It is not always easy for people, especially those at the helm of affairs like president, governors, senators, ministers, commissioners and many others to discuss their private lives particularly their families.
Many don’t even discuss their birthdays for reasons best known to them. Governor Mu’azu Babangida Aliyu of Niger State and Chairman of the Northern Governors Forum is an exception.
In an interview to commemorate his 59th birthday, the governor, who calls himself the Chief Servant of the people, says he is a “very very romantic man”.
Answering a question on when he got married, and how he has been coping as governor, an activist, Chairman of the Northern Governors Forum, ,a husband and a father, Aliyu said he got married at the age of 23 barely four months after his National Youth Service in Lagos while his wife was 19..
“Luckily for me, I married a woman I love and a woman I pursued for more than four years. It was like a prophecy that i was going to marry her. I made the prophecy myself. I actually went to a girl friend’s house and I saw the picture of my wife and I looked at it and I said to the senior sister to my girlfriend in form of prophecy that ‘this is my wife’ and I asked, ‘who is she.?’
“They tried to describe her and I never knew I was going to meet her. Honestly, with her photograph I saw, I just fell in love with her. When I eventually met her, she was more beautiful than what I saw in the picture,” the governor stated.
“Most people would want to know the rest of the story. I want to confess to you that I am a very very romantic man and, because I am a little straight forward again, polygamy was not and still not attractive to me and that is why probably I have only one wife.”
TIME WITH WIFE, CHILDREN
Aliyu has been a very busy man right from school. He was a class monitor in primary school, a prefect in secondary school, a unionist, an activist and Chairman/Secretary to about 10 clubs in school before he joined the civil service and rose to the post of permanent secretary in many ministries at the federal level and now governor for almost eight years, and also Chairman, Northern Governors Forum for over seven years. These are responsibilities he sees as a routine and has successfully combined with his family affairs.
“I make sure I have time and discuss with my wife and children. We are always together. Whenever I travel, I buy books for my children and I usually commit them to reading them by placing prices and other gifts for whoever finishes reading the books first. This is just to make them vast in reading and to make sure they read the books. So, we relate very well and discuss a lot. As you see me outside, so you see me at home and, in terms of romance, I am very sure my wife is very happy with me. I am very sure of that one,” Aliyu declared.
He said being the Chairman of Northern Governors Forum is an added responsibility which has not hindered his affairs at home.
The governor described the group as an association where governors collectively discuss the problems of their states and proffer solutions.
He said the job is made easier by the secretaries to the state governments who meet ahead and discussing vital issues leaving them as governors to only ratify at their meetings.
“There are some of us with abundant energy and, most of the time, I do not expend too much energy at home but on responsibilities bestowed on me. If I have four wives, by the time I jump from one room to another, I would have exhausted my energy but thank God I have only one wife and I have abundant energy for other jobs!”
GROWING UP
Some of our leaders are born with golden spoons in their mouths while many passed through thick and thin to their success stories today. Aliyu went down memory lane saying as a child, he had no permanent room in his father’s house because the family house was more or less designated for visitors who were
accommodated even without any notice.
“I grew up in a house where any stranger that came from any part of the world would be directed to our compound. So, I grew up without a room to myself that I could call my own because a guest would come whom nobody knew his background and we would be told to leave the room for him and would remain there until he decided to leave. I grew up with that life style and that is why indigene or non-indigene is not in my dictionary because everyone to me is a Nigerian and should be treated as such.
The only time my administration can show discrimination against anyone is when residents in the state exhibit criminal tendencies,” the governor said. He said Nigerians no matter which state they come from should be accorded any status in which ever state they find themselves.
“The Constitution of Nigeria defines who is a Nigerian. My belief is that if you pay tax here in Niger, you are therefore part and parcel of the state. If you make anybody think he is different then, one will be behaving differently because ‘you have told me that I don’t belong here and if I make my money, I will therefore take it to where I belong’. That attitude will not encourage perceived strangers to contribute to the development of this state which I stand against as governor.”
He said during the civil war, all the properties of the Igbo that were given to his parents and some others in Minna remained intact and given back to their owners when they came back including what accrued from rentals on the properties.
“If today you find any person in this part of the world discriminating against other people, it is as a result of ignorance because at one time or the other, we were also strangers in the state because it is only a matter of how long one has stayed here.” - Vanguard reportage.
*Governor Aliyu has one wife and no concubines?wow,this man needs to be sent kisses ASAP!
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Yeah, Thats my governor and he is really doing is best but not all of it..... Mr governor pls come repair lagos road for us nw, na till person die finish b4 yu go come repair am...... I applaud him for turning kontagora into a little city though but we still want more.....
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From Niger State come dey repair Lagos road. You need 2cups of coffee to wake up.
Delete@freew u are a fool...can't u think....I think they have lagos road in Niger State...haba
DeleteAnd I used to think Niger men,Nupes in particular are the most polygamous in Nigeria. This is so refreshing.
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Yes my dear, they are very polygamous. It's was till I came to this state that I saw how desperate married men can be to get a single chick. Very randy men here.
DeleteAs for my dear governor, na he's not Nupe.
And yea, everything he has said abt himself is true. I pray a religious fanatic does not take over from him and make this state a hell hole.
Na he's not the best, but he has made us strangers feel at home unlike his predecessor.
We'll Miss him, I know.
Really??? This one too is romantic?..Ok o, but he doesn't look it.
ReplyDeleteIf what he said about the seized properties of the ibos is true, then his family is one of great virtue.
ReplyDeleteBLOG ANALYSER: very interesting! One wife! Yes nd I love that. Concubines! Hmmmmm I don't believe he doesn't have one.
ReplyDeleteForget his appearance, Aliyu is actually well read, exposed and polished.
ReplyDeleteYou can say that again. Was actually surprised wen...
DeleteLipsealed abeg.
This man 59? Well well well! Stella, nollywood babes r his bedmatess o. AnonyPretty
ReplyDeleteIts glaring that you don't know him. Shutup
DeleteI was just smiling all through, hope he's all he say he is.
ReplyDeleteAnd i just fell in love with this Man oooo....
ReplyDeleteYour family are beautiful! Abeg hold your General tight b4 JayEm the husband snatcher..........where is my juices?
DeleteGW, when u meet him personally, u would want to hug him. Very simple and funny. I never see.
Delete....and who is thr old woman in akara behind them? She looks like mummy! The wife sef looks younger than her
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday tho!
Concubines he sure have
ReplyDeleteWell that's good to know. One wife? God be praised.
ReplyDeleteOk next.........
ReplyDeleteGood for him
ReplyDeletestella, time never reach for sunday laff ni?
ReplyDeleteAm so surprised o. Keep it up Governor
ReplyDeleteHian!!
ReplyDeleteI wonder what they would've looked like if he wasn't a governor???
Highly disturbing pic!!
Madam, this peeps are actually waaaaaay simple minded than us in the east. They don't kill themselves like us to look good. And that they don't look good up thr does nt mean they are not a better lot.
DeleteHmmm.
DeleteBeautiful,are you related to the governor?
Stella Dimoko! !!!! Its time for Sunday laughter!
ReplyDeleteI just love this man.
ReplyDeleteEven with all he has,he married one wife.
That's a relief.
Kai, no concubines?! Na lie biko, my very good friend has hit that o, shame the man hand tight like aradite.
ReplyDeleteBy the way, no Sunday laughs? I didn't get the memo :(
Don't I just love this man... whether he has concubines or not but there is something about him that makes him unique. Gov Aliyu carry go joor. Be happy!
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