PROBLEM ONE
BED WETTING
Hi Stella
My name is Jessica. I'm an ardent reader of your blog. In fact, I eat, bath, sleep, wake up on this blog. Thumbs up 4 d great work you are doing and my shout out goes to "the general's wife, bloglord, iphie dearie, onu ugba jayEm, chizoba ibebuike ,ezenwanyi and my blog crush Ed dreams^kisses^!!
My problem goes like this: at my age "22" and a 3rd year student in a university, I still bed wet(urinate on the bed). Stella I must confess, this is so frustrating. No matter how late I sleep, I still tend to wet the bed. My roommate can't take this anymore and forces me to take the urine dripping mattress outside..choi!! I can't even bring a friend to my room due to the bad smell. Doctors in the house should please help me. The stigma is too much for me to bear. Please advice me.
My dear,anytime you start dreaming that you are on your way to the toilet or you are already seated,NA SET UP OOOOH....please jump off that dream and find your way to ''piss''..lol
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PROBLEM TWO
DAUGHTER AND MOTHER INFECTED
Complements of the season.
Please I stumbled upon this blog about 2yrs ago but always unable to comment due to my phone though i've commented twice.i saw something last night that compelled me to finally summon courage to send you this and to beg of you to please post it .
I got pregnant at 20,i just clocked 24.since my dad sent me out and guy in question had told me to keep the pregnancy at my own risk,I am ashamed to say that I slept with a man twice just so I could get money to feed and register for antenatal at uniuyo teaching hospital.(what did i know about condom?)
It was months later that my parents took me in again.
to cut a long story short,I realized i am infected after birthing the child (not HIV though I do not know what it is exactly as I haven't had money to go for a test.
I have so much discharge and boils that come and go though heals on its own since 2012 till date (had my dota 2011).I also do notice some discharge from her too although like twice.
March this year I was hypnotized and raped on my way back from school when I went for my screening.could not tell my parents as my father will remind me of it every single day( I know what I mean) i would have just kept praying and hoping for a miracle that maybe one day all these would also go but I saw something last night when I was bathing her,a tiny thing like rash inside her private.
heaven knows i really need help before I lose my sanity.please help me reach out to any of our blog visitors who is a medical doctor n residing in uyo to please help me in treating I and my daughter. I am in real tears as I write to you My email is
midora.jj@gmail.com
please no one should condemn me please,i am in a very emotional state now and have a test to write this afternoon, i need all the peace of mind i can get now.My God continue to bless you all.
midora.jj@gmail.com
please no one should condemn me please,i am in a very emotional state now and have a test to write this afternoon, i need all the peace of mind i can get now.My God continue to bless you all.
PLEASE IF YOU ARE A DOCTOR IN UYO OR KNOW SOMEONE THAT CAN HELP CONTACT HER ON THIS EMAIL,FOR THAT LITTLE GIRLS SAKE..OMG!
Touching story, I hope she gets the deserved help
ReplyDeleteKevwe Kevwe,so u nor get any advice to give ni?
DeleteGo for strong deliverance poster one poster 2 u would get help from this blog I trust them.....
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Kevwe darling ;)
DeleteN1
DeleteNne you need help. I think tour problem is spiritual. I used to have those wee-wee dreams but that was when I was younger. I need you to go to MFM.
It's not normal
I repeat, not normal.
N2: ma I hope you get the desired help you need.
They raped you untop your challenges?
Hmmm
Cry out to God for help too. So the bad encounters would stop
Kevwe my blog crush. Hi... how are you? *shines teeth*
Dat bed wetting tin na spiritual attack abeg... I stopped bedwetting @d age of 17.. My mama go put church sermon for my pant hoping d sermon go stop urine.. Na big lie, bfr morning I go don soak sermon wit like 3 buckets of Urine... I tank God for my life...
DeleteIn other news,
I neva receive my Santa Alert Aunt Stella.. nd I don send my acct details twice... na erry min I dey check my fone nd account if d Santa don enta..
No do me like dz BBC nd Aunt stella...
If I no win na anoda tin ooo... My mind don dey thr oo...
P2 pls don't self medicate..try n take urself n ur child to a clinic..b4 it turns to something else.
DeleteLols...you nko
DeletePoster 2 you have herps abi wetin dem they call am,it doesn't ve a cure but it's not deadly either,its can be managed. You re not supposed to push that baby u re suppose to have her thru CS cos of the infection cos ur baby can contact it during birth. I'm so sad that this innocent baby ve to go thru this.for the main time pls buy virest cream n mycoten to be applying in ur vijay n ur baby as well n also buy virest tablet to take pls dnt give ur baby the table oh..pls pls see a gynaecologist asap.
DeleteThe lady that bedwets, your problem is more os spiritual. I will advise you see a real man of God to pray along with you. It is not a good thing, neither is it normal. Please don't blame yourself, this is something you have no control over. God bless you
DeleteN2, it's well with u n ur lil one. Ur helper will locate u in jesus name Amen. E-hugs
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DeleteI hope you find help soon. Don't have any advice to give.
Narrative 2
Your story is so touching, I feel for you and I just pray that the rape incident will not have a long time effect on you. And I pray for you that you'll find help soon for your child and yourself in Jesus name. Amen!
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Tnx dear bt for about 3 months I kept having playback of d incident... I know it is well
DeleteMay God answer u guys @N1/N2.
DeleteN1....go buy Desmopressin tablet. Its is for bed wetting
DeleteN2....somebody please help them
Awwww! God in his infinite mercy will grant you the help u need. #1- stop taking anything liquid before bed and if you can wake up when you are having such dreams like Mrs Dimokokus said it will stop. Good luck
DeletePoster 1 look for this drug MENTAT, it may help with bedwetting.
DeletePoster 2, pls go for HIV screen immediately for u and ur dota.
It is well y'all
ReplyDeletei hope its just a rash and not an infection... the baby is just 3yrs
Poster 1: Na village dem do you. Oya begin bind n cast.
DeleteIs definitely an infection n she really needs urgent attention asap!! May God make heal u my dear @poster: ur case is serious ooh n me no get any advice 4 u....pray u get help soon.
Deletehmm..sorry o..lemme read comments
ReplyDeletei used to bedwet. But it all stopped when i was 10. Tanx to God because at that tender age i used to pray and fast on my way to and from school. Because it dealt with my self esteem mercilessly. My mom too made my younger ones make fun of me. But fastforward to 7 years now. I have never for a single day wet the bed again. Thanx to God who made it so
Deleteso poster refrain from all your sins and come to God he alone has the answers to your prayers
poster 2. Your situation looks like symptoms of Treponema vaginalis but since it is affecting ur 4 year old kid. Then i may as well be wrong.
Try any azole or antifungal drugs/cream this would help for the rash.
#I SEE DEAD PEOPLE
As in eeh I feel so bad for that little girl. I pray help locates them soon.
DeleteHahahahahahaha Stella's comment on the bedwetting post really got me in stitches.
Bedwetting poster I think you really have to work on your mind. Don't sleep too deep and avoid drinking water once it is past 6:00pm.
G_PHARm... thank God for your deliverance o.
DeleteHmmm
And so you still see dead people. *in hushed tone*
You live for cemetery?
the things we all go thru. may God send u ur helper poster 2.
ReplyDeletei used to bedwet. But it all stopped when i was 10. Tanx to God because at that tender age i used to pray and fast on my way to and from school. Because it dealt with my self esteem mercilessly. My mom too made my younger ones make fun of me. But fastforward to 7 years now. I have never for a single day wet the bed again. Thanx to God who made it so
Deleteso poster refrain from all your sins and come to God he alone has the answers to your prayers
poster 2. Your situation looks like symptoms of Treponema vaginalis but since it is affecting ur 4 year old kid. Then i may as well be wrong.
Try any azole or antifungal drugs/cream this would help for the rash.
#I SEE DEAD PEOPLE
G-pharm, your comment above shows/tells that u're 17 years old. Lil wonder your foolish comments most times. This blog should be PG-18. At least we can manage teenagers from 18years and above. They will have more reasonable contributions to make.
DeleteU mind g pharm?
DeleteI even use ten years senr am. Common respect them no get for this blog.
Just dey insult themselves up and down.
Mtchewwww
Poster 2, you'll be fine ok? Please any Doctor in Uyo should help her abeg.... I fear for the baby! She's too young for all of that. Mbok ndito eka, edian ubok ewam mmo mbok... Ke enieh ata mbom!
ReplyDeleteOoh really...Latoya
DeleteWey d hell hve u been??
Viva darl... Been stuck in one job like that ooooooo n It took all my time... How's u na?
DeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteI know some dude who made it rain on his bed till like after secondary. He had to stop any liquid intake once it was noon of each day. It did help reduce it and of course don't sleep to deep. When it's coming you could run to the restroom. Sad!
DeleteHmmmm, matters that touch the heart, may God bring you help
ReplyDeletePoster 1, stop drinking plenty water in the evening, and whenever u re dreaming, no near toilet or bathroom. Just try force urself wake ooo. Na set up as Stella said. Poster 2..I pray u get the help u need, am not a doctor.
ReplyDeleteSet your alarm to wake up every hour to pee. You can increase the time between each alarm ring with time
DeleteHmmm this is serious I pray you get help soon.
ReplyDeleteThat's pathetic, doctors in d house please help them oooo
ReplyDelete@Poster 1 : Get Marking Touch on ya bed. @Poster 2 : Torching story , sm1 shuld plz help her nd d Lil geh
ReplyDelete@ lawrence, that stuff is called Macintosh, not marking touch. Don't thank me, every one makes mistakes everytime
Deletesup dawg? Its Macintosh.(GB). Also its ''touching story''
DeleteLawrence Lawrence... oyibo bu agbara.
DeleteNumber 1 most bed wetting are spiritual I know a lot that have undergone deliverance and got out of it..but make sure u pee befor u go to bed and don't eat too much at night in short from 6 7 don't eat again and set Al alarm to wake u by 12 and 3 so u go and pee .....number 2 u rily need help ooo your parents are wicked so they can't take u for treatment na wa o may God render u the help u need. ...
ReplyDeletePoster 1, from 6 don't drink or eat,try to rest during d day (after lectures) so at night you don't get too tired to wake up and pee...Pray well o, my cousins bedwet till almst 27yrs...Poster 2 : Akwa ibom girl(except a few) una too loose ,haba, u get belle go sleep with another man for ante-natal,d man sef na fool!!What did u know about condoms?(Lies, you know/knew everytin) because you write so well, so I know u are enlightened even if not educated or both sef...I feel for you daughter, God will send you d required help, bt pls next time use condom (I know u will do again)...I hav lived in Akwa ibom for so-many years I know what I'm talking about!
DeleteYou didn't have to spew ds much venom,for goodness sake u do not even know me
DeletePoster 2, the anonymous only said the gospel truth. I see no venom there. You get belle, go sleep with another man for ante natal? Choi. And of course yes. You know about condoms! Come on! You are educated!! You write so well! I pray you get the help you need. You only got judged by what you wrote here. I pray your daughter and you get healed. Stay strong
DeleteGod will heal you and send help your, even for your daughter's sake. It is well with you.
ReplyDeleteSo touching,someone should please help this lady! I hope the advice you get help you two
ReplyDeletePray o, try not to take water too late at night.
ReplyDeleteNo2: pls go for test.
U nuh say she nuh get moni to go for Test
DeleteHmmm poster one:Go c a doctor fr hlp.poster two:z well wt u ijn.
ReplyDeleteNa wah o...
ReplyDeleteChingum boys be giving belle and abandoning dumb babes since time immemorial.
As for the first poster...
How on earth don't u know about adult pampers?
Ur bladder is weak,do the needful and stop messing everywhere up with smelly adult urine.
Do u have a bf?
I wonder the stench while he's trying to find his way in
Have u ever been given a head?
You're missing o
Better go spiritual cos I th its your spiritual husband that's leaking your bladder cos he won't want you to be confident enough to meet n make out with Mr right....
Go to mountain of fire....
Command him to fall down and die!!
Poster2: Please you need to see a doc even if it's a nurse. There are some nurses that are motherly, you just explain your problem am sure they can help, besides I thought children under five can be treated free of charge in gov't hospitals. You don't wish these things away.
ReplyDeleteI hope you find help for your daughter's sake.
I'm so sorry to hear this miss poster two.
ReplyDeleteWell from what you have described,, the recurrent boils, and the discharge, I can tell you for sure that your immune system is trying to definitely fight an infection ok.
But you would have to be examined by a doctor where you reside, you should tell the doctor honestly all the symptoms you have noticed till late.
Some laboratory test would ve to be undertaken.
I wish I knew a doctor where you reside, would have referred you to one.
Don't be scared ok. You and your baby would be fine, I will send you an email and expanciate better.
Thanks
DeleteAm short of words for both mother and child!
ReplyDeleteBed-wetter, pls endevour to pee before going to bed and reduce your water intake at night.
Lord have mercy,what could this be? The little girl's part sends shivers down my spine. Let her post her acc number,if there's money wt her,she can walk into a hospital on her own,doesn't have to be bv's or doctors in her state alone.
ReplyDeleteIt is an infection
ReplyDelete@ poster 2: sorry for your ordeal.you were brave to have kept that child despite the circumstances that surrounded you.but pls why did you rule out HIV.have you gone for the test recently. pls don't be at denial.incase it is HIV; it is not the end of the world and you can still live your normal life as you take the medication. is just a pity and you are a victim of circumstances. STDs needs to be checked too; especially syphilis. all the best and good luck in your exam.I pray help meets you n your daughter soon.
ReplyDelete@ poster 1: pls from 6pm reduce your water intake and from 8pm.don't take even a sip.from then till when you go to bed you will be able to empty your bowel before going to sleep.plus what Stella said.immediately you feel you are in the toilet peeing while sleeping; pls get up n pee.then pls go and check your glucose level in a good hospital.
That's because I tested for HIV during my ante natal and 2months ago I did medicals in sch as part of my admission procedures
DeleteGod will make a way soon.
ReplyDeleteSee poster one,,me too piss 4 bed reach ss2,it was fustrating nd i almost died den i was 15....i over came it by praying nd i stopped drinking water late nite,den i dont sleep 2 far incase d piss dey cum i go quickly jump up,gradually i began to sleep far nd dat was hw i conquered.
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you,please try and locate any general hospital and lay complain before someone surface to render help,the earlier you start treating it the better.poster 1 sometimes due to excess play and dreaming one can wee on the bed,for instance you dey dream say u and your friend dey play and in dat dream you want to wee and so e take dey start b4 u know u don dey wee 4 real life.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: pray about it and see a doctor you could have a weak bladder,
ReplyDeletePoster 2 I will say a prayer for you and your little angel it will end in praise, pls doctors in uyo pls help her thanks
Jesusssss. God please have mercy and heal mother and child. Poster 1,there dis therapy of corn silk (iru agbado) boil and take regularly,I dnt knw if it works becos it never happen to me. Read it somewhere. Also dnt eat again once its 7pm.train urself to wake up at intervals to go to d toilet(can set alarm),God will heal u too. Amen. Sdklastborn
ReplyDeletePoster2 God help you my dear
ReplyDeleteHmmm, it's well.
ReplyDeletePray God sees u through.
ReplyDeleteIrene bernard thanks for the 10k u sent to me. May God bless u.
Hmmm,its well.
ReplyDelete1. Once it's 7pm, na sipping of water things. Try put the alarm on your phone on so it wakes you up.
ReplyDeleteAlso occupy yourself in the evening so you don't sleep early because if you sleep around 8/9 you must piss for bed.
Urinating on the bed happens to mostly deep sleepers. Most importantly make you seek medical advice.
Olorun a fun wa se.
ReplyDeletePoster one:stella has said it all
ReplyDeletePoster two:plz BV doc in uyo Shud help ASAP For d sake of her child
Please doctors in Uyo!!
ReplyDeleteI beg of you,come to this woman's aid plsssssss!
Bvs that know doctors in Uyo...helpPppppp.
May God wipe away the memories of these tragedies from you@poster two...
Please be watchful and conscious of your environs evil rapists are lurking everywhere..
Don't go about having sex,especially without protection my dear..
Most importantly,face your studies and your child for now..thank God your parents have taken you back..just focus on your education,you will definitely make it on your own....I know you will...
@poster 1..how are you my dear?....let people with experience come up with tips and solution.
Madam iphie dearie,Genny baby nd General wife,,pls am cuming to ur house wit my son 4 d xmas oh,weda we go see chicken chop.ur adress please? Nt a joke n
DeleteThnx ma.we just closed for d holidays yesterday.I intend going to d hospital D's holiday. To d poster dt said dt I knew wt I was doing becos I write well,somehow God gave me small brain to know book
DeleteI'd be grateful
DeleteHahahhahahahhaha
DeleteAdura baby u r welcome...lol
Lol@Adura..we dey wait
Deleteomg......pls any good doctor pls help her
ReplyDeletePoster 1----sowi dear,try and empty Ʊ® bowel before hitting ur bed..and if problem persist,please visit a doctor and go for deliverance...
ReplyDeletePoster2--i felt like crying when ΐ read ur post,God will send help your way ΐ believe so...
My S/O goes to antysterra,my knight in shinning armour..MUAH!!!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
Poster 1----sowi dear,try and empty Ʊ® bowel before hitting ur bed..and if problem persist,please visit a doctor and go for deliverance...
ReplyDeletePoster2--i felt like crying when ΐ read ur post,God will send help your way ΐ believe so...
My S/O goes to antysterra,my knight in shinning armour..MUAH!!!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
Poster 1: God 's intervention is what you need God will do it. I 've seen people share their testimonies in church, about their deliverance.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: God is sending you help.
Thelma enemuwe said...
ReplyDeletePoster 1----sowi dear,try and empty Ʊ® bowel before hitting ur bed..and if problem persist,please visit a doctor and go for deliverance...
Poster2--i felt like crying when ΐ read ur post,God will send help your way ΐ believe so...
My S/O goes to antysterra,my knight in shinning armour..MUAH!!!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
Thelma enemuwe said...
ReplyDeletePoster 1----sowi dear,try and empty Ʊ® bowel before hitting ur bed..and if problem persist,please visit a doctor and go for deliverance...
Poster2--i felt like crying when ΐ read ur post,God will send help your way ΐ believe so...
My S/O goes to antysterra,my knight in shinning armour..MUAH!!!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
Thelma enemuwe said...
ReplyDeletePoster 1----sowi dear,try and empty Ʊ® bowel before hitting ur bed..and if problem persist,please visit a doctor and go for deliverance...
Poster2--i felt like crying when ΐ read ur post,God will send help your way ΐ believe so...
My S/O goes to antysterra,my knight in shinning armour..MUAH!!!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
Thelma enemuwe said...
ReplyDeletePoster 1----sowi dear,try and empty Ʊ® bowel before hitting ur bed..and if problem persist,please visit a doctor and go for deliverance...
Poster2--i felt like crying when ΐ read ur post,God will send help your way ΐ believe so...
My S/O goes to antysterra,my knight in shinning armour..MUAH!!!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
Deliverance poster1, my dear poster 2 God will heal you and ur daughter help will come ur way
ReplyDeletePoster 1: wear diaper to bed
ReplyDeletePoster: can you send pics of ur toto make I examine am?
Anno 11:35am, u must rili b high on somfin cheap o
DeleteThelma enemuwe said...
ReplyDeletePoster 1----sowi dear,try and empty Ʊ® bowel before hitting ur bed..and if problem persist,please visit a doctor and go for deliverance...
Poster2--i felt like crying when ΐ read ur post,God will send help your way ΐ believe so...
My S/O goes to antysterra,my knight in shinning armour..MUAH!!!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
Thelma enemuwe said...
ReplyDeletePoster 1----sowi dear,try and empty Ʊ® bowel before hitting ur bed..and if problem persist,please visit a doctor and go for deliverance...
Poster2--i felt like crying when ΐ read ur post,God will send help your way ΐ believe so...
My S/O goes to antysterra,my knight in shinning armour..MUAH!!!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
The two poster,God is the most high doctor and he'll definitely look into your matters ijn
ReplyDeletePoster 1 . Pele. Try not to be taking any loquid as from 6 pm so u dont wet your bed. I will keep you in my prayers too. Poster 2. Hmm. What an ordeal! May God send help. Please tell yoir parents. I don't think they will like to see you suffer. You seriously need to see a doctor before something more serious happens.
ReplyDeleteIf I tell them they will squeeze out d lil dy have to treat me but I low my dad too well,even wen u r eating n till u die he will make it a point to talk about it DAILY.my dear I know wt I mean.tnx 4ur concern
DeleteEee. Let him talk but get the cure first.
DeletePls who knws any good private hospital in ph dat can collect N100,000 for cs.pls drop contact. teaching hospital is on strike.
ReplyDeleteDamn! Wish I cud help! Have u tried BMH? I only know of prime medical,best surgeons but it's 4x expensive.
DeletePoster one jst go for deliverance n drink less water @nights,poster 2 pls stay put cos God ll see u thru,Doctors in Uyo pls help dis lady n d little cutie
ReplyDeletePóster 1,eeeeya....really dont know wot to advice.hope u get d help u r looking for.Warm hugs dear.
ReplyDeletePóster 2,help wil locate u dear.hang in dere.ok? Hugs.
Bwahaha
DeletePoster 1 wey Dey look for TGW assorted comment. You don get am now. Instead of asking for advice. Una go dey lick ass unnecessarily.
poster1...make sure you dont drink water after 6pm.if you do pls tell someone to wake you upat regular intervals or set your alarm for every 1 hr.get a Macintosh to cover your mattress. bedwetting can also be as a result of deeper issues like sexual molestation as a child.if thats the case,pls see a psychologist.dont forget to take it to God in prayers.He is a wonder working God.try scoan too if you can.Poster 2....pls uyo Bvs help out.
ReplyDeletePoster I:I have passed thru it and sdk posted it in here and I recovered from it, but it came again so am looking at another deliverance.forces don't give up only if u hold strong to God after the deliverance, may God see us thru becos for mi it is embarassing but I know I ll get permanent healing from the most high .all the best dear
ReplyDeletePoster 2:God ll heal u both for ur daughters sake cos she is innocent and doesn't deserve to suffer from ur carelessness
Hmmmm what a sad story! May God send you help from heaven@ poster 2
ReplyDeleteVery touching story!!
ReplyDelete#1. Try not to take any thing once it is 7pm, @least gv urself 3 hrs interval b4 u sleep. Set ur fone on alarm or tell ur rommies to wake u up to wee! They have a hrt of Gold to still live in the same room with you cuz i know urine smell can be very strong!! Plz go for deliverance too to rule out any spiritual cause..
#2. I pray u get the help you need here, wish u success in ur text!! *sigh*
It is spiritual, whether she starves herself no way it ll happen, only God's intervention
DeletePoster1 did your parent know about it because my cousin too bedwet but it stop when he was 19 his parent cure him through native way there is herb for it,tell your parent to do something about it
ReplyDeleteIts so well with. Everyone sure have a past. Yours is even better. Thank God its not HIV that you wil had to depend on drugs for life. Its called past cos u derive d wisdom u use in d past from them. Brace up my sister. Your helper is here already.
ReplyDeleteIt well
ReplyDeleteN1, That's what we call Enuresis. Could be a psychological issue. You could visit a psychologist for that.
ReplyDeleteCould be an issue with your eating or your long throat at night. Yep, I said it. I too used to be a bed wetter for a very long time. I stopped very late. Was a really shameful experience for me. I got insulted at home a lot of times by my mother. What names didn't she call me? I prayed and prayed for it to stop. But the more I prayed, the more it even increased sef. Luckily for me, I didn't get admission to school until I was 21. I don't know how it stopped but I know gaining admission helped somehow. I made a very conscious effort not to allow anybody know that I had that kind of issue. NEVER!! So I made sure I stopped eating by 7pm. No food no water. Before I sleep almost all the urine would have been expelled. That's what I did and God just helped me too. Only had like 1 or 2 leaks and nobody even knew.
Now, I eat what I like anytime I want. It's like I just know when to wake up to visit the toilet.
The same woman that made my life hell didn't even ask me how it stopped o. Na wah.
Funny enough I had a roommate who had the same challenge and till we left school, she still had it. I advised her to stop eating late but she was quoting laws for me that eating and drinking was not the cause. That's how I let her be o. She didn't know that I too had my own story. Didn't bother telling her. People would runaway from being her roommate but I didn't run because I understood her situation. My friend even once asked me why my room always had a funky smell, but I quickly changed the topic. But if you ask my roommate that question, she will loudly say "I wet the bed" hian! Twas like an open secret but I just couldn't get myself to say anything about it to anyone with my own mouth.
Anyway Madam poster 1, stop eating late. That can probably train your bladder somehow. Set the alarms for 12, 2, 4am, that could help you wake up to pee.
Could go on and on oo put you just have to make up your mind to get rid of this issue. Its not fresh at all na. All the best.
Poster 1 maybe you are too tired to get up at night, try sleeping in the day time if you can so that you won't sleep deep at night
ReplyDeletePoster 1 maybe you are too tired to get up at night, try sleeping in the day time if you can so that you won't sleep deep at night
ReplyDeletePoster 1...I can imagine the embarrassment you've had to go thru wit every bed-wetting incident, I had a friend in school who had similar problem, she even saw a doctor, cut down on her fluid intake but the problem persisted till she took it to God in prayers, maybe you should do same and please don't let it affect your self esteem, it is beyond your control so u are not to blame.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: I pray God sends a good doctor or means to one your way. You re just a victim in all of these things and I feel really bad for that poor little girl. God will heal both your body and soul beacuse I see you also need healing psychologically, u've been through so much and alone without having soeone to confide in.
I still wonder why parents send their beloved daughters away because they got pregnant out of wedlock, they just expose these girls to more harm. Going thru unexpected Pregnancy is enough punishment, there is no need putting them in harm's way too.
Poster 1: reduce your water or fluid intake before bed also try setting an alarm for 1hour intervals and make sure u urinate each hour you wake up. Unless dem dey follow u from village this should help.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: pray nd also work on urself like wake up to pee twice in the night "set alarm ". Poster 2: it's well dearie nd I pray u see the help u need soon. Any doc in uyo should pls help her nd the little baby.
ReplyDelete@poster 1 stop drinking water as from 7pm, wake up at intervals to visit d loo, see a doc, there is a medications(anti diuretics) to help your .you can also check your blood sugar levels cos when it is high one can't control urine or a check for diabetes insipidus . @poster 2, your help is on the way by God's will.
ReplyDelete*medication *you
DeletePoster 1:stop drinking water from 6pm and always force yourself to wewe and empty your bladder before going to bed and set u alarm for 12midnite,3am and 5am every morning.poster 2 u mean since 2012 you couldn't go to FMC or even General hospitals to atleast see a doctor and run a test then u can beg for money for the drugs.Govt. Hospitals charge very little for test and consultation.sorry to say but u are very unserious with your health and ur baby's.pls doctors in Uyo for the sake of the innocent baby kindly assist her.Madam Stells goodmorning.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, much as bed wetting could be spiritual, you must exhaust all medical avenues first. Maturity of individual's bladder muscles varies but is expected to have matured by 16-18yrs (for very late developers), hence the need to seek medical attention after then. Have you seen your eurologist? Have you made sure you're free from urinary tract infections (UTI)? E-colli is a common cause, even as there could be a million other causes. Do not rule out weakness of the bladder which could be corrected surgically.
ReplyDeleteIn all these, because of your age, rule out all medical possibilities first, before you start with prayer house. This doesn't stop you from praying for God's intervention my dear.
God ll definitely send you a helper poster 2
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm God of mercy
ReplyDeletePoster 1: anytime you are seeing yourself trying to urinate(not only toilet oo) pleas jump up from that dream, then try timing yourself(maybe setting alarm) to be waking up after two hours to go and urinate, then don't drink too much water in the night before going to bed.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: those symptoms are that of HIV. You can't get treatment without going for proper test. Pls go for TEST.
Poster 1 abeg go for deliverance oo also check Google
ReplyDeletePoster 1: deliverance case
ReplyDeletePoster 2: God will uplift you ijn.
Poster 1: please go see a medical doctor, there is an antidepressant (imipramine) that works for Chronic bedwetting. The problem is a disconnect between your brain and the neurons of the muscles that control your bladder. Other remedies may not work because of the underlying problem. Sorry dear
ReplyDeleteN2: Uyo BVs pls help this young lady.
ReplyDeleteN1: pls try to cut eating late, anytime u feel pressed pls get immediately and go to the toilet.
poster stop drinking anything liquid and food from 6pm ,.eat your last meal 6pm ,drink your last liquid 6pm.make sure you pee before you sleep.thank me now.
ReplyDeletePoster 1nd 2: u re healed ijn amen.
ReplyDeleteDocs in the house, pls help me out too,my 6 months baby boy has recurring boils that always come and go on its own,it comes out in his hands,face,head. He's always having skin pus and rough skin but not rashes. I've tried all sorts of antibiotics,skineal cream,immune strong to boost his immunity,even deworm him,powder,etc. Pls any doc knows what I have to do to stop it?
ReplyDeleteHi, pls use coal tar soap and savlon in his bath water (enough to color the water). Stop putting his sponge in a case, rather let it hang to dry. Stop the coaltar soap once the skin pus dries up then use regular baby soap and lotion (not oil). I'm a Dr so don't be scared to try.
DeleteSomeone should pls help the lady with the second post ...Many suffer in silence...This life!!
ReplyDeletePoster 1,peeing on the bed is spiritual..@ your age,you have passed the "don't drink water past 7pm or 8pm stage"don't do this,don't do that.all the precautionary measures are for kids,babies.see a medical doctor,maybe you have a bladder problem or something,secondly,talk to God.pray,have conversations with God,he listens you know?the truth?only God can save you from this predicament.I pray help and succour comes your way fast.poster 2,I will say a lil prayer for you and your daughter,help is coming your way..don't panic,you have nothing to be afraid of.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 avoid any liquid after 5pm, that's how mine stopped, I stopped wetting the bed at the age of 12 and in jss2.
ReplyDeleteMy mum came up with this plan I'd not drinking water after 5pm.
And urinating before going to bed.
It worked like magic.
Poster 2 Nne y are u doing this to your self ? After all this year's u never went for test or treated yourself ?
For the sake of your baby at least
Save save save ......
Visit a general hospital or teaching hospital
It won't cost more than 10k
Treat yourself and your baby.
It's a pity, sorry about the rape issue
But take care of yourself.
Health is wealth oo
Untreated infection is very bad.
It eats up the internal system.
Biko if anyone can help her, please do.
Mrs Fine Face,u r Soo pwetty!
DeleteThanks my dear.
DeleteI it's filter ooo
Try to reduce the quantity of water you take at night and always ease yourself before going to bed at night. After all this and you still didn't get any positive result, please seek spiritual help in prayers.
ReplyDeletePlease doctors in Uyo should reach out to the mother and child. You're healed IJN. Tell your mum about what you're facing since she's a mother, you'll understand better and also render her own assistance.
Eeya, this is so sad. Poster 2. God heal u. Il cont praying for u.
ReplyDeletePoster 2. Appears u r nt even taking it serious cos since 2011 u suspected u hve an infection yet u haven't carried out any test. I pray u find help here.
ReplyDelete1. I dnt have any idea wat I shud tell you that will be different from dnt eat and drink late.
If ur condition needs medical attention then eating even by 4pm last won't be of any help.
Best option is to visit a Urologist.
All the best to both of ya.
2nd poster. Your story sounds like Karma is your case. I'm sure u have a dirty past life, uv stepped on a lot of toes, offended a lot of people that prayed against u, my advice: Pray to God for forgiveness, attend a good church, hustle for a job, see a good doctor, get your self treated n get your life back
ReplyDeletePoster 1 shld get adult pampers and pls pray hard about this bedwetting does not sound ordinary to me
ReplyDeletePoster 2 I pray u get the help u need may God heal you and your baby. Wish u luck
Globe trotter!
Lol @Marking Touch. Poster 1: Your pelvic walls are weak therefore causing a release of fluid unknown to u whilst u sleep. You should try kegel exercises often to tighten your vaginal wall so u can feel the need to pee even in your subconscious state. Also, reduce fluid intake from 6pm, and wear a mackintosh rubber sheets on your bed, so that fluid doesn't soak up your mattress. Maintain verryy good hygiene to rid off odour from your room. Also, commit yourself into God's hands.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Wow, u waited this long before u voiced out. Your helper will locate u soon.
Oh my God. Dts a serious infection.
ReplyDeleteOh God pls heal them. Amen
ReplyDeletePoster 2 ur story brought tears to my eyes,what if someone sends u money so u could go see an ob/gbn in case there is no doctor in uyo to help u online,especially for the sake of your daughter.
ReplyDeletePoster: be strong dear, the path is rough but surely there will be light at the end of the tunnel. The burden you are bearing is not an easy one but if you are focused, do as much as you can to bring up your daughter in the future you will never have cause to regret keeping her against all odds.
ReplyDeleteDon't be far from your bible let it form a part of your daily routine, read motivational books and be fervent in prayers God will surely see you through
Let no man cndemn you, God has not written you off. Romans 8 vs 28-39 is a witness always meditate on it.
Poster go see a doctor before it becomes complicated.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 maybe you are too playful.drink less of water before going to bed,wake up at intervals to urinate.above all pray to God.
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Poster nos 2 my dear, just go for a swab test, they will prescribe an antibiotics for you and the baby. Sorry love!!! Please be careful my dear, thank God your family took you back. Just put yourself in order and try as much as you can to take your drugs fully. I will email you.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm, God please send poster2 a helper
ReplyDeleteThank you so very much ma for posting my ish.It took me so much courage to take this step,may God bless u,I know deep within me that you will one day be recognized internationally for ur golden heart.
ReplyDeleteU sound educated..so how come u didn't know abt condoms?
DeleteDon't worry dear. You've made the mistake. God has forgiven you. And God would see you through. Okay
Delete*hugs*
Just be strong
Help is on the way
@poster,u didnt specify any symptoms apart frm d boils.lik do u hav itching,burning sensation while urinating,type of discharge u hav and all dat.boils alone cannot be d only symptom u hav.dere ar a wide variety of stds nd infections dat affect women.. chlamydia, warts,herpes,candida,hiv to name a few.each hav difft symptoms nd none hav symptoms at all.well i pray u find ur helper soonest for d sake of ur lil girl.God bless u nd he is d ultimate healer.pray nd fast cos dere is notin God cant do.it is well wit u dear
DeletePoster #1: please, see a doctor. I used to bedwet up until my third year in uni. The dr prescribed a drug for me (can't remember its name now) and also gave me a set of do's and don't's. But the final solution came when I was asked to see a physiotherapist who taught me some exercises and did some other things before it stopped.
ReplyDeleteI rily feel so sorry for poster 2 wish I cud help especially ur baby, just go to d hospital n do a vaginal swab but u can be taking antibiotics first, really dnt know wat to say, this one pass me
ReplyDeletePoster 1, use adult diapers at night and use soak pads on your bed at night as well. Finally, try and see a doctor.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, I pray your helper locates you soon. That's an untreated STI that your daughter is now infected with. I wish I can see you now and hug you. It is well.
Poster 2, I pray that you get the help you seek for you and your baby.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, you need to see a urologist. You probably have a weak bladder. Also pray about it...God will heal you.
It is well...
ReplyDeleteNah wa!
ReplyDeletePoster 1 maybe u shd set alarm for every 2hours,sooner you will get used to it.22years aint a joke....If it persists,wear pampers whenever you are going to bed!!!
ReplyDeletePoster 2 you will find help in Jesus Name
Poster number one i think your pronlem is psychological ibused to wet bed till the age of 13 I had a traumatic childhood anyway it eventually stopped once a become more emotionally stable you need to speak to someone professional and pray.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 try ging to a general hospital and get someone to see that child asap .
May help locates you in Jesus name Amen. Any BV doctor here or knows who can help a sister and her daughter should please come to her aid. I so feel for her
ReplyDeletePoster #1
Please try and use alarm method. Set your alarm on hourly time and as well apply the Aunt Stella's advice which is always jump and pass that setup for sleep.. It is well with you my dear
For poster 2, Stella pls post her account number so we can contribute for her and her daughter to go to the hospital and have a doctor run tests. This is a serious thing and she shouldn't self medicate before she will make the situation worse. Especially for the little girl, she shouldn't apply anything except what a doctor tells her so she'll be sure it's safe for a child to use.
ReplyDeleteLet me give you all a shocker, 2nd poster is HEARTLESS and SELFISH. The story isn't as it happened ,she has distorted the truth so that she could get compassion. You knew you had infection and could not tell your doctor before you gave birth.this definitely tells a lot about the kind of person you are and the life you lived. I am not judging you ooo.
ReplyDelete2ndly, you got access to money to pay your school fees and do stuffs in school but you could not access money to take your baby to see a doctor? OMG infact God is so gentle and merciful, who are you for him to have given you so much grace to have a baby and you treat her this way? How do you sleep knowing that your baby has an infection? Oh my goodness God. Do you know her reproductive organs might have been damaged by this infection? You are so heartless and wicked and may heart gentle and innocent heart judge you.i feel so broken imagining what that little baby is going through..gooossh
Pray to heaven i should not locate you else, that baby is going straight to the ministry of women affairs and you are going to be charged. Stella pls for the sake of the baby, can you get this wicked women details and address? We need to help this angel asap.
#no1 egba boy
I thought as much, how much is medical bill in general hospital ?
DeleteYou see a doctor, tell the symptoms and go for a test.
When the result is out , he will do the prescription.
Won't cost more than 10k.
You go to school but can't save small small to take care of your self ?
During antenatal u went for a test, y dunt u treat it.
You probably breastfeeding your baby with infection.
Mschew!! Who is this one.
DeleteI have emailed her. Waiting for a response because I dont know how any mother can let this baby suffer like this. I just don't understand. Will try all my best to help her
DeleteTank u ma brenna
DeleteDoc,
ReplyDeleteWith regards to problem 1,you need to see a doctor who should screen first for other causes of urinary incontinence such as diabetes mellitus,diabetes insipidus,urinary tract infection(UTI) etc.If all that is negative then one can say you have a condition called nocturnal enuresis which can be treated with tricyclic antidepressants such as imipramine,amitriptyline etc These medications are readily available in Nigeria.There is also an effective drug called desmopressin but I'm not sure if it is readily available in Nigeria.You can also buy a cheap device called an enuresis alarm which gets activated when you begin to pass wee on the bed.One question,have you ever achieved urine continence before?All the best.
For problem 2,
With the recurrent boils and rashes you need to see a doctor for HIV screening or are you diabetic?
Poster 2,go to ur school's medical centre and carry out a test.these re some of d benefits as a student because its cheaper if not totally free then u can tell ur mom about d little one so she can take her to a general hospital,its cost effective
ReplyDeleteMay God heal u physically and emotionally
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ReplyDeleteAunty stella, my sister introduced me to this blog site, my name is ifeoma please i need a little financial help from any blog visitor, my landlord threatened to throw me and my family out of the house , he doesn't want us to live in his house anymore, he even sued my family to court and now we don't have enough money to rent a flat, even my son that's suppose to start school is still at home because of this house issue and my husband has been saving all his salary but still not enough and i just gave birth to my second child it has not been easy please i plead with anyone reading this should please assist me in any little way you can and the God i serve will bless you abundantly and give you bundle of what you have given to my family thank you and God bless
ReplyDeleteThere is an injection for it.... Poster 1. My sisters friend had an issue like that b4. My sister told Her to see a doctor cos this one don reach to marry nd pisses on the bed nd happened at my sisters place ... She's better now
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