A married couple born 32 years apart have proved that age is irrelevant when it comes to love.
Father of seven Thomas Bolton, 56, shocked his family by returning from a fishing holiday, with an unusual catch - a bride more than three decades his junior.
Mr Bolton fell 'hook line and sinker' for Jainaba Sawo, 24, during the trip with his brothers in Gambia - with the pair tying the knot just three weeks later.
Despite concerns from Mr Bolton's family that Jainaba was 'just after a visa', the husband and wife have been happily married for three years and now have a 17-month-old son, Malang.
Jainaba and Thomas first met in December 2011 in Tallinding, Serrekunda in western Gambia, while Thomas was holidaying with his brothers.
The joiner, from Accrington, Lancashire, said: 'I went to Gambia on a fishing trip with my brothers and came back with a wife. It was very unexpected, but I'm so happy.
'I had finished an afternoon of fishing and was walking along the Kotu beach when I spotted Jainaba sunbathing.'
The couple started chatting and hit it off straight away, and four days later, Thomas had already met Jainaba's family, declaring his love for her and their intentions to marry.
Jainaba said: 'My family welcomed Thomas and thought of him as their son. My mum Binta, 47, was wary at first because he was a stranger, but she could see how much he cared for me.
'At first my family were worried that I was getting married too quickly, but they said it was my decision, and that they'd stand by me either way.'
Less than three weeks later in January 2012, the pair married in Jainaba's hometown, Tallingding, in a small ceremony.
Jainaba said: 'Thomas's friends and family didn't come to the wedding, which I think upset Thomas, but the wedding wasn't planned in advance so it was really difficult for them.'
The same day, Thomas converted to Islam to show his dedication to his new wife and now prays daily.
The couple's whirlwind romance was cut short as Thomas' holiday came to an end and he was forced to return to the UK.
Their relationship remained long distance until September 2012 when Jainaba finally finished the necessary paperwork and exam to be granted entry to the UK.
Despite initial reservations from Thomas's family about Jainaba's intentions, their first child together, Malang, was born in June 2013.
Jainaba said: 'I'm younger than most of Thomas's children, whose ages range from 22 to 39, so naturally they were suspicious at first but now they've accepted me.
'Some people didn't believe it would work because they thought I was just after a visa into the UK
'They said the age gap would give us problems, but no one knows where love comes from. I love how Thomas treats me - he's so romantic and often surprises me with flowers and perfume. He's my hero.
'The most difficult thing about living in England has actually been living away from my friends and family, especially my mum.'
Thomas, whose ex-wife died four years ago after suffering from pancreatic cancer, said his friends are jealous of his marriage to a younger bride.
He said: 'All my friends want a younger wife now.
'I don't believe there should be a stigma with age gap relationships as Jainaba and I have had no problems in our relationship. She's more mature than most people her age.'
The loved-up couple are hoping to have a second baby in the future.
*Awwwwwwwww.but oyibo sabi love shaaaaaa *wink*
That baby
ReplyDeleteSoooooo cute
*going back to read post
How much does he have?
DeleteLol
So lovely......the baby is so cute
DeleteNeed a white blood in my system
Strolling down to transekulu....DT white man for DT corner... Make I go run him package......9mth testimonies await u all....
@Galore
My opinion:quite irritating..32 whole yrs?side eyes*
DeleteI hear, see the guy teeth
DeleteYes oo... and the babe na real black is bellissima... wish them many more years of happiness
DeleteThe girl get mind o!Wondering who to tag beauty or beast...
DeleteLol@ galore
DeleteGalore the coal city soul, okay.
DeleteThis girl has gut. I couldn't stand the "you want to marry him coz of the money" arrows so I took a long walk.
Love is a matter of decision. Once feeling is there and the right attitude too, you can decide.
No regrets.
Meanwhile, had to change my nome, so many willie willie here.
@ Bella Ragazza, Parla Italiana tutto bene?
Omooo make I no lie ehn, no diamond in the world can make me date this man not to talk of marrying him o. Not even to act in a movie together sef. U go know say na junkie. Teeth don pafuka finish but babe say she like am like that so who am I? This thing called love eh. Ok bye
DeleteWhy is he hooking her neck like that?
ReplyDeleteHian!
So she won't run away
DeleteRotfl
Hehehe
DeleteAt the end, love conquers all
ReplyDeleteThomas looks good for his age tho'
ode....UK don make their immigration law tougher now... you need to dey marriage for 5-6 years... make we revisit the story in 6 years time then we go see if the chick still dey married to you... dey smile now. One chance
ReplyDeleteIf the two of them leave themselves, who go marry them?
DeleteLol!
*sips D milk*
ReplyDeleteWhite guys are more romantic, take it or leave it, most black men like respect nd domestic violence na their baptismal name..wsh u guys more glorious years in ur marriage
ReplyDeleteI keep hearing white guys love the most, wonder why my path dint cross with any.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm
#Scratchesmy hair#
#sometimesifeelimadeamistake#
*Ayah Shehu*
lol...I no fit sha
ReplyDeleteIs better to marry an old rich man than to marry a young broke ass nigga, these older men know how to treat a woman right.
ReplyDeleteGbam!!!
DeleteHehehehehehhe!
My BF can be romantic like there's no tomorrow. I can't even imagine life without him...no air, no air!
Gbam! Gbam!!! Gbam!!!... older men rock!
Delete@angelray, if u r falling inlove with older men because of money u r already a failure. Stella u r right white really know the meaning of love thats why i find it hard to date a naija girl any more. They dont love fr money
DeleteWe are talking about love here not money. I pray we will find love in naija, broke ass girl
DeleteGbambest...
DeleteWooo! White man love uncoditional abeg!
DeleteBeen long done with brothers
Me and my bobo for life!
Over loveness of old mama like me
Chai! Love u boo!!!
Leave age abeg!
Keep consoling urselves
DeleteAssociation of old men organisation.
Retirement benefits.
Lol.
:) no be small unusual catch from fishing holiday.
ReplyDeleteLove is Beautiful!!!
But 32 years loun loun, well more happiness to them!
Ko
D hussle is real lol, their kid is cute
DeleteThis reminds me of JayEm and her old boyfriend....yuck! Though black men fucks up most times, "young", black man for me anytime, anyday biko.
ReplyDeleteGbam!
DeleteEven me sef was like 'awww, looks like me and amore but I fine pass this girl'.
Lmao
Diff strokes 4 diff folks
DeleteWhite bobo anytime abeg!
DeleteAnyday!
Age doesn't matter just a number
My boo is just 7yrs older though
Know what to do @ the right time
Black boy ke?
For tell me story for my life na
How he is doin me favour being with me
Can't stand them abeg
Jayem I over dey ur side joor
Smart babe
Loving with ur head!
Yoo baby!!!!!
love really does conquer all
ReplyDeletevisit my blog
www.glowysofiscated.blogspot.com
Yes ooo! Then they love you, they really do.
ReplyDeleteLove#madeingambia
ReplyDeletestella you no dey give gifts like linda???na wa ooo
ReplyDeleteDe there dey ask number 7 question, if u give Wetin go do u? Ivine ogode
DeleteShatap!!!
DeleteAwoof na im go kill u
DeleteGo back to LIB. Begger.
DeleteYou spelt your name wrong. It should be "golddigger"
DeleteBeggar can't be chooser I heard, Wetin carry Linda enter here. If you don't know it is called 'individuality' they both have their way of doing things so stop creating unnecessary wahala
Delete32yrs hmmm mmm
ReplyDeleteGood luck to them..
ReplyDeleteLove can find u anywhere and anytime.
ReplyDeleteThe baby is really is cute#awwwww#
ReplyDeleteSDK, please explain in a full paragraph,
ReplyDeletenot less than 7000 words,
"how Oyibo sabi love".
In what category and degree do Oyibo (s) express their love?
And the wink.
Lol.
Ha aha aha, oya Stella answer the question nau we are waiting.- wembi.
DeleteAll I see is a cute little baby...The love story sha!! Didn't interest me...
ReplyDeleteStella Wen r u going to post my mail,u aSkd me to give u confirmation Which I did,wAitin 4 ur replyy
ReplyDeleteWow! The age difference is much o. Lol @ Stella's comment, u should know now. *side eyes to you*
ReplyDeleteThey both look happy and that's the most important thing. Wish them all the best.
ReplyDeleteSaying to myself, this could be us( I and my ex). But not this age difference of 3 decade. Mine was a decade and quarter.
ReplyDeleteBut I wasn't that brave.
Eyaaaaa... same thing happened 2 me too
DeleteLove mi jeje love mi tender. The age gap is wowing.
ReplyDeleteAwwww.....white guys are indeed romantic,iffa hear say nigerian men marry a lady 20yrs older dan dem..........but why is he hooking her neck like dat?abi is that another type of kissing?
ReplyDeleteOriegwu
ReplyDeleteI believe age is just a number too , love is a beautiful thing. Wish them more happiness
ReplyDeleteJayem and Her boo
ReplyDeletePH GAL
Gbam! But the age difference na 35.
DeleteAhn shoki, shoki.
About to marry my grandpa!
Jayem I'm LOVING this ur new attitude... that's d spirit babes!
DeleteTesoro, this could be us but you're Italian.
ReplyDeleteLmao!!!
Lmao. Jayem u be craze girl Loooolz. U no like Italians?
DeleteJay i caught that.
DeleteSome wishes tho
Hmmm…32 years!…hmmm..Happy married life…hmmm...
ReplyDeleteMy dear Stellastica knows about that "oyinbo" love. *wink *wink
ReplyDeleteMy dear Stellastica knows about that "oyinbo" love. *wink *wink
ReplyDeleteAwwwww love.some people don't get it some women actually like older guys.thry always feel it abot money,properties,etc.older men can be so romantic.goodluck to u guys.
ReplyDeleteOyibo sabi love, but just as they sabi love they sabi hate, though the memory will always linger on. Lucky her. Enjoy it while it last.
ReplyDeletetrue love indeed
ReplyDeleteAwwwww. So romantic.
ReplyDeleteWif man wey teeth don de fall finish? Never!!! Dat kind luv go clear frm ma eyes
ReplyDelete~@iamjbankz SA to President Jonathan 2015~
Lwkmd. One thing I noticed is no matter how "ugly" a black male or female, and no matter how ugly a white dude or female, once they cross race to have kids together the children are always very cute. God is awesome
DeleteStella, I can tell you are speaking from experience. *winking at ya* Michael's dad is doing a good job! *winks again*
ReplyDeleteVisit www.afrointroduction.com if you are looking to find white older men! Good luck
ReplyDeleteUhmmm! Is dat y he wants 2 strangle d lady in d first pic?
ReplyDeleteFear Gambian girls ooo.
ReplyDeleteAnd Senegalese babes. Like my ex colleague Fatima that told me hooked her oyinbo bono by giving him liver mixed with her menses. Tho they are now divorced the guy still begs her like there's no tomorrow and she said she no do again. She also said she doesn't know how to undo the spell or she would gave released him coz she's tired of him. hian I fear babes o. Wembi.
DeleteWhatever Rocks their boat
ReplyDeleteMore Love to them
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
Wow, this babe don hammer o.... Wishing them long and lasting marriage....
*GLO BRING 3G TO KONTAGORA*
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Chai....... Love wantin-tin
ReplyDeleteLove is a beautiful thing
ReplyDeleteTry the age thing the other way round and tell us if that works!
ReplyDeleteGambia girls and their fake love with foreigners (marabou at work).
ReplyDeleteLamdal j
Deleteyou sound very pained
did any Gambian girl snatched ur man cus of ur evil minded heart?
Remember when u took me to that juju Man in the village that he helped u use cham on a man u wanted before
Stupid idiot
next time fuck up if u dnt hv anyting gud to say
Jealous evil hater
Don't rejoice yet o. I pray that child is not for child support and property acquisition. May you have a happy marriage. Rose
ReplyDeleteThe son is super cute.
ReplyDeleteIFE WA GBONA IN TIWA'S VOICE.
ReplyDeleteIts a good thing pharps dat was hw it was destined to b.white men can be so romantic.
ReplyDeleteAwwwwwwww....
ReplyDeleteThe wife looks Soo happy!
And look d way he is holding on to her arm....
Oyibos can Love no be small...
I think the Indians too.....
I remember one time d General went on a course to India....Lol
He is naturally a good man and a romantic too...yea!
Buh I noticed his calls were more frequent and Longer....
We stay long on d phone but dis was way loooong....hahahhahahaha
He would be on d phone ooooo
Then we would skype endlessly too...
I remember one time he just wouldn't get off the phone....
He was carrying his lappie around and showing me his room....hahahhahababahahahhahahahahha
Dat day I was running late For evening mass buh he didn't care...lol
Next day,na so he carried d laptop again to show me his room...Hia!
I was like babes,buh u have.....I didn't finish cos he cut in and said "u want u to have a feel of where I am......lol
It continued dat way o til he came back.....
He came back and I served us dinner and I remember his first words" Baby,Indians are Sooo romantic! always eating out and holding hands....
And yes,dat day he came back,I noticed he was just holding ma hands....LMAO
it was only wen he mentioned d hand-holding dat I understood wot was happening....hahaha
He now asked me to promise him I wil always wait for him to come back from work so he and I wil have dinner together.
No more eating before him wen he was running late....I agreed
Hahhahahahahahhahaha....
then he bought plenty plenty love sweets and love making ish.....hahahhahahaha
I actually was looking forward to us using it buh wen he brought dem out wen we were unpacking,I looked at d "suspicious-looking" stuff and looked at him and said "Indian people.baby wot if we took dese. Ow and turned into rats" hahhahahahhahahaha
Na so we abandoned the whole stuff o...LMAO
It went on for days and weeks and months o buh one day I just called him wen d hunger was Sooo bad and he had being stuck in Lagos traffic for ages and said baby,I cant wait again o.night food is not good for women.makes ma tummy big....hahahhaaaha
Love is Beautiful!!!
Lol
DeleteI love this woman
I love you so much
I pray ur marriage last IJN
Any strange woman/ man hoping to destroy ur marriage shall die IJN.
GW!
DeleteI kept smiling while reading. I love love stories, I love romance.
Amen Priceless Pearl! And thanks a whole lot dear!
DeleteNa wa o
DeleteHow could you even think of turning to rat
Worst case scenario,you turn to snake
But you should have tried it jor
Your love making woulda been on a higher level.
Gen's wife can u change ur shit name, we all understand general means money in Naija not what they have in their head and ur husband is less than a corporal in the US army u can ask him if im lying and im sure if he doesnt have money with his rank wont u tell him he is not in ur class? I hate naija system. We are all suffering from porverty of the mind. Money or no. Money oyinbo can love.
DeleteTGW Lmao....... Na d way o. my parents was like that until my mum died. They eat and bath together. Chai death where is Thy sting?.....
Delete@ ChyAdaJesus,eeeeya...
DeleteNne m,warm hugs.
My dad is late too....Miss him every Second,every minute....he was ma life.
IT'S WELL!
nice one TGW...like say u never marry i for come for u..lol
DeleteLoll @ turn rat! Buhdda kwanu?
DeleteAnon 6:55, on a faceless forum kwa? Get a life! See intimidation lol....
Anon e be like that Kunu don sour? Why you drink am na?
DeleteAfo anu dika yi. Taa abi abu yi there
*aji abu
Delete@ General wife,,,love u plenty ma!
DeleteGW nwanyi oma!!
DeleteI love love u a million times!! This is no ass licking cuz i am not even done with mine lol!!
One tin i lov about u more is how u ignore hating coments like u didnt evEn see it! Kudos bae!!
Genny love, i need u to learn this too.
The fact is that most ppl are addicted to marriage woes.. Every responsible man is meant to be " a hero" in his home irrespective of his worth so far as his family is happy and well taken care of...Thank God for happy marriages like urs, Gods' continous love and peace in ur home.
GW, Do u know what keeps playing in my head each time i see any ur stories?
Ngwa nweta nti gi nso...
That day u and General were doing touching body in d church and Rev father caught u!
Kwakwakwakwa!!
Berry Baby! Nne dalu so a million times.as u have prayed for me,i pray that u even have all i have a million folds.,amén.
DeleteU see,i have a bestie.being besties since we were in júnior sec.
she Got married like 6 years before i did.married a wonderful Man.
So nice a man.so loving and caring.didnt Joke wit ma friend.
So one day we all were in kitchen where he was as usual whipping up a dish for His wife and i just couldnt hold it in anymore.and i just told him that he was a good Man.and dat i wish my future hubby wil be like him.
Andbhe just turned and said" I bless u today for ur kind words(i am having goose bumps now)
And today i pray and decree that ur figure husband wil be better than me a thousand times Over!
In as much as i was Touched by His gesture,it didnt make much sense Till i met n married d General.
And every day Berry,every day,i think of how lucky n blessed i am with This Man who God chose for me.who has brought me nothing buh happiness,Peace n love.
And every time,each single time Berry,i remember my friend's hubby....
May God bless u Emma.for blessing me.
And i pass that Blessing to Berry this morning.that it Shall be WELL in her life....
HER heart's desires,God pls Grant dem to her.
HER going in and going out,be with her.
The work of her hands,bless her,Amen.
Goodness,Mercy n Laughter shall follow Berry all d days of her life in Jesus' name I pray,amen,amen n amen.
*switching back from Spirit mood to blog mood* hehhehehehhehehehehehehe
Chai....so u saw that comment?LMAO
Many peeps say I was born crazy.Lol
And frankly,maybe they r right....Hahaha
Nne,dis life is hard enough as it is,I have ma struggles n my fears,so any joy n laughter I see,I TRY not to let it pass me by....we only live ONCE!
Sending You,The Diva,Tochini,Bloggie,Iphie Dearie,Sisi baby,Genny Baby,Adura,Aride,DontJme,ChyAdaGod and everyoda person ma love....
Peace!!!
Amen ooooooooooooo!!
Delete#onbendedknees#
Love is a beautiful thing.
ReplyDeleteOriegwu o!
ReplyDeleteHmmm an interesting story. I shall locate my own one day
ReplyDeleteJenny zee you are funny abeg. Lol @ " na their baptismal name be that"
ReplyDelete#Jayem tins
ReplyDeleteUrgggh
Stella I couldn't comment on d in hs news. I dnt know y. It was telling me I ve exceeded my comment for day. It's possible? Meanwhile I dey wait my own large "chunk" on Sunday o, looooool.
ReplyDeleteChybabe,ah,if u see as i am already waiting eh.....Chai
DeleteI love surprises and i love getting presents too....
Pls pick me Stels pls
*Clasps hands*
Please......
cute baby....
ReplyDeletefor some strange reason... Jayem and Her boo just came to mind when I read dis.... Hmmm.
hahahahah Nwuye General! Chief of love stories epistle.
ReplyDeleteI love love mehnn! abeg make you dey wait for general before eating dinner o!
Infact The General should even sing for you (sunita thing.)before eating. hunger go finish you. lol
Hahahahaha
DeleteThanks for yesterday Bloggie!
I really appreciate...
*Kisses_
Hmmm. I sorry for this oyibo man.. Gambian girls juju pass ijebu pple own. Before e go realise wetin dey happen, day don dark
ReplyDeleteAll this Nigerian hypocrit Girls comin here to comment on gambian girls
DeleteAre u all not doin juju on ur men????
All you do in the west is prostitution
and u are here opening ur dirty wicked mouth on Gambian girls
just bcus u do it does not mean every one else does it.
fake prostitutes
Does anyome notice the first picture where she looks like she's being strangled :-\
ReplyDeletehahahaha!! i'm not fooled. let's revisit this couple after she has her complete citizenship.
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