When you see the hand writing on the wall,do you know what it says immediately or does someone need to slap some sense into you?
Who amongst you has ever had a hand writing on the wall experience?
Sometimes the handwriting is there alright but people read between the lines and get it all wrong....what do you think?
Good Morning Stella,
I am one of your addicted blog visitors and I must commend you on what you do and God will continue to bless you as you reach and touch lives .I have a problem and need the advise of my fellow SDK blog visitors...I am 29 yrs old single, have a good paying job and I have a boyfriend whom i am agemate with, he works too but I think I earn more than him.
We have been in a relationship since January and I really want to be with him but he makes statement like ''you are very beautiful you can get richer and better guy why me, what are you doing with me?''
'' what if we don't end up together?''
I really don't understand if he is sending me a message.
As much as I want to be with him and love him I am confused, is he actually sending me a message that we can't get married?Becos as much as I desire marriage I can't force anyone to marry me and I am patiently waiting on God.
Please what do you people think?..Is there a handwriting on the wall that I need to read?..Thank you all for your time in reading and advising''
*Hmmm,questions sounds like someone insecure,financially insecure.
why dont you sit him down and find out what the problem is?
Dear poster
ReplyDeleteSit him down and define your relationship ,sometimes you can't tell probably is truly hand writing on the wall ,saying it without hurting you. So when is time he will justify his doings .so my one cent sit him down ,tell him ,somebody is on your case as in marriage ,and see his reaction if no jealousy or reflex action babes forget him and move on.Team M fucking mate.countdown .day 2
Na lie ooooo, madam pursue dat guy now, he's enriching himself and planning ahead for the d future wit anoda lady.we call such person 'PARASITE' #alinko
DeletePoster run as far as your legs can carry you. He's insecure and these type of guys like their wives beneath them. He go kpokpo you out of frustration and jealousy if you marry him. Some men dont mind marrying a woman with higher pay but some cant stand it. He could also have seen traces of pride in you or he could have a younger girl he wants to get married to.
DeleteBottom line is run
A man dt wants to marry you will not keep u guessing, most men know wat they want n ll go for it, my fiancee n i r both 29 too, we defined our rship from d beginning, we started dating in may and our wedding is on d 27th of this month even tho we planned december but i missed my period so we had to reschedule sharply, i even suggested an abortion n he screamed God forbid, funny thing is when i met him i tot he ll be a player n dt he was too young for me, but here we are.
DeleteDnt tell me you are really interested in that m fucking mate crab, loadz of time on u.
DeletePoster v a talk with him, their must be a dirty secret he is hiding but due to the respect he has for you hmmm junior won't spill.
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ReplyDelete*ignored d signs n I risked it all in d name of love/well I've decided not to let nobody play me again/n I swear to d end/dat I don't wanna be a fool/said I don't wanna be a fool/never never again*in Luther vandross' voice*
DeleteI love Luther Vandross @ Bitchplis.
DeleteHis songs brings out d softer side of me.
We ve something in common. Winks****
Yeah ....n we were born a year n a day apart
DeleteOuch!!
DeleteLol, I was actually wondering if I sent this mail until I got to the part where you said you earn more. Mine earns like 15x more than me. Six months older and worships the very ground I walk on.
ReplyDeleteNow my question to you is this, did that guy really ask you out or you just assumed that you guys are dating?
One more thing, you are 29, so how on earth did you start a relationship without knowing where it's headed? You should be courting not literally dating. Before I got serious with my boo, I told him point blank what I wanted and he was so ok with that.
Ladies, don't be dating for dating sake, have sn agenda!
My dear anonymous, infact u took everytin outa my mouth. U r 29 and datin witout definition hmnn. Who asked who out? U or your boo? Isnt it obvious he doesn't want to settle down wit u? D handwriting is already there, read it dear
DeleteWell said! I was the same age when my now hubby and I met and he knew that I was done with the whole lets see where this goes days. We were the same age. Prayed about it and God led. Now married 4 yrs with a child.
DeleteTalk to him, if he can't give you the answer you want, move on.
My ex did the same. He kept saying he could see me with a nice Igbo guy, he wasn't igbo not nigerian. After a while, I realized he was insecure and it would be hard for him to deal with.
You should have an agenda but don't be desperate about it. Date and if he is worth it move to he courting stage. That is how y'all end up with stupid men in the name of I am close to 30. Most of you ladies know when a guy is serious, if you are honest with yourselves you will see it.
DeleteExactly. He's insecure. Your best bet is to sit him down and talk to him. Let him spell out or define his relationship with you, so you'll know.
ReplyDeleteHe's insecure, point finale!
ReplyDeleteInferiority complex at its peak!
ReplyDeleteMy thought exactly
DeleteMama twins#
Hmmm...the guy has self esteem issues, I think you should sit him down and have a heart to heart conversation about it..
ReplyDeleteWomen, a guy has inferiority complex and you want to it him down and talk with him. What do you want to do? Talk the insecurity away?
DeleteBroMan u rly cracked me up! Rotfl
Delete@poster find your square root
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DeleteI've never commented on any blog b4. You sounds really stupid. Stop advertising your blog everywhere. If you don't have any contribution. Then keep quiet! What's find your square root?.
DeleteFYI your blog is boring.com!
Glowy how insensitive can u be? Oh! I forgot u never have any constructive comments to drop anyway.
DeleteVisit my "shoe" blog
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DeleteDrop him lyk a pack of card; he is so insecure!
ReplyDelete@ hand writing on the wall, truth is we always know. Make no mistakes about it. We r just too blinded by love, lust, or money. Or we just want it to work out by all means, so we refuse to give ourselves brain. Then we go about asking questions which we already have answers to, for validation or second opinion. Dude sees a future, but without you in it, and you know that already. But in matters of the heart, even counselors don't practice what they preach. Follow your heart love, u will either learn from it, or get fulfillment from it
ReplyDeleteYou couldn't have said it better than this. Very apt needn't say more.
DeleteYou are speaking sensibly
DeleteThese are the type of men that'll tell their wife to resign after wedding........dear poster move ahead plzzz #no time for rotten mango
DeleteWell put!
DeleteIt could mean so many tins
ReplyDelete1. He could be using reverse psychology on u. Always making such statements jst so u can be on the defensive and offer him reassurance that u hv found all u want in him.
2. He could be giving you a hint that he feels intimidated by ur financial security and want to make sure u dnt start disrespecting him in the near future.
All in all, it all boils down to the fact that he is insecure.
Y'll need to talk.
Nelly ure sooo right,Nothing more to add.
DeleteTalk about what?
DeleteU took that first point right outta my mouth.
DeleteI wonder!
DeleteAbii now? Stella has said it all. The answer he gives you should determine what to do.
ReplyDeleteInferiority Complex ... That's all.
ReplyDeleteStella you have said it all he is just insecure, both financial and physical. All he need is just to be encouraged.
ReplyDeleteEncouraged? Ok now this is how you women marry the man that will say quit your job after he marries you. Aunty Stella, I see the reason for so many of your letters o. Una no dey learn at all.
DeleteI just tire for them! Indirectly he is telling her to find her way out of his life!
DeleteThere is nothing wrong with him...he is only having complex issues..
ReplyDeleteHope you are not putting all your eggs in one basket?..
Queen Linda ,I put all my eggs in one basket....bcos my basket is in God's hand...... Complex don finish d guy,chai!
DeleteI trust you to say it like it is.
DeletePoster, your man feels quite inferior to you, most especially because you're financially better off and probably better looking.
ReplyDeleteI'll suggest you either:
1. Encourage him to better himself and improve his financial prospects
2. If this doesn't work, you might want to be rid of him altogether so that he doesn't drag you down or limit you in future.
Click my name for all your celebration cakes and cupcakes, cheers
Babe,abeg what colour mixture makes wine red icing?
DeleteBabe,abeg what colour mixture makes wine red icing?
DeleteAnon 11:34 please go to www.google.com its your friend in times like this.
DeleteSmh!
@ Poster u don't have a problem for now. Its just insecurity. But the tin now is if he continues like dis, his insecurity can result to sumtin else. In my opinion, talk to him about it and if he continues, let him go, bcos if he shuld get married to U wit dis much insecurity, u won't have a happy marriage. Wish U d best **Nonso
ReplyDeleteOver to the soothsayers
ReplyDeleteBabe,he is INSECURE...like Stella said,call him and ASK him...Communication is key in any relationship,you don't understand anything,you simply ask...One shldn't be scared to ask whoever you are dating! Simply ask him and listen to what he says...assumption is often dangerous! All the best Dear.
ReplyDeleteEwooo Nne eee dis is my own case too. The same age with d poster too, hv been with dis guy for 6yrs and my age diff with bf is nt dat much. He works too,but keeps asking me stupid question like what age do I consider being too old to get married? I gave him serious warning not to ask such senseless question if he wants mi let him make a move or see walking out without looking back!! I gave him an ultimatum till Nov, if he didn't shw face for my Papa's house na to collect one available bobo sharp sharp go marry, age no dey my side biko. My guy is every woman's dream physically and otherwise, me too gather together too naa physically, morally, and otherwise.lol don't understand my dude oooo...
ReplyDeleteDatibogal#
Y wait till November to get a new guy. My sister get a new 1 now! If bobo continues till Nov jst hop over to d new 1 fully.
DeleteNne, if you give a guy ultimatum just go ahead and start looking elsewhere. You don't need to give us ultimatum, that says you are the one that forced the marriage. Forget what anyone will tell you. A guy that is ready to be with you will tell you and act accordingly. If money no dey he will explain but be very close to your people.
Delete@ broman very apt. Once you give a guy an ultimatum, just make progress cos they feel you're forcing them. You don't force people to go for what they want.
DeleteLmao dis is funny like WTF babe dis guy is telling you clearly dat u shouldn't hope for marriage, he ain't ready to tie d nut with u and never will he! Imagine d useless questions like my boyfriend will jst wakeup one morning and start asking me wat am I doing with him? Am fucking enjoying ur dick while still searching for a better guy! ! Simple answer jare.
ReplyDeleteSpot on.
DeleteHe isn't interested.
Tie d *knot*
DeleteNever ever ever roll with a guy who is not on the same level with you. If you continue to soar higher, he will use hid God forsaken inferiority complex to drag you down. Nofin you do will ever be meaningful to him. Am telling u out of experience. He will so drag you in his state of disgruntled ambience to the extent you will wish u never had anytin to do with him in d 1st instance. Move on pls, look for someone who will appreciate ur efforts in all ramifications, someone who will help you spread ur wings and fly like the eagle, look for someone who will be proud to flaunt you and your achievements. Let go that riff raff now odawise u will hate urself. Here is my little spittle.
ReplyDeleteHian... Where do I begIn? He earns lower than you,he's age mate with you? Always talking from the insecure part of his brain,errm,please flees
ReplyDeleteYou know why,he already knows you earn more than him,so when you both get married,this is what will happen
He would always remind you that you earn more than him and make you carry family responsibilities
He will always pull you down mentally by reminding you how you earn more than him at every slight quarrel and even would want to manipulate you to quit your job
Always try and be on the same level of thinking with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.. He's already seeing your success as a problem,boo,run..
LMAO
ReplyDeleteMene Mene Tekel Urphasin.
The Handwriting On d Wall!
Or u want Brother Daniel himself to come down n write it?
Financial insecure somebori!
Lolz
DeleteLol @general' s wife, @poster Babe abeg find ur square root b4 it's too late.
DeleteBless you sister!
DeleteBabe you are in a situationship! Peeps be talking, sleeping together and catching feelings. What exactly are you two doing?
ReplyDeleteLmao
ReplyDeleteStella said it all. He might not be sending a message that you two can't be married but perhaps just scared you might find him not at your level at some time. If I may ask, are there things you do that make him notice his insecurities with you? If you're not sure, don't rush things. God bless you both.
ReplyDeleteinsecurity issues.
ReplyDeletehe may love you but scared that he might not be able to give to you things that you can't afford yourself.
men like to take the lead. they always want to be in charge. its the Ego thing that comes with men.
Once a man cannot control all resources where it concerns his spouse.....then there is trouble in paradise.
remember the post sometime ago...praying for your partner to die? its a resultant of issues like this.
How can you overcome this? except you are the type that will hand over your lot to him for him to decide how you both spend it.
But that's risky sha..
Lol! Marriage...
ReplyDeleteMy dear in marriage we say that love is the paramount thing;but love is not because marriage is all about maturity emotionally; psychologically; spiritually; physically n others.If u go into marriage all because of love;u will fall out of love if the person is not mature enough to handle things. this is where ur disappointments start when the person start exhibiting those traits of immaturity. Bet me when someone is insecure because the wife or fiancée earns more; when the wife has not done anything to make him feel that way;just know that that man is not man enough n is naturally a coward n can never protect u in all reunification. It shows that the man is not psychologically n emotionally mature n this type of man blames people around him for virtually everything that goes wrong around him. He makes life miserable with his immaturity.
ReplyDeletecan i just say that a 29year old guy should know where his current relationship is headed already! i mean, why would he be tryna push u away if he really appreciates you? u nid to tell him ur fears and know where you stand.no tym to waste tym abeg!
ReplyDeleteNew post!!!!
ReplyDeletePlease click on my name, read and comment. Thanks
Hmmm
ReplyDeleteMy dear,its not inferiority complex oooo,he's trying 2 tell u not 2 have hopes on marriage wt him.okay.he's indirectly telling u dat u guys can't get married.be wise
ReplyDeletegux hz scared of u getting bigger than him.
ReplyDeleteThis is serious I agree with stella you need to talk to him
ReplyDeleteSterra, I don't care about this girls let her use her instinct. Bring back the Rant thang everyday! I need to Blow my kettle! Yes girl!!!! I need it! Tell me something, that Ikehire Tony guy, is he still with Phrinkles? I just love that name. Ikehire, you hear? Back to watching my moveeeeeee.
ReplyDeleteRun sis
ReplyDeleteHe is not into,and it has nothing to do with ur finance but rather ur age.
ReplyDeleteIt's not everyman that can stand a woman being age mates with them or even older.
Dump him b4 he does.
Ezewanyi, true talk. A guy I know told me he can't even date a girl a year younger than him not to talk if his age mate. Men like to lead and I guess sometimes some of them feel you won't submit if you're their age mate. But then it takes extreme maturity to deal with someone your age. I will not also date a guy my age, sorry but that's just my choice. I want a man I can look up to, it's my choice.
DeleteStart loving with your head and not your heart oh...
ReplyDeleteIt might be insecurity or he's just isn't sure if its you he wants to marry....whichever,,, use ur ogbon......all the best
Complex YES!
ReplyDeleteBut to me this guy just need a lil assurance from u that's all
U guys need to talk and define ur relationship
Make sure u re on same Radar
Gud luck
insecurity
ReplyDeleteMy dear ...keep him as side boyfrnd
ReplyDeletefind another one
never you kill yourself for a man
never
never
until I realised no one is perfect
not one
Dude has been telling you that you are too good for him, why dont you leave?
It is not inferiority complex
he means it
subtle signs
he is not that into you or he thinks you are too available.
if he continues, show him dt u are actually beautiful.
XOXO MYSTERY
He is insecured and insecurity can b a big relationship mess up! Pls watch it,a man can come up wt unreasonable attitude bcos he is insecured,he can b absolutely misunderstood and bcos u are also a human,u might react in a way dt will bring more destruction to ur relationship! Pls,I will advice u to give him some space,withdraw ur attention n watch how he reacts to ur withdrawals,if he find it unpleasant he wil complain n dt will b a good ground 4u 2air ur view. Its nt easy being wt a man who is finacially insecure,I've walked on dt sheo n believe me,its nt easy! U must b a strong woman emotionally 2b in a happy relationship wt such man bcos,huge part of his ego is at stake whn he feel he can't provide enof 4u talk more of him watchn u do all d things he suppose 2do 4u,u do it all by urself. Plsss, b very careful n b completely honest wt urself, marriage is a long trip dt matured n real people make successful. Just give him some space,sit pretty and watch fearlessly at d end what will be will be! Cheers poster
ReplyDeleteHmmmm I c inferiority complex and insecurity on his part,u shud sit him down n define ur relationship n if he still maintains his usual statement,beta find ur way asap,gud luck n do dis as soon as possible cos time waits for no one dear
ReplyDeleteDear poster d guy is having serious complex issues. Sit him down and talk to him. Pls always remember not put all ur eggs in one basket. Good luck.
ReplyDeleteYour boo is Insecured
ReplyDeleteTry and talk to him about it and how you feel when he makes such statement
However I will advise you start looking for a new boo just incase.
A lady shouldn't have just one boyfriend these days.
I am having d same issue but d reverse is d case...i keep telling him 2 leave me but he doesnt listen...somehow somewhere i keep finding myself back in his arms...itz insecurity.....there might b some reasons for his actions and inactions but i gez u two need to sort out what d problem is lyk i did.
ReplyDeleteThough I am still not satisfied but I dont want to jump into conclusion bcos I am not sure of what d future has in stock for both of us...there might be a reason he kips complaining but not leaving poster...u might be made for each oda.
I just love the fact that you know your self worth.
ReplyDeleteAeegurl...
@The General's Wife hahahahaha. U summarised it well. Aint nobori gat tyme 4 an insecure sombori. The high salary isn't his probs, dead broke ass guys get married, talkless of. He has issues. Have a full heart to heart talk wit him. Look b4 u leap.
ReplyDeleteDear Poster,
ReplyDeleteI can't stand inferiority complex, and this guy obviously has.
I met a dude that works with an international NGO in Abuja, he is in his 30s and he's head of a major department. This guy schooled in d UK: degree, masters and even started his PhD before the company employed him as an international staff. I on the other hand have a first degree from a naija uni, no masters and a very average job. God has been helping me.
I am beautiful, that's a fact. And upon all what this guy has, he was intimidated. U won't believe the day I asked him to come and see my mum, he said 'I don't think I am the kind of person your mother would be expecting you to bring home' JUST IMAGINE!! After I had started hinting my mum about him and all.
I was asked to be patient that he would come around.
The straw that broke the camel's back was when I told him we need to fix his teeth (his teeth were horrible. he actually looked like someone who didn't pay attention to himself) So I told him when next I travel to see him or he comes to see me, we would go to dentist to fix his teeth. I would even pay for the appointment, with my small salary oh, just to show support and all. He agreed oh. Next thing he calls saying I should take him the way he is, that I am trying to change him. I was like: HUNH?!!!
I just called the relationship off. Can't kill myself for anybody.
This guy was always checking out my linked in oh! he would be checking my connections on linked in to see who I just made contacts with. Only for him to tell me one day: At your age my career was much better than yours. You need to try harder. I am like: So are we competing now??! Cos he views my linked in profile everyday.
Obviously, in all he had he was insecure and was trying to make me feel like I am not good enough so as to reaffirm his self confidence. And me I am just living my life one day at a time, managing myself.
if this guy has signs of complex, you better talk to him about it or step, cos life is too short to carry any baggage. Find someone who can be ur support, not someone who wants to dump his own on ur own. Abi u no get daily issues to solve? I don talk my own!
You are a very smart lady. May God bring your own man your way IJN. An insecure spouse is d last thing a woman needs. Obviously he is intimidated by d fact u make ur own money n ure intelligent. Also aint nothing wrong advising ur boo to visit d dentist, as long as its done with thought and love. Lady koikoi
DeleteNope she aint smart at all. How can you tell him about his teeth that way? You have to use gimmicks when dealing with issues like that. Would you be happy if someone just told you blatantly that you have really bad teeth? Use your brain na. Mistake no2 was wanting to pay, wrong and dumbass move.
DeleteOne of my ex had plague and bad breath, you know how I dealt with that? Took something and wanted to remove it (of course I didn't want to) drop it and formed busy, next I went to pee and saw his toothbrush asked him to change it that its too soft for him. Dude understood what I meant and went to the dentist the nextweek.
You youngies should learn how to talk to your men, dont be rude else he'll find someone else.
MzAnon..after your niceties and diplomacy in handling the "issue", wetin you call am?? Ex abi?? Abegggi!
DeleteDifferent strokes.for different folks hun.
MzAnon,U are very wise,U practically said everything I wanted to say.
DeleteHe is financially insecure I think u need to sit him down talk some sense into his head.
ReplyDeleteObviously your man is insecure but that does not make him any less of a man and you shouldn't write him off just yet. It happens with most people. Just have a heart2heart talk with him and if he's sure you are not going to use your financial status against him,he will come around and stop with the self pity statements.
ReplyDeleteObviously your man is insecure but that does not make him any less of a man and you shouldn't write him off just yet. It happens with most people. Just have a heart2heart talk with him and if he's sure you are not going to use your financial status against him,he will come around and stop with the self pity statements.
ReplyDeleteI think it's the age o! Most Nigerian men prefer to date and marry younger/much younger women. I don't think it has to do with finances...am speaking from experience. Nne, if he is Igbo and you are AGE MATES please walk away, HE WON'T MARRY YOU.
ReplyDeleteBravo!!!
DeleteU ve said it all.
even if he marries you I pray you find peace.
DeleteYou better run O
ReplyDeleteHe's nt ready to marry
Unless u Wan wait eternally
It is not the finance o! Guys today are looking for ladies with good jobs. It is the age-he knows you are about clocking 30, he knows he is expected to propose soon, he knows he does not plan to marry you and he is getting uncomfortable. If the assumption about "financial insecurity" makes you feel better about yourself, all right and good. Any which way, that young man will not marry you and if you force him, you will regret it.
ReplyDeleteVery correct!...and she knows it too.
Deleteyou better leave the guy and go look for someone else....he has inferiority complex. what do you want to discuss with him? what if he doesnt change? shine your eyes and move on, at 209 uarenot too old to start over again.....its this management mentality that makes people manage all kinds of situations.....
ReplyDeleteThat guy would make your life miserable if u marry him with his shallow way of reasoning n financial status. Their types are always ready to pounce on every slight opportunity to remind u of how richer than they u are. Every little argument counts, he will constantly remind and pinpoint ur gains as ur excuse to disrespect him...
ReplyDeleteDude is such a baby, give him two months, if he doesn't change...move on babe!
The guy clearly has low self esteem and dat my dear is dangerous. Continuing with him with that his low self esteem is opening the door of abuse which can be emotional or physical. I suggest u have a heart 2 heart talk with him on this. If he doesn't change, pls move on.
ReplyDelete@Poster, apart from being insecure, most niaja men dont like marrying their age-mates. the message is so clear. He is not seeing you in his future. Walk away! no time, a guy at 29 still have plenty of time to play with. end it now. and wait for the right man.
ReplyDeletePoster, I have been there and seen it all believe me. The guy like most people say is insecure and you can't change his mind set unless he wakes up and make effort to change his mind set. Its a shame that lots of men and women are screwed up amd messed up in the brain these days. The bible says gaurd your heart with all dilligence for out of it flows the issues of life.
ReplyDeleteVery very few are doing this in today's world which is why many lack focus and vision.
Insecurity is deadly and you can try and address it with him but if it keeps repeating itself in the words he says and actions, just leave the relationship. I have been in relationships with insecured guys and it won't end up anywhere. Even when i spelt it out clearly in the beginning that this is what i want from the relationship, the fool said he wanted the same thing but as they say in Yoruba "eefi ni iwa" Character is like steam and cannot be hidden. His words and actions did not match. He was sooooo insecure and the kind of statements that comes out of his mouth, he never put it much into the relationship, never made any effort at all. My sister, after 6 months of not knowing where he lives, or her knowing where i live, never met anybody from his side like family and friends but he knew people on my side, i dumped his ass and i will do it a million times again. Please note i tried to address the issue with him and he is the most defensive ass i have ever met in my life. He will find excuse for everything just not to take any blame. He was a waste of time truely and i regret ever having anything to do with him.
i realised he does not have love and cannot give it. He is all screwed up in the head. Even threantening me that i won't want him to cheat on him just because i said not to sex outside marriage which i made clear to him from the beginning.
I will wait on God for my own best friend and husband.
He is a faithful God and i will hope in him.
just got married to a man earning one third of what im earning. Its no biggie as long as theres love n understanding. @ ur age no time to waste ,just sit,talk,define ur relationship,set a time limit to stuff. If it means u helping out d way u can,do it codedly. Cheers
ReplyDelete@ poster he may not be financially insecure, he may just be giving you sign so that if he say tomorrow its over he will remind you he said it before. I am in the same position but my own na storys for the gods
ReplyDeleteHis problem is that you earn more than him nothing more...but my dear don't end your job because of the way he feels!
ReplyDeleteBabe see, i be man and i will neva tell a lady such cos if i be woman and man tell me dat i go fashi am straight...sit him down and ask him if he wants u or not. U have to be sincere with yourself make d homeboy no waste ur time i beg.Y him go dey tell u say u r beautiful dat you deserve a better person..u dey complain?shine ur eyes i beg.
ReplyDeleteIt is very clear. He won't marry you. but at 29 you should know better, before you open eye close you are in your 30s, wake up.
ReplyDeleteDear, take it from a man. We do not go around asking questions anyhow. If I want you whether you are Ms.Gates, I am going for you. You better catch brain and start opening up yourself for other men with a sensible footing and self esteem please. When a man says something, believe it. We do not speak in codes like women.
ReplyDeleteOh ad I apologize for replying under some comments harshly. Please see me as a big brother gisting with you not in an,insulting tone. My sis introduced me to this site. I hope we can all learn from each other.
ReplyDeleteY are U going soft guy???we like our guys strong,mean and nasty.
DeleteU are a learner when it comes to insults and btw,ve u met Chizoba,Smelly pussy and Okija wife???I would ve mentioned Linda but she's forming butter these days maybe cos of too much burger.
I am one of d good guys and I am a WHORE.
Noone noticed you please. Go sit in a corner. Big brother my yellow behind
DeleteMzAnon I have seen you all these small small girls that like notice me, it's sad that you are filled with so much venom. Its ok I will pray for some sunshine in your life.
DeleteEzenwanyi I greet o. I don't think you are a whore at all. I'm trying to be a nice person and not be too mean online. Some of these children on here deserve tongue lashing, like MzAnon she wants to bring herself this late evening. I have time today for her. Might need to teach her a lesson on how to speak in public.
DeleteLmao! Eze u are a handful, #Chai! I just dey wonder how u and ur husband go dey do for house.
DeletePink Shell,Bwahahahaha. ... ..na for here my madness dey stop ooo.....my hubby must not see me behave like this ooo.......cos no be this format I take present myself.
Delete@BroMan,I just like d sound of WHORE.Welcome to SDK blog and pls keep it real
Eehya..... your guy has a complex....inferiority complex. He probably feels he is not good enough for you and since he knows most ladies want to be with someone who earns way more than them, he is wondering if you can stick with him.
ReplyDeleteIt doesn't look like he doesn't love you tho but you never can tell with guys. Just sit him down and have a heart to heart with him. That should assure him a little. Watch out and give him time, if it still continues, then flee because it might become a problem later in future.
My two cents.....
ur advice try jare,som of doz mofos ar sayin flee,na so dem de flee?mtchew
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