IN HOUSE YAM AND GARRI SELLER ISNT A SCAM OOOH
Stella, greetings,i am a regular BV and i am so impressed by what you are doing may God bless you. You advertised about somebody selling yams and garri in IHS. I was discouraged by people that said it is scam but i decided to try by requesting for just 10 tubers which she said is N2500, I paid into her acct, Stella you cant believe it that she delivered and the yam no be here very big. please fellow BV please patronise her,its not a scam.Thanks N.K.
Thanks stella for the platform.
Please the yam and garri seller can put her contact in the in house section.If you are also selling bags of rice please indicate and let us know how much.thank you....how much is the bag of garri sef?I am interested.
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YOU THINK YOU ARE GENOTYPE AS?PLEASE READ THIS
I will like to share my story with you guys especially Lara..I met my boyfriend (can't still use that word Ex) in 2003, He was all I wished for, gave him my virginity as well,We were so much in love, everybody wish to be like us,Her mum gave me so much love that I almost forgot I'm an orphan.She visits me in school, brings food for me, gives me pocket money et al,In 2008, he proposed to me, we were to wed in 2009 after my graduation, I was discussing with his mum one day, she asked me what's my genotype, I told her, I haven't checked, she said why? And asked me to do so..Long story short, we were AS, (so to say cos we didn't check else where) everything was cancelled, we broke up in 2010,Couldn't bear the shock Dad sent him out of the country, During my service, his mum kept visiting, I kept visiting them as well.
In 2011,boo got married,his wife gave birth to triplets in same year...I was happy but a part of me was also bitter,I stopped visiting and changed my number,traveled out,Met many guys, no one was like boo,Just 3months ago, I was sick, as the doctor was asking me some general questions,I told him I'm AS, he still went ahead and ran all tests and it came out that I am AA and not AS,I was happy and shared the news with friends and family but unknown to me that someone I thought was my best friend and sister has been in contact my boo all this while, giving him all the info about me.
Only for mum to call me on my birthday in October, we had a long talk.Fast forward today, boo is unhappy about the way things ended between us, wants me back, Mum wants me back , I love boo, love his family But can I live with the guilt of hurting another woman?Why would I wanna hurt this innocent woman?At 29, all my mates are married with kids,Can I be able to get another one like boo?Please don't make the same mistake I have done, Verify from another clinic before deciding please...
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BLOG VISITOR HUBBY CALLED YESTERDAY AND SENDS IN HOUSE SHOUT OUT TO WIFEY.
Sodunke Abiodun is in Italy for a week holiday and he called me yesterday to say hi.He said he is a blog addict courtsey of his wife.hear him
''My wife told me a lot about your blog and i confirmed it myself. May God continue to bless your home, you will never lack any good thing in life as you always bless and make people smile.
Be expecting me in Germany next time i come around.
Thanks and God bless''.
He also wants me to help him send a shout out to his wife because he knows she would be reading this space.He sends his undying love and cant wait to get back to her .LOL.
The man was so excited and kept boasting he cant wait to tell his wife he spoke with me..lol
Madam well done oh.
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HOUSEMATE IN ABUJA WANTED
Good evening Aunty Stella. I am a loyal blog visitor that works and resides in Abuja, single (and searching, lol). I am looking for a housemate to split the rent with as houserent in central Abuja can be pretty expensive. Abeg I need a female (I am also female) and gainfully employed. Anybody interested can just comment on the post or reach me through my email. Please please please help me post this. Thanks and God bless you.
resusbabejohnson@gmail.com
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BLOG VISITOR IN S-E-R-I-O-U-S GOBE!
Hello Stella,
God bless you for your good works.
I'm a regular BV, come to your blog to laugh out the sorrows & stress of life.
I've been a very good girl virtually all my life.
I don't cheat, and I don't do so many bad things. I'm not a saint, but I know deep down I'm a good girl.
I'm a pharmacist, did my masters in UK. Ever since I completed my masters, it's been one form of trouble or the other.
First of all, I'm a christian, social life is zero, mid thirties, still believing God for a bf that ll progress to marriage.
Secondly, I'm in serious financial mess. As I speak, it's only God that can rescue me out.
When I was travelling to Nigeria, someone gave me some cash to help take home. Nearly 26Million naira equivalent.
I got home & called my account officer to come pick the money & keep in my account after mallam had converted it to naira.
As I speak, my account officer says he was duped or robbed, oceanic bank has sacked him& the owner of the money is after my life. The guy cannot even produce 5naira from the money.
I tried hiding the story from the owner of the money but he has eventually found out & hell has been let loose & he's after my life. I'm living in fear everyday.
After 18months of being out of job in UK, I got a job with Pfizer in UK, I had only spent 3 months there& was still under probation . But because of this whole stress of money, I lost concentration @ work & I was sacked. So as I speak, I've lost my job, a job that took me 18months to get.
I'm back to square 1.. No job, no money, no boyfriend & a debt of over 25Million on my neck & now I'm thinking of moving to squat with a friend.
I've cried & cried. My family & friends have all abandoned me. But what can I say?
I want everyone in the house to pray for me for Gods mercy & intervention, because I know he loves me & still answers prayers.
Except The Lord buildeth, he that labours, do so in vain.
God bless you Stella
They should arrest that ex banker already.he must have hidden the money to use and invest later.wtf!
So if a banker is in charge of an account and the money disappears,they sack him instead of making him account for it or jailing him?
Anybody when chop my small money for bank i no go gree ooooh.
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BLOG VISITOR SEEKS IN HOUSE WIFE.
Stella,
Am thirty six and am tired of bachelorhood. All the ladies I
meet eventually end up sleeping with my friends or
worse. I am not a stingy man neither am I bad looking
but I like to plan. The last girl l dated chose to dupe me
even when I explained to her that I have a building project
and for the next few months I would only give her 30k per
month for her up keep. Even though she earns her own money
she forged my signature and withdrew 250k from my account
for her birthday. Honestly, it took me a while to know but I
got her arrested and we now agreed a repayment plan over the
next 20 months in the police station.Am not lucky with
women. They see me as someone they can milk.
I even went to my churches singles program and was
introduced to this very pretty banker. Everything was
going on well until I discovered that she was sleeping with
one of my clients to get his account. When I asked her she
denied and even cried. But my friend now called me to his
house three weeks later only for me to see her there in a
night gown. I was just distraught.
From there comments, I see some decent women on your blog
like JayEm, omalicha, MOI, Samira Hall, Whirlwind,
LADY BUCHI, I would like to meet Strictly for marriage. I
don’t want child’s play please
Anyone interested should please inbox me and i will make the connection possible.This will be private so no worries.
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MEMO FOR LARAPEPEREMPE
MEMO 1
Hello Aunty Stella....I read Lara's post and truly sorry for her.Well,if she'd really like for Shinayomi to meet a nice bv,I should be considered. I am AA,pretty,yoruba and have a good job.The problem is I meet guys but they are usually muslims, hardcore ones at that,the religion is always as a problem as overtime they want me to convert but I usually decline.If Shinayomi is a Christian, I'd like to meet him,as friends first,then we could both decide if we want a relationship. Thanks.....God bless!
MEMO 2
Second memo came in from the US but i have removed the phone number.Lara please send a mail to this person.
''Hi Stella,i'll love to chat with the poster who talked about her AS genotype and about ending her relationship. Thanks for the good work. You have no idea how much you inspire me. God bless. martinabradshaw68@gmail.com
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BLOG VISITOR GOING ALONE TO DUBAI THIS IS FOR YOU.
Good morning Stella, trust u doing grate, please concerning the poster coming to Dubai for Xmas holiday, kindly help me with her contact or share Mine with her. I'm equally very lonely here cos no friends and family around me. Just me alone in this part of the world. My phone number is +9715*************. I sent you a mail before during my birthday but was too shy to send in my photos. Thank you.
Mail me if you want his phone number.
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RECHARGE CARDS.
I did something and instead of being paid i asked for recharge cards worth N30K.
I have the cards but i dont know how to give them out,i will probably open a post later and ask for email addresses that i can send to directly.or i will open a post and let the fastest fingers grabs the cards.I am not asking for opinion here,i will decide when i am back from 'market' .LOL
Jacob held the Angel and said..."I will not let you go unless you bless me"... This month....Every angel sharing good things in life will not go without blessing you and all yours . Happy New Month!
Ohhhhh God
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Stella for the Visafone 30000 naira Recharge card. *singing and dancing*
DeleteSmh, I need sleep. This is what your shoki hour has caused.
The AS story is heartbreaking. Na wa.
DeleteE reach to sue the lab
DeleteMy people, am not happy with the way Stella is handling my comments. Why somebody go comment under someone's comment, Stella go carry am line up with single comments or she go varnish the comment? Stella, this small memo is for you o!.if I comment under somebody, I use God beg you, leave am there make confusion no dey..sometimes my comment go stay no 2, you go carry am go no 96,wetin happen?sometimes I go reply somebody,you go carry am go reply another person. Stella, what I do? Am angry with you seriously..this morning again, you come vanish the comments for no reason..bvs, make una put mouth for this case before things go escalate to another level...BLOGLORD, SISI EKO, GENERAL WIFE, IPHIE, BITCHPLIS, KEINDE AKE, ALLOY, abeg make una put mouth for this matter cus I believe say she go hear una..I don talk finish
DeleteAwwwh ,at bv searching for a wife thanks dear, God will give you a good , kind hearted and God fearing wife by Gods grace,amwn.
DeleteMy husband calls me full package ie that am everything he prayed for in a woman, i thank God,we understand each other, we aren't perfect but we try.All the best.
Abeg eligible bachelor..MOI is married,MOI does not need a man.*in MOI's voice*
DeleteAnd scrap Lady Buchi from your list too,she says she doesn't want to get married...MannaBee is a decent take home to momma kind of girl too....La petite from the single's post sounded nice(i no hear her voice ooh)
The Bv selling yam,abeg drop your contact..this cheating up and down is too much!! Enter market and touch yam that is not even healthy you will be hearing poku naira poku nde!
Kai..the bv that gave her account officer millions..you took a huge risk ooh..you are in my prayers dear..
As for the lady that called out Chick Felix on the rant post..sister,if you are not sure she is forging credit alerts,don't you come here to ruin someone's reputation abeg!! A Lot of people have testified to her generous heart and remember,giving is not by force..thank you
AS story, nawa!!! Very heartbreaking...
DeletePoster, if I were in ur shoes, I will move on!!! Pls, don't go back. Things cannever be like before. He's got a family now that will always come before u, trust me; u don't want that for urself. Let it pass and focus on a brighter future. An amazing man will surely locate u. All d best
Ps: pls, stop comparing pple u meet to him. Embrace new people and their own amazing personalities ok?
Aunty stella I made a covenant with the same bible passage yesterday to name my first child Israel- boy/girl.
DeleteI'm still single but I'll come back here then to share the testimony.
Stella 30k worth of credit means 30000 piple can get it at 1000 each, I suggest u give to d ist 30000 piple dt drop email so its evenly distributed.....am enjoying d singles n mingles oh....had over 20mails n I filterd n narrowed to abt 10....I wud bring u live situation report as events unfold....my bae stella make I nuh find sz comment. ...love u , muah!
DeleteAmen
DeleteHey. April is still like five month away o Stella.
DeleteAwww to the guy that has badluck with women. I am quite flattered that you think am a decent woman cos i am but unfortunately i am not single. This is what il do for you, il pray for a decent wife for you and hopefully soon you will find what you are looking for. My dear the struggle is real but there are still good women out there. Be patient, dont go about telling every woman you meet that you want to settle down ok? Cos desperados full ground. Dont worry, all will be well and to any sdker that is single and female, pls drop your contact with stella for this our bro here oo. God bless you all
DeleteLara please do the test again,you deserve to be happy .@ bv looking for the hobo number, I doubt if Lara's shadow will let you enjoy the relationship its better he falls in love again on his own me thinks.
DeleteCompliments of The Season to my all time TOP 5 BV
ReplyDeleteNo1.. My personal Queen and Boss Of SDK bLOG
No2.. One n Only PinkShell#
NO3.. WidedEye & BlogLord (lesboCouple)dont ask me how i know..
No5.. BitchPls(Dont even know how this dude made my top 5, I guess i love the razzness(OMO mushin in him)
Hahhahahahahhahahahhahhahah...the Don himself! Twale! widey is my hommie for life. But I no be llesbi. How I go de suck breast n cunt? *whispering..I love peepee big and strong..and my hubby got the right spec.*
DeleteSo I made your list? I must print and frame this your comment on my bedroom wall. Hehehehe. One love bro!
Hahahahahahahahaha @don davido,am razz?...yelz ofcolz am ralz....anywz,I'l take it as a compliment dat I'm one of ur top 5 *chop knuckle bro*d broz looking for a wife,abeg remove Lady Buchi's name from ur silly wish listwith dis ur suegbe nature ao dem no go dey gbensh ur girlfriends?..na u sopos check urself,no be say d girls na ashewo.oshisco
Delete1st to comment... award dey?
ReplyDeleteI laugh nor be small. I dont even know where to start from. LOL
DeleteIts been long have Been here, av miss everybody o, mehn school no easy o. FAMIEBEE
ReplyDeleteLara P.. Pls dont let a good relationship go just like that.. Get a second opinion even if its AS for real..both of you should go to a teaching hospital nearest to you ... There are some new break throughs in Medicine and Science that will ensure you have healthy children.. Please dont shut him out just like that.. Please.
DeleteTo be testing and flushing if not favorable isn't a break-through, 4 how long do u think she would do that? Pray to find someone who would complement u in every ramifications and rebuke bulllies and terrorists!
DeleteAnd I've been refreshing since 12:45 hoping and praying for recharge card.
ReplyDeleteWaitin 4 d recharge card.God bless SDK Givers
ReplyDeleteNawao for some babes... greedy buttana's everywhere...
DeleteThe lady with genotype issues... so sorry but I think you're taking the right decision not to break an innocent woman's heart. God will provide a man that will be greater than ur ex boo.. Grazie Mrs Dimokokorkus
DeleteI love u ma'am ,u rock!Godbless U
ReplyDeleteIts been long have Been here, av miss everybody o, mehn school no easy o. FAMIEBEE
ReplyDeleteWow God bless the givers.
ReplyDeleteOh! A big disappointment to the Fastest Fingers lol
ReplyDeleteHaaaa........ I was this close to winning 4 the first tym.....anyways
ReplyDeleteHAPPY NEW MONTH SDK family.
#TeddyBearHead.
Chai I done faint wake up bcos of card,choi stella remember in ur paradise......9oming back 2 comment!
ReplyDeleteStella this fastest finger de demoralize at times naa. We still de hustle but we no fit de compete with some fingers here. We know when to bow to defeat. Lol. Make e be the first thing wey I benefit for here. Na so the last one I do vigil, I no fit cheat nature, coz I know sey the next day, that vigil for purge me no be small due to sleepless night.Send some through fastest fingers and some through emails. Well Na you get the cards sha, you know best.
ReplyDeleteStella of life we are waiting, any which way na way. SDK blog giving out richard card since 1900.
ReplyDeleteAmen Stella. I love december. Pls email address let some pple wim recharge carda na biko. Happy new month. Love ur blog sha
ReplyDeleteAwwww u think u are genotype AS,..i wept while reading ur post,...couldn't stop d tears from flowing,...don't worry,ur miracle is on d way.
ReplyDeleteU folks sure cry a lot on this blog.
DeleteChai! Na so dem wan tk Lara hussy! Sharp girls! Bt I guess AS to AS has solutions these days fa!
ReplyDeleteOMG! 25million naira? God please help the Poster to overcome this.
ReplyDeleteLarapeperempe, be strong. E-hugs
Dubai travellers, pls have fun. Will be there again someday.
In house news rocks.
Cheers.
@ Poster who got duped, Are you saying you handed N25million cash to someone? were you scared of taking it to the Bank? or is the source questionable?
Deletei know for a fact most of these Banks have Fidelity Guarantee Insurance cover in place.It seeks to protect the financial loss of employers arising out of employees dishonesty.
Most Banks seek to protect their image so where fraud takes place, the Bank tries to settle the customer quickly whilst the insurance companies reimburses them.
i guess the Bank isn't getting involved because the transaction didn't take place in the Bank and there is no evidence to buttress your claims.You gave the Account Officer cash of 25m to go and pay into an account? That wasn't smart at all.
Nevertheless, i wish you all the best and may God replace everything the devil has snatched from you, amen.He will give you peace of mind.
Stella,i will never let u go unless you bless me,i will never let u go unless u bless me 2x.,............
ReplyDeleteWey the card na, market woman
ReplyDeleteIn house news Na Baba, bwahahaha. Sdk changing life's since ADs. I can see 1st Sdk blog wedding happening soon. *dancing and waiting *
ReplyDeleteBV seeking marriage, you'd find a good woman..You sound sincere, with a very large heart. God bless the remaining good men out there.
ReplyDeleteStella, please I must win reacharge card today o, by hook or by crook
Ahn ahn...
Happy New Month BVs
ReplyDeleteI waaaaant recharge card oh. Stella shey we are friends, airtel 2k, bukonu.
ReplyDeleteCompliments of the season guys. Its 24 days to Xmas and i am so excited.
Shout out to my ride and die nicurrrs, we rock!
Today is my bd o, abeg bless me with glo or Mtn rechard card o. Dancing shoki aaa shoki.
ReplyDeletewow for the lady that lost 25m. dont let the banker guy go free.
ReplyDeleteVery interesting news!
ReplyDeleteAunty stella,sending to the email will be better as I no understand the kain spirit of fast fingers wey dey this blog
ReplyDeleteWho else is having difficulties commenting with his/her phone? I had to log on to a laptop and there is no how i can read replies, this thing is so annoying
ReplyDeleteYou are not the only one ooh!
DeleteInfact in my hustle..i come go open another acct sef! Now am stuck with this name..mtcheeww!
I never get time for this phone sef
Chei dis one no good oooo I ddon dey refresh ssince ntn gree open.hmmmmm mehn
ReplyDeleteHappy new month Stella.....You are doing a great job.
ReplyDeleteLol, na wa... So sorry for the AS lady, just let him go ok
ReplyDeleteMadam stellina y u no post my mail na? I mail u dis morning .....I don tire jare...
ReplyDeleteSDK I need d card toooo. This our Ministry is really really growing. First wedding from this blog is coming soon.
ReplyDeleteYeah! Victory at last. Now, i have a blog id....#dancing#
ReplyDeleteThis is for the anonymous guy who dropped a comment on Stella's groove where single meets. Pls drop ur email I'd, and I will contact you.
ReplyDeleteBeen observing ur comments...not to sound like a wet blanket, but i'll advice u don't look desperate...chill..dont expose ur flank online..its a faceless forum..look b4 u leap..i like ur drive but don't drive fast.
DeleteU are seriously searching from Lara's boo to the anonymous guy. May God grant your heart desire.
Deletesee yam i dey buy one piece 2500naira equavaliant here,choooo,stella no give people bp for this your fastest finger
ReplyDeleteSorry to digress but this has been eating me up and I just have to say it. Its about the comments I was reading on the post of the lady who gave her all in all in a relationship. I'm sorry to say this but a lot of bvs are either hypocrites or bad advisers, especiall the married ones. How can u tell a lady she doesn't need to cook, clean or wash for her boyfriend while they are still dating. So u expect when we go to his house for a visit, we should sit in d living room, cross legs with remote in hand and be watching tv while he's in d kitchen cooking. Or when he's doing his laundry, we should just sit aside and not help out. Or if we go to his house and its messy or he's arranging, we shouldn't help him do that. Pls you ppl should respect urselves and stop giving stupid advice so that a lot of ladies don't fall for them and lose out cos only a few men would be willing to marry a woman exhibiting the character of lazy women. So this poster above thinks JayEm is a decent woman, why won't u keep faliing for the wrong set of women?
ReplyDeleteHelping out at times ain't wrong...but it isnt your duty as a gf abeg...if you were to court a guy in the days of yore..my dear you wont even have biz in the guys house. You will be tagged wayward and useless Like my aunty will say the time you expend in prooving you are a good chef,laundry woman and maid can be spent actually getting to know your bf as a lady and learning how to communicate.
DeleteAnd please I don't know jayem personally and I doubt if you do too but I believe its wrong,judgemental and still not decent too to tag someone you prolly haven't met.a wrong set of woman.. If I may ask what makes you a right set and jayem a wrong set?
It may interest you to note that a lot of people lead double lives on blogs..their blog personality is way different from who they are in real life.
Ha!
DeleteEka Joy
Yes, different strokes for different folks. If that's the way you operate in your relationship(s), fine, but don't expect everyone here to follow suit.
Speaking for myself alone, there's no way I'l be performing wifely duties to a mere boyfriend. Not like I'd be disrespectful, but I know when to draw the line..
So I'm supposed to be a drycleaner, cook, interior decorator, a whore in bed, etc because I have a boyfriend? No way!
Someone has to take care of me too.
Something happpens and we break up, I'l carry myself to the next partner and begin automatic employment again? Loool
It might even be an innocent way of life, but trust some guys to read meaning into it, and start treating one like trash. See finish don start so
I'm even tired of typing mbok..
Eka joy, don't stress me like like this again..Lol..
Eka Joy who are u to judge? Leave judgement for God. If d guy finds Jayem worthy to wife or any other mentioned name up there let him be biko.
DeleteI smiled when i sae jayem's name on the list. Age old benin prostitute!
DeleteDon't mind dem...I laff wen som of dem say I can't do dis n dat for a bf...most of dem will drop dia emails on single n mingle every month till 2018 no be curse
DeleteMaybe you don't understand.
DeleteIf your not yet a wife, you are not a wife!!
How can you make taking care of your man your occupation.
Yes, help out. Cook. And clean some. But don't choke him till the point he feels married.
And an an advocate for abstaining from pre marital sex.
So don't wife yourself by doing all the wifely duties in the wifely capacity before the time.
There is a balance to be achieved. Okay?
Yes that is what stella is telling you. Don't cook for, clean for, wash for or fuck a man you are not married to. If you visit him and his place is untidy, drag him to clean the house with you, if he is washing, sit down and be gisting with him as he is washing , if you must cook for him let it not be so regular that he takes it for granted but memorable enough that he looks forward to it. He will not call you lazy cos a man that really loves you will wash and cook for you sef, rather he will realise that you are a queen and hasten to make an honest woman of you.
DeleteNice one Eka
DeleteWay too many hypochrist, liars and ass lickers here...smh!
People, be yourself in a relationship! U need not change ur personality cos'f stuffs u read here. Dt a man didn't wife u after ur wify duties is his loss not urs. Dust off n move on.
We all have brains. U need not overdo to please, else they'll take u for granted. Just be yourselfffffff...
Hahahahahahaha Eka Joy,whatever works for you please just go ahead and do it because no two relationships are the same.
DeleteAs for whether JayEm is decent or not, Decency means different things to different people. I guess the poster knows what he is looking for and when he sees it he will recognise it.
Good luck to everyone who is believing God for something special this December.
Babes, Howfr? Why u dey vex like this? See! The poster gave us the impression that she was slaving for the guy. It's not just abt the cooking and cleaning, it's abt making a man (yet to be ur husband) ur life. There should be a limit to whatever we do with the opposite sex, as ladies. Babes, 90% of my pals are guys and I know wat I hear them say. These men ain't Loyal and ill still say it; it's very wrong for a lady to be playing the role of a wife and even giving free sex to a man that has not paid her pride price. When they put their all in the relationship and it breaks, they come here and cry. Let's have a sense of pride my dear. If it's abt helping when you see him doing chores, maybe I'll say yes, but making it your point of call to slave ur ass for a guy to the point that he relaxes and waits for you to always do it....
DeleteEven married women don't go as far as some ladies go these days.
In my friend's case, she left her house and moved into the guys house. She cooked, cleaned and washed. She said she was in love. The worst part is that, she's even better than the mofo. To cut the long story, the idiot started cheating to the point that he brings the other lady home. He told her that my friend was his sister. With all the nonsense sef, my friend refused to leave him o! At the end of the day, one of his friends told me that my friend was choking the guy. It was a case of 'see finish'.
Nobody is saying that ladies should not be women once in a while, ONCE IN A WHILE I say! It becomes stupid when they over do it. And they make themselves look desperate. Let's carry ourselves with pride biko!
LOL
DeleteEka, if he sees JayEm as a decent girl, how e take concern you?
Hian!
See pepper body on top another person matter.
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder so my dear face your work biko.
LMAO.
As for your rants, I won't advice you not to help do some house chores for your boyfriend but when he makes it your duty, that's where you have to be careful.
For example if you are to visit him say over the weekend and you arrive only to find out that he packed and kept all the cloths he wore during the week waiting for you to come and wash them, that's bad and it's a no no.
Some guys won't do their dishes from Monday to Friday, waiting for their girlfriend to come and clean their mess and also sleep with her. For wetin na?
Some won't even sweep or change the sheets.
I can't deal mehn.
You can cook for your guy of course. Maybe make soup and store in the freezer for him especially if he is the type that can't cook. That would be appreciated I guess.
Always arrange and clean the house when you are around. That one is important because a well brought up lady shouldn't be seen relaxing in a dirty/ scattered house.
My opinion tho.
My experience :
Personally I never washed hubby's cloths or undies for one day while we dated. The few times I visited his house before we married, he was the one that visits more cos he could afford to skip work anytime (we were in different states btw), I throw in my cloths for him to take along with his to the dry cleaner.
I cooked for him a few times. Tho I use to tell him to buy the food items before hand. I don't think I cooked upto 10 times for him. I'm being honest.
He won't even let me most times because we were always hanging out then and staying home to cook will shorten our limited time being that I could only stay max of 2 days.
Then, I use to visit him in Lagos from Kwara after I close from work some Fridays then by Sunday afternoon latest I'm back to my base so I can prepare for work on Monday.
He always kept the house very clean and sparkling before I arrive. Me sef use to form mommy's girl then.
LOL
He thought I was too fragile.
It was after our marriage that he got to know how hard I can work if I want to. It took him a while to believe that I could pound yam with mortar perfectly without breaking into 2. He never imagined I could do it. Thought I was just making mouth.
In all, do what you have to do with moderation. You have a lifetime to show him your cooking and housekeeping skills after marriage.
Any guy who really loves you and wants to marry you won't need you to prove you are a good girl by slaving to please him, he will just go ahead and marry you.
However, this is just my opinion and experience.
You can do what works for you.
There is no laid out rule concerning this.
Hahahahah!thats why the spirit of discernment is necessary in everybody's life.
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@ Eka Joy: I'll like to react to your observation. Sweetheart, I'll be random because, I'm not sure I read the particular post you're referring to vis-a-vis the advice from some married women. Due to the way and frequency at which most good and homely girls get dumped by their boyfriends, it's only reasonable for women who went through similar experiences, to warn ladies against giving their all.
DeleteI understand both points of view and my opinion tilts towards the advice you condemn. Honey, it's human nature to take for granted whatever comes easily. A man should earn your time and attention. The ratio of care should be proportional to the level of his commitment or you may end up being a glorified house help for "your man" and his bride. I'm not against ladies who cook, clean and do laundry for their guys but it should be regarded as a favour and not an obligation. Baby, how can you render "wifey" duties to a guy who has no aspiration of putting a ring on it? How can you exhaust your homely qualities on a boyfriend who has several other chics vying for his heart? They probably would start trying to out-cook, out-clean and out-wash each other. No wonder some guys feel like they own the world and the fullness thereof. Act the title he regards you. If he treats you like a girlfriend, act like a girlfriend. If he treats like a booty call, act like a booty call. If he treats you like a wife, by all means, whip out the apron and get-a-cooking and a-cleaning. A guy who loves you, will love you regardless. True, a good character can intensify affection but it has no effect on a guy who isn't into you. At best, it may only win his sympathy which is the worst emotion you should get from your boo. If you do too much too soon, chances are, he'll take you for granted and may even dump you for a chic who doesn't give him the time of the day. Intrigue fascinates a lot of men, predictability is boring.
Finally, we should be mindful of the fact that there are no hard and fast rules that guarantees a successful relationship but, there are rules with foreseeable outcomes. My darling, no need to get worked up, everyone is entitled to their opinions. There are no superior or inferior opinions, there are opinions conjured and fashioned from each person's ideology and past/present experiences.
Poster searching for a wife please I recommend Beautiful and Gifted for you. She is not only beautiful but also sounds intelligent and well brought up. She is the kind of lady I will like my brother to wife when he is mature and ready to settle down. I believe you won't regret giving my suggestion a try but that's only if she is willing and available. All the best guys. #*First SDK wedding loading**
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SHINAAYOMI :
ReplyDeleteAll these BVs thirsting after Shinaayomi, give it a rest.
As una hear car gift abi?
Lara, don't make the mistake of your life and give him up.
There are ways around the genotype issue and they were well discussed on that post. Shinaayomi too should do his research jare.
PHARMACIST:
I don't understand.
You gave 26mn to a banker, and he couldn't account for it?
If I know anything about Nigeria's banking industry, that guy would rot in EFCC's cell. Are you saying no case was brought against him? Did you involve a lawyer?
Do you have evidence you gave him the money? Was it in the bank?
Please supply the banker's name and branch. If you don’t mind, we can conduct further investigations.
What are we even saying
DeleteSo this poster travelled to naija with 26m cash and went past airport officials??
Issorai
Lara its your car gift that is attracting all these people oo, be careful who you introduce to ur boo.
Stella for once pls send one richard card to my mail na. God bless you.
I swear the thing tire me nor b small. Just shocking
DeleteYou just saved me the stress of typing...you took d thoughts outta my head.
DeleteHin o kun o
You just saved me the stress of typing...you took d thoughts outta my head.
DeleteHin o kun o
Viva Ciara I equally smell something fishy about that 26million narrative. It's either the money is from a dubious source hence the poster's reluctance to follow up the case legally or, poster gambled with someone's money and lost and now she's in deep shit.All the same, I wish you all the best @poster as you sort yourself out.
DeleteI wish u d best @lara peperempe...omo 26million no be here,but fear not cos God is on ur case!! Stella am looking 4 in house husband oooh.
ReplyDeleteStellastick Stella, well done, d hook up come dey bad gan, I pray say una go find una soul mate for dis blog. Pls make una no forget to come back and testify for Stella good work
ReplyDeleteJennyA,u wnted 2 bless me with a recharge card! Still interested.....thanks and God bless U.#wink#
DeleteRe: looking for in house wife.
ReplyDeleteAre you open to marrying someone older than you. Precisely 2years older than you?
No cougars please.
DeleteGo find your age mate jare.
Amen ooh...I claim the prayers
ReplyDelete#rootzy#
SDK I need d card toooo. This our Ministry is really really growing. First wedding from this blog is coming soon.
ReplyDeleteN25M, na only God will help u, you will get a good job soon.
The. Bachelor looking for a Wife, one name was mistakenly added by you while you were calling decent BVS, abeg don't mistakenly start a relationship with her o. I nor call any name o.
ReplyDeletePS: Judging by her Blog Character abeg, she might be different outside.
SDK I want recharge Card o. Please pick me.
Larapeperenpe Lucky you.
BV Ikpekpeduke, you have a very interesting Blog name, are you Urhobo? Hahahahahahah
Hahahaha
DeleteToday na Today
Lol
DeleteI just kept wondering how and why Mannabee wasn't on that list.
BV pls take Mannabee, that babe is as real as shit.
Nuvi u dey owe me recharge card oo
Hmm
DeleteNuvi honey
I na acho okwu
Stop looking for trouble...lol
Hahaha! Me sef suprise much @the mention of that name! But mbok my lips are sealed.
DeleteI no get power for cyberbulies. Lolz.
Poster hope u find the right woman sha.
Happy searching!!
Lmao "one name was mistakenly added" Hahahahaha.
DeleteLet me help u mention the name, its jayEm, geez poster, if u think JayEm is decent then any prostitute on d roadside is decent by ur standard
DeleteNuvi Honey,are u 'fearing'? Lol
DeleteThat bachelor bv no know wetin he want sef,he dey put married woman name sef.
Manna bee is so amazing..She is herself,decent and very intelligent..I know all this cos we ve met..
Deletelol
DeleteStill wondering why some one that calls himself or herself a medical personnel could be so careless anyway God knows the best and please don't go back to ur boo he was not meant for you in the first place, don't worry yours will come.
ReplyDelete@ lara's story awwwwwwwwww,i cant even begin to put my thoughts into words,i feel 4 u ooo but please ur own boo will come ur way, dont be an agent of destruction to that marriage.
ReplyDelete@d lady who was duped, i just pray God intervenes.People r wicked sha
@marriage tinz God help u ooooooooooooo
Fastest finger no dey favour me o stella
Stella, please separate IHN and recharge cards wahala.
ReplyDeleteThis post has been derailed by "where the recharge card nah" comments.
Blogvisitor looking for wife u call Jayem(she only dates whitey sef)?MOI is married o, the rest goodluck....Recharge card galore we await!
ReplyDeleteStella God bless you for this "thing" you dey do me, lol
ReplyDeleteI have a friend that is Single and Searching. Well behaved and loves God like kilode but am a bit reserved about hooking her up. The last guy said she was too spiritual. Don't want pointed fingers tomorrow if things start going wrong.
I convert her to start reading this blog.
Arianna, winning souls to SDK blog since .....
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ReplyDeleteWey the card na
ReplyDeleteNa wah oooo
ReplyDeleteI don't think Lara should introduce her man to anyone yet like I said yesterday do that test again before you let go, you just might be like the case of todays story. I pray it was a mistake so you can have the fairytale you deserve. The guy looking for a wife try something different , change your circle and you will find what you seek however please be careful as you pick a wife.patience is always key.
ReplyDeleteFor blog visitor in serious gobe.... i just find this story somehow, WHY will you call your account officer to come pick money as huge as that to deposit for you, what were you trying to show to your account officer ? What stops you from driving to the bank,knowing the value of amount you are depositing and the fact that its not yours , that is the more reason you should guard it jealousy. The deed has been done sure you are filled with regrets of had i know and asking yourself how many minutes to drive to the bank . Thank God for wisdom and life for we live to learn everyday. I pray God grants you financial help and strength to overcome this.
ReplyDeleteMy very thoughts exactly..
DeleteMy dear, the story is somehow joor. In this age and time.
DeleteNne,Shebi u know wen something bad wants to happen,it go begin to scatter from d beginning....Dats gowns Devil works....closes the person's eyes...
DeleteIts Soo unfortunate...i am Soo sorry for all d wahala u are going through Póster....
Buh pls dat Man should be held and locked up.
What if he just skipped wit d money and is just lying low for d kasala to cool down??
I am just Soo sorry for u....see wahala o....25 mil bikonu...Chai
God bless u.. Haba!! Person no dey Mumu finish, how can u Guv ur account officer dat amount of money to take to d bank for u? If u were my father's child he wud call u a fool cod even 4k I no fit five account officer to help me take go bank, I mean!! Who does dat?????? U fall ursef hand dear
DeleteSorry poster with the genotype issue! I'm AA went to run general test wen I was pregnant n my result came out as AS, I asked dem to re run the test dey did n result came out AA. Please don't break another woman's home dear,God will send a better man to u n dnt compare the new guys u re meeting with ur formal boo. This is a sad story but just put it in God's hand n it will be well. May God bless all the giver n Stella.
ReplyDeleteLara biko gan do anoda genotype test b4 una conclude. Den d babe dt is lukn 4 Lara's boo's connection biko easy ooo. I hope dts wt u really wnt 2avoid Lara surfacing later in ur relationship bcos d kind of luv doz 2 have ehh, hmmmm. I yaf talk my own sha
ReplyDeleteI love this blog...
ReplyDeleteGod bless you much Auntie Stella.
ReplyDeleteTo the poster that collected that huge sum...whhaaattttt!!! In this age of modern technology transfer,u did what? OMG...dunno what to say,but who does dat? u b bank? Anyways sha,may God deliver you from this serious gobe...
ReplyDeleteSDK wedding coming soon #hehehe#
@stella please don't post the card here biko cause you will be surprised just one person will load more than one!
ReplyDeleteGod bless you much Auntie Stella #Jenifa Shara(shout out) to all the BVs. Happy new month Y'all!!!
ReplyDeleteAunty stellz na wa o,...I just leave every post rush go down only to see d note u write...I need glo Richard card bad bad o, anyways its cool...2day in-house news no b here...
ReplyDeleteFor the single male bv... I never knew men go tru stuffs lyk dat,i thought its only for we ladies,lol...just kidding.
For the bv in serious gobe, the bank should be held responsible,i think, or better still they were supposed to handle the case in order for you to get your money back..
For the AA mistaken to be AS bv, I feel God wanted things to happen that way cos sometimes things happen and we feel there's no reason for it or that we r misfortune, it is well sha!
Lmao..
DeleteYou were not kidding
Yoi meant it joorrr
Men look for wife.
Just like women look for husbands.
And it's supposed to be the man doing the chasing... not the woman.
Women are meant to polish themselves and develop and be desirable
Happy new month to my fellow blog family, may God perfect every imperfections in our lives........ Amen
ReplyDeletePlssss plssssss no fastest finger oooo, abeg email abeg bless Mr with glo God bless u too.
ReplyDeleteStella Plss I need the recharge card,,i no fit shout for the fastest fingers!!
ReplyDeleteEmail only oooo I don do vigil tire,i dunno how sum pple do it, imm u try lyk dis na voucher used prev 1day I was just few seconds late n all voucher as been used,pls email biko.
ReplyDeletePls send to email, ll be better. God bless u
ReplyDeleteLara,my prayers are still with you and yours... Just go for another test to further confirm and i pray this one comes out AA cos you are not AS. Sdk, my email is ever ready for the "Richard card" Etisalat 1k will do cos am not expensive!Lol.
ReplyDeleteStella I sent u an email to your hotmail account regarding the in house wife. Wink
ReplyDeletePls send d recharge cards to email, coz we have a lot of passerby dat may benefit frm it. God bless u ma
ReplyDeleteMy pepo my own now be say i need xmas cloth,shoe,handbag,weave-on,travelling bag and money 2 travel 2 my villa. Tanx
ReplyDelete*Praz*
woo.......i have missed this family like crazy. my blueberry parked up.. in house news rock so bad!! #typingfromacafe# PLEASE BLESS A SISTER WITH A 3310 LOLZZZ
ReplyDeleteLuving inhouse news today.....as 4 those of u looking 4 life partners, 2015 won't pass u by....
ReplyDeleteStella d recharge cards plenty..so just send it to d first 30k pple..for 2 days. Guy looking for a wife, I have a sister o..great chef..faithfulness is her weakness,black beauty,dimples,nice girl but...primary education only cos she choose to be a skilled woman...lemme know if u interested.
ReplyDeleteFirst of all HAPPY NEW MONTH TO EVERYBODY ON SDK BLOG.The good lord that brought us to this month has "greatest" things in the works for us.As long as we are all alive whether SS, diabetic, PCOS, childlessness, wifeles, low sperm count etc God is still working his perfect plan for us.There are just two answes Jehovah gives, it's eithier he say YES or I HAVE A BETTER PLAN FOR YOU, please people thank God because God has been and is good.
ReplyDeleteOkay to in house news. My darling poster that has not been lucky with women, you sound like a superb guy and it's unfortunate I'm not available and I'm sure MOI and Whirlwind have long exited the singles market, not too sure about Samira though. Don't worry you will find the one that would over love, calm down and be patient please.Dont Rush into marriage biko, your virtuous woman is waiting for you, just be patient and tell God to show you.Female BVs that have been wanting to love and be loved, Oya send emails to Stella kaikai!
Poster that is back to square 1, it is well! You're alive, meaning it's not over!
Poster who was given the wrong genotype, please cut all ties with that man or stay with that family at your own peril! I wonder why people only do these tests once and not go to other hospitals for re tests and confirmation. Lara Oya go and do your test again and do it in more than one hospital this time.
Yeah that reminds me, today is my parents wedding anniversary! Just wondering how my mum did/doing it, Infact how both of them are doing it. They are so different in everything and never agree on anything.its been 26 years, nawa oo. Anyways I thank God for them.
Hope I get to be a recipient of one of the cards.
ReplyDelete25million naira gbese! My God! Get that account officer arrested like right now. He is a thief. You have to fight this to the finish, don't get weak in the knees.
ReplyDeleteBV in search of wife...all the best. You have spotted some good women here...but ermm..I hope you are quiet? Because JayEm mouth na razor. U gotta be a quiet dude so that she can be your commando when needed. If both of una sabi gala, wahala go ey be dat o. BTW JayEm get bobo sef. So no road there. Kikikiki
Any bv in dubai? i also plan travelling to dubai alone dis december and is my first tym,pls hook me up with a bv dt is either going or reside there.
ReplyDeleteAny bv in dubai? i also plan travelling to dubai alone dis december and is my first tym,pls hook me up with a bv dt is either going or reside there.
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha..The blog visitor seeking in-house wife :) my dear i am happily married my dear, my hubby and kids are my life, i have been with hubby since i was 18 years old, exactly 2 months to my 18th birthday:) I have a GREAT marriage. But my dear God is going to send you a great wife in Jesus name. There still faithful women out there ok. N.B. Please don't be a serial cheat and expect your woman to be faithful, it doesn't always work like that.
ReplyDelete@ The AS genotype poster...Please don't be an agent of destruction in another woman's home. I believe God had a hand in what has happened in the past. Please let Go & let God.Your own man will surely find you, just keep believing & trusting God.
ReplyDeleteYou need to stop comparing men, no human being is 100% alike not even twins. Move on & look for other positive trait in whoever u meet not looking for traits that reminds you of le boo. All the best.
To the genotype lady, that guy is married now he is not your boo again you hear? Leave another woman's hubby the hell alone. Go and look for your own, put yourself in his wife's shoe. Boo kor, bamboo ni.
ReplyDeleteGod's gonna make all things beautiful in his time
ReplyDeleteOh the story weakened my kneels I can't even imagine how you felt when you realised you are AA but don't be surprised God might be preventing you from something, it is well with you God will settle you and put laughter in your mouth, the poster that was duped mmmmmm this a serious issue please arrest him and let him provide the money,that is a lot of money now!
ReplyDeleteMoney can be transferred from Europe to Nigeria or any part of the world why did the person give you cash? And to think they just sacked the account officer instead of arresting him and making him pay, this story get as e be i beg.
ReplyDeleteStella,sending the richard cards to emails would be a lot work,make it fastest fingers and let us do the work. hehehehehehehe
ReplyDeleteMy GENOTYPE story.......when I was getting married in 2010 me and hubby did the test in Lagos and it came I was AS and he AA.....perfect we go ahead and get married and moved to London. Daughter was born in 2011 and causally we did HEEL PRICE test for newborn and SHOCKINGLY our baby was S'S. ....hw could this be ? ? ? ? . We did genotype again . Now in london and turns out the test in Lagos was wrong . We r both AS. It's been challenging already dealing with Ss but God is our strength. So scared to have another
ReplyDeletelesson....In naija always repeat the test 10 times not even twice
IHn making sense since God knows when. to d BV looking for wife wre are you cos am interested and I hope you are as serious as you mean. omalicha
ReplyDeleteElla the Enchanted said:
ReplyDelete***Smilyn*** This yam big Ooo! All the best in ya bizness.
To the 26 million babe, ***Exclaims*** Chai!!! O di kwa egwu! ***InFrankEdwardszVoive*** What more can I say? The Lord shall make a way for you dearie.
***Smilyn***@BV lookyn for IH wifey, goodluck Ooo! No worry IH girley no go use you do ***InKayCeeVoice*** MMS (Mugu Money Spender). ***winkz*** cause we get 'em good girls here.
***SqueezesFace*** Aunty Stella, e jo, biko, dun allah dun enebi, no do fastest finger, make we send e-mail. Na beg I dey, biko. Thank you!!!
#OkBye
In house wife finder, ibu onye igbo?
ReplyDeleteMee ka anyi mara biko
"I love him, we met and I gave my virginity to him . . ." The rate at which I read this line makes me tremble. Is there a scripture or rule that says; "give virginity once you meet and love him?" Girls should fear God with their bodies. You've been given enormous responsibility to house new humans; the image of God therein. Babe, the reason why you lost him is not unconnected with desecrating your body with reckless abandon!
ReplyDeleteFor the pharmacist with Msc. kindly learn to fast and pray at least twice to trice a week and study your scriptures and see how the Lord will rejuvenate your life. Many indeed are the afflictions of the righteous but the Lord delivers him from all of them.
@Stella; you don dey match make? All the best lady . . .
HB
Asin eh??!!
DeleteI dey shock o
It's now the norm
You give your virginity to whoever you fall in love with
Whatever happened to wedding night ( for virgins) and keeping yourself and remaining celibate ( for non virgins)
Let's fear God oo
With our bodies
The bible has not been re written
*drops mic and walks away*
IHN My favourite.
ReplyDeleteStellz well doneooo
Fellow BVS make una patronise the yam seller.
The BV with AA genotype mistook for AS, pls be strong. Guess you guys were not meant to be for God knows best. Though this reminds me of my sis's case. She overcame cos they went to another hospital for test reason being everyone of us were born AA so no doubt and the hubby got the doctor of the private hospital sued.
BV looking for housemate in ABJ pls be careful in choosing whom to be with. All d best.
I really feel for the BV that has 25M to repay. You will overcome but 25M no be small money.
All the best to the guy looking out for in house wife but y you include Jayem upon say she dey use her darling boy friend sing hymn here each day.
Pls Stellz keep the RC rolling, let the lucky ones win.
To LILIAN)U think everybody is fake like u? My dear I tried to mail madam stellina and ur sister but is not going. Then I explain to madam stell tru her fb P, I even snap d paper dat I use to pay into ur sis account to her so dat she will believe dat I send d money. U see these re d reasons y some people hardly help, see d way u re insulting me because of my gud. U said I use it to hype myself on dis blog eheheheheh babe am I a celebrity dat need stunt? Wat do I need to hype myself for? I send 11k each to 3 people only ur sis na say d thing no enter, I even promise to go resend her d money cos were I went to make d first transfer is too far from where I base... so I can't go back there to check if there was any mistakes in f first one or not. But now I will resend nada! Rather I will send d money to another bv cos I got more than 100 mails in my inbox and I promise 2 bv's dat I will send dem something b4 xmas. I think they deserve it more. ... Thanks my dear for d insult but believe me am not hyping myself here, madam stellina no dey pay bv's, I didn't send fake alert cos I ve done more than dis to people dat I don't even know In naija... I ve 3 kids dat am paying dia school fees and dey ain't my kids, i gat friends dat I support and I also help orphanage children 2times a year am jst 23 years old struggling with life. Am not rich nor poor jst normal girl who loves to give out.... so please my dear jst chill ok.... d time u using to rants about me on blog u can use it to help out ur sis! I will try and change my dp later to d resit dat I use to transfer d money into ur sis account.
ReplyDeleteMadam stellina abeg I no wan find dis comments at all all cos I dey really vex chai.
Sweetheart
DeleteYou really didn't have to table out your good works. It's between you and God
Me seff I can vouch for you.
So just relax eh
It's well
God bless you
Awwwww Chick Felix, I feel your pains.
DeleteDon't mind the person ok.
Some people are just ungrateful.
God bless you a million folds for your kind heart my dear.
I wish you every good thing life has to offer.
#Hugs
AS poster...OMG shed tears while reading ur story..such a pathetic one..Buh truth is,you just have to let good..I believe that's how God planned it...
ReplyDeleteStella but that Yam black like Charcoal,anyway what's my own...
IHN making sense since tey try. Abeg I want to buy bag of rice and d yam whete can I get it from s BV selling pls, and for d BV looking for a wife I do hope you are as serious as you sound cos me omalicha I don tire for guys wahala.
ReplyDeleteThis genotype issue has been a major setback in my relationship life.I am AS and I always get to meet and love peepz that are AS.People just don't understand.How many people will I tell?But I still thank God all the same...
ReplyDeleteAunty Stella abeg send cards to our mail address cos this fastest finger tingy no go work.Its crazy getting here first and realising all the cards have been loaded.i really dunno how they do it.
Please before we term people as Scammers,lets have proof so you don't spoil people's business....
Am having a busy day at work so lemme stop here....
Thank you SDK.....Buy mummy oyoyo from market oooo
@ mr.plan/30k a month,bros,I don't think you are financially ready for marriage.30k monthly does nothing for a sharp well educated full time gf,imagine how far you are from what is required by a wife and kids.my advice,keep planning.
ReplyDelete"in house wife blog visitor"; one question: WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR FRIEND THAT'S "SCREWING" THIS BANKER? Don't birds of the same feathers flock together? How many girls have you screwed to give deposit and even encouraged to abort? Now you are looking for "clean blog babes" and Stella is even ready to match make for you. I shudder. My worry is that ladies will condescend and desecrate their dignity in applying to marry your selfish self even with all the red flags. It's a pity! One word for you is REPENT!
ReplyDeleteAnd who are you Anonymous 2:41PM to judge the poster?
DeleteNow, I command you to shut up your mouth and remain ANONYMOUS forever.
Ewu.
Thanks Stella, but I think sending it to emails will b better cos most pple recharge almost everytin once u send dem here
ReplyDeleteGaddammit!!!
ReplyDeleteMe! Me!! Me!!! Stelz pls pick me! Visafone Richard cards for me! Hehehe I want ohhh!
@wife seeker; why are you quick to condemn the banker who lied to you but you did not condemn your friend for sleeping with her to get deposit? Are you not selfish and just like your friend? And ladies will still apply to be his wife?
ReplyDeleteHello everyone.....its my first comment on here but I've been a regular BV for over a year.....an addict if I must say, lol. My genotype is SS and I'm doing great to the glory of God. Please peeps with both AS genotypes shld just brk up now cos d pain of living with sickle cell is better imagined (especially at the early stages of life or during a crises) I don't wish it for anyone, even tho I know its not a death sentence.....but please, its better safe than sorry.
ReplyDeleteMy fav comments Patt Ogar, TGW, Iphie dearie, Genny baby, Alloy, Kehinde Ake, nd offcourse Ezewanyi......love u all. Will keep posting comments from henceforth! God bless you Stella.
ANONYMOUS B
Awwww Anonymous B, come and give me a hug darling.
DeleteThe Lord is your strength my dear.
He will continue keep you safe and healthy.
I wish you the best in life.
I'll put you in my prayers dearie.
Kisses.
S to the DK ejoooo send 'Richard cards' via emails abeg! HapPy New Months to all of Us!!
ReplyDeleteGod bless SDK givers....will soon join them.....
ReplyDeleteStells. I saw what you did. You are the bestest most wonderful person in the whole world. I know I am ass-licking but I can't help it. Lolz. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteThat genotype story is indeed a very sad love story..Take heart dear
ReplyDeleteAnd to the lady in the 26m ish....Aunty, that account officer stole that money and was ready to face the consequences that came along pls hold him and the bank responsible since he was still a staff of the bank when it happened, involve the bank as well,26mil NO BE MOI MOI O.
It is well
lara, pls go and re check ur genotype again oooo
ReplyDeleteHehehehehe I thought it's only women that is searching o.
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile madame pharmacist : this your story is somehow. I mean in this age of technology and e-banking, how can you guys be doing hand to hand transfer of millions?
Hmmm BVs go and look for your own men and pray for Lara. Habaa! See as una dey hustle the guy wn she neva even decide to leave or not. Na wa of.
Which kind bank b dat?? 25mil isn't a small money oh. See wahala dem put dis lady,I pray God hlp u overcome dis phase of ur life dear. Yay Fastest fingers u gonna miss dis card galore*tongueout*
ReplyDeleteY do i love sdk?
ReplyDeletebecause it only happens here!
Lara pls go for another test, cos the last time I check my Genotype my doc confirmed that I am AA, I used to be AS buh overtime I think God came thru....pls dont give up, dont lose hope....
ReplyDelete#okbye
Happy new month everyone
ReplyDeleteI am tired of commenting under Ghost mode.A.K.A(anonymous)i need an identity n no matter hw much I try I can't get it.am tired of Stella always swallowing my comment n I wil b boosting to friends hw I v commented n we go find ham tire for where...back to d post,abt d BV who wants to meet a decent gal am available n won't mind,provided u r tru to ur. Words,i v bin searching n praying n holding on to miracles n wen my friends marry I go follow rejoice dey prophesy that mind won't b too far n put d devil to shame.pls for d love of God do we have BV's in uyo,pls really want to meet u guys.but that town is boring sha...N lastly I love dis family die.u guys rock n I v introduced who evr comes my way to this blog.i love u Stella wit God's love though I no evr dey get luck win anything bcos my fone can sabi do rubbish ontop say na new fone.i comment sometimes using'Dat ibibio chic.long live SDK family.love u guys
ReplyDeleteI have an idea stella, the first 30 to comment on a post that you open for the recharge card should me mailed 1k airtime each.
ReplyDeleteHian!!! all this genotype thing sef...abeg lemme go and re-check my own...odiegwu....me no dey for sicky sicky wahala
ReplyDeleteStellz abeg mail me just one of the richard cards...its important biko
Eeeeya AS Póster,ur story broke my heart.
ReplyDeleteHold fast darling...God is about to surprise u.
sending ubwarm hugs.
@ BV looking for wifey,Chai,i have a very good cousin oooo....Chai...
Sending u love and kisses Lara Darling.
Lara, please go for another test before you 'dash' your boo out. May God see you through.
ReplyDeleteS2dk, email na im sure pass o because some fingers here are spirit. I don't even try loading again sef, 'the voucher has been used' can be so annoying, you wonder how these people do it. S2dk no shaking
Wow!! That AS post got to me! I have alw known i am AA, 0+, and i have even donated blood to hospitals, make the thing no change tomorw to AS o, baba God! Cuz i dont undastand how one's genotype will just change over night...
ReplyDelete@ Lara, plz dont be so fast to gv out thid guy, @ blog visitors hustling for d guy cus una hear car gift make una take am easy abeg,Na so guy scarce?? Lara i repeat, both of u should go to another hosp and do another test!! I pray God grants u favour.
@ BV lookin for ih wife, may God help u with ur heart desire and for ur info, jyaem dates white and MOI seems to be married! I never knew guys go tru d samething as women.
SDK, plz need that recharge card. Thank u in anticipation!! *shoki*
Bv in serious gobe, what stopes u from driving to the bank urself knowing fully well the value of the money @ hand!! U made a serious mistake.. May God's favour be upon u to conquer this mess!!
Am seriously going to find my husband here
ReplyDelete@Anon 7:39 in christmas post,what happens to finding out why this man became a monster,like you said,there was no such signs when you were courting,that means there was an attitude in you that brought out the worst in him.sit down and think,find out that thing that made him change and address it,you will be surprised,you married an amazing man.
ReplyDeleteTo every married woman,who and advises anybody to leave their matrimonial home because of one problem or the other,is it how you are running your own home??? marriage is about learning and adjusting,in the beginning,it always look like both of you wont work it out but after some time, with understanding, marriage becomes enjoyable.
when you ask them to run out instead of learning and adjusting,remember most of them are no longer fresh for young boys,they mostly end up with your husbands.
Bible said submit to your husbands,it means humble yourself,learn and adjust. when you do your part,even if your husband is the worst monster on earth,he must change and love you.
Pls vote for boo and i in the big Nigerian Wedding contest every 24Hrs. The link is http:/woobox.com/dymgeb/vote/for/5292277. Permit me to relate to Lara's story too. Mt fiance and I did the test even b4 i agreed to date him(i no wan waste my time only for me to be told stories). The 1st test came out as AS and AS, we decided to do another 1, i came out as AA and boo as AS. We ran another 1 again and it was the same result as the last 1. so pls, triple check b4 u break 1 another's heart.
ReplyDeleteFor those of you calling jayem out,you are not better than her.if she is bad because she expresses her mind then i will gladly recommend her.
ReplyDeleteits even worse to have anything to do with someone who abuses another for expressing their mind.
SDK!touching lives since 1800 a.d
ReplyDeleteI am so angry that i didnt get to read the in house news after the 25m.......... How can you for Christ sake carry 100,000 Pounds to Nigeria? Thats money laundering........ I dont really understand the story. why didn't you take the money to your bank yourself and let the bank call Aboki to change it right inside the bank or better still use the money to open a domiciliary account. The story is not just adding up at all, too many holes in the story. so pissed and cant even say anything.... why did the owner give you the 100k GPB in the first place? Do you look like a syndicate that does that kind of transaction? That Money is cursed. its blood money
ReplyDeleteGod bless u! I thought d same way when I read tht post. Thers smtin not adding up in that story.
DeleteStella, God bless u, am a jobless single mother, pls count me worthy of ur recharge card give away, so that I can sell and buy food for my baby. Mtn cos I can sell it faster. Thank u, vickyannluv@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteStella, God bless u, am a jobless single mother, pls count me worthy of ur recharge card give away, so that I can sell and buy food for my baby. Mtn cos I can sell it faster. Thank u, vickyannluv@gmail.com
ReplyDeletenote to self, once it involves money i no dey help... That na serious gobe ooo...
ReplyDeleteI'm tired of commenting under anonymous. Stella do a post on how to create an ID please.
ReplyDeleteFor the poster in serious gobe...how did you pass airport security with such amount? Your story is somehow jor
ReplyDelete@ pharmacist, this your matter get as e b,you gave ur account officer 25million and the money disappeared and u are heregivng us story, 25m no b beans oh.
ReplyDeleteAunty Stella ooooo Pls I need this Richard card oooooo. So broke that I even borrowed 250 naira credit from MTN to subscribe and also check your blog (that's how addicted I am)
ReplyDeleteEka Joy abeg 'shorrup' your mouth there!. I am not patient to sound civil like Ronalda(a swtheart by the way)but your act of condemnation @ JayEm is downright annoying and eishhhh....infact chop e-slap.
ReplyDeleteJayEm expresses herself, no holds barred. you have no right to call her names am sure you wouldn't accept if any BV calls you same.
if you cant stand her comments, then don't read them, scroll past. wetin sef! nobody holy pass o!
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Lara, I don't know why Im not in support of you parting ways with your love... Hmmm true love is hard to find o! I think there should be a way around it sha
ReplyDeleteAs for the BV who's account officer told stories to, my dear I feel for you o! But seems you are too soft! A whole 25million? Haba! U know a lot of peeps ain't smiling nowadays and don't mind betraying trust. It is well with you o!
All those hooking up, abeg make una do quick quick, I wan attend one SDK wedding.