-Awwww,the baby will come....
How come only females have Narratives to tell?..ok,i get it,men talk less and read more!...LMAO.
This narratives today is tasking,please give it your best shot!
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
WEAK EGGS AND GETTING PREGNANT.
Good day SDK I have something bothering me I wish my fellow BV's can give one or two advice on. I just got married some few months ago, but before we got married some prophets had already told my hubby that I will have delay conception. My hubby has so much faith that there is nothing God cannot do. I went for checkup on tuesday and was told my eggs are weak that it will be difficult for me to get pregnant. Please is there anyone in the house with tips on how to boost weak eggs.?
*I have never heard of weak eggs before,i thought it was only men who suffered from weak sperm count.didnt you ask your doctor what might help?try google as well.I hope someone here helps. Good luck and look up to God cos thats where all miracles come from.
daughter corrected to doctor,na my auto correct be the causer.lol
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
ALMOST GOT MARRIED SEVEN TIMES....ALMOST DOESNT COUNT.
I want to share my story with Bvs and I will share my testimony when
God finally remove this reproach off my life. For now, pls protect my
identity. I need more of prayers than advice because from all
indications, this is not ordinary.
As a little girl, while growing up we picture our lives with the man
of our dreams. But for me, the dream have been chattered more times
that I can count. I'm 32 yrs old and I can't say I have had a
meaningful relationship except one that I broke up with because he is
not willing to grow. Now I wish I had "manage" him like that because
since then, I have been struggling.
I have been a "semi finalist" (the girl b4 the bride) 7times. Its like leaving me makes marriage to "hungry" the men. I know that marriage is not a do or die affair but I really want to be loved! I want to love too!
The sad part is that, I hardly go out! And I'm afraid to make friends
because of friendnemies. So, I don't get to meet guys. Another issue
is that, when I meet men that really love me, I hate them with
passion! But the guys I love don't feel the same.
Hmmn, right now I'm so scared to open up to a man, because I don't
know If it will work or not. My self confidence is in shambles! I have
followed all the rules!
*No sex
*Sex
*dont sleep in his house
*dont tell him all about yourself
*wait till after 3 months b4 sex
*meet his family and friends.
*Fasting
*Prayers
*Pastors Etc
Yet after a while the guys will just withdraw. And before you know it,
they are getting married to another.Hmmn. Please pray for me. I think that's the Major thing I need.
I promise to come back to testify on this blog when(I believe) I get
married very soon.
NB: These guys come back after their marriage to tell me that they
should have married me o. So its not my character. (I'm clingy tho
lol)....I pray that God will answer all our prayers. Amen
*Clingy as in nagging clingy?you may need to look into that.Men hate clingy women.Love a man but find strenght in yourself.
My dear wht u r suffering from is spiritual, do u hav sex in ur dreams? Wht ever happens in the physical already happened in the spiritual.. it nt all abt fasting and prayer u have to do it right.. u need to be delivered( discounted) from the spirit.. I would recommend SCOAN if u r any wher around lag, SHILOH chapel or ROYAL CHAMPION ASSEMBLE if u r anywher close to abj, CHRIST MERCY LAND if u r any wher closs to Warri.. God has bin doing it for others, ur case can not be different.. while at it keep on thanking God for the wonderful husband he has given u, dress smart be confident of ur self, it rili helps.. Jesus loves u..
ReplyDeleteYou are still recommending SCOAN to people even while still under investigation. Fear God na
DeleteNa wah for u o...ms tojubole
DeleteAll this English. The girl is too clingy and desperate. God is saving her from men that will take advantage of her desperation. Lady stop being desperate and see what will happen.
DeleteAgaracha! Lmao!
DeleteLMAO! No be small tojubole, church in every state. Na wa! What happened to your mouth? Speak to God
DeleteDon't ever go to SCOAN, tbjosjua, NEVER
DeleteSpiritual ma ass. Shebi,nah u dey fuck am everyday. Mtchewww. B sayin nonsense
DeleteLest keep spiritual aside now,I think dia is something in ur character that makes the men to go,of which u have mentioned one:being too clingy!pls and pls stop it!men and even some women(like me)don't like clingy pple!men respect u more if they see that u can be on ur own,handle ur bizness,maintain ur lane,ignore them for days,not taking their bullshit,giving them space to do their thing and sorting ur problems urself without being a cry baby on their necks everyday!its a sign of being strong and independent,of which most men will rather have such a person as a wife than a clingy person!
DeleteBut also d gud news is,I think outwardly u have d disposition and looks of a wife material dats y u attract such serious guys( d fact dey get married after u meant they were actually looking to settle down)but Mayb when d relationship starts,they see some character traits dat conflicts ur looks and dey leave!so pls check and amend some behaviours against d next relationship u will have,u should thank God o!some gals,btw they and all their exes,none of them is or has ever married,(shows u d kind of guys they attracted)#well this is my opinion anyway.tancx and best of luck!
Stella I couldn't post this under the appropriate thread. So please pardon me.
DeleteI choose to remain anonymous on this matter.
Much ado about married women vs mistresses. Let me quickly share my personal experience for whatever its worth. Now, this may sound as if I'm asking married women to cease fire from disgracing the side Chics..NO! Depending on ur circumstances and the level of your husband's commitment to his mistress, I would say each to his own. But is it really worth it? Only time will tell.
A few years ago I had this man who was seriously on my case. With much emphasis on the SERIOUS. Now, there's no point sharing this story if I would not tell the truth. I read the post you earlier made from a comment section, where a married woman said that her late husband was a jazz man and that she knows his mistresses are doomed spiritually. Quite a number of BVs said it was a made up tale. Maybe yes, maybe no. But the truth is, can anyone really blame any lady who was minding her business before these men come with their tales of woe? The truth is, only a reasonable lady who isn't morally bereft will be strong enough to read between the lines and not get carried away by these men of the world. I even say it will take divine grace from God to send a married man who's wooing u back to his wife. That is if he doesn't lie about being married.
Back to my gist. And so this man for nearly two years didn't let me rest. Quite honestly I gave in and started to pay attention to him. Although we were in different states so there was nothing physical between us. All the interactions were done via telephone conversations and chatting online every now and then. I knew he was very married with kids. We never discussed his family so he didn't at any time render tales of marital issues to convince me to be his friend. In fact this was the reason I respected him and gave in to my friendship with him.
He was my kind of guy and I knew I was in a deep shit. I had gotten so fond of him same way he had of me. We were both screwed because there was nothing either of us did that we didn't tell the other. At some point we had each other's password to our social media. Yes we did o. Just at the peak of it all, out of the blues I got a call from his dear wife. Quite frankly she was very polite although sounded distressed. She went on to tell me that she noticed that her hubby had been calling a particular line and would speak for hours unending. And that she was wondering what we talked about for that long. She also said that she noticed that the calls he made to me were done whilst she was away at work. Stella, I felt sorry for her.
I explained to her that truly I was friends with her hubby and nothing more. She believed me because she knew I was not in the same town as them, and she knew that he hadn't travelled to where I was. But then again, how could she have been so sure? What if I had gone visiting, would she have known? NO WAY.
She went on and on about how our men can be promiscuous and she threw me a poser. She asked how I would feel if my husband spent that much time speaking to a 'friend' every blessed day at least 3x a day with calls totaling to about 6 hours a day? Mind you, I have a job and so does this man. But our jobs is such that allowed us conveniently speak in the day or at least we were able to chat. I told her I couldn't explain how I would feel but that I quite understood her concern and I admitted it wasn't right. She rounded off the call pleasantly and we called it a night.
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DeleteMeanwhile she told me that she already asked her hubby the questions she threw st me...but that because he wasn't forth coming she decided to call me. Then I said to her that, she got away with calling me because I am not a gutter girl. That what if it was another lady and she got cursed and all? And for how long was she willing to continue to call everyone she suspects may be dating her hubby? And I also said, calling a supposed mistress isn't appropriate because more often than not, it doesn't relinquish whatever she and your hubby may have going. She answered that she took the risk but was happy she did because I wasn't unruly. More like a subtle plea..."leave my hubby alone" kind of thing.
I then called her hubby and told him that his Madame had called me. I even faked being upset when I was speaking with him, and moreso I needed to pick a fight with him so that we could end it all. Guilty conscience was what I was suffering from and I had to make him feel bad. He was very calm but not surprised. When I asked him why he wasn't taking the matter serious, he simply said...'my dear I'm used to it. she likes playing FBI and this would not be the first time. She likes snooping on me and she follows it up the same way'. I was like seriously? So you are a notorious cheat and you think it's cool? He laughed it off and said I should stop making a mountain out of a moul hill. Then what he said next is the main reason I am sharing this Stella.
He said...."now that she has your number we have to adopt another means of communication."..he said that there was no way on earth that he would stop speaking to me as we used to. He even said that she had done her worst and nothing else can be done. Now what? I was shocked and I felt deeply sorry for Madame because she had in her hands an unrepentant cheat. Mind you, if it wasn't me it could be some other female. Goes back to the poser I put to his wife. My point here is when your husband knows you manner of approach to certain things then it fails to yield results because it becomes a norm. Being unpredictable works better.
So anyway, I said I didn't want to adopt another means and I didn't want anyone embarrassing me for husband snatching. He didn't relent and I found it difficult to cut him off abruptly. I also needed to do it in a way that it wouldn't hurt me as much. Don't forget that I had become emotionally attached to him for two years, so it wasn't easy for me too. But I had to do something fast.
So one day I logged on to his social media and read his message thread. And one particular message caught my attention. It was from his old time female friend and she merely stated how she missed him etc. And how she missed his calls days before. This was it, my bail out had come . I quickly saved the message and I sent it to him. Unfortunately for him he didn't see the message before me, else he would have deleted it. So I made a fuss and called him names. I said he was a dog and I didn't want to be associated with him no more. I said the real owner of him was his wife, and bad enough she was on my case. But now, me the second unauthorised owner had to contend with another 3rd class mistress and I wasn't gonna have it. He became exhausted with my rants, and of course his wife must have been giving him hell at home too, so he became hopelessly screwed. While I was happy I had a reason to stay away from him. I succeeded.
He didn't stop though. I realised his pain was that he hadn't had the chance to be with me physically after all his fantasies before yawa happened. Lmao! I knew it was not so much for "love".. I quickly changed my social media password while he left his. So periodically I would log into his account. And oh boi, he had started to initiate friendships with other females. Ahahah.. you see, this is the point I am trying to make. What is the remedy to a cheating spouse? Calling up every of his mistress or what? ....
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Conclusion....
DeleteMy dear friends and married women in the house. The antidote is not necessarily initiating a contact with the mistress. Mine worked because of her approach. And guess what? Even her approach would fail with some other lady. But Her hubby waxed stronger into cheating with me even afterwards. He became more relaxed because he said that she had done her worse, so no more fear. There are many men with the same ideology, they wax stronger with the mistress even after you find out. Only a few leave such a mistress for you, but then they find another one but are more discreet this time. What do you then do?
I don't have an answer to this myself. All I want to say is that the solution you need is never in calling up the mistress to insult her. The solution is with your husband only if you have the master key to unlock his cheating mystery. So I suggest that you invest time in decoding your spouse instead of embarrassing yourself.
All cusses are most welcome.
Thanks Stella for the platform.
Well done ooh, if u expect us to congratulate u my dear u are in the wrong forum!u call ur self his mistress but u haven't slept with him?? Did u ever ask yourself why he hasn't divorced his wife??its becos undescerning women like u abound so they can have their way,the highest level of disrespect a man can met out to a single lady is if he let's her know he is married and still wants to be with her,if all so called mistresses said no to people's husbands, wives won't have to leave their work,their life and kids to "invest time in decoding"their spouses!!!! Like who does that???so in your head u think the man should be given the "smart man" award abi? ?? I just can deal mehhhhn! !!!!
DeleteAbeena shut up cos your comment is totally daft..... I totally relate with u cos I have had to call 3 women my hubby had affairs with... The reason I did was to get the truth cos he was lying to me in the face of overwhelming evidence whichade me feel stupid..... He managed to end those affairs and I have now found out a new one who has even dared to be sending me messages of their escapades to make me feel I have no say in the matter..... I just forward message to hubby when she does cos I have resolved this is the last straw..... He says he is no longer interested in the marriage so she feels like a queen.... I am also moving on and have handed them both to God, as long as I kept my part of the marriage covenant they will get their reward...... Only God can change a cheating spouse and it's not worth the drama fighting the other woman....,
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ReplyDeletePoster 1 u are very funny, ur doctor told u that u ve a weak egg, why not ask for the solution from ur doctor instead of asking stella, abi u hear say I be doctor, oya drink bitter leaf and bitter kola, that is the solution.
Poster 2, u are clingy abi, u hate men, c ur mouth, u never ready to marry.
#N1: Look up to Jesus.
ReplyDelete#N2: Look up to Jesus.
The author and finisher of your faiths.
Narrative 2:
ReplyDeleteSpiritual husband at work...
God is using my daddy in the lord to solve this problems...why don't you give him a trial...
doctors in the house should come to her aid
ReplyDeletevisit my blog
www.glowysofiscated.blogspot.com
poster one- see a gynae to do a proper check to ascertain the problem
ReplyDeleteposter two- your spirit husband is not smiling.
go for deliverance
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ReplyDeleteN2 No sEx. Come to Holyghost adoration ministry uke anambra state. Fr Ebubemuonso will pray for u. But embrace holiness. Psalm 31 for N1
ReplyDeleteN2 No sEx. Come to Holyghost adoration ministry uke anambra state. Fr Ebubemuonso will pray for u. But embrace holiness. Psalm 31 for N1
ReplyDeleteMama Jide, why do I have a feeling I know u. I attend ebube muonso too
DeleteYes ooooo adoration will help u at poster 2
DeleteN1. I think google can help in shedding light on how to go about your problem and possible solution, and as Stella said ask your doc the next step. You should anchor your faith with that of your husband God is a miracle worker.
ReplyDeleteMy own case is that am perfectly alright, I've had two miscarriages in one year, whenever am down my hubby pulls me through, he has so much faith. Like few days ago I asked him why he doesn't mention fruit of the womb in our daily prayers, he said to me there are things that are not prayer points, he it is a father's promise and he would bring it to fruition. He only thanks for our kids as if we have them already.
Don't worry people with worst cases has given birth it will happen to you.
N2. It could be a generational trend, check your lineage and see if it a pattern, then take it up from there, that's if you're sure it is not your character.
What I tell people is that your mind is your greatest weapon, whatever you conceive in it or fear most is automatically attracted to you. Build your world in it and see it manifest.
@ poster no 2, u hv followed all the rules including "waiting after 3 months b4 having sex," meaning u still hv sex with them eventually...
ReplyDeleteU see, dt's one of ur biggest problem why they leave u for "the one", and most women don't know this. Once u give a guy all the benefits of a husband and more in a mere boify/girlfy relationship, 80 times out of 100, they won't end up marrying u, coz the see finish syndrome now sets in. So u should work in dt aspect. Also go out and meet pple and work on other bad habits dt u may hv like clinging.
#It shall be well
*lips sealed and watching*
With all due respect, SHUT UP! You mean all the ladies that are married didn't have sex before marriage or the ladies the guys too got married to didn't have sex with them as well. Pls let's learn to use our brains to give advice to people. And u want to pretend not to have seen where she also listed 'no sex' meaning she had also tried that without success.
Delete"U mean all ladies that are married didn't hv sex b4 marriage"
Delete@ Eka Joy, with dz kinda O.T of ur's , there is no need jugling words with u coz since u had hundreds of booty counts b4 marriage, and d kinda immoral friends u kept those days were d gbenshing around type like urself now makes u think every woman out there had sex b4 marriage. So it's only normal 4 u 2 think dz way. I've always been seeing ur comments here and noticed how crass they are, so I won't stoop so low 2 argue with u since we obviously don't reason alike. And I don't expect u 2 understand my comment either
#Sorry that the truth hit u harder than punches..
#Peace
For ur mind now, this is a really classy comeback, patewo fun ra e mr goody-two-shoes
DeleteEesah you have spoken well
DeleteOga please Shush it! You have. Absolutely no idea. These days that one no dey work again. I slept with my husband the very first day we met. Not like it was in my character to do that but it just happened and I regretted it very deeply thereafter. However, fast forward to 2yrs after, we got married and have been for 6yrs now.
DeleteSo it's really not about the sex. These days if u no co-operate sef dem go bounce u. Pple don't hang around no-show relationships that much anymore. So it's neither here nor there.
poster 2 trust in God you will testify soon. I'm in a similar situation nd am sure its more than 7 suitors d last one hurt me so bad nd to me it was an epic shame cos I've met his family nd all only for him to tell me he didn't get green light from God, I cried as usual but this time was more determined to change tins, I started praying nd seeking solution wch I got from a good pastor thru a friend. I believe am delivered nd I've started seeing d signs too nd I pray my testimony will come soon nd I will share it with aunty Stella nd all Bvs so be strong.
ReplyDeletefirst poster please try hospitals nd am sure your story will change soon.
Poster 1- you already believed what the prophet sais. Have faith and believe God's report and not the report of the world.
ReplyDeletePoster 2- Well, me thinks you should look inwards. There might be a residing problem. Secondly, you can make friends without being a fool. That's the tactics I use and it works well. Be friendly without coming too close. (u know what I mean?) Thirdly, remove the impression that u need friends to meet ur dream guy. LIE! Lastly, pray and ignore that voice in your head that tells you that its a reproach.
No2 d good Lord must surely visit u @ due time,,nothing is wrong with u,,,No1 google it & dont forget there's nothing too hard for God to do..
ReplyDeleteMy own is that most guys that I date or chyke me are married
ReplyDeleteMFM or nah?
MFM, Living Faith, Redeem, Christ Embassy et al...
DeletePlz don't stop o, keep visiting all of them 4 deliverance o. That curse needs 2 be lifted! Hian! Shey u saw what happened 2 dt runs girl on d other post?
Issokay...
...and cele too (river bath,miss paris perfume n correct flogging)
DeleteMFM all the way, my 7 friends have testified from there
Deleteposter 2 mine is more than seven oh hmmm but I believe I've gotten my deliverance and breakthroughs nd I sure see the signs. lol they always come bk to say oh ure such a nice person nd u did me no wrong but I don't know why I get confused when am praying. well I thank God am victorious now nd I will testify soon once every thing is settled. just keep praying nd fasting. find a good priest or pastor to assist you nd you will see a difference. as for poster too trust God nd c a good doctor. don't loose faith coa you shall Ladd at last.
ReplyDeleteposter 2 mine is more than seven oh hmmm but I believe I've gotten my deliverance and breakthroughs nd I sure see the signs. lol they always come bk to say oh ure such a nice person nd u did me no wrong but I don't know why I get confused when am praying. well I thank God am victorious now nd I will testify soon once every thing is settled. just keep praying nd fasting. find a good priest or pastor to assist you nd you will see a difference. as for poster too trust God nd c a good doctor. don't loose faith coa you shall Ladd at last.
ReplyDeleteThere is 'Weak Eggs' in layman terms. It means dat d ovaries is lazy. It could b dat one of d twin ovaries doesn't produce much eggs cos d ovarian follicles is not developing enuf 2 nourish d eggs. This could b as a result of progesterone deficiency, inadequate nutrient, poor blood supply etc . She didn't mention if she suffers irregular menses tho. Only a medical doctor can attend to u and manage the situation very well but on ur own, u can eat foods that r rich in alkaline, eat tomatoes, cucumbers, bitter leaf. Ovaries love zinc, magnesium, n Vitamin B complex to function well.
ReplyDeleteEat watermelon n d seeds, walnuts, fish, chocs, garlic, ginger, nutmeg, avocado, groundnut soup( for real) , bananas, monitor ur cholesterol and exercise well for free blood flow. Wish u a testimony soon.
@ Lady Koi-Koi, it's still Xes to me cos am yet to get legal Xes. When I marry, it will b sex.
@ Bitchplis, so u were reading Lolly Mag back then. Dauda n Nackson. No wonder its'Bent Outta Shape'. Lol. Do v a nice day.
@ Xoxo Mystery, am happy u read novels and motivational books in your generation. If you read Jackie Collins, EL James and others of their ilk, u would agree that Xes is better than food.
Lmao @ mr ake(oba obo)..@pink shell,see wetin u cause with ur definition of 'bent outta shape' o
Delete@ Bitchplis, is there another meaning?
DeleteOhh.. I'm a huge jackie Collins and EL James fan o, but I'm on Xoxo's side really, sex is not food. Hehe.. N2: I don't say this very easily but please, see a man of God, talk to him about this. Get his input. I know enough to know that our world is so much more than what we see in the physical.
DeleteThere is 'Weak Eggs' in layman terms. It means dat d ovaries is lazy. It could b dat one of d twin ovaries doesn't produce much eggs cos d ovarian follicles is not developing enuf 2 nourish d eggs. This could b as a result of progesterone deficiency, inadequate nutrient, poor blood supply etc . She didn't mention if she suffers irregular menses tho. Only a medical doctor can attend to u and manage the situation very well but on ur own, u can eat foods that r rich in alkaline, eat tomatoes, cucumbers, bitter leaf. Ovaries love zinc, magnesium, n Vitamin B complex to function well.
ReplyDeleteEat watermelon n d seeds, walnuts, fish, chocs, garlic, ginger, nutmeg, avocado, groundnut soup( for real) , bananas, monitor ur cholesterol and exercise well for free blood flow. Wish u a testimony soon.
@ Lady Koi-Koi, it's still Xes to me cos am yet to get legal Xes. When I marry, it will b sex.
@ Bitchplis, so u were reading Lolly Mag back then. Dauda n Nackson. No wonder its'Bent Outta Shape'. Lol. Nice day Bro
@ Xoxo Mystery, am happy you read novels n motivational books in your generation. But if u read Jackie Collins, EL James and others of their ilk, u would agree that Xes is better than food.
I love you
DeleteEL James! Fifty shades of naughty!
Delete@Kehinde. God bless u
DeleteI Love You More!!!
DeleteU love Kehinde aka Baba Sex??? U must be a learner and new to SDK Blog....Kehinde go chop u clean mouth...
DeletePoster num 1
ReplyDeletePlease don't let these people wound you up in knots..few months and you are already going to test your eggs(i don't even know what that means). I hope you know anxiety does not help situations like this?
I pray people with more experience in this will help you with the advice you need! But I know that you will take in shortly!!!
Poster num 2
Whilst praying and fasting..please also check and make sure your clinging to your bfs does not come off as stifling. Your man will locate you..This is the time to have fun,go see movies,go on dates..just be happy....when you glow,people will want to associate with you..My prayers are with you dear
Poster numero un, I did a progesterone test last year and my GP told me I have weak eggs, in fact these were his exact words "You are producing eggs , but they are useless". I walked out in tears. But guess what, I prayed and now I am pregnant. I am just home from the hospital for my routine scan nd my baby/babies are rocking in my bele..... So my dear prophecy or not , weak eggs or strong eggs u are bound to multiply and so shall it be. Shalom!!!!!
ReplyDeleteOse kemie...God wil see u thru d preg period in Jesus name...d living will come out of d living. @poster 2,copy dis comment n let it encourage everyday #MyAdvice
Delete@Bitchplis, amen in Jesus name. Thanks.
DeleteCongrats Kemie
Delete1, God will answer you in due time amen. 2, am an introvert too but I think you should be more outgoing.
ReplyDelete#N1 I think weak egg means that the quality of your egg is low though you can still conceive with a weak egg. The cause could be genetic or age. As we women gets older the quantity and quality of our egg tends to decrease. You should try some fertility hospital. I heard clomiphene is good in treating such condition. Good luck.
ReplyDeletethe Egg ish well i dunno about that, its my first time of hearing that...May God intervene maybe with tym the eggs will mature
ReplyDeleteI dont always think when things dont go our way then we should cling it to spiritual ish. On the other hand this almost or about to should be looked at from another angle..I will only suggest you pray more and hope to see or hear from God.Dont rely on what people say alone.
Bottom line is no matter who you are be it your character or disability or your looks, personality or attitude, there will always be a man for every woman
Madam Stella "ask your doctor oh not daughter!" lol. N1 sorry I don't know anything about weak eggs. N2 you really do need prayers, I will try to put you in my prayers and by the grace of God you will testify soon. #One Love#
ReplyDelete1st poster, have no idea of what ur saying but your doctor should shed more light on the issue, meanwhile keep praying and believing God, there's nothing he cant do.
ReplyDelete2nd poster, i understand the urge to be loved and love, but in this case why dont u try to see through those guys that love you but you dont love them, maybe one of them has a very good heart and character, try to understand and accomodate him in ur heart and let the love grow...meanwhile watch and pray againt WITCHES AND WIZARDS....
Poster 2...being clingy is no excuse. My brothers girlfriend is clingy as hell but they are both married.They lived together for months,they went everywhere together, i bet they even go to the loo together...how they do it,i don't know.
ReplyDeleteStop putting all your eggs in one basket.
Date what is usually not your type.
Don't be desperate.
it is not spirit husband joor.
If a woman of four kids can marry a man who is not the father of her kids, what else is new?
You will marry.
Eesah forget that thing...my brothers girlfriend gave him what a wife gives the husband when they were still boyfriend and girlfriend...now they are married.My brother loves her so much.
Its better to be dumped severally and later you meet the love of your life and live happily forever.
XOXO MYSTERY
Xoxo mystery, ure very correct. I dey vex very quickly but if you meet my fiance, he is very patient. When we argue, he shows up at my place unannounced so we can settle. My temper has cooled down now o. When someone loves you, he/she would do anything to make you happy. My advice to poster 2 is date those people you say you don't love, sometimes love doesn't always happen at first sight. When I met my fiance, I wasn't so crazy about him but his endearing qualities drew me to him. Now, I'm so possessive of him cos I don't want to share what I'm enjoying o.lol
DeleteU are always quick 2 say 4get that thing and all without really getting d message. Didn't u read where I said 80 times out of 100? I don't expect u 2 understand anyways...
DeleteEesah, shut up! U r too rude and uncouth for a man, u talk like a market woman agbero
DeleteLet us first understand that there is no rule book here. There is no guarantee that if you have sex with a guy while dating, he will marry you. Also, even if you say you no do, dem fit still no marry you. I have male friends who feel they must taste the milk before they buy the cow. Other ones still plan on getting married to virgins even after sticking their dicks in every available hole possible. Here's what I think, do whatever works for you. Do not refuse to sleep with a guy so that somehow it will ginger him to marry you. If you decide to go the celibate route, do it simply for yourself, because you understand the reason for waiting and not because you want your man to "buy the cow".
Delete#1 God has been doing it for others,yours will not be an exception.have faith in God cos he has the final say.
ReplyDelete#2 has it ever occured to you that one of those guys u tend to hate could be your husband? All that glitters are not gold.you can't judge or write somebody off from a distance. Loosen up a bit and see God perfect it.its well with you.
This is what I warn people about. Don't give yourself such rules! You are different from every other person, you are unique and can not be limited by man made rules that cannot be verified or tested to be proven.
ReplyDeleteI suggest you develop a positive mind, secondly, you stop limiting yourself by rules from all this 7ways to get a man book'. Thirdly, I will suggest you go out and mingle. And aabove all pray.
GOD BLESS NIGERIA.
This is what I warn people about. Don't give yourself such rules! You are different from every other person, you are unique and can not be limited by man made rules that cannot be verified or tested to be proven.
ReplyDeleteI suggest you develop a positive mind, secondly, you stop limiting yourself by rules from all this 7ways to get a man book'. Thirdly, I will suggest you go out and mingle. And aabove all pray.
GOD BLESS NIGERIA.
@Nemerem....I want to share my story to boost ur faith. My dear tap into his faith and believe with him, he is actually right. I had same experience tho without a miscarriage but due to family history, I had always feared a repetition. My eldest sister is married without a child for 20yrs now, my other elder sister had a baby after 10yrs in marriage, so I always had that fear that it is a trend and will also happen to me, I lived with that fear, I even hear voices telling me not to expect child. I download all IVF stories I read and every fertility treatment I hear even before I got married....I was preparing for the worst. When my hubby proposed, I told him I had something to share with him before I can accept his proposal, I told him my fears and made it clear to him to prepare his mind for several fertility treatments or possible adoption if he insists on marrying me. To my shock, he looked me in the eyes, held my face and told me that having children will never be an issue for us, that we won't even have to pray for it for one day cos God does not lie in his promises. He sounded funny to me, I didn't believe him, I had no faith.
ReplyDeleteFast-forward, late last year we got married, I told him I would want to wait 2yrs before making babies (na fear o make me talk so, atleast make the marriage last small before the frustration of childlessness sets in). He agreed, some months ago, I missed my period, the last thing I suspected was pregnancy cos my period has never been regular. 40days counting I did a PT test and am pregnant, went to the hospital and it was really true, I couldn't believe it, I told him and his calm reply was "sweetheart I told u, having children will never be a prayer point, it's a divine promise". Now, am happily carrying my babies and guess wat? Am expecting twins! Do pls tap into that his faith, he is so RIGHT. U will testify and seem like a movie to u. Goodluck and may God grant ur desires.
Thanks dearie. you have a safe pregnancy and delivery. God bless you
DeleteN1 , weak egg??!!….N 2. Relax husband dey come.
ReplyDeleteStella what is happening or is the fault with my phone? Where is the main site nah cos I ve been searching for it since but it kips showing me one
ReplyDeletestupid message. .nawa oo
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Poster1:get informed and look up to God..Poster2: D bible says none shall lack her mate,hold on to God's word,don't give up yet cos God won't give up on u dear,keep trusting Him.
ReplyDeletePOSTER1, I WAS HAVING THE SAME PROBLEM AND ITS USUALLY ASSOCIATED WITH PCOS( POLYCYSTIC OVARIAN SYNDROME), LOOSE SOME WEIGHT, GET A GOOD MULTIVITAMIN, TAKE BCOMPLAX,AND DRINK LOTS OF WATER, AVOID STARCHY AND CABORHYDRATE FOODS, EAT MORE PROTEIN AND VEGETABLES. MOST IMPORTANTLY LOOSE WEIGHT AND UR SYSTEM WILL BE FINE. AM TALKING OUT OF EXPERIENCE. THAT POOR EGGS IS A DIFFICULT THING TO FIX SO U MUST BE SERIOUS IN DOING ALL THAT I HAVE TOLD U AND MOREOVER PRAY VERY HARD
ReplyDeleteGod bless u
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ReplyDeleteN1 head to a specialist, get treatment and pray for it to take hold. What can SDK do for you eh kwa.
ReplyDeleteN2, I can imagine your type. For you to call not being married a reproach, I can see why you are still looking. First of all a man needs to find you not the other way around. To be found, you have to be seen. If you keep yourself locked up...who go see you? All these men leaving you are not your husbands. Abeg everything is not spirit husband. Use the sense God gave you before you go and really carry spirit husband from one of these "ministries". Focus on bettering you, are you employed? Grow in your career, business woman?, move to the next step. Man no be all in all. You want to be loved and love? Give your time at an orphanage. Go and visit every weekend and do things to better someone else and see how God will bless you.
Stella, this woman has a lot of work to do on herself. First sit down and re evaluate yourself, ask why this keeps happening to you and please change. Not all those who come to you want to marry you so you need to be careful and do not give your all to a guy too soon. Let him take the lead.
ReplyDeleteBeing too clingy is very very bad for a woman. It drives men away so work on yourself. Aside your normal 9am to 5pm job, waiting for your husband, what else do you do, Get busy and the right one will find his way to you. And please look for this book and read, you will never remain the same again
THE SECRETS OF AN IRRESISTIBLE WOMAN by MICHELLE MCKINNEY HAMMOND... Relax, go out and enjoy life. kisses to you
Poster 1, you can try ovabo.tost it helps promote egg quality. The Lord is your strength
ReplyDeleteTry ovaboost ,it helps to promote egg quality. The Lord is your strength.
ReplyDeletePoster No 1... Weak eggs or not, God will make you a mother. Thank God that you have a hubby whose faith is strong.
ReplyDeletePoster No 2... I hope your's is not the case of ''see finish'' according to Charley boi? I mean if you have satisfied ur bf with what is menat for your husband, what else is he supposed to look forward to? On the other hand, it could be spiritual.
Eesah was here...there are no laid down rules for marriage. Most of these married women did all the wrong things in your book and they are married.
ReplyDeleteDo not put her on a pedestal.
Who told you the women they married are more perfect than she is?
They may love those women more.
Love covers a multitude of sins.
Poster 2. ..Soon, a man will come along , love you and marry you.
XOXO MYSTERY
Eesah was here...there are no laid down rules for marriage. Most of these married women did all the wrong things in your book and they are married.
ReplyDeleteDo not put her on a pedestal.
Who told you the women they married are more perfect than she is?
They may love those women more.
Love covers a multitude of sins.
Poster 2. ..Soon, a man will come along , love you and marry you. Don't give yourself headache by thinking something is wrong with you.
I know a woman who got married at 40.
XOXO MYSTERY
My dear we are both facing the same thing, i have prayed, fasted, i give out more than i buy things for my self. I am tired. Simply tired n heart broken. This last one hit me hard. I dont even have friends to hang out with, just work, home, church. Anyway i know his plans for me are plans of good n not of evil.
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Try fertil-aid for women/ fertile CM and royal jelly.
Poster2
Be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind. Stop showing the men how desperate you are. Don't be in a hurry to rush in. Time and season happeneth to us all. SHALOM!
All I can say is come to harvesters international christian centre, gbagada any sunday this month, thats the topic up for discussion.
ReplyDeleteTwo of u, enter mountain of fire ( mfm) for deliverance, ur lives would never remain d same again, don't waste time, they have several branches around u
ReplyDelete1st time commenting. Almost married, I am in this exact situation!!! I was thinking of this tonight! I am 30 in 6 months and I have finally given up!. I cant do it anymore, I am soo beautiful, religious, pleasant and hardworking! yet nothing!. Its well with you my dear, God will break the yoke of all spiritual group/ husband.
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing Our heavenly father can't do. Trust him......
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing Our heavenly father can't do. Trust him......
ReplyDeleteDEAR POSTER 1 WITH WEAK EGGS. THERE IS NOTING LIKE SOMEONES EGGS BEING WEAK IT CAN ONLY BE CAUSED BY (PCOS) WHICH IS KNOWN AS POLYCIST OVARIAN SYNDROME. WELL SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME AND RIGHT NOW AM IN INDIA FOR SURGERY AND THE DR SUGEST WE DO WHAT SHE CALLED OVARIAN DRILLING INORDER TO KILL ALL THE BAD EGGS AND LIVE THE GOOD ONES COS THE WEAK WHICH IS THE BAD ONES ARE THE ONES THAT WOULD NOT ALLOW THE GOOD ONES MATURE.. THROUGH THE SURGERY THE DOCTOR NOTICED THAT IN THE CAUSE OF ME HAVING (PCOS) MY BOTH TUBES ARE BLOCKED WHICH AS A RESULT WERE MY CAUSE OF DELAY FOR 3YEARS SO I THANK GOD NOW THAT BOTH TUBES ARE OPENED AND THE OVARIES ARE NORMAL AND ACTIVE AND I TELL U NOW THAT JUST ONE MONTH AFTER THE SURGERY AM EXPECTING AFTER 3YEARS... SO MY DEAR JUST LOOK FOR A BETTER CLINIC COS NIGERIA CLINIC THEY WONT CHECK WAT THE PROBLEM IS THEY WILL BE TREATING U FOR INFECTION... JUST TAKE CARE THE LORD WE SEE US THROUGH..
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