Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives- OMG!

Honey,it didnt rain indoors,you wet the bed.....again!

Now let me ask you this........why do women keep making all the wrong choices with their eyes open?how dare you commit abortion 8 times when he hasn't put a ring on it? Can I preach?

LOVE IS NOT BLIND....not anymore,it sees and that is why the men dumping your asses!!!

Be wise.

I am not here to throw stones...neither are the blog visitors...

BEDWETTING BOO...OOPS!

Dear Stella,

 Good day, May God continue to bless you for the good works you are doing.

Please help me post this, I would like to know your visitors view on this issue that is bothering me.

My man wets the bed ooo SDKers, it doesn't happen all the time but only when he is intoxicated, this man drinks like a fish, we don't live in same country so only noticed when I visited him.

 It has happened 3 times on 3 different trips. The first time it happened, we went clubbing, came back and slept all through, when I woke up, the bed was went and I thought I had wet the bed, I kept asking him what it was and he smiled and said not to worry about it.sometimes we talked about it that day and just laugh about it, he always tells me not to worry. 

Well the second time, I woke up on a wet bed in a hotel, I touched his boxers and it was wet, then he got up  to change his boxers, he thought I was sleeping, when we woke up in the morning, he quickly said I don't know what this is, I said ok and I called the hotel receptionist for them to come change the sheets, I could imagine what was going through his head when I was making the call but we never talked about it. 

Then the third time, when i visited, I think the incident happened the night before i got to him because I saw the boxers inside a nylon bag in his closet and he threw it away in the bin, he had no idea that I had seen it.

Please guys, is this normal, as it only happens when he is really drunk. Male blog visitors, does it happen to you guys, Female blog visitors, does it happen to your husbands/Boyfriends. I go ask am how far the next time him piss for bed again o or how do I go about this.....

Thanks and have a blessed week.

If you ask me,I think your man needs help oh.It would be very embarrassing if it happens at the home of a close friend or family...I can imagine the pee smell all over even though he hides his under wears.

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DUMPED AT 36YEARS AFTER 8 ABORTIONS
hello Stella, Thank you for all the great work you are doing. Why I'm writing to you is to feel some type of relieve. I have been very depressed because  my boyfriend of almost seven years, broke up with me.

I have been there for this man when he was struggling, and I'm ashamed to say I have aborted eight pregnancies for him. He dumped me to marry a fellow Igbo woman. I heard he is getting married before end of the year. It hasn't been easy. People have mocked me, and my family isn't helping either. 

They warned me to discontinue seeing him, but I was adamant. I have cried myself to sleep, I have lost weight, and I can't go to my family to get any support. I have been dying in silent. At 36 I do not think I will date again. Marriage isn't for me. I'm waiting for the day my Heavenly Father will call my to Glory. I'm just tired. I know my fellow bloggers will insult me. There's nothing you are going to say to me that I have not said to myself. So sorry for all the typos, I'm too tired to think straight. 




*why is your family abandoning you when you need them now?The worst time to ever tell anyone ''I told you so...'' is when they are down.
I am so sorry that this has happened to you but you need to dust your shoulders and move on.he dumped you because he isnt in God's plans for you.
The abortion stuff is ''SCHEISSE'' but my dear,what has been done cannot be taken back,i pray that your womb is intact for the next man that will find and love you right!.
Love didnt hurt you,you just hung out with a man who didnt know how to love.

Women please stop killing babies for your men if they tell you to cos they end up dumping you for a woman whose history that think has no flaw.

please stop dwelling in self regret and move on,wish him well and wait for karma to catch up with him.Do you work?soak yourself in your work and wait for God's time.
I dont know what else to tell you,you are 36 and not a baby,cry all you want but challenge yourself to be better than when he left you!