When something goes south,there is trouble!....I hope the poster listens to advice and act accordingly,I cannot even begin to imagine how this situation will play out.
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SHOCKING NARRATIVE
SIBLING RIVALRY GONE SOUTH
Hello Stella,
Please post my story cos it needs an urgent response from your BVS.
I am about to destroy my elder sister's life before she destroys mine. My elder sisters are fighting me over my boo.Our 1st and 2nd older sisters, but the 1st is the main person. We got engaged 3 months ago, but before then, we have dated for 3 years and the relationship has been on and off, little did i know that the person responsible for my problems were my elder sisters.
Any time we had issues i always run to my elder sisters to complain, but i never knew they were the ones telling my boo shits about me becos of money. She has a 4 yr bastard son that nobody in my family know the father of her child, and my family have been very supportive, there is no term i don't pay his school fees,I accommodated her in my house when she had accommodation problem, when i had a problem with my boo, she was going to his house to cook for him while living in my house, to the extent that my guy rented a 3 bedroom flat and furnished it for her, he said he spent N1.7m.
Stella my guy has never spent that kind of money on me, he takes care of her child and was even planning to buy her a car before we reconciled,my sister
fought with me and told me that i can never take away my man from her,I am sure something is wrong somewhere cos no man in his right senses will behave the way my man does.
She has gone spiritual and me too i will go spiritual and physical cos i need to break the spell she used on my man, sometimes she fights me in the dream,I am planning to send bad boys to rape them after that i will harm them spiritually cos i cannot fold my arms and watch them destroy my relationship.
They told me that the battle line is drawn and I am ready cos I can't give up my man.
*Sibling rivalry is sometimes unavoidable but remember that it takes two to gossip.If your man loves you so much,why is he accommodating your sisters finances and encouraging this war?who does he want?
Your sister seems to threaten you with self confidence gotten from perhaps dating your man and hearing his opinion of you.
Please be wise cos the devil here might be the man you are engaged to.you wanna harm your sibling cos of a man?why dont you walk away instead?No man is worth this honey.
Make peace with your sisters and walk away,God is not asleep,he will give you the last laugh.Do not go physical or spiritual with your sisters please......Walk away from this situation,I beg you!
I must let you know that your mail shocked me to my roots,I know sibling rivalry exists but i have never encountered such hatred from one sibling to another.
Jesus! What kind of world is this? Its end time, brothers will rise against brothers.
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And pls,don't u ever call that innocent child bastard again.ur own nephew
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orikwaegwu ooo!! Soo this kinda ishh can happen even to this extent?? Even when it concerns your own blood ??? Hhhhmmmm!! When i look at my cliques and family,all i can just say is THANK YOU LORD!!! @poster,please its just not owkay for you and your sis going spiritual against each other over a guy who might even decide today to freestyle the two of you and move over to another girl whilst the two of you must have already done the damage to yourselves..you two should better wise up biko ooo! Remember two sane people cant go mad at the same time...if all ur sis wants in her life is this guy;just use him as a christmas gift to her...pls am already getting ashamed as to how u and ur sis decide to be eating a frog from same pot and still eating with just no shame...this story is just too displeasing to any ear that hears it... @MARTINS ABOY
DeleteAssassinate the guy, and peace will reign.
DeleteAssassinate the guy, and peace will reign.
DeleteLMAO! 300 spoke my 'evil' mind!
DeleteImma go with Stella on this one... lemme add small salt. poster so it's this kind of man u wanto spend d rest of ur life with? Ewwww! Man don finish? And who told u its spiritual or juju? Too much yoruba film is affecting you. That nigga is enjoying both of y'all pussy mehn. And u knw what they say about fucking siblings? That person gon live looong. Your sis fucked up but u just gotta let it slide and be the bigger person and let that man go he's so not worth it!
whoever wrote this is a fool... your BF is her baby daddy and you'll be fool if you continue chasing him.. his not the only guy out there.. leave the guy and sisters alone and go get a life...
Deletestella be posting foolish topics... if she wants to fight her sisters that's her business cos she'll live to regret it...
I HAVE NEVER COMMENTED BEFORE. BUT I BEG YOU IN THE NAME OF ALMIGHTY GOD. WALK AWAY!!! WALK AWAY!!! LEAVE HIM FOR THEM. THEY SAY WHEN A WOMAN STEALS YOUR MAN, THE BEST REVENGE IS TO LET HIM HAVE HER. BABE LET GO. GOD WILL BRING YOUR OWN. THIS YOUR RELATIONSHIP HAS TOO MUCH DRAMA AND ISSUES TO SURVIVE D TEST OF TIME. THEY ARE YOUR SISTERS PLS DO NOT FIGHT THEM. IF YOU DO THAT AND MARRY THIS MAN TOMORROW AND HE CHASES YOU FROM D HOUSE . WHERE WILL YOU RUN TO AFTER YOU HAVE DONE SUCH WICKEDNESS TO YOUR OWN SISTERS. PLEASE. JUST LEAVE THEM BE AND WALK AWAY. GOD BLESS
ReplyDeleteUr boyfriend is sleeping with Ur sister. He might be the father of her child that's why she never told you. U are obviously the real mugu here, Ur boyfriend is worse than the devil for comfortably fuelling your family fights. Any minute from now, u will drop dead (assassination, accident or jazz), cos this is the usual pattern with desperate fights. Then is all these worth going to he'll fire for? Burning unquenchable fire FOREVER? U better walk away while u can, God will bless you with a much better, peaceful and richer (since u like money)man
DeleteBiko do well to notify us wen he has told u he's the father of that 4yr old or wen ur sister gets angry enough to say it😂
DeleteThe love of money can kill . Leave them and walk away you will hear their end . I fear my family starting with my mum , be careful she can even kill you first , walk away .
ReplyDeleteJesus! What kind of world is this? Its end time, brothers will rise against brothers.
ReplyDeleteActually there is no need fighting over somebody, if he loves you he will be with you, the fact that he acted the way he did is enough reason for you to leave him, break-up with him and be yourself. Let your sister be with him because someday he will become a liability to her, she will regret
Ever doing what she did.
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Are u sure ur boo is not the father of ur sister's child? U need to talk sense into ur man! If ur man loves u as much as u love him, he's supposed to b on ur side and stop every shitty tin with ur sis. Except of cos he feels responsible to her cos of their child. Pls be prayerful. The weapon of prayer and ur bible should be the only spiritual fight u shud have wt ur sisters.
ReplyDeletePoster, you have read every single thing written here. Walk away. That man is not worth all the headach and drama.
DeleteA word is enough for the wise.
You are letting a man tear your family apart? Trust me he will not marry any of you, and if he does such a man will show you hell. That he can do all this with your sister while you guys were on break shows there is something very wrong with him. Forget jazz, God is helping you and telling you to run with all these signs. Leave him for them, you will find your own. This guy is not worth it. If he is going to be with you, no amount of jazz will stop him. Take a step back and leave it all to God.
ReplyDelete@Poster>If ur sister's sonbis four yrs and u dated ur boyfriend for 3yrs dat means u snatched him from ur sister..I think u are d side chic here..Tell us d whole truth and stop lying to get sympathy from us...How can u call dat innocent boy bastard? U are such a bitter person and it runs in ur family..Killing ur sisters bcos of a man? U need spiritual slap..Whats so special about dat man dat u cant walk away? U have low self esteem...If u like go spiritual or do juju till thy kingdom come,what will be will be..No man is worth it
Delete.Ur sisters are soooo shameless and useless...Una no get parents? What are they saying about dis?
Instead of going spiritual on your sis go spiritual on your fiancée to bring his head back .
ReplyDeleteYour boo is the father of your sister's child . Trust me and thank me later. This is authentic. If you could request a dna (i don't know how you will go about this) then you will remain grateful to me for the rest of your life. Don't do what you are planning to do. Not worth it.
Deletethis man is not worth all these hassles. im very sure he is also sleeping with your sister. i know it you have been with him for so long but please this is the part where you have to move on.let go of him.
ReplyDeleteits either your sister is using jazz on him or he loves her more than he loves you. either ways leave him. i know you must be considering the number of years you have been with him hence not wanting to let go. like the saying goes, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.
How can u even consider being with a man that is sleeping with ur elder sister? Na wa o. So now u want to kill urselves because of a useless man? Granted ur sister is shameless but what about u? Pls leave d man o, so that ur sister will not kill u. This life, may God help us.
DeleteUr guy sleeping with ur sister? What madness is that? God forbid. I will disown d man and disown my sister. Better still, go and wash ur bf's head cos ur sister has really turned pot for him while she was cooking for me. U better be careful. Are u parents dead? Where are they, are they not seeing d nonsense u guys are doing? This is terrible
Deletethis man is not worth all these hassles. im very sure he is also sleeping with your sister. i know it you have been with him for so long but please this is the part where you have to move on.let go of him.
ReplyDeleteits either your sister is using jazz on him or he loves her more than he loves you. either ways leave him. i know you must be considering the number of years you have been with him hence not wanting to let go. like the saying goes, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage..
Please where are your parents? Are they dead? Am sure if they're alive all these won't be happening, but you sef you wicked ooo, you want to hurt your sisters because of a guy, you no try at all, if you want to deal with anybody it should be with the devil that calls himself your guy. Sorry to say you all are really crazy and the only people I blame are your parents.
ReplyDeleteNa wah ohh..
ReplyDeleteI don't know why old single mothers are always desperate to hook a man..
My dear do whatever you can to get your man back...wetin sef..
Don't dull ohh..make she no win you..
I wish you luck..
She should fight for the man? Mscheew some of you sef.
DeleteIs the man in question even worth it??
DeleteLinda eze dumbest adviser ever
DeleteDon't cuss Linda, it's her opinion or probably what she can do.
DeleteAbeg, all this for a man??? Is your guy worth all this fight??? Please Dear, your man is a weakling because he shuttles between you and your sisters. A real man would keep things to himself and won't even your sis to visit him in your absence talk more of cooking for him.
ReplyDeleteMy dear poster, my advice is, forget that man and move on. All the time you go use to think of what to do to your sisters, use it to build your career. If possible, move out from your old house and move to a place nobody go know.
You don't need to fight, cry or struggle for what is yours, if truly the guy is yours, he must definitely come back to you.
ANGELRAY SAID
ReplyDeleteSome sisters are evil but the man in question is a devil. The best tin to do is to walk away, a man that prefers spending money on ur sister instead of u , he's a demon.
ANGELRAY SAID
ReplyDeleteSome sisters are evil but the man in question is a devil. The best tin to do is to walk away, a man that prefers spending money on ur sister instead of u , he's a demon.
Your elder sisters are very wicked!
ReplyDeleteSuch heartless person don't deserve any good thing from you!
I believe she's using jazz to hold your boyfriend! No boyfriend in his rightful mind will do such to the extent of renting her an apartment worth that price!
Which kinda heartless siblings will fight a sister on top of her man? Are you sure both of u are from same parents? Listen, don't go any spiritual! Leave the guy! Don't kill yourself for any stupid mucheche
If they kill you, they will continue their lives together! So be wise now and let go! If he's yours, he will come for you! Get into serious prayers and stay away from those sisters of yours, klar!
And, why are you calling that child bastard? Don't tell me you're their like! You seem to have bad mouth Please don't do that next time!
Pepper ose oku on patrol
Abeg this rivalry is on another level...how will u feel after doing all this things to her...why dont u walk away and let her be the one who offended u...Is the guy worth all this drama...na wa oo
ReplyDeleteExactly? how would you feel after sending boys to rape your sisters? what if they die in the process? You need to address the root cause of the problem which is your boo, how can he be sleeping with 2 sisters? Do not make peace with your sisters, they are evil and can kill u, when God shows you your enemies, you keep them at arms length.
DeleteDump the jackass of a boo and stay the hell away from your sisters, be prayerful!
The stories I read here, mostly leaves my mouth wide open and speechless. Things re really happening. @ poster the man u wanna fight for, is also wanting to fight for u, if u kill ur sisters, wat next. Will that mk d man come back, not everything might be spiritual. She might be showing him more attention than ur doing n if ur nagging please don't. Ve a hrt to hrt talk wit ur man 1st n pray b4 doing that. When u ve known his mind den u knw wat step to take. Note too, he isn't d only man on earth. If u die in dis war, then tell God u wr fighting wit ur sis over a man, am sure dt wud be ur express ticket to hell.
ReplyDeleteWat is urs will be urs. Easy ohhhh
Hum.the kind of stories we read here.
ReplyDeleteKill ur sister cos of a man
Happy birthday Genny.
More blessings to ur new yr.
Sorry its coming late.
I am perplexed by this narrative, jeez.
ReplyDeleteI align with Stella o! Please walk away from all that drama.
ReplyDeleteI am perplexed by this narrative, jeez.
ReplyDeleteMy darlin please work away out of dat man"s life he's an evil man and please don't make peace with ur sister eat with dem with a long spoon. ...anyone most especially siblings who can fight you spiritually and physically because of a man is not worth to call a sister. ... dat spiritual u wanna go because of ur siblings please go it for urself go for cleansing come close to God so dat wen u find a better man they won't take him from u!.....MY STEP SISTERS RE THE BOMB!
ReplyDeleteTake stella's advice.don't soil your hands cis of a man. Your man might even be d father of her child
ReplyDeleteI couldn't even finish this story. You are stupid. Your sister is foolish. And that guy is an animal for sleeping with two sis and causing problems between them.
ReplyDeleteIf you need advice for real, do away with that bastard boyfriend ASAP. He is a devil. For your sister, the sooner the two of you come together and realise that the guy is the enemy, the better for the two of you.
Biko is the guy in question Dantata?
Stella Dimokokoko......... I like the mature advice you have given. Spoken well.
ReplyDeleteReading this shocked me and I hope and pray that the poster heeds your advice Stella,because you nailed it.
ReplyDeleteWalk away from it all and let God be God.
i can never fight for a man,never,for what?when men full this world?what if you fight for the man and suffers when you both get married.
ReplyDeletei can never fight for a man,never,for what?when men full this world?what if you fight for the man and suffers when you both get married.
ReplyDeleteThis is serious!!!That elder sister is shameless though.She should be thinking of her to live a better life,be a good mother to her child and not the other way round.Needless say,there might be more to it.The thing pass me!!!
ReplyDeletei can never fight for a man,never,for what?when men full this world?what if you fight for the man and suffers when you both get married.
ReplyDeleteGod forbid bad tin...chai.
ReplyDeletePls walk away.leave everytin in God's hand n am sure He will put a smile on ur face.u deserve beta n ur God chosen Man shall locate u in Jesus name Amen
ReplyDeleteGod forbid bad tin...chai.
ReplyDeleteI am too shocked for words because I love my sisters too much. I will rather kill the guy than my sisters.. Please ohh leave the man and run. Make peace with your sisters the guy will still cater to another woman even if your sister dumps him. it is a him thing not your sisters.
ReplyDeleteThis one pass me...let me chill as comments roll in...
ReplyDeleteGoodday aunty stella. I sent you a mail on sdimokokorkus since Sunday. Pls, post it am in need of advice seriously. Thanks ma
ReplyDeletea lot easier to walk away with less headache my dear.....Leave them and let everyone know that the boundary line has been drawn and please desist from calling the little boy a bastard...no be him do himself.
ReplyDeleteMy dear stella has said it all.no man is worth fighting for.stay away from both of them and live ur life peacefully.if na man way no get money for hand wil u be fighting for him.madem poster pls pack well jare.the story is really touchable but what goes around come around maybe at the processing of spiritual stuff u might lost ur life,leave ur sister alone the anger of GOD will soon decend on her.GOD never sleep nor slumber.if the so call man truely love you, he will come begging like a billy beez.keep calm and watch what will happen at the end.sisters fighting over one man na wa oo but na becos of he money no be love fighting be this.
ReplyDeleteBlessing baby..I admire the fact that you refused to be bullied off this blog by bvs teasing you,instead you improved on your written grammar..keep it up dear..this blog teaches individuals massively in all areas of life! Kudos..
DeleteHmmmm biko. Who the hell is bvs that is teasing me all around.it is bvs that thought me how to read and write.see me see wahala oo why are guys always on my neck.make una free me small nah.
DeleteLoooooL.....
DeleteSomeone didn't get the message.
OMG gosh.what an insult.pls i cant stand it anymore,someone didnt get my massage,do you know you are talking too?lolzz well make i no show myself too much sha,oh yeah we all know that this blog has teaches individual messively but all the same nobody is parfect in the term of writting or whatsover.one thing about me is that,when people tease me i feel like giving out the more that my weaking point but let be sincere i never knew bvs has be teasing me ooo
DeleteOops! @Poster... Red flag Alert!!! Please run away from him... He's not worth it!
DeleteAs for your Sisters..blood is thicker than water! Forgive, pray, love them with wisdom and understanding.
I personally suggest you draw close to God too. Best Wishes..
«Peace Ambassador »
She need to do lesson 14 on comprehension again
Deleteblessing oooooooo,,,,u av murdered grammer
DeleteShame on all of you!
ReplyDeleteYou especially! See how you are boasting and proud of plans to rape your own sister! All over a man.
Your family must be cursed! What is wrong with your man helping out your sister if you all are straight forward and loyal to one another. Is your man an imbecile that your sister controls? Ditch the juju talk abeg. You think you are gangster, what if you lose your life in the war you are declaring? Are your parents alive at all?
You lot need to go to the foundation and rebuild your relationship with your sisters. Face your man and shelve your evil ideas.
Dearest pls pls I beg u walk away from year boo, ur sistas and from this wahala now. God will give u d last laugh no man is worth going spiritual or physical for. Ur sistas will always be ur blood. Pls walk away cos God will surprise u. It will be difficult now but will rejoice later and be glad u walked away. God bless u dear. It is not easy what ure passing thru but relocation/excommunication is best for now.
ReplyDeleteSometimes when I read stuffs like this I just shake my head, wonder what type of family is this?! where are parents? are you guys half sisters or step ?, did you guys grow up together ?how old is this man?
ReplyDeleteWell these questions needs answers.
Mr Lyca
Lyca baby how are you? Kisses
DeleteAnon E-Hugs throwing my kisses aswell.
DeleteMr Lyca.
woohoo!
ReplyDeletethis is a severe sibling rivalry case.
Poster, do you want to hear the truth from me?
Now listen, being a winner and a brave person doesn't always mean that you have to fight the battle to the end.
true strength and victory is being adult enough to walk away from the nonsense with your head held high...
The best is yet to come.
don't fight dirty. don't soil your hands all for a man that may dump you all later when he's had enough.
Be wise!
Poster please walk away.Listen to Stella's advice.truly no man is worth it.He is not the only man in the world. Let them have him.Your own man will surely come.
ReplyDeleteBut seriously are they your real sisters or step sisters? This is really pathetic.I always pray for my sisters to meet and marry good men while some siblings are destroying their's...wow.Things are really happening in this world.Please walk away..I am sure you cherish your life.Hatred can make people do the unthinkable.Let God fight for you please.it is well
ehn...stella, it is easier said than done o. But eh, poster needs to chill seriously. Could feel her screaming from the write-up, please and please hold it right there.
ReplyDeleteCome to think of it, if you go spiritual and with your sister who is already in the spirit realm because of this guy and you finally win, you think your sister would stop? She would rather kill that guy than watch you be his MRS, am telling you. This is just going to cause alot of disaster and irrepairable havoc.
Just let it slide, let go and let God...BTW, how did you and your sisters arrive at this juncture? Have you not heard about sisterly love? its priceless, please embrace it...
Bikonu walk away,me no lk spiritual tinz oooh + u wanna snd boys 2 rape kini?abeg jst leave dem,wen there's life there's hope
ReplyDeletestella which kind advicr you dey give her. can the dead fight? babe this your sisters will not think twice in killing you. so you too fight spiritual with spiritual. not juju. but God. 7 days midnight prayer naked. you are not married to him yes but any man that has asked you to marry him spiritually you have a right over him. so wake up and dont allow your sisters bury you and sleep with your boo on your wedding night
ReplyDeletei meant burial night. some sisters are from the devil. that is how my cousin loves to sleep with my ex bfs. out of 3 guys i have broken up with she sleeps with all of them after i have left them and those dudes tel me all the time. when i met my husband stella this babe is not even allowed near my street talkless of house.
ReplyDeleteForget this man.
ReplyDeleteForget your ugly sisters and move the fuck on.
A d'eji ife a na gba n'anya gba na Nti.
Well seems u have made up ur mind to go spiritual, buzz me up so I can take u to one of the best native doctors in Delta State, that will be my own contribution. I don't think u are faraway from Delta... Advice urself sweetie.... #alinko
ReplyDeletePls flee from that guy
ReplyDeleteAnd don't do whatever u re thinkg on doing
Goodday ma. I need candid advise ma. Am 31 yrs old. I met a guy when I was 15 yrs old we lived on the same compound he stays with his. Uncle while I stayed with my parents, we started dating infact he deflowered me. Our relationship was very intimate he was 11yrs older. Very loving, caring and generous to a fault. Along d line he got admitted into d navy and went on a course along d line I met my husband that was in 2004 we started dating in 2005 the reason why I dated him then I don't know uptil now cos he is the opposite of my ex. Maybe cos I was young or stupid or in lust I don't know, well b4 I married my husby ex came pleading nad crying that I shouldn't leave him sent my siblings and mum to plead it was @ this period my mum said one pastor says we shouldn't marry that we aren't meant 4 each other but I still refused that I must marry my hubby. Well we got married 2008 but I find it difficult to conceive though my husby didn't give me problem nor his parents but he beats me blue black at d slightest opportunity especially when I receive calls from our clients I work in an MFB this still continues until recently when I told him av reported at alausa incase he beats me again. I had a daughter in 2012 thru CS my husby refused to pay bills yet on naming day he spend so much, daughter is starting school I had to report him to his dad before he paid d fees, I desperately want to get pregnant again cos of d delay I had earlier but scared cos it's going to be on my head again,Now my dilemma is my ex who is married with two kids wants me back at all course infact aunty stella I av fallen in love with him again, yet I don't want to leave my husby despite his xter and my younger ones wish that I leave . My ex has been sending his friends to plead with me to come back that he will relocate us to another state and help get a new Job, my head is spinning, anytime, I look @ my hubby I felt so much pity for him yet I don't love him anymore, I am so unhappy. Help me pls
ReplyDeleteMadam all I can tell u Is dat if u want to make d decision of leaving an abusive relationship, it shouldn't be bcos of ur ex who's married.
DeleteIf u want to be free then do it bcos u want to live a normal happy nd long life...anything apart from dat. My hands no dey am!
Madam MFB,if your leaving your husband,you are leaving him because he is a beast that beats you up and cannot take care of his family..do not leave him because you want to go and collect another woman's husband!
DeleteTrust me,even if he succeeds in relocating you to another state,(you will probably resign) one day you will stop getting those monthly cheques! Please build up your life and move on if you sincerely know that man you call a husband is abusing you,don't talk of another child in these circumstances abeg, a baby will only complicate issues! You married someone else and lost your chance at your true love,nne move on..thank u
You seriously need help! Jeez
DeleteAunty Stella...I want to poo. should I? Aunty Stella, I want to drink water. Please ma should I? Aunty Stella is not Common sense stella. Just read your long epistle. If you want to leave, leave cos of the beating not for another man. He is now married abi? He is 'unreachable '. Don't scatter another woman's marriage bcos of 'naked lust'. You would pay dearly for it. Cut all contacts with your ex and face your marriage!!!!! Am not interested in how madly in love you were. But leave him alone. You made the wrong choice. So live with it!! Or run away. But not to your ex abeg.
DeleteMadam, exactly what do you want?
DeleteTo get pregnant again or
To walk out of an abusive marriage or
To abscond with another woman's husband?
Too much drama. You need a little break to think. Take some time off work, travel to somewhere with your child or go alone. Think,think, think. Exactly what do you want in your life?
Don't you have a reliable elder relative you can talk to? Pastor nkor?
Completely forget the idea of screwing another woman's husband. If your husband is not going to improve, well use your tongue to count your teeth.
As for having another child, hold on. Can you take care of the two kids if your marriage eventually pack up? Forget the idea of pregnancy now till things normalize in your life.
May God give you wisdom and grace
That is ehnnn.? nigerian women I throway hand for una. your husband beats you. does not take care of you or the kid you manage to have and you want another.
Deleteyou were having sexual relations when you were 15 to a man who should know better, now after he has married and has two kids , he wants you back. You are all irresponsible human beings. leave your husband because he is an animal. when you have settled down with your child after at least 2 years and you have bettered yourself mentally and financially, you can start dating responsible men.
Goodday ma,I need candid advise ma. Am 31 yrs old. I met a guy when I was 15 yrs old we lived on the same compound he stays with his. Uncle while I stayed with my parents, we started dating infact he deflowered me. Our relationship was very intimate he was 11yrs older. Very loving, caring and generous to a fault. Along d line he got admitted into d navy and went on a course along d line I met my husband that was in 2004 we started dating in 2005 the reason why I dated him then I don't know uptil now cos he is the opposite of my ex. Maybe cos I was young or stupid or in lust I don't know, well b4 I married my husby ex came pleading nad crying that I shouldn't leave him sent my siblings and mum to plead it was @ this period my mum said one pastor says we shouldn't marry that we aren't meant 4 each other but I still refused that I must marry my hubby. Well we got married 2008 but I find it difficult to conceive though my husby didn't give me problem nor his parents but he beats me blue black at d slightest opportunity especially when I receive calls from our clients I work in an MFB this still continues until recently when I told him av reported at alausa incase he beats me again. I had a daughter in 2012 thru CS my husby refused to pay bills yet on naming day he spend so much, daughter is starting school I had to report him to his dad before he paid d fees, I desperately want to get pregnant again cos of d delay I had earlier but scared cos it's going to be on my head again,Now my dilemma is my ex who is married with two kids wants me back at all course infact aunty stella I av fallen in love with him again, yet I don't want to leave my husby despite his xter and my younger ones wish that I leave . My ex has been sending his friends to plead with me to come back that he will relocate us to another state and help get a new Job, my head is spinning, anytime, I look @ my hubby I felt so much pity for him yet I don't love him anymore, I am so unhappy. Help me pls
ReplyDeleteWhat did u just type??? Pls u don't hav a problem except when u type...see better issue wey we dey discuss u come bring ur "I pity him cos he beats me story here"
DeleteMy dear , if you love yourself please walk away , no man is worth the trouble , i don't know what kind of home you are from but trust me you don't want your siblings attacking you spiritually or physically . On the other hand , your man seems to have a problem too cos there's no valid reason for him to furnish your sister's apartment and also have her cook for him, don't be surprised if he has slept with her already.Next keep your boo issues to yourself abeg
ReplyDeleteMy dear take it easy, we don't choose our family so no matter what happen we have to make things work. As I'm typing this I and my elder sister are not talking and in as much as try to accommodate all her troubles I still got so much love for her. If I begin talk my own story we no go comot here. My advice is for you to thread carefully and pray for peace to reign between u all. Planning revenge does not solve problem it will only make u put your hands in so many evil and remember that the devil never solve problems he only add to it.
ReplyDeleteDear poster,please walk away from this whole situation.it is not worth your life.leave everything in God's hand and watch karma play out.
ReplyDeleteif i may ask, what is the man saying in all this?
PURPLEIVY
SDK you just took the word out my mouth, biko dear do not go any spiritual or gang rape your sister, let her be, Karma is a bitch , she will deal with them ( both ur guy and ur sis) accordingly just sit and watch. No man worth fighting for.
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Please walk away from Le Boo. You will never have peace in that relationship. It's so not worth it fighting for a man. Pls stop the fight with your sister. I'm not saying love her. Just stop fighting. Lots of guys out there. And if not, at least you'll still be alive and @ peace. Me, I nor fit o. God forbid bad thing.
ReplyDeleteSo u want to kill ur sisters cos of Penis and Money?Be ready to kill more women cos ur guy sounds like who jazz de quick catch...
ReplyDeleteStella has said it all. Your abi una man, na him be the root cause of una sibling rivalry. Don't think evil towards your sisters, walk away & in God's time, your own man, who nobody will drag with you & who won't be paying school fees, renting million naira apartment & planning to buy car behind your back for your own sister, will find you. Prayerfully let this man go, forgive your sisters of the hurt they've caused you & focus on being that woman who'll be the centre of her man's world. Cheers.
ReplyDeleteHmmm..This one pass MOI o. Madam trust MOI on this if you let this man go now you will laugh last. Make peace with your sisters, tell them you are ready to let go of that man for peace to reign then watch and see how God Almighty will fight for you.
ReplyDeleteMoi-moi?
DeleteMai-mai?
They must v charmed him, when parents are told to raise their children properly they won't listen, proper evidence of juvenile deliquency. Poster if u are ready to fight u do so but remember it may cost u a lot. On a second thought, u aint married to the dude yet so u can leave them all and start a new life cos with the way I saw ur narrative, I believe ur sisters can go extra length.
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ReplyDeleteWow! OmfG?!
It's not clear eye Abeg. Your sisters have gone to cook him in one baba's place. But they r wicked ooo..y not go and find their own men instead of fighting u for urs.
God will punish them.
My dear walk away,my immediate elder brother dt I gave money close to 1m to buy some goods 4 me since 3 months ago,doesn't pick my calls or send my goods or even give me bck my money,dt money is all my life,i labour 3yrs before I could get that money.now we are havin problems in the family cos of the issue but tank God I hav a wonderful husband nd sister who said I should walk away,i should walk away frm my money nd d problem,my dear is very difficult to let go all your lif savings but I hav to walk away to allow peace to reign.i hav cried my eyes out since last 2days but as am typing dis I feel a lot better.as my sis nd hubby said I will hav d Last laugh nd pls poster make God your personal friend and you will see everytin will turns out good 4 you.and I also want to use this medium to thank Jesus,if nt 4 him I think the problem would have gone more than this.Thank you my God.
ReplyDelete@ poster,,stella is on point,,,pls walk away,,God wl surely put a smile on ur face,,,dont fight ur sibings,,let der conscience judge dem,,if dey have oooo
ReplyDeleteHmm everyday new story..
ReplyDeletePoster I will tell u exactly the same thing Stella just told u, don't get ur life messed up cos of a man. I dunno if he's innocent or not, nor do I care if he's charmed or not. But what I can tell u is dat no man is worth that kind of stress nd not one who's not ur husband yet.
What if after this battle u eventually win nd in a yr or 2yrs to come he abandons u for another woman nko what den...everything would ve been for nothing. So just kip ur calm nd let God fight for u in dis case..u will surely have d last laugh I know it! A word is enuf for d wise..
Ask questions because am not sure you all are in anyway related at all! How can you even plan to hurt your on sisters with such!!! Am really shocked but remember that whatever you do now, you will answer for it sooner or later! A word is enough for the wise!!
ReplyDeleteSo u want to kill ur sisters cos of Penis and Money?Be ready to kill more women cos ur guy sounds like who jazz de quick catch...
ReplyDeleteYou are so silly, you want to kill your blood sister because of a man.
ReplyDeleteIf you kill your sister, that man will still leave you,
Then what?
He has slept with both of you and he will not marry any one of you so whether you kill your sister or not,that man will not marry any of you.
Walk away from that man, Anuofia.
How your mother will be weeping for giving birth to unruly children ? You are as wicked as your sister.
XOXO MYSTERY
Poster, please leave that man now!
ReplyDeleteHe is not worth it. He is not yours. I know it's painful but please I beg you to drop him like it's hot.
Move on with your life my dear and be more discrete in your next relationship.
Don't see it as if they have won, no they haven't. It'd not a competition. For how long do you intend fighting your sisters because of him? How dirty can you fight? Do you know this might get to the extent of one of you killing the other? Is that what you want? Can you live with yourself? Is your life worth loosing for this relationship?
Think deeply about this my dear.
Choose your battle wisely, this one is not worth it in my opinion.
Had it been you were already married to him, I would say you should fight for your home though not through the means you mentioned. But since you are not yet married to him, please waka now you hear? That will be the wise thing to do.
That's what I would do if I were in your shoes.
As for your sisters, don't worry karma will surely visit them. Leave them for God, hand them over to God and watch him fight your battles for you.
Don't bring yourself to their level by staining yourself with diabolical acts just because of an ordinary man. You are too precious to go that low. You are a child of God my dear.
I understand your bitterness but please, thread with caution. Let this go.
Also don't harm them or send people to.
They are still your blood no matter what. This fight is not worth fighting.
That man is not worth it, I repeat!
Btw what are your parents saying or doing about this? How could they allow things get this bad between their children?
Something is wrong with your foundation, I'm sorry to say.
You all need Jesus in your lives and family.
If you guys don't invite God into your family, it won't be long before the devil finishes you all off.
He has already planted the seed of hatred, envy, greed, jealously and disunity in your family and he has relaxed in his sitting room gladly watching you guys tear yourself into pieces.
Don't give the devil the satisfaction of achieving his aim which is to destroy you and your blood.
Be wise my dear.
All the best.
Your so intelligent!! E - kiss. I second that.
Deletewow!!! this is deep meeeeeeeeeen, dear poster, I would advise you listen to Stella, no man is worth all this trouble if he could do this with your sisters, he will surely do it with other women and besides, it all boils down to the money he seems to be spending on your sisters. Ask yourself and be truthful, if for some reason he dose not have money tomorrow, would you still love him?..take a walk dear sister
ReplyDeleteStella is right. Men are liars, hes fucking you both period...
ReplyDeleteWhaaaaaaaaaat?Lord hv mercy on ur children,sisters fighting one another cos of one idiot of man who is nt sincere to himself,my dear poster ask urself dis question,does d guy worth fighting for?If he claims to hv loved u dat much why is he so attached to ur sister to d extent of taking care of her more than u,spending on her n her baby more than urself,hmmmm yeye dey smell here Ooo弡 ,if u finally marry dat guy he ll end up in d arms of ur sis,my candid advice to u is 4 u to 4get dat he-goat of a man,surrender all to d almighty,ask Him 2 fight d battle drawn by ur sisters,surely He ll grant u peace of mind n giv u a man dat deserves u, dnt think evil of dem rather allow God 2 pay them in their own coins.Nawa Ooo弡 agha ulo joro njo
ReplyDeleteBLOG ANALYSER: Chai, I deleted the long epistle I wrote at first.quit painful! Just like Stella said let go. Go to God in prayers. Some one some where wants to destroy ur family and ur boyfriend is the tool. Learn to be abite private stop sharing every rubbish with your family. Learrn to solve ur crisis ur self. It is well with u.
ReplyDeletePlz let t go,dnt fix ursef in sumfin bad coz of a man..... Ur God given man will cum jst travel nd change ur line,clear ur head nd v fun.itz hard bt u can do it,God hlp u
ReplyDelete~@iamjbankz SA to President Jonathan 2015~
Go physical nd spiritual untop man? Abeg go biological nd chemical join,shior
ReplyDeleteDese ur sisters are siblings from Hell o!
ReplyDeleteCbai,can feel ur pain
Buh nne,pause a little and ask urself
Is it worth it?
No,just calm down and answer this truthfully...
I am sure u know d answer
I am sure u know it's not worth
They are not worth it
That ur so-called boo is even more of a devil Dan ur sisters....pls don't believe otherwise
Let me tell u dis....dis guy is not as innocent as he wants u to believe
Dump him!
And leave dose ur fatty bom bom sisters to sweet Karma!
This is indeed serious. Pls dear poster, don't go physical or spiritual abt dis. It hurts I know but u wouldn't want to soil ur hands would u? I'll suggest u talk to ur man. Ask him what he wants. Stop any physical confrontations with ur sis n above all go on ur knees in prayers even if its 3days fasting n prayers, do it to salvage ur relationship n then leave d rest to God.
ReplyDeleteBut where are your parents in all of these? what have they been doing to make sure there is peace in the home? its obvious you guys were not raised in the fear of the Lord, Shikena!!!
ReplyDeleteStella has said it all. I know what sibling rivalry is like first hand...my mum and her elder sis...they haven't been in speaking terms for the past three years. It's really sad that when we see her in public she snubs us. No man is worth the stress, Jazz or no jazz any man that can sleep with your older sister is just plain stupid. Going spiritual on her and sending guys to rape her will only make you feel worse and drag you to her level. Let her have the man and eat him if she likes. Cut all communications with everyone of them for now. It's not going to be easy but move on, God willing you would find a better man that deserves you without any form of drama. Your success would hurt them more. Focus on making yourself better. Just talk to God and let bygones be bygones. That man is just a devil. I don't want to say you have a bad mind because the extent to which you want to go because of a man is appalling. If you marry that man you would have no rest of mind....Bless y'all
ReplyDeleteThis story shocked me too o. Your elder sister is an embarrassment to all "adas" and your man? He's the devil himself. Not worth your stress dear. Keep away from them if you want to have peace and live long. Your own man will come to you soon
ReplyDeleteHow could u call ur nephew a bastard?...I hope d guy leaves u.u don't deserve a good man for making dat stupid statement. Get d fuck outta here jor
ReplyDeleteI saw it too and was dumbfounded. Ur nephew a 'bastard'???!! He has no hand in this mbok. Ure obviously super angry but let's face the truth if you and this your supernatural boyfriend are all that you guys won't be breaking up so often n making up. It shows the relationship isn't even an enviable one. You used to run to your sister for advise which means you guys were all happy till you discovered she's chopping your boyfriend. My sister only fools make haste to shed blood. I advise you go seek a strong spiritual guide who will pray for you and advise you. Do away with that your superman boyfriend cuz I can't imagine you guys having sex again as he has also tasted your sis. Give your sis a break and just be on your own. Time heals everythg. See this as lesson learnt! Do anything you wanna but don't harm your sister physically or diabolically. You'll be fine.
DeleteA bastard is a child born out of wedlock, no be insult as the Nigerian way has taught us. So poster is right, father unknown and most importantly born out of wedlock.
DeleteI was forced to really read up the meaning.... It has,nothing yo even do with knowledge of who the child father is....as long as both parents are not married the child is a bastard... But.it's archaic and derogatory.... Babymamas una hear...na bastards dictionary talk say una dry train o....with all this babymama syndrome very soon everyone would be addressed as a bastard and the recipient would smile and say so are you...
Delete@observer. Can u pls shut up with ur stupid definition of a bastard. A child born out of wedlock is not a bastard pls. Stop spreading false statements on here.
DeletePlease my dear move on, your sister has gone spiritual on you cos of a man and you want to fight back?Aunty Stella has said it all, ur man is the problem he's sleeping with you both!!
ReplyDeleteMenn! I have never experienced this in my whole life! I fight with my sister but even when we are not talking,we love each other so much! I trust her with my life!
ReplyDeleteNow dear poster,you don't have to send men to rape your sisters...why is your man doing all these for her? if this relationship has been off and on for years,frankly speaking..maybe is time to even withdraw and listen to God.. you already made the mistake of bringing your sisters into your lives so much that she even cooks for your man and possibly sleeps with him randomly!
From the tone of your mail,you are not ready to let go of your man..well,if the spiritual aspect is to go down on your knees,perfect! But if it is to go and collect concoctions,i do not support that.. for you to come to this blog..apparently your folks cant do much to help this situation..your relationship is long over due for marriage..either take the break I suggested above or just tie the knots already!
Please reflect on my questions and suggestions,there lies your solutions..thank you
Are you kidding me, is he the last man alive or the last man God created mtschewwww. After una don kill una self's finish dat same man will move on to the next available chick he sees. Wisdom is profitable to direct, leave him and move on. Heartbreak does not kill oooo
ReplyDeleteSiblings...who needs them???I've 2 of them,I live about 15mins from one n in almost 5yrs she's never visited my place even once but keeps pretending 2 luv me in public.I dropped a rant on an earlier post n somone called me 419 thinking I was asking 4 help,I just want out of dis so-called family so bad.I wish I was never born into such a loveless family in d 1st place,our parents did deir best by loving us unconditionally tho it seems d amount of love dey showed me caused my siblings 2 resent me.I know I'm just rambling @dis point,it's d frustration getting 2 me.I live in dis same lagos wit dem n yet haven't set eyes on dem in atleast 3yrs.I miss our late parents so bad I can't wait 2 join dem.I pray natural death comes my way soon n lagos state govt includes my body in a mass burial b4 any bastard starts 2 play 2 d gallery as dey usually do by forming bereaved sibling n spending money 4 some lavish burial when I only needed less dan 500k loan 2 turn my previously thriving business around.How do u promise sumone 500k loan since may 4 my business knowing I deal with living things dat require feeding only 2 withold d funds n sit back n watch my animals die 1 after d other due 2 lack of food n general care.Dese same pple help cousins n strangers set up businesses but continue 2 sabotage mine,despite being multimillionaires I owe dem not one penny as I always manage 2 pay back whatever dey reluctantly borrow me.I'm tired of living in dis cold loveless world but I won't commit suicide tho I wud welcome accidental or natural death @ dis time.It's killing me 2 see d animals I've nurtured n raised die off 1 after d other due 2 hunger,to even think one of d last surviving ones' pregnant n due in about 5wks.Even sadder's d fact dat 2 of her offsprings'd pay back dat 500k loan when sold considering she delivered 12,10 and 15 previously.I'm not soliciting 4 help,just ranting cos I've no one 2 rant to.
ReplyDeleteClimb down your high horse and talk to your sisters!
DeleteAsk them for help and stop suffering in silence!
Did your parents not leave a will behind?
DeleteHmmmmmm
DeleteIt is well with you Ma.
Keep the faith!
I hope you are not one of those people that take and take and the moment one say no, you for get all they've done for you in the past??? Cause you sound proud and arrogant.. maybe they have been helping and you act like it's your birth right... just saying!! Learn to show gratitude and I'm sure they will help more inugo? Ndo
DeleteI agree with u Aunty Stella, this relationship doesn't worth the stress u are going through right now. Pls, take a work. God will provide for u a better man. Assuming u go Spiritual or dibolical about this; how will u leave with the same man forever? Pls, let go of him.
ReplyDeleteDoes this man really love you?are you sure the problem is not from him and not your sisters?please don't go spiritual or physical,sweetii just walk away and let go..God will surely see you through this mess and give you someone who deserves you.
ReplyDeletemy DEAR LIKE EVERY OTHER BLOG VISTOR HAS SAID PLEASE WALK AWAY,THOUGH I KNOW ITS REALLY NOT GOING TO BE EASY BUT DO IT. AFTER ALL NA ONLY YOU WAKA COME THIS WORLD. Aunty Stels pls post my comment o
ReplyDeleteMy pple is not easy ooo like dat, not only sisters, just remembered my own case den was my elder brother, I am d only girl in family of 4, d second born, my elder brother was a nuisance in d house, my mother a widow, he will cause d poor woman to cry alot,, was selling things in d house, I and my uncle, where d ones given him tough times in d house, I am a crazy yom boy, I fight like mad. Finally my uncle travelled out of d country, leaving us to face the problem, to cut long story short, my elder brother swear to deal with me, didn't take it seriously anyway. After few years, my boyfriend came for my hand in marriage, saw my family members and meet my early brother, who took him outside to discuss privately. My bro told my man dat I am into prostitution, dat in short pple know me so well in allen and abuja, by then I have never been to abuja. My husband to be, asked him if we are blood bro and sis, and d mumu told him yes, my man told him not to worry, and dat he know all about it, my bro became shocked. Do u pple know what impressed me more about my husband, he didn't tell what my bro told, because he knows it was going to cause alot, of problem and d marriage might not hold, it was after my white wedding, I heard d whole story, until now I don't talk to my brother, I confronted him and he denied, my mom has tried to make peace. I can't bring myself to forgive him. He almost destroyed my life, if not that my husband knows me so well, e for wake like any other 9ja man would do.. I thank God for him trusting me. My marriage is 6 yes now. So narrator
ReplyDeleteDis siblings can be deadly, so give them space b4 they kill u for no good reason
Please forgive your efulefu brother pleaseeee
Delete@ dearie, I don't want to think about it, but right now, his son that he abandoned, Is staying with me. My girls love d boy so much. I just thank God for my hubby.
DeleteDear Poster, please leave the man biko. wish u all d best
ReplyDeleteI hate stories like this. They make me want to puke.
ReplyDeleteAs God for directions sha,coz...
RayJay
things are happening, Signs of end time dear God please save ur children.
ReplyDeleteIf that man truly loves u, y will he fold his arms and watch two sisters fight ova him, i mean y is he d man? And bsides i think he lhas also slept wit ur sis, my dear is dat d kind of man u want?? Wisdom is profittable here. I knw its not easy but plz let him go, he might even be an agent sent to destroy ur family who knows?? U will get a better man, painfull but its d best. While @ it plz pray for ur family, they are all uv got.
ReplyDeleteThe man is the evil one here first,hes not loyal!if he was,he wouldn't have let any of ur sisters enter into his skin no matter the extent of seduction.he doesn't respect u!and dat should be enuf reason for u to walk away from him,lets leave wat ur sis did or didn't do.
ReplyDeleteWow..pls don't harm Anybody..would you prefer to go to prison because of a man who's probably playing you and your sisters?not worth it jare! Pls calm down and walk away or let the man fight to have you. The only spiritual backup you need is God's protection so that your sisters plan to harm you won't succeed and not for you to harm Anybody.
ReplyDeletePlease walk away for the that relationship. it's not for you. And please give your life to Christ. he will see you through and give you a man that will cherish you. You deserve more dear.
ReplyDeleteChai! Ife ne me..she is nt ur biological sista
ReplyDeleteHmmmm am jst so speechless. My dear please don't soil your hand cos of a mistake of a man. Not dt am suportin your sis but a sister will always be a sister come what may.
ReplyDeleteI know its gud to fight for ur relationship but not in this case. A man who can stoop so low 2 sleep with 2 sisters is a monster. He z not worth it, u deserve better.
Are you teling me dt if this guy come beggin you wil open yours legs again for him? If you send guys to rape your sister, what do you stand to gain? What if they get caught, what will be yourr fAte? Spend your life in jail cos of a man? Re you ready for
that?
Truth z always bitter. You don't wanna let go of this guy cos of material things you get from him,know also dt u have a dignity 2 protect as a woman.
Don't ever think of goin spiritual,dnt start wat u cannot finish. He may not even marry you after all. Don't be afraid of being called a looser
LET HIM GO AND DON'T LOOK BACK
#iheomadiniru#
My dear,the guy is not worth the stress you are about putting yourself through.
ReplyDeleteI have seen this happen before in my neighbourhood,2 sisters were dating,seriously fighting and disgracing each oda ova d same guy. At the end of the day,d guy left them both. The sisters are now best friends.
I know it won't be as easy as it sounds but swthrt LEAVE the guy. A better one will come.
Awwwww! My darling, my heart bleeds for you. Unfortunately, you don't get to choose your family. Sibling rivalry is very normal but it can easily morph into deep rooted envy which is dangerous. I'm always sceptical about "on again, off again" relationships, there's usually some unresolved issues. I raise this point because of your guy, are you sure he is the right man for you? Be sure, so you don't hang on to what God is trying to remove from you.
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What your sister did is pure evil but, what you propose doing to her isn't any better. Baby girl, no man is worth dabbling into dark practices for . Don't let the darkness you feel overwhelm you to the point where you mess up your life and compromise your future. If you send guys to rape your sisters and beat them up, what will that achieve? Do you realise that when you take vengeance into your hands because of instant gratification, Karma will still hit you later on? Of course, revenge may feel so good and rewarding but it's a vicious cycle. That's why God says we should leave vengeance to Him.
If you want to go spiritual, please take the prayer route and let God fight your battles. Regardless of how dysfunctional your family may be, don't let a man who may even end up cheating on you, be the reason your family is torn apart. It's pointless to win the battle but lose the war. Honey, you aren't married yet and you've snapped into warfare mode, what happens when he becomes your hubby and you are faced with marital challenges? If you spend all your time fighting interlopers, which time will you use to enjoy your life with your family and friends?
Learn from this, from now on, keep your secrets to yourself and trust no one. It may seem like your sister has the upper hand now but trust me, this evil liaison is going to blow up in her face and she will regret her actions for the rest of her life.
Bitchpliz c'mon! she is angry and apparently transferring the hate for the mother on the child. she is wrong calling her nephew names but mehnn the situation can make one go berserk
ReplyDeleteI have the feeelinng ur mind is alreday made up like the suscidal woman and no matter what happens or what we say here,you will go ahead with your plans,so my own is please come back with the conxluding part if you come out alive i wan know how the fight go end!
ReplyDeleteI wana poison my younger sister...she snatched my boyfrnds about 4 of dem...hw she gets dia no is wat I dunno
ReplyDeleteBy dis time 2mao,she shld be dead cos I must carry out my plans***wicked grin***
I laff at your folly.... Even after she is dead another girl will Snatch your boyfriend or rather your boyfriend would opt for another girl.....look inside and search your self there must be something repelling that's making all your boyfriends snatchable then work on it maybe then your sister and other girls would be the ones planning how to poison you on blogs....
DeleteIf you want advice...here is it...go ahead and kill your sister na you go be sister of deceased and na u go still be the murderer and till you die in old age...all the men around you would be repeatedly snatched.
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So Oya go and buy otapiapia to spike her juice...that should do the work....
Pssst....#attentionseeker
My dear, i kn it's gonna be a hard pill to swallow, in as much as you love ur boo, he doesn't love u to that extent, if u execute d whole bad plans u hv 4 ur sis and succeed , then u get married 2 him definitely, he will still be out there with one lady or another, will u go ahead and hatch plans to deal with each, and every 1 of them? Just leave them alone, move on God in heaven must surely bring another 1 ur way. But keep ur distance from your sisters in yr affairs in future, " once bitten, twice shy "
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ReplyDeleteYou need ur sanity back , just move on they are not worth it. It's quite difficult but pls move on "" taa bu gboo""
ReplyDeleteWHAT!!!!.....three sisters on a guy.....mehn...please dont let the devil use you.....follow stellas advice please...ishh!!!...JESUS.
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ReplyDeletePoster, your fiancee is the father of your sister's child.
Do you know that?
Wow! Wow!! Wow!!!
My sister, please do not, I repeat, do not go physical or otherwise on your sisters, get on your knees and pray to God and it will end in praise! I'm not going to start pointing fingers @ anyone now because to be honest you don't know who the liar is amongst all of 'em. Be wise hun and give it a break and watch the truth unfold right before your eyes. I'm not saying your man shouldn't look out for your fam but with discretion! who gives more to a sister in law as oppose to his own wife? Pray and Praise God until something happens. All the best!
ReplyDeleteMy dear just walk away, in fact be the peace maker and you'll see how God is gonna bless you within a short period of time. It's difficult to do, but just one thing you have to have in mind is that, you aren't doing it for them but yourself. I had a similar quarrel with my only brother..it's just the two of us from same parents, his wife was the issue.. Nine good months we didn't talk to each other, we were like worst enemies, mumsi almost gave up bcos of us...but everyone knew my bro and his wife wronged me and they never apologised. If not for the counselling of my fellowship leader am sure i would have killed my one and only brother. I had to forgive him, i had to apologise to him even when i knew i wasn't at fault...VERY DIFFICULT TO DO, but i did it bcos all i had in mind was God's blessings and favour afterwards. And trust me, it worked...the inner peace i had, the endless favour and all other things...pls its not worth it, leave everything to God and move on
ReplyDeletesee as person dey boldly tok how im wan take kill im own blood, im own sisters, na so your mind strong reach poster... oboi.. things dey happen o. so for your mind now, this guy go marry you? or even marry your sister? d guy don see una two finish o, my dear. im don bang ur sister, dey bang you yet you still dey tear mouth dey say you wan go spiritual. Ehn kill am now, no be your sister? if you kill am shei you go bury am too then you go come go marry since them tell you say marriage na by fire by force. Ode oshi, you boldly dey tear eye say you wan kpai your own blood over a man and shame no even gree you tok am sef. Like seriously who in their right f**king mind does that. na so old age dey worry all of una sotay you and ur sister wen "supposedly" born bastard dey drag man? like really.... oboi times must be tough o when two old ass sisters are busy fighting over a man and you even have the mind to even think about "going spiritual" on your own blood over a man. Like seriously? either you are some type of dumb or you are just plain stupid. Pick one because on the real you have no common sense, infact you lack morality and judgement. mchewwww.
ReplyDeleteOn point! Gbam!
DeleteYou dont know who the father of the child is? wise up girl your man is the father of that child.
ReplyDeleteBetter walk away and let them be and trust me you are better off without any of them and I promise you that both your sister and your man will come begging for your forgiveness.
Poster you her also evil to tink of such, you and your sister all birds of the same kind, even my husband I will fight for him not to talk of kill, I don't have advice for you.
ReplyDeleteWOW. This is deep o. Don't even know what to say. Let me sit back and read comments.
ReplyDeleteWalk the fuck away...
ReplyDeleteLol. WHy are you all blaming the poster for calling the child a bastard? Biko, she is angry and truly, no one knows the child's father. If the child really does have a father, let him be seen. Until then, the mother should be ready to have him called a bastard every now and then, by angry people.
ReplyDeleteDear poster, this is really sick! But you have to let go. I have seen siblings fight for husbands and whoever gets the guy wishes she left for the other person, cos the guy is not even eventually worth the stress. Any guy that sits comfortably btwn two friends is questionable, not to talk to SISTERS!
Lastly, cut off from everyone. Your guy oh, your sisters oh! Even mutual friends. Also, consider moving house (make them no come put jazz for your doormot). I tell you that you will have the last laugh. It may seem bleak now, but you would.
I remember when I was in uni, one fresh guy was on my case - unto marriage and all. My best friend back then went as far as stealing the guys number from my phone. I was smart not to have introduced them, as my instincts told me otherwise. But she got his contact and formed anonymous. Long story short, they started seeing, he started acting up, I was confiding in her, little did I know that she was d causer of our problems- LOL. The day I found out, I was MAD!! This girl still came to my flat to cause trouble and she said that if I dare her, she will make sure \I never graduate and she will always be above me - yes, those were her exact words. I put my hands up oh. It was so painful and disgraceful, cos she was spreading the gist everywhere in school. This was my best friend.
I changed house, moved to a smaller apartment. changed numbers sef. Cos I didn't want to keep hearing that story from ppl calling.
5 years later, I bump into the guy at a fastfood. D car I am driving now is the price of the car I saw him with times 3. He lost his job as she made him dip his hands into company funds, cos of one business that never materialised. This is a multinational oil company oh! He was sent to EFCC for months. Hmmm.... She nko? currently suffering an incurable disease. Sores allover her mouth and rashes too. I now even found out the guy was married but his wife was in the UK, he wanted Nigerian wife. And that his wife in the UK is said to be very diabolical. This girl had the guts to show up in his house, not knowing madam was around. She now caused a scene. I heard the woman didn't say A WORD, but that was d day her illness started. She met her senior in the jazz world. She called me to beg, that she knows she offended me and she wants peace. I told her I have forgiven her but I don't want her to see me or know my whereabouts pls. All the money she took from the guy now she is using it to go from one hospital to another looking for a cure to whatever is wrong with her.
I was just laughing, cos back then I had to go see my parish pastor for counselling. I got there and was crying like a fool. Not knowing that baba God was sitting in heaven having a laugh at my stupidity.
Since then, I close all friendly gaps with my sisters ONLY. Can't shout, abeg.
See raw gist....this life na wa true true
DeleteLol. Orela dimples you never even hear anything yet oh....
DeleteOkay u wan deal wif ur sis' huhn? Go ahead, if u succeed, be ready 4 every other thing he 'll like 2 sleep wif. Monkey, dog, goat, owl etc. Cos that won't make him stop. U r fighting for someone who clearly disregards/disrespects u both, cos he will settle wif neither of u. Gud luck
ReplyDeleteSWEETHEART I HAVE TO BE VERY BLUNT WITH YOU.
ReplyDelete1. THAT MAN IS NOT MEANT FOR YOU CANT READ IN BETWEEN THE LINES. DON'T YOU LOVE YOURSELF AND DON'T YOU FEEL YOU CAN DO BETTER.WHY ARE YOU FIGHTING FOR SOMEONE WHO COULDN'T CARE LESS ABOUT YOU. GIRL WAKE UP FROM YOUR SLUMBER THIS IS VERY CLEAR. I CAN EQUALLY SAY THAT YOU LACK SELF CONFIDENCE I AM SORRY TO SAY THAT BUT THAT IS THE TRUE, IF NOT YOU SHOULD HAVE ENDED THAT RELATIONSHIP A LONGTIME AGO.
2. AS FOR YOUR SISTERS LET IT BE, I HOPE YOU ARE A CHRISTEN AND IF YOU ARE YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT VENGEANCE IS FOR GOD. DO NOT THAT WHICH YOU CANT COMPLETE. DO NOT CONSIDER YOU NO ACTION TOWARDS THEM AS A WEAKNESS, IT IS NOT, IT IS RATHER A SIGN OF MATURITY AND DOING RIGHT BY GOD WHICH IS MORE REWARDING.
3. I WILL ALSO LIKE TO ADVICE YOU TO ALWAYS THINK ABOUT THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR ACTIONS BEFORE YOU ACT, BECAUSE FROM WHAT YOU ABOUT TO DO, YOU ARE ABOUT TO THROW YOUR WHOLE LIFE AWAY.
4. LIFE HAS MUCH MORE TO OFFER YOU AND GOD HAS EVEN GREATER THINGS FOR YOU.
IGNORE ANY GRAMMATICAL ERRORS I HAVEN'T GOT TIME TO PROOF READ(AT WORK).
STAY BLESSED AND I WILL PRAY FOR YOU TODAY FOR GOD TO GIVE YOU THE WISDOM TO DO THE RIGHT THINK.
IN
Pls leave that man for ur sister. Hes not worth it. Im sure hes the father of that child
ReplyDeleteThis does not suprise me at all, this would have happened to me if I had not opened my eyes to the little foxes that wanted to eat from my garden. The things that money will cause in this life ehn, poster find out the true situation and if you are sure that the man is not sleeping with her, hold on to your man jare. Some siblings are from thw devil.
ReplyDelete@osi I no fit laugh . My belle wan tear . Animals dying . U better run before they eat you . Lol.
ReplyDeleteplease poster, take Stella's advise. do not harm your own sister because of a man, no man is worth that, you will live to regret it, but come to think of it, are you sure your man didn't know your sister before he met you, are you sure he is not the baby daddy of your sister's child, ever before meeting you since you said no one knows who the father of her child is, and all of a sudden this your man suddenly took responsiblities of your sister's welfare and her child. well walk away from both and cut down the way you tell your sisters whatever that happens in your relationship.
ReplyDeletetake a walk and move on, its more than what you think
ReplyDeleteIs your boyfriend the father of your sister's 4 year old son. Insist on having a DNA.
ReplyDeleteI weep as i type this, nobody understands what am going thru, some Bvs asked questions like where are my parents, dad is late and it's unfortunate my mother does not care about her children, don't know whose side she's on, is not her business so long as she sees money.
ReplyDeleteStella u and some Bvs melt my heart with ur advice, am bittered bcos the first relationship i had my elder sisters did the same thing to my ex, but they did not succeed bcos my ex listens to me, everybody begged me to forgive them and move on as a family, i did bcos i thought they had changed, that was why i introduced this guy to my family to help them, Stella i tot i was doing good, how would i ve know that the same thing will repeat itself.
I want to thank Angelray, D generals wife,Viagra, Jenny and all other BVS too numerous to mention, thanks for your comment, i now have peace in my heart.
I will walk away as a strong and brave woman and allow God do the rest, but i will not return the engagement ring, i go sell am use the money buy gold earring.
I love my SDK Bvs, u guys have a way of making heart broken people smile, thank u.
Hmmm poster it is well. If you have a job, move out of the house and love them from afar, family is as family does and these ones have no qualms mortgaging your happiness for their selfish wants so avoid them getting involved in your personal life. Iv had this experience, poster don't close your eyes to the truth and allow them ruin your happiness. Be wise.
DeleteBless your heart darling. Relax,stay beautiful! God will avenge!
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Don't worry dear. Believe me you will have the last laugh and one day you will testify. I've been there (though my case didn't involve family) God is fighting battle for u. Its well hun *hugs*
DeleteWise woman. When u pray every morning, ask for the peace of God that surpasses all human understanding to live through each day until this difficult period passes. Don't feel guilty about anything... Jesus hasn't condemned you. who will ?
DeleteEnjoy life dear. The best is yet to come!!!
God bless you poster, may God lead u tru d right path. Frances Chesca
ReplyDeletePoster may the peace of God, that surpasses all human understanding be with you, Let God truly step in for you and your battles, please come to him and let him protect you for the evil around you, draw closer to God because he wants to be close to you, all things have truly passed away, look forward to a wonderful walk with your creator and maker. Please look for a church that truly worships God, and develop that walk with him. Go to the church to serve God and not any pastor or church member, You are blessed you daughter of Zion. be strong because they have not even began seeing the good things God has in store for you.
ReplyDeleteP.s stella we no be robbots na
Dear Poster, If I knew your name I will call it out 3x. Next time you get into a relationship don't tell them and don't introduce the guy until you are very sure its very close to being formal. 2. As you enter another relationship which I know God will do for you, fortify your relationship with prayers. Only God can help you.
ReplyDeleteAsk the Lord to heal your heart and I bet he will. I can tell you, the next guy is always better than the last one.
I celebrate you for having the courage to walk away from a wrong done to you. Don't worry, when God avenges for you, it is sweet. So sit back and watch God perform. Meanwhile, I know you've learnt some lessons, work it out and improve yourself, and ARRANGE yourself for the next guy cos he is coming. All the best.