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HAPPY BIRTHDAY BLOG VISITOR BABY PRECIOUS
Dear Stella,
This is MoSays of Kidsarena.
My baby girl clocks 1 today and I am so grateful to God. Thank you Baba God o.
Truth is DH and I were so worried that she may be 'special child' because of the surgery i had while i was pregnant, the drugs and shots taken, we just braved it and put everything in God's hand and He has never failed us.
This is MoSays of Kidsarena.
My baby girl clocks 1 today and I am so grateful to God. Thank you Baba God o.
Truth is DH and I were so worried that she may be 'special child' because of the surgery i had while i was pregnant, the drugs and shots taken, we just braved it and put everything in God's hand and He has never failed us.
Precious who is an amazing child, she beat the odds, started walking at 9.5months, loves to dance like mummy and is such a happy baby girl.
pray that all those looking for the fruit of the womb will receive their miracle this December and enter the new year with joy and happiness, IJN. AMEN
Also those who already have children, may God bless them for us and protect them from evil, they will always be a source of pride and will be alive to see their great-greatgrandchildren, like my greatgrandma who is still alive and well.
God bless you Stella. God bless you blogfam. Olivia i see you(godmom), Baylow- i sight u. TGW i dey hail oo.
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THIS LIFE!....READ THIS MIRACLE.
Stella o,how u dey? I know it may sound cliche,but I'm such a huge fan and may God's blessings continue to dwell in your home.Your blog has been a source of joy to me.I always look forward to reading it,especially in-house news and coded gists,as per amebo wey I be,hehehehehe.
Anyway,I just wanted to share my friend's joy with you and BVs,to encourage people not to misuse any opportunity.A very good friend of mine who is a lawyer just like me,has been unemployed for some time now.He use to work in a law firm but the pay was really small and he felt he deserved better,which I also agree.Stella,he made a 2.1 both in law school and uni.
He's been applying to law firms and I even sent him the job advert on this blog for lawyers.when he applied,the person told him that he was over qualified and that the pay is also small.Anyway,he kept on applying,he was invited for aptitude tests and interviews,two law firms got back to him and told him he made it,but that they didn't have any vacancy yet,so he should wait till next year.There was this particualar day he went to visit a frnd of his,after he wrote an aptitude test,the friend got a mail to come write a test in a very reputable law firm.He asked the friend if he could come with him,even though he didn't apply to that firm.
The friend answered in the affirmative and told him to come along with his CV.He called me to tell me about it,and I was a bit skeptical cuz it was too impromptu,besides I felt he had stressed himself enough.But he managed to convince me and said that there was no harm in trial.He went the following day to write the test.On getting there,he was asked if he was invited and he said no,but told them he had his CV,after they saw his CV,he was asked to write the test too.Stells,according to him,the test no be here o...they had to write it for two days,to tell you how difficult it was.After some time,he was invited for an interview,including his friend.Just last week,his friend called him to ask if he received any mail from the firm,which he said no.
The friend said he received a mail from them,telling him he didn't make it.One of the girls that also wrote the test and was also interviewed called him and said she didn't make it either.We were a bit scared,and we kept praying about it.His friend called him again on Monday to ask if he had heard from the firm,and he said he hadn't,the friend even thought he was lying cuz he felt he also didn't make it and didn't want to tell him.Stella guess what???? The firm called him this afternoon to tell him he had gotten the job!!!! They didn't send a mail o,they called,and it was the principal partner himself that called him o.Told him to come anytime next week to collect his appointment letter!! Choi!! Stella,I'm overjoyed,words can't even begin to describe how I feel.
To think that he never even applied to the firm o,just that he took a step a faith.Abeg,help me share this in your in-house news to encourage some BVs that God still answers prayers o.His friend that applied didn't make it o,this life eh
How did his other friend take the news?
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TESTIMONY/PERMANENT CURE FOR HALITOSIS.
Hi Stella,
I have been meaning to send this email since this month. I am making sure I send it as the month ends. Well, I read your blog all the time and it has kept me sane in my kind of job.
My big praise is that I learned to say midnight prayers from your blog. It works wonders. I had prayer requests I needed answers to a couple of months ago. I was almost getting depressed about them. Well, some of your blog commenters suggested to someone else to say midnight prayers. There is no particular way or style to say prayers. Just sing, thank God, and lay out your requests to Him. Relate and communicate with Him exactly the way you feel. You do not have to use prayer books as they do not help you to develop a personal relationship with God. Praise God; my heart desires and prayer requests were granted early this month. I am overjoyed.
For bad breath, I have had this problem for over 15years but it became more worrying in the last 10 years because of the nature of my job. I have to interact with people at close proximity and i felt bad each time people avoid me because of my horrible breath. I did all sorts of things to minimize my bad breath to no avail. I brushed twice daily; used mouth wash; floss twice a day but nothing worked. I visit my dentist/hygienist twice a year fro cleaning. All they could say was that I was doing all the necessary things. I have perfect dentition, I eat right, I am not overweight, I exercise but nothing worked. I even had to visit an ENT doctor and he didn't find anything wrong. I consulted a Walmart pharmacist and he asked me to take probiotics and that didn't work either. Stella I extracted my 4 wisdom teeth at the age of 31 and it did not stop the bad breath.
Sometime this year, I stumbled upon a research by two Nigerian high school students (can't remember their names) and they discovered eating WALNUT help cure halitosis. They explained their research in detail. Stella, I did not waste anytime buying walnuts. The thing works like magic. Just eat organic, raw walnuts and your days/years of halitosis will become a history.
Thought I would share this testimony. I have the freshest breath in the world. My confidence and self esteem is on another level. People don't shy away from coming close to me.
Please share this will all even your dentist.
NB: Could you put up a picture of walnut for those in Nigeria so they can buy. Not sure the Nigerian names for it but even the young researchers called it WALNUT.
Praise God, Alleliuah
Walnut?
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RE:FARTING STOMACH POSTER REPLIES
Good morning Stella. Hope you are fine?
Thanks for posting my story on your blog the last time. I really learnt a lot from BVs advices and i'm better for it now.
After that day,i disciplined myself and cut out all fresh milk products and guess what? My stomach noise has drastically reduced and I believe it will stop if I continue. It hasn't been easy at all, it has been difficult to keep to cos I enjoy fresh milk and I was told it will help me maintain my body size as well, instead of powdered milk, but for my good, I had to stop. Thank you very much and many thanks to all BVs for their candid advice. BVs can really crack someone up sha. Some were even saying it's my village witches. Those comments made me laugh till my sides ached. Hahahahaaha,lol. I'm even still laughing right now as I remember it. You and all BVs rock!!!!! Awesome family, caring for one another. God bless you all. Love you to the bones. *kissess* *hugs*
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ANY BLOG VISITOR HEADED TO DUBAI THIS XMAS?
Hello Stella,
Please are there any SDKERS going to Dubai for the christmas holiday? I booked a holiday (alone since I am single) but to avoid boredom, it will be nice to have a holiday buddy. Female or male young or old...
Well I can't thank you enough for your blog it's absolUtely amazing.
Please if you are going to Dubai or are in Dubai and wanna meet her,drop a way that she can contact you.
Why did you book a trip alone if you didnt wanna be alone?I dont understand!
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RE - 9MONTH OLD WHO PLAYS WITH HIS BLOKOS
I really appreciate you for posting my story. My appreciation also goes to those who gave meaningfuI advise. It was such a relief knowing most boys his age do the same thing. I had so much fun reading the comments, God I laughed so hard! Crazy people dey this blog oo, Lol!
Lastly to those who misunderstood the whole thing abeg make God give una spirit of comprehension OK. I NEVER said my baby was masturbating, I only asked that if he keeps on touching his pee pee will it LEAD him to the ACT someday? Once again Thanks Stella, may God bless and continue to enlarge your coast. Love you.
Mwaaaah!!!
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Good day stella...I hope you are good.yesterday I realize this blog is something else.I met a BV yesterday...wow she is a beautiful woman and she too can comment on this post if am beautiful as well.we started gisting like we have known each other for ages.....hhahahahahaha .
You can't believe she stays down my street..few houses from mine.well we exchanged contact and I guess I just found myself a friend .thanks to SDK..eh let me do small amebo..she wil soon give birth oo and I will be the one to blow the whistle here on SDK...hahahahahah Stella you plenty much..she is an SDK addict and her own pass mine oooo.
LOL...enjoy
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FREE BRIDAL MAKE OVER FOR TWO BRIDES
Good morning Stella, I woke up this morning feeling so happy and grateful to God for all he has done for me, I can't begin to explain his grace and love towards me. I'm a regular blog visitor though most times I feel too lazy to comment but trust me I found my solace in this blog, for some time now i have been reading stories of people impacting on other people's lives so now I also want to render my own little help.
I'm a makeup artist and I want to do a free bridal makeover for two brides on this blog for both their traditional and white wedding and note that the bride might be a friend, sister etc to the blog visitor too.
The brides must reside in lagos and this offer lasts till the second weekend in January 2015. Anyone interested should send a message to my email address aleezascott@gmail.com. thanks.
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RE - MARRYING A DIVORCED MAN WITH THREE KIDS
Thank you so much for posting my story.. I have read it all both those that claim to know me and how I am twisting my story Lol.. I'm getting to know him but sometimes Love is not enough i dont want to be an innocent target to both his children and his ex in the future.
I have already taken steps back I no do again!.
Got some good advice from here and for that I'm truly grateful but Steloo!! This your blog is bad ass within how many hours someone almost decoded this encrypted gist "Mystery xoxo"I would love to make contact with her or him cos she has at least 75% of this gist correct if thats possible but if not.. Oh well thanks sooooooo much again.
Kind regards.
For real?Make I go read her comment again.....Any Amebo interested in reading this is what XOXO said should click on THIS NARRATIVE
XOXO please drop a means she can contact you on if you are interested in meeting her.
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STELLASGROOVE .....SINGLES MINGLE FEEDBACK
Hello to all the per takers of the singles mingle.I did say that pilot edition was a test run.....I am curious to know if people actually connected and how it is going.if you are not comfy talking under your skin,you can go on anonymous mode and gist us how far?
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BLOG VISITOR LARA PEPEREMPE IN TEARS ..AWWWWW
Her explanation underneath.....
Exactly two years now, the very day I knew I wouldn't be marrying the love of my life.... Life is really not fair my pple. Let me tell y'all our story...
I met him in my 3rd year at d uni, he was a working class guy and has a well paying job. We started dating proper, 6 months after our first meeting because I didn't like him at first but his awesomeness could make a lesbian reconsider!
I didn't want us to have sex n he agreed but the love fire kept burning soteyI felt I owe him so much. I wholeheartedly gave him my virginity on his 32nd bday(am sooo glad I let him, as far as I know, Shinaayomi, I know you would read this; you deserve much more)
I really can't go into details, he's such a great guy. If I start telling you how awesome Shinaayomi is, we won't leave here today.
Ok, to the real ish. I never did a genotype test because all my siblings had done n are all AA so I assumed I was AA, until one day we rushed my nephew to the hospital, were told he needed blood urgently so I had to donate. They did d normal routine of running tests and I jokingly asked the lab guy to run genotype test as well. Lo and behold, I am AS! My world crashed as my guy is AS too. We already planning our wedding, I actually slowed down the process because I wanted to get a job first.
We went for counselling from pastors to marriage counsellors to doctors, we agreed to break up. This was in December, 2012. Up until this morning, the break up hasn't happened. We stopped having sex, last year but that hasn't stopped my guy from calling, coming to my house n taking me out. Fine, we do not have suitable partners yet but I believe being unable to move on and let go of each other is the "causer".
Two months ago, he got me a very nice car, it came as a surprise tho. I was overwhelmed, I couldn't control the tears, I cried n cried. He took me into my room and you know what! We had a mind-blowing sex. I had been celibate for over a year and I tell you, that sex came him handy.
Afterwards, I stopped taking his calls. One Sunday morning, he came to my house looking so sick. He's been at the hospital on admission, his BP was very high. He knelt down n started wailing , he said I shouldn't leave him. He's gonna die if I ever ignore his calls again. He made me promise to be there for him till we find suitable partners. Stella, he's so distraught.
I told him, he has to stop us from having sex if he still wants me to be taking his calls. I stopped then because of the mind-blowing sex, it shouldn't be. He swore on his father's grave, never to allow that repeat itself.
How do we move on, BVS please pray for him. I need him to get a suitable girl asap. He's finding it difficult to love someone else, I'm fed up. Stella pls help me post this. Sorry for d epistle n prolly typos, my eyes are heavy n cloggy. I hope this helps!
I met him in my 3rd year at d uni, he was a working class guy and has a well paying job. We started dating proper, 6 months after our first meeting because I didn't like him at first but his awesomeness could make a lesbian reconsider!
I didn't want us to have sex n he agreed but the love fire kept burning soteyI felt I owe him so much. I wholeheartedly gave him my virginity on his 32nd bday(am sooo glad I let him, as far as I know, Shinaayomi, I know you would read this; you deserve much more)
I really can't go into details, he's such a great guy. If I start telling you how awesome Shinaayomi is, we won't leave here today.
Ok, to the real ish. I never did a genotype test because all my siblings had done n are all AA so I assumed I was AA, until one day we rushed my nephew to the hospital, were told he needed blood urgently so I had to donate. They did d normal routine of running tests and I jokingly asked the lab guy to run genotype test as well. Lo and behold, I am AS! My world crashed as my guy is AS too. We already planning our wedding, I actually slowed down the process because I wanted to get a job first.
We went for counselling from pastors to marriage counsellors to doctors, we agreed to break up. This was in December, 2012. Up until this morning, the break up hasn't happened. We stopped having sex, last year but that hasn't stopped my guy from calling, coming to my house n taking me out. Fine, we do not have suitable partners yet but I believe being unable to move on and let go of each other is the "causer".
Two months ago, he got me a very nice car, it came as a surprise tho. I was overwhelmed, I couldn't control the tears, I cried n cried. He took me into my room and you know what! We had a mind-blowing sex. I had been celibate for over a year and I tell you, that sex came him handy.
Afterwards, I stopped taking his calls. One Sunday morning, he came to my house looking so sick. He's been at the hospital on admission, his BP was very high. He knelt down n started wailing , he said I shouldn't leave him. He's gonna die if I ever ignore his calls again. He made me promise to be there for him till we find suitable partners. Stella, he's so distraught.
I told him, he has to stop us from having sex if he still wants me to be taking his calls. I stopped then because of the mind-blowing sex, it shouldn't be. He swore on his father's grave, never to allow that repeat itself.
How do we move on, BVS please pray for him. I need him to get a suitable girl asap. He's finding it difficult to love someone else, I'm fed up. Stella pls help me post this. Sorry for d epistle n prolly typos, my eyes are heavy n cloggy. I hope this helps!
Lara maybe you should introduce him to one of the female BVs looking for a partner here who is AA.I salute you for not going ahead,better to cry now than later.I also urge you to do the test at several places to be sure you are as.
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HAPPY 66TH BIRTHDAY TO BLOG VISITOR NENNY'S MUM
Good morning Stebabes, I am a member of the SDK (BV) and a great fan of yours. I comment as 'anon', as nenny and sometimes i just enjoy silent reading.
I introduced my friends and family members to 'our blog'.
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My mum who is also a BV is 66 today.Please help me wish her a happy birthday! Will send you some of pictures when she is busy reading the blog.
We her children ,often use her to joke, always on the net.
I so love my mama,Darling Stella please help me send her a shout out.
Many Thanks.
Nenny
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RE- DUMPED WITHOUT A REASON CLICK HERE
Dear BV who complained her 2years old relationship about to pack up and doesn't know how to face her family and people she has introduced him to, please send me your number through Stella, will contact you. I have been through this kind of situation before, will give you tips on how to go about it.
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AWWWWWW *SIDE EYES*
You inspire me Mrs Stella Dimoko Korkus. Your kindness, your drive, the things you do and say. Please keep on doing it.
I'm a die-hard fan of your blog. You can do no wrong in my eyes.
Have a great week.
LMAO..Please try not to lick my ass and tell me when I go wrong okay?I am only human and not perfect.
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PERFECT NAILS AND LASHES GIVE AWAY
Hi Stella, my name is Blessing, a very regular blog visitor. I'm a nail and eye lashes specialist. I comment under anonymous but recently got a blog id (Perfect Nails & Lashes). I would love to fix the nails of 1 blog visitor living within Gbagada area of Lagos state for free. I also render home services within Lagos State.Anyone interested in the nail fixing giveaway
should send a mail to perfectnailsnlashes@gmail.com
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Have a great Sunday
That baby is so cute! Happy birthday 2 baby precious...coming back to comment!
ReplyDeleteCute cute baby!!! Stella I got a number of hits as per singles mingle, but I'm not feeling any of them so I didn't bother to respond. Thanks but I won't be doing this again
DeleteId be in dubai from the 6th. When are u there for ??
DeleteSweet cute kitkit baby, fine like mama. May God keep u for greater days ahead. :*
DeleteLara, sorry bout what you're going through, are u sure u can stand seeing a man u love with another woman?
Nenny, big birthday shout out to ur mum, God bless yall.
To the givers, God bless yall. Stella kisses.
God is good.
DeleteI will get there 25th. Will you still be there by then?
DeleteHi sdkers,pls I have a question,I have guys asking me out,but not going out with any of them.
DeleteBecause they are always like come and greet me at home.and am not so comfy meeting with people at their house cos I have been almost raped before.
I am no virgin but been celibate for almost 5yrs.
My question is how do u answer such men without sounding childish-telling them u like ur meeting to be outdoor till maybe a point u trust them and can vouch for their personality.
SDK pls post this.
Thanks
SDKSPH
The lady with the AS boo - I understand where you are coming from.
DeleteFirstly, in this 21st Century, its very important to know yourself in n out like Genotype etc.
I knew I was AS from primary school n whenever I make a new male friend (even just casual o), I ask him his genotype, just incase baby wants to start catching feelings.
Nway, if you really think that this brother God's will for you(please pray fervently) then leave it all to HIM. He's done much more difficult things.
My grandparents were both AS but none of their 8 children were SS.
A lady was tired of losing suitors due to 'AS' thingy. She prayed n fasted for God to change it , 3 months later, after sevral tests, she turned out to be AA!
See eh, tell God what you want, n He'l fix it!
Lara, but if the boo isn't 'The One' prepared for you, calm down. Don't fret, this is the worst u will feel, it definitely gets better.
DeleteYour own would definitely come
perfect nails pls can u work after 5 pm and can u come 2 Ajao estate?
DeleteLara if u are in abuja, go to pathcare opposite banex plaza so they take ur blood sample to south africa for a detailed test...they would tell u also a dominant homon or wateva if its AS...they're d best in abj...even National hospital refer people to d place...same tin happened to my elder sis too and its been hard for her...Goodluck dear...
DeleteYeeaaa, I'm in Gbagada and since I put to bed, I have totally neglected my nails....well, I need to start taking care of them again.... Oya, blessing, where art thou?
DeleteLara, kisses but you both need to separate o....have the test done at two more places to be sure.
I had always thought I was o +ve til I did that test during antenatal and found out I was a +ve.
I was just staring at dat baby pictures with mouth wide open...OmG!She is sooooo beautiful!
Delete@Sdkph I believe any man that ask you to meet him at home at first date is no gentle man and he is irresponsible. I know is a typical Naija thing to sleep with a lady the first day, but your answer should be NO without even asking BV's . It depends on how you present yourself as a lady maybe you are too forward asking for money that's reason guys sometimes ask you to come home if you want help. Any guy you are getting to know that ask you to come home at first date, tell him you don't play such game ask such guy what happens to restaurants and bars. It's simple, sometimes you need to be rude to people just to get your message across. You are prone to rape or casual sex when you make such visit if you still want to be celibate.
DeleteAwww... such a touching story from Lara! I pray you both are able to move on. Ije love....! #sigh
DeleteHappy birthday to Nneny's mum. HBD to the little cutie pie as well. Live long and prosper.
As always, kudos to all the givers.
Oh sorry id av left by then. Have u got tours planned in dubai? Thats the best way to mingle n meet new people. I could arrange dat for u. Thats my 9-5 job actually.
DeleteWill b in dubai from the 9th
DeleteWill b in Dubai from 21st.
DeleteLara,I am Soo sorry for what u guys are going through....I am actually in tears.
ReplyDeleteLife can be cruel sometimes...
Buh,don't woryy Pretty,GoD wil bring u two suitable partners,ok?
This too,shall pass!
Just believe it dear...
Sending u warm hugs Honey...
*I am just Soo sad*
What else?
Happy Birthday to u cute cute baby Precious...u wil remain for signs n wonders Darling....and u shall remain blessed baby Beauriful...
@ Mo,Bigger shout out to u dear.
where is d parry @?
I wanna come o....
@ Nenny's Mom,Happy Birthday Ma! may GoD continue to bless u,amen.
@Lara,i have a friend whose sister and her hubby are AS...they both knew..
DeleteJust recently Too,ma friend's bro discovered he was AS as against AA he has always bn told he was....
Their wedding should be dis Dec and. D love of His life is 4 months gone...
My friend says d Boy wants to pull out and d babe is almost suicidal...deir love story no be here. .
Sha Sha,i told ma friend about dis ma friends's sis who has three healthy kids and they Got talking...
Gist of d matter...my friend's sis tested her foetus....
She did hers in Lagos.she said its Painful and expensive Buh not as expensive as it was 7 years ago wen she had her first child,a girl.
Bear hugs once more Lara Boo.
Lara P.. i have sickler siblings so i am a very strong advocate for AS not marrying AS.. but ur story brought tears to my eyes(Jayem yeah.. na so we dey cry)
DeleteMaybe u shoukd explore the current medical options available of testing ur feotus early and knowing what their genotype will be.. If you are strong in prayers and can pray for ur unborn kids too.. Am even confused myself.. i Love love.. its so sad what u have to go through.. Be strong dearie
Dear AS lady, if you guys really still want to get married you can. I have a friends sister who had the same issue, today they are happily married with 2 kids that are AS. She told me one Prof Godwin Ajayi at college of Medicine LUTH helped the sister and the husband so they can have just AS kids. I really dont know how. But maybe its advanced reproduction stuff, you can both go there to make inquires. Pele dear
DeleteLara I'm not asking you to go ahead but you mayy be lucky none of your children will be SS. My aunty had only 1 SS out of 5 children. One of her daughters who is AS married a guy who is AS and have two awesome kids, AA and AS. My cousin who SS will be getting married next month and she looks very good that no one believed she's SS, she's 30 yrs old. My friend who is also SS has a baby she had tru CS 3 years ago and she's doing well. My pastors wife is SS she has 3 wonderful kids.
DeleteI feel you guys love each other and I will advise you both pray hard and go ahead
Cute baby up there! Congrats Mo Arena
DeleteHappy 66th Nenny's mum. Good health and long life filled with happiness I wish u
Lara peperempe. I am so worried for you. This is such a delicate situation. From ur story, the love btwn u and Shinayomi is deep. U both share a strong bond. My fear is, even if u both find other partners, u MAY not love them 100 percent as they are second fiddles who wouldn't have come into the picture if this genotype issue didn't rare it's ugly head. U guys have to be very disciplined about ur breakup if all tests still shows same AS status. Possibly loose each others numbers and contacts to move on otherwise whether married to other parties or not, u both will still be involved with each other. E hugs darling. This must be very difficult for you both. All the best.
Lara and Shina> U both shouldnt make d mistake of marrying..Love ko,love ni! Dont let dat guy blackmail u emotionally into marrying him..Why didnt he buy u a car since u both started d relationship and chose dis critical moment to shower u with car gift? Men are chameleon..By d time u start having SS kids and d trauma dat comes with it,u will know men are devil..He will throw dat so-called love in d bush and start treating u bad..No man or love is worth suffering ur kids..If u know what SS kids go through u wont even wish dem for an enemy..Someone adviced u to meet a doctor in LASUTH dat he will help u have AS kids...So u want ur kids to go through what u went through bcos of ur genotype...Why dont u ensure they are all AA genotype sp dat it will be easier for them to get spouse?
DeleteHappy Birthday cute baby and mummy at 66.... can't even remember all the news. ...anyway, AS couple should sit down and think long and hard about the implications of getting married and possibly birthing an SS carrier....It is a long and hard journey that might lead to loss to of the child... Can both of you go through it and come out strong? Sometimes love isn't enough, and it takes the grace of God....Stella say introduce him to BVs eh? If you do, don't get jealous tomorrow oh! We have gorgeous ladies here that'll make him forget you in a second...hehe. .just messing get with you. It is well... with prayers and kudi, there is nothing GOD and science can't achieve!!!
DeleteA wise man once told me not all 80% of couples are not married to who they intended to marry....Such is life....
Delete*just messing with you*, * told me 80% of couples*
DeleteAwww Lara that I was just commending days ago for being the only transparent BV on the mingles thread because she didn't hide under anonymous. It is well dear
DeleteGood! Happy birthday to baby precious. Me likey I pray for such a joy come 2015 a boy or twins.
ReplyDeleteLara peperempe, i'm usually not this nice but your story touched my heart. However i hope you guys are having protected sex for this una once in a year romp? Babe i know SS when dey suffer plus the one don die too; their suffer nor be here o! So please be careful while you are at it.
DeleteOn the bright side, there are new advances in medicine that you may wish to explore. My dear but na your body go feel am pass oh nor be the man oh. Why not go and talk to health professionals who do this stuff. You guys have to be very strong though; go and get all the information you need from health providers. Talk to couples who have done it and ask questions. Know the risks and all then go for it if both of you are strong enough.
All the best. Big hugs.
Lara peperempe, pele Dear.
ReplyDeleteBut sha o, you guys don't need to break up if you explore medical advancement. If you are willing to test your foetuses for sickle cell....
Blog analyser: wow! As usual mind blowing! Happy birthday to kids arena's baby and nenny' mum. Lola your story is touching. God will see u pole tru.
DeleteGoldscent Diamond, how are you doing ?my in law :) I greet you with due respect o.
DeleteI tried to reply you on that other post but I guess it had too many comments already.
Special pounded yam and efo riro for you .
God bless and have a good week ahead.
Goldscent Diamond, you are my blog crush, always posting sensible comments. Oya chop kiss.
DeletePoster, true love is hard to find oh! Marry him and look for how to go about it.
Test foetuses and if it turns out to be SS then what next? abortion?
DeleteThank you, my wife.
DeleteNo wonder I connected with you since early days here.
When I'm in London, I will come and eat my "Iyan" o.
Blog Voltron, pretty girl.
DeleteThanks darling.
Chop kiss back jare.
Abeg ds sis wey dy go Dubai,tk me along na...so painful say I no get passport,chai!!!! all d tym,person go dy see giveaway everywhr,abeg mk una rememba dos of us wey dy oda parts of naija na,beta still,dos wey dy stay 4 ds oda parts,I knw say una dy read ds blog,mk una dash us smtn na...4 me,I'l b makin free BD cakes to two BV reciding in Ado Ekiti in Dec...
ReplyDeleteBwahahahahaha.
DeleteHappy birthday to you baby precious. Wishing her many more years. Such a cute baby.
ReplyDeleteI joy with everybody that's rejoicing, all the miracles the blessings and testimony, thank God for everything and more blessings to everyone.
Stellastica that single mingles post really wowed me, just the 1st post of its kind and it got over 600 comments! Amazing!
@LARA PEPEREMPE. This love story is heavenly, I pray you both finds a suitable partner. May God dry your tears.
Happy birthday to Nenny's mum. Wish him more years.
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ReplyDeleteEzemoney i no gbadun ur patt ogar-like comments these days oh...Kedu nke na emenu?
DeleteThat baby is sooooooo cute
ReplyDeleteLara peperempe, sorry about ur love dorl.
Halitosis miracle, I'm thanking God for you.
Happy 66th birthday to BV's mum, may God continue to bless her.
Wowww.... Interesting IHN today.Happy Birthday baby Precious, you are such a cutie #mwahhh#
ReplyDeleteCongrats to the lawyer, that's how God does his thing. Hope his friend will rejoice with him. His own is on the way.
Walnut wonder! wow,i have always known that walnut is highly nutritious but this...oh no! God is awesome...Happy for you oh poster,bad breath is a terrible thing. will spread this findings.
Thanks to all the givers on this blog, God bless and replenish your pockets.
Mt darling Lara peperenpe#teddybearhugs# for you. I can only imagine the emotional pain you both will be going through. God please send them suitable partners so they can forge ahead in Life #Amen#
Aunty Stellz of Life where do I send your kisses to??
Walnut is mainly sold by all these hawkers you see on the road during traffic time. Talking for Lagosians oh. Don't know about other towns. Highly nutritious. The only thing is it leaves a bitter taste when you want to drink water. But other than that its oka
Deletehappy bday dear baby
ReplyDeleteWow..juicy IHN...stella prescribe this walnut therapy for ur halitosis doctor na..lol
ReplyDeleteSeconded..bwahahahaha.
DeletePls how often do u chew the walnut(ukpa)?
ReplyDelete@anony 1:45: as long/often as u wnt,it doesn't have any side effects and besides is medicinal... walnut is seasonal, u don't get it all d time tho,is still around but kind of scarce but very cheap!
DeleteI don't think walnut is ukpa o, I think it's that black stuff that is white inside its shell and tastes lyk groundnut in a way! And oh, if u drink water,there is a bitter taste on ur mouth!
Deleteukpa or ukpo. One of the two.
Delete@Datigbochic...Walnut is ukpa.
DeleteGRAM! You gorrit....that is walnut....not okpa o...If u try okpa ur halitosis will increase times 10. I've always like bitter kola. ..I don't know how medicinal it is, but I'm sure it has great properties....
DeleteYou are correct Datigbochic.
DeleteThat's what is called walnut in Nigeria. And that's the fruit the poster is referring to.
Meetups n hookups, share ur gist Sil vous plait.*grin*
ReplyDeleteI feel ur pain @ lara peperempe,don't worry, with time u 2 will get over it but just no is gonna take time#Godblessursoul#..... I missed d single mingles, but how come 95% of d peeps dat commented are anonymous and only ladies?
ReplyDeleteDont u know dat naija ladies are desperate to get married?
DeleteWhere do I start?
ReplyDeleteHBD dear!
cute pikin abi baby. Lol. She looks like a Chinese in the second pic. I love her eyes.
Tori plenty. I can't go back up to recap. So I'm just gon read and prolly reply comments.
Nice Sunday peeps!
Ehen!
For that job testimony. Let it be so for my friend too. Amen
The mouth odour deliverance, my dear, congratulobia! I can't deal. God really did something huge for you. Abeg, wat is walnut? *Gift, Google is ya friend!
Ngwa, ka odibazie!
Ukpa in igbo.
DeleteWalnut is highly nutritious. It was actually one of my seminar topics in sch and since then i dont joke wit it even dou it kind of has an after bitter taste wen u drink water.
Ehen! Lara my love, see ehn, since the bobo has money, there are some medical escape route to giving birth to healthy babies o! Pls seek medical advice. Or, my dear, pray na. God too changes genotype. Shey na him create una? Go to him abeg. I've said a prayer for you. This una love too sweet, me sef, I don't want u guys to separate. God's Grace dear!
DeleteOh! I now know wat walnut is. I like that thing like Kilode? Lol. Last time I took it was August/September.
DeleteHappy bd little princess n bv's mum God bless ur new age. Tomorrow is my bd o.
ReplyDeletein house news making.sense....oh dear @lara..i cn relate totally..2012 was also a dark year for me as regards dis AS thingy jst wen we wer thinkn of taking d step..bth of us wer total wrecks buh u knw u gt to let go.its nt gona b easy..he stil spnt xmas wt me dat year cuz we wer livn in denial..we wer countn seconds..we prayd,wnt for couseln.sowed buh in d end.u gt to brace up n b strng..for tomoro.cuz if u go ahead,dat luv ll wane wen d stress strts cumn n all ur earnings goes into transfusions of blood...jst try n pray for hm too..u bth ll mit gud ppl..it took me tym to go into anoda rlatnshp.m strnger n happier nw.God ll c u thru swty...E-hugs honey
ReplyDeleteI cant read d crap u wrote? How old are u? Stop writing like an illiterate...I hate it when people abbreviate words unnecessarily..Hian!
DeleteHbd to baby precious and you are too beautiful. @the blog member whose mum is celebrating her bd;happy birthday to your mum;may she live to reap the fruit of her labour in good health;walnut means ukpa in Igbo language.it is a nut with a black shell and when you crack it;it is white in colour.the nut is a good antioxidant and good for cancer patients who take chemotherapy.It helps to flush away toxins from chemotherapy very fast.@blog member(AS) issue;you and your man will be consoled and you will find better spouses. Amen.It happened to my sister's friend and now she is happily married with kids abroad. But the best is to avoid each other in order to get off the feelings because if you cling to the feelings you will not have enough space to meet new people. please don't be harsh on him;but do it with gentility.
ReplyDeleteShe should be harsh on him..I have soft and lilly livered men like dat? Na dem dey first cheat on their wives when a daughter of jezebel offer dem tohto..dey easily fall yakata bcos they dont have policy..they are not strong willed..She should break up with him already..na now he remember to buy her a car..cheap emotional blackmail.
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DeleteLike ur useless husband abi illiterate like u
DeleteUna do well.mean while I just ate the most delicious jollof rice in a church I was invited to today,now am so filled
ReplyDeleteHappy bday to Baby Precious and may she continue to beat the odds in Jesus name. Amen
ReplyDeleteMiss No-do-again, wise of you. Stick to that decision and God will bring your own Mr. Right.
Chai Lara, I am so sorry. Life can be cruel. But it's better this way, trust me. I know what taking care of sickle cell patients cost. Not only for the parents and sibblings o, the affected child is worse off.
God will give you two strength. Stay strong.
HBD to BV Nenny's mum. May God bless her with many more happy years.
E don do. Shuo!
Cute baby
ReplyDeletePoster going to Dubai for Holiday can reach me through Stella. Already sent a mail to her, she will give you my email address.
ReplyDeleteOk. Will do so. Thanks!
DeleteDear Lara you should probably do another test just to be sure. If it is still same you have the option of either going ahead and going through a process of testing when you do get pregnant. Our God is faithful and if not you both can slowly find yourself partners. It wont be easy but God will help you both.
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ReplyDeleteCute baby. Cute baby. Congrats ma.
Happy birthday to everybody whose birthday is today.
Plenty gist dey today
Then for the girl looking for a girl for her ex, I wish you good luck.
Is it possible or isn't it possible for two people to date without sex?
Isn't it wrong anymore. ?
Well, just thinking aloud.
Happy Sunday ya'all
Much love.
@lara such a touching story. Like Stella said, go run the test in another clinic just to b sure.
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I am AA
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DeletePlease iphiedearie I need ur email I read ur comment ystday n it really got to me ..sorry im doing it this way sent aunty stella the mail but didnt get any response ...
ReplyDeleteCute baby,@lara I feel u dear,dont worry God will give both of u suitable partners*teary eyes*
ReplyDeleteDear Lara..trust me wen I say,I honestly know that feeling..Its saddening,hrt breaking,hrt torturing to see the one u love slip away just cuz of many things such as denomination, Traditon,etc..
ReplyDeleteHBD Baby..she's adorable
Her story is really touching, Lara darling let the will of God be done in your lives.Life is truly not fair but it will end in testimonies.All the best.
DeleteLara peperenpe, you see how cruel life is? there is nothing that will hit you harder than life itself...You just have to find solace in the word of God that says the plan he has for us is for good and not of evil. Be strong blog sis! Like Genny baby will say,a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage! Will put your guy in prayers so he gets over you and move on in life so you both can be happy.
ReplyDeleteThe baby is so cute. God bless you mummy. You will live to fulfill your days. Blessed you and your family will be in Jesus Name. Sis take heart but there is a way out but u have to get a good family doctor, just dat u have to be ready to abortan cos of of five pregnancy you will have at least 2 AS baby. All your pregnancy can't be SS. Please believe God and go ahead and marry him. Abortion is wrong but in your case God will understand. Love can touch us once and last for a lifetime. Mummy Nene you will live to 100. You will see your children children children. Happy birthday mummy. And you Stella I love you so much. You do no wrong in my eyes. You said you are not perfect, who told you? You are too perfect joor. You don't know how your blog has changed our lives. We ve learnt so much here. Heard so Much. Got so much. God bless you dear. Happy Sunday to all my BVS.
ReplyDeleteIHN rock!
ReplyDeleteHappy bday to baby Precious and mummy Nenny!
@Larapeperenpe,its so hard wat u both are going thru,so sorry abt dat.i know a couple that still went ahead,the guy said he cannot imagine his future without my friend,now they have two kids that are not SS!yes!miracles still happen.
...so who knows?cos btw u and ur bf,d love is too deep dat if u pple don't totally avoid each other,change locations,u mite end up together.may God see u thru sha.
hbd to cute precious..
ReplyDelete@Lara...it is well dear..d lordwill settle u both...BT dis genotype of a tin has ended so many beautiful relationships ooh..
Lara , repeat a test again. If same, see goldscent Diamond comment above. By the way have you heard about pre - implantation genetic diagnosis? People with sickle cell traits are usually offered to avoid them passing on the traits to their kids. If you are considering other options other than letting go then please read about it . Possibly cost an eye and an arm in naija who knows. ..got 3 kids .
ReplyDeleteLady coming to Dubai can give me call ..I'm already in Dubai waiting for you.+97156 910 5755
ReplyDeletelara hw abt adopting,dats y i love d oyimbo pple,all dese kyn mata nor b deir problem,God wil help u sha
ReplyDeleteThat baby gurl is so cute!
ReplyDeleteLara honey the Lord is your strength but pls,try and go arond and do tests to ascertain u are truly AS.
Lara please go for another test, that baby is so cute
ReplyDeleteI got quite a number of responses from the single and mingle, but somehow they all just lost interest. Except for one who has a girlfriend but claims he is seeking 'greener pastures'. I will pass on the next one. There are many single guys but very few 'husbandy' guys. It is well
ReplyDeleteRUN AWAY from guys that tell you before hand, that they have gfs or "we've been in and out of the relationship for awhile" take off....They are just there to play....RUN o....
DeleteDo u attend church or mosque; get busy in the house of the lord. You may meet better person there. I hate these blog/online dating stuff. Goodluck
DeleteHappy Birthday to Baby Precious. Fine girl wey fine pass im mama.I prophecy to you that you will overtake those that have gone ahead of you IJN.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday to Nenny's Mum. I wish you many more years.
Lara, the owner and creator of your life will do a new thing for you and your friend. With God all things are possible. Go back to the hospital to conduct another test and tell them that the one that created you says you are AA and and AS. If you believe you will come here to share the testimony.
Happy Birthday to Baby Precious. Fine girl wey fine pass im mama.I prophecy to you that you will overtake those that have gone ahead of you IJN.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday to Nenny's Mum. I wish you many more years.
Lara, the owner and creator of your life will do a new thing for you and your friend. With God all things are possible. Go back to the hospital to conduct another test and tell them that the one that created you says you are AA and and AS. If you believe you will come here to share the testimony.
To the person travelling to Dubai, I sooo understand why you'll book a trip alone. I will be there a few days after Christmas. Here is my email kasie009@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteFinally gotten an ID after years of being a ghost. *whew*
@lara peperempe. I'm sorry to hear about the health incompatibility
ReplyDeleteAnd also show my interest, if u permit that I"ll love to date shinnayomi.
He seems like a good man
I'm AA. I'm a doctor by profession. But for further details you can contact Stella.
Are you for real??
DeleteChai.
DeleteBVs are not loyal.
Wow i had to wipe my eyes after seeing this? Are you that desperate? Why would you want to get into this after reading Lara's heartbreaking story? If you get such a man, just be ready to keep sharing him with Lara. Pity some of you; i really do.
DeleteC'est fini....choi
Deletesingle mingles...no bi small thing ooo.stella i got about 19emails.the koko is,im chatting and exchanging mails with 6 presently.i still need time to figure,consider and balance it all..but, guys dey lie shall hehehehe.but on serious note,i want to get serious with this 6 guys,then as time goes on,ima drop 4 n continue with the remaining 2,hopefully i might find the love of my life from the remaining two..thank you stella
ReplyDeleteI gbadun u style joor...Dont put all ur eggs in one basket.
DeletePotable Viv well done oh. Commenting with a different name. Ayaff catching you today. Lol.
DeleteCHOI....only you 19 mails and you chose 6! Hmmmmmm. ...may God grant you wisdom o....lol
Deletesingle mingles...no bi small thing ooo.stella i got about 19emails.the koko is,im chatting and exchanging mails with 6 presently.i still need time to figure,consider and balance it all..but, guys dey lie shall hehehehe.but on serious note,i want to get serious with this 6 guys,then as time goes on,ima drop 4 n continue with the remaining 2,hopefully i might find the love of my life from the remaining two..thank you stella
ReplyDeleteHappy news everywhere!
ReplyDeleteHappy birthaday and congratulations to all due recipients.
Lara please reconsider and check out more options outside Nigeria.
Cute baby. HBD. XOXO i dey hale o. lol The guy said he is 40 when he is 50. lol
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday to your mum.
ReplyDeleteThat baby is too cute for word! She will be an example to her peers Amin.
ReplyDeleteI am happy for that lawyer that finally got his breakthrough. He is very lucky that he had a friend that kept on encouraging him not to give up-something many people are lacking. Sometimes all you need is someone to tell you "its not over till its over" Hmmm but he should be careful with that friend that didn't get the job shh, because that is how seeds of jealousy gets implanted.
for the AS lady, I dint think its a really big problem, medical science has advanced in ways you cannot imagine. I would suggest you go abroad and seek proper medical advice. I have a friend who is full SS and she has 2 very healthy kids now. The important thing is if you both love yourselves, you can work around any situation life throws at you.
Happy Birthday to Nenny's Mum. Wishing her many more happy, heathy and content years ahead.
Stellar my awe for you is still on the increase o. You are touching lives in ways I'm sure you cannot imagine, keep doing what you are doing and God will keep doing more of what he is doing in your life- Amin.
Oya end of long talk hehehe...
lara,sorry 4 wht happened.Happy bday my precious child.May God bless us,all.
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Lara dear, sending u warm hugs. Don't worry God will make all things beautiful at his own time. HBD to cute baby and bv's mom.
ReplyDeleteDo another test Lara and it's the age of advance medicine now.u both can still get married going through a process of testing when you do get pregnant. and try ivf with baby selection .happy birthday Precious so so cute God bless you .I Tap into ur blessing for my own baby amen
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday pretty baby Precious, I wish you many more years of good health and laughter as you grow up.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday blog visitor's mum may you see your children's children's children.
Lara, don't be too quick to send your love away. This is 2014 an era of advanced technology even in medicine, make sure you guys explore every available option before you separate. Since money is not much of an issue to you guys why don't you try fertility specialists abroad so that they can tell you if there is any chance of you both having healthy children in future. I repeat let separation be your last option because true love is hard to find nowadays. Even if you guys separate and get married to other people you will only cause your partners pain because you will never stop craving for each other.And believe me you may never enjoy happy marriages apart since your hearts belong together.
As for the job miracle guy, , Congrats Bro . That's why it is not advisable to tag people along when going to hustle because they might just steal your luck.
God will provide him with another job this one wasn't his.
Congrats to the halitosis guy and good luck to all those believing God for a miracle.
Happy Sunday blog family.
Wow all i see f now is dt little cutie. Precious is a fine geh iya iya o. She's so adorable. Hbd t her, she 'll go places iJN. Amen.
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Happy Birthday Baby Precious, you are cute. God Bless the givers. Pls ya all should pls vote for boo and I in the Big Nigerian Wedding contest. Pls you can vote every 24Hrs. The link might request that you log in to fb, pls kindly do that so that your vote can count. The link is http:/woobox.com/dymgeb/vote/for/5292277. Muah commenting as anonymous.
ReplyDeleteHappy bday baby Precious. @ Lara, God will see i thru.
ReplyDeleteHmmm thank u Stella for test running singles mingles forum. I got a lot of mails in my inbox.
Goodday Stella, infact i keep thanking for making me a part of dis family even tho I'm always under anonymous...I'm d lady dt got dumped for no reason, Iv sent my number to ur mail box, kindly feel free to give it to d anon dt requested for it, I really need someone to talk to. Tnx to all my bvs, i learnt alot frm ur replies..May God continue to bless u guys!
ReplyDeleteGod bless you dear. Remain strong you own will come.
DeleteAnd yes Stella you can do no wrong in my eyes as well.
ReplyDeleteYou are simply amazing in every sense of the word.
Keep doing you girl am solidly behind you. **TeamSDKforlife**!!!!!
About d mingling stuff, someone sent me a mail n we xcganged bbm pin. We started chatting n it was cool. We even spoke on d phone. Den all of a sudden wen he asked me abt my ex, I sed I still loved him. See vex n question_ Why did u call him ur ex if u still love him??? He now stopped replying my pings. Omo I vex delete am. It actually made me delete others cos I think I wasnt understood properly. My post was dat I needed a friend not a new relationship anytym soon. So probably he misunderstood. If u read dis T, I just wanted a shoulder not a replacement. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteU be mumu raised to power 20..U still love ur ex and have d effrontery to tell d guy u still love ur ex..Maybe ur stupidity is why ur ex left u..Dey dia dey love him like ewu while he loves another woman..Keep chasing future husbands away bcos of an ex..by d time u clock 40 yrs without and still single,u will start sending sob stories to blogs..Oponu!
DeleteCan you imagine? You be real Mumu, I swear.
DeleteStella created this forum to aid people like you to move on.
But here you are stubbornly clinging to your past. Going as far as wasting the young man's time.
Before nko? He should be pinging a time waster who is busybody declaring undying love for an ex.
This is stupid you know.
DeleteAbout d mingling stuff, someone sent me a mail n we xcganged bbm pin. We started chatting n it was cool. We even spoke on d phone. Den all of a sudden wen he asked me abt my ex, I sed I still loved him. See vex n question_ Why did u call him ur ex if u still love him??? He now stopped replying my pings. Omo I vex delete am. It actually made me delete others cos I think I wasnt understood properly. My post was dat I needed a friend not a new relationship anytym soon. So probably he misunderstood. If u read dis T, I just wanted a shoulder not a replacement. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteU needed a shoulder? Wetin happen to ur own shoulder? Abeg go look bush...u no get sense at all...See ur mouth like u needba friend..U no get friend where u dey stay? Ut sisters nko? must u look for friends on d internet? Keep killing urself over an ex who os probably enjoying himself with his chick or wifey..Onuku!
DeleteHahahahaha. I so miss your comments @Chizoba
DeleteAww!! Lara dear, God will give u two nice partners to forge ahead with!! Ur post was so emotional!
ReplyDeleteBaby precious, u will grow into a testimony! U shall continue to beat all odds and grow into a very healthy and miracle child.
Mummy Neny, HBD ma! U will live to see ur 5th generation!
Thanks to all the awesome givers too! God bless u all.
Single and minglers, abeg make una come share gist with us!
Tomorw is december!! I smell xmass!!
Who go invite me for xmas jollof rice???
So I'm bisexual and I connected with smone here. We gisted like we have known each other for a long time and we decided to take it one step at a time. Happy birthday to baby precious, she is so cute. For the AS blog visitor, the guy truly loves u and I can imagine what u guys are going thru at d moment , all I can say is tat u need to help me here by introducing pple to him and tat way u never know what will happen nxt.
ReplyDeleteIF ALL YOUR SIBLINGS ARE AA, I DONT SEE ANY REASON WHY YOU SHOULD BE AS, ESPECIALLY IF YOUR BOTH PARENTS ARE AA.. GO TO ATLEAST 5 HOSPITALS AND ALSO PRAY.. IF YOU BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER THAT MUCH, SETTLE THE MATTER WITH GOD, SACRIFICE TIME AND PRAY TOO THATTS WHY HE IS THE IMPOSSIBILITY SPECIALIST, THE GREAT PHYSICIAN.. DONT GIVE UP DEAR.. PRAY PRAY AND PRAY AGAIN. I LOVE YOU STORY THO.
ReplyDeleteHer parents are A A? let me go up and read again....If your parents are both A A, you be "away match" o....LMAO! God forbid. ...All the best Lara
DeleteHer parents are not both AA.
DeleteDon't bring assumptions into the matter and try to accuse her parents of infidelity.
You see no reason? In my family, 3 of us kids are AA and the last is AS.
Hey silvercent kpanda don't jump me common! didn't u see I replied under a comment? did u read that comment? so quick to spew nonsense....
DeleteHian!
DeleteYarns, all replies under a comment are directed at the original comment.
My response was at directed at Guddy Obiorah.
Your reply was not even up when I made mine.
Where do I send your kiss to?
Silvercent kpanda????
DeleteChoi!
Still laughing.
Lara i know what you are going through. I wont say i can imagine because i went through same some years back. Trust me its not easy, you may even think it is the end of the world, but you will survive. I did and we are good friends now. Take heart and be strong.
ReplyDeleteAwwww...Lara...Pele dear.. I totally understand how you feel cos I've been there! My ex was such a wonderful guy. Though he is also married now but looking up to God for the fruit of the womb. I pray for him everyday cos he was good to me throughout our five years together. Pls confirm you genotype again cos, sincerely its hard to find someone you love and who loves you back. I pray it should be a mistake of some sort #phew!
ReplyDelete@XOXO MYSTERY.... Lol.. U don turn FBI??? How come you know so much?
Congrats to the poster who had halitosis. I can only imagine how you felt all along chai! Thank God for you.
Happy birthday to that sweet little girl. May God make you a source of joy to your parents.
I'm extremely interested in the singles mingle follow up as well.
That's all I can remember now.
Aww, lara, don't worry you will get over him....time heals wounds. Dont forget to pray and ask our heavenly father for strength ...cos you really need it.
ReplyDeletestella, singles mingle was fun. I asked for friends only and I got some really cool friends........
Happy birthday Precious. You're so cute and your mum forgot to add that.... IHN today rocks
ReplyDeleteAwwww happy b.day baby precious God bless u baby.
ReplyDeleteWow @ Lara am so sowi I can imagine i can imagine wt u r gong thru,pls try to do ur test sum whr else to b very sure if it's d same am AA but still it's gon to b hard fpr someone else to be with him knowing how much he loves u bt stil anythg is possible. GOD is good.
Lara Pele,i'd advice u go do the test somewhere else to make sure it's the the same and if it's the same pls pls and pls u and ur boyfriend need to let go.trust me if u know anyone who has SSA and have witnessed them having crisis first hand like I have u will not bother taking this "if u love each other go ahead" people cos when the wahala starts the love u see now will turn to resentment,pain and regret.
ReplyDeleteHi all first time to comment, love you stella and all Bv,s in the family, God bless u; ; cheers
ReplyDeleteLara did you do the test in just one hospital? If yes pls check 2more @least to be rest assured. Only if you feel you would like the advanced medical option. If not both of you should either move to diff location or cling to the Most High, he would bring your spouse(s) to you both
ReplyDeleteTHANKS EVERYONE... GOD BLESS YOU ALL HUGS N KISSES FROM PRECIOUS
ReplyDeleteANGELRAY SAID
ReplyDeleteI will also be in Dubai this Xmas, u can leave ur contact with stella, I will contact u when I confirm my travel date.
Stella my goggle ID is not working oooh
ANGELRAY SAID
ReplyDeleteI will also be in Dubai this Xmas, u can leave ur contact with stella, I will contact u when I confirm my travel date.
Stella my goggle ID is not working oooh
AS lady...it's only God that gives and collect, so let nothing stop you from marrying the man of your heart,people marry hiv patients, it's only God that is the author and finisher of our lives ... please go ahead and marry that guy...also pray too, your story is very touching
ReplyDelete@lara d lord is ur strength but pls get tested elsewere..i am a microbiologist nd dese genotype machines no easy to use plus de can decieve for africa..if possible do d test in 2 more places..i wonder y all ur siblings are AA except u..cross breeding wld beg to differ but wat d hell..jst get tested again.wish u d very best
ReplyDeleteThis baby is so beautiful. Congratulation to the friend of the lawyer and the lawyer too. Lara dear, it is well. Just pray and go for another test. It happened to my friend too but for her reverse was the case. At first the test shows AA but later AS,
ReplyDeleteAbeg fellow BV I have googled but can't tell from the picture on google what is walnut exactly. What is the name in naija english lolz... Igbo, yoruba and hausa, any name that the market women understandsam I have suffered from halitosis for like 16years now. I brush twicw, googled for remedy, read books, etc but nothing nothing. I need to try this walnut too. Abeg I dey wait for answer.
Thanks in advance!!!
In Yoruba it's called asala or awusa. It has a black covering but when opened it's white. If u drink water after eating it, it's bitter
DeleteBV looking for Companion in Dubai, if you love ya sef, better go to Dubai jeje and try to enjoy it alone or convince one of your friends to book and go with you. If any Nigerian approaches you in Dubai, run with your heels touching your head. I know it's bad to generalize but it's better to be safe than sorry. I will give you an example.
ReplyDeleteA lady entered a shop at the souk and met another Nigerian woman and they started talking, speaking a Nigerian language as they were both same tribe. While the lady was busy pricing items, the Nigerian woman told her she 'was coming' and left the shop. When the second lady finished and wanted to leave the shop, the owner asked her for 1500 diram for the stuff her sister bought. Apparently the woman told the seller that the lady was her sister and would pay for the stuff she took as they were together. All her explanations that she just met her for the first time fell on deaf ears as they told her that Nigerians are always trying to cheat them and not pay for goods. She begged till they took All she had on her, her phones, bag etc while she went to look for the woman. She caught her about to board a bus, na God save am say the yeye woman dey wait for bus instead of getting a taxi. Na so she grab the woman for bus stop, dey shout till people gather. She drag the woman go give shop owner, collect her stuff and left.
This is one story, I have more including my sister's experience ( in her case the lady she met had fast fingers). While you are going for hols, some go to hustle. My 2 cents.
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LMAO. ....See broad day stealing. ...May God help us
DeleteI have alot to tell but i dont have time...so many desperate women in dubai...Its better she get an agent who can act as chaperon,take u around,shopping et all at d end u pay him...they dont even charge much...I can link u up with a God fearing agent..he wont mess up..he is tested and trusted...let me know if u need his contact.
DeleteHmmm kasala o. That's why I shrug at people in Dubai especially cos I have heard all sorts. Only been there 3x anyway. Especially in that gold souk area where people famz once they know u are Nigerian. Abeg I would rather u say am forming than let camera catch me doing kakaka laughter with u, only to find out u are a thief later. Who would believe me? One time I was in one of those stores with hubby and a young Nigerian lady just came up to me and was asking questions, next thing she started to touch my hair saying she loved the braids etc. My hubby was so vexed that he said I shouldn't allow it next time o cos u never know. And people wey carry drugs nko. Even at any airport I don't entertain gists from strangers biko. I always tell people o. To avoid stories that touch..
DeleteThat is why I am XOXO MYSTERY, i cannot be contacted.
ReplyDeleteStella ukwu sugar. ..employ me to do professional amebo for you.
* Singing*
Lonely, I am so lonely, my wife left me with my three booooooys
I was a serial cheat that is why she left, I am so lonely.
Lonely, that's why I am in the studio, produciiiiing songs
Lonely, i hate kaduna women, they are sooo bad
Babygirl 26, I am lonely...thats why I am calling by 1.00am to show you that I am all aloooooone
Lonely ...I am in the studio but cannot concentrate, that girls boobs keeps blocking my way even though I am thinking about you.
Hey yo
I am 40 at heart but 50 at age
l love em young cos I wanna cage em
I tell em my pirry parry story cos they gonna fall me
I make em all believe I wanna marry em just to fuck em
I keep talking bad about my exwife but I aint no saint either
I know I fucked her up but she shouldn't have stayed bitter
She should have stayed like all good wifes did and never stray.
Shut her trap, then open her hole
Bish let her mama influence her
Does she not know all men cheat?
They want to take my boys away from me but I am going on a hit
No monthly support again...I aint a paymaster
How the fuck will she survive without the molla?
New bish stop!
If you gonna be with me, then you gonna mama my boys
Close ya eyes and put a wool in that ears of yours
Cos when u hear I cheat, don't talk about it
The only hole that you should ever open is the one down below
My eyes wander a lot
Lot of girls to do
I might be a community penis but I am looking for a woman who will love my heart
leave my eyes and leave my penis
26 year old bish
You are a perfect desperate candidate
Do you know how many bad bishes rejected me?
They saw through my bullshit and ejected moi
Welcome to my studio, take a tour.
Ignore the bad bish with big boobs guuurl
She ain't ur only problem, worry about the ones u don't see.
Rove you.
I want to sell this song to davido. Stella. ..give me davido's contact
XOXO MYSTERY
Stupidiot! Foolish xoxo mystery..I'm sure d man fucked and dumped u too daz why u are bitter...Old ashawo go and find husband and marry...Dey sdk blog dey do aproko while ur mates are getting married every weekend..Ezi bida..Ewu Ewu Ewu! Who even send u?
DeleteMy comment is on the SDK mingles forum. I connected with a guy and we hit it off like it was meant to be. We had so much in common: same profession, state, local government. We even planned a meeting this week but all of a sudden, communication went cold. Without an explanation, I woke up this morning to notice that he deleted me. It left me a little baffled because as far as I know, we were ok. I guess my confidence in this whole online hookup platform has been shattered. Guess I should thank God it happened sooner than later.
ReplyDeleteSome guys ar mentally imbalanced and they arr d ones dat go looking for babes on d internet..thank God u did not meet him...D best place to meet a spouse is on facebook..i bet u wont regret it...i met several nice and serious guys there..three of them met my people with wine..they were ready to wife me but i always back away for no serious reason...i dont know why..D last one dat lives in abuja(we've done introduction) was shocked when i left him and married my secondary school sweetheart..So if you need lecture on how to hook a serious dude on facebook contact me..
DeleteAww, sorry dear. It was just one experience, it happens. Dont stop trying
Deletesorry; his loss.
DeleteU don't say. Hmmm perhaps he knows u and just realized it? Could be an ex or a friend of an ex. Crack ur brain. If not, then bother your head NOT jare, he's the one that has issues and not you. It's too early to moan over a total stranger. Don't give up, continue in ur quest to find love. Although I personally do not dig online hookups, but won't discourage those who are down for it. Pele dear.
DeleteLara, google PGD and IVF. It's expensive but if you guys can afford it, all the best.
ReplyDeleteLara please contact me on resusbabejohnson@gmail.com. I've been in your shoes before and if I knew then what I know now ,we would still be together.I'd like to talk to you (if you don't mind).
ReplyDelete@Lara, I beg you, DON'T give in!
ReplyDeleteForget all these sweet testimonies and love stories you hear! ABORTION is abortion! Whether within or outside the confines of marriage! Nobody will come out to tell you the silent tears they have wept inside their bedrooms or the regrets inside their hearts!
It's all sweet now, but when the pressure comes, can both of you handle it well? Especially him? Because, it's you that will be doing most of the caring and not your husband!
If for instance, you happen to have SS, you have to monitor what they eat and drink, be mindful of their environment to avoid anything that will trigger a crisis. When there is a crisis, you will be the one to stay away from work to be in the hospital while husband goes to work. NOBODY can take care of your child as you want, so will you resign from your work or what?
He is loaded from the tone of your narrative, but, when a man continues to spend so much on medical bills, one day, he will snap under the pressure!
The most important question is; WHY WILL YOU KNOWINGLY SUBJECT ANOTHER HUMAN BEING TO SO MUCH PAIN BECAUSE OF A FEELING? Don't you like as you are healthy? You think, you can bear to see a child writhe in pain and in tears? Visit LUTH, asked to be given a tour of the children's ward, after that, come back and tell us, if you still feel the same.
Who ever you are anon 1:59 am, I wanna say I love you for your truthfulness and honesty.
DeleteWas away yesterday, just trying to catch up.
The awwwwing Lara's story got amazed me. Why don't people like saying the truth when it's needed. Everyone is busy oohing and awwing at the "love"story and forgot to tell her the real truth.
You all are now forming lovers and love story lovers instead of telling the lady to dump the guy asap and move the hell on!
Some are even suggesting she goes ahead and hope/pray for the best .
SMH
Chizoba I love your honesty in this case too. Your comment was very realistic and I also agree that the guy is an emotional blackmailer and truly his type are dangerous. Car ko, aeroplane ni.
Lara dear, if you love yourself, drop that guy like he is hot and look for someone who's genotype complements yours.
Don't be stupid in love. Always think about the future in all you do.
Don't just live and hope the future sorts itself out. Your actions today determines your future.
Love is not enough in this your case. Sorry it's the truth.
Be realistic.
You can still love another man as much as you love him. You just have to forget him and open up your heart to another genuine guy.
You don't want to continue flushing out your SS babies or birth them and subject them to pains and anguish if you eventually marry him.
Forget all the people encouraging you to go ahead, they won't do same if they were in your shoes I tell you. They won't give their loved ones same advice. I'm telling you what I will tell my sister or daughter.
Listen to this anon 1:59 please.
A wise person loves with his or her head and heart. Not just the heart alone.
I wish you all the best in your love life.
This too shall pass. Give it time.
Please stop having sex with him for God's sake. That's what is blinding you and making it hard for you to do the needful!
A word is enough for the wise. Remember that when the gobe starts, na you go carry am for your head 90%.
Xoxo Mystery, I see you dear.
I love that your song oh.
I hope the person it's dedicated to understands and heeds to your advice.
Chizoba why insult her na? I don't like that oh. Xoxo was being real here too. We are here to look out for each other by telling what we know will harm the other. Even if she had something with the said guy, it's good she told the girl the truth so she won't make same mistakes.
Rive you Xoxo.
Awww, baby Precious is so cute. She looks like my baby. I wish you many happy returns dear child. God bless you and your parents.
You will live long in good health.
You will grow to make mum and dad proud, Amen!
Kisses to you darling.
Happy birthday mummy Nenny, God bless and keep you ma. All the best.
@Genny>Thanx for d compliment..i say it d way it is even though i might be rude..daz how i stress home my point..i wasnt born soft like u,Iphie and TGW..
DeleteAs for xoxo mystery..we get scores to settle on dis blog..Anytime u see me attack someone here,its not about what they posted,its about d beef we already have..anytime i read where they called me out with insults,i'll wait for any of their commenta to lash back at dem..I read what she wrote about me few days back..why is she calling me out as if she dey pay me to comment on dis blog? Am i not entitled to my opinion? Even d Jayem she is defending has cursed me out on dis blog severally daz why i insult her anytime i have d opportunity...There is no smoke without fire oh...I dont give in to blog bully...If u do me,i do u...
Xoxo mystery be warned..Stay off my back or else u will continue geting it hot from me.
Met a lovely gal on singles and mingle.My stupidity cost me her acquaintance.#comebackmyekeprinceas
ReplyDeleteHALITOSIS POSTER PLS GET IN TOUCH
ReplyDeleteSTELLA PLEASE I NEED THE CONTACT OF THE PERSON CURED OF HALITOSIS. PLEAE POSTER CAN YOU DROP YOUR CONTACT WITH STELLA AND I'LL GET IT FROM HER OR PLEASE POST YOUR EMAIL.
I AM GOING TO WALMART DURING MY LUNCH BREAK AT WORK TO SEE IF THEY HAVE THE WALNUT. BUT ILL LIKE TO THE THE EXACT ONE YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT.
I HAVE BEEN SUFFERING FROM HALITOSIS AS WELL FOR LIKE 20YRS. I HOPE WE CAN SHARE OUR EXPERIENCES.
THANKS AND GOD BLESS?