Are you with someone who only lasts for one minute during the act?How does one manage such a spouse?
A you such a spouse?How do you keep your woman ogling for more despite it being one minute?
Is having a one minute man enough reason to cheat?Must sex really be so important in a person's life? Is being one minute a medical condition?
''Hello Stella,
I am writing to share my experience and advise ladies to choose their husbands wisely, likewise men.
I got married in my early 20s', in my 10years of marriage i have been miserably sex starved. Not that my husband and I don't make love but he is a one minute man. He hardly initiates sex, always gave me excuses for not wanting to have sex, and would come even before I begin to moan. He leaves me high and dry that I always ask for a header after he ejaculates in less than 3mins. He told me he doesn't like giving a head and equally didn't mind if i didn't give him. I, personally, love to suck a clean dick so would always suck him before sex.
I relocated to a different country in the 7th year of my marriage, keep in mind that I have been faithful from the time we started dating, we dated for some months and had sex during that time, sex with him wasn't that bad, it wasn't a 3mins of sex and wasn't longer than 10mins either. He wasn't my first boyfriend and so I had made love in the past.
When he lasts for long he is good in bed. I am describing all these cos i want you to fully understand my predicament. So in my 7th year of relocating, I met this guy who had been a long time friend, i got drunk and we had sex, and i thought that was the best sex i ever had, I realised the sexuality in me, I felt sexy again, I started squirting, he could last for about an hour and his dick was slightly bigger than my husbands'.
I was crazy about him but after several more sexual encounter with him, we decided it was too risky to continue because i was married. On the few occasions my husband and i visited each other, i kept telling him our sexual life was getting worse, and advised him to go to the hospital to see if he could get medication or something to increase his hormones, i even suggested Viagra but the guy said nothing was wrong with him, that he didn't need it. I asked him if he was gay, he said no.
I really don't think he is gay because i see the way he looks at ladies(meaning he is interested in women). Okay, you don't initiate sex, you give excuses if i do, you don't fuck for more than 3mins, infact he can do only 7-10 thrusts and he has come. He can go a whole month without sex, and then gives me flimsy excuses of his mind being occupied on how to make money.
What do you want me to do? I prayed, complained, endured, masturbated but nothing! Finally, recently i met this new guy, got drunk again and we fucked like mad, the guy sucked the life out of my cunt and fucked me till i spoke in tongues, this guys dick is smaller than my husbands and I can say it was the best sex ever! OMG, iv been dulling myself since, and in these two times i cheated i didn't feel guilty. i told my husband he was driving me into cheating on him and he had nothing to say. He hardly says, i love you or uses caring words.
I would like to know if anyone else is going through this, can the psychologists in the house analyse my husbands situation because honestly, i don tire for am. I cant deal anymore, its even that bad now, i have asked him to try and date some girls in the country where he is. Some body advice me please.''
*I feel sorry for your hubby.he probably has libido problem or he is just like that..some people are just not crazy about sex the way you are.
Instead of this your getting drunk and bedding the next available guy,why dont you get a dildo?...your hubby has a problem and instead of trying to find a way to help him you are complaining,if it was him you caught cheating now you go raise roof top....you advised your hubby to date girls where he is?wtf!
No love
No sex
Different location
recipe to move on with your life alert!
What I will do?
ReplyDeleteI will simply go purchase Viagra and slip it into his drink,then wait for the next action...make sure to give him my best,enough to leave him blushing and imagining all day at what he has been missing.
Stop bedding OK,and devise a means,however mischievous.
Good luck
franceso.nerium.com
Hahahahahaha! Tufia. God forbid. I dey go MFM I will take it to God in prayer.
Delete@frances he might have a bad reaction to viagra..lol..@BV please dont cheat on him, i.would advice you to suck him after he comes, look for what turns him on and do it after the first round of sex, if he still cant ladt more than one minute after the second round, make him hard again the third time and he will ladt longer..trust me every man has a "sex button " you just have to take your time to find it. If he is into fetish stuff, do it with him dear...you know its for better for worse, or if u feel u cant cope, divorce him, don't cheat...
Delete*am out*
Ha! Fear woman oooo!
DeleteI think d problem has lasted for too long. My hubby was a one-minute man too...wen we just got married. I was gobsmacked. Cos I waited til marriage. He felt disappointed too. But instead of showing dissatisfaction...I told him nt to worry. That I would enjoy it dt way n we wl find a way around it. Infact d second night of honeymoon, we used viagra.
DeleteWe later stopped after a week cos I dint want to start wt meds...and we dont even knw wat d side effects wld be. And also bcos of dis problem...he wld nt initiate sex.
We continued...and den we wld do more of fore-play...I see d disappointment in his eyes each time he cums even before I realised he had started thrusting...bt I wld always smile. Sometimes sef I moan.
I looked for articles online n I would forward it to him if der were any suggestions about how to last longer in bed. We realised the most natural ways r by doin daily exercises so u r fit, also by working on ur mind during sex. There were some other things dey suggested I do too to help him last longer.
We never tried any drugs, fruits or even diets...bt we did cut down on hissugar and other things dey suggested we take out.
Little by little we started getting better. My hubby does his exercises first thing in d morning...and also at night. He was quite religious abt it...and I encouraged him too.
He became extremely good at foreplay (he was very ok even before dis time)...he makes me cum like twice wt his fingers...and my whole body wl be vibrating sef.
Wt d sex, sometimes we wld take breaks inbetween n talk abt other tins...we then noticed d positions dt makes him cum on time n we avoided them...initially it was monotonous bt we got better. My bobo started lasting 20 quality minutes. He dreaded missionary style cos seriously he wld just release immediately. Even up until 8 months ago, each time I ask him to come in front, he wl just say 'il release on time' bt I always insist.
Now he is so good...even d missionary now, he has forgotten it makes him cum before.
Now we have sex like crazy...we stay up to 45 mins to an hour...infact we go to bed one hour earlier to cover forour sex time.
Its so crazy now...we av sex anywhere....we hardly ever stay in one place...room, kitchen, parlour, bathroom, dining...he just keeps moving me about during sex...half of d times I dont even knw where I am.i say things I cant recollect n he makes jest of me d next day...lol
He stl thanks me everyday. He says I stood by him during al dos times...whenever I say 'thanks' after sex...he just smiles...and I see d fulfilment in his eyes.
sometimes now sef...I always beg him to stop during sex...cos I would be so high n nt be able to take it again...I would den give him bj til he cums.
Did I mention we used condoms for a very long time cos we realised he lasts more than 15mins extra wheneva we used condoms.
I look at him now and I am so happy. Plus all d while we were goin thru dis he became extremely loving n caring cos 0f d support I was giving him. Now I have a perfect hubby.
So poster...I dont knw whether its too late for u guys to work thru it together.
The last thing a guy wants is for u to make him seem incapable. It destroys der ego n also affects der performance. Mayb u guys can see d doctor to be sure everything is ok...or visit a sex therapist. Medications shld be d last resort. Show him support...let him know that wherever dis leads the both of u...u r in it together.
I av written all des...nt just for d poster, hopefully der might be some young couple who wld pick a thing or two. I knw aw much I appreciated reading ppls experiences when I was searchin for info.
And pls cheating is neva a solution...cos u r making things worse for urself.
Make up ur mind n God wl see u thru.
Hmmm! Bella Ragazza
DeleteAnony you stayed cos you did not have random sex when you were single..i think that's why poster is having difficulty here..i still believe in waiting tho! I love your story....Poster,if you really want to stay with your hubby...take this bv's advice.....lol@thank u...I say that alot..hehehehe
DeleteWhy should I say "thank u" after Sex? That's bizarre
DeleteWow!!! See testimony! Learned alot. Thanks.
DeleteWaoo anonymous 9:55am. U are a star. I love ur approach. As I read thru ur comment I kept smiling and thinking...hmmm this man can never cheat on this woman because he wouldn't dare go outside to embarrass himself sexually, and would rather stick to his loving tenacious wife who's covering his 'nakedness'. other babes would have cussed him out or made fun of him. It's sure an ego basher to any man who's deficient in the bedroom. Well done for restoring ur hubby's ego.
DeleteWhy is it that guys with small ducks, u gives the best head. I don't know what to say, maybe you make him see a therapist. But sincerely fucking outside your marriage is worst.
ReplyDeleteStella is right except the dildo part. Recipe to move on with your life. You didn't mention a child/children is/are involved, you should divorce him and move on. Abi na wetin you want make we tell you again?
ReplyDeleteI'm in the same problem oh! My own is even bursting that he is good,always hailing him self; I go just dey *yimu* to am. Well I have a white guy sucking and shining my congo. No be my fault
DeleteTomorrow dem go say na single girls fuck pass..Some married women can fuck n cheat for africa with no shame kaii tufia!!!
DeleteHahahahahahah@ Samira I dey tell you.
DeleteIt's because you have tasted so much that you can compare. Sex that lasts for an hour will certainly become boring. I prefer the apiam way sharp sharp. I even get tired after 20 minutes except if it's foreplay.
ReplyDeletePoster stop using being drunk as an excuse for your cheating ways. The thing hungry you so you chopped it.
Where is Qutie ooooooooh!
Lmao @Apiam way.....
DeleteGuys with this problem are the reason bisexuals married women are on the rampage
@poster, when u are in Lagos send me an email den wen can hook up and have a few shots of tequila n I'll show u how to chop Igbin....den we'll 'blame it on d aaaaa-alcohol *in Jamie fox's voice*
DeleteExactly@sweetmother! Which one is one hour?? Na onle sex u waka come do??
DeleteStop getting high and cheating..stop blaming the alcohol please..And I really do not know what to advice concerning the one minute ish,don't have experience in that area...Kehinde xes will give you his onion recipe,if you still love this man...help him!don't encourage him to have sex with random women...AIDS is real!! getting drunk and going buck wild will only expose you to diseases cos you might not be in the frame of mind to protect yourself!
Who has seen Qutie oooh....
Hahahahhaahhahahhakikikikikawawawawawawahahahhaa @ bitchpls bad guy....
DeleteI like this sdk blog's new look oo,its really colourful and nice.kudos!
ReplyDeleteDear BV, I don't know wot to say oo buh I advice u pple to see a councillor or something.
It's counsellor
Delete@goodnews,all u need now is 2 'advise' dem 2 see see d local govt chairman when after dey leave d councillor's office.
DeleteAbeg Councillor of which local government?
DeleteHere we go again!
ReplyDeleteWhen I say " Test engine" before saying "I do", it looks like someone is too spoilt.
Madam your husband needs help and fast too otherwise you will keep cheating on him.
Stella dildo cannot help her now cos she has sampled two correct machines. didlo will be manual work for her.
I doubt she is gonna have the patience for that. dildo won't suck n lick her silly nauuu...
Chai!
*sex is not an issue I can complain about ever in this life sha....kai!
OVERDOZE!
MAYDAY!!!
Read the story well. She " tested the engine" before she got married. So what's your explanation now?
DeleteHahahaHahaha bloglord you no well walahi. Seems na German machine he carry.
DeleteLolol . What if u " test engine " first and it spoil later??
DeleteNa true you talk. Dildo go be manual work for her. When she has tested the main masters. She needs oga or others to do the work, while she moans and enjoys it too. Lol.
DeleteOverdoseeeeeeee! Na me dey run sef
DeleteLike I will always say, it's not by testing the engine first @ all. When my hubby and I were dating, he cld do from morning till night without coming. Na me dey taya sef and I'll be begging him to come but hez always like it's too sweet so he don't wanna stop. Sometimes he will be doing even when i'm sleeping (yes that bad) and he was good with a nice sized package down there. I was worried that I won't get worn out quickly with too much sex in marriage. Well, fast forward a few yrs later and we got married. It's one excuse to another when it comes to the issue of sex. After two yrs of not being able to handle it, i told his parents and they called a meeting- for where, same story. He myt just do 2 times in 1 wk and then back to status quo. No sex for 8 months then one or two times then he will run for another 6 months or so meanwhile we sleep on the same bed every night. This year sef maybe 2 or 3 times in February till now nothing and i know no more till next yr. I av threatened to leave but he keeps begging me that he will change. Are u gay- No. Are u cheating- no. Truth be told, he is a good husband but lacking in the action dept. It's just frustrating. May GOD continue to see us through in this school called marriage. Cheating is not an option for me tho so I have kind of taken my mind off it. I just might as well continue to be a married nun inugo. Hopefully one day GOD will make me smile again somehow.
DeleteTruth is, life is different for men when they get married. For us women, life seems to begin as we get married but becomes more challenging for me. They constantly think about how to pay bills and make ends meet. The thought of making ends meet can change ur sex life. In my opinion, the way out for a woman who has a one minute man are: 1) to continue to initiate d sex. He is ur husband, it really doesnt matter who initiated it. 2) have a prolonged fore play. 3) get him to finger you until u orgasim b4 u do the real thing, that way, his one minute or not doesnt affect u. 4) you can suck him till he orgasims, then give about 10-15mins and ignite him sexually to have a hard on (by touching and licking his most sensitive parts), then take charge by being on top and have a long ride with him. That from my experience will make his last longer. Learn to always try to tease him unexpectedly eg while he is driving, softly touch his dick, when you re living for work, hugg him and squeeze his but, when he comes home, give him a long kiss. Be raw with him. Practice that daily for ever. That will make him loosen up and be more loving. Best of luck
DeleteYawns! Good morning stellastica! Good morning SDK
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Ur blog is really looking good now,keep up d gud work stella
ReplyDeleteThe way you people talk about sex and adultery here is amazing sha, like it's soo easy, im not judging o, but I know human mind can be easily swayed and there might be one woman going through this and after reading stories like this from people like you that don't "dull" they might feel adultery is Every woman's guilty pleasure. Abeg those is good situations that have gone through bad times and conquered well should start sending stories to wipe out all the doubts I've started having about marriage
ReplyDeleteI agree with you. Too many false stories about marriage. Its scary. I'm even too scared to get married. Gosh!
DeleteI agree with you. Too many false stories about marriage. Its scary. I'm even too scared to get married. Gosh!
DeleteWhat's the 'i'm even scared to get married' about? Abeg! If you're booless say so! If you're fiancéless say so! If you have someone you're in love with and he proposes, you think it's the marital problem stories on sdk blog that you will be thinking about? Make una stop those 'too many troubled marriages these days, marriage scares me' lies!
DeleteDon't be scared..Marriage is sweet take it from me....Just make sure you get married to a man that really loves you..ask God for the ability to discern..study the way he relates with his people..meet his folks...try and observe if they are responsible and disciplined(this might help you during a crisis when you need them to talk sense into their son) Do not sell off your family in front of your intended or husband..don't insult your dad or call them wretched where he is..he will never respect them...ever! Try to know what makes your man tick....during a night out,ask about his life in school those days...most wives do not know their hubby's secret fantasies...they don't even know what their man is capable of doing..that is why they go into shock when they hear or see things..be prepared and wise...When you know your man's shortcomings,you can guide him and shield him too..If he loves sex or is addicted to sex,he might not want to open up especially if you are the uptight miss virgin type...that is when he starts going out to quench his taste since he's gerrin it at home once or twice a month from miss prim and proper....KNOW YOUR MAN!
DeleteIf you have a job,do not quit! Bring something to the table...you gain more respect that way..but if you are already a housewife,don't fret....carry yourself well,plan his finances for him so he knows you are smart too..talk smart,be creative at home,trust me you will be the ist he calls if he has work challenges or a business to close,some wives say their hubbies don't value their input,check yourself..read up about his job..just a lil..use that google in your expensive phone hun..and oh,if he wants to send money to his folks..by all means allow it..encourage him..when he complains about his people...puleessssee do not hijack the talk and complain more than him...calm him down,even pretend like you don't know his sisters are mean.lol...do not run to him anytime your parents want to buy matches..hahaha...you have a tidy sum don't you?? give them from that his money you have been saving..it makes your parents appear important in his eyes...I overheard my hubby telling his people that his wife's people hardly ask him for things..kikiki...my parents know that with me alive,they will never suffer..but it doesn't mean I have to bug hubby every minute they need something...it is distracting..my home comes first before any other thing...
Always make sure hubby is involved with the kids early...don't pass them on to the help at every chance you get..they need to bond...oh well,i don't do helps...is not bad don't get me wrong....We need our space so we have a nanny that comes and goes when we get back..is tough but we have done it for months now..during date nights she sleeps over...don't ever let your housekeeper,help whoever run your home especially if it is still a young marriage...
If your man is not used to praying with you or prefers his sleep...no problem..start praying in the room(loudly)..start blessing his business,his career..trust me one eye will open and you will start hearing amen amen..gradually....from there both of you will start praying together...binding and casting anyone(the dautas of Adam) coming to scatter the peace in your home with holyyyghostttttttt!!!!!!!
Abeg am tired...Stella I don't want to come back to this post and realise my effort was "wested" ooh...
I know il get anonymous bashing after today...but I had to post this so that the singles and married here asking for happy stories can read this!! My mom taught me some,i learnt from people's experiences and trust me.i also observed how my dad used the info got from my mom during their lovey dovey times to attack during their ish...so I bridle my tongue very much..i have a good home..we are not there yet,but we are sure headed the right direction! Life is beaurifuuullll
Thank u iphie!! Uv said it all..
DeleteIphie Dearie thanks do much, I really appreciate the time you took to type and explain all that, are you a marriage "councillor" lol.
DeleteJayem I might be booless and fianceeless but that doesn't mean I shouldn't be afraid na, abi the boo and fiance won't come?
Nice one...makes me feel like getting married soon
DeleteBiko why u change the format of ur blog to Web style instead of what it used to be, the mobile shortcut option? Confused
ReplyDeleteThought I was the only one experiencing it o. Only to remove my battery and reboot. I hate that web format!
DeleteIts back to normal now sha
I dn't like this new page ur using#crying# Bringbacktheoldpage
ReplyDeleteI dn't like this new page ur using#crying# Bringbacktheoldpage
ReplyDeleteSeconded ok on system not phone
DeleteOk this is crios @poster but i wont advice u cheat cos that will expose you more to diseases nd wirh ur story its like ur two escapades u fidnt use condom..jst make him c reasons to c a doctor.
ReplyDeleteVisit my blog
www.glowysofiscated.blogspot.com
Hey BV, can we meet over a bottle of wine? I can't promise you won't get drunk oh
ReplyDeleteHey BV, can we meet over a bottle of wine? I can't promise you won't get drunk oh
ReplyDeleteNa wa oooo !!!!! Abeg there is an health or trauma underlying issue or he's just not into you as much as you think !!!
ReplyDeleteIt seems you are using alcohol to numb yourself and shag the person and not think of your hubby ... Sofri Sofri oo
choooo,you love sex ,did you not date your husband before you married him ,or was it sex after marriage ,look what you have turned yoursef to ,you have officially turned yoursef to prick taster.sex starved and being married is the worst thing that can happen to any woman ,i feel you there ,but am nit part of this your adulterous stage.Team M FUCKING MATE.DAY 6 COUNTDOWN
ReplyDeleteDts nt an excuse 4 cheatin.Mayb u r a NYMPHOMANIAC!
ReplyDeleteIdiot cos your mama na ashawo every woman is a nymphomaniac? Did u not read what she said? No woman will be satisfied with that kind of sex life.....if the man is not ready to accept he has a problem then she should die there? If she was the man having the problem he would have done the same
Deletehis mama? na wa o. pple r bold..pesin mama?ok o..God is watching u in 4D
Deleteeleyi gidi gan...lemme sit bak n learn frm d sexperts in d house!
ReplyDeleteWhat's with the getting drunk and cheating? If you want to cheat, cheat! And stop blaming it on alcohol.
ReplyDeleteMadam squirter,
ReplyDeleteI wonder about all the other things you have done in your life while claiming to be drunk. It sounds like you get drunk deliberately when you have planned to get Fucked.
There are all sorts of treatment for premature ejaculation and low libido and you have not dragged your husband for any medical treatment? I don't think your husband is the type you can't get to do your bidding since he even answered your foolish question about being gay. And what's the sense in your asking him to get a side chick?
Orthodox and Native doctors will land here with all sort of concoctions.You know what to do Madam. Now you people are compounding the problem by living separately.
Its really annoying nd frustrating but I dnt think its enough reason to cheat on ur husband. I'm abt to enter such a marriage as well and if not cos am almost 3 months pregnant, I'll call it quits. Never had sex whil datin my soon-to-be-hubby. We happened to hav sex two days to our introduction nd I got pregnant just dt one time. Sinc then, we ve been doin it and I'm left frustrated aftr each act. His d#ck is small, never attains full erection, alwz soft and he ejaculates within a minute. The worst is dt he can't get it up again til d next day, leavin me so frustrated nd thirsty for more. He can only hav sex once in a day, but there's nothing I can do cos a baby is already involved nd fear of God won't let me hav an abortion. Poster, giv ur life to Christ. Sex is not food. Wat abt som young widows dt go wtout it entirely? Then find som soothin ways to convince ur hubby to get treatment. Dnt b harsh. Cheatin on him is somthn u wil regret later.
ReplyDeleteYou have entered one chance niyen?
DeleteYou were not Frustrated and thirsty when you were abstaining?
My bf can only av sex once in a day too but he can go up to 1hr. I like foreplay long n d actual pounding brief.
DeleteHmm na waoo.. am sorry to butt in on ur comment like dis but I just had to say something,I can't help myself...
DeleteSo u already hav d same problem wit d poster here, only ur own case is slightly different cos ur not yet married but u want to go through wit it bcos ur pregnant!!! Am feeling sorry for u already cos u don't know wat ur about to get urself into, marriage is a life commitment oo. U can't just barge in nd out like u want, so don't ruin ur happiness nd ur life bcos of a baby..
Am not sayin u should abort,am sayin u can stil kip ur baby nd call off d wedding.Or find a cure for him first b4 gettin hitched to d man,cos its better for u to be a happy single mother dan a bitter, lonely, sex starved, frustrated nd cheating wife for d rest of ur life!! Ur already consoling urself wit prayers wen u hav d chance d get away ryt now...a word is enuf for d wise!! Ur happiness comes first...#my opinion
Plz be prepared to be more frustrated in ur to be marriage.
DeleteDis is just d begining!
Haha pls tell us ur story 5 years from now. U still dey learn work. When that your thirst turns to full on drought u go run come meet Stella lol
DeleteHian! You try o! Marrying a man out of pity. The Lord is your muscle.
DeleteSo poster should give her life to Christ becos of sex.lmao!! Is that what you did?? Please knowing Christ is key but also find a solution to this issue..if this is the only problem your man has,find solution for him..i don't think his is a hopeless situation
DeleteSo he never had a boner while you were dating so that you will gauge the size and strength?? Toh! That one "werked" for me ooh
Pearl peters she ain't marrying the man out of pity. She said she would have called it off if she weren't preggy
DeleteSo she is marrying because she can't commit a second sin which is abortion.
Poster commit all to God. There is nuffing He can't do.
He is Jehovah over do. He created your hubby and therefore has his blueprint. He can reboot your hubby's system because He is the Beginning and the End..
Can I hear an Amen?!!!
@ Goldscent, many virgins desire sex so much, but the fear of the Lord makes them wait. Dnt talk lik a she-goat
DeleteAnon 8:46, yes, he's also good at foreplay so am managin dt for now
@Ammy, how many happy single mothers do u kno? They've not finished marryin single girls wtout babies, nah 'after one' dt wil see husband marry, esp wen she saw one and left cos of sex. Wat if I leav him and never see anothr ready to marry a single mother, and then I later see one in ten years time after fervent prayin and fasting nd it turns out he has the same problem?
I can see frustration written all over u @Pinkshell. Wats so wrong wt my comment for u to wish me such? May frustration be ur portion now and forever. Rubbish!
@The observer, sorry to burst ur bubbles but I dnt seek advice frm strangers, and I hope to help my hubby get better
@Pearl, it's not out of pity. Its cos of my baby. I won't b the one to provide abortion blood for demons to feed on and am not ready to b a single mother cos of poor sexual performance. God forbid!
@Iphie, she shouldnt giv her life to Christ bcos of sex but bcos its good to giv her life to Christ. It makes such thns to matter less to u cos u bcom preoccupied wt makin heaven, hence u can't cheat on ur hubby. I'm grateful for ur tips above. They're sure gonna help me in runnin my home. I advised d poster to subtly advise her hubby get treatment, and I intend to also do the same after my upcomin weddin. I repeat, sex is not food.
My Lawd! Ify...i'd give an ARM N A LEG to meet you in real life!
DeleteStella I need Ify's contact SHARPALY Lol.
Levelled headed,married,sane,fun and intelligent.
I don't have a sister will you be my "adopted"sis????
Nnem i di egwu! akwolu aka zuoo gi.
Don't mind the stupid judgemental bitch.... U don't think it's enough for her to cheat but I can bet my royal arse u will soon do same..... We r waiting for your gist on this blog.... Nobody has a right to judge another till they walk in their shoes...
Delete1;39pm in ur own words 'it is really annoying and frustrating' babe I don't wish u ill-luck, but u seem to wish it on ursef, and believe dat ill-luck is enuf to last u ur whole life.#Enjoy!
Delete@Pink shell don't mind d rotten vulture dat doesn't know her left from right. Wonder y she wrote dat epistle if she didn't want any advice in d first place..
DeleteAnon 1:39pm u think am frustrated, wait until u marry dat man.dats wen u'll know d full meaning of d word. I can't even believe I felt pity for u b4, u ar such an ass nd I wish u well in ur endeavour. . Oh nd there are many happy single mothers out there ok. U think everyone is a gold digger like u,ur ready to subject urself to an eternity of misery just cos of money abi..smh for u
Lousy ingrate..u neva start to dey complain sef nd am sure gonna read ur story here one day!! Okbye
pink shell turn your cheek ...receive ittt*hot slap*
DeleteMadam fear of God... The fear of God didn't stop you from fornicating but you want to marry wrongly because of the fear of God. I wish you what you wish yourself o.
Delete@ Anon 8:02 the difference btw you and the poster is, she has been married for 10 years while you are about to start that journey so please show some respect and drop the. judgmental attitude. We all know sex is not food and cheating is not the solution but you haven't walked in her shoes yet so be guided about your criticism. If u fear GOD like you claim, you would have waited till after your wedding before having sex. Pls chill for another 5 or so years in marriage and then get back to us. Remember to tag yourself as #Anon 8:02am Sept 6 2014. Here is wishing you a blissful and fulfilled marriage
Delete@ poster i feel ur pain cos i fit a bit in ur shoes,i v been married 4 a couple of years i v 2 lovely daughters never been a cheating or double dating lady.my hubby's job takes him away for abt 3 to 5 mnths,wen it comes to sex i always had d mindset dat iy was all abt pains 4 d famales cos i didnt get any pleasure all my life of having sex.my hubby doesnt knw a pin wen it comes 2 love making mind u i said love making nt sex! He goes into u n gbam hes cum.of hes kissing me he wants 2 eat my nose i had always managed n suffer in silence till i met a guy i had always loved buh distance kept us apart buh we met again though not planned we made love i got a head i was fucked!u name it,4 d 1st time in my life i came it was d sweetest n loving feelings eva.am nt happy i cheated i v stopped it buh am miserable wit my hubby.Note my hubby has a bigger dick dan dis guy buh i wud die 4 dis guy 2 mk love 2 me again i think cos am in love wit him cos my marriage has nt been so peaceful n it went worse wen my man cheated first. Pls hlp advice me.
ReplyDeleteLmao!
DeleteMadam, u don't need advice, plz keep it up.
More lubricant to ur vjay-jay.
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DeletePINKSHELL!!! Jeeeez!
DeleteHelp advice you keh? You av cheated already, wetin you dey find again or you need validation on your action? You must be a comedian. Pls go outside and play ten ten okweya
DeletePinkshell you're a clown.
DeleteWe all make mistakes, but i advice that u stop cheating. When hubby is around, try to have a prolonged foreplay and get him to finger u till u orgasim b4 u have d actual sex. That may help
DeleteHmmm what can I say #teamonemanonewife
ReplyDeleteI think you are not attractive enough to him since he looks at other ladies, try working on ur self aswell, maybe he married you when you were lepa now you have become orobo.
DeleteMr Lyca
Gosh Lyca you are stupid....
Delete@ Poster, while we wait for Irene B, Lisa Spencer, Gorgeous Miss, Dr Orela to 'finish work' on this issue, I just want to add my modest input as a Learner without Permit. Ur hubby's case could b Premature Ejaculation or Low Libido. Whatever it is, it's enuf problem to warrant a query. The cause could b psychological and medical.
ReplyDeletePsychologically, it's a chain reaction frm Guilt, Anxiety to Depression and it's a vicious cycle. The very first time a man fails to lamusha and drive a woman to d Big O' , she gets d silent memo frm her, he starts having guilt pangs, he is determined to try harder next time, before then, anxiety sets in n we all know anxiety is a xes inhibitor, wit his heart pounding frm d fear of failing again, he will fail woefully and then enters d 3rd stage which is depression.
Medically, HBP causes PE. Wit HBP, premature ejaculation will result some of d drugs used in treating HBP cause premature ejaculation or reduce d libido. Besides this, some other drugs taken for other ailments can cause this too.
The poster can encourage his man to seek professional treatment n mgt frm Doctors n Xes Therapists. While at it, he should improve on his daily lifestyle by limiting his alcohol intake, smoking and other habits that reduces d libido. He should engage in lots of cardio exercises, eat plenty of vegetables, fruits, unripe plantain, watermelon seeds etc
Thanks
DeletePlease can someone advice me on what to do cause I always feel pains when ever am having sex.
DeleteU don analyse am finish na, kehinde. But then again u r right. Poster go with this advice n try n make ur hubby go see a doctor n stop "bedding" other men with the excuse tht u were drunk.
DeleteBaba ooo...I know say I goo find u here! wen u marry,ur wife yansh go dey on fire!! Oba OBO1 of SDK land *in bitch plis's voice
DeleteSassylicious
Anonymous who asked about solution for Painful Xes. It's advisable u seek medical attention. A Doctor will have to do physical examination to check for presence of vagina wall dryness, inflammation, infections, herpes and even ask about ur xesual history to see if a case of xesual abuse or trauma is d cause. But for d sake of general knowledge, cause r often attributed to
Delete1. Vulva Vestibulitis: it simply means dat d area around d vagina not inside is inflamed like swollen n tender. So during xesual intercourse, friction produces pain
2. Allergic Reaction to Clothings, douches n even spermicides n lubricants found in condoms. Tight Clothings like denim n jeans around d crotch zone irritate d vagina n reactions occur. Some women too react to latex, material most cds r made frm. This causes pain durin or after xes
3. Some breastfeeding women often suffer painful xes cos breastfeeding can lead to vjay dryness.
4. UTIs, Vagina Yeasts, STDs n STIs r major causes of painful xes.
5. Sometimes tissues frm d uterine walls relocate n grow inside d pelvis zone n pain is resulted during xesual intercourse.
6. Vaginal dryness is one chief culprit of painful xes, friction during d act breeds pain n discomfort.
7. The Vagina naturally is designed by Baba God wit linings to serve as shock absorbers but wit age, the linings r thinned n so pain results frm xes. Its called Atrophic Vaginitis. Imagine driving a car without shock absorbers . Ouch!
Vaginismus also causes pain during d act. Prior to penetration after adequate foreplay, the vjay is supposed to b relaxed n receptive to d phalus but in this case, the vagina muscles r rather taunt n contracting thereby preventing penetration. It is not unrelated to psychological trauma.
Like I said earlier, ur doctor is in a berra position to manage u well based on his diagnosis but on ur own, there r things u n ur partner can do to ease d pain while being medically managed. You can
1. Avoid wearing Tight Clothings, change ur underwear after prolong use n sweating. U can avoid yeast infection wit this practice
2. U can b bathing warm water in a sitting position. The water helps to relax d muscles around dat geography n helps in other ways
3. Wen u use d toilet, wipe frm front to back to avoid bladder infection which causes painful knacking
4. Avoid deep penetration during xes so as to not irritate d growth in d pelvis area occasioned by Endometriosis . Use water based lubricants like KY Jelly n not vaseline or Apple hair cream that r oil-based. Have xes close to ur ovulation n away frm ur menstruation. Concentrate on clitoral stimulation for increased natural wetness.
Sorry I can't use Medical terms. Dr Orela Dimples is d expert.
@ Sassylicious, am not d Oba Obo. Na Bitchplis o. Lol
@ AnonymousES, thanks.
Doctor vjayjay. I dey hail o.
DeleteWhy cheat on him
ReplyDeleteGet a dildo and fuck yourself to stupor
Woman, sex is not food
Ezenwanyi, sex is not food.
Linda eze, sex is not food
Pinkshell, sex is not food
Phrinkies, I know you like to carry Pos for runs , sex is not food.
The generals wife, sex is not food...we need the general to fight boko haram.
Stelladimoko, sex is not food , do not exhaust blue eyed blondie with your ukwu sugar.
Maamie...I would hv told u sex is not food but I am sure you are not giving DH any sex ...you just stare at yourself in the mirror and hv orgasm.
XOXO MYSTERY , sex is not food.
XOXO MYSTERY
Lol.... Just discovered my crush has a small dick and am team big dick... Hell no... I aint dating dat guy and yes... Sex Is food... Am team Sex before marriage...
DeleteBwahahahaha xoxo mystery whoever u are, u just made me laugh so hard dis morning...lol
DeleteEspecially d Mamie part, so ur sayin mamie is so vain dat she can hav an orgasm just by staring at herself in d mirror? Kikkikiki funny shit..
Hian @ pinkshell sex is not food.
DeleteHian @ pinkshell sex is not food.
DeleteYour just too funny @ mamie you just stare at yourself in the mirror and have orgasm. That's the height of been full of yourself
DeleteHaha @ message to maamie
DeleteThis is soooo funny!! I just had to comment! Stella I just love u, u bring some comic relief! Plus abeg keep making this blog interesting oo! LOL @ sex is not food! It is food o! Food for the P***y! And God wants us to enjoy it with our husband!
DeleteMarried Woman
lol@ stare at the mirror and ve orgasm
DeleteLwkmd..
DeleteThis comment is dope! But sex is food oh. Good for d body, any day any time@ anony 8:20
DeleteLmao@the message to mamie
DeleteSDK has said it all No love,No sex,Different location and let me add no children because u didn't mention it so move on if you consider sex very important and truly it is important
ReplyDeletePoster,get a lesbo partner biko..
ReplyDeleteLinda Lesbian. No wonder!
DeleteUnless you have ever been in her shoes, I doubt you can fully grasp what she is saying.
ReplyDeleteYes, it is sex. But sex is the glue that holds a marriage.
I have only being married 3 years, but my husband is asexual.
I have gotten excuses in the past, you're too fat. Not in the mood. And many more
This year, it finally dawned on me. Dude has a problem...i on the other hand, freak for days!
We have had sex just once this year! (After many complaints and me threatening to leave the marriage).
What holds me back is besides sex, he is an awesome person and we get along well. I have 2 options, keep getting batteries and be happy generally or up and leave. (Clearly cheating is out for me)
So, poster.... think long about it. If you're really that unhappy, talk to your man. If nothing changes, call it quits or count it a loss and invest in vibrators.
Woman! Hit the gym! Maybe he doesn't find you attractive. He was even polite enough to tell you it's because of your size.
DeleteOr maybe he's got a mistress out there he loves to f***
Maybe he's gay
Or maybe he's just not into you.
I wonder how you will enjoy sex with your husband after threatening and forcing him, that sounds like 'rape'.
I dnt fink i ve d licence to tlk abt dis so i ll simply say gud mawnin sdkers and have a splendid weekend!
ReplyDeleteKehinde lol. Poster, did u say one minute? Haaaaaa! In one minute, u never kick motor na. Anyways i believe he has a medical issue. Some medications do make mess of a man's projectile's strength. It makes it always be at half mast. No matter the shaking,dragging or lollypopping, the thing no dey move. Talk to him,tell him hooha that he is not satisfying u,tell him u don want to cheat on him(even as u don do am),tell him u want his visits to be spectacular with great tumblings. Pls dont kill his ego, love him more. Pls if he finishes and u are still on 220kph, dont ask him is that all? Just hold him tight n start crying, den table ur sexual frustration.
ReplyDeleteWork on your sex life n quit cheating. Dont blame it on alcohohohohol#jamiefoxxsayso#
Madam u be ashewo akunna period! Divorce him and kip doing ur ashewo work instead of doing it while u are still married! Olobo suke suke!smtcheeeeewwww............................OKIJA WIFE
ReplyDeleteBwahahaha!
DeleteOW, don resume work.
Sdkers please pray for me ooooooooo! Am seriously in love with pastor Mathew Oni aka young prophet.
ReplyDeleteFrom one complain to another. .....look b4 u leap.....text b4 u say I do....
ReplyDeleteText?
DeleteOnce a one minute man knows his limitation then his problem is half solved. If ego wouldn't allow him to admit his limitation then he doesn't deserve your faithfulness. My hubby is more or less a one minute man and I must confess sex with him is the best have ever had and that is becos he makes me come severally before the actual act itself. I don't want to sound raw but we do a lot of foreplay stuff sometimes with my 2 nipples ending up in his mouth with the woman on top position coupled with him giving me head. At the end of the day we both get our release.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm madam if it was him dat is cheating on u wat will do? Cheating on him will not solve d problem even duo i know some men don't admit der ve prblm der will always say nothing is wrong with me bcos of pride bt dat should not stop u 4rm getting help 4 him buy some help 4 him n give him he will take i understand wat u r trying to say he will never agree that he has a problem dat's wat some men do especially wen it has to do with sex, if u two love each other dis is not a problem bcos u can get herbs 4 him to take depending on how you give him, talk to him like a woman who truly loves her husband n really wants to help him, der is no way he will refuse ur help if u present it well. If dat's cheating tot was not in u, u wouldn't ve done n u r not even regretting wat u did bcos u r still doing by getting drunk so u will even enjoy it d more. Wat if u marry dis oda guy dat is making u go crazy n he starts cheating on u wat will u do? Do u know y u r enjoying dat sex? Is bcos wat u r doing is wrong dat's y u r enjoying it. Any marriage without God's foundation always ve a problem u can only help by going bk to God ask him to cm into ur home n take charge, wen God is in ur home u will enjoy ur marriage, marriage is d best thing dat can ever happen to u wen God is involve bcos he will direct ur path solve ur problems in a min. If God is in ur home u ppl will always agree on one tin, God can heal him of wat eva problems he has bcos he wants u to enjoy ur marriage dat's y HE said d tot i ve 4 U is a tot of good not of evil, ur heavily father can n will never forsake U. D only solution u ve nw is to go bk to God in prayers bcos adultery is d worst sin, May God bring peace in ur home IJN. Tiifk
ReplyDeleteNa everything una dey call God put inside. Mtcheeeew.
DeleteInvite God when they are having sex again? To make him last longer? Na wa!
If someone can meet a voodoo priest for charms or some Mama dolphin lady for attraction laced chicken, what's wrong in meeting the Creator of the universe for help? The problem is, most people are too religious so they assume prayers are for only "churchy" matters. If you have a personal relationship with God, nothing is too sacrosanct to talk to Him about. Probably you picture prayers about sex like a wife holding a bottle of anointing oil and the hubby grabbing a king size study Bible over their bed, binding and casting. A simple prayer to God can lead you to a book that has a solution or even a friend who would recommend some tips that will help. Who put the hormones in us that make us crave sex or get us aroused? Is it the same God you want to leave outside the matter? Unless you believe in the evolution theory. If you lack understanding about spiritual things, you'll give God limits when He is omniscient. One of the reasons people suffer needlessly is that we often underestimate the power of prayers. You need not whip out a tambourine and speak in tongues (not like that's wrong though), a simple "Father please give me a solution to this problem", will suffice. It works for me all the time but feel free to do what works for you. Just don't belittle the powers of prayers.
DeleteOk guys, I'll go anonymous on this one.
ReplyDeleteAs I type this I'm seriously horny and hubby is lying by my side, but we can't get him to have a limp erection talkless of a full one. It has been like this for almost 4 yrs cos he's diabetic. We have tried everything including viagra. it doesn't work for him but he ends up with severe waist pain for days.
I have 5 different dildos which he uses on me and he sometimes gives me a head. I still don't get satisfaction cos I want to be fucked by a living dick, not a dead one, I want to be pounded till I speak in tongues.
Yes, I've cheated a few times but I ended up feeling guilty, so that's not a solution cos of the guilt.
I've decided to live with it cos sex wasn't so bad 6yrs ago when we got married. May I also add that we don't have kids yet cos we lived apart for 3yrs after marriage and now that we live together we can't get his machine to work well.
Kudos to all the ladies that have to live with men that have ED and accept them that way cos trust me...it isn't easy.
You always go anonymous..
DeleteYou better leave that marriage now that its still early..abi you no wan born pikin??..
Where do people shop for these kind of men?
DeleteMy prayers are with you madame!
DeleteMadam(u),
DeleteAnd you are comfortable like this,you haven't taken your husband to church?
Testimonies of men suddenly getting erection in church during intense prayers and going home to nack their wives are plenty.
What have you got to lose?
No kids yet.
Go to Mfm and open up to a pastor,both of you do deliverance and see God at work.
But y people go Anon on some cases on this blog beats me. When it's just a faceless forum. Nawa ooo.
DeletePeople stigmatize dia fellow bvs. And thats what pisses me off. I rmbr two fighting on dis blog and one party was insulting d oda party on a why he almost committed suicide. Dont blame people for going anon.
DeleteThis life is funny sha o. My hubby has a big dick, and knows how to use it.
ReplyDeleteI don tire for sex, Na respect I de find.
I guess it depends on wats impt to u o. But for me, love me, love my kids, use kind words. Wetin b sex if not for procreation?
Eyah!
DeleteTalk to him na?!
Who is typing sex is not food. Pls google the health benefits of sex and having orgasm especially to the body system. After that, decide whether you shouldn't have a daily dosage legally.
ReplyDeleteRemember, it benefits on union.
From AK.
Kaiii, it is well o!!Poster see the doctor on his behalf, explain all this things to the doctor, he can advise you more...2ndly, slip pills in his drink, wen he's watching that foot ball game get him a drink and watch ur xes life turnaround!
ReplyDeleteI feel for this lady and the several women going through this miserable life out there...dying in silence. And the husband would wonder why they nag so much. If you keep a wife sexually satisfied, she would be singing all day. lol!
ReplyDeleteBut for this lady's case, cheating is not the way forward. I am noticing a new trend of married women cheating without feeling any form of remorse. Hmm!
Anyway, as someone suggested, maybe you should try and slip Viagra in your husband's drink. He will surely feel horny enough to want to have sex with you, and he will surely last longer than usual. Try it if you want to save your marriage.
Are You A One Minute Man?
Viagra is not the issue o. Viagra is ideal for older men who have issues getting it up. As in flying half mast (in Irene B's voice). But for a young man without serious ED problems, he should practice healthy living by exercising, doing Kegel exercises, doing plenty of foreplay to make his wifey pliable, wet n yearning before he goes in, those he should try to b relaxed while at it, if he feels d urge to cum, he should slow it n go back to foreplay. If it will help, a guy than try xesual hypnosis by counting frm 100 backwards for a lil distraction.
DeleteBottom line is, wat works for one may not work for another but plenty foreplay works for every woman. Viagra n other 'Help Me Push Am drugs have side effects. Don't even attempt tramadol n other antidepressants that their side effects is delayed ejaculation. They take a toll on d heart n overtime, Johnny would refuse to stand on its own. So let's stay away from drugs for temporary relief.
So many promiscous married women on this blog.No matter what the case maybe,no excuse for cheating whether you enjoy the sex or not.When you were married him,you vowed for better for worse,so irrespective of his short commings you have no moral justification for your infidelity.The best option is for you to tell him and work it out instead of opening your sacred legs up and down all in the name of searching for better FUCK,then whats the difference between you and call girls?little time,you hear them shouting and vituperating"married men are cheat,they are that insincere"not knowing they are the real cheat.Green snake under the green grass.No difference btw u and Ash@wooooo koboko!!
ReplyDeleteApart from the condemnation and running the poster down, WHAT SOLUTION OR ADVICE did you bring to the table? All you did was RANT and provide NO USEFUL ADVICE.
DeletePut aside your pain and personal experiences, be objective and advice her ...abeg quit ranting
Lol @ the way he looks at women means he is interested in them. Meanwhile e no fit do the do. Indomie noodles. Slip the viagra into his drink and see how far he can go o jare.
ReplyDeleteYou are just one cheap married whore, stop using drink as an excuse, the question is why are you still with the poor guy? Even you have said you told him to date other girls where he is abi? Will you ask a man you love to do that? Tomorrow now the poor guy will find a girl who loves him the way he is and you will write us story that touch. Please leave this man alone and continue with your way, if that make's you happy. Mtcheeeew.
ReplyDeleteHuh!
ReplyDeleteU sample b4 u enter now ur complaining I don't like that
Marriage is not all about sex my dear
I think u have hot pants
Stop sleeping around with excuse of meeting and old friend, getting Drunk
All those is bulshit
Find solution together with ur husband or divorce him and sleep with as many as u wish
Many reasons why he might be like that,
He might have things bothering him
Sit down and talk
Communication is important in marriage
what is there to read again?
ReplyDeletesay what? she tested engine prior to and still went ahead to marry him?
mass agbasa!
what kind of alchohol did she drink when she was dating her husband? its gotta be fake otherwise she for know say no road for there.
ngwanu..now she is married and drinking the original alcohol? see my armpit, hair no dey o!
mass agbasa. father don enter sacristy.
una bye bye
hahahahhahahaahaa....abi now
ReplyDeleteIt is time for men to start disclosing their inadequacies before marrying these women.
ReplyDeleteMore and more married Nigerian women are crying out to SDK everyday due to the inability of Nigerian men to sexually wrestle them down.
Men please reduce your sugar intake and beer consumptions.
Sugar and sweet toothing limps up the phallus.
Yeah beer is even sugar. So youngmen shouldn't say I don't take malt n u binge on beer. Alcohol is bad for xes.
DeleteBia Xoxo Mystery,who said sex is not food?!
ReplyDeleteI will be back to comment and reply u well
Cos i am waiting for d Général to clean up and come back so we can continue *tongue out*
Marathon since Last night*anoda tongue out*
I pity all dose people dat said he should come to d office by 2 pm
I pity dat emergency meeting dey scheduled
Ajanbene....
*He is here now*
Byeeeeee
This woman is Craaayyyyyyy!
DeleteAna emenu..lol! What does it mean?
ohhh nawa oh.....u just come here n vomit d rubbish wey full ur mouth...u dnt sound okay....ur bera check it out.
DeleteAnon 3:20..I have noticed the way you run your mouth here..
DeleteWhy don't you get a blog I'd if you are bold enough..
Later you will send your wack ugly pictures for birthday wishes expecting not to be cussed out..
***tougue out****
DeleteMy dear poster, I face same here, but in my case with time he starts to last, for me the sex is just an act, don't feel anything during, and after. So I don't know self. Sex is just over rated. My son is my joy.
ReplyDelete@ Anon 9:55am, You are a strong woman, nice one
ReplyDeleteSo sorry poster but since you ve eaten the forbidden fruit several times, its going to be difficult for you to truly find joy with your husband.
ReplyDeleteWhat you ve never tasted rarely drives one crazy, you know. You have to first of all work on yourself conscience. Accept that you equally ve a part in this huge mess. This would help you empathize with your hubby's short comings so that you can help him seek for help. If not kuku end your marriage and live your life one sweet sex at a time.
...And they always go under anon to say the truth about their miserable lives and then use their blog name to say all is well . Hypocrites.
ReplyDeleteface YOUR LIFE..Non hypocrite
DeleteIrene B ur oga don suffer. Everthing fuck you must comment
ReplyDeleteOh! I almost forgot, those who ask whether sex is food? Depending on your libido and sexual orientation, sex may even be better than food. Don't judge people with health sex lives or high libido. Some people can't do without sex for 3 days and that's ok. Some can do without sex for a month and that's ok too. From experience, when you have a very active and fun sex life, being in a marriage with a dull or none existent sex life is a major deal breaker. Darling, you know you've missed it when you transfer the love for your hubby to your kids. That's only a coping mechanism. I love my angels to death but I love my man to the moon and back and then to the moon again, because he made it possible to have these adorable angels in the first place. Good sex in a marriage is very necessary, IMO.
ReplyDeleteHoney, it became clearer when I read that you even encourage your hubby to cheat. Apparently, you've checked out emotionally from your marriage and until you are willing to retrace your steps and try to reconnect emotionally with your hubby, all we've suggested here will be meaningless to you. Sweetie, I hope you know nothing good can ever come out of extramarital affairs? Truth is, it may be exhilarating and mindblowing now(most forbidden encounters are) but give it time, the excitement will wear off and you'll end up feeling horrible. I read a very moving comment here of how a lady stood by her man and he ended up being a stud, she could do that because the emotional connection is there. Forget all these "get a dildo or vibrator" talk please, those toys augument sexual pleasures, they don't replace a partner. It's like treating symptoms instead of curing the disease. It's either you get a legal separation(which I don't recommend) or you try to fall in love all over with your hubby. It's not easy but it can be done. All the best sweetie. #hugs.
ReplyDeleteHB SAID: Quoting you; "What do you want me to do? I prayed, complained, endured, masturbated but nothing! Finally, recently i met this new guy, got drunk again and we fucked like mad"
ReplyDeleteHow do ladies mix prayers and fornication? And drunkenness without batting an eyelid? Is this a new craze? Madam please choose one; praying to and serving God with a pure heart or opening legs about town?
put viagra into his drinks only one tablet oo henhen and see how it goes
ReplyDeleteSeat him down and tell him the situation at hand.he is your husband!
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm I keep my story for another day. But all I can say is that I'm already cheating on my hubby,no regret tho, but I'm geting irritated and tired already. Pple that ve 1min man are lucky. Mine is seconds. #sadmuch. #Teamgetagoodfucker #God4giveme.
ReplyDeleteStop cheating madam. It has its own future grave consequence. It pulls u faraway from God. I av had som challenges not sex though, am determined to pull through and not cheat. You will only end up fooling urself and can neva get dat satisfaction.
DeleteMadam you are not a wise woman or a good wife. 10 yrs of marriage has taught you nothing and I wish the poor man would liberate himself from you before you pull him down. You are the foolish woman the bible was talking about, who destroys her home with her own hands.
ReplyDelete