If someone had told me yesterday, that I would share my story on your blog today.. Allah I no go believe.
Please I'd like you to educate the ladies on this blog that snooping is not enough to catch a man, I am #teamsnoop..I used to date a very popular yahoo boy so there's no kind of phone I can't hack into.
Have been dating my boyfriend for more than a year, he told me about his baby mama before we started going out and I was OK with it. We were into a serious relationship, I pick his call, read his msgs and I was even d one that opened his twitter and Instagram account for him so I know his passwords. Stella, guess wetin happen today....
My so called boyfriend called to inform me that he has completed his new house and he's moving in with his baby mama and his kids( his original wife is dead, she left 2 girls, his baby mama has a son). I was shocked, cos this is a guy that I do monitor very well. He actually told me about buying a new land last year but he didn't tell me about building a new house neither did I suspect despite all my snooping, plus we are always together, we even travel out together for official trips because he's a top manager in a multinational..
Anyways , this is for all d women in the house.. U can never be as smart as a man, just pray for a good man that is God fearing. The thing pain me no be small because I always felt no man can outsmart me. The bitter truth about all this is that , I'd fight with him o but I ain't going nowhere, he's a good man and very caring, I can't cope with small boys that would fuck you, chop your money and still have guts to cheat on u neither can I cope with all these useless lousy politicians that can fuck anything in skirt.
Let me resume crying again before I start packing for my Dubai trip..... Pls excuse my typos and gbagauns, its not easy to be heartbroken, dikwa very tough .
*Awwww,so sorry about the hear break....Wetin dey happen for Dubai?????
Awww...Pele dear abeg go and mend ur heart in Dubai am sure by the time u get back u'd have moved on..Pele shit happens that's why its called life. Enjoy ur Dubai trip!!
ReplyDeleteI dated a man for 4yrs without knowing he was married. We stayed together in Canada for close to 3yrs before He got a job in Nigeria and asked me to move to Nigeria with Him which ofcos i quickly agreed to. Barely six months in Nigeria and BOOM!!! I found out he was married. Not only was he Married, he also ve 4kids. I asked him and He broke down in tears. Told me his wife is in Florida with his kids and the marriage is shaky...i still didn't believe him not until he showed me the wedding pictures and video clips, he even opened his wife's facebook page to show me more recent pictures. (can u imagine he had her password) i still didn't believe him until he called his wife in my presence. Lol! That am still alive this min is a miracle. I was this close to killing myself. If not for my Dad. Now after i released i was now officially in love with a happily married man, i still stayed with him cos he asked me to give him 2mnts to end things with the wife. I gave him 4mnts and another 1mnt untop But nothing happened. This is a man that i ve leaved with for 4 good years. Remember he use our pictures 4 his BBM, facebook, whatsapp, skype, facetime, wallpaper etc. And dnt forget he Takes me to parties, naming ceremony, weddings, vacations etc. *smh* My dear poster, some men are deceptive. Plz kindly pick up the pieces of ur precious heart ad move me.
DeleteThese the 1st time am writing/talking about this without crying. I guess am getting stronger. I ve never been this confused in my whole life! Lol!
Did u say u aint going nowhere? U are very desperate...Leave dat liar of a man...he dont deserve u..Move on with ur life bcos he is not gonna leave d mother of his son and marry u.
DeleteStella which kain yeye story be dis? Can't stand cheating from young boys yet your boyfriend is cheating. No time for such useless reasoning I beg. Tell us you be runs girl who was hoping for the ring. Money no let you think straight
Delete@ Chizoba; welcom back. Where have u bn? Hw is ur DH n DS?
Deletechizoba you show face atlast!!!!!
DeleteHmm, who goes to Dubai this period? Heat go first kill you troway. Very hot indeed.
DeleteWow!! Miranda this Ur story sef pass the posters own. U Moved with him? Love is stupid sha. Didn't u ve a job in Canada. How about school, frds familyetc.u moved with a man just like that? Nawa oo. So ve u broken up with him now? Or has he left his wife? Plz come back and finish ur story, i wana get something right here.
Delete@Slim Shady...We are doing great dear...thanx for asking.
DeletePoster ur a very desperate bitch...smh,im very sure u r dating dis guy cuz of his money.so u mean u knew all along dat he has 2children plus anoda one for a baby mama nd u still wan die put.e be like say u no knw say polygamous home na war..i wonder when some ladies will av sense in dis lyf,smh for u ,olosho of lyf
DeleteHahahahahaah...
ReplyDeleteThis poster is crazy aswear...
Had a good laugh..Lmao..
My personal person, chop kiss.. Poster
DeleteEhen!
DeleteLinda bia, kpachala anya gi ooo!
Atink av warned u concerning d endearments u keep calling davido.
Plz let history not repeat itself agen.
I no dey play dat kind play abeg! Joke is joke, joke is a name of a person.
My dear poster if you don't leave this man...you will only become a fucking tool to him....he is wise not to want children from 3 women....2 na work and he is lucky one is late... So my dear if you love yourself and.this man...abeg free am make he.be with the babymama.
ReplyDeleteYou will still meet someone else....over to other BV they may have a better advice.
My dear had to walk away frm a budding r/ship wit a guy wit 2 baby mamas oo. Although onee is very far but one is very close right here in lagos. I always imagined that weneva he relocates bak to naija, he will definitely hook up wit her. I advised myself and severed ties quick before aka enwe aworo aka mmadu. I can't live wit that constant baby mama fear always watching my bak biko
Delete@ Orela, hullo! Where have u been? Welcome back.
DeleteHe is lucky one is late? Wow, some of you in a bid to talk, talk from your armpits.
DeleteMy dear. @Kehinde ake.....work ooooo.....jeez....with all these Ebola scare....almost all infectious diseases present with fever,chai....no be small thing I just dey change gloves like mad...you know no protective clothing just observing universal precautions
DeleteAnyone that wanna throw a shade had better do that with a name
WhAt do you mean by lucky? Hiss.
DeleteLucky bawo,ur such an idiot,is it by force to comment mtchewwww
DeleteReally???!!! Some men hehn! Infact all men dem be smooth operators. It is what they want U to know that U will know. @ Poster, sorry oo. Just be strong and enjoy ur trip to Dubai. Happy Sunday Y'all.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry abt d ��.
ReplyDeleteOkay I like this poster, with the way you sounding you'll be fine in no time.pele but that guy dikwa very smart o!kai
DeleteHmmm...this story sha.
ReplyDeleteOmoh! Make Una free snooping o! My husband once said to me " what if I have a phone that doesn't come home with me" since then I left him with his dog life style. I can't fit come and die young
ReplyDeleteYou left the marriage abi you left the snooping? you can't fit die of heartbreak or of disease? Abeg specify? And dog pass dog oh! Oh which level of dogrism is dear hubby?
DeleteNna ehn! Na wa.
DeleteBe careful sha.
@ Poster. Pele, it's gonna b fine wit you. Time heals every wound. May the balm of Gilead soothe every hurting part of you. I use you as a point of contact to every hurting soul in this BLOG that God should mend their broken hearts n restore hope this Sunday morning.
ReplyDeleteAMEN!
DeleteOn*
DeleteYou are just too nice. Are you sure you are not a robot lol I have never read anything negative in your comments. I'm a fan ^_^
DeleteKehinde odikwa nma?
DeleteI went to renew my powers thru the special abilities found in xes and come back only to see Mr. AKE talking about Balm of Gilead instead of KY gel.
Hian.
Kehinde ake!!!
DeleteFirst time in history.
And First time am comin bck to read ur comment after scrollin down xpectin to see d usual.
Its funny how I pick d comments to read on dis blog, for u ake, I don't even boda, I only read ppls accolade to u.
Honestly I don't know hw ppl read mine.
Hmph
DeleteAmen!kehinde thanks am hurting as well my fiance gave me an ultimatum I can't meet am so heartbroken I don't know where to start,I wish I had money for vacation.
DeleteLEPA
Amen!kehinde thanks am hurting as well my fiance gave me an ultimatum I can't meet am so heartbroken I don't know where to start,I wish I had money for vacation.
DeleteLEPA
@ Nwa Ndu, I am your fan too. You say nice stuffs too.
Delete@ N. Dr Agwoturumbe, welcome back. I don ask of u tire o. Pls 'didnt' vanish like Aboki Na Mallam o. So u went to recharge ba? Its all good. Stella no drop Man n Woman matter today so am applying the Balm of Gilead. Lol
@ Pink Shell. I like to read ur comments cos u have a huge sense of humor. See how u warned Linda Eze about Davido na? Funny girl.
@ Myra, hmph? ?
@ LEPA, you gonna b fine. Just take each day as it comes. Wit time, u will b berra.
Ah ah don't I just love Kehinde. U can do no wrong in my eyes jor.
DeleteE yah Lepa ..my shoulders are wide enough to carry u ok? It is well with u hun
Hahahhh stella no b only hear break lmao. ... snooping is not anough but we ladies are our own enemies. ... imagine my bf use my pics as his fb profile picture, and his status is in a relationship with so so and so......I went through his fb d other day come and see d diff babes he do chat with d funny part is these girls will still ask after me and one was asking him wen he's gonna take off my pics from his profile imagine.....sometimes I don't blame d men though....
ReplyDeleteNa so we females dey cause wahala for ourselves haba....some babes just take delight in being with a guy Hu is in a relationship.. Psst
DeleteUr own is even good. That's how one babe I met randomly was gisting about her man of 4 years. He would use her pic for Dp but when the babes he's toasting ask who she is, he would say oh, ehn she used to be my babe but she's suffering from depression...so I sometimes use her pic to let her know all will be well, that she's now married but her hubby treats her bad. What a damn lie. The girl said she found out when she used another ID to chat with him. I was like it's even good, what if he says u dead and he's remembering ur sweet soul? Eheh
DeleteWat works for mrs A might not work for mrsB...sorry for d hear break because d heart break is on d way if u don't free d man for his baby mama. ....
ReplyDeleteBig yahoo boy and works in a multinational company you said?
ReplyDeleteMoney Jam money and you want to
die there abi? Go get yourself
another man to marry and leave those two alone.
#God answers all prayers#
Happy moments - Praise God, Difficult moments-Seek God,
Quiet moments -Worship God, Painful moments-Trust God,
Every moment - Thank God.
Pls be guided, I used to date a yahoo boy, meaning he's ex not my current
DeleteShe USED to date a yahoo guy...not anymore
DeleteRead again darl
DeleteSoutheastern u are daft.... I hAte people who read but don't understand yet they come and comment...... She knows how to hack phones via she dated a yahoo boy....... She is not dating the two at a time...... Mumu
DeleteD big yahoo boy was her ex n d multinational manager is her present who just broke her heart!
DeleteSouthEastern on every blog but never making sense.
DeleteBwahahaha!
ReplyDeleteMy dear, u were not dating a yahoo-boy, u were dating a yahoo-man(dats wat u call a guy wit 3 kids).
U tink, snooping is to test ur IQ?
Snooping is to give u an idea of wat u r getting ursef in2.
U got wat u ordered, by dating a conman.
U must be a very greedy gal.
U no no say yahoo money,dey get curse?
Olodo. Go back and read and stop yaning dust.
DeleteAunty read again. She has dated a yahoo guy. But d heart breaker works in a multi....
DeleteHaney
Swear down! Yahoo money is cursed no jokes. Used to date a yahoo guy. You go think say you dey chop laulau. I kukuma sabi their way&lifestyle so can spot any very easy.
DeletePoster,snooping doesn't define smartness.it just helps you prevent a lot of stories that touch in the future. Me I am team snooping all the way.
By the way.Never expect loyalty from a conman.Same way guys shouldn't expect loyalty from a hoe.
Easy abeg!she said she once dated a yahoo boy so she knws hw to hack phones.the man who broke her heart wrks in a multinational company
DeleteThe yahoo man was before this multinational one. They are two different people
DeleteThe yahoo dude was her Ex.....read the write up again..
DeleteDear poster, sorry for the heart break. I've never been heart broken before neither have I ever fallen in love....so I don't know how it feels.
Kourt
Oversabi pink shell..... Very daft, ignorant mumu..... Go and read the story again..... She dated a yahoo boy..... Key word dated...... This present bf works in a multinational and not a yahoo boy....... Stupid bitch oversabi..... Dull brain go and learn how to read before giving epistle and insulting others on every comment
DeleteDid you read the post. please do so again and stop disgracing yourself.
DeleteU sabi read so?
DeleteBe like say dis poster set jamb composition give the olodos for this blog. So f9 f9 f9 f9 f9 f9 f9
DeleteLove lace, u r a born n breed fool. 12.51; wow see as u mentioned ur lineage oriki #Hehehe! 11;09 dat's ur akobi's name. All of u, scroll down n see as the posters comment shame una. The girl neva learn nothing.
Delete@ local celeb pink shell and miss supporters club Sylvia dike,
DeleteYahoo is a curse abi but the both of you will have no problem with marrying a politician
No be the same tin?
Minister wey steal money meant for health care sector thereby killing the masses bcos of the poor state of hospital
Or a business man importing fake drugs from china
Double standard mofos....
If humble and hardworking boy come now,una go downgrade ...expecting a guy dat earns 150k monthly to send u and ur ancestors to dubai
Pple like u deserve d so-called cursed and illiterate yahoo boy
@ Sylvia dike,I know u understand my reasons for ranting ,so shove the errors in ur dull brain
@ pink shell you type no need to see daylight. local zombie with akamu brain. the BIGGER fool.
DeleteDon't justify yahooism!
DeleteWhen you are duped of all the money you want to use at Dubai or your parents duped of all their life savings, then you would know there is a big difference!
Anonymous spilling shit. Replying you means giving a nonexistent unknown few seconds of fame. So here you go. Enjoy it while it lasts. Now. How I met and dated a guy that I eventually found out was a yahoo guy is none of yo damn biz. Supporters club? Really? You have to come with something better for me to pick offense. I don't do ass-licking. Ima one man mopol. Ya dig? What do you do for a living. Feed and breathe on SDK? Obviously. Get a life and stop scrutinizing people's comments. I ain't gat time for you murder***er. You want to battle me next time. Come with a face!
DeleteBwahahaha! @ lovelace, so curse dey pepper u for body. U no even sabi sef #Hehehe!na Akamu(food), na him u dey tk curse person. Mutulu! Abeg waka comot ere, ur broken eng no pure sef. #Mshweeeeeetch! 5;38 am not a local celeb, dis blog iss international biko. Don't no y u are angry at me, for disliking a yahoo boy, I understand wia u r coming frm quite alright, abt a hardworkin man and all, u must also understand dat shoe get size. Me I can't date a struggling man(I worry 2mch abt finances), and u were too harsh on sylvia. May God bless ur hustle #Peace. @ Sylvia don't mind dem, most of dem are dating con men, na d rson y body dey pepper dem, esp love lace.
DeleteOghene biko.....dear poster the painful truth is the guy is not yrs, was never and will never be. No be curse I dey curse u o. I dey advice you as a big sis. Iv bin der too. Just move on and you might just find yr Mr rite in d flight on yr way to Dubai. Meanwhile 4 get abt your 007 moves and give yr life to Christ.
ReplyDeleteHe told you about his baby mama so you assumed they were on a platonic level, that's why she wasn't suspect. Ladies be alert! Any woman in your man's life who isn't family is a potential rival.
ReplyDeleteI hope you are not a runs girl? Two things dey Dubai...shopping or olosho work.
Btw poster, that man has excess luggages. Wetin you wan fight for? Three kids and one baby mama? That's excess please, I can't deal. Just tell him to settle you and move on.
Settle you? The guy buy land from her?
DeleteWetin u wan remain there do again? Second wife? Or u go take care of all him children?
ReplyDeleteStella!! To answer ur last question....Na runs dey happen for Dubai!!
ReplyDeleteYeye girls...lmao
Runs know runs... Am not a runs girl but I can link up
DeleteNa this one fela call suffering and smiling.
ReplyDeleteLamo.nah really wating dey happen for dubai.lol
ReplyDeletestella...hear break kwa...lmao
ReplyDeleteAye o,I keeping saying nigerian men are certified bastards,kilo de?right under the babes nose,babe it is well wiv you o.sanuu.
ReplyDeleteyour father
DeleteYour father, brothers and future sons inclusive? #just asking Yetunde#
DeleteGirl..u are wrong..Some ladies are also very smart...Just cos u were outsmarted doesn't mean it can happen to every woman. What has snooping to do with building a house??...What if his baby mama din have a smart phone?? He was most definitely calling whoever was building and not texting...Snoop if u can girls..A'int nothing wrong with that........
ReplyDeleteposter sowie abt it all....sometimes sum men re just too smart
ReplyDeleteTo consume d much she can b4 she's officially kicked out na...
ReplyDeleteHahahaha this poster dey funny... Enjoy jare!
ReplyDeleteU dont sound serious...
ReplyDeleteMy dear, at times like this, you can't afford to lose your sense of humour. That's the best approach because what's done is done besides, she isn't ready to let go. So, she wouldn't hurt as much.(for now, though)
DeleteSorry about your heartbreak girl but the truth remains, you're not as smart as you think you would have seen this coming... Count your loss and move on. Next relationship? Don't snoop! Wait, ralax, and pray for a good man as you've rightly mentioned. Safe trip to Dubai....
ReplyDeleteEverytime na soso lie Una go dry lie.una go dry go dubia like say tomorrow no dey,Una no dey go nsuka or aguleri or any other remote part?Dubai ko...
DeleteAbeg, make I laugh small hahahahahahahhahahahahahahahhhaha. Poster no vex oooo
ReplyDeleteStella, u too sharp...! Nothing special is happening in Dubai , we are actually going together ! Pls blog visitors shouldn't start judging me anyhow o.... My heart don strong kakaraka, so no heartbreak can weigh me down again, am so used to it (that's y I started dating men anyways, cos @ d back of ur mind u know marriage is out of the question). Have never been lucky with young guys.... Am not heartbroken, am just annoyed he outsmarted me..(u know that kind feeling u get when u get duped in lagos after forming lagos nigga) All my friends call me FBI, cos snooping is my specialty... POSTER
ReplyDeleteAlryt dear....take the heat...I Don.understand say your heart can.withstand any shit....truth is you apparently know what you are doing so enjoy....lest I forget I ain't judging we all got our lives To live....live it to your taste judgement is for God
DeleteU see why I don't sympathise with this cheap whore? She's even still going to Dubai with the guy! Another person's husband! Other women will fuck ur husband silly. Ur husband will always find solace in the arms of another woman! Foolish side chick. I pray the guy uses u for rituals in Dubai or I pray u have a stroke while u guys are at it!!! Dirty stinking cheap runs girl
DeleteGawd! Wat manner of a runz girl r u???...u are totally bereft of any iota of respect for urself...no wonder most men think al ladies r toys dey can play wt, use n dump....all bcos of money
DeleteDo u plan on doin runs al ur life?..see wat u av reduced urself to?...I can only imagine wat dis guy thinks of u to carry out al des plans n nt even mention it to u at all...u must b really worthless ( so sorry to say)...
Aw much is flight to dubai n hotels...aw much can he give u to shop??...all bcos u want to live on the fast lane...am actually so sorry for u...very soon reality wl hit u n u wl start running frm pillar to post...pls dnt send another story to stella seeking sympathy, prayers et al..oh u can send it in as a life lesson sha...atleast u can stl b a bad example.
Am actually so angry cos u think all des is funny...how do cheap girls like u sleep at night.
I have neva done dis b4...I respect ppl...bt cant deal wt ur story, n now urresponse.
I pray u find peace soonest...I pray u reach ur turning point soonest...life is more than designer bags n shoes n being a guys tissue paper...whateva he is offering u, trust me u can afford that n more for urself by working hard n smart..dont waste ur life...all d best to u chairlady, side chick association.
You are too cheap
DeletePoster you nor snoop reach me. I av my bf's account details, his master card details, everything. He should just break up with me 1st. Lol, My yahoo girl days are still paying off.
DeleteWhy are you still traveling with him after the blow below the belt. what are you playing at????.
DeleteUmmm ok...so any plans to actually get married in the future?
DeletePoster, beht you have always been the side chick. His baby mama was his main na. You need to either move on or play your role. You didn't sense anything because you are not that integrated into his life, be honest with yourself. Take care
DeleteLeave married men alone and go find ur own husband..ashawo.
DeleteHonestly I found it so difficult to comment or advice not until I went tru ur response. Now in patrick obayagbons voice. YOU ARE AN INCORITIMA CAM CAM BASTARD. A WHORE AND PAKONIBANBOO RUNS GIRL. No class. No shame. No brains. Just cum juice full ur brain. Am not dissapointed.
DeleteLove lace, se u see how u disgrace yasef, senior advocate of nig, aka suegbe!
Delete@ pink shall you are famously known on this blog as shallow and an illiterate. gosh you really are a disgrace. please go back to night school. OLODO.
Delete@ love lace, next time don't be in such a hurry to display ur stupidity, u fit carry am go front. U wan kill me?! Night sch ontop yahoo matter? I understand ur plight, plz always ask ur husband to wear kevlar (bullet proof) b4 e goes for his regular night work(hardwork pays inugo). Cos e be like u really carry dis matter for head oo. BTW y do u always tlk off point? #SincereQ. #Goodnyt!
DeleteStella, u too sharp...! Nothing special is happening in Dubai , we are actually going together ! Pls blog visitors shouldn't start judging me anyhow o.... My heart don strong kakaraka, so no heartbreak can weigh me down again, am so used to it (that's y I started dating men anyways, cos @ d back of ur mind u know marriage is out of the question). Have never been lucky with young guys.... Am not heartbroken, am just annoyed he outsmarted me..(u know that kind feeling u get when u get duped in lagos after forming lagos nigga) All my friends call me FBI, cos snooping is my specialty... POSTER
ReplyDelete#bbm surprised face! Babes u're really crazy! But pls enjoy it while it lasts and make sure he settles u handsomely. Pele ti e.
DeleteKai and I wasted my precious time typing plenty?.chai! Abeg Aunty Stella check your mail naaw,there should be other serious mails..this poster is having fun.....what is really the point of this mail?
DeleteMy dear stop the excuses and move on. Most women have their sob stories but don't settle for less. You wont see the sun if you don't look up.
DeleteI don't know dat feeling abeg!hold ursef, na only u waka com.
DeleteU wan outsmart yahoo-boy.
Yahoo boy, dat can lie abt d most harmless tins, and even smthg as serious as his mother's death.
You guys are going together again ke?!why are you complaining then let the man go abeg am sure he gives you a lot of money that's why,pls leave him alone!God will provide your own benefactor who doesn't have any baggage
DeleteLEPA
You guys are going together again ke?!why are you complaining then let the man go abeg am sure he gives you a lot of money that's why,pls leave him alone!God will provide your own benefactor who doesn't have any baggage
DeleteLEPA
So you've found out he's moving in with his baby mama who he will most likely marry soonest or is already married to and you're still following him like a fly following shit?! Stella, please do NOT feel sorry for this runs girl! She can even come and look for ur husband and follow. I'm sure the guy is the one sponsoring ur dubai trip. Side chick!
ReplyDelete@King Stella I am with you on this one. I don't feel an iota of sympathy for the poster. She is not remorseful of her actions both in the past, present and probably in the future.
DeleteGo ahead, and join the queue of baby mamas, and later send another son story to SDK! Its the money that you are after and no love! Even If the true wife was still alive and you were a mistress, that is how you would sink your claws into him and not let go!
my dear girls who date men with kids have to be extremely careful, I have been separated from my baby dad for 3 years. No form of communication with him. He flaunted a girl for 3 years on fb, instagram, etc. I got a call from him last month telling me he just bought a house in east finchley and he wants us to move in, a man who uploaded a picture of him and the girl a day before. After so much intervention from both family, we moved in and have been living together in peace for a month now. Girlfriend is telling stories around. If a guy with a kid hasn't married you and baby mama is single abeg use your head.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm.....men.and their ways.. I just tire for them jare.....you just dey lucky...dazall.... Most babymamas ain't that lucky.
DeleteGbam!!!
DeleteNa wa oh. So if he knocks someone else up, she'll move in with ya'll abi?
DeletePoster come and meet the baby mama hihihihihi
DeleteYou do know you are the one being played. If not for family intervention, this man would be with who he wants to be with. Please for the love of God stop referring to yourself as a baby mama. Also, keep your eyes open cause your guys ways no pure. Stop telling ladies that, just because a guy got you pregnant does not mean you hold the key to his heart. I am a single parent and my ex husband left me and the 3 kids, so I'm not talking from a place of no experience. I wish you the best.
DeleteBursted!!!
DeletePoster,see ur rival. Traceher and beat d hell out of her. did u see?he jst called her last mnth so ur snooping was in vain
Anon,is ur man travelling to dubai this weekend. If he is,u don enter gobe.he is travelling wt his side chick
Thank you God bless you I always say that
DeleteLEPA
Hmmmm.... Orishirishi
Deletefamily intervened for me to go ahead and marry him, I was reluctant to go back. It was more about my decision. I have never and will never been troublesome. we are having a quiet wedding on the 27th of this month.
DeleteAnon 4:05, I don't really know you but I know your hubby to be. I wasn't really keen on going for the wedding but because of this comment, I can't wait to see your face - the person he left the love of his life for. Hehehehe uwa nke a sef. No wonder he leaves you at home to hang out with us. I'm dating his friend, FYI
Deleteanon 5.28 u dont know him from Adam. I left him cos when his work contract ended he didnt bother getting a new one. He hooked up with his friend who is a yahoo boy and started doing fraud. ( He is a biz analyst). I am a project manager and can't imagine being married to a fraudster , how can I be at home and live in fear of police etc. I walked away when he refused to stop and changed all my numbers. He has gone back to work and now lives a responsible life. We were inlove and never stopped loving each other. yeah it doesn't always end up this way, but the best thing any baby mum can do is to make herself independent and never be a pain In the neck. The truth is most men always come back. Our wedding is being attended by just 20 people and all close friends and family as I dont believe in a loud wedding.
DeleteLol...This relationship started off with so much drama..I think he is a responsible man and should be with his baby mama dear,he did right by that woman....For the snooping aspect,well i am actually team snooping but my ability to discern was not got from technology or yahoo boys...Is something I prayed for to help me safeguard my home.
ReplyDeletePlease don't go begging that dude...he might collect "one mouth" for the road,he ain't coming back...
Will snooping change an already bad situation?? Nope...Will it console you?? Nope...but it makes you aware of who you are living with that is if the situation isn't bad yet..Eg an Ex always talking to hubby about the problems in her home(hubby is not Jesus! amma call her so she can share with me instead...)
No one said courtship and marriages will be easy...it is tough..very tough..I have learnt a lot here and I hope people having slight challenges can also bend down and learn...Men are like babies@poster not necessarily smarter like you wrote..the signs were there,you did not see them .you will meet your man...marriage is hard work but the end result is usually respect! fun! Peace! Trust....God will take us there...happy sunday ma people!!
U usually write wt wisdom... I admire dat. Kip it up.
DeleteMen, the man needs to stop talking to her too. He might be enjoying the saviour complex. Let him check himself before clap will turn to dance. I know you gave this as an example but it happens to by my own reality. Na so my own do do do and now his ex is expecting for him lol. Some people no try.
DeleteIphie God bless u for this. Spot on!
DeleteS am goes to sleep with his ex and does itbwithout protection. That man is worse than a dog. So in the heat of his sin, he could not even buy one pack of durex?
DeleteShameless dogs.as if cheating is not bad enough.
My advice to ladies when it comes to snooping is 2pls stop! Save ur breath! Ur prayer is 2have God touch ur mans heart so he has love,respect n adores u,wtout it,all ur snoopings will b in vain! Meanwhile,its so childish doing dat n a huge sign of insecurity! If u need trust in ur relationship pls give trust who nos,that act of trust in faith can bring about d real trust u r looking 4!
ReplyDeleteSorry for d boot
ReplyDeleteBuh dis ur story no get head
Wetin concern snooping wit This story u typed now?!
Ana emenu....
Once again,sorry n Enjoy ur vacay
Toh! Shebi na me carry my two fingers dey type like type writter? Not knowing that the babe is catching trips on top our head! Mtcheewww
DeleteI sincerely hope that the man settled you big time. GW howdy?
DeleteGenerals wife this just shows how daft you are...... Local illiterate posing as generals wife.... Mschweeeeeeew
DeleteHelp me ask her abeg
DeleteSince hyou cant discern, she meant that upon shes team snoop, she still didnt know what he was up to. Sotay he build house finish and is moving in with baby mama. She didnt have an inkling. You understand now? Good
DeleteGeneral kpako. Hahahahaha the rate at which peeps come to dis blog to feel like what they are not. Plenty olodos
DeleteLololol @ catching trips on our head! She is having blast fun while we are here taking panadol for her headache. She has already made up her mind what to do! Don't be surprised if she decided to become baby mama #2. She is in love with his money and not him! Lool
Deletestells.u sef.u dey ask wetin dey happen for dubai? hahahahahaha.....I guess its cooling off tins na.
ReplyDeleteur snooping no b first class o .despite d fact u said u r always together nd all that bt u r ryt doh.if u jam a sharp guy, u cant rili know their inner mind
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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First of all this babe is really funny but sorry though for the heart break......
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Hahahahahahahaha, i swear poster you are a clown. The part you said you want to resume crying got me LMAO!
ReplyDeleteSorry about the break up. Move on with your life okay.
I'm aorry sweetheart. Pray u find your own man, God knows wat u deserve. How u for cope wit 3 kids of diff mothers. He already has two prewvious committed relationship. I'm sure he just took d decision to spare u d drama later frOm them. Hold on. N be kind all d time. U can never tell whEre u will meet ur hubby. Be good. Mama jide
ReplyDeleteWow funny bur serious...pele dear it is well.
ReplyDeleteHahaha. ..this babe funny no be small. .but she spoke well... this dudes ain't loyal at all... Personally, I don't av d freaking time to snoop cos therz no man I put 100% trust in so I take other precautions apart from snooping... enjoy d fun while it lasts cos dey can suprise u at any time. ..don't expect him to make ur paradise complete. .always prepare ur mind for d worse..dat way, wen it happens u no go shock...and if it doesn't, good for u... u can't tame a man if he doesn't choose to tame himself. .so snooping na just one way of making him look for other means to outsmart u... ladies, u don't av to monitor him always but maybe one day, take him by surprise. .. before snooping, u better get ur mind prepared for d worse. .always ask urself "Wat's d worse that culd happen? ".. make una go church oo... Babe, enjoy ur dubai trip.
ReplyDeleteWalahi, u know as e dey go. Chop knuckle
DeleteChop knuckleknuckle babe
DeleteI'm aorry sweetheart. Pray u find your own man, God knows wat u deserve. How u for cope wit 3 kids of diff mothers. He already has two prewvious committed relationship. I'm sure he just took d decision to spare u d drama later frOm them. Hold on. N be kind all d time. U can never tell whEre u will meet ur hubby. Be good. Mama jide
ReplyDeleteNne ndo. This one na wetin ibos de say 'u de dia mmiri ncha aba gi anya'. Guess he was just smarter than you. Life goes on.
ReplyDeleteHehehehehe. Sorry dear, try nd stay strong. U even sound strong. Me I'm against snooping o
ReplyDeleteEyaa sorry for you oo but its good you've learnt your lesson the hard way... N you are here talking so that others will learn from you baby girl
ReplyDeleteSo poster wetin you wan do now? Move into the house with him and his baby mama? You better move on, you are not serious.
ReplyDeleteThat's men for you.
Ah sorry o....snooping rly doesn't help. Stay wit him how na?he is moving in his hi baby mama,or did I read dat wrong? Goodluck n av a safe trip to dubai
ReplyDeletePls blog fam click on www.buntricia.com/hellolondon n vote for d pic on my dp...tnx
Pele
ReplyDeleteYou were just a side chick feeling as main chick
Catch fun while in dubai ok? #hugs
Lol this babe is hilarious.. Pele
ReplyDeleteDear poster, I hope you won't continue with this guy o cos it looks like he wanna marry his baby mama, that is if he hasn't married her sef. I suspect he has another phone and sim in the office you don't know about. He may even have other social media accounts, pele o.
ReplyDeleteHeyaa, such is life.. he has 3kids already. BV take heart
ReplyDeleteMola.
Oriegwu in Queen's voice!!!..................OKIJA WIFE
ReplyDeleteNa wa o, one day person weh get high blood pressure go snoop see wetin she/he suppose no see come fall down die.
ReplyDeleteHoly Lord! Well it is possible that he has another phone number that u don't know of. Maybe datz where he communicates with his baby mama.
ReplyDeleteEya take hear dear,but anything that has to do with a baby mama...na coma dey dey am.
ReplyDeleteRAYJAY
Poster doh o.
ReplyDeleteYou knew about the baby mama and the fact that they were still together but you stayed put thinking you could win him over abi? Kpele dear.
He obviously understands that you would not move an inch should he marry his baby mama and here you are proving him right.
Enjoy your vacay and side chic status u hear. #mtchewwww
Poster doh o.
ReplyDeleteYou knew about the baby mama and the fact that they were still together but you stayed put thinking you could win him over abi? Kpele dear.
He obviously understands that you would not move an inch should he marry his baby mama and here you are proving him right.
Enjoy your vacay and side chic status u hear. #mtchewwww
Your actually a very funny person! Was laughing towards the end of the writeup! Pele'o 4 d heartbreak Nne! Pray your man finds you, if you keep clinging to some1 else's you won't let something/some1 better come your way!
ReplyDeleteYou've knowingly dated a yahoo boy in the past so that says a lot about your morals. Men aint fools, every ashewo in a serious relationship is just on sabbatical. Since he's moved in with his baby mama, you can move on to your next yahoo boy
ReplyDeleteEvery ashi in a relationship is on sabbatical. Wise words lol.
Delete1000000 like wild rage! She definitely has loose morals! She is a good bedmate and not wifey material. That is why he went back to his baby mama and keep her as hismistress.
DeleteDid he promise you marriage? Abi what is the 'causer' of your shock. You were busy snooping, while the man was conducting his baby mama affair face-to-face. Men were cheating before mobile phones, all their shenanigans don't have to be via a phone.
ReplyDeleteHe probably knows your yahoo background and wipes his phone clean of evidence all the time.
So as you have declared you are going nowhere, what will be your status? Side chick or second wife?
Side chick with pride, as long as am happy dear
DeleteMy sentiments exactly! Well written Goldscent Diamond. Men have been "getting jiggie with it" way before mobile phones. Personally, the only time snooping may be reasonable is if you need evidence to confirm what you already know either because you want to leave or start having safe sex. In actuality, very few women do either. Leave their phones alone and focus on improving yourself in every aspect.
DeleteSide chick status obviously! The money is there for her to spend. I don't pity either women involved in this drama because I have always advised SINGLES to stay away from widowers and divorcees! Let them marry people with same status because is their second chance and would have experience on how to handle situations.
DeleteEya.....sorry Ooooo...!..abeg enjoy your trip...
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My dear this epistle was way too long. The title of this post should have been: I HAVE BEEN A SIDE CHICK AND I NEVER KNEW. You yourself are you Godfearing? When u were busy hacking and dishing out passwords you forgot to get the one to his heart. I hope you saved enough money. Am sure people like you have gotten customer loyalty card from desinger rice. For you to even pack your bags for meaning you don't even work. Sorry, he has married his Godfearing, homely babe. Go park well. Hacker kor, cracker nii.
ReplyDeleteLol @let me resume crying again before i park before i start packing for my dubai trip. This girl is hilarious. Well since you took it in good faith and you have made up your mind to stick with him, you need no pity or advice. But know that its likely you remain a side chic for a very loooong time to come. All the best bae *reads post again and resumes laughing*
ReplyDeletePoster na only u waka come o, you can never know it all except he chooses to tell you all. Men can be so secretive and that shit is sooo annoying. Though you wrote this post in a comic way I know you're hurting. So sorry, God will make all things right for you soon.
ReplyDeleteI have said it before. For those of you who snoop, your men know you do, the moment your instinct tells you to snoop then there is problem, why not sit your man down for a talk instead of putting your selves through that stress? In any case they will always deny. Marriage is not a prison yard, our partners should be allowed some space and privacy. In my case i see everything in dreams. #teamnosnooping. Most of this cheaters are very smart.
ReplyDeleteThis story get as e be o!
ReplyDeletePoster, so ur msg is jst to inform us to stop snooping abi? Dalu!
As for ur situation, it's clear u knew wt u were in for! And bobo knew wt u were upto too! So, he outsmarted ur smartness.
Teamsnooping* is for innocentias dt are helplessly inlove n are still being cheated on. Not akaraka* like u dt evn knew he had 3kids on ground b4 shooting ur own head to drag for d manna dt poor 1st wife dts dead must ve toiled n acquired with him.
Goodluck on ur must die there mission!
Awww! Sorry sweetie but count it a blessing because one of the worst things that can happen to a woman is to marry the wrong man. God has given you a second chance to find true love, please don't gamble with it. I have and will always be against snooping because I have seen it do more harm than good. It makes some women resentful and paranoid, they even lose confidence and start second guessing their hubbies' every move. Besides, like you mentioned, there are some smooth operators that keep separate phones nobody knows about, for their "extra-curricular" activities. My advice is to date a man who loves and respects you and has the fear of God in his heart. Always leave room for human error because you never know. Always go with that gut feeling and be the best you can be. Never be complacent, always try to spice up your love life and keep the pleasant surprises coming. Above all, commit you ways to God and trust him completely. #e-bearhugs.
ReplyDeleteRenne B is that you?
ReplyDeleteMy ex is on his fourth baby mama and u talk .
ReplyDeleteSorry dear.
ReplyDeleteAnd move on
Yes o d koko is to pray for a good man dat is God fearing! Snooping is good sha; it can b an eye opener. Worrefa sha, i hate cheats. Its one vice I can't stand.
ReplyDeleteYour story sweet me die ,he didn't break your heart what broke your heart was the smartness .i understand ,sometimes we don't always get what we wish for .
ReplyDeleteHahaha I like you jor..despite the heartbreak, you still funny.enjoy your trip o jare.
ReplyDeletePlease fellow BVs, what do you do when your man tells you to "go and look for a boyfriend that would place you on a salary" simply because I asked him for money. I don't always ask, infact this is the 2nd time since I met him 2years ago. The 1st time sef he no give me, na fight we fight. He subsequently deleted me off bbm cos I got angry by what he said (that I should look for another bf). I'm shocked
ReplyDeleteHe deleted u from his bbm?
DeleteNow u really need to get yourself a bf girl!
I'm not sure he's that into u
Stop wasting your time with a stingy broke ass nigga biko..
DeleteSome men hate ladies that demand too much. Stop demanding from a man, it reduces ur self respect. And that man is just a stingy fellow. And lacks respect by that careless advice he gave u. He does not love u. Shikena
DeleteAnd you went back to him. I don't like women that get money from their bfs as the man no,be your hubby or papa but this your own stingy die. Catch brain and leave.
DeleteHe deleted what???? That guy no send you @ all. Leave!!! Babe look @ d bigger picture; he is stingy and will be a stingy husband leaving u to stress and beg. So leave him now n take him off ya BlackBerry too with immediate effect!
DeleteIf she didn't ask, how would she have known the kind of man he is? Am all for asking jor. Anonymous that your guy no be man biko. Leave him alone
DeleteAnd you went back to him? Where is your self respect woman? He does not love or value you! At least he should have declined respectfully or give you part if it's for something important. But I'd its to buy weavon or any frivolous item, then you are on OYO!
DeleteOkay oh very funny
ReplyDeletesee her...idiota
ReplyDeleteu think your future with a yahoo boy (con artist) is sure
may God continue to frustrate all u ladies who date men with ill gotten wealth including politicians, 419, public servants etc
ur relationships will know no peace
See painment. Smh. She used to date a yahoo guy. But is currently a side chick of one guy working in a multinational company.and the guy is leaving her for his main chic who is also his baby mama.
DeleteThen reason her snooping was useless at the end was cos she wasn't the main chic.a main chic will know her man in toto and if he is fucking up somewhere she will snoop it out.
By the way poster did you ever see the house he was building with him,like not just look but take a tour.make adjustments and all that.thats what main chics do. But if he just showed you picture or you just saw the building without permission to scrutinize then I would say it was obvious you weren't going to live with him.
Sorry honey I don't tink any woman knows any man "intoto" not evn wives deir husbands. Knw him well enough is d word. We should stop assuming n start acceptin it as it is. Dear poster biko enjoy ur trip. Wateva makes u happy. Life is too short.
DeleteTessbaby. You can't even know your sister or daughter in Toto. Not to talk of a man you call a husband. By in toto.I didn't mean the in-depth meaning of the word. I meant knowing more than average about him that you can say what he could do or be doing this minute. Note the "could".
DeleteEh yah! He didn't promise u marriage na? U called him a yahoo n multi woreva,u be Learner for where d guy dey na?he can decode all ur data too. It is only God dt is the wisest. Meanyl,na the guy money u "tebati"(siddon with)no b Love! if not y u go dey still waka go Dubai wt am?Ur bilogical clock dey tick o,na see finish make am comot shock for ur leg. U b side chick wey like money and cannot manage his home. D baby mama has his heart Men!wake up n walk out of that borrowed life!
ReplyDelete@pink shell when cussing someone out type proper eng pls . No tabon .
ReplyDeleteI just de read they sing Sade Adu for my mind..smooth operatorrrr....smooooooooth o-pe-raaaa-torrrrrr.
ReplyDeletepele poster.
shit happens mehnn.
some guys are just too clean!
they leave no traces.
Dear poster, you're just a fucklikant. Simple!
ReplyDeleteMy dear stella I don't snoop o,wetin I no know no go kill me.what's the point anyway,have got a child and I never ready to die of high BP.As women even when we snoop and we know this things of what good is the information to us.Anyway move on dear the man no be your own in the first place,you were busy taking him serious while am sure he just saw you as a side CHIC.
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