Its a hit/hit situation.......
Too much trust can have negative effect......too little is not good.Got to find a balance or keep counting the knives?
How many do you have stuck in you?
How many have you stuck into people that trusted you?
For me,its been both ways,i stopped counting knives when i learnt how to stick it back into people.sometimes its too crude to be voiced out but until you learn how to play a game you will never win it...This is me,someone else might be different.
I look back to when i would count ten knives in me and bring out one to stick back and i would be labelled betrayer......lol
Last to do na him dey sweet pass!
Does this post make sense to you?
Over make sense. I think I want to start it now. Lol.
ReplyDeleteE make sense die.
DeleteThem don stick knife tire inside my body that no space again.
Right now am hardened.
U give me one I give u ten.
Life is too short to dey receive knife from people without returning some back.
They say am unemotional.
I don't have feelings.
Bla bla bla
But u made me get like dis.
From the beginning it was not so.
I just got tired of all the bullshit and I ain't surprised with people's actions anymore.
I guess my shock absorber is stronger than a brand new car's own.
I remain unapologetic
Hmmm
DeleteMyself I never trust finish
@Galore
I don't trust myself o
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DeleteI dnt trust 100% no more. I learnt the hard way! Once bitten....
Delete@Galore(Mr/Mrs)I'm so happy to see ur comments,been asking of u.Hope the journey wasn't too stressful and hope u re already ernjoying Calabar(that's if u still made it)
DeleteAbout sticking knives,they do it to me everytime that I now feel that is how life is yet I don't know how to return the 'favor'.I think I'm just too trusting and its my cross to bear
**lululiscious**
It does make a lot of sense.
DeleteIt does make a lot of sense.
DeleteI no trust myself nt to talk f anoda person. Abia!
Delete@ Galore, I left you a msg on the Dec 22nd Post
DeleteI'm in calabar too and I have a stand @ the xmas village on Marian road,
It will be nice to finally meet a fellow BV
Pls Xmas day is out of the equation...bcos the flow of customers no go allow the gossip sweet me
Stand 55....drink is on the house
Hmm
ReplyDeleteHmm, I don't think I have lots of knives to count cos I learned long ago that having close friends don't pay but my hubby aka "ogaranyaobioma" cannot count the number of knives friends and family have stuck in his back and are still sticking. I pray God gives him the strength and will power to stay away from evil and ungrateful people and channel all his good will to me alone...lol
DeleteTruth is, I don't trust people so I don't get stabbed!
ReplyDeleteSo I'll just read comments.
I have no heart to strike back.
DeleteI move on like I'm leaving sodom.
Karma is bitch.
Kar wetin? Kar fire! Dese daes karma no longer works o, if nt aw com mi else z still breathing? Hehehehohoho
DeleteMadam stellina, madam stellina. ....I still prefer dat ur dick chair so I can seat back and read comments.
ReplyDeleteTomorrow is my birthday. ....
Chick Felix, why the Dick one? Hope is not what am thinking?
DeleteHappy Birthday in advance.
DeleteGod bless you always.
Happy birthday dear.have a wonderful day!
DeleteHapi bday in advance
DeleteHappy birthday,wullnp
DeleteHbd in advance
DeleteThanks my beautiful fam. @uniki Daniel u know every every na lol.
DeleteHBD in advance dear
DeleteHappy Birthday Beautiful(in advance)
DeleteMay u remain blessed always.
Happy BD chicky chicky. V fun
DeleteBLOG ANALYSER: we all experience "knives and kniffing" regularly but u got stand up nd walk with ur head up high
ReplyDeleteLol, I am seriously learning to stick it back o. Enough is enough.sowing =reaping
ReplyDeleteYeah. I've had knives stuck in my back by frenemies and I believe some persons feel same way about me but the way to redemption is to pull out the knife, toss it to the other end of the room and let the betrayer go for good. Forgive and forget the person ever existed (erase totally).
ReplyDeleteLet it go Stella
1000 likes
DeleteThis is me!
DeleteSomtimes its gud to stick d knife right bak
Delete@asipa, if you stab back, you are no different from them. I like different
DeleteIt both ways for me...waiting....
ReplyDeletei dont bother counting the knives... i just pulled it out and stab the betrayer back.....that way we are even.....scores settled..
ReplyDeleteIve got so much shock absorbers in this small body of mine o. Nothing surprises me anymore. BTW Santa mood still running. #shinesteeth#
ReplyDeleteI don't trust anyone...............
DeleteI find it difficult to trust people, dats just me»......
I trust so much in d past until I was stabbed, so I learnt my lessons d hard way
You sha have a way with words, I give that to you.
ReplyDeleteI don't think I know how to do "do me I do you" I'm very spontaneous in my anger and doings, when you hurt me I shout out that period, frown or sulk if I can't shout till you ask me what's wrong but mostly shout, then when I'm done I would be so calm I might start crying...lol and with the tears I've let it go.
So I don't think I count knives or Stick back.. the best I do is withdraw totally.
I just heard Stella's voice.. though she wasn't hearing me well, she's really soft spoken. Thanks again.
Nuvi honey, in the spirit of xmas giving, and receiving pls be my santa nau,
DeleteMy Bis expires next 2mrw....tnx in advance
Nuvi ooooo this your picture bfubny die...lmao!!! Hahahahahahaha
DeleteNo wahala Tessy, na we we,Oya mail me or drop your email ID I will reach you,
DeleteZizzy as in eh! The dp is funny and deep mehn, what works for A might not work for B o, see Beating B received. Lol.
I totally feel you on this one. It's best to let it all out. I give everyone the benefit of a doubt so I won't be surprised if someone turns out to be a wolf. I just try not to make the same mistake twice.
DeleteSame with me Nuvi, I just let go and never look back again....
DeleteStella...i have lost count of the knives in my back...at a time i wondered if that was my fate in life.one betrayal after the other.now i know am better than those people who betrayed me.i wont pay them back...i wont stick the knives back.am wiser and stronger..i know how to dodge the knives now.karma is a bitch...they will get the knives back from others.i will see with my eyes and hear with my ears.#teamvenganceisthelord's
ReplyDeleteHmmmm can't remember any...so lemme read comments pending the time
ReplyDeleteHmmn.. learn to play the game..
ReplyDeleteododo oro le le yi ooo..
you trust em, they stick knives in ur heart, you do ur own back them start to gbe okiki kiri calling u betrayer & all sorts..
An eye for an eye ni oooo.. that has been my logo..
Stellz make i no find this my comment oo.. na so i comment for in-house news, i still dey find am up till now
As in ehh....u stick one in me,i stick 10 in u..do me,i do u.no time abeg..nd den after doing my own i will forgive u..*shines teeth*
DeleteHahahhaaaa hmmmmmm atimes it's good to forgive n not stick back. But it's anyway to just stay without sticking back.
ReplyDeletewow hbd in advance chick felix.. no wonder ur profile piks been glowing this past days..
ReplyDeletesend me bieday cake ooo... have a blast
Hv bin playing dah game for long so no one expects me to lose...I go with the acronym DMDU...wid an I in between.
ReplyDeletePlenty sense.
ReplyDeleteI have got plenty stuck in my back. Even front. Now I don't get 2 close so I can see it b4 it happens.
Deep one
ReplyDeleteTrust??? Never....
ReplyDeleteOver sense dey worry de post.
ReplyDeleteSTELLA I DON'T COUNT OR STICK KNIVES....I WILL REACT LIKE IMMEDIATELY AND OFF ITS OUT OF ME, BUT THAT I 1MINUTE OF MADNESS IS NOT FUNNY THOUGH...
ReplyDeleteI wear a WHOLE ARMOR around me so I don't have any knives. I don't trust people enough for them to stab me with anything. Matter of fact before you stab I would have started withdrawing. I learned early in life that the heart of human is desperately wicked. When a bush rat that my mother brought from the village and cleaned up and sent to school suddenly becomes by step mother and my mother was thrown out of her home. I have to trust you first before you stab me in the back and I don't trust any baga.
ReplyDeleteI have never stabbed anyone either. I'm a one woman army and I love it.
Hmm na wa. That Bush rat is a bitch. Kindly shed more light for better understanding
DeleteYessooo...
ReplyDelete"Revenge is best served cold but as e dey hot is more satisfying" - Tessy you 2014
Have been stabbed twice by 2 werey friends not like I keep friends oh.
The first was in my year 2 in uni, was so sick I couldn't go to school for a whole semester. Used to call one of my frnd that attended class early to help with attendance, this babe will always assure me she wrote my name down oh, not knowing she never did. And bcos of this, I wouldn't call any1 else oh. Fast forward to exam period I managed to attend one class and a guy just called me and asked why I didn't call anyone to help with attendance, that last time he reminded my friend of writing my name, she asked him to do it himself that she doesn't have such time....hmmm
The 2nd na looong story.....but it hurt me so bad cos I lost 2good elderly friends who would have been of great assistance to me 2day. And they warned me 2stay away from that girl oh.
Anyways, Success is the Best Revenge!
Oluwa take control!
Hian. Which kind sickness make you miss one full semester? #Suspicious# Hmmm. Hope you are well now o and d sickness didn't reoccur
DeleteLast to do they really sweet pass
ReplyDeleteI have done it family members who betrayed me & they couldn't take it.
Na dem know abeg I sha don do my own back.
I have been backstabbed before. I got pregnant abt 2yrs ago. I also stayed alone. I had nobody to stay with me when I was almost due. I had this frnd who i called my best friend. I begged her to stay with me few days a week bcs I was scared of labour starting in the middle of the nyt with nobody to help me. She slept with me only once. She didn't come the next nyt.labour started d nyt she didn't come. Had to call on neighbours who rushed me to the Hosp.I was checked but was told I t was false labour dt I shud go bak hme. Told my frnd n she said dt so if she had come, I wud have made he run helter skelter for nothing. Dt i was raising false alarm. Will u guys believe did babe didn't call or check on me to know how i was fairing till I gave birth. Even afte I gave birth, no calls frm her. I forgave her sha but didn't forget what she did to me. Now she's pregnant and I've really been thnking of what she put me tru. Mum said I shud forgive and forget. Really dnt knw y I cnt
ReplyDeleteEya please forgive her... show her kindness.
DeleteTo me that's the best way to repay oo... the tin go see pepper am for body as she go dry think back at what she did. So my dear just show love at least for the baby's sake
Eeyaa... just try
DeleteI am like Nuvi Honey! I shout immediately im upset when I can and if im where I cant shout, I sulk until I can voice it out! After that I now feel better. Then I forget the matter, im not vindictive at all!
ReplyDeleteOh I love revenge!
ReplyDeleteSweet revenge!
It gives me a special kind of satisfaction.
I hardly trust but when I do, I do it wholeheartedly.
If you break my that trust and betray me, Hmmmmm!
*smiles*
Just pray I never find out...
I wait patiently for the person to forget, and even believe I have also forgiven and forgotten, then I strike!
Sweeet!
Yes I'm wicked, I know....
Genny baby I see as u take scatter that blog visitors narrative. I was just laughing. But u were spot on. I was nodding my head like a lizard that swallowed egg and is about to convulse.
DeleteBiko Stella this thing is paining me o. Once comments exceed 200 I can't see them or comment. When I click on make a comment it doesn't open. Why na? I don frustrate o. *sad face*
Make I talk my own. Hoping that the poster is a regular here and would see this.
Madame I know uv been told off already so I won't bother. But my own is this, if you love your sister deeply u wouldn't hurt her by introducing your bed mate to her. But if reverse is the case, and u happen to love this ur older friend more and perhaps seek his happiness more than that of ur sister', then u can make him happy by hurting ur dear sister who has been minding her business, according to u, for 15 years.
And besides, if I were u I would have slapped that man for having the effrontery to ask me about my sister after banging me. He totally has no iota of respect for you because of what he has seen of u.
He is either a selfish man or u are the selfish one who seeks happiness everywhere to the detriment of ur loved ones. I suggest that u leave ur sister out of it while u continue with ur happy shagging with ur man friend. It would be very unfair. Infact pretend he never asked u.
I learn from people's mistakes, I always try to be steps ahead .YEAH , i'm the calculated BITCH , I don't give room for betrayal because I hurt easily and find it hard to forget even when forgiven .
ReplyDeleteNnenna is double, like the identical twins , one for each character I meet everyday in my life . I follow and read people's behaviour , So I know when things are getting out of hand.
But sometimes you got to loss to win again . Till then , I've never betrayed anyone deliberately to my own knowledge . But, if I did , speak up & correct me, don't bottled it up .We're all students in this world, so everyday is a new day in the class room for me .
I don't trust people so I expect anything from anyone,if you piss me off I will a cold feet you've never seen in your life cause am not the shouting type and I don't know how to get back at people,i just don't do it...what I do is, keep you very far away from my life!
DeleteI wear a WHOLE ARMOR around me so I don't have any knives. I don't trust people enough for them to stab me with anything. Matter of fact before you stab I would have started withdrawing. I learned early in life that the heart of human is desperately wicked. When a bush rat that my mother brought from the village and cleaned up and sent to school suddenly becomes by step mother and my mother was thrown out of her home. I have to trust you first before you stab me in the back and I don't trust any baga.
ReplyDeleteI have never stabbed anyone either. I'm a one woman army and I love it.
I've been stabbed countless times Even by my own immediate sister. I don't count again o...I just remove the knife or whatever u use in stabbing me and I cut you off or give u a long rope
ReplyDeletedamn i love that line.... ''i stopped counting knives
ReplyDeletewhen i learnt how to stick it back into
people.''
I learnt that.... Yeah it was fun... sticking it back to the person Who back stabbed u... believe me... I was good at it... mind games and all... fuck me up... when I will hit u back... damn...u will never see it coming... but I found out it made one better.. and that it is always better to forgive and move on....
I have just few friends... like 3.... I know all they re capable of... so I know what to tell A and not tell B.... but in all... everybody has his Or her own flaws....
u just have to know when not to go over board... where re humans...never trust completely.... never... always leave room for disappointment so that u won't be to shock when it happens...
Santa Stella, I dont do it rather I withdraw myself from you totally because i don't tolerate betrayals, that's why i have 'small circle',just me, my siblings and just 4 friends I can trust a little. merry xmas you all
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmmm! no time, I for one believe in d saying" u attract ur kind" I thank God for my life and d people involved, I no get strength for wahala, one funny tin about me is if I find myself in a tight situation someone must surely bail me out and again if I notice my ways and yours do not match, I jejely back off. I don't have time to count or throw knives, some situations can be avoided, call me d weak one I don't mind but I walk out with my pride,ego and dignity intact.
ReplyDeleteAahh! I was stabbed once and it hurt badly. Well I roved the knife threw it away and discharged everyone surrounding the scenario. It was that bad
ReplyDeleteTruth is whenever I get stabbed, I just let it go and forget that person ever existed. Trust is difficult but necessary. Na to balance am be the issue
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday in advance chick felix.... All the best dear and enjoy your day 2mao
ReplyDeleteOver make sense jare! !!. I apply the cut off technique in such instances. More often than not, I am seen as overly trusting/ naive But man! Once those knives cut in deep I let you go so hard abeg, I have a low tolerance for BS. I leave the pay back to karma and boy, does she pay!
ReplyDeleteEveryone experience it. Me too experience it self. "Dont let another person hear ooo. Me too go start to tell people. Dont tell them say na me tell ooo. Backstabbing full everywhere. Some are good some are bad. Not easy to trust anyone again ooo
ReplyDeleteOver make sense jst knw who to trust or not cos two mani two faced pple everywhere wen u find a real frend or lover hold on to dem tight
ReplyDeletei dont have the gut to stuck back, i just stand up dust off and raise up my head high.
ReplyDeleteHave been stabbed before not on the back bt on d chest by a person i valued so much.
ReplyDeleteHave moved on and am not intending to strike back.
I dont keep friends so i dont get stabbed in d back.
ReplyDeleteStella i dedicated my baby yesterday.
hehehe..asin eh.,last to do na im dey sweet pass
ReplyDeleteCounting Knives? Trust Issues? We have all passed through this bullshit one way or another. Frenemies are everywhere and most of them are bitches.
ReplyDeleteAnyways, ma motto is and always remains that "REVENGE IS A DISH BEST SERVED COLD"
hmmm... yeah i love it. now im on the ignore me i ignore u level... i dont give a shit if i love him or not. im just tired of being treated like i mean nothing to you. #tongueout
ReplyDeletehmmmmm.been a neutral person all my life ,had lots of friends stab me .yet i pretend not to notice.
ReplyDelete
ReplyDeleteOMG...OMG...OMG
*faints*...wakes up*...faints again
I was almost feeling like I was speaking to a white woman....
@Nuvi honey...seconded!!
She is so soft-spoken,am a witness
Merry xmas evryone!!
Now back 2d post
I've been hurt by people I trusted so much,backstabbed countless times buh d ability to move on is a virtue nt evryone can boast of.There's always a small voice asking u to plough back the knife and take ur sweet revenge.
I've stopped counting knives...most times,the knife goes right back to the stabber...@least am a TESTIMONY
Madam stella all this ur gragra,deepdwn I knw u good,ppl wey get bad mouth they good
ReplyDeleteBackstabbers everywhere. I gave up trusting people a long time ago. I can't shout. I have not really been lucky with friends maybe cos I trust a lot.
ReplyDeleteI av had such experience from people I trusted, some I stuck back others I withdrew, learnt from the situation and carried on with my life. I really do not believe in do me I do u!
ReplyDeleteI use to trust a lot, till I got tired of always been backstabbed. Now I really have trust issues with people, expecially women. I don't have a lot of female friends, I prefer male platonic friendship, or I just stay to myself safer that way
ReplyDeleteì've trusted so many people in d past...biliv me i've learnt
ReplyDeleteNever stabbed anyone in the back.
ReplyDeleteIf I've been stabbed, I didn't feel it.
I live my life as best as I can without holding grudges.
I don tell una before,trust God and leave every man to be a liar!
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteIf nobody has ever betrayed you then you dont really exist.I believe that God allows us to get hurt so that we would come out stronger and we would only put our hope and trust in him.I have been hurt, betrayed, dumped and my heart sef don tire to break.lol.So I see everyone as suspects these days....I trust no one especially with my secrets! I dont have time for revenge, I simply cut off from such people. I dont give 2nd chances to backstabbers because they could be coming back to stab me deeper. I no fit shout.
ReplyDeleteWow NUVI HONEY we r xo alike..
ReplyDeleteLol I wish I know how to o that
ReplyDeleteShit happens,you just have to stand to your feet and raise head up high
ReplyDeletei don't know how to stab back but i trust people too much and they end up hurting me,na wa o
ReplyDeleteI dont ve friends so i can never be stabbed.
ReplyDeleteStella i dedicated my baby yesterday
If dere Is one thing i totally detest,its DISLOYALTY!
ReplyDeletePreach it!!!!
DeleteSame here!!! I don't even have time I cut you off straight
DeleteNever been one to stick knives and I trust people to a fault.....in fact a very dear friend pointed that out when I explained my 'knifed' ordeal to him. I just take it all in and absorb then withdraw after the 'knifing' has been done. S̶̲̥̅Æ ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ I end up friend-less......very painful tho
ReplyDeleteI have been betrayed a couple of times by people I trusted,I've never betrayed anyone,its true you can't trust people but you have to trust someone..I'd like to believe I can still trust people jus the way I expect people to trust me.someone once likened me to an angel cos of my attitude,but am far from a saint,I have got my vices..I just happen to treat people right just as I'd expect to be treated.having said this,I don't betray anyone who puts his/her trust in me.
ReplyDeleteIf you don't forgive those who err"knife you" how can our Heavenly Father forgive you when you err against him and others? Or we forget we knife God abi?
ReplyDeleteLol
I'm trying not to trust people but most times I feel the next person is just like me (free-minded) and I relax. But, sincerely, u need to learn the art of hurting back without feeling guilty...... Its just extremely hard to do....
ReplyDeleteThe first person I should stab should be the man I married!!!! Ishhhhhh
Hmmmm true talk
ReplyDeleteKnives....It hurts like hell you know....so I stay away from the knifers. ..I don't have a lot. ..I was stuck severally by a friend back in university days....but I can't possibly cross the line she crossed...sometimes I wish I could....
ReplyDeleteNo malice for MOI, you annoy MOI i shout and i move on. I don't know how to keep malice, if i don't like you or you hurt MOI deeply i totally ignore you.
ReplyDeleteGbam Daz it oo... move on. I can't be plotting to knife back etc I just cut you off. I don't hold grudges I just realize our friendship has run its course
DeleteA Lot of sense I tell u
ReplyDeleteHmmm I don't remember being stabbed by anyone I trust. I betrayed a friend once unintentionally and the guilt has never left me although she forgave me and we are still very good friends. .Am lucky to be surrounded by very lovely and trust worthy friends and family.
ReplyDeletecommenting for the very first time, please oooo pardon my english. to the matter at hand i just let go.
ReplyDeletecommenting for the very first time. yaaaaaaay. ok to the matter at hand. i just let go
ReplyDeleteI've been stabbed somtimes especially from females but wot I do in such situation is 2 use Eraser 2 clean it off my memory because their stabbing made me better and stronger. Now I'm on top, they r below.
ReplyDeletestella, where is my comment ooo. abi you want to use am drink sobo.
ReplyDeletebackstabbers full everywhere ooo. everyone is guilty of this.
stella if you like no post my comment
Hmmm my dear stella over make sense sef.have asked God to give me a good shock absorber o stella, so that nothing anyone does now gets at me.people don show me in the past o stella.If I write book hen I go sell but wetin person wan do,life goes on man.I don't trust o abeg.
ReplyDeleteKnifers, you can mistake them for saints at first, been struck severally....I am still bleeding from one sef, it hurts like hell but It's hard to strike back, truth is the scars makes me wiser and stronger.
DeleteI hate disloyalty, but I no longer care, if you like reveal things that make my heart bleed, I will get over it... Bad mouth me, I will overcome it, and i will grow above it all.
ReplyDeletePromises are made to be broken Stella, put your trust in God who is faithful. I have been wounded many times but God has healed my pains. I still have trust issues but I will one day over come that too...
My dear if I start with my story of betrayal ehnnn it wontbfiniah today but I'm this kind of person....if you hurt me once or betray me I will never forget I might still keep you around o but when I strike back ehnnn after years... Hehehehehe you will never believe its me. That's me for you. You don't hurt me and go free I'll deal with you...
ReplyDeleteWonderful !!! Me!!! I was stabbed badly by so called friends while growing up! Since then I don't even keep friends not talking of stabbing me again, mind ur own game pay pass
ReplyDeleteWhere do i start from? I was betrayed by a wolf in sheep's clothing all in d name of friendship. I was so close with dis chick to d extent D̶̲̥̅̊α† we do evtin together even in d office dey know us as 5&6 but alas b4 i could close & open my eye i had already lost my job no tanx to dis babe not knowing D̶̲̥̅̊α† all dis while she sees me as a threat. Well i learnt in a hard & painful way.
ReplyDeleteTrust God, love people! Human beings aren't without fault, ourselves included.
ReplyDeletePls pray for me that God grants my heart's desire, I'm in a career threatening situation just because ONE humanbeing's anger. I can't really go into details, but someone anyone out there please say a prayer for me for breakthrough solution. I'm a private person with very few friends and don't really like publicising things. Please pray for me as I am depressed. I know God is with me, can't just shake up these sad feelings. Sigh
ReplyDeleteMay God see u through dear
DeleteNo harm shall come ur way.
May God see u through dear
DeleteNo harm shall come ur way.
Stella, this post couldnt have come at a better time. I am so unhappy and I feel sooo betrayed.
ReplyDeleteYou can imagine me depriving myself of so many things just because I needed to give my hubby some money he requested for. He told me he urgently needed tge for some online course and he made it sound like a do or die affair that I had to empy my account
in order to get him the money.
A few days later, I discovered he had not paid for any courses but instead, had sent the money to his ex girlfriend in Naija. This is my husband of five years o!. £500 pounds o! I confronted him and he denied. I requested for the receipt for course he claimed he paid for, he is yet to produce it! What he doesnt know is that I have taken the moneygram transfer receipt I saw in his pocket.This is a man that I have always supported morally and financially. I have marked 5 birthdays with him and not once did he give me a gift nor took me out! I feel so betrayed and what this means is that his exgirlfriend will always come before me on his priority list!
He just succeeded in spoiling this Christmas for me . How do you stick it back to someone you love so so much?
So sorry about that,but please don't allow anyone not even DH to spoil your Xmas. It is well hun.
DeleteLove urself ist dear
DeleteI can feel ur pain
My heart goes out to u
May God heal u.
My goodness this is hurting me self... how selfish can one be,,? Pls let him know you found the receipt and he owes you an explanatiom. Please you guys should learn to communicate. You celebrated 5 years and not a gift or dinner date? Does he even know how you feel? Please lay it all out tell him how you feel... it's so not fair smh @men. Don't give him a dime anymore. I'm so annoyed by this
DeleteI can imagine how your feel dear....i"very felt that way but first my forgive yourself for not thinking, for putting his needs before yours and also ask God to give you the heart to forgive him... Be strong and and try loving yourself more. e-hugs
DeleteIt's obvious he doesn't love you. He is just with you for what you can offer. Do yourself a favour and dump his stupid ass a man who loves and adores you will locate you soon.
DeleteDraw the line with that man,stay it lane mk me stay my lane .biko empty account fir man? I did dt rubbish wen we just got married ,bt now,lailai can't even know Wetin dey my account talk more of clearing it out for one buffoon .the oshisco I am married to for 10 years doesny feel sch fees for our kids is impt,rather it's how to buy new moto hin know. Came up with a land wey he see fr expensive area for Lagos say mk we buy ,I don buy my own plan b land fr akute jeje,I go soon start work,mk e dey continue dey dream of 20m land fr magodo dey go.hit tis man wen it's cold ,revenge no be now,just dey watch m be cool ,it shows his ex gf is still in his life ,or he is as clueless as mine dt feels he can show off at almost 50.
DeleteHmmm... I have been stabbed that dia is no longer space 4 more. They even do it n say 2 my face dat I won't retaliate (dats just me though, no matter how hard I try, I just can't so dey see me as sm1 dey can stab at any given opportunity) I don't trust pple anymore dat is why dey say m very secretive, I have learnt my lessons d hardest way so dat I don't get stabbed in my heart.
ReplyDelete*Rmn blessed*
Hmmm, Thank God for blessing me with wonderful friends.
ReplyDeleteEvery one has been stabbed. Nobody is a stabber on this blog. People pls let's be honest with ourselves. I don't stab my friends. I love the 4 friends I have. but if u r in my way esp business/career wise, I crush u mercilessly. That's my style.
ReplyDeleteAnnon 9:03 pm, That is serious betrayal! WTF! So sorry…SMH.. He loves her.
ReplyDeleteAm still bleeding from been stabbed o. My best friend slept with my fiancee 3days after I gave birth. Now am single mother. I leave them for God cos I don't even know how to stab. Sad much
ReplyDeleteWell, I hv just been stabbed. Seeing my (ex)friends with my (ex)bfs.. I mean, dat hurts. Not 1 but 2. Means they've been eyeing those guys while I dating them. Watever tho, Awon lo mo! Mk we c as e go be!
ReplyDeleteWow deep stuff... hmm ife n'emekwa n'uwa
ReplyDeleteWhere is Bloglord? Haven't seen any comment from you lately....Merry Xmas dear....I'm sure you are having a lovely quiet time with the family...Merry Xmas everyone...
ReplyDeleteUnto the matter am now wiser, I have learnt so many lessons in life. Being stabbed by those whom I trusted eVen with my life, na epistle but in all I thank God am alive to tell the stories.
ReplyDeleteThis is one of the things that makes life sweet/go round. As far as you are a human being, people will betray you and you'll betray/disappoint as well. I don't trust people as for revenge, I try not to do it in a way that it will border me. Letting go is the best.
ReplyDeleteTrust no one, even your shadows...
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