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Ashamed or not?

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
ASHAMED OF BAE....

Dear Stella, I am a 28 year old lady, I have been dating this guy since January last year‎ and we seem to get along pretty much well. He treats me nicely, spends most of his leisure and weekends with me, tells me the nicest things ever but I noticed that he never introduces me to people, if we are out together for instance, and we run into his friends, he never acknowledges my presence to them. 

There was a day we were out with my younger sister, hour proudly introduced her to everyone and was even calling her his Babe, when I confronted him later, he said he was just trying to make my sister feel comfortable. If we gang around with my friends, he will not sit beside or opposite me, no one will guess I'm the one who is his girlfriend. Sometimes, I notice he tries to walk either in front or behind me when we go to shopping malls yet this guy is seriously talking about marriage. 

Can I go ahead and marry thus kind of man who isn't proud of me? Sometimes, I wonder what he's still doing with me. Shouldn't I just move on? He's seriously killing my self esteem.

Compliments of the season.

Shuo....maybe he is the one who has low self esteem or he is shy?do you talk him down in front people?....he might be scared of being embarrassed.

Study how you treat him when people are around and that might just be the key.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
TRICKED INTO MARRIAGE - THE CONSEQUENCES

Stella, my life is messed up.

My story: I am a married woman living single, I met my husband whilst both of us were doing our masters,though He was in a relationship with a younger lady who was in the university at that time...though it was shaky because she was in a different state.

 I got pregnant and He told me to abort but because I love him I decided to use the child to lure him into marriage so I told his family and mine and his mother being a LADY in the church and an anti-abortion insisted he paid my dowry and hence we got married but I later lost the child.

Stella, since we got married my husband has never had a normal erection, he only gets an erection when drunk (never used to drink initially) and even while drunk, he has to think of me as his ex girlfriend b4 he makes love and He calls me her name and professes undying love to her (lovemaking this period is bliss). I can't even confront him, else he stops all together.

He buys new sims everyday to call her because she blocked his real number and has refused to pick calls from him...she has moved on, my husband on the other hand, has refused to move on and let her go. We live like strangers, he seldom eat my food, he finds every way to leave the house. 

I cry everyday and wonder for how long will I keep on living like this, what do I do, how do I get to make him forget her, Stella please help me.

Awwww you must have been so in love to have worked out a plan like this to marry him.Boo,let me sit down and read comments because I would not want to tell you that you are paying the price for being smart,neither would i wanna tell you that you have laid your bed....

Let me read comments.....