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Hmm let me get one thing clear....Why do eople make it look like only men can be serial cheats?women are the worse serial cheats and they are so good that you might probably never catch them at it!

Yes i said so!!!

So how does one cope when a serial cheat lingers and wants to 're-enter'?

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

WHEN A SERIAL CHEAT LINGERS AND CAUSES CONFUSION....

Hello Stella, I wish to share my story with your wonderful blog visitors and I also ask for their candid advise. 

Last 2 years I was dating a guy and I was really sure he loves me but he was a serial cheat. At that time he was not in Nigeria but whenever he's home it's always a story about different girls.

 During those period we had our introduction and I had a miscarriage due to infection that he passed on. I was really pissed and I read different comment from different post about international relationships and cheating boyfriends and I made a decision to leave. 

I told him my mind about everything and that I was leaving him. He said I wasn't patient enough cos he had chosen me that others are just there, he was angry with me and with my decision and ended every communication with me. 

It was difficult for me to move on cos of so many things related to him but I tried, I didn't have work to resume to becos he stopped me from the one I was doing saying the salary was nothing compared to the stress. I met a friend and she told me there was job in Dubai and the processing isn't stressful so I begged my parents for assistant and they helped me which was last year. 

Before going to Dubai my ex bf called me and we started talking again and he told me he hasn't found someone like me that we shoud get back together. I agreed becos I was also feeling empty but I had it at the back of my mind not to rely on him totally. While I was in Dubai my friend introduced me to a guy and we started as friends and he told some things about him and I also told him about me. My ex bf was dating another lady again and was planning to come to Nigeria to meet and he told me to come home to so we can plan our wedding and all but I refused, I told him I just got here and I need to find myself first. 

When he went to Nigeria he went ahead to marry the girl, on hearing this I was broken and I confronted him and he said my friend told him that I was already dating someone else ‎ and so many things. I later confronted my friend and she said she told him in my defence cos he was really cheating me and she felt he needs to know some things that will hurt him too, but she didn't know it will make him marry someone else.

 I didn't take it well but I later felt we were not meant to be. Last month I met some older Nigerian women in Dubai, they were not happy with the work I was doing (cleaner) prior to my degree and they were talking about me settling down and about having children that I was in my prime age. I was warned Dubai is not a place for me to look for a life partner that everyone here lies about who they are and they only want bed mate.

 I was in tears becos they made me feel too old at 28 years and it has gotten me depressed since then. Late last month my ex bf called me that he was coming to Dubai that we should hook up and talk when he's around. 

I was shocked and he called frequently, last week he called that he will be coming in on November 16th and that I should lie at my work place to take off for a week cos he will like both of us to be together and the baby I lost he want to give me back cos i'm owing him a child. 

I was dumbfounded, I started to think maybe I wasn't destined to have a perfect wedding life after all, I know what he said was plain rubbish but my heart is already giving it a room for reasoning, am so confused I don't know what to do.

*Hellooo? he married someone else!.....After one week with you,he will return to her.he gave her his ring and his name!!!

Please get a bloody grip on yourself,you are just 28 years old for crying out loud!!!...I do not know what else to say..