Saturday's blog visitor narrative was epic for me because the poster came on the comment section replying everyone,It felt like she was crying for help by defending herself,that was epic but i am about to have another epic moment with this first narrative!!!
Is this the common trend in Nigeria now?..Anytime i read stories like this,I give everyone the side eyes for signs..lol
I am sitting down to read advice ........
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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
FULL BLOODED IGBO MAN IS IN LOVE WITH
Good morning BV's and Stella . In line with the previous post
of the 27 year old gay guy i decided to share my own experience. Hmmm
my own story no get part 2 but maybe part 3 go fit dey.
Aunt Stella I'm 21 years old still in the university. I used to think
my bizarre feelings for the male folks were to just me alone. I never
knew their were thousands of Nigeria who suffer from my syndrome.
So sometime when i was 19. Got an invite in my FB wall.it was a Guy
good looking guy.
I became friends with him since then he was obsessed
with me. Since then our clandestine meetings couldn't be missed. We
became so close that he sometimes sleep over and i too over his place.
I got bored of the whole thing and decided to change.
I blocked him big time in all my social media accounts and hoped for a
better future without him. The more i tried the more i miss him.
Finally i was able to shut down my Gay tendencies. Although still without
a GF sha. All of a sudden 5 days ago. Dis guy called me and i don't
know everything masculine in Me stirred up once more. My Groin
continued aching in a sarcastic manner. Up till now i cant get him off
my mind..
HELP ME PEOPLE. I FULL BLOODED IGBO MAN IS IN LOVE WITH ANOTHER
VOLUPTUOUSLY BUILT IGBO MAN.. How abnormal is this? I'm Just confused
and wish i could get decent advice for this. I know their are many
other guys like me out there who for some reasons are suffering like
me. Please Stella Kindly post this lemme see how my case is viewed
among average Nigerians..
I SERIOUSLY WANT TO CHANGE O BUT I DON'T KNOW HOW. THE MORE I TRY THE MORE MY FEELINGS INCREASES. Don't cuss me outOK. Tenks.
*let me sit on the couch and read advice,I am confused as well.
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
DOING IT WITH A PEANUT SIZED MAN
Stella, I need some advice. I recently broke my virginity at the age of 28 with my boyfriend, whom I really love. He was my best friend before we started dating but on the day we had sex I discovered he had a small penis and I can't just get over it.
I am so disappointed with it plus I did not climax . However I enjoy being with him but am put off from having sex with him due to his penis size. Do you think someone with small penis can make a woman happy. Am so tempted to cheat on him.
*Hmmm if it was so small,how did it disvirgin you sef? lol
Please whatever you do,please do not tell him how small he is ....
I honestly wish i can tell you how to address this situation but i cant because
it wont get bigger....let me trust my blog visitors to handle this one.
N 1, You are gay and i doubt if there is anything you can do about it. YOU ARE GAY!. N 2, his dick is small you said? Break up with him and go in search of a big dick. Why stay with him and cheat on him? Are you guys married? Do you have kids? Make you waka far i beg. He will find a girl that loves him just the way he is.
ReplyDeleteN2. A small dick disvirgin you and you are clamoring for a big one? How can you miss big dick when you haven't tested it before?? You are being economical with the truith. People don't miss what they haven't tested before. You can't miss pork meat if you haven't eaten it before. Since you started with a small dick, you will get use to it with time. Stop missing big dick that you haven't tested, plus sex is not food. Give your life to christ.
DeleteN2 if you were really disvirgined by a small dick,you should not be bothered with the size. You can't miss what you never had, except you are not being completely honest.
DeleteLol....dont mind d babe. While still a virgin, she has sampled so many pen**s. She has done everything doable bt didn't have sex. U cannot miss what uv nt tasted. And moreover, I tot d first tym is always painful, lol.... u funny gan oo.
DeletePoster one, I no kukuma get wetin to yarn as we dey thesame boat. Me I am a girl and I am still inlove with my childhood friend. We fell inlove when we were 10. Time and life parted us. We never did anything back then. We reconnected and I realised she's into full time lesbianism (it hurt me so bad cos we swore to be there for each other). She promised to get rid of her partners for me, let's elope or something. But I was too angry to even think of it. Me I have been dating boys and enjoy being with them. But I still love her with all of me. I cut her off. But I dream about her every single day of my life. We make love and have happy times in my dreams. I am vry confused too because I truly want to get married and start a family. She doesn't even know I still care about her because I really embarrassed her. I just miss her. The feeling is deep. Ok, bye!
DeleteNarrative numero une;being gay is all about how u see things and the concept you get from them.if u wanna be straight,meet people and try to focus ur mind on what u want..don't meet a girl today and start remembering that "You are gay" soo cos of that things wont work out..just make up your mind and try to remember you own ur body and can control whatever you wanna feel at any point in time..note:being gay or straight is by choice cos u own ur mind and ur decisions.... @NN2,pls this isnt a problem;you cant have everything all in one..you either stay happy with this guy and try to cope with his banana size or you "mumuishly" quit him and continue ur ultimate search of "GIANT size"...you still have the ball in your court...i strongly adhere to the fact that it isnt always a matter of size but an issue of using whatever size u have perfectly....bydway didnt you enjoy s*x with him when he broke ur virginity at first or are u just concentrating on "Size" ?? @MARTINS ABOY
DeleteNne me sef confuse @N2. Hmmm...no matter the advice u are given here I suspect that u would still leave him. So.....just enjoy it while it lasts since u like the guy. Abi? Good luck
DeleteAll of una no get sense, so cos she was a virgin u assumed she doesn't know what an average dick should look like.....the guy must really be small for her yo complain.....I hate the likes of MOI who always get here to rubbish people's stories as if they know all.....she is not stupid so shut the hell up....
DeleteStells, trust my fellow BV's with their always on time advices,they have handled the matter!
Deleteall I want to say is a big congrats to u for having the first decent chair/stool up there.congrats and keep it up.lol!
Dear poster, I had the same experience with the guy who disvirgined me... I know how you feel; trying to figure out why you ain't feeling it when he is ramming into you..:)
DeleteAfter we broke up the relationship, I met this able bodied guy.. Chai, I climaxed while he was grinding his hard clothed crutch again my groin....
Now am married to him and am loving my life.
My advice: for a relationship to work, the sex needs to be great....
Narrative No 1
ReplyDeletePlease stop thinking about this other guy you are talking about, as a man thinket in his heart so is he. The devil knows how to fight battle with humans and win, he knows our weaknesses, where to attack, that's why he attacks the mind, being gya is something of the mind, to prove that, you once stopped having those gay feelings, and now its coming back, it because your mind is accelerating towards that direction again. So pls pray hard, because there is nothing impossible for God to do, also go for counselling and probably deliverance, because devil is at work here, you are fighting a battle with powers of darkness in your mind, and this new guys that's back into your life is a catalyst of that powers of darkness to defeat you, so you need to shut him out of your life. Don't ever believe you are gay. Also get this book "battlefield of the mind" and read it, it will help a lot.
Narrative No 2
You just tested it and you are looking for big Dick? What if you get used to it, that means you'll be having two or three men insert the thing at same time just to get satisfied. Maybe you should tell your BF be putting the thing and his hand at same time so you could get maximum satisfaction. Lol.
Also trying telling him to do more of stimulating the clitoris like sucking, because research has shown penetrating alon does not guarantee or is not the answer to a womans sexual climax, but enough or good amount of stimulation to the clit.
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Gbam
DeleteLoooooooool
DeleteStella post my comments now. Orirokwa nma
Being gay n wantin out has to do wt self control. I m a lady n m bisexual. I m 29 n hv a serious man in my life coz I wanna hv my own kids. I haven't had sex wt a woman in lik 5yrs now tho I masturbate wt lez porn. All I want is to hv a woman I can keep as a partner so we can be together if need be nd if I don't get,m sticking wt my man.
DeleteI don't trust dis ur virginity story,how did u know it is small wen it's only his u have tasted. I had a friend bk in skool who was disvirgined by her small penis bf and she didn't know d size of d penis was small till she cheated. So I put it to u dat u have cheated already. As for d gay boy,u need God
ReplyDeleteGbammest!
DeleteDon't mind the girl,I wonder aw she got to knw dt d dick is small if she has nt been seeing other dicks,she was nt even supposed to njoy sex sef doin it for the 1st time,so I don't knw y she is complaining. Dick size no matter as long as the owner can utilise it very well
DeleteThe story get as e be sha, a virgin talking about not coming. My dear are you sure you have not been helping your self before now.
DeleteChick Félix,Ehi and Flave,i guess she knew cos d pénis didnt fill her clit...
DeleteSurely u can tell wen something isnt like Really fit....say someone wearing an over-size dress,u wil just know immediately say d thing dey hang for ur body...
N1. I don't know what to tell you oooo, but all I know is that u're really missing!
ReplyDeleteSee all this cute gals Coca Cola shaped angels that pass by u everyday should be enuf to cure u.
since it dosent dey f**k yarsh dey goo.
N2. U havr ur priorities u want in a man, if sex and manhood is paramount then u must take a walk out of the relationship, coz it might b frustrating wen u enter into marriage but if its not then go ahead. After all no man is perfect.
Geez,I hate gays they irritate d hell outtake of me,can't imagine my boo being G,I will shoot him,fuck u
ReplyDeleteOuttake of u indeed.
DeleteAshewo no be work u hear..
Dirty pig!
Miserable thing,why hiding under anonymous to curse your mother ode only an ashawo identifies its kind,maggot since your phone don't have auto_correct perhaps you d gay guy,go fuck a dicck asshole.
DeleteNarrative 2,if the guy is good in bad u can enjoy it,am married to a man of small penis,and is the most amazing guy on earth,i always reach climax like 2or 3 times,his small penis is far more better than thousand of big penis.
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ReplyDeleteGo bak to school little slut
DeleteDump not dumb and its he's not his
Gutter pig.
I actually feel for the minority homosexuals in Africa.
ReplyDeleteI have 2 homosexual friends, 1 lesbian, 1 gay, they are great people, with very good hearts
it is not easy being the so-called "sinner, devil, outcast".
Like some pple advised yesterday, may be you should try to relocate to climes that dont discriminate. So u can be yourself.
I am going with the Pope's view on this. Pls dont make a womans life miserable, like the oga with 3 sons. It wont be fair on any woman.
Narr2. Sorry, u must have had really high expectations of how your dream dick should look lol.
I wonder why you didnt kuku wait till marriage, if you don keep the virginity to 28yrs old. Dont know what to say o. But sometimes its not about size.
One my best sexual memories was with a small dicked person, he can suck for africa. I came 3ce b4 he even penetrated.
My worst sexual encounter was with an extra large, long n thickly veined dicked person. It was just rubbish n painful
Me tooo chai what he lack in penis size, he make up with fingering and sucking! Would have married him but genotype ish. We promised to be there for each other though we are both married now, we still do it once in while. DH is not the pussy eating type
DeleteFornication and adultery is a great sin b4 God.
Deletepls stop!
that is to say you are cheating on your husband? hmmm God is watching you
DeleteNa wah o. There is nothing I wont read on this blog. You still do it once in a while? Bikozianu stop!
DeleteEzemoni God bless u sista. Happy Sunday.
DeleteSo Ezewanyi u are now an asiwaju?lmao!this woman won't kill someone on this blog
DeleteBless U too Chy Jesus.
DeleteThe 1st post was just speaking English anyhow, how did your Groin stir in a sarcastic manner?
ReplyDeleteGo for Deliverance.
Poster 2 I thought being a Virgin wouldn't make it matter, what are you comparing him with? Since nobody has been there b4 him it shouldn't be an issue, just cleave to that Dick till death do you part.
Size doesn't really determine pleasure.
@ Nuvey Honey, size is very important tho cos as a guy, if u whip out a lengthy, thick girth tool, u can see d look of pleasure in d girl's eyes but if u can't use it, it's waste product. Size is an advantage wen u can skillfully use it. A better xesual experience is a combo of penetration, hands n oral.
DeleteGirth,tool,lenghty...you sure ve entered my radar...girth...girth...
DeleteKehinde, I'm asking u again. Are u single?? *wide grin*. Been crushing on u from a distance
Delete@kehinde; i troway salute ooooo....choi!!! hope u are good bro?? Been a while....
DeleteYes o. Girth. Sex with DH is something else. The fingering, plus the sucking oooh. Then when he penetrates, he doesn't even need to thrust, he just flexes his dick and the feel of those veins just makes me speak in tongues. I'll just cum bleating like a goat. Chai *covers face*. 12 years and it keeps getting better.
Delete@ Wide Eyed, you v grown on me too. Long time. Pls come n rant an epistle so I can learn some expressions. They don't come like u no more.
Delete@ Anony 2.06pm, pls come closer n crush on me for impact. I am single.
@ Martins, realest Bro, am very fine. You r d scarce commodity here na. Hope u r good too. Let's not forget Kaycee o. Happy New Sunday to u.
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DeleteKehinde can't be single, don't come and deceive girls here.
DeleteSize matters agreed. But the usage matters more
Hehehe.... Kehinde Ake and anon 2:06 are about to embark on the first SDK wedding thinz. Not bad sha @ kehinde.
DeleteChikito na so ooo. It won't be a bad idea. *coughs* biko how do I reach u kehinde?? Wud love us to be friends *widegrin* p.s I'm not a robot ooo.
Delete@ Anonymous 2.06pm. Do u love coughing this much? Lol. Send a FB msg if you are not a robot. It won't b bad to have a christian sister for evangelism.
DeleteStella abeg shift for me make we Sidon together dey wait for oda ppl advice.
ReplyDeletewww.makeupcubicle.blogspot.com
N 1 : nna please it's abnormal. God created Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve. I don't have such tendencies though but all I can tell you is that Jesus can break the yoke. Hey, ..you can't do it without the help of God. It's a spirit. FILL your.mund with God's word on Holiness. Meditate upon it. Confess it and talk to God about it. And you can also go for deliverance. Please cos if your a kleptomaniac, no one would advice you to continue stealing. So run far away from homosexuality. It's wrong
ReplyDeleteN2: nne please you kept your virginity till 28 years and you just could not wait till you were married. God help us all. So now you've tested the engine, and it's 'malfunctioning ', you would gan buy another car abi? Oya, good luck. I don't know what to say about his penis. All I can say is : desist from premarital sex baby. It gets you no where. It gives you a false sense of intimacy and it's A SIN before God. I really tire o. Let odas tell you what to do with his Penis. .....my two cents.
How does stealing equate to being homosexual? You are very daft!
DeleteAnon,u are d daft one here if u do not understand what mma cee is saying. She's only trying to say that stealing and homosexuality is d same before God and if a thief cannot be encouraged to continue stealing,,a gay should not also be encouraged to continue in d act. Use ur brain,and stop reasoning like a foolish person.
DeleteFirst narrative;
ReplyDeleteBtw,what has being igbo got to do with being gay??..
Well for me,I don't have problem with gay people and I don't judge them cos I know how addictive it is...
Gay sex is so rampant in Nigeria now even the so called our ogas at the top engage in the act..
Your sex life,your choice...what ever rock your boat biko...
But if you really want to stop,go to SCOAN...
Narrative 2:
So you want to leave someone you love because he is small..
Manage him if he is caring and nice and get your self a lesbo partner that can make you cum anytime anyday...
Remember men are scarce and you are not getting any younger....
Nne,help me ask d nicompoop.
DeleteIgbo men ko..
hmmm, nothing wey I nor go read for here. So you got urslf a lesbo partner?
DeleteLinda and ezenwanyi half baked illiterate bitches....cos the guy has confessed he is a full blooded Igbo guy shame wan kill una and dey vex.......he is gay and ibo so deal with it bitches......lol
DeleteLinda and Ezewanyi are 2 tribalistic fools on here. Hear that stupid Linda saying she won't judge all cos the guy said he is igbo. Well, we all know the real tribalists in this country. Their own can never do no wrong but condemn other tribes. Y'all need deliverance asap.
Deleteto the first post. ..I am also gay too, to make matters worse I am the only son from an igbo family and my dad is late. during my teen years I constantly struggled with my sexuality and gAve my life to Christ several times and yet nothing changed. I have absolutely no attraction for women at all..in fact I find vagina disgusting. i am even presently dating a married man sef . I have since come to terms with my sexuality. .maybe one day God might change me cus in all honesty no one else can
ReplyDeleteHian...na wa ooo,abeg Anon,I get some 'queshuns' and I ask in all sincerity: Is your married man's wife aware he 'plays for the other team'? Do they have kids? Does he also find vagina disgusting? I hear stories of married women fully aware their husbands are gay,some are even paid/settled to keep up appearances...Dear Anon,I also pray for God's healing on you for as you said,ONLY He can(but you have to be willing to co-operate with Him fully.)
DeleteAnother igbo?????
DeleteThank God I speak 3 nigerian languages fluently so I can always switch.
Tufiakwa!!!
Ike nsi!!
All married women wanting to fight the side chics.... Oya! Go and fight the side man ooohh. Kikikikiki. This is too too funny *off to gist my sis pls*
DeleteJesus!! So am in church reading big and small penis! Holy moses!!pls tell ur man to use his tongue,finger everything..if dat one doesn't work,he might need to enter wt his head since u like big things!success
ReplyDeleteYou no be am oh! Lol @ enter with his head. #OneLove#
DeleteLmao! He might need to reach in up to his waist sef for her to feel anything.
DeleteNa wa oh, all these descriptives on top lovemaking matter...
DeleteAnd everyday at least two posts are about sex.
I tire for celibacy oh, God please direct my husband my way.
And you are proffering sex advice from inside church!!
DeleteMay God have mercy on us all...
After you will be there claiming born again or expecting God to answer your prayers.....stop deceiving yourself, if u are not serious with the things of God some breakthroughs will never come..u cannot be one leg in one leg out....when you are in church every other thing should wait or else nothing.....God is not babalawo that u will come to in times of problems only and it will be solved then go back to your unseriousness....,
Deletebleh bleh mundane ordinary tired revamp sob stories tueh bleh again boring
ReplyDeleteGay here and there, abeg e don do. Mtcheeeeeew. Gays need to fuck the hell of this blog. This is not a gay solidarity group/blog. Neither are we shrinks here. What the fucking freaking fuck!
ReplyDeleteThis one just disvirgin and she's talking about cheating already. You can't manage the small dick like that abi? Mumu. Mtcheeeeeeew.
Today's narratives dey annoy me.
She said she didn't come. ..
DeleteBwahahahaha.......
She don dey come before naa....
Virgin ko...fargin ni!
Lmfao. Orikwa egwu
DeletePoster 1! First of all u ve to makeup ur mind what you want,then follow up ur decision with serious prayers. Only God can help you. But remember he can only help you if u really want to change from the heart.
ReplyDelete1] Bros I won't say I understand ur plight cos I don't, but me myself I don't judge nor cuss out all dese gay people anymore...bcos from stuffs we read nd see everyday, I ve learnt dat many of these guys don't usually have control ova how dey feel, some of them really want to change but don't know how. So my dear man all I can tell u is take it to God in prayers..its well
ReplyDelete2] Madam I dunno where to start from in ur own case, for someone who just got disvirgined u should be grateful he has a small dick so u wouldn't feel much pain nd here u are complaining. Does it mean dat u wanted to have sex bcos u thought he had a big dick nd wen u found out its small nd didn't give u d much expected orgasm...u now want ur virginity back abi. Abeg no tell d guy anything just breakup wit him gently nd go find urself a bigger dick to satisfy u..!!
No mind d she goat,she dey lucky say no be person with my husband size disvirgin her.
DeleteShe no go waka for two weeks.
@ Poster 2, Yes. A man wit a small size dick can more than pleasure a woman. You obviously didn't enjoy the xes cos ur mind registered a small willy n tuned off. If u had ur mind tuned to the frequency of ' I am gonna have fun wit this size', u would v had that earth-shattering xes. Wit a mind already biased, u shut down d biochemical responses needed for orgasm to occur. U cheated urself out.
ReplyDeleteSecond, if a man who parades a 5" pecker can get it strong n maintain an erection, it's sufficient to drive her to orgasm if he knows his onions. Wit sufficient foreplay to get d woman wet n ready, even a finger wiLl make her cum not to mention a 5", warm, throbbing dick in a itchy, moist, yearning, virgin (magnetic) vjay. A 3-4 inch penetration n a skillfully maneuvered Johnny aimed at d frontal (Northern)vagina walls will send a woman over d edge n have her screaming 'Anumabia Anumabia'.
U don't have to b an American Size to satisfy a woman. Statistics arguably places the Chinese above Americans in Orgasm Delivery. We all know the Chinco size isn't the trophy size but it fits d orgasm vacuum so well. So if the poster is interested in d rel, she should work wit d partner to ensure turgidity n skillful usage.
Size will get u in but USAGE will keep you there.
I beg to differ, white americans have the smallest willy i've ever seen, abeg you'll a grown man with the willy size of a five year old niaja boy!
DeleteHmmmm Kehinde you be real professor of Adazi Ani. I have learn something today ooo. SIZE WILL GET U IN BUT USAGE WILL KEEP U THEIR looool.
DeleteKehinde Ake please i need your view on this gay issue. you seem to be silent on the issue.
DeleteLoooooool at Anamabia...
DeleteThis Kehinde sef..:hmmmmmm...
@kehinde Ake, your comment just sent a dont-know-how-to-explain-it kinda sensation down my veins. Oh my goodness...
DeleteKehindeeeeeeeee. My all time crush on sdk. Na matters like This u for dey pop out. Hmmmm. Ur analysis no be here. *widegrin*
DeleteNo be small erotica de inside dis Kehinde comment. @lara, no be only you feel am.
DeleteI must be more hard up than I thought.
Make I comot this post abeg before another thing go enter.
@ Anonymous 12.47pm, thanks for your expressed opinion. I used the word 'ARGUABLY '. I respect your argument n d matured way it was presented. Thanks.
Delete@ Lovelace, am not only silent on Gay Issues but on so many other matters here. As a Rotarian (District 9140), my utterances r guided by The 4 Way Test. Am sure u know em. Thanks.
Linda Eze, why e b say na that one ur eye catch there? Lol. ' Anumabia' will ever remain evergreen in my memory. Long Live Igbo Girls!!!
@ Lara P. Am sorry I didn't know u will read that portion of my comment. I shall b more guided next time. May this sensation linger wit u. Funny girl. Enjoy ur day.
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DeleteProf Ake, I remain ur humble student
DeleteKehinde, I sure say ur wife dey enjoy ooo. Chai
Delete@ Nej, lol @ Prof Adazi Ani. Funny you. No learn only bad thing o. I learn frm u too.
Delete@ Anonymous 2.16pm, thanks for the crush. Na ntwk dey make me no dey fit comment for plenty posts. Thank God for today's own. Happy wk ahead.
I do. thanks @Ake
DeleteChai Kehinde ooooo dis ur description ooo,throbbing,manœuvre,skilful,moist....
DeleteAnumabia ooooo!!!!
Chai Kehinde ooooo dis ur description ooo,throbbing,manœuvre,skilful,moist....
DeleteAnumabia ooooo!!!!
The xes therapist sir, well done sir!
DeleteStella i dey hail oooo!
Sdkers i dey hail una too ooo!
Happy sunday!
Mr K. Ake abeg nah u dis post dey for o.
I am 27yrs old... had xes for the first time when i was 17yrs old and it was soooo relaxing i was happy and all but i didnt come.... only slept with dis particular guy like 4times sometimes i didnt feel anything and cos he was long it was painful.
Fast-ward to 2yrs later met dis guy his dick was average but slim... i never came either.... he was a very selfish guy.... n used to come really fast.... d only time i enjoyed xes with him was when i am on top and he wants to cum n i try to get up so he wont cum inside me and he presses my hips down so dat i wont be able to get up....
After him was another guy with average length dick but fat it was nyc with this guy but i never came either.... although i came close to coming... but he was not really attentive....
The last guy was the worst of them all... probably cos i had being celibate for like 4yrs it was painful n i bled for a whole week.... i cldnt sit down probably for like a week...
My problem is i get really bored during xes even foreplay... i find penetration boring too..... foreplay is sweet thou... but sometimes boring..... i am a very sexy girl... i get wet easily and at the same time get dry easily especially when bored during foreplay... sometimes my vjayjay hurts... i ve done test for infection but nufink was found..... but i sincerely fink there is something wrong with me.... plix help me ooooooooo
@ Anonymous 10.09. Check the bottom of this post. I replied at d bottom.
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ReplyDeleteI find it difficult to comprehend gays and their sexuality, the more I reason it, the more I freak out...pls go tru d comments in d previous post, you'll sure find help dia.
ReplyDeleteMadam virgin, u didn't enjoy his penis because it is small fa! Are you sure ur virginity was intact b4 u had sex with him? I guess, you shouldn't be complaining since you've never had one b4 o, abi? Lol
He can satisfy you, if he knows how to use it well. Its not always by size jare, take your mind off it n find where your G-spot is. You have been watching too much big d**k porn shey? hahahahaha!
Gbam!
DeleteShe has been watching too much big dick porn obviously. Those pornstars are more the exception than the norm.
I would not be surprised if the guy in question was average size even but she saw him as small due to measuring with the wrong standards.
Their business.
Lolz...dis narratives sef
ReplyDelete@no 1 poster, I dnt knw wat to say to u,bt if u can help urself by resisting d urge 4 such nonsense,u can overcome it.
@no2 poster, I can't say sha,if u no lyk am,no kee urself, afterall if u shd geh married 2 him nw,u wd start cheating..ok bye
Stella pls locate that guy that wanted to impale the chick in Sunday laughs so poster no 2 can take her place.
Delete@1st poster, U need JESUS! Sexual preferences my foot! God created them, male n female to procreate on the earth. Except u weren't created by God, n men now gets preggy n gives birth.
ReplyDelete@2nd poster, I'm actually confused as to what to say. Don't wanna say wot I can't do. But Sexual pleasure takes a gud 'over - average' marking in a relationship.
Speechless! I ll just sit back and read comments as they roll in. Hehehe
ReplyDeletePoster no.2, I dunno how to advise.
ReplyDeleteI met a guy who I decided I'm gon date next year.
So I decided to 'test the goods' before buying.
My brothers and sisters, the guy is not good in bed.
Uses his teeth to kiss and breastfeed.
My nipples are still painful from his shark attack.
But the thing is, I like him.
So gentle a guy...even in bed.
And the organ is not big.
And he's inexperienced...tho not a virgin.
Poster no.2, follow your heart. Let your head also be in the equation, so u don't break his heart.
A dildo/vibrator should also be a playmate when u guys are getting it on.
Hahaha @shark teeth.
DeleteHian!!!
DeleteI thought U were a born again Christian.
@ ezenwanyi, surely I'm a christian.
DeleteLooks can be very deceptive.
How did you know about sizes of dicks within this short time you got disvirgined? Nawao
ReplyDelete#1- your matter dey God's hands
ReplyDelete#2- experiment with different styles and positions.you will find some that would suit you both.be adventurous.try light bondage and sex toys.and if none works,as Xoxo mystery would say..."Sex is not food"
*KARMAisabitch
Hmmmmm
ReplyDelete@ 28, u lost ur virginity a "BOYFRIEND" !!!
@ gay, may God help u...
1)God isn't an author of confusion.you seriously need deliverance,am not making light of your sexual preference,but even you know it is nit normal.feed your mind with the right things.God will help you.2) madam you said you were disvirgined by this your man with a small abunku' ,how you take know say there are bigger sizes? Give your life to Christ and STOP fornicating at 28!
ReplyDelete1, I repeat its a thing of the mind and a demon from the throne of hell. This was the reason God brought down Sodom and gomorah. Pray, go for deliverance in a spirit filled deliverance church, get a girlfriend and pls font have male young guys around you, pls pls pls. 2, Since its your first time you suppose to enjoy it no matter how small. I was disvirgined way back with a tiny one too and till date @37 I detest a big one. Not that av not had big size but I prefer prefer prefer a smaller one. My sister deal with it o love conquers all because if you leave that small thing one biggest babe will take it, live with it, love it, pamper it and cherish it forever.
ReplyDeleteYour quite funny
DeleteYou detest homosexuality but appluad fornication. Or am I wrong @ miss ess. No be the same bible all if them dey?
Don't mind the fake arse bitch.......homosexuality and fornication will send u to hell.....so u are 38 and always making immature comments...
DeleteAnon 8:51 She's 38 and so? If her comments are immature, you that you're 83pls move on and find comments that suits your age
DeleteNarr1) as far as u are willing to change you will, it might not happen today but definitely it will happen. ... anytime d thoughts comes to ur mind always use d name of jesus to reject it.... see d more u reject it d more d devil try harder. ...believe me don't stop rejecting it .... would've love to narrate how I deliver myself from one bad habit .....it took me 1year to stp d habit...I kept praying, rejecting it but still I kept doing it and whenever am done I felt guilty but jst one day thy lord answered my prayer , nowbi kept questioning myself was I d one doing dis thing b4 (not lesbian sha something else). Today I am free .....yes I delivered myself no man of God can change u if u re not willing to change!!!
ReplyDeleteNarr2) ur story get as e be ooo what do u as a virgin knw about sex/ climax? Ermmm shebi first time sex dey pain? Well for me ooo I no know say pennis dey sweet/big pass body not until I tasted number 2 lol.......since ur guy dey make u happy get him a sex toy dat he can fuck u with!
ANGELRAY SAID
ReplyDeleteMr GAY plz find ur way to UK, US or any of this gay country cos dats where u belong, don't come and spoil small boys here abeg if u can't live a normal life plz drink acid, yeye dey smell.
Madam small dick, dump dat guy and look for a guy dat has a horse dick,cos for me i can't deal with a small penis.
Stella I'm not pleased with your comment about tbe BV. It wasn't necessary. There are a lot of scammers out there preying on vulnerable women. She put her story out there and she didn't have to, appreciate her for that.
ReplyDeleteI love your ministry. Yes, the helping people is a ministry. But don't get carried away with being carelessly flippant about sensitive issues so that it doesn't cast distrust in the eyes of those that come to you for help.
God bless your ministry
ANGELRAY SAID
ReplyDeleteMr GAY plz find ur way to UK, US or any of this gay country cos dats where u belong, don't come and spoil small boys here abeg if u can't live a normal life plz drink acid, yeye dey smell.
Madam small dick, dump dat guy and look for a guy dat has a horse dick,cos for me i can't deal with a small penis.
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ReplyDelete@ GW, haba mana!!!
DeleteWho Let The Dogs Out??? ....
Nwunye General!!!!!...
DeleteIri too much...hahahahahha..
Nwunye General!!!!!...
DeleteIri too much...hahahahahha..
Lol@former virgin.
DeleteNarr 1, I sincerely sympathize wit u(same goes for yesterday's gay guy)
ReplyDeleteI am no saint or Prude.and I believe in GoD wella buh I have always felt dat yea,dere are peeps trapped in wrong bodies.
Some Docs and what have u have tried to explain it buh bottom line is dis...something happend somewhere along d line.
I have a family friend.he is d nicest dude I can hang around with...we grew up together in Enugu and both falmilies became close
Since he was 10 or so,I knew dere was something "different" about him.
Was young den too so could put a finger on it(have dis knack of telling gays n lesbians from a mile)
Sha Sha,we went to d same uni too...him and ma younger bro and my instincts stil told me something was up.my bro dismissed me.buh dat was until my bro called me one day and told me our f/friend was almost lynched in school.can't remember all d dets now...buh he was caught in bed wit a man.
That was wen his family too found out...buh his mom was in denial.u know being old school and all.his immediate younger bro doesn't talk to him til date.
That was some 8 years ago.
After school,he relocated abroad.
He is doing very well,has a gay partner and is veryyy happy.
I don't judge him...he is a nice bloke and cooks very well.it only gets uncomfortable wen I go to visit him and he and his partner gets lovey dovey(just like any heterosexual couple)
Almost Everyone over dere accepts them even my hard-core 'native" brother....LMAO
SO Poster if u "were born gay' I don't know wot to say cos I have heard tales of peeps dat fought it and fought it to no avail....so dey finally come out.
Buh if u are gay,cos of ur direct environment,say u were abused by a man wen u were young or Got carried away while in sec school,den maybe,u need counselling,prayers and d rest...
Or maybe,u were just born dat way!
Buh either way,just know u are just a human being as much as we all are and u deserve all d happiness dat dere is...
DONT be too hard on urself....ok?
And No matter what happens,remain happy and optimistic.
*Hugs*
Poster 2; I know how u MUST feel and I sympathize with u.
Buh here is d good news....Its NOT all bout size baby! ....at all,at all o!
Have heard of peeps with large tools buh are Absolutely à disaster in bed! *shrugs*
Its about how he "uses" dat stuff mehn
Teach him how to pleasure u!
U are shy (as a newbie) i get buh throw dat shyness to d wind and f*** dat man's
brains out!
From a former Virgin to another....i was Soo shy my first few years dat wen I réaliséd d Joy of Sex,i remove dose two years i was "nonsensely" doing Missionary style and start counting from d time one bad ass Chick introduced me to what lovemaking in marriage was ....Hahahahaha....
She ws an older woman and I heard her gisitng wit her friends and paid attention big time...i have being à cray felllkw buh dat woman changed ma life! She helped me Come out of ma shell ....hahahahha
And from dat day,i never slacked.D day i tried woman on top i asked d General why he didnt tell me Sex was dis sweeet???why??? Why???
I took it up a notch,i got adult books,he got me vids and encouraged me to tell him how i wanted him to Please me....
So nne,forget d size of d tool and focus on d bearer of d tool and how he uses it.
Good luck!
U talk too much madam. Can remember u v sent in ur pix some time ago wen u gv birth .biko jiri ya cos u might sell ur family one day. Na to send video clip of general fucking u,na em remain. Ur friends wl sure love u cos u go dey tell dm about ur family all d time.na watin dem wan hear naw.
Delete@ The Queen,.hahahhahahaha
Delete@ Xoxo,Hahahahhahahaha @ "Pénis no reach puberty"
The mouth on u Boo...LMAO
You need a medal!
Delete2; 19,calm d fuck down!
DeleteU are even igbo,U guys can hate...na Gw say make U never marry,born and still dey poor....
She loves her life and d position God has placed her..so,if U like hate her from now till eternity she just does not care.
D worst part is that this anon might even be GW"s housegirl or one rirraf.
Anon 2:19 pls allow the lady. Its because of bvs like her that we visit this blog. I have never seen her pic and many aren't interested. Her personality is interesting enough. What has she said now? I too do much more than my husband so pls park well.
DeleteAnon 2.19pm.. The funny thing is that she's an innocent looking,soft spoken,mild mannered woman.. Am sure ppl that know her will have apoplexy wen they know she's the one behind this comment.. Na wetin Stella blog they cause..
DeleteNarrative number one: Boy u a GAY! Am not igbo but I know for one it wld be frowned on in your community that's for sure. See best things is U block him totally! Block everything that reminds u of being gay and try start again
ReplyDeleteNarrative number 2: my dear u lost ur virginty at 28 and u realized his penis is small if u hve never had sex how can u differentiate between a small penis nd a huge one? How do u knw u didn't orgasm since u never had one before! Sweetie pack well! One! Ur vagina hasn't had a dick before so yeah his penis wld fit perfectly well 2 it's Nt how tiny but how well he uses it 3 sex is a thing of d mind, u let it affect ur thinking no matter wat he does he wld never satisfy you 3: cheat and test the other big ones u wld only bleed to death! Fucking a big dicked guy is not the issue but how he uses it he cld hve a big dick n cnt go past 1 minute whereas a smaller dick can go the 1hr with all pleasure be wise!
Narrative number one: Boy u a GAY! Am not igbo but I know for one it wld be frowned on in your community that's for sure. See best things is U block him totally! Block everything that reminds u of being gay and try start again
ReplyDeleteNarrative number 2: my dear u lost ur virginty at 28 and u realized his penis is small if u hve never had sex how can u differentiate between a small penis nd a huge one? How do u knw u didn't orgasm since u never had one before! Sweetie pack well! One! Ur vagina hasn't had a dick before so yeah his penis wld fit perfectly well 2 it's Nt how tiny but how well he uses it 3 sex is a thing of d mind, u let it affect ur thinking no matter wat he does he wld never satisfy you 3: cheat and test the other big ones u wld only bleed to death! Fucking a big dicked guy is not the issue but how he uses it he cld hve a big dick n cnt go past 1 minute whereas a smaller dick can go the 1hr with all pleasure be wise!
Kai...Kenny(not Haastrup) Ake and his selective network..Na only this story you go see,no be Poster 1 dey there dey find advice too?lolz More grease to your *coughs*...The Xesologist himself!
ReplyDelete@ Spicy Tee, blame it on my ntwk jor. Bia, na only grease u wish me? Wetin I want use only grease do?
DeleteOne thing I understand about gays is that some are born with it while some were introduced to it. Those who were merely introduced to it can easily change, while those born with it cannot help themselves. I think there is nothing anyone can do to change their feelings. Don't judge them, they are helpless.
ReplyDeleteNarrative #2: I was thinking that as a virgin, the one you have tasted should be the only one you know about. I mean, It should size you. Rose
Well, mine was that I never had orgasm till after 2 kids bkos I didn't even know what it was all about. Ago disvirgined me and we were both younger then, so we only kw it's normal for a man to orgasm but didn't kw about women till the day oga bought a porn video and we both watched it and saw what we hav never practiced. So oga and I decided to try by giving each other BJ, doggy style and so on. I remembered I passed away the 1st time I orgasm bkos when I was about coming I told my hubby that I wanted to pee he then said I should pee in side his mouth and that was how I came not kwing that it wasn't pee but orgasm. Even then during pregnancy oga doesn't touch me once my tummy is out we both tot constant sex wld affect our baby but now oga gives it to me till the day I enter favour room. Summary is that as a newly disvargined lady you are not supposed to complain about orgasm or size of Dick for now if you are actually being honest that it's your 1st and your 1st guy.
ReplyDeleteSize is very important
ReplyDeleteAfterall some men likes big ass and big boobs
I like what I like
Big, thick with veins
I remember one dude like that
Big huge dude with the smallest penis in the world
Penis didn't reach puberty at all
Once they are penis shortchanged, they will start over eating the purry and over fingering...ewwww
There is nothing like grand entry, let your presence be felt.
As for gay dude. ..you don't need help. You came here to advertise. Biko zuzuo out of this blog.
Ewu mangala
XOXO MYSTERY
@ Xoxo Mystery,
DeleteBuhahahaha@ Penis didn't reach puberty. U r so cray. You r right. It is proudING thing wen u make a grand presence n entrance. U r officially d clown of this Blog.
Lol!! Me like big dicks as well...was dating a very cute guy but the day we made love did not feel his presence at all. What made me cum was his sucking cos he was good at that but afterwards, nada. Wud have stayed with him but his actions didn't help. Thot he was doing me a favor....yeah right. I waka abeg and became celibate biko. If that's what out there wud rather get close my legs and pretend to be a mermaid...lol
DeleteStella abeg shift for me make I follow u Sidon wait for ppl advice
ReplyDeleteEyaaaaa speechless.....The GAY guy,dunno what to say ooo but I pray God delivers you!And maybe you should be spending time with girls and make friends with them if that would help
ReplyDeleteVirgin Babe,biko no be person wey don taste big gbola small one no go do?or how did he disvirgin you???If you know it's so critical,then goan look for a guy with a bigger gbola if that will make you happy
Brother, salvation (from sin and indeed this particular sin that has held you captive,) sanctification, justification can only come through Jesus and not by your "trying";
ReplyDelete9Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with mena 10nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. 11And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God. 1 Cor. 6:9
For those telling you that "you are gay and can do nothing about it . . ." God sure did not create them males and males but male and female (Gen. 1:27) and that for marriage.
To the 2nd poster, how I wish it was only your virginity you lost! Lady, you lost a lot indeed; you lost your salvation; if you had one! You've become a 2 faced hypocrite if you still go to church. Repent . . . sex is for marriage. Did you see yourself in the list above? Fornication will cost more than you can pay. Jesus loves you!
I really do wish my boo will read these comments. His stuff is small, I manage it like that and even resign my mind to always enjoy it cuz I love him. I have tasted big dicks really and I know the difference. The problem is that even with this him small dick, Oga refuse to finger or suck me o. Most times, I even lubricate myself secretly with my saliva as only kissing and nipple sucking don't always do the magic. I don't tire to tell am, I just hope I am not pushed to cheat on him in the near future. I am pleasure starved biko!
ReplyDeleteSorry I have to go anon on dis one...
ReplyDelete1st. Poster:i dnt ve any advice for u,u caan as well cut ur dick if u like...a Gay I kn is currently HIV positive...if u dnt stop,na ur ish
2nd poster:..I lost my virginity @ age 20 and it ws rily painful...d guy's dick was average(nt big,nt small)...I didn't rily enjoy d. experience cos of the pains. I started feeling sex was too overated so I decided to stay away frm it...2 months later,we tried havin sex again and I discovered he ejaculates fast and his Erection was weak.infact,since I ws prepared to have start havin sex...I ws nt ready to manage.
3 months later,i cheated on my guy wiv a guy wiv a small dick and he satisfied me.This new dude sucked my pussy like crazy,he used his tongue to lick my clit,infact d way he nibbled and chewed on it,I can cum many times befor penetration.
It ws a fling sha cos den my guy went for NYSC...
A year later and back to my 1st guy,still same old wahala...he had bigger dick dn d 2nd buh yet cnt satisfy me...meanwhile,i'v read books,watched a lot of porn and longed for anaconda dick and a heavy orgasmic xperience...I wanted to experiment and explore my sexuality with both sexes...
Along the line,a female senior frnd even coached me..she ws my 1st lesbian xperience...I visited her and spent d nite ova..@nite,wen evryone was asleep,she started sucking my nipples,I couldn't beleive I was enjoying it as if she ws a guy cos it was so pleasurable,her palms wia so soft on my boobs..den she started fingering me..i moaned endlessly dt she had to cover my mouth...she fingered me untill my juice spilled out frm my pussy 2d bed..
Then my hatred for guys began...although I felt guilty and shy d next mornin and cldnt look her in d eye buh secretly I longed for it buh neva got d opportunity again.
Fast-forward a year later,I broke up wiv my ex..I met dis cool dude Kelvin and his dick was so huge..our 1st sex was awesome...his dick feels my hole completely asides d lil pains I feel..i dated him for 2 months,den I started enjoyin sex...afta a while,Kelvin travelled abroad.
Omg,,..i was sad,i tried a small dick again and I noticed he felt flappy and small inside me...My pussy walls ve xpanded and nids nuffin buh a BIG dick..
I ws in deep shit...smhow I stopped havin sex cos I ws tired of on and off rships...I got vloser 2 God...graduated and went for service...Buh secretly I made up my mind I was nt goin to eva settle for less...if I must marry,den d guy must be damn gud in bed wiv a dick big enof to satisfy me...i abstained frm sex and prayed to God for a life partner wiv a big dick..hehehe.its funny buh dat's d truth.
Right nw,am happily engaged to be married to a Tall,dark and handsome guy...he has a BIG PENIS
B-Bold
I-Industrious
G-GOOD IN BED
P-Polite
E-Energetic
N-Nice
I-irresistible
S-Sexy
Infact,i decided to test my goods jes like u initially...his tongue is d real deal..he makes me speak in tongues..his Erection is damn strong and jes a look @ his dick makes me horny..We'v bin 2geda for 5 months and am wearing his beautiful ring and I can BOLDLY say dt I have nt cheated on him for once cos he has evrytin I desire.
Nw poster 2,wat do u want?wat is ur desire?...do u wana stay wiv a small dick guy ur nt OK wit and cheat on him later?
Follow ur heart and be sincere wiv ur choices...
Sorry for d long epistle,i cldnt jes help it
Issorait
DeleteN1 Homosexuality is a sin against God and even yourself but know that there is power in the name of Jesus to break every chain of homosexuality in your life my only advice to u is seek in spirit and truth and every chain that has held u back will be broken.
ReplyDeleteN2 I really don't knw what to say to u, but knw this the size of the penis doesn't matter its how it is used dat matter, some guys with big penis are just going abt with weapon of mass destruction, besides u said you where a virgin so give urself time to start getting the rhythm and enjoy sex...
***HEALING-RAIN***
ReplyDeleteGayguy,we gave enough talk on yesterday's post when the 27yr old who wants to break free from same sex posted his narrative so go back and read,l no get time for this nonsense today,find my comment and read,l do not have time for pretences l am homophobic,that's why l can't live anywhere except my naija becos here you fags are on 14years lockdown if you are caught.
Poster2,since you are looking for dick wey be like w.m.d (weapon of mass destruction) fashi the peanut size dick and walk. Period.
You no like small dick why you dey waste the bobo time when you no sey you no go submit kongo for shining ? You wan sidon like anwuli till his moni finish abi? Barawo.
Poster 1 we can't judge u only God can. Look for a strong bible believing church n pour ur heart out to God. Remember God destroyed sordom n gormorrah be cos of dis. Nothing is too difficult for God to handle make up ur mind n accept Him he will see u tru. If u r in abuja try Good tidings Bible church utako n u shall testify. God bless u n help u to win d battle
ReplyDeletePoster one, study ur Bible at least 3ce daily, note that I said study not read. There is Awesome Power in The Word of God to deliver u, u can still go for deliverance in any Mountain of Fire (MFM) Church, branch around u. God didn't make u gay, All He made is perfect and d mere fact that u have a desire to stop means ur liberation has started
ReplyDeletePoster 2, satisfaction doesn't necessarily come from the size of a dick, psychology is important and if u feel strongly for ur boyfriend, it will work. Try styles like sitting ontop him and hit him hard. It would work. Mnwhl NEVER tell him about his size, things may never be d same between u again, do not cheat. U won't get satisfaction
Pls I have this problem and I called my pastor to pray with me. He said I should come to church on Sunday and he would pray with me but I must never tell anyone that he prayed with me. I am confused.
ReplyDeleteHe wants holy sex...
DeleteKwakwakwakwkwakwa...
We're confused too
DeletePoster 2, I forgot to add that foreplay is what makes ur experience worth it, spend a lot of time on it, he should touch & suck ur nipples, then he shouldn't go down if he can't do it well....... u would be fine
ReplyDeleteSpot On Sue !!! Its an emotional rape without foreplay. U shud warm ur car before u drive it.
DeleteAll these talk & comments is making me super horney, I don die ooo.
ReplyDelete***HEALING-RAIN***
ReplyDelete@anon5:30pm
What doesn't he want someone to know he prayed for you? Pastor work no be prayer?
What time on sunday are you supposed to meet him for this 'special secret prayer'?
Don't panic go with someone and let the person hang around the church premises while you meet with firepastor.
It seems majority of gay guys in 9ja are igbos (I maybe wrong though) I just recently found out my supposed boyfrnd is gay infact gay prostitute. and he's Igbo. All his partners are igbo like 5 of dem.they all keep begging him to come fuck them,arrange hotels and all. I broke up wit him immediately.am still in shock,devastated and heartbroken,I really did love him. I detest gay pple. So my vagina no sweet reach,even with our mind blowing sex sessions. Dude has been calling begging crying to forgive since 2wks,i don't bother taking his calls or replying msgs.asking frnds and family to call and beg me even his mum,shame no let me talk d matter sef cos E heavy 4 mouth.I asked dem did he say wat he did,they said he said he has offended me and I shld forgive watever it is.Not in this life he shld continue fuckin shit hole.mtsheeew
ReplyDeleteAnd pls nobody shld say don't snoop abeg,if I hadnt read his phone I wldnt have seen/known this.
The both of you simply need Jesus in your life and you will find the answers ur searching for. All the best.
ReplyDelete*AMAZINGGRACE*
Narrator 1 I will be praying 4 you.
ReplyDeleteNarrator2. Pleasure is not detemine by size. But skills and technique.
The things i read on this Blog.... Chukwu mee ebere sex is not food hehehe
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ReplyDelete@ anonymous who gets bored wit 'playing',
ReplyDeleteIf I understood ur request well, u want to rev up ur xes life cos u get bored easily either wit foreplay or real play. U r not alone in this. Xes can b boring sometimes. Xes is trade by barter. Giving n receiving. So if there is a problem, both partners need to work it out. If u have a partner who is EVERYWHERE but NOWHERE at a time, xes can b a bore. This kind of partner does everything at a time without concentrating on wat gives u pleasure or retains ur interest. He starts to kiss u, just wen u r beginning to enjoy it by opening ur mouth n caressing his tongue, he moves to ur ears n before u relish it, he is on ur boobs, as they r swelling n ur nipples hardening n cravin for more, he skips to ur vjay n before u get to thrash about, he jumps in, while u r beginning to get into d rhythm of his spiral dance, he jumps off. The 'unfinishing' touches leaves u high n dry. On d next repeat, u get bored cos it's d same song.
The first step to having a great xes starts frm d mind. Pleasure results frm a chain of chemical responses btween ur body/brain (mind). So if u r not mentally prepared, u will b cutting off these pleasure transmissions. Start by dis-abusing ur mind that xes is monotonous. That he will kiss, touch, press bobbi, go down low, jump in flex muscles n jump out. Relax ur mind dat u r going to enjoy it. B expectant but not anxious. Start wit cuddles, spooning, just hold each other, look into ur eyes, coo sweetnothings into each other's ears, talk, laugh n bond. The chemistry starts building this way n not d programmed mind of he will do this n that. Surrender ur programmed impulses.
Communicate: wen u v relaxed ur mind to enjoy it, then communicate to him in words n gestures. If he nibbles on ur ear lobes, don't shut down d sweet sensations by not responding wit moans or giggles, he will know he is doing sth right. That reward will motivate him to do more. As he is licking behind ur ears wit his fingers drawing lazy patterns on ur lips, open ur mouth n suck it, let him know u love wat he is doing. If ur boobs r jealous n crying for attention, direct his hands there to cup, mould, tease n fondle em. Sensations will keep racing thru parts of ur body n u keep guiding his tongue, fingers lips to ur needy parts (E-Zones). Wen he gets to d real deal, also guide his thrusts. Make him THRUSTWORTHY by using ur hips to guide his thrusts, if u like deep, flex up n accommodate him to d hilt while he thrusts, if u r shallow oriented, place hands beneath his pelvis n control d penetration, if he is hitting a spot right, moan n make him concentrate there. Communication. Don't say this guy don start again, make he do wetin dey his mind n leave. If u want it, OWN it.
Exercise : ur body is d vehicle to transport u to the 'Big O'. That pleasure land. A place where pain has no roots. That xanadic feeling. Vehicles need fuel n that fuel is blood flow. The plethora of exchanges btween d body n brain thrives on Blood Flow. Its d engorged blood in ur lady parts that initiates n delivers orgasms. So make that blood flow before u get to d bedroom. Work out. Skip, jog, dance vigorously wit music, if yoga is a big word, then engage in muscle n body relaxing exercises, anything to make u sweat. This way u strengthen d ntwk to make d 'text me, I reply u' activities of d body n brain during xes.
N.B. No one particular method will give u orgasm. Its a combination of many factors like mood, environment, body, mind etc. If I were to exhaust this, I would b writing a Journal. I eish u success in ur endeavours
Thanks Kehinde, I have learnt a lot from your write up.
DeleteBetty
Chineke! Kehinde just made me Horny. #sexpert!!! I hail thee *coughs*
ReplyDelete@Kehinde...choi,dude is talented in matters like dis...kip it up ooo.Ur gf/wife is damn lucky
ReplyDeleteChinwenmeri.blogspot.com
Na wa, homosexuality is a sin and someone that lost her virginity isn't sin okwaya!
ReplyDeleteNo 1 your problem pass me.
ReplyDeleteNo 2 are you sure this guy is the one who disvirgined you? How many men have you really seen naked? What is your basis for comparison?
It sounds as if your expectations after watching too many porn movies was so high you turned yourself to spectator instead of participating when you were doing the 'thing'. How you go come climax? Siddon dey wait. Perfect man go soon find u.