Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives.

The ex always comes back for a reason.....you have to wait to find out what it is!

How would you encourage yourself if you get to the last lap of your University education and you get a sharp knock on the head that sends you not back to square one but OUT!

The Chronicles of narratives has space for you,got any story?send it in and be as brief as possible,nobody has time to read a book here...lol

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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

WAITING ON GOD IN THE THRESHOLD IS THE ONLY OPTION RIGHT NOW

Good Afternoon aunty Stella and all BV's,congratulations to you on the award!

I woke up this morning with a heavy heart,tears in my eyes,I looked at

it nothing really worth living for,no job,no degree.I found out that my

admission was fake in my 3rd year in the University,learnt make up but no tools to work or practice with ,the relationship that kept me going started having

cracks on Saturday,I'd be 30 next year,though no pressure from home to

get married......

Runs has never been an option for me,made lot of mistakes in life and all that,I was crying on my bed this morning when I woke up,feeling God doesn't know I exist,Then I decided to go through my music library I found a song by'JOHN WALLER'..while I'm waiting' and I got encourage that in my waiting period I should not cry or feel sucidal,or feel there is nothing to live for,rather while I

am waiting I should worship,I should serve him,though it is painful

but patiently I would wait.....I'd encourage everyone in my shoes not

to give up,but WAIT ON GOD....I'm sure I would still come back to this

blog with a testimony!

*Awww,I am so sorry about your fake admission thing,please keep up the positive attitude and dont let it get you down.A lot of people going thru what you just described will be encouraged by your positive attitude.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

WHEN THE EX COMES CALLING.......SHOULD YOU BE WORRIED?

Hi Stella, please I really need your advice and that of other blog visitors on this.

I have been married to the most amazing man on earth for just ten months and its been the best ten months of my life! I love my husband to the moon and back,But before I met my husband I used to love my ex-fiancé who cheated on me. Here's how it happened.

I went to pay him an unexpected visit one evening, When I got to his place I told him I wanted to use the bathroom and he was trying to block me from going into the master bedroom, he told me to use  one of the bathroom in the guest room or the one in the parlour and that got me curious and I had to force my way into the his bedroom. 

I got into the bedroom and tried switching the light on so I could find my way into bathroom my ex-fiancé switched it off, I was so pressed I had to rush in and use the bathroom, it was when I got out of the bathroom that I noticed someone was all covered up in bed, I switched the light on again and Lo and behold Laying on his bed in the master bedroom was a Lady.

 I asked him who it was and the next thing my ex-fiancé did was to turn the light off and ask me to leave the bedroom, I got upset and turned the light on again and guess what Stella? My fiance turned off the light and pushed me right out of the bedroom all the way to the sitting room. I demanded to know why he had to push me out of the bedroom without explaining who was laying there on his bed and he got really rude. 

I was really upset and broke up with him right there. I got home in tears and deleted all his numbers from my phone,blocked him on facebook,disconnected him from my all my social network.

He sent me an email the next day and guess what? He said that "he demands an apology from me for embarrassing him in his house and that he has forgiven me for my unruly behaviour," can you imagine??? Insult upon injury!!!

I didn't even bother replying 'cos I deleted the mail instantly. He thought because he is rich I will come crawling on my knees begging him for "cheating on me".Money is not everything abeg, Happiness and peace of mind is all I want.

We've not talked nor seen each other ever since though we both live in the same city and we both come from the same state, but I don't even give a sh*t about him cos I hate him for the way he treated me.

Fast forward to six months later, I met a super very amazing man(who is equally from my state),He loves me, treats me like a queen and makes me happy. We got married in december last year and I told him everything about my ex even before we got married.

Fast forward to yesterday, my husband called my last night(because he is out of town) and told me my ex sent him a friend request on facebook and he accepted. I asked why he accepted and he told me he wants to know what my exe's intentions are.

 Stella and blog visitors should I be worried??? My ex and my husband now friends on Facebook? what does he want by getting close to my husband???

*How did he know about your hubby?Oh I get it you all are from the same town.I dont know what to say but keep your fingers crossed and if possible log unto your hubbys facebook and block him.I also wonder what he wants with your hubby.He probably wants to see whats happening with you.