NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
WHEN MOVING ON ISNT HAPPENING....
Hi Stella,
I'm addicted to the Chronicles of a Blog Reader Section, and I find most of the comments to be reasonable and sincere.
This has made me want to share my story , and see how you readers can help me.
I'm a widow in my late fifties, I lost my husband at the age of 32, I have three children ,and my last born was only a fee months when my husband died suddenly.
Luckily for me, my husband did all our properties in my name, so I had things to fall back on .
I dedicated my life to my children, I didn't even think about going into any relationship , because I still deeply loved my husband.
Now my last born is done with University , and my children want me to settle down so I wouldn't be lonely, as they hardly have my time now.
They are now trying to match make me with some older men, but I'm 56 , what am I looking for again?
Left to me , I'm not over my husband yet
Please I need to know if it's wrong for me to still be in love with someone that left this world almost 25 years ago? Am I abnormal ? Or is it spiritual . Because the thought of moving on has never crossed my mind.
Thank you Stella, your blog is truly an inspiration to many.
Awwww,he must have been a good man and the good memories he left you with is what you are still in love with,which is a good thing.....
I think your kids are just worried of leaving you lonely...why dont you give love a chance again..Not a bad idea if the intended is a good man.
''Old wine is very sweet maam''!..*wink*
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
MOTHER IN LAW INTERFERENCE CRASHES WEDDING PLANS.
It's Christmas, every body is in a joyous but for me the reverse is the case. my fiancee and I dated for 2yrs,we were so in love, he proposed and i accepted.
Both families and friends knew about us and there was no objection. We chose a date for the formal introduction and traditional marriage, and both families gave their approval.
....Then all of a sudden, my mother in-law to be invited a Pastor to pray over the marriage. Stella, this pastor ended up causing serious confusion.
The pastor after his so called prayer said that the marriage should not hold and that every arrangement should be cancelled, because the Lord said that if we get married, that the marriage will break up in future.
Stella, to my greatest surprise, my fiancee and his family accepted that prophecy and decided to do as the pastor said. My fiancee said that there is nothing he can do about it, that the whole family is against the marriage becos the man of God has spoken.
Stella, I am in tears as am typing this,I am so confused, so heart broken. This is how my relationship of 2yrs ended. Has anybody had similar experience? How do i cope with this heartbreak.
Awwwww,please come here and let me E-hug you darling ....
From your Narrative,It sounds like it was planned cos he accepted it too easily.
Maybe he developed cold feet and asked his mother to help out and she came up with the Pastor ish.
I think God has probably delivered you from a man who will not stand by you when the chips are down and a mother in love whose nose will never leave your business.you should be popping champagne.
Hmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteYes oh I agree with Stella totally@ poster2: you will get over him as time goes on, God has saved you from making a mistake. Be Strong!!!
DeleteHey Stella, it's 56 we are talking about here.
DeleteMummy, I do not agree to you remarrying again. No. What else do you want in a marriage that you haven't had, was it the love yyou melted here or was it your endurance over the year? I think your grandkids should give you the joy you desire now if nothing more attached to it. You know what I mean. Otherwise, fine to remarry.
2. Young ladies, see how you're stressing two years like..... I think you should even be happy, cos no one wanna marry and the become divorced after 2, 3,...years. If you think they played on you, feel free to consult your God, get a man of God too.
»Jealous SDKer«
Hey Stella, it's 56 we are talking about here.
DeleteMummy, I do not agree to you remarrying again. No. What else do you want in a marriage that you haven't had, was it the love yyou melted here or was it your endurance over the year? I think your grandkids should give you the joy you desire now if nothing more attached to it. You know what I mean. Otherwise, fine to remarry.
2. Young ladies, see how you're stressing two years like..... I think you should even be happy, cos no one wanna marry and the become divorced after 2, 3,...years. If you think they played on you, feel free to consult your God, get a man of God too.
»Jealous SDKer«
Poster 1: the kardashian matriarch has found love again. Please feel free to enter a relationship and maybe get married. Do come and share the testimony here. *winks*
DeletePoster 2:
Ewooo
Nne m
Be strong okay? It's two years. Thank God its not two years after marriage .
Just be strong.
I know it's not easy. It never is. Especially after planning your life with this person.
Just give yourself some weeks. You would get over him.
Don't be bitter.
See, here is a remedy.
Take out one day and CRY, CRY well, talk to God about it. CRY to God. But then, never cry again.
Remember your special, loved and appreciated.
Okay.
If you still need to talk to someone, you can always let me know so I can drop my mail.
Plenty like dear.
*hugs*
Poster 1: the kardashian matriarch has found love again. Please feel free to enter a relationship and maybe get married. Do come and share the testimony here. *winks*
DeletePoster 2:
Ewooo
Nne m
Be strong okay? It's two years. Thank God its not two years after marriage .
Just be strong.
I know it's not easy. It never is. Especially after planning your life with this person.
Just give yourself some weeks. You would get over him.
Don't be bitter.
See, here is a remedy.
Take out one day and CRY, CRY well, talk to God about it. CRY to God. But then, never cry again.
Remember your special, loved and appreciated.
Okay.
If you still need to talk to someone, you can always let me know so I can drop my mail.
Plenty like dear.
*hugs*
Excuse.me!!!!....wat do u mean that she shld not look for love anymore...u would rather let her die of loneliness or let her become a nuisance to her children's life.
DeleteMaam, pls take it from me, i beg u, try and forget daddy,he has gone to rest and im sure he will want u to be happy again especially after u have dedicated your life to raising his legacy.
Pls open ur heart to new friendship, dont even think about re-marriage now, dats a huge step...take baby steps and start with making friends with single older men too...take it easy and prayerfully watch how things go...be open minded.
You sound like a nice woman and u need to enjoy your life...u ve done a very good job on your kids and u shall live to reap the fruits of your labour.
But pls i beg u in d name of the Lord, dont end up like my MIL, she left my FIL abt the same age ur hubby passed and she never remarried. Everybody begged and spoke to her to remarry but she said NO. She's now a lonely old lady in her 60s and making life miserable for me...she has taken me as her rival and is disturbing my marital bliss...she fights with me at every visit that even my husband has ruled that she stops visiting if all she will be doing is looking for my fault everything. ...i feel sorry for her but if i dnt take care she wants me ending up as a single mother like her and God forbid...
So pls, for the sake of ur kids...mummy pls get on with life...u have mourned your hubby enough. ..give yourself the freedom to move on....it is well with u maam
N1: please give love a chance, adopt a child or and get a cute dog. Travel, read books, write a book or poetry, do the things you always wanted to do. Enjoy life !!!
DeleteNawa o. May God be with poster 2 and send to her the man of her heart
Deleteposter one eyaaaaa....I guess they are just being concerned about you...They feel you need a companion but if you are not okay with it, they should free the ish so far your enjoy your life just the way it is.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 All these pastors abi na prophets praying over marriages dey tire me oooo...Sorry dear..I hope you can be back to yourself sooner than you expect...Infact they should have done all this before the marriage preparations.
You never can tell maybe they just saved you from something..And are you sure they aint going back on this decision of theirs??
Poster two: My relationship though few months old ended the same way. Pls move on. Its well with you. But all these men of God should fear God ooo.
DeleteIf they are concerned abt ur being lonely,they should get a relation or a lil child to stay with u.cos if u could stay unmarried till now,then ur spirit is so connected to ur late hubby and u might end up making the new man unhappy and frustrated in the marriage.
DeleteYour fiance is a mummy's boy and isn't MAN enough. Move on darling. He isn't worth a sweat.
DeleteHaba!sounds more like ur soon to be husband planned it all,he did not even have a rethink about the whole thing before jumping into conclusion.it was all planned o jare.
ReplyDeleteThe F in your name is?
Delete@ Mrs Oreo, F for Fosudo
DeleteMrs oreo, d F means FAITH,shola is an adopted name,my real name is faith.
DeleteAii
DeleteNarrative2..i've never bin in support of a couple going to seek help or vision frm a pastor before they get married. In most cases,the result turn out negative. Poster,i think ur man had it all planned out because if he truly love u,he wouldn't have readily accepted the pastor's revelation or whateva. Just gather urself together and move on. Nobody is indispensable in this life. U'l definitely find someone else if not better than him.
ReplyDeleteThank you jor!
DeleteNa today dayy break when dem de go meet pastor to see vision.
All these fake pastors all over the place.
Mtchewwwwwww
Poster 1: please give love a change, you are not too old. think about companionship in old age.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: please wipe your tears, count your blessing and move on with your life. God will bring your own soul mate.
Its never too late to fall in love. Nobody is too old for love. You don't have to go all out hunting for men. Just keep an open mind. If you find someone you're feeling, go for it. Just make sure you take your time so you don't end up with someone that will change the wonderful view u were able to form(thanks to your husband ) about men and marriage....Who says it must even be an older man?
DeletePoster 2- tell your ex I said 'nigga puhleazee' .....this his format is as stale as anything . He, for reasons best known to him , decided that he didn't want to marry you after all . He felt some type of way about letting you go after getting to the level u had in your relationship.
His best bet at giving you a soft landing and exonerating himself of any type of blame was to connive with his mom and lie on God.
Nne I know it's hard but please let him go. Cry if you must, but let him go. As long as your conscience is clear, you will be alright. Try time and see.
NewBie!
Awww, I feel for the widow. Madam, I think ur children are worried u might be lonely. We all need companionship at one point or the other. U can give it a try.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: sorry about the heartbreak but then a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. A man that truly loves u will stand by u thru thick n thin. A man that relies on his mother and a prophet to make decisions affecting him has no business being in ur life.
NARRATIVE 1:you are perfectly ok.....I understand were ur children are going but I don't see any reason 4 u 2 settle down again.
DeleteNARRATIVE 2:that ur fiance is a big time mumu n an idiot.
Pls dry ur eyes n move on.
There are better days ahead..
Leave dat yeye pastor at God's mercy.
Someone better dan dat weakling of a man.
Poster 2: please in future,never and I mean never visit a pastor for prayers unless u are sure he is a genuine man of God cos they may end up making things rather complicated for you. Always ask the holy spirit to reveal to u what u need to know about any issue.
DeleteNow with that being said,if ur guys wants to go, pls let him go cos if u end up with him, a pastor can tell him to walk out of his marriage one day and he will do so. Please stay strong,the best man will locate u soon and u will forget u ever dated that mummy's boy.
*ur guy*
Delete@poster 2...so sorry dear..in everything give thanks to God... His thoughts towards us are of good and not of evil..
ReplyDeleteI know it's not easy, that which God has prepared for you is locating you this new year..and you will look back to this period of your life and you will realized the best was yet to come.
E-hugs darling it's well with your soul.
NB... If you need someone to talk to you can send me a mail
@poster 1 you can give love a try but if you are not up for it and you are not experiencing empty nest syndrome you can just do as you please... In other words do what makes you happy while putting God first.. Good luck with all your life endeavours
Poster 1,Don't stress yourself;love'll happen when it's meant to.It's good to know you don't feel any void in your life,just live everyday as it comes ma.
DeletePoster 2, It seems there's not much you can do since your man and his family's minds're made up,in a few years you may realise you dodged a bullet.
Merry christmas to each and everyone of you!
Story 2: hmmmm.Pls don't cry. It hurts right now be grateful it ended dis way. Bcos I knw what u are saying. In fact I still in marriage Bcos God said I should. Yes. When I wanted to marry my hubby about 10 years ago. Her prophet said it's better for me to give birth before marriage. I stood on my ground and I said knw. But luckily my hubby was already in love. We went ahead to marry. But what I face now is war. If not for God and the man he bless me with. This prophet and my mother inlaw. Would have scatter my home. My mother in law who every one feels she is nice is the devil in gucci suite. My dear Pls don't cry I beg u. A man dat will love u will come ,a mother in law dat will treat u like a child God will give to u. Not the one that is noisy. My hubby is married to two wives. Myself and is mother. I have left my case and cry to God. Right now I just focus on my kids and hubby. And ignore her. Pls thank God it ended dat way if not that man will turn or give u evil name dat ur man won't stand the chance to fight is mother and win.
ReplyDeleteAll those fake pastors spoiling people's joy...dat was how 2 ladies @ different times told me I was dia God-ordained husband according to their pastors/seers.I ran into a little financial difficulty n dey fled...ur pastors no see us togeda again?
ReplyDeleteLol. U have funny experiences. How is your church girl friend?
Delete@abiginwa...she don run o...don't let me talk much cos my sweetie will read dis comment...hehehe
DeleteActually,she was my fellowship/bible study partner..i was just helpin her get thru break-up wit her bf..ao d shoulder to cry on became a D to ride on?we don't know
DeleteHahahahahahah.......
DeleteLol dis bitchplis is a case lol
DeleteHahahahahahaaaaa.....
DeleteThe pastor's vision was blurr.
fake pastors everywhere....lying up and down and destroying people's relationships.
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@1st poster, your husband must have been a good man for his memories to linger strongly for 25yrs. But like your children said, you may be lonely so give the men chance or find a particular course you can focus on and champion. you can pray about it too. God has a way of sorting things out for us.
ReplyDelete@ Poster 2, I know it hurts so much now but the one that will love you as you deserve will come. You will look back to this moment and ask yourself why you ever thought this guy was your all and all. Take time to cry but remember to move on. He doesn't deserve a place in you heart cos he gave up soo easily, no offer of praying about it or anything. It's well with you, remember that God's plan for you is for good, so see this as a blessing in disguise! *hugs*
Dear poster , you might not know but soon enough you will thank God for the pastor he used to say all what has ended your relationship. Be closer to God and in due time you will smile again. As for getting over watch plenty action film to Ginger you . Lol. I love action movies
ReplyDeleteNarrative 1: Ma, if you don't want to re-marry...adopt a child or two. There are children who need love and support in orphanages. Adopt a child and have all the company you need.
ReplyDeleteNarrative 2: Hmmmmmn! The day my Ex's mother told us to go meet her pastor to pray for us by reading our palms to see our future...that day I broke up with him in my heart. How could the idiot agree to that nonsense? Me sef know say I no go marry the guy, the pastor would have said the obvious. Who wan marry mummy's boy? Nonsense. Abeg, 2years is not too much except maybe you're in your late 20s or early 30s. It's never too late to start again. Look up to Jesus for a better guy, these blacks are not loyal.
For the first time in this Blog u wrote responsible at the Middle u still spoilt it with ur insultive tongue. U are too quarrelsome
DeleteAre u sure he didn't break up cos of ur temper?...with ur kind of temperament I cld make up any excuse to leave...b4 u break my head if u no see laptop break
DeleteSince your dumb black parents were not loyal, so they decided that it was okay for you to marry your grand father's age.
DeleteYou this stupid bitch!
Outdated pussy!
Na ogun and that your oluku go kill your mama and papa, na that izobo your children go dey eat for life.
I hate you bitch! I hope you die motherfucker!!!
Na bt me and you whore!
I wish these curses back to U anon 7; 54 a million folds.
DeleteWho are U to curse whom God has not cursed???
Stella,U approved this comment?????I hope U will approve comments Jayem's when she replies in kind.
Once again @ 7; 54,May Ur go back to U and be upon and multiplied a zillion FOLD . AMEN!!!!
**drags chair and waits for an answer****
Let there be peace. Today's xmas.
DeleteAre you for real anon,back to the sender
DeleteI quite agree with Stella it was well planned. Don't worry yourself my dear God will provide your own soon. Try and forget about him and enjoy the Xmas.
ReplyDeleteNarr1: They say old age can be very lonely,you need to give love a chance,pls ma get involved in church activities, serve God with all your might, God will settle you with a good man. I salute you for the good training of your children.
DeleteNarr 2: Pele dear,God will give you beauty for ashes. Be strong.
Narr 1- Its not abnormal nor spiritual. You loved your husband so much and if you are not ready for any relationship explain to ur kids in a way they will understand. If they think u will b lonely, u can adopt a baby girl that will keep u busy n company wen u will be much older. Sometimes you dont need a man to feel less lonely. Narr2- I support aunty Stellastisis. It was pre-planned! That pastor excuse came as a back up. Your mother-in-law helped his weak son make a decision. It will be painful now but later you will see that God saved you from a mothers boy as husband and ma dear ask about mother's boys and their relationship with their partners and you will have another reason to glorify God. #Precious Ibik
ReplyDeleteLol u just made Stella's name sound lik a new disease lol stellastitis
DeleteNarr 1- Its not abnormal nor spiritual. You loved your husband so much and if you are not ready for any relationship explain to ur kids in a way they will understand. If they think u will b lonely, u can adopt a baby girl that will keep u busy n company wen u will be much older. Sometimes you dont need a man to feel less lonely. Narr2- I support aunty Stellastisis. It was pre-planned! That pastor excuse came as a back up. Your mother-in-law helped his weak son make a decision. It will be painful now but later you will see that God saved you from a mothers boy as husband and ma dear ask about mother's boys and their relationship with their partners and you will have another reason to glorify God. #Precious Ibik
ReplyDeleteSpot on...
ReplyDeleteSo sorry dear @ poster No2..
ReplyDeleteGod has a reason for everything...you might not understand it now,but. later you will come to realise..as for the pastor,i can't say if he is fake or not, because I know most real pastors see such things too..take it all in good faith
poster 1, Please in giving love another chance, dont be carried away and dont trust any man with the properties you have. some men might want to take advantage of the fact that you are alone and fake love in order to reap from where they have not sown, so please be careful. All the best!
ReplyDeleteHe is not your own but if he is, then don't worry he will come back. Take everything to God in prayer.Stay blessed.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, pls give love a chance, it's a small world, loosen up and mingle and you will fall in love again
ReplyDeletePoster 2 Every dissapointment is sometimes a blessing, it is not the end of the world. What will be will be. Move on with your life and the good lord will provide your man for you....
At poster 1, I admire the love both of you shared. Come and see me awwing and smiling in tears here. I think you should give love or even companionship a chance. The kids don't want you to be lonely; I personally feel you need real life laughter this time around. But be careful on who you want to try out. Lastly, don't use late sweetheart as a yardstick, no comparison please. *smiles* *ehugs* Merry Christmas ma.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, I agree with my double sis Stellz 101%. Haba! He didn't even cry and sick the counsel of other 'men of God' (since you people can't pray for yourselves and must be validated by MoGs) so sorry for the shock dear, God might just be helping you dodge bullet.
**seek**
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ReplyDeleteNarr1
ReplyDeleteDere s notin wrong in giving love anoda shot. U cud also get a live-in house keeper dt ll keep u company. Ur husband must av bin a very good man.
Narr2
U shud av a thanksgiving in ur church bcos God has jst delivered u frm a spineless man n a nosy n control freak MIL.
D whole tin was planned. Happened to a friend of mine too.
God will grant you a better man dt ll live n respect you.
Sorry sweet love.
Poster 2 stella don finish am,nothing to add
ReplyDelete****LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*****
@ 1st poster, you and your late hubby must have really loved each other. While it is possible not to completely get over him, i think all such memories must now be confined to a corner of your heart.
ReplyDeleteLike your children suggested, i think it'll do you a world of good to start socialising and forming other relationships.
At your age, it us very possible to meet a widowed/ divorced gentle man to keep you company.
At 2, may be the revelation runs deeper than that. Y don't you pray for God to guide you and take it from there. All da best, got to run.
Click my name for all your celebration cakes and cupcakes, cheers
Am I d 1st 2 comment?
ReplyDeleteMy dear u dodged a wrecking ball.. hugs love. Merry xmas every1 and God bless u Stella
ReplyDelete@poster 2; Really u shud be popping champagne jes like me babes! Had similar ish.. but I see it as God delivering me frm a mummy's boy, a weakling & a coward who cudnt fight for our love & wud easily giv up on me & ma kids wen d chips r down.. So am happy & pray God daily to bless me wit a man dat wud love me unconditionally!
ReplyDeletePoster 1: give love a try. U might like it finally. Your children just want the best for u. Falling in love with anoda person doesn't mean u av gotten over ur first husband. Be careful tho
ReplyDeletePoster 2: I know how you feel jare. The man might not be the right one for you. Why don't u pray over it? If he is the one for you, u guys will come back. But if he is not the one for you, maybe God just used this to help you avoid issues that might arise later. Cry if need be, but after crying, dust urself, wash your face and move on. It's not easy but you will get over it. God will be your strength.
Stella, when God blesses me, some day I will share my own story. Till then, na sitdown I dey o
My dear you should be grateful to God...for ur so called fiance to accept what the pastor said without consulting God himself or other pastor he never loved you...everything is planned ooo,broken relationship is better than broken marriage,i know it won't b easy on you,you just have to try and be strong for yourself and the next wonderful man God would bring your way
ReplyDeleteWow at bv1 ur husband was just a replica of jesus christ please when the stupid world ends I wud love u to introduce me to him in heaven,,please look for me ooo my name is kelvin happiness just ask pple way go dey line...and Ya u deserve dah happiness abeg u've tried just give anoda person a chance please ooo be careful to pick a good one at dah,,plus it shud be a union of companionship, no making babies cus if I were ur child I wudnt welcome another one to the the primary union ooo,pick a good man dah is a widower dah has kids already and also has same co-operation from his kids like urs...
ReplyDelete@bv2 sorry ooo same tin happened to phrinkles here tony broke her hrt and she has since moved on really quick, u cud see she changed her image to phrizzles..take a cue from dis..it wasn't meant to be.
Always sounding senseless. I wonder if u use ur anus to swallow eba
Delete@anon 3:15 Buh u read a senseless comment doesn't dah makes u a sensible lunatic..ur accolade is quite better than mine ,isn't it
DeleteCan't make head or tail of what dis child is saying
DeletePoster 1,Awwww....he must have bn à very good man.and no Ma'm,nothing is wrong wit u.nothing absolutely.
ReplyDeleteIts just that ur kids Want u to have company.dats all.
Its ok if u wanna stil be on ur own.buh if u get someone very Nice,it wil even be better.
Sending u warm hugs.i admire u Ma'am.
Poster 2....oh no darling! I am Soo sorry.see as my heart is breaking on ur behalf.
i know nothing i say now wil make sensé.buh if u can just try n listen à bit,u wil see.
First of all,dats good riddance to rubbish!
U Might not see it now buh for goodness sake,wot kind of "man" litters his wife to be at d altar? Yea dats wot he did!
u check am na? Is dat man deserving of à kitten,let alone à woman like u?? No way!
U see,i know someone that had dis type of expérience.
We wil call her N.dats d first letter of her name.N and her fiancée met in médical school and dated for years o.fastforward two years ago,we were invited to à wedding.she is d General' second coz.
Hmmm....The General went all out for this wedding Which was to take place in Enugu.he just travellled down to d East for this wedding.i stayed back in Lagos.
Hmmmmmm..
He set off two days before d said wedding and ofcourse as a typical Igbo man,went straight to the villa.it was christmas time lest i forget.
so D next day,he travelled down to Enugu very early in d morning cos he needed to see one or two uncles of his.
Everyone was Getting ready.he comes from à huge family and Their "togetherness' no be here o.
Everyone comes together for any celebration.
Infact i and another of d wives who was on holiday àbroad Soo regretted not coming.
Ma dear o,baby was in one of d uncle's house wen d first text message Came....that d wedding was postponed til further in d afternoon.he didnt think dere was anything.Infact he called me sef saying Thank God.cos it wil give him more time To see other people.
ma dear,around 1PM or so,d second text came! That d wedding has being cancelled!
was à shocker.as of dis time,d General had passed d hall and he said everything was in top gear.
so wen d guests got the texts dere was panic.more so Because N and her immédiate family couldnt be reached.
Finally we heard wot happened.a pastor was invited for prayers on d eve of d wedding and he said if N married D guy,d guy would die!
just like dat o! Buh d Sad thing was dat N got d news of d cancellation n subséquent break up in a text from her former fiancée.he didnt finit in person.imagine.she got à text so she and her people hurried Over to d guy's house wen he wasnt picking his phones.on Getting dere,d security said dere was à standing instruction for dem not to be let in! Thats d part that broke ma heart!
All entreaties failed.hence ,dat second text.
Buh today? She has risen above dat.she got married around dis time Last year to another médical doctor and had her baby like 6 months Ago.a daughter.
so ma dear,Its well,ok?
Dry dose tears for The God of Isreal has arisen on ur behalf.
Sending u warm hugs love.
My Officer's Wife. ie the General's Wife ur write up are always meaningful
Deleteplease teach JayEm to be more composed and stop been aggressive.
Behave like a Ladies and not a Motor Park Tout. enjoying myself now at Abuja( Transcorp Hilton with small small girls that makes me feel younger)
The Army of Chief
lady***
Delete3 peeps on this blog I like 2 read their comments. General, SisiEko n Ronalda.
DeleteWow at bv1 ur husband was just a replica of jesus christ please when the stupid world ends I wud love u to introduce me to him in heaven,,please look for me ooo my name is kelvin happiness just ask pple way go dey line...and Ya u deserve dah happiness abeg u've tried just give anoda person a chance please ooo be careful to pick a good one at dah,,plus it shud be a union of companionship, no making babies cus if I were ur child I wudnt welcome another one to the the primary union ooo,pick a good man dah is a widower dah has kids already and also has same co-operation from his kids like urs...
ReplyDelete@bv2 sorry ooo same tin happened to phrinkles here tony broke her hrt and she has since moved on really quick, u cud see she changed her image to phrizzles..take a cue from dis..it wasn't meant to be.
U a professional bastard
DeleteBetter planned work .some men can just be wicked .why can't he be so blunt .just like this blog some people are two faced ,they will go under anonymous to cause people out ,and come back to comment with their real. Blog names.
ReplyDeletePoster numero une
Give love a chance Biko ,your kids know you deserve better .,hubby is gone long time to be with lthe lord am sure his watching you from there .chooo poor kids they have grown to see that mummy seriously need a companion.
N2--cry no more my sister,every disappointment is a blessing.please, fake pastors under d voice of my comment,if you don't want God to delete you from his BBM and whatsapp contact,don't cross my path.woleva!
ReplyDeleteNo 1:what do U need a man for???My mother is younger than U,a widow too and she is enjoying her life to d fullest.
ReplyDeleteMost men out there will never measure up to Ur late husband ,Y bring Urself out?????!
If I were U,I will just look for one small boy that will scrap and polish Ur couchie and btw,am I now to believe U ve not been kpanshing since?????
Hian!!!
No2;They played U like an mgbada and it's not fair.if U ve his clothing or any of his effects...look for a spiritualist that will bring him back to U.
Hmmm....how old are U???if U are in Ur early 20's move on but late 20's carry go and bring him back.
Mama doesn't need any boy to shine anytin o..leave her abeg
DeleteI wanto believe u r joking sha....
All dos ladies dat hail u as dia godmother on dis blog...hmnn I pity dem,one of dem will follow ur advice one day n find herself sent packing from her husband's house
...and my comments just disappeared.
DeleteEzenwanyi has spoken..hahahahaha.
DeleteEzenwanyi abeg leave maam alone. Sex no be her problem. More so sex is not food.
DeleteGod bless you poster 1 for the level of grace you possess, don't mind Ezenwanyi o! Na winsh she be.
@ Bloglord True talk sex is not food
DeleteBwahahahaha........
DeleteIt is well!!
narrative no 2 jt as anty stella said ,the whole thing was planned maybe the man or his mother didnt fancy u again so they decided to bribe a so call pastor to come n do dat
ReplyDeletePoster No 2,come on you should be the most joyous person this season. Our God who would never leave nor forsake us just delivered you from impending danger n u dey here dey send narratives instead of you to organise thanksgiving.
ReplyDeletePoster 1.
ReplyDeleteI respect your true love and loyalty to your late husband.Am sure he was a good man to your and your children thats why you still cant move on.Judging from the way your children are trying to match make you with older men, am sure you are still looking sweet and fresh.lol.With all due respect maam,would your late husband do thesame for you if you had been the one who passed on?I would advice that if a good man comes your way pls dont reject him.if you still find it difficult to love again, pls adopt a little child (a boy or girl)and take care of.its working for my mum who is also a widow that wont even dream of remarrying and am sure it will work for you.whenever I go to visit her, I see her shouting on this our little boy (he is so stubborn) and it keeps the house lively. Lol.
Poster 2
That guy us tired of you so he planned with his mother and they succeeded in keeping out of the way. You should be dancing Shoki and popping champaigne by now because God has dilivered from a man who is not ready to fight for you, instead of feeling so depressed.I know its painful but try and move on.God will give you a better husband , just trust in him.
Narrative one, God bless you Maa for taking care of your kids, ma you have all right to be happy ma, pls if you wish, you can find love.
ReplyDeleteNarrative 2: Ahhh, Jesu, that is why I am against all this mountain climbing and writing names inside paper to goan see which one is your husband * my mum does the paper own*. It is either your BF and his family planned that big lie, or they ha e so much respect for the pastor.
Poster 1,please ma'am,if you don't feel like getting married,please don't o,cos it's better to be happy alone than to be with someone you won't love. Marrige shouldn't be for companionship alone. Poster 2. Thank God you didn't marry a wrong man who won't fight for you when you need him.
ReplyDelete@ Narrative 1 ... E-hugs to you.
ReplyDeleteNo, you are not abnormal and I don't think it is spiritual. Your children do not want you to be lonely that's why they are suggesting you settling down.
However, starting a relationship does not guarantee you will not be 'Lonely'.
I suggest you be an active member a group/society in your church, community etc. do some charity, start up a not for profit , etc. just try to give a bit of yourself to others and be active in your own little way. These little things makes one feel fulfilled and less lonely. And if you meet a nice man who can be a friend and a companion, then you can settle with him.
All the best
To the two narratives I say, IT IS WELL.
ReplyDeleteP1, u are very normal ma. If u are comfortable alone then don't try to see any man but all i see is ur children want u to be happy n not lonely.
ReplyDeleteP2, so sorry bout the heart break. That ur man is a boy. Ahan! How does one accept such flimsy excuse. Thank God he delivered u from future craze. Pele, brace yourself, you'd find love again.
Poster 1, madam, please free yourself and give yourself a chance to love. He was a good man, yes but that doesn't mean you should enslave yourself to the past. If the reverse was the case, the man would have moved foward a long time. Poster 2, that your mother inlaw to be has never accepted you. Better run as fast as your legs can go. If you insist and your husband later marries you, that woman will be a thorn in your flesh.
ReplyDelete2.Hmmmm Stella; the way you say this ur 'you should be popping champagne eh!!
ReplyDeleteEasier said than done.
Poster bt truth be told maybe God jst delivered you from something, it's gonna be difficult but then you gotta take it.
Yours will find you without a prophecy.
1.The sound of your children wanting to matchmake you made me smile, I dnt know why. Maybe you should give it a try.
Poster 1,
ReplyDeleteMummy, you are not abnormal. It's easier for widowers to move on than widows. Statistics a higher percentage of widows don't remarry.
I think you should engage in more social activities like clubs, church/mosque, neighbourhood, gyms, voluntary organisations etc.to ward off loneliness. If love happens along the way, give it a chance with extra caution as there are a lot of useless men looking for preys. I'd strongly advise against deliberately looking for love all over the place.
Are the older men your kids are trying to matchmake you with not married? I'd hate for you to get involved in unnecessary heartache at this stage of your life.
Poster 2,
A lot of people accord God-like reverence to their pastors. Your fiance and his mother might have gone through situations in the past where their pastor's prediction saved them from harm hence their total trust in him.
It's painful at this stage but look at it as a blessing in disguise. Since the situation is not something you can change, there's no point crying over spilled milk. Concentrate more on developing and rebranding yourself. Start planning your re-entry into the dating market.
Poster one: Stella has said it all, you are very normal , I also know of a man who is 60 yrs, a widower he lost his wife like 25yrs ago , he never married he still hasn't moved on. Don't worry focus on your grand kids when they start popping! There is a difference being alone and being lonely. Don't be lonely!!!!!!
ReplyDeletePoster two: come here let me kiss u on the cheek and give u a bet hug. Every great disappointment is a great blessing!!! You are allowed to mourn over this, it's very painful. But trust me this too shall pass. Another man will come and sweep you off ur feet in no time, that you"ll begin to see that all things work together for good to them that loves God and are called according to his purpose. Stay strong
Narr1, No age is too old for love.My mum talks good of my late father more than the father of my step sisters and it took her 10yrs to give marriage another chance which didn't workout. She will look me in the eyes and say,Chi, death do me something o.So i quite understand you...You should try dating again and not marriage.Narr2, that guy never meant to marry you.
ReplyDeletePlease the 2nd poster should kindly listen to me. God just saved you from a future broken marriage and from every indication, your fiancee hatched the plan with his mom and it is quite so 'unmanly' of him.
ReplyDeleteNow if I had listened to some prophecies made in respect to my marriage, I wouldn't be in deep regret now.Urs is still pretty early and if I did move on even after a trad that was the talk of the town, then you can and will survive it! Am still recuperating anyway and I must add it wasn't and hasn't been easy I swear
And like Stella would say, THE PAIN IS REAL
To my 56-year old sister, you're a fulfilled happy woman. My advice is for you to go with what gives you joy. Your children's worries are genuine but remember that the default impression here is a man that's as loving and caring as your late husband. Anything short of this kind of personality will be an emotional disaster!
ReplyDeleteLoneliness is a state of the mind, if you feel emotionally fulfilled with brief love you've had, pls continue. All they need to do is to make sure that you lack nothing-food, clothing, shelter. But if you still have butterflies in your tommy, you can try out a new love with one leg in, the other one to take off.
Congrats, I'm just happy to hear a story of fulfilled life like yours.
N1: remarry? No! She hasn't gotten over her hubby, trying to love again will be difficult, the tendency to compare and contrast is high, pls ma get a little child that can keep you company.
ReplyDeleteN1: So sorry dear the lord is your strength, please be strong and love again.
Planned,sealed nd stamped,move on @poster 2
ReplyDeleteWrong post to write this I know. I have been waking up for the past two days wondering why I got married to this man at all. He sleeps from am to pm. Snores like an old truck driver. He leaves the house when he wakes up and I don't see him till evening. He asks me for money and expects me to foot the bills. Hmm! Just last week he told me he wasn't even the one that paid the rent for the house we live in. Hmm! I don enter one chance.
ReplyDeleteSex used to take my mind off things but now, the sex has become crappy. He release in less than a min. And I am left high and dry. He has refused to get help for it. Did I know he was like this before I married him? No. I never has premarital sex and since he had a job, I thought perhaps I would meet him halfway. But I discovered that he is careless with money; probably bcoz I earn more, he thinks I will spend willingly in footing the bills. Hmm!
Is his name Ayo and is he fat?
Deletehmmm... different people with different problems. Poster 1, please forget re-marrying o and just get busy with church activities, charity organizations etc. My mum is 55, and she's been a widow for 5years, unlike you, my father left us with nothing. She had to toil and strive to feed, cloth, shelter and pay our fees, and there are 5 of us. She did all these without a man and she keeps doing it cuz most of us are still in school, yet trust me, the last thing on her mind is to re-marry, and before I forget, she actually got a lot of advances and proposals from men initially, even my dad's friends yet she ignored. we are her joy, her hope, her everything. she can't wait for us to start getting married and giving her grand kids. I am proud of her any day, any time.
DeletePoster 2, hmmm... it's either your man isn't man enough or he is done with you. I am also engaged and all is set, but my brother inlaw is the problem he doesn't like me and doesn't hide it. But my man stands his ground and fights for me. Trust me, any man that cannot protect his wife from his family is less of a man and you should be glad you didn't end up with such really.
Go to any bank and ask for any of their saving plans...
DeleteSome come as direct debits where a certain amount will be taken from your account for maybe 5-10yrs as long as you want..
They have different names for it..mutual benefit assurance..etc..any bank will have something that will be convenient for you..
Even if is 10k or 100k every month..you know it is for you and your kids(whom you can make next of kins)
Since that man is lazy..you need to keep a tidy sum aside, For you and your kids...
What I typed above is a practical,physical avenue to avoid being broke and sad!
Spiritually...keep praying...pay your tithe.God bless you.
I will never take your blessings through my hubby for granted! Amen
Narrative 2 : oh pls don't beat urself sweetheart yes same thing happened to me but luckily i didn't love him even tho I rili tried nd my mum kept pushing me on. I believe people that visit so called prophets are extremely insecure people and u don't need that. .. I disappeared immediately,I got over it in days so be determined and pray ,always pray! GoNarrative 2 : oh pls don't beat urself sweetheart yes same thing happened btw me and my ex but luckily i didn't love him even tho I rili tried nd my mum kept pushing me on. I believe people that visit so called prophets are very insecured people and u don't need that. .. I disappeared immediately,I got over it in days so be determined and pray ,always pray! God blessed me with the best family and in laws I could ever have gotten had I been busy fixing or mourning what was obviously leading no whr,I knew I deserved more even tho I wasn't perfect. .. so my dear move on such is life I pray the best Meets u soon.merry Christmas! God has blessed me with the best family and inlaws now. I could never have gotten to this point had I been busy fixing or mourning what was obviously leading no whr,I knew I deserved more even tho I wasn't perfect. .. so my dear move on dear u deserve more! I pray the best Meets u soon..consider this a blessing in disguise.merry Christmas!
DeleteN1. I had tears in my eyes reading your story. Do what pleases you.
ReplyDeleteN2. I want to give you a free bottle of Andre rose to pop. Pls contact me with a forwarding address.
Poster 1, I feel u and also feel your kids. Living alone can cause you to develop high blood pressure. And when u have a companion, d person Will b checking on u. I know of a widow who had a heart attack, died n began to decay n no one knew cos she lived alone. Listen to your kids *winks*
ReplyDeleteIt will make u live longer
1] Madam ur kids are soo right., not like there's something wrong with u for still clinging to ur dead husband's memory...but u should move on already nd get a companion for ur old age. Nobody is forcing u, just give love a 2nd chance nd see how it goes from there...God might surprise u lol. I Wish u luck..!
ReplyDelete2] My dear plz wipe ur tears nd stop crying ur eyes out...u should be thankin God for saving u from what would have been a life of endless meddling nd suffering. Pls get up from that bed, go take ur bath nd go to the market nd get yourself something nice. Tomorrow wen u go to church, dance like there's no tomorrow lol nd thank God for loving u so. U can even give testimony if u like sef lol...God will surprise u..!! E-hugs dear
To my sister whose season of giving just turned to season of losing, please pick up yourself. These days, pastors are used to do dirty jobs because of wrong position we allowed them to occupy in our society.
ReplyDeleteAs sister Stella said, your fiancé gave changed his mind, maybe at the instance of his family, then they used a pastor to make it look divine.
You've been rejected and dejected, don't reject yourself, look up, there are better days ahead. Thank God for you it's just 2yrs and not 20yrs.
Your fiancé and not fiancee #correction
@Narrative 1... True its hard to move on but your children are right..wherever your late hubby is now, he will definitely be proudd of you.. No harm in trying again.. Best of Luck
ReplyDeleteNarrative one. Pls give love a second chance and trust me when I say u ain't insane if u still av feelings for ur dead husband.... download and listen to dark paradise by Lana del rey.
ReplyDeleteNarrative two, as Stella said u shud be jumping up cos trust me u av just been saved, the pastor never mentioned why the marriage wud break up. It's very possible u wud run for ur life at the end...
You financè doesn't love you anymore. He's just looking for a way outta d lock..lol.
ReplyDeleteWait for your man hun
Wow. Is it easy to find a man like ur late hubby?. Before u go into any relationship,pls tidy your assets so that any man that comes in will not play with your property o.
ReplyDeleteIf u can,get someone richer and older. Pls no younger guy cos he will steal from you and may end up hurting you. Not mentioning the hot n tiring coital sessions which you may not want at this time.
No 2,na plan o.
Let me tell u,most of this pastors cannot see past their noses. It is embarrasing and hurting now but later,you will take God for taking this sissy of a man away from you.
JAHGUIDE
Irene, you spoke my thoughts out.
DeletePoster#1, in addition, avoid a man with excess baggage, and probably transfer all your assets in your children's name.
Poster #2, Be thankful. Though, it hurts so bad, time will heal your broken heart.
Poster 2: My dear, this was exactly my predicament a few years ago. I thought I was going to die. Didn't know where to start from, didn't know what to tell my folks. It was really embarrassing for me to tell my folks that he called off our engagement because a certain pastor had told him that I was not his wife and that the marriage will not last if we go ahead with our plans. I hated him for stringing me along for 2 years, making himself part of my family's life and making me build my world around him. I felt if he knew he was one who allows the so called pastors to tell him how to run his life, he should have consulted the pastor before he persistently asked me out for close to 3 years. Trust me, it wasn't easy. Today, I can't agree more with him that I was not his wife, cos I am married to the most amazing man in my books. Gradually, I am letting go of all the anger and hatred that I had for my ex.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, I know that it will not make sense to you now when you hear that it is for the best but just hold on to God, believe and he will definitely give you your own man. It's well with you.
Narrative no 1 pls ur kids are rite try and move on. Narrative no2 cyber hugs for u. Pls that guy is not worth ur tears. Tank God it had 2 happen this way. And I prophecy onto your life that by this time nxt year you shall be in your husband's house. A man that wil love and cherish you.
ReplyDeleteCompliments of the season anty stella
N1, I so love you because from your story you are a great mum and God Almighty will bless you for that. Now madam i can understand why you are yet to get over your late hubby, he was a great guy and may his gentle soul rest in perfect peace Amen. You say you are 56 only and you already feel old? in 2014? Madam i beg leave that thing! lol. My dear that is one of the reasons i don't joke with exercise. lol. At the rate i am going even at 80 i go still be like correct babe *smiles* Please dear madam ENJOY your life, you are human and if you did all you said you did for your children? i wish you a great, honest , kind, God fearing, humble man. N2, Your guy planed it. They guy no want again.
ReplyDeleteI agree with stella
ReplyDeleteI have never been easy with this pastor things,i don't have time for all that
Poster2 please try and move on,God will surely provide you with a better man
ReplyDeleteOh for u who is hurt ...its ok for u to shed som tears...It cleanses the soul...He is not ur husband
ReplyDeleteMaam, I must commend you for being a strong woman. There is nothing bad in given love another chance, but please try not to compare the person to your late husband and be careful with who you will be involved with, make sure your children know this person and try not to hide too much from them just in case.
ReplyDeleteI pray that God give you the insight to choose the right companion. Have a lovely Christmas.
Anon B
If anyone comes to our house right now, you would think we are in March, but its all good, there is life and so there is hope. I tried to get something from the Santa giveaway but I didn't get. Merry Christmas to us all.
ReplyDeleteThings are really happening oooo mummy please give love a second chance bike am down on my knees. ...nar 2) babe go to any nearby church for a thanks giving, I know it's hard but u will definitely rejoice later.
ReplyDeleteCHICK FELIX
BItchplis Abeg leave my ezewanyi oh ,make person go put hand for fire na because ezewanyi say so.if rain start them no dey tell blind man say rain dey fall when the rain drop from him body him go find him way.
ReplyDelete@Poster One, weldone ma for seeing your children through to this age. God wl bless you. I feel you really do not need to re-marry now since u hadn't done that since. If your have good in-laws, u can shuttle their houses once in a while or any one of them who is too busy can keep her kids with you.
ReplyDelete@Poster two: I'm so sorry. Pls be strong, visit friends, fun places, and don't forget to worship in God's presence! It has a way of relieving one of tension. Just believe God has used that to avert some impending danger(s) in your marriage to that guy.
For all those pastors/prophets that say what they do not see, hmmm.... They should remember there is a reward for everything we do!
I meant the guy. N1, madam at 56 no need to remarry but you need a great lover who you can go for dinner, lunch and travel with. Body no be firewood. He also has to be good in bed.
ReplyDeletePoster no 1, maam please listen to your children and give love and marriage a chance again.
ReplyDeletePoster no 2, it was all planned work, please forget about that mama puppet of a fiancé and move on with your life.
#1 IF she doesn't want, make una leave her.
ReplyDelete#2 God will provide a better one that your ex will be jealous of.
No 1: Please do not scatter your life with what you call "love". You already have love; if you love God and are loved by him and the love that you have experienced from your husband. ADOPT KIDS; so many kids are looking for homes. Raise them and earn the blessings and fulfillment from it.
ReplyDeleteNo 2. Please do as Stella has told you. Did the pastor tell you that you were not supposed to "open legs" before marriage? Looks like some pastors have abandoned the work they should do and become mediums. If you kept yourself pure; love will find you but if not, this is an opportunity to take stock and repent and seek God. God bless you.
Poster No 2: stella has said it all. Just move on. God will give you a man that will cherish u.
ReplyDeleteN 2: Gbam Stella has said it all, the guy is a weak man if u get married he will accept whatever anyone says so pls pop champagne ps the mother in law seems like wahala trust me u don't need it.
ReplyDeleteNarrative number 2, I am married into that kind of family that believe they have to ask their pastor everything.... when my guy proposed and we were supposed to introduce our families formally, I asked him to tell his mom to go do her prayer/findings cos I didn't want to inform the whole world am getting married then their yeye pastor comes up with stories that tickles the bum...:)
ReplyDeleteanyways, their pastor approved their "proposal "and we went ahead and got married.
Just last year, we went to their village and my SIL wanted to take her brother for prayers nah so them carry me along o.. pastor stated seeing "triple". He even asked me to excuse them as his vision strong reach.... after that me and hubby had a fight and I warned him sternly never to take me to their fake pastor wey fit see the future but they can't see a correct cure for CANCER, EBOLa or HIV.....
hian they are all fake... if he was meant for you, he will come back.
My dear,God used the pastor to open your eyes in a way .Your supposed fiancee wouldnt have stood by you in trying times . You'll be fine, its just a matter of time.
ReplyDeleteTGW your story really touched MOI. SMH.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: be careful! Let d man not come n bring enemity in ur home. Ur Children mite get jealous along d way o.. Jx b careful
ReplyDeletePoster 2: there's a reason 4 every situation u find urself in.. U mite not know now bt wt time u ll.. DNt bother urself! God will give u D grace 2 bear it. Ur Own ll surely com
Narrator 1, your children mean well and are concerned about you and their future. They are busy with their lives now and will get married someday.
ReplyDeleteWhen you don't have anybody to concentrate your time and energy on, you will begin to interfere in their lives out of loneliness, not intentionally. This might cause resentment in them, and their loyalty will be divided between you and their own family.
Don't buy 'coffin' because you want a companion, open your eyes well, and search for a man that is healthy, and does not have troublesome children, and planned for his old age, or else, you will end up fending, caring and nursing a poor sick companion, which you will dislike and resent your children for pushing you into re-marrying.
So, your marriage should not necessarily have to be out of love, but solely to have somebody to talk with, joke with, and be with you when you fall sick and take the boredom away. You can continue to maintain your name, because of your assets. A proper legal document should be drawn out with plenty of witnesses to avoid stories that touch the heart in future.
Narrator 2, I smell something fishy. Why now? I dislike such pastors! They cannot find solution to BH, sickness and destruction, but to forsee such nonsense! Are their own marriages intact or are they happy in it? Your man bailed out too fast! Like he was waiting for an escape route, and he quickly grasped this flimsy excuse! Why didn't he check it out before proposing to you and making marriage plans? Take heart. cyber-hug.
Poster 2 : I feel your pain, I have had personal experience would have been married this december but I also had the pastor effect but as everyone said their is a reason for everything. God is saving you for the best. Live, Love & Enjoy. God bless you.
ReplyDeleteNarrative @: There is nothing to be sad about. It is obvious that the man doesn't love you enough to fight for us. Leave your heart open and you will be walking down the aisle with the love of your life soonest. E-Hugs sisto
ReplyDeletePoster 1 just take kia ur kids are just caring and mindful of dia mother.Follow your heart u are d one dat wil live wit d man not dem if u feel u are ok alone pls stay o.Poster 2 Move on wit your life dont mind them a better man is waitin for u out there.
ReplyDeleteDear poster 2,
ReplyDeleteAt present it may feel that your world is come to an end, give it time you will be fine. Please note that the pastor is a blessing in disguise, as God used him to safe you from unforeseen misery later on in the marriage had the wedding gone ahead. Finally if it is not planned, by the time the pastor finishes with him and his mother, they will turn on one another.
Narrative 2 : oh pls don't beat urself sweetheart yes same thing happened to me but luckily i didn't love him even tho I rili tried nd my mum kept pushing me on. I believe people that visit so called prophets are extremely insecure people and u don't need that. .. I disappeared immediately,I got over it in days so be determined and pray ,always pray! GoNarrative 2 : oh pls don't beat urself sweetheart yes same thing happened btw me and my ex but luckily i didn't love him even tho I rili tried nd my mum kept pushing me on. I believe people that visit so called prophets are very insecured people and u don't need that. .. I disappeared immediately,I got over it in days so be determined and pray ,always pray! God blessed me with the best family and in laws I could ever have gotten had I been busy fixing or mourning what was obviously leading no whr,I knew I deserved more even tho I wasn't perfect. .. so my dear move on such is life I pray the best Meets u soon.merry Christmas! God has blessed me with the best family and inlaws now. I could never have gotten to this point had I been busy fixing or mourning what was obviously leading no whr,I knew I deserved more than that even tho I wasn't perfect. .. so my dear move on dear u deserve more! I pray the best Meets u soon.merry Christmas!
ReplyDeleteNarrative 2 : oh pls don't beat urself sweetheart yes same thing happened to me but luckily i didn't love him even tho I rili tried nd my mum kept pushing me on. I believe people that visit so called prophets are extremely insecure people and u don't need that. .. I disappeared immediately,I got over it in days so be determined and pray ,always pray! GoNarrative 2 : oh pls don't beat urself sweetheart yes same thing happened btw me and my ex but luckily i didn't love him even tho I rili tried nd my mum kept pushing me on. I believe people that visit so called prophets are very insecured people and u don't need that. .. I disappeared immediately,I got over it in days so be determined and pray ,always pray! God blessed me with the best family and in laws I could ever have gotten had I been busy fixing or mourning what was obviously leading no whr,I knew I deserved more even tho I wasn't perfect. .. so my dear move on such is life I pray the best Meets u soon.merry Christmas! God has blessed me with the best family and inlaws now. I could never have gotten to this point had I been busy fixing or mourning what was obviously leading no whr,I knew I deserved more even tho I wasn't perfect. .. so my dear move on dear u deserve more! I pray the best Meets u soon.merry Christmas!
ReplyDeleteNarrative 2 : oh pls don't beat urself sweetheart yes same thing happened to me but luckily i didn't love him even tho I rili tried nd my mum kept pushing me on. I believe people that visit so called prophets are extremely insecure people and u don't need that. .. I disappeared immediately,I got over it in days so be determined and pray ,always pray! GoNarrative 2 : oh pls don't beat urself sweetheart yes same thing happened btw me and my ex but luckily i didn't love him even tho I rili tried nd my mum kept pushing me on. I believe people that visit so called prophets are very insecured people and u don't need that. .. I disappeared immediately,I got over it in days so be determined and pray ,always pray! God blessed me with the best family and in laws I could ever have gotten had I been busy fixing or mourning what was obviously leading no whr,I knew I deserved more even tho I wasn't perfect. .. so my dear move on such is life I pray the best Meets u soon.merry Christmas! God has blessed me with the best family and inlaws now. I could never have gotten to this point had I been busy fixing or mourning what was obviously leading no whr,I knew I deserved more even tho I wasn't perfect. .. so my dear move on dear u deserve more! I pray the best Meets u soon..consider this a blessing in disguise.merry Christmas!
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(17)Kissing Spell
(18)Remove Sickness Spells
(19)ELECTION WINNING SPELLS
(20)SUCCESS IN EXAMS SPELLS
(21) Charm to get who to love you.
(22)Business spell.
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