduate....shame on u
Babe don't think ur free cuz nemesis will catch up with u.... blif me u wud beg him one day
#womencanbeheartlessattimes# bros just put ursef together u deserve something better and someone dat wud appreciate u for who u are
What a dump excuse why didn't she tell him earlier am sure she has another guy,after training her in the university she will definitely regret it ,ekene move on with your life be lucky u guys didn't tie the knot because girl like this Ify go leave husband house go collect kpomo outside.
ReplyDeletethe girl and her family are absolutely wicked!why string him along a the while? after we will say men are wicked..she always knew she was not gonna marry that guy.she just used him as a life line to feed her family and also go to school,but it is ok,she will meet her waterloo..this is not smartness,she will bite her fingers soonest.
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ReplyDeleteNkea bu daylight financial emotional and public robbery aand perpetual disgrace
ReplyDeleteYes she did the wrong thing,she should have informed him earlier,she should have saved him wasted time,effort and money. Wot ever treatment you mete out on others you shall receive in abundance.
ReplyDeletecynthia madam i too know..did the guy tell you he ddnt want his pic up?
ReplyDeleteread what you should and leave the rest!
Stella it was jst a suggestion. Idi harsh biko
DeleteLmao.
DeleteLmao! Everything is just funny to me.
DeleteStella how can you say it is the first of its kind? It happens all the time now. Its just very wicked the way she went about it as if the man offended her and she was trying to revenge. Maybe the man was cheating and she wanted to disgrace him openly. People get mind sha.
ReplyDeleteShe is very wicked haba
ReplyDeleteWickedness at it peak.
Pathetic
ReplyDeleteHahahaha @madam I too know
ReplyDeleteThis blog is the ish
The girl is all sorts of wickedness
Y lead the guy on till the wedding day?
Y agree to the wedding at all
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If the guy really sent her to school then she did the worst thing any human being could ever do. So d guy suddenly became unsuitable for her bah? I don't like how sme girls reason. Going around spoiling things for other girls and coming back to say men are wicked...karma is a bad bitch sha
ReplyDeleteMy cousin married the man who sent her to school. They have about 5 children now. The Umuchu lady; she may pay the guy back the money used in sending her to school. It's good to be married; if you want to be married. But no go die there sha. Kisses everyone!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteHmmm so all this while he was training her she didn't see it. If them begin pursue her now she should just know she called for it. Now she feels she's got a choice na Devil go punish her. Make d guy leave this matter for God hand.
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It's strange to know so men are this gullible especially in this age, you spend your hard earned money training her and expect her to marry you when you didn't upgrade yourself. She has seen everything while she was in the university.
ReplyDeleteThe girl is wicked,she should have left him before the wedding or better still sit the guy down and let him no ur reason!i suspect she has a sch bf!the girl is heartless
ReplyDeleteThe lady is very stupid and selfish, she said the man is a drop-out and yet she used the money of a drop- out to finance her education, God almighty will judge you accordingly.
ReplyDeleteThis is a case of "chop and clean mouth." What she didn't wasn't nice at all.
ReplyDeleteI think her parents were in this the whole time judging from the calm response. Why couldn't they tell him their daughter wasn't interested in him again? Why embarrass him at the time he should be rejoicing?
I think it's high time men stopped this idea of sponsoring ladies to school with the intention they would end up as their wives.
That girl's level (taste, thinking, dressing and all) is not at par with his; her mentality has totally changed. She's met someone that suits her.
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The girl had it coming,She didn't just wakeup one morning to take this decision. If only we could see the hearts of men! Such wickedness.
ReplyDeleteThe girl is heartless and will get what she deserves in due time then she will regret her existence.... How can she disgrace a man that has done her no wrong????? The idiot that advised her to leave this man will also dump her sorry ass in due tym!! stupid girl
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